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  • Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
  • Today I am answering all the hot topic questions about UC Berkeley! I'll be talking about greek life, dating, hook up culture, parties, drugs, cheating, student teacher relationships and more SPICY content haha. I have some other videos about UC Berkeley that has more for of the "mainstream" questions and misconceptions so definitely go check them out too! College life can be really exciting and fun but there's also some ~spicy~ ~tea~ to be spilt about UC Berkeley and what it's like being a student! Hope you have a great day!
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  • @AngelicaSong
    @AngelicaSong  3 года назад +126

    also plss watch the ads i gotta pay off those student loans pls help a sis out with some capitalism money hahah uWu pls

    • @anasali-jf7dz
      @anasali-jf7dz 3 года назад +8

      those adds are good, honestly i would buy that women socks if i had women feet.

    • @gingyrocka6039
      @gingyrocka6039 2 года назад +2

      its okay to say it as what it is, it's discrimination based on skin colour and ethnicity that is the definition of racism...so sorry that happened, but thanks for sharing your story I won't bother

  • @santiagogarzon5312
    @santiagogarzon5312 4 года назад +178

    You're ethnic story broke my heart. I experienced the same thing. As a Colombian-American I always felt as if I was trying to prove my "Americanness" but everyone just ended up seeing me as a foreigner even though I grew up in the same country as them, have lived in their culture, and speak English as a first language. In the end I just learned how to deal with it and stopped giving a crap however I know the feeling

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +14

      10/10 we are all American.

    • @MarianaLP1594
      @MarianaLP1594 3 года назад +3

      No deberías tener que probar nada a nadie. Deberías hacerles saber de qué estás orgulloso de tu procedencia.
      Saludos desde Colombia!

  • @omarzaifulizan3064
    @omarzaifulizan3064 4 года назад +355

    I've literally seen lil innocent asian girls from high school turn into the most baddest abgs in college LMAOoo

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 года назад

      Omar Zaifulizan as in abg or cheat

    • @FaceClef
      @FaceClef 4 года назад +5

      Whats abgs

    • @janetlamkin7969
      @janetlamkin7969 4 года назад

      @@TechVHD qq we

    • @bazkoa5215
      @bazkoa5215 3 года назад +33

      They've been sheltered by their conservative parents from a young age. Once they gain that individual freedom they never had before they go all out.

    • @eeeaikoo
      @eeeaikoo 2 года назад

      @@FaceClef asian bad girl

  • @christinaji4543
    @christinaji4543 4 года назад +62

    Ugh when angelica's videos are more educational than my zoom lectures, ,, , , academic icon , , , ,, ,

  • @makhazia5581
    @makhazia5581 4 года назад +41

    the way you carry yourself is so admirable! so excited to see more and more of your videos

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +1

      aw thank you! im excited to post more

  • @diyatripathi6994
    @diyatripathi6994 4 года назад +75

    This is just what I needed as quarantine has made me very dull. So thanks a lot! ❤❤

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад

      hahah hope this was SPICY enough

    • @diyatripathi6994
      @diyatripathi6994 4 года назад

      @@AngelicaSong haha it definitely was

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 5 месяцев назад

      That will make me wonder how any college can have hookup parties to begin with. I know when the government banned social gatherings, many of us were forced into quarantine and so my first college party had to be in zoom meetings. No booze. No hookups. No drinking, No meeting in person, No drug party, etc. I have no idea why many posted videos about partying at college because some of us come from an environment where college parties don't exists due to quarantine. So I am sure for those that were able to party in that 2020-2021 timeline, they must of been in a state or country that doesn't have government quarantine which meant free to host a party.

  • @alexciss
    @alexciss 3 года назад +5

    Straight facts, you really spilled the tea 😤

  • @doodliespiy
    @doodliespiy 4 года назад +90

    girl u HONEST

  • @victorianicolele
    @victorianicolele 4 года назад +10

    om gthe tea HAHAH i loved this!!

  • @k.e.4462
    @k.e.4462 4 года назад +11

    you're such an underrated youtuber lol love you

  • @agirlhasnoname2039
    @agirlhasnoname2039 4 года назад +11

    We love a well-spoken queen👑

  • @lynnelin4202
    @lynnelin4202 3 года назад +5

    Love you soooooo much! It’s my first time to see your video. You are really gorgeous and confident! And your English is awesome

  • @EleganceNails
    @EleganceNails 4 года назад

    I love your content, my dear..Thanks for sharing this wonderful truth about college video. Wish you the BEST!!

  • @ShanRizwan
    @ShanRizwan 4 года назад +36

    SPICY vid right here

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад

      too hot?

    • @iniaksjen800
      @iniaksjen800 4 года назад +1

      Jesus !!! Shan from BU . How u doing man ? Is it cold this time of the year in Massachusetts New England.

  • @AngieYoo
    @AngieYoo 4 года назад +13

    i love you and i love this 🥰 this was so real HAHAHA go bears :’)

  • @jennylam9953
    @jennylam9953 4 года назад +3

    I love ur videooosss !!!!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад

      thank you Jenny! thank you for watching

  • @Hoyasaxa30
    @Hoyasaxa30 3 года назад +6

    Thanks for sharing your story. I had gone through something similar for undergrad. Nobody wanted anything to do with me until I got “that” internship and found out I was well connected. Being a darker filipino american at a PWI. That’s how I was initially treated at face value and I had to always prove myself.

  • @cambriading9858
    @cambriading9858 4 года назад +6

    I just committed and I’m so excited!

  • @sarahimunoz8418
    @sarahimunoz8418 4 года назад +4

    I follow you on tiktok and all your advice is gold !!!! Go bears(:

  • @sunnyquinn3888
    @sunnyquinn3888 2 года назад +9

    I'm not sure about participating in Greek life. I feel like sororities are pretty much just "skinny blonde rich girl clubs" and that's not me, but I realize that is probably just ME being prejudiced.

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 года назад +6

    Are tests and quizzes online proctored and only Proctored at Berkeley or other schools? I want to quizlet and chegg

  • @saraha3798
    @saraha3798 4 года назад +2

    this is so accurate 👁👄👁

  • @SteveSaldivar
    @SteveSaldivar 4 года назад +1

    Spill the tea, sis

  • @thiana3268
    @thiana3268 4 года назад +1

    I saw this video, and then saw your tiktok but didn't make the connection until I pressed the link in your bio 😭😭💞

  • @HiryuBlue
    @HiryuBlue 4 года назад +36

    Awesome video! Hey Angelica, how's the gym there at UC Berkeley?

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +8

      pretty decent but it gets packed fast! there's two on campus; one main one and one smaller one

    • @HiryuBlue
      @HiryuBlue 4 года назад +6

      @@AngelicaSong Cool! I only went to one gym there when I visited and only got to stay for about an hour. Didn't know here was another gym. You should make a video of the fitness options around Berkeley.

  • @lucigrand6056
    @lucigrand6056 4 года назад +71

    i honestly like how she clarified that she didn’t want to use the word racist very easily while still addressing a racial preference issue. sometimes and today specially we’re really quick to react and call things racist when that word means a lot more than just a subconscious preference that we all have, although it is still something we all have to work on though!

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 года назад +3

    Can I use quizlet or chegg on my online quizzes and tests at UC Berkeley? Is there a proctor

  • @CarmenWood-un2zt
    @CarmenWood-un2zt Год назад +5

    I am senior at UCB and there are some things that need to be clarified:
    1. There is NO hook up culture. The hook ups that you hear about is only between the women in campus and the top 20% of chads. If you are a regular guy, odds are you will not be able to hook up.
    2. There are a LOT of students that do not participate in the party scene. For a lot of students, we simply don't have the time or want to party.
    3. As she mentioned, getting in to some parties will be difficult. Especially if you are not a woman. As a guy you will not have the traditional college experience if you do bot have
    connections to some fraternity.
    Go bears🐻

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 Год назад

      So true. This person gets it. It's funny when people say how college is "the best years of your life". This only applies if you're goodlooking, a woman, or super extroverted. For most people, college really isn't different than highschool, other than you living on campus and having more responsibilities. Most men don't engage in hookup culture because they aren't attractive enough to, most people aren't going to parties/bars that frequently (especially introverts like me), and most people do pretty basic things outside of class. College in movies doesn't = real life.

    • @zeyunggiscool
      @zeyunggiscool 11 месяцев назад

      were you social on campus?

    • @zeyunggiscool
      @zeyunggiscool 11 месяцев назад

      @@thelonercoder5816 were you social on campus?

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 11 месяцев назад

      @@zeyunggiscool Yes. Believe it or not, you can have a social life without hooking up with random people. Most people have basic social lives but aren't engaging in hookup culture lmao. Like I said, you have to be attractive enough to sleep around in the first place. Most guys aren't attractive enough to pull it off even if they wanted to.

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 5 месяцев назад

      @@thelonercoder5816 I guess college is not the same compared to the old generation. We live in a world where college is now mixed with different adults in different age. Even senior citizens go to college. Older adults go to college. There are some that are actually married and does not go around hooking up to cheat on their spouse. Some of the college students even have kids of their own and they make families more important than those hookup culture because not all believe in cheating on their spouse. Going to college is not always about partying. Some even just focus on studying especially struggling students who is barely keeping up with busy schedules. Some even cut their own parties out of their lives. Some of us who graduated high school wanted to control our own social life.

  • @arumirizky4227
    @arumirizky4227 4 года назад +39

    you deserve more views and subscribers

  • @kasatka265
    @kasatka265 4 года назад +4

    Enjoy watching you,giirl!Seems like the talking with my friend🙂

  • @Christixn47
    @Christixn47 4 года назад +16

    I’m going to UC Berkeley for track and field Fall 2020, I do RUclips too and hope we can collab when I get there !! 😁

    • @tylernevala1380
      @tylernevala1380 4 года назад

      BRO CONGRATS i'm trying to do the exact same for fall 21

  • @Kei077
    @Kei077 4 года назад +11

    how do i survive my senior year? I had a breakdown just a few hours ago ( not a dramatic one just the one where you wish you quit school)

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +3

      :( I'm sorry you're having a tough time. if it's any hope --- it's almost over and were getting through it together

    • @Kei077
      @Kei077 4 года назад

      @@AngelicaSong i hope it goes well thank you for responding to me

  • @RosyTa
    @RosyTa 3 года назад +6

    damn this is so crazy bc i really thought i wanted to join a house but knowing my socal ass i will absolutely not take any shit especially abt my identity as a proud asian woman soooo i think i curved a really harsh environment for me 🤧

  • @ravneetrajasansi9094
    @ravneetrajasansi9094 4 года назад +2

    Which houses make up the top-tier houses?

  • @africanlily6107
    @africanlily6107 4 года назад +2

    My name is Angelica too!

  • @hp2546
    @hp2546 5 месяцев назад

    5:35. Some of them that are holding hands, snuggle and stuff, actually, some of them might even be husbands and wives. We live in a current timeline where it won't matter how old they are. Some are old enough to get married. Some of them may of started dating and not at a phrase of getting married. Some of these couples already have kids. Yes. It might be common to see them kissing. More like sometimes. We live in a world where it won't matter if they are in their 20s, 30s, 40, 50s etc. There can be times that even your classmates might attend class bringing their spouse as well.

  • @scoobertdoobert9988
    @scoobertdoobert9988 4 года назад +9

    how do i make my freshman year awesome? also, did you go random with a roommate? finding people on social media is a little intimidating

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +6

      I'll do a freshman tips video! but yes go on FB pages and get to know people -- look for mutual friends or just go wild and do random!

    • @scoobertdoobert9988
      @scoobertdoobert9988 4 года назад

      @@AngelicaSong ahh thank you so much for replying! u a big sister to me

  • @sydneywest7197
    @sydneywest7197 4 года назад +6

    THANK YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS SUGARCOAT THINGS IM AN ADMITTED FRESHMAN AND EVERY WEBINAR I DID FOR ONLINE CAL WEEK WAS SO CHERRYPICKED

  • @haleyshih7573
    @haleyshih7573 4 года назад +4

    oh damn she rly be spilling the tea on hierarchy lmfaoooOOO -- bruh i cant even comment/post on OH w/o offending my friends who are in those clubs kjlsfjkasksksjdfkskssskksksksk

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +1

      :-)

    • @haleyshih7573
      @haleyshih7573 4 года назад

      @@AngelicaSong LOL U RESPONDED WOW UR LESS FLAKIER THAN MY IRL FRIENDS LMFAOOO

  • @unstrung65
    @unstrung65 2 месяца назад

    I'm 76 years old and would like to say , if more young people were like you , I would not be so worried about the future .

  • @denwerOkk
    @denwerOkk Год назад

    Thanks and cheers to you for not using most of drugs.

  • @lewisjones9121
    @lewisjones9121 3 года назад +1

    L O L hahaha my friend is going to america and hes huge into his frat parties

  • @edwardbsa
    @edwardbsa 4 года назад +11

    professors r WILDIN

  • @fridarobinett4737
    @fridarobinett4737 4 года назад +3

    Could you share some tips for off-campus housing?:) I’m going there spring 2021 as a transfer student and don’t know the area:/

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +2

      I would say stick to south side, = more dangerous-ish but more lively, more restaurants and most students live here! this means anywhere on the block between college and shattuck, but no further than parker for end points!

    • @fridarobinett4737
      @fridarobinett4737 4 года назад +1

      Angelica Lauren Song thank you so much!

  • @nhabib114
    @nhabib114 Год назад

    Excellent

  • @amarathenth
    @amarathenth 2 месяца назад

    the way you said ecstasy three times in different ways is KILLING ME (molly, ecstasy and MDMA are the same thing)

  • @Stephaniejmagno
    @Stephaniejmagno 4 года назад +9

    Are American parties the same as the movies? 😅 because it’s really different here in Aus aha

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 года назад +12

    does anyone cheat on their quizzes and tests honest?

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +8

      guess you'll have to watch and find out :D

  • @armenpoghosyan4998
    @armenpoghosyan4998 4 года назад

    Ya its ok im from NOHO we have kids smoking pot during an AP chem test

  • @artculloty121
    @artculloty121 3 года назад

    Can you do a tour of the sports Areas and maybe the rugby part please

  • @shubhamsinha1330
    @shubhamsinha1330 3 года назад +3

    are you asian too....like do you feel connected to your roots ....or just because you are from america and you have lived the american life...you feel american... ❤from Tripura India

  • @Vee___22
    @Vee___22 4 года назад

    Can you make a video on how to make friends?

  • @flyhigh5938
    @flyhigh5938 4 года назад +22

    The drug part completely freaks me out

    • @F3L1XAUG3R
      @F3L1XAUG3R 3 года назад +7

      No reason to be. Party drugs are everywhere in college and generally 20-30 year old late-night scenes (but not exclusively). You can partake in moderation or watch from the sidelines. Both options have their pros and cons.
      That being said... Crack, Meth, Heroin, Oxies, benzos, fentanil... If you see those pop up it's time to bail. Those groups/people trend downwards much faster and aggressively than others due to their hyper-addictive properties. But honestly you kind of have to be looking to find those scenes. They're nowhere near as out-in-the-open as molly/coke.
      Psychedelics (mushrooms, acid.. Etc) are fun and are often a great experience for most (but not all) people. Only do it if you trust the people you're with and know internally that you want to give them a try.
      You'll be fine if you keep a level head.

    • @deancj1
      @deancj1 2 года назад +2

      What's more scary are the stories my partner who grew up in Berkeley told me about when she was still a Berkeley high student attending parties, frat and otherwise. This was a long time ago, maybe things have changed.

    • @drew5681
      @drew5681 2 года назад

      @@deancj1 I live in the area. they have gotten significantly harder for randos or high schoolers to get into they most of the time require a bid and or cal id. I have heard of high school guys that sneak into Berkeley parties. If you’re a girl in high school and you look 18 plus you can probably get in to a lower tier frat party without sneaking in.

  • @alecgoodwin5455
    @alecgoodwin5455 4 года назад +4

    I think it comes down to people just wanting to be in their comfort zone of people that look and talk like them which unfortunately comes across as racist and discriminatory sadly.

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +5

      But I have a thick valley girl ORange county accent lol how come they only wanted to be my friend once they found out about my social media stuff 😎😎😎

    • @alecgoodwin5455
      @alecgoodwin5455 4 года назад

      @@AngelicaSong be like that sometimes. always be the one getting chased, never the chaser.

  • @jacob9673
    @jacob9673 4 года назад +8

    If you go for engineering or pre med you’re a lot less likely to have the time to do all this. You’ll also probably be more likely to be successful so be warned. There is ALOT less time for partying and that social scene, and grading is much harder.

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад +28

      dont make blanket statements; im pre-med and still had time to do it all. my engineering friends some of them go ham too and still get A's. just because you couldn't do both doesnt mean others cant. oh also some of my business friends make more than engineering/premed so that's also debunked.

  • @sahandsanaei555
    @sahandsanaei555 2 года назад

    …yes, yes, yes😂

  • @NikolaSekuloski
    @NikolaSekuloski 3 года назад

    Do outdoors video

  • @SumanSingh-lt2xz
    @SumanSingh-lt2xz 3 года назад

    Do you gave indians their do people treat them equally do they have friends?

  • @faysmith1724
    @faysmith1724 4 года назад +6

    LSD is acid baby

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад

      Like I said i probably repeate myself

    • @faysmith1724
      @faysmith1724 4 года назад

      Angelica Lauren Song No I’m not hating I just wanna help you know

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 года назад +1

    Are the online quizzes and tests proctored? Only at this school or any other schools you know? Can I cheat on my online quizzes and tests

    • @juliananguyen
      @juliananguyen 4 года назад

      at berkeley they were recently banned from holding online proctoring, but i know other colleges still hold online proctoring :)

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 года назад

      Juliana Nguyen sources? You go? Are they banned from proctoring for spring and summer? Or spring only? And for the future or only for now because of everything going on? You have friends in other schools and do they mention if it's promoters? So I can use quizlet and chegg on my online uc berkeley tests? :)

    • @aidantan8312
      @aidantan8312 4 года назад

      ​@@TechVHD if you wanna cheat just cheat. No one is stopping you. There is 0 benefit to cheating in college lol, if companies hire you for your work ethic and good gpa and its just fabricated from cheating then how will you perform. Just work hard.

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 года назад

      Aidan Tan I’m talking about online only though, and you can’t cheat when it’s with a proctor online which is when someone is watching you take the test online, which is why I’m asking are the classes that are online, whether they are proctored or not

    • @aidantan8312
      @aidantan8312 4 года назад

      @@TechVHD They arent proctored. The person above said they areny allowed to proctor. You arent usually allowed to use forums/chegg/stack overflow. But they cant stop you. It's just up to your morals.

  • @Wonkyslush000
    @Wonkyslush000 3 года назад +2

    You can and should be upset with hierarchies

  • @itsjanetlee
    @itsjanetlee 4 года назад +3

    omg girll cocaine is a big bay area drug hahaha

  • @pinkchihua
    @pinkchihua 4 года назад +1

    I’m mostly white but I’m not American. I wonder how that will turn out 🤷‍♀️

    • @aksha5wa7ed
      @aksha5wa7ed 4 года назад +2

      Oh you'd be their diversity token

    • @pinkchihua
      @pinkchihua 4 года назад

      AF lol

    • @leahclayfield7271
      @leahclayfield7271 4 года назад +4

      You’re white? You’ll be fine lmao

    • @pinkchihua
      @pinkchihua 4 года назад

      Leah Clayfield ehhh I consider myself to be white but super white people might consider me to be diverse. Sometimes people assume I’m mixed but really I just have a black great grandparent or something. I dunno how Americans would react.

    • @leahclayfield7271
      @leahclayfield7271 4 года назад

      pinkchihua Sororities tend to choose white girls with eurocentric features

  • @iniaksjen800
    @iniaksjen800 4 года назад +3

    Hi angie . Do u have a LinkedIn ??? I was hoping to connect with u there but wasn't. Don't forget me when u reach 500k or even 1 million subs . I discovered u by your guessing majors vid when u popped in my recommendations. I have been on RUclips since 2008 ( made account on it just recently) and then u came along . May God bless uncle Sam and asians . Kickin' asses all around the globe . By the way lots of love from INDIA .❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰 . You will be a hit among INDIANS .

  • @mchlle94
    @mchlle94 3 года назад

    I think the hierarchy part is weird..That's very American I guess

  • @debbieg5669
    @debbieg5669 4 года назад

    GO OFF! BITCHES DO TURN INTO FANS!!!!

  • @u.sdepartmentofjustice2269
    @u.sdepartmentofjustice2269 2 года назад

    I’m religious lol wish me luck boys and girls

  • @elizabethl3685
    @elizabethl3685 4 года назад +3

    not to be like those superficial rush girls LMAO but could u make a video ab google/internship search in general/preprofessional type clubs in college

    • @elizabethl3685
      @elizabethl3685 4 года назад

      also i love this video! glad i found ur channel

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад

      Yes once I get started with my internship this summer I’ll be super excited to share with you all! I wanted to share with you all anyways ❤️❤️

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 года назад

      Yes once I get started with my internship this summer I’ll be super excited to share with you all! I wanted to share with you all anyways ❤️❤️

  • @Terrencetulani
    @Terrencetulani 2 года назад

    The FBI want an interview with you ma'am

  • @gwyneverehunger2647
    @gwyneverehunger2647 4 года назад

    LOL

  • @devchatterjee6553
    @devchatterjee6553 3 года назад

    F

  • @huilinwang9611
    @huilinwang9611 2 года назад

    I knew you are American the first time