@@carljohnson2194 Its equal imo. Mental/physical/emotional. All a sign of "abuse " soo u think one is better than the other,??. If u look up facts about unfortunate situations like this. It states "Mental abuse " can actually be worse than "physical" When I was "20" yrs old. (My daughter's age) I met someone who was just strictly a friend, nothing else, we ended up dating when I was 22 (which was very unexpected) he had been just a friend for 2 years, nothing else. Wellll me being young, way less wiser, etc. It started with Mental & emotional 1 year later when we were then actually living together & then thats when the physical abuse started. Keep in mind I wasn't even 25 yet, easy to buy $1,000 omega necklaces from Kay jewelers for our first Christmas & literally $175 breakfasts on the water with champagne & bloody merrys for breakfast. All this fancy wining & dining. At that age u look at it differently. U can't "Buy my love " I appreciated it but all the flowers seemed to work too, until u get a Lil older & wiser & realize it was & meant nothing. Thank GOD I didn't marry him. I definitely looked & picked out "princess cut engagement 💍 " which I need a queen ring lol. But that would have been a nightmare.!! My point is, They are all the same & effect u the same. Soo if u never been in a situation like that, I wouldn't speak on it. That's your opinion tho. I'm 39 yrs old. Let me tell u, if a "man" put his hands on me. That would be the first & very last. Some are just imo sick & maybe don't know how to love. I really don't know. Lol, bc I don't mentally, physically or emotionally abuse anyone I love. That's not love. That lasted for 7 years & by the grace of God the night he strangled me, I put his sorry a☆☆ In jail & I didn't stay bc I didn't "value myself " or bc I wanted too. I was in a definite, difficult situation at that time. I tell my daughter who is 20 now the same so she never goes thru that & I hope father's out there raise their son's the way they would want him to treat his gf/wife in the future & definitely for sure their daughter's & 🙏 their not wiping the tears off their daughter's face for the EXACT same reason. Sad but true. Just thought I'd fill u in on what "abuse" means. They are absolutely equal.💯
@@MiriamHernandez-cv7em it takes time be patient with yourself. Take each day step by step, your safety is important not what others think they don't live the nightmare
People who abuse you like this think you are their property. In their minds, they own you.... But, you are NOT their property !!!! My niece was in a relationship with a man who abused her in every way. We didn't know it because she was afraid to tell anyone. When she finally did she had to run away in the middle of the night a asked a couple at a gas station to help hide her. Thank God they were good people and they helped her. They got her to the airport and someone in our family supplied a ticket for her to get back home. He had taken her far away. She escaped him !!!! He searched for and threatened her until he overdosed on drugs one day. Now, at least she is safe from him. If you are being abused, run and go to a church or somewhere safe !! 🙏🙏🙏
My husband was a knight in shinning armor in the beginning. Then slowing his true colors came out. He was a wolf in sheep’s clothing. A super control freak. Taking my keys, phone, even my wedding ring. He had to see what clothes I laid out to wear to the next morning. Then the verbal abuse followed by pushing, head butting - I had bruising. Came home from work one afternoon & found him dead in our bedroom from a massive heart attack. I truly believe I would have been dead if our marriage lasted longer.
Oh I can relate. How about as soon as u walk in the door, they wanna grab your purse & go thru it, looking at receipts & what's on those receipts. That's another one I forgot about.
I'm really sorry to hear this. Leaves emotional scars. That's so scary and I'm sorry you had to find him passed away but I'm glad you also don't have to endure that anymore... I hope you have found a life partner who is your true match. My ex spouse never physically abused me. However, he kept me isolated and controlled who I could talk to and when I could go out, taking both sets of car keys. He verbally abused me, mentally abused me. He also controlled my clothing (underwear especially) and would accuse me of physically cheating and made me share my location on my phone.
@@FallenSummer84 So sorry u had to go thru that. If they only knew how it felt then maybe these men wouldn't act like this or treat the ones they care about like this.
Contempt. That's the perfect word. I've met a bunch of these guys and they would go back and forth between love-bombing... and contempt. Just showing disgust for me for no apparent reason. That definitely it's one of the main things to look out for.
This was hard for me to watch as it was like watching myself 2 years ago , same type pf control , mental and physical. I was constantly under a spell of manipulations of lies and deciet. Now I'm still healing. It's hard but anyone going through this or any kind of abuse Get out. Great Vid
Right. Well I'm 39 now. & my relationship like this started at 22 (met at 20) until almost 30. Soo yes, I definitely get that. These men/women too are disgusting.
i was in a relationship like that, so charming he was in the beginning, but the control was subtiel, there should be more films about this the hidden abuse also called covert narsisissem
I was also. But at the end was physical. That's when I left. I didnt know treatment and words were violent. But I knew through my mother and dad relationship what the violence was.
I was with a covert narcissist for 5 years. They love bomb you in the beginning so you think they’re your soul mate and then exactly. The control is subtle until you look up and don’t recognize the person in the mirror anymore because you have confirmed to be everything they want you to be. Nothing is ever right or enough and it’s always your fault. It never got physical but the emotional and mental abuse and being separated from my family was devastating. Good for us girl for leaving people like that.
Her shaking hands took me right back. To anyone living like this I hope you get out. It's been five years rebuilding my life but I never, ever, ever regret leaving. I took what little money I had, three dogs and two suitcases and drove across the country without a plan. There is help out there and you are not alone! Life is too precious to be miserable!
Same! Omg! So awful & humiliating!! Did you notice how he took the remote & it magically appeared after she started to search for it? Typical abusive a hole!
This was good. I was in a relationship very like this one. The actors did a great job portraying an atmosphere of suspicion, menace and implied threat.
Her calling for "pizza" to 999 or 911 in the US is a good way for someone in a situation like this woman in the video to say that they need emergency services right away. My landlord's gf is a 911 operator and this technique has helped ppl in these situations. Very recently here in toledo ohio where she works. A lady called using the pizza thing while her mom was abused by her bf. Saved the lady's life
Hi - director here Theirs a reddit post about a woman who called 911 for a pizza and police turned up probably saved her life, so in part it's based on that as well as other research on domestic abuse, and just the concept if your stuck in a difficult situation like that that's about to turn even more sour need to find a way anyway to get the hell out to get some help.
As soon as he walked in the door, he looked like he was going to start some shit. She should have taken that boiling water, & threw at him & ran like hell out the door.
She's good, makes me feel the anxiety. A couple of these things reminding me of things that happened in my last marriage that I didn't even realize were controlling.
I used to date a guy who saw me as his personal maid, every time he'd ask me to cook or grab groceries or do the dishes, I'd say your legs aren't broken last I checked, do them yourself... I don't know if I'll ever find love or feel worthy enough to be loved but I do know I'll never put up with that again so long as God let's me live.
This is how I live right now every single day. No physical abuse so far but the mental emotional n verbal abuse is so destructive He’s a pastor too so no one would believe me. I have only told 2 people n thankfully they believe me That actress shows exactly how I feel the fear the shaking anxiety n the actor is exactly like my narc husband who drills me w accusatory questions over n over I need to escape
I went to (free) counselling at the nursing station when I felt helpless. Went regularly for a couple months “ to learn how to be a better person”...haha...he instantly started behaving better. Isolation is toxic. I think women often enable this or even cause it by an unhealthy form of submission. Christ told us, “ Love thy neighbour like you love yourself.”. If you don’t love yourself, practically and honestly and pertinently, then this stuff can creep in. He is getting better all the time, thanks be to God! It never got terrible but it was going downhill. I think they are insecure and they don’t like or love themselves in a healthy way. Some of them learned it at home so they start right away. Others get this way because they are submissive at work and with other people, so they tend to want to control their spouse to make up for it. Now mine has started his own company, so he is in control of his life and his interactions and is much happier. He worked too many hours before so he couldn’t have a part time business, unfortunately. Now he has his swagger back and we get along fine.😅🎉❤Reading the “ Good woman” Epistle from Wisdom 31, 10-31 that is a part of the Catholic Mass “ Cognovi” scriptures, helps immensely. “ Who shall find a valiant woman?”😊
Wow, so real. Really powerful. Anyone who has managed to get out of such a relationship deserves praise. You should be proud of yourselves. No point condemning or feeling shame. You're out that's what's important, let the healing begin. ❤
Anybody insisting that “gender is performative” THIS is the rebuttal. This doof in the porkpie hat doesn’t need to say anything or raise his hands. She Knows that he has the physical means to back up any implied threat. Both of these actors did a phenomenal job. The tension in this short film was so palpable.
One day my ex came stopping into the summer house where I had being sleeping saying I couldn't live here anymore. Panicky I asked why what have I done now. He said he had heard on the radio that they were making verbal and emotional abuse illegal so I had to go. Which is weird as he thought he was the best person ever. But he then said I can't have you lying about me. But it's almost like for the first time he had admitted what he was doing.
so sorry to hear of your struggle, i hope your situation improves soon. emotional/verbal abuse deserves to be illegal, to my knowledge tends to build very slowly, and often if people remain in the relationship builds into physical, financial, and or sexual abuse over time. 'Get out while you can' but that's very unnuanced advice which doesn't show the complexity of how to deal with being in love with someone that abuses you. again, i hope your situation improves soon
You probably have PTSD Rain! ♡♡ (speaking from experience.) I haven't been able to access them yet sadly but I hear CBT & EMDR are both really helpful. Much love. x
It's important to not let it degenerate to this. Stand up for yourself immediately, even in the beginning of a relationship. No one can bully you if you don't allow it. Never be afraid to end things early in a relationship. If you are uncomfortable with your partner, they shouldn't be your partner. One of the most damning of the 4 horsemen is contempt once this is exhibited in a relationship it is near impossible to repair.
I'd go for completely impossible to repair. It always makes me immensely sad when I see people trying desperately to make things better in a hopeless situation like this as that was me, and it's really hard seeing others going through the same, yet still having that miniscule bit of hope that things will get better if only they can make changes to their own behaviour. Such a desperate place to be. The only hope is running and never looking back.
What if you try to break up with them and they won’t leave ,they keep coming around and stalking you . I’ve tried putting protective order on him and he has threatened me in so many ways . I think the beast think to do in my situation is to pack my bags and leave far!!! ✌️
@@MiriamHernandez-cv7em Yes it is. The only way to be free/safe is to leave with no way of them finding out where you have gone, changing all means of contact (phone, email, social media, cutting off mutual "friends": unfortunately, people who refuse to take sides don't have your best interests at heart if they know what's going on). Wishing you the very best of luck.
It is easier said than done... ask someone who is in such a relationship that is a highly sensitive person and has been so charmingly brainwashed that she didn't realise until it was too late. I need to go for trauma counseling when I get the guts to move out and divorce my husband. It is the most difficult thing to do if you are so guilt-ridden by the pain you are going to cause because together with being and HSP I am also an empath. I understand your message and agree, but as I said it is not thay easy to identify especially if it is really subtle for years until one day you wake up and you don't know who you are
@@lucindaklopper4151 I'm going through the same thing as I have twice can't believe I'm going through it again, bless you and I agree with what you're saying, there's signs but then there isn't at the same time.. it's unexplainable really then you're just left in shock. It's weird!
and the fake smile on her face...trying to hide her fear and unpleasant feeling about him that would bring more tears and torture to her if she let that be seen
I feel like is probably the first film I’ve ever watched that actually nailed it. So many others just show shouting and swearing, hitting. They don’t show the cyclic nature of the abuse and that there is also affection, paired with the insidious behaviours. That’s why the victim becomes so confused and unwell.
I actually started smoking after what I think is, or was abuse. From a Covert Narcissist. At least, that's what I think she is. The rages she would go into, and the passive aggressive stuff got to be too much after a while. And one day, she had done some things again to me, and treated me like crap again, and somehow I was given a cigarette at a gas station to calm my anger. I started smoking sometime after that. Been smoking since. She's gotten worse with age. Abuse is not just physical, for sure.
My ex was nice at the beginning but soon as we was married he changed like flicker of the switch, he abused me rapped me put a plastic bag over my head tied me up lucky my late father found me in time with 6 week old baby at my side he saved my life but the flash backs comes back the nightmares i rather be happy on my own then be in a relationship my ex destroyed my trust in men, i still getting help the judge made a power of arrest against him for life,i moved area start fresh with my girls and at peace now
~ Im 12 years out of an abusive marriage, emotional and physical. This message speaks volume. * please leave * your life is worth So. Much. More. ( Im lucky to be alive )
I live this every single day it's torture! Walking on eggshells every single dam day! It's a nightmare! I can't wait to leave!! I tried to leave once about a year ago and that didn't go well for me unfortunately so now I'll have to do it without him knowing I know people think it's so easy to just pack up n leave but in my situation it's not that easy. Plus I have two disabled Lil girls it makes it even harder plus no help from family I have no parents to help me they're gone so I'm on my own with two kids it's hard I pray I'm able to walk away safely soon 🙏
@farah summers hi yes we are ok as ok as we can be I guess still hanging in there I'm in the process of trying to buy a home for me and my girls if God willing that dream should come true that will be the key to my freedom my beautiful sweet freedom!! Thankyou so much for taking the time to reach out to me. That really means alot!!! God bless!! I hope you are well I hope you are happy And free! 😊🙏❤️
@@blancav1873 I hope you hurry up and leave him ,it will be,the best thing you ever do ,and to stay single , because you don't want to attract another one of these guys ,they go hunting ,for vulnerable women .good luck ,don't tell him it could cost you your life .
This is my life .. only my husband insults me as he comes in and finds fault in everything.. nothing I do is good .. and I told him many times to leave my apt . He won't pay for anything except things for himself. He calls me names but I'm thick skinned and he will not wear me down ..
Oh My Gosh, this is me right now. My husband watches my every move and he says he can do what he wants. I get a little each month and now he says that I will have to pay for house repairs he has money but he says he does not. He told awhile back that I was responsible for my health care. I am trying to get financing assistance.
My Ex husband told me he would no longer pay for my bills ..(the gym, car repairs, gas, any clothing.. ) I was not allowed to drive his car but he would not help me get mine fixed so I could get work...
I've been there, a few times. There's nothing more freeing than finding the inner strength to finally leave the situation and the person who is trying to damage you.
This is powerful, people don't understand how this can happen, but it's an over time kind of situation and by the time you yourself understand, your entire circle of peeps see you a whole different way as a couple, it's not even enabling when you don't get it for so long. It's sad really sad. I'm learning so much from these from my early childhood and no wonder I've done the things the way I have. Domestic violence is like a cancer, it just eats away at your very soul and core. We really have to come together, so the younger generations don't repeat us. I appreciate your video. God bless you.
Do not allow your partner to manipulate and control you because it makes your life miserable. A good relationship should be balanced. Leave them when you detect their narcissistic behavior earlier in your relationship because someday you will be their prisoner.
Damn right! Abuse can be found in anything outside physical! As a male I have nothing at my defense, ever, against my childrens mothers threats for up till today... 10 years of mental abuse. Not the police, socialservice or any other agancy has taken no others part than the mothers at start! But the truth comes at the end. But long after!
Women in the West get strong and get good educations so you can make your own money and take care of yourself and your children. I know this is simplistic but it worked for me and has worked for others. Harder for women in Eastern cultures but not impossible.
Great Clip! It may sound strange, but abusive levels of control can also be built up in relationships, where you don't live together w the abuser or are dependent on them in any other way than psychological, if they manage to isolate you from family and former friends and you have no one to turn to but them.
I’ve taken improv classes and this is fascinating because the male lead had to violate the core tenet of improv - “Yes, and….” - to make this work. Fantastic improv skills by both. They created a lot of tension.
This is a very good film, the most destructive abuse is not physical, it's emotional and ... not as obvious, even for victims. Especially if victims are children and abusers are parents who are doing everything "for the sake of children".
They hate when we resort to poisonous soothing mechanisms and enjoy belittling us for trying to soothe the horror they put us though, when we can’t see the way out 😣
I would really like if some of these videos also show men as victims of domestic violence. As a therapist, I have had male clients who were abused, controlled, etc., by their female partners. Fundamentally, we are all the same. Domestic violence is genderless, so to speak. I do however, know and appreciate that the majority of perpetrators are male.
Yes and let's just say some of the men are very good at manipulating to turn the woman into a psycho and abuser by the secret behaviour and they are so cunning and charming they fool the therapists. My dad is one and they are unbelievable
@Nick Nation kind of...but in 1 side,..like in an abusive or controlling relationship,..Sure its both,..in this world, its both. But certainly its the majority of men who control. I dare to say.
People like that are insecure, unhappy people. Why would you want to control and abuse someone. What about love? You ever tried loving someone? I feel sad for them really.
They start of so charming and perfect, until you feel like your entire world belongs to them. And then something bad or inconvenient happens in their life that makes their mask crack a little, showing you something ugly that you at first decide to let slide, and may continue to let slide if you dont find the strengh you need to Get Out.
Hell, no one should visit. Narisstic man and woman are very polite in the beginning so that a person can trust them. World is full of wolf's under sheeps skin. That s why I love to be single
I have just left a 3 years of hell like this, I’ve just been released from the mental health team and now receiving therapy for the mental damaged allowed the man to do to me. Definitely triggered me this, please if you sense any of this get out
These stories very disturbing, This was absolutely terrible and Very difficult to watch I Hope that any Woman and any other person’s experiencing any similar situations and violence Survives and Escapes such terrible circumstances. Men you must keep your cool, Men you must mind your temper, Men breathe, relax, and whatever you are upset about... it is simply not that serious, Men DONT hurt your Lady, Never beat up your Woman, Never beat up your wife, girlfriend, or any woman, that’s NOT is what being a man is. Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool... Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man.... Beating a woman is Not masculine Beating Women is NOT sexy Beating Women is NOT manly Using abuse, and force for sexual gratification, intimidation, by harmful behavior for sexual intimacy with someone doesn’t make a man, strong, tough, cool, or, manly. This behavior displays only the absolute weaknesses of the person committing this sort of violence. I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman: For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable... Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe... No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often. Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been... My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior, I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others... Keep everyone SAFE PLEASE BE SAFE Your Life is important Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate Jason Sandifer, Michigan MESSAGE REPOSTED 12/04/2021
This is me. Was me. I'm finally saw it for what it was, living separately, in therapy but have yet to divorce....as I try to explain, I guess I'm more in it than I thought. Damnit...this is me.
This is even worse,for the children,and seeing,your farther.beat your.mum and then beat you ,I resent my mum for making us live. That way ,she would leav then go back , because he'd say he's sorry and won't do it again,and she would go back ,the best thing about it as soon as I herd him say it at 5 years old I knew it was a lie ,I knew he didn't love her ,and that he was only using her ,but my mum just kept going back ,he's beat us to,and soon the sexual abuse would start , grooming,.it has ruined my life ,I'm 50 and nothing good has come of me ,all it did was set me up to be used by men when.i.was.older ,and what happens when you stay with a violent man ,you set your daughter up for a life of hell ,not just her childhood,bit her whole life ,you basically destroy her ,and if you have son's and you stay ,you will ruin his life to .if you carnt leave then give them up for adoption.because it's sick ,to live like this ,ho hear those punches going in ,your mum's stomach ,while praying to God in tho kitchen,then seeing her coming running out with her jaw hanging,and blood everywhere being terrified ,and taking 50 years to find out that birds of a feather flock together.im not saying that it's the same for.all.just in my case ,and no man should ever hot or control.a woman .my biggest fear in life is dying,being reincarnated,and having the same parents all over again ,I pray to God that I'm protected from that .maybe I will spit on his grave.Dont program your daughter to go with violent men ,by staying with a violent man ,and don't program your son to be violent,by staying with a man who beats you , because if you do your son will beat you to .thanks mum for showing me ,that I'm a woman that doesn't deserve to be respected,and that I'm worthless,and thanks dad for telling me that men will only want me for one thing ,and they will get bored.as for thinking that victoms of violence and sexual abuse get over it ,they don't ever it stays deep inside haunting them.forever these men don't love they use ,somone to cook ,someone to waght on somone to clean ,to have sex with ,and they will never be faiful ,but will acuse you iv heard it Sean it 7 violent relationships, now single ABIT lait now at 50 ,and to truly,not know what it is like to be loved ,when they say sorry ,they won't do it again,it will happen again,it will never stop ,it gets worse, because I'm a sense they are testing you ,praying on you ,youl end up with no self esteem,think was your farther violent, because,we often go for men like our fathers ,how messed up is that
@@aviewtokill08 I didn't say it's easy, in fact I admit it's easy for me to say. Again and I hope as many ppl as possible will read this! Ur happiness comes before all! And it's not selfish thinking it's a way to protect ur self as long as u don't harm anyone. So I wish everyone who goes through that a lot of strength
Ive thought of it differently recently. I only have this much time left on ny hourglass. I KNOW lots of people would bid high at that auction, so WHY am i giving it away for free? Chasing the garage truck?!
Mentally abusing your spouse is also domestic violence
Great message conveyed in the short film
thank you
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Mental abuse is just as bad as physical.
@@amandalidey329 it’s not equal. Physical is worse but still mental is bad yes
@@carljohnson2194 Its equal imo. Mental/physical/emotional. All a sign of "abuse " soo u think one is better than the other,??. If u look up facts about unfortunate situations like this. It states "Mental abuse " can actually be worse than "physical" When I was "20" yrs old. (My daughter's age) I met someone who was just strictly a friend, nothing else, we ended up dating when I was 22 (which was very unexpected) he had been just a friend for 2 years, nothing else. Wellll me being young, way less wiser, etc. It started with Mental & emotional 1 year later when we were then actually living together & then thats when the physical abuse started. Keep in mind I wasn't even 25 yet, easy to buy $1,000 omega necklaces from Kay jewelers for our first Christmas & literally $175 breakfasts on the water with champagne & bloody merrys for breakfast. All this fancy wining & dining. At that age u look at it differently. U can't "Buy my love " I appreciated it but all the flowers seemed to work too, until u get a Lil older & wiser & realize it was & meant nothing. Thank GOD I didn't marry him. I definitely looked & picked out "princess cut engagement 💍 " which I need a queen ring lol. But that would have been a nightmare.!! My point is, They are all the same & effect u the same. Soo if u never been in a situation like that, I wouldn't speak on it. That's your opinion tho. I'm 39 yrs old. Let me tell u, if a "man" put his hands on me. That would be the first & very last. Some are just imo sick & maybe don't know how to love. I really don't know. Lol, bc I don't mentally, physically or emotionally abuse anyone I love. That's not love. That lasted for 7 years & by the grace of God the night he strangled me, I put his sorry a☆☆ In jail & I didn't stay bc I didn't "value myself " or bc I wanted too. I was in a definite, difficult situation at that time. I tell my daughter who is 20 now the same so she never goes thru that & I hope father's out there raise their son's the way they would want him to treat his gf/wife in the future & definitely for sure their daughter's & 🙏 their not wiping the tears off their daughter's face for the EXACT same reason. Sad but true. Just thought I'd fill u in on what "abuse" means. They are absolutely equal.💯
Don't let anyone control you.. whether it's a man or a woman. Get away from them.
I’m working on that at the moment ,I’m tired of crying and it’s draining me 😢
@@MiriamHernandez-cv7em it takes time be patient with yourself. Take each day step by step, your safety is important not what others think they don't live the nightmare
@@MiriamHernandez-cv7emou will break free. I believe in you. Be safe please and take care of yourself.
Controlling is wrong 😑
People who abuse you like this think you are their property. In their minds, they own you.... But, you are NOT their property !!!! My niece was in a relationship with a man who abused her in every way. We didn't know it because she was afraid to tell anyone. When she finally did she had to run away in the middle of the night a asked a couple at a gas station to help hide her. Thank God they were good people and they helped her. They got her to the airport and someone in our family supplied a ticket for her to get back home. He had taken her far away. She escaped him !!!! He searched for and threatened her until he overdosed on drugs one day. Now, at least she is safe from him. If you are being abused, run and go to a church or somewhere safe !! 🙏🙏🙏
This just made me so happy to read and hear that your niece got away from him!
Oh god.. Thank god she escaped.. God bless❤🙏
Going to Church is the best place to run
Great advice
Very thought provoking glad to see your niece fought to stay alive
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My husband was a knight in shinning armor in the beginning. Then slowing his true colors came out. He was a wolf in sheep’s clothing. A super control freak. Taking my keys, phone, even my wedding ring. He had to see what clothes I laid out to wear to the next morning. Then the verbal abuse followed by pushing, head butting - I had bruising. Came home from work one afternoon & found him dead in our bedroom from a massive heart attack. I truly believe I would have been dead if our marriage lasted longer.
Oh I can relate. How about as soon as u walk in the door, they wanna grab your purse & go thru it, looking at receipts & what's on those receipts. That's another one I forgot about.
@@amandalidey329 totally disgusting & so insecure - major losers. Love is blind is an understatement.
@@rosiesingleton6480 Yes
I'm really sorry to hear this. Leaves emotional scars. That's so scary and I'm sorry you had to find him passed away but I'm glad you also don't have to endure that anymore... I hope you have found a life partner who is your true match. My ex spouse never physically abused me. However, he kept me isolated and controlled who I could talk to and when I could go out, taking both sets of car keys. He verbally abused me, mentally abused me. He also controlled my clothing (underwear especially) and would accuse me of physically cheating and made me share my location on my phone.
@@FallenSummer84 So sorry u had to go thru that. If they only knew how it felt then maybe these men wouldn't act like this or treat the ones they care about like this.
When you feel contempt coming from someone who claims to love you, run. These people are not safe to be around, no matter who they are to you. Run.
Contempt. That's the perfect word. I've met a bunch of these guys and they would go back and forth between love-bombing... and contempt. Just showing disgust for me for no apparent reason. That definitely it's one of the main things to look out for.
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Immediately this makes sense when she jumps up when he walks in.....been there. It’s like a natural bodily response eventually 🤦🏻♀️
That’s true. However in this instance I think she just moved out of his favourite seat.
This was hard for me to watch as it was like watching myself 2 years ago , same type pf control , mental and physical. I was constantly under a spell of manipulations of lies and deciet. Now I'm still healing. It's hard but anyone going through this or any kind of abuse Get out. Great Vid
Run! Go grey rock! A black eye is much easier to heal from!
Right. Well I'm 39 now. & my relationship like this started at 22 (met at 20) until almost 30. Soo yes, I definitely get that. These men/women too are disgusting.
same!@@amandalidey329
i was in a relationship like that, so charming he was in the beginning, but the control was subtiel, there should be more films about this the hidden abuse also called covert narsisissem
If you listen to podcast .. there is narcissist apocalypse , actual victims tell their stories ..
I was also. But at the end was physical. That's when I left. I didnt know treatment and words were violent. But I knew through my mother and dad relationship what the violence was.
Typical narcissist
I was with a covert narcissist for 5 years. They love bomb you in the beginning so you think they’re your soul mate and then exactly. The control is subtle until you look up and don’t recognize the person in the mirror anymore because you have confirmed to be everything they want you to be. Nothing is ever right or enough and it’s always your fault. It never got physical but the emotional and mental abuse and being separated from my family was devastating. Good for us girl for leaving people like that.
Yes, same here, very subtle...it took 33 sessions of domestic abuse counselling to bring me out of my trance ..
Her shaking hands took me right back. To anyone living like this I hope you get out. It's been five years rebuilding my life but I never, ever, ever regret leaving. I took what little money I had, three dogs and two suitcases and drove across the country without a plan. There is help out there and you are not alone! Life is too precious to be miserable!
I'm proud of you for getting out.
@@lisahowell5048 thank you for your kind words.
Shaking of the hands. Yes. Sad.
❤❤❤
Same! Omg! So awful & humiliating!! Did you notice how he took the remote & it magically appeared after she started to search for it? Typical abusive a hole!
Very powerful, remember that feeling, so subtle but so destructive to self.
thank you, subtle and behind the scenes with almost a feeling that we are not seeing the worst of it, is what we were going for.
Eternal Iris Film and Photography You nailed it. Thank you.
You could almost feel the thick repellant energy when he sat down next to her
This was good. I was in a relationship very like this one. The actors did a great job portraying an atmosphere of suspicion, menace and implied threat.
thank you. implied threat, something extra missing, the fact we cant see all of it, is part of what we were going for.
Wow absolutely amazing actress ! She got into character so perfectly very believable!
Her calling for "pizza" to 999 or 911 in the US is a good way for someone in a situation like this woman in the video to say that they need emergency services right away. My landlord's gf is a 911 operator and this technique has helped ppl in these situations. Very recently here in toledo ohio where she works. A lady called using the pizza thing while her mom was abused by her bf. Saved the lady's life
I was thinking the same thing. I wonder if they have the same method everywhere
Yes brilliant wish I'd of thought of that when needed 😢
Hi - director here
Theirs a reddit post about a woman who called 911 for a pizza and police turned up probably saved her life, so in part it's based on that as well as other research on domestic abuse, and just the concept if your stuck in a difficult situation like that that's about to turn even more sour need to find a way anyway to get the hell out to get some help.
If someone gives you the creeps, be nice but get rid of them. This is for any kind of relationship, friendship, co workers, friends etc.
Great advice I always say it goes for everyone
But sometimes that person being nice gets attacked by the person they are being nice to. It’s not an option depending on the situation.
As soon as he walked in the door, he looked like he was going to start some shit. She should have taken that boiling water, & threw at him & ran like hell out the door.
That' s something we all say... me too. But, easy to say and hard to do
She's good, makes me feel the anxiety.
A couple of these things reminding me of things that happened in my last marriage that I didn't even realize were controlling.
I used to date a guy who saw me as his personal maid, every time he'd ask me to cook or grab groceries or do the dishes, I'd say your legs aren't broken last I checked, do them yourself... I don't know if I'll ever find love or feel worthy enough to be loved but I do know I'll never put up with that again so long as God let's me live.
Some are just too cold to be warmed by another's love.
Wishing all who are still healing... peace, rest, and calming companionship 💚
This is how I live right now every single day. No physical abuse so far but the mental emotional n verbal abuse is so destructive
He’s a pastor too so no one would believe me.
I have only told 2 people n thankfully they believe me
That actress shows exactly how I feel the fear the shaking anxiety n the actor is exactly like my narc husband who drills me w accusatory questions over n over
I need to escape
I went to (free) counselling at the nursing station when I felt helpless. Went regularly for a couple months “ to learn how to be a better person”...haha...he instantly started behaving better. Isolation is toxic. I think women often enable this or even cause it by an unhealthy form of submission. Christ told us, “ Love thy neighbour like you love yourself.”. If you don’t love yourself, practically and honestly and pertinently, then this stuff can creep in. He is getting better all the time, thanks be to God! It never got terrible but it was going downhill. I think they are insecure and they don’t like or love themselves in a healthy way.
Some of them learned it at home so they start right away. Others get this way because they are submissive at work and with other people, so they tend to want to control their spouse to make up for it. Now mine has started his own company, so he is in control of his life and his interactions and is much happier. He worked too many hours before so he couldn’t have a part time business, unfortunately. Now he has his swagger back and we get along fine.😅🎉❤Reading the “ Good woman” Epistle from Wisdom 31, 10-31 that is a part of the Catholic Mass “ Cognovi” scriptures, helps immensely. “ Who shall find a valiant woman?”😊
@@granmabern5283 Doesn't matter if you do or don't love yourself.
Wow, so real. Really powerful. Anyone who has managed to get out of such a relationship deserves praise. You should be proud of yourselves. No point condemning or feeling shame. You're out that's what's important, let the healing begin. ❤
Actions speaks louder than words. I've learned this is so important to pay attention to
Anybody insisting that “gender is performative” THIS is the rebuttal. This doof in the porkpie hat doesn’t need to say anything or raise his hands. She Knows that he has the physical means to back up any implied threat. Both of these actors did a phenomenal job. The tension in this short film was so palpable.
One day my ex came stopping into the summer house where I had being sleeping saying I couldn't live here anymore. Panicky I asked why what have I done now. He said he had heard on the radio that they were making verbal and emotional abuse illegal so I had to go. Which is weird as he thought he was the best person ever. But he then said I can't have you lying about me. But it's almost like for the first time he had admitted what he was doing.
so sorry to hear of your struggle, i hope your situation improves soon. emotional/verbal abuse deserves to be illegal, to my knowledge tends to build very slowly, and often if people remain in the relationship builds into physical, financial, and or sexual abuse over time. 'Get out while you can' but that's very unnuanced advice which doesn't show the complexity of how to deal with being in love with someone that abuses you. again, i hope your situation improves soon
@@benchapman91 thanks very much. I left two years ago as soon as my daughter went to uni. I have a more peaceful life but do have flash backs.
You probably have PTSD Rain! ♡♡ (speaking from experience.) I haven't been able to access them yet sadly but I hear CBT & EMDR are both really helpful. Much love. x
People can't understand how a look can control you. That look 😥is not just in scripted movies.
This type of abuse is abhorrent, get out, don’t stay.....you’ll end up dead!
It's important to not let it degenerate to this. Stand up for yourself immediately, even in the beginning of a relationship. No one can bully you if you don't allow it. Never be afraid to end things early in a relationship. If you are uncomfortable with your partner, they shouldn't be your partner. One of the most damning of the 4 horsemen is contempt once this is exhibited in a relationship it is near impossible to repair.
I'd go for completely impossible to repair. It always makes me immensely sad when I see people trying desperately to make things better in a hopeless situation like this as that was me, and it's really hard seeing others going through the same, yet still having that miniscule bit of hope that things will get better if only they can make changes to their own behaviour. Such a desperate place to be. The only hope is running and never looking back.
What if you try to break up with them and they won’t leave ,they keep coming around and stalking you . I’ve tried putting protective order on him and he has threatened me in so many ways . I think the beast think to do in my situation is to pack my bags and leave far!!! ✌️
@@MiriamHernandez-cv7em Yes it is. The only way to be free/safe is to leave with no way of them finding out where you have gone, changing all means of contact (phone, email, social media, cutting off mutual "friends": unfortunately, people who refuse to take sides don't have your best interests at heart if they know what's going on). Wishing you the very best of luck.
It is easier said than done... ask someone who is in such a relationship that is a highly sensitive person and has been so charmingly brainwashed that she didn't realise until it was too late. I need to go for trauma counseling when I get the guts to move out and divorce my husband. It is the most difficult thing to do if you are so guilt-ridden by the pain you are going to cause because together with being and HSP I am also an empath. I understand your message and agree, but as I said it is not thay easy to identify especially if it is really subtle for years until one day you wake up and you don't know who you are
@@lucindaklopper4151 I'm going through the same thing as I have twice can't believe I'm going through it again, bless you and I agree with what you're saying, there's signs but then there isn't at the same time.. it's unexplainable really then you're just left in shock. It's weird!
You could tell she was scared of him.
That was me
Inga Crosby walking on eggshells that is a sign of coercive control.
and the fake smile on her face...trying to hide her fear and unpleasant feeling about him that would bring more tears and torture to her if she let that be seen
I feel like is probably the first film I’ve ever watched that actually nailed it. So many others just show shouting and swearing, hitting. They don’t show the cyclic nature of the abuse and that there is also affection, paired with the insidious behaviours. That’s why the victim becomes so confused and unwell.
2 years ago I got away from my abuser... we have a son together... he still controls and belittles me to this day
Lmfao
The fighter 888 bruh-
@@irraxxa1677 it's attention seeker mate can't u see " we have son " he stills controls me " lmfao
Tell him what a waste of space he is!
I actually started smoking after what I think is, or was abuse. From a Covert Narcissist. At least, that's what I think she is. The rages she would go into, and the passive aggressive stuff got to be too much after a while. And one day, she had done some things again to me, and treated me like crap again, and somehow I was given a cigarette at a gas station to calm my anger. I started smoking sometime after that. Been smoking since. She's gotten worse with age. Abuse is not just physical, for sure.
She’s reflecting on the golden era. Wanting that initial love bombing. It’ll never return, he loves the control.
My ex was nice at the beginning but soon as we was married he changed like flicker of the switch, he abused me rapped me put a plastic bag over my head tied me up lucky my late father found me in time with 6 week old baby at my side he saved my life but the flash backs comes back the nightmares i rather be happy on my own then be in a relationship my ex destroyed my trust in men, i still getting help the judge made a power of arrest against him for life,i moved area start fresh with my girls and at peace now
~ Im 12 years out of an abusive marriage, emotional and physical. This message speaks volume. * please leave * your life is worth So. Much. More. ( Im lucky to be alive )
Uhhh, there is NO way I could live like this...I feel so bad for people that do. 😪
Great video, the tension was so thick, I felt uncomfortable!!
I live this every single day it's torture! Walking on eggshells every single dam day! It's a nightmare! I can't wait to leave!! I tried to leave once about a year ago and that didn't go well for me unfortunately so now I'll have to do it without him knowing I know people think it's so easy to just pack up n leave but in my situation it's not that easy. Plus I have two disabled Lil girls it makes it even harder plus no help from family I have no parents to help me they're gone so I'm on my own with two kids it's hard I pray I'm able to walk away safely soon 🙏
@@blancav1873
I'm SO sorry. I pray you and your daughters are able to get out. Is there a shelter where you live??
@@blancav1873 Are you & your girls ok?? Much love ♡♡♡
@farah summers hi yes we are ok as ok as we can be I guess still hanging in there I'm in the process of trying to buy a home for me and my girls if God willing that dream should come true that will be the key to my freedom my beautiful sweet freedom!! Thankyou so much for taking the time to reach out to me. That really means alot!!! God bless!! I hope you are well I hope you are happy And free! 😊🙏❤️
@@blancav1873 I hope you hurry up and leave him ,it will be,the best thing you ever do ,and to stay single , because you don't want to attract another one of these guys ,they go hunting ,for vulnerable women .good luck ,don't tell him it could cost you your life .
You have some great cinematography in this short film. Very suggestive.
This is my life .. only my husband insults me as he comes in and finds fault in everything.. nothing I do is good .. and I told him many times to leave my apt . He won't pay for anything except things for himself. He calls me names but I'm thick skinned and he will not wear me down ..
Have you considered getting a divorce from him? It’s not just about wearing you down but what about having a good quality of life?
@@mariancounsellor I have divorced . Just waiting the decree from judge .
Emotional abuse...how they make you feel. I remember that with my ex
Oh My Gosh, this is me right now. My husband watches my every move and he says he can do what he wants. I get a little each month and now he says that I will have to pay for house repairs he has money but he says he does not. He told awhile back that I was responsible for my health care. I am trying to get financing assistance.
I hope you're in a better situation now, if you want, I could pray for you.
Please try to leave, your partner is not worth living like that, I hope you are in a better situation
Get out. Run.
My Ex husband told me he would no longer pay for my bills ..(the gym, car repairs, gas, any clothing.. ) I was not allowed to drive his car but he would not help me get mine fixed so I could get work...
Hi beautiful soul, how are you healing now.
The man is an excellent actor.
This needs to be broadcast. Truly helpful. Please heed to these and all warning signs.
I've been there, a few times. There's nothing more freeing than finding the inner strength to finally leave the situation and the person who is trying to damage you.
This is powerful, people don't understand how this can happen, but it's an over time kind of situation and by the time you yourself understand, your entire circle of peeps see you a whole different way as a couple, it's not even enabling when you don't get it for so long. It's sad really sad. I'm learning so much from these from my early childhood and no wonder I've done the things the way I have. Domestic violence is like a cancer, it just eats away at your very soul and core. We really have to come together, so the younger generations don't repeat us. I appreciate your video. God bless you.
In the first 3 minutes, if you are in anything like this. JUST LEAVE. Better to be alone than in this kind of hell.
Do not allow your partner to manipulate and control you because it makes your life miserable. A good relationship should be balanced. Leave them when you detect their narcissistic behavior earlier in your relationship because someday you will be their prisoner.
Damn right! Abuse can be found in anything outside physical! As a male I have nothing at my defense, ever, against my childrens mothers threats for up till today... 10 years of mental abuse. Not the police, socialservice or any other agancy has taken no others part than the mothers at start! But the truth comes at the end. But long after!
Women in the West get strong and get good educations so you can make your own money and take care of yourself and your children. I know this is simplistic but it worked for me and has worked for others. Harder for women in Eastern cultures but not impossible.
I have lived this every single day for the last year and nine months.
Great Clip! It may sound strange, but abusive levels of control can also be built up in relationships, where you don't live together w the abuser or are dependent on them in any other way than psychological, if they manage to isolate you from family and former friends and you have no one to turn to but them.
I’ve taken improv classes and this is fascinating because the male lead had to violate the core tenet of improv - “Yes, and….” - to make this work. Fantastic improv skills by both. They created a lot of tension.
This is a very good film, the most destructive abuse is not physical, it's emotional and ... not as obvious, even for victims. Especially if victims are children and abusers are parents who are doing everything "for the sake of children".
They hate when we resort to poisonous soothing mechanisms and enjoy belittling us for trying to soothe the horror they put us though, when we can’t see the way out 😣
It's all too common and real.
@@julieverelst1685 unfortunately 😕
Exceptional actors !
I would really like if some of these videos also show men as victims of domestic violence. As a therapist, I have had male clients who were abused, controlled, etc., by their female partners. Fundamentally, we are all the same. Domestic violence is genderless, so to speak. I do however, know and appreciate that the majority of perpetrators are male.
Yes and let's just say some of the men are very good at manipulating to turn the woman into a psycho and abuser by the secret behaviour and they are so cunning and charming they fool the therapists. My dad is one and they are unbelievable
@@beckyjade3677 anyone can be fooled for a little while
@@ellemorgan1331 I’m truly sorry for your experience. Wishing you all the best for the future. Hugs
Quite true. My husband's ex pushed him down a flight of stairs, punched him in the eye and he cant see well out of it plus broke his phone.
Stats prove most spousal abuse is perpetrated by the male. By a lot! And men are larger and can inflict more damage generally speaking.
She’s not a person to him, but an appliance. Hat tip ( Hg Tudor)
WoW. That is spot on. An Appliance.
dont let a man control you,..youre not a puppet
She shouldn't be smoking
zohrya kanowah And don’t let a woman control you. Anyone should get help in controlling relationships. ANYONE.
@@terrortower666 sure
@Nick Nation kind of...but in 1 side,..like in an abusive or controlling relationship,..Sure its both,..in this world, its both. But certainly its the majority of men who control. I dare to say.
Don’t let anyone control you.
People like that are insecure, unhappy people. Why would you want to control and abuse someone. What about love? You ever tried loving someone? I feel sad for them really.
The acting is great! Is this a compulsive disorder. I saw him adjust the remote.
Yh a little bit of compulsiveness from him was part of the plan, the cause of problems here is definitely his issues not hers.
OMG you could feel the tension! I thought he was going to do something worse any minute..
Where did you find this btw? Had another jump in views and i don't know where come from
They start of so charming and perfect, until you feel like your entire world belongs to them. And then something bad or inconvenient happens in their life that makes their mask crack a little, showing you something ugly that you at first decide to let slide, and may continue to let slide if you dont find the strengh you need to Get Out.
After watching this I see how mentally and emotionally abusive my parents are and I can see all the red flags clearly
oh fucking thank you... it's always the "BOYFRIEND"... no one ever acknowledges the MOTHER!
They are such good actors/actress.
I'm commenting on this video to get it on RUclips algorithm.
Commenting helps it get to algorithms??
Thank you :)
Hell, no one should visit. Narisstic man and woman are very polite in the beginning so that a person can trust them. World is full of wolf's under sheeps skin. That s why I love to be single
Brilliant film! Spot on!
Thank you
I have just left a 3 years of hell like this, I’ve just been released from the mental health team and now receiving therapy for the mental damaged allowed the man to do to me. Definitely triggered me this, please if you sense any of this get out
Glad to hear you've managed to get out
@@benchapman91 thank you 🙏❤️
You know after the man hits the girl he says sorry
for sure. iv got a script im working on on domestic abuse (this was unscripted) and it basically ends on the apology.
They will ask your children these questions behind your back. "Did anyone stop by?" " did your mother go anywhere?"
Wow, this has brought back some very ugly memories, it a very powerful short film that really gets the point across.
😔his aura speaks a thousand words😔these people are very destructive 😤
Strong play💫👌
Thank you for making and airing this movie🕊🙏🏼🕊
All about control!!!👠👠👠
Brilliant way of showing, .thankyou if this helps 1 person its good enough,
Well done
My heart breaks 💔 for these Women Who's in this Situation. 😞
please add subtitles. I don't understand him the way he speaks.
I was just thinking when she put the tea down my husband would have said it needed to be hotter… then he says the tea was cold. 🤦♀️
He reminds me of one of the guys off the movie home alone …
Ahahahahahaa! YESSS! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
How come so many of us have experienced this?
So sad. Unfortunately it's happening way too often. Instead of going forward as society we are going backwards (so much for awareness!)
Snake in the grass just leave this type of toxic
These stories very disturbing,
This was absolutely terrible and Very difficult to watch
I Hope that any Woman and any other person’s experiencing any similar situations and violence Survives and Escapes such terrible circumstances.
Men you must keep your cool,
Men you must mind your temper,
Men breathe, relax, and whatever you are upset about... it is simply not that serious,
Men DONT hurt your Lady,
Never beat up your Woman,
Never beat up your wife, girlfriend, or any woman, that’s NOT is what being a man is.
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man tough...
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man strong...
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man cool...
Beating up a Woman doesn't make a man a man....
Beating a woman is Not masculine
Beating Women is NOT sexy
Beating Women is NOT manly
Using abuse, and force for sexual gratification, intimidation, by harmful behavior for sexual intimacy with someone doesn’t make a man, strong, tough, cool, or, manly.
This behavior displays only the absolute weaknesses of the person committing this sort of violence.
I believe in the Safety and Well-being Women, Children, and Men
WOMEN Have the RIGHT to FEEL SAFE and BE SAFE
This is a reply post regarding a article on Assault Against Woman:
For what is statistically true, or accurate, and even what is not included statistically, and all other crime such as this is what is ( violence against women) Always unacceptable...
Women have the Right to Feel SAFE and be Safe...
No woman..., or person....child...should ever have to experience this kind heinous personal intrusion in their lifetime, this seems to be occurring at least according to news reports more, and all to often.
Actually this activity should be in a stage, or state of Reversal, and NOT Increasing, I am continually upset as well as greatly disturbed in hearing such stories, as I have always have been...
My Heart Always... goes out to any person which have experienced any such similar experience of intrusion, attacks, and, or invasion of their personal well-being... due violence, and or violent behavior,
I will continue Praying for the Safety and Well-Being of Others...
Keep everyone SAFE
PLEASE BE SAFE
Your Life is important
Advocate of Humanity, Author, Writer, Poet, Safety Advocate
Jason Sandifer,
Michigan
MESSAGE REPOSTED
12/04/2021
This is me. Was me. I'm finally saw it for what it was, living separately, in therapy but have yet to divorce....as I try to explain, I guess I'm more in it than I thought. Damnit...this is me.
Reminds me of my ex husband. I kicked him out and divorced him after 6 months. Boy was he pissed.
I would've put something in that tea that would've either knocked his ass out cold or kept him running to the damn bathroom. Abuse is NOT ok. 😡😡😡
I didn't understand a word he said.
Same tf was he speaking
Same here, only heard "your paying"
Same
Me too, but the washing machine is going so l will blame the noisy machine , can’t it be quiet when l am watching important things
😂😂😂🤦♀️
She was a nervous wreck.Like a cat on a hot tin roof.
This is even worse,for the children,and seeing,your farther.beat your.mum and then beat you ,I resent my mum for making us live. That way ,she would leav then go back , because he'd say he's sorry and won't do it again,and she would go back ,the best thing about it as soon as I herd him say it at 5 years old I knew it was a lie ,I knew he didn't love her ,and that he was only using her ,but my mum just kept going back ,he's beat us to,and soon the sexual abuse would start , grooming,.it has ruined my life ,I'm 50 and nothing good has come of me ,all it did was set me up to be used by men when.i.was.older ,and what happens when you stay with a violent man ,you set your daughter up for a life of hell ,not just her childhood,bit her whole life ,you basically destroy her ,and if you have son's and you stay ,you will ruin his life to .if you carnt leave then give them up for adoption.because it's sick ,to live like this ,ho hear those punches going in ,your mum's stomach ,while praying to God in tho kitchen,then seeing her coming running out with her jaw hanging,and blood everywhere being terrified ,and taking 50 years to find out that birds of a feather flock together.im not saying that it's the same for.all.just in my case ,and no man should ever hot or control.a woman .my biggest fear in life is dying,being reincarnated,and having the same parents all over again ,I pray to God that I'm protected from that .maybe I will spit on his grave.Dont program your daughter to go with violent men ,by staying with a violent man ,and don't program your son to be violent,by staying with a man who beats you , because if you do your son will beat you to .thanks mum for showing me ,that I'm a woman that doesn't deserve to be respected,and that I'm worthless,and thanks dad for telling me that men will only want me for one thing ,and they will get bored.as for thinking that victoms of violence and sexual abuse get over it ,they don't ever it stays deep inside haunting them.forever these men don't love they use ,somone to cook ,someone to waght on somone to clean ,to have sex with ,and they will never be faiful ,but will acuse you iv heard it Sean it 7 violent relationships, now single ABIT lait now at 50 ,and to truly,not know what it is like to be loved ,when they say sorry ,they won't do it again,it will happen again,it will never stop ,it gets worse, because I'm a sense they are testing you ,praying on you ,youl end up with no self esteem,think was your farther violent, because,we often go for men like our fathers ,how messed up is that
He can't even pay for his damn pizza!!! Grrr 😅
Wow keep sharing more of this kind of topics. For more awareness. Thank you.
Just leave while he's at work.
I seize to care how someone feels when threatened by the fact I am in control how I feel
Who tells these men that their wives should be submissive? Their parents? Their clergy? Whoever it is is sick!
What's the difference between an improvised short film and a regular one?
Wow that guy is really scary, get out, get out now
Noone should let another person do that to themselves! I know it's easy to say but u have got to love urself and run aslong as u can!
It's a process. You don't see it right away until you've gone through it. It is really easy for you to say.
@@aviewtokill08 I didn't say it's easy, in fact I admit it's easy for me to say. Again and I hope as many ppl as possible will read this! Ur happiness comes before all! And it's not selfish thinking it's a way to protect ur self as long as u don't harm anyone.
So I wish everyone who goes through that a lot of strength
What city did you guys shoot the film?
Birmingham UK
Ive thought of it differently recently. I only have this much time left on ny hourglass. I KNOW lots of people would bid high at that auction, so WHY am i giving it away for free? Chasing the garage truck?!
Why can’t you hear them talking?
He’s a good actor 😊😊😊😊😊
Instant flash backs
I can feel that.😢
Could you CC this?
I second that!
In this right now, but now only just for 48 hours😢