There is something unique about this lady, she doesn’t even look like what she’s been through. She has a lot to offer, I pray it unfolds faster than she imagine. Thank God for your healing.
My God!back in lokoja(phase 1) I knew her as a kid, I’m friends with her elder brother. Even at a very tender age she showed strong signs of being a very very strong woman one that is full of potentials❤ I pray you completely heal.
Apiostle pleaase, if you can see this comment, this woman is an asset, a deliverer to help a certain group of voiceless and helpless people. Please teach her , so that she can heal and develop capacity.
I'm surprised she didn't cry saying this. She has really shedded a lot of tears. I love you Ufedo. May God continue to help you through your husband to be. Now I know I didn't see half of what you went through.
Her mystery has become her ministry. Her ministry is birthed through her trials and temptation. Watch out for this lady. God is going to use her to liberate many from the confinement of the devil.
This podcast is amazing. I learnt a lot from your story ma. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us... It's a blessing to see how much God's healing and love can remodel us
I love how she's able to tell her story so confidently And people who are mostly abused for some reason I am yet to delve into, are emotionally attached to their abusers So it's very understandable And thank you Apostle Lazarus for helping this woman God bless you too for sharing your story Woman of God
She's literally literally telling my story! Almost lost my husband due to trauma. Kai! This lady is saying how healing story! I just don't even have words. Thank you Jesus for healing, thank you Apostle for teaching on this
God in himself has made me to discover this channel this day. This episode is what am truly going through, am in an abusive marriage which have produced 3 beautiful daughters, but God has helped me today to believe in myself and know that thjs relationship is wrong and pray God to smoothly pull me out and keep me and my children. Thank you for sharing
I listened to this,had a family fellowship shortly after and as we sang There's healing in the blood of Jesus such power gushed through the phone call...20 minutes we couldn't talk.Jesus really came to heal us.I know I am healed ..I have been healing and I know today for sure desolations of many generations have been restored in my life and my family. God bless you Apostle Femi Lazarus and Ufe.. Thanks galore
Thank you for allowing her to tell her story without punctuating it with questions. Your questions on this video were well timed and it gave her the opportunity to pour her heart out. Thank you for making the change from the other woman Evangelist video. God bless you brother for what you are doing.
Healing is a vital part of a dysfunctional life. This story made me realise that I also need to heal from my dysfunctional background. Now, mine is not as worse as hers, but I thank God for helping her heal at the end of the day. Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. You are indeed a blessing to this generation.
An environment where the GOSPEL is preached snd taught comes with liberation and healing. Thank God for Pastors and Teachers of the Gospel. God bless you.
The battle you have faced is because of the grace you carry. It's a dangerous grace, it scares the kingdom of darkness. But your light has come! They've thrown their best punch, but now is your turn: SCATTER EVERYTHING, MAKE THE DEVIL CRY! SHINE FOR GOD'S GLORY!!!
I was going to learn n I changed on this video and it's almost like my life story for the past 23yrs of loose my parents as a pupil,and I know there's an end to it because healing has come to the glory of God,thank u Bishop for being a good Man of God.
I literally cried watching her speak. This is a lot, coming from a functional loving home is a big win. May the Lord help us to be better and be the best for our kids. Amen
Wowwww, if u have a lovely family, no quarrelling no fighting, just be grateful to God... Thank God for your life... Your life is indeed a testimony❤❤❤
OMG, listening to all you went through brought tears from my eyes 😢 I'm like, "you mean someone actually went through all these, and she's still living?" You're indeed a strong and destined Woman. And a woman of purpose. God bless your Husband. And may your love for each other continue to grow. Thank God for coming through and pulling strong from all those things. Thank God for your permanent healing.
Despite that I came from a home where my parents did not practice the same religion, I still experienced love and there was peace no contradiction. I give God the glory. And I pray for my sister who just shared her story, that the lord will heal you completely because you have conquered the devil. Shalom!
I saw a piece of this on Instagram and came right here ❤ ... This is so deep and to hear the girl put all these things into the right words takes tons of healing. Glad she made it .. Thanks to the pastor who brought this out in a beautiful 🎉 way with healing 😍..
And one thing I really love about this lady is that she is so real in everything she says. She does not try to hide some aspects of her in the past. That is a thing to congratulate
Thank you. I’m a Jamaican living in the UK. I have been trying to understand me for a while. God has been healing me and this is another layer of wisdom I didn’t understand. Thanks you both. I am so proud of your honesty.
She had cried so much that she no longer has any tears left in her eyes. I mean how could you not shed a single drop of tears, narrating this story? Thanks to God for His healing power.
This lady said if she start talking she will go on and won’t repeat herself, truly she has been through a lot I hope she finds the healing she deserves
Waaoooohhh! Electrifying words right there. God be praised for the healing Ufedo has gotten. I can't wait for the TIME i will tell my own story... Cos kaii! you see, my own story ehnnn, it's in another level entirely ni faa, hmmmm. Gather here! if you come from a home where you have a seriously toxic, abusive & alcohol addicted father with a combo of a Mother in Israel who loves the Lord and really wants to serve him. Although he's late for about 20yrs+ ago but i can still remember clearly how he abused my mum and we the children.
This just reminds me of the gracious Father we have🤭🥰 People may look and say, "is this one a Christian? This one that curses at the slightest provocation or this one that is so bitter, bla bla bla", but that's not how our Father sees us, He's so loving, so patient, waiting for the perfect time to fix us 🥹 When you think what you're going through is too much, and then you hear someone else's experience 😂😂😂 My God!! I have drawn strength from this 😌 Thank you so much ma for sharing your experiences with us and thank you Apostle for hosting this❤️
@@augustinaoluchi1902 You know sometimes we cry not Because we are not yet healed, we cry because we remember what we passed through even though we have been healed.
Her beauty is something else like there is this aura❤ around her. Feels like everyone have got to know her. You are blessed my dear. May God heal you and heal your relatives too
Her message is so profound! Thank you so much for putting it out there. Hearing her story will bring healing to a lot of people. God bless she and her fiancé!
I didn't know when I started crying. I could relate with many of the things this lady talked about. Imagine getting to the point of simply accepting ill treatment and abuse from people as part of life, just because those who were supposed to protect and set the standards failed us. A man once told me that I am too masculine and defensive to be a lady😂😂. I laughed it off because I know he would not understand if I told him that being like that is the only way I know how to protect and defend myself. Unfortunately, not ever on is emotionally intelligent enough to identify or understand trauma and the effect it has on an individual. Thank you pastor 🙏. May God bless and you because this generation needs you. God bless you my sister, I have learnt so much from your story today and I pray that someday, I will have the courage like you, to share mine with others.
This is one reason I don't judge people who don't behave the way an adult is ought to behave because I don't know how their childhood experiences are or their life experiences is... Thank God for the healing process, you are a testimony Ma
What a testimony! My friend came from an abusive background she married a good man. She was so grateful and fit right in although she struggled she never became abusive or had hatred to this level. She was blessed to have such a man full of kindness and love
Please don't rush her to part Two. Help her heal before the wedding. So the guy will not suffer. The guy is her strong point. Thanks to you Pastor for being her Father. Please don't leave her.
I was so engrossed watching this story and what amaze me is she didn’t look like what she go through. Grace has found you and God will expand you. Thank you PASTOR FEMI LAZARUS
Pastor femi God bless you sir, i can relate with this lady omo pain is heavy oh, mine came with asthma effects like i had an inhaler for almost 5 years and i could enter mini coma like pass out for two to three days under oxygen tanks as a result of groaning.. i gradually started hallucinating too and survived suicide in 2023 but thank God for saving me before my parents understood how severe i needed help, i have had 2 therapy sessions in the last 3 years and to be honest it didn't work for me till i started listening to persons like APOSTLE JOSHUA SELMAN, PASTOR FEMI LAZARUS and i also joined NSPPD Prayers . i know that i will still tell my story one day but till then thank you sir for all you do God bless
You'll never understand her pains if you've never been in this position... I vowed to never give birth outside marriage because I had a terrible childhood. Lord we thank you for healing. Thank you Apostle.
Apostle Sir, thank you for saying yes to the Lord and being a blessing to us. To our beautiful guest, indeed the Lord has preserved you for a great assignment. Keep being strong Dear Sis.
In my life there has always been two narratives. For every small mistake, my mother would scream so loud and tell me that I am a disappointment. Another narrative was that I was smart and people around me always said I would do great things. I am an adult now trying to make something of myself but feeling like a failure because i believed my mother. The way parents treat us has such a huge impact on our lives and I pray that we all find a way to heal and to believe what God says about us above every lie of the enemy.❤
I cried and cried, I thank God for the message of healing from dysfunctional background, even though I haven't healed fully but I see a great change in my life
One of the reasons Apostle will always be my favourite. Always digging to the root, rather than just judge blindly. Thank you so much for such an amazing time. Thank you for bringing us this opportunity, thank you so much for sharing, my beautiful sister. May God perfect your healing. God bless you, ma and sir❤
Hmmm You can never bring healing to people when you are yet to get healed. You must get healed first before healing can flow from you to others no matter how much you wish or desire to see people healed, healing must start with you. Thank you so much sir and ma. You will never be short if wisdom in Jesus name.
This is literally 60% of my life story 😭😩but then we have a GREAT GOD that never forsakes or abandons us 🙌😇Grateful that he was working behind the scenes 😩❤️🤲
I intentionally came to RUclips to look for this video. The confidence that a person has after being able to successfully come out of of a dark place and face your demons is unmatched, you can feel the emotions as she talks about it. See ehh no matter how bad your situation is , God still performs wonders.
Since God delivered me from an abusive relationship 5years ago, I can say Jesus is still working on me, he's still healing me, ohhhh the trauma, anxiety is a lot, I'm from a loving family but a strict christian home, so I was scared to speak up because I'm not supposed to be "dating" in the first place, oh I suffered in silence for 4years, I almost ran mad, but Jesus is so good, the only part that is difficult is for me is to forget everything, I just want God to wipe the memories off.
Hmmmm.... I have a lot to say but I just can't speak. Those who grew up in non-toxic homes don't know what God has done for them. Thank you, Sir for this episode and for those reassuring eminders you gave towards the end of the video.
Alot to learn from her story. Watch out for patterns in families. She said her sister is currently experiencing mental issues. But thank God for the blood of JESUS who blots out every ordinance written against us.
This speaks so much about me, being raised from a toxic home, being in a toxic where I was abused. One thing about trauma is that you will end up bleeding on people who never cause you pain. Thank God for this podcast, and I thank God for my healing journey. I am still trusting the process, and I can't wait to be whole again
This babe has cried all the tears in her, she has none again to shed. That is why she can say all these without a tear, while i the listen is filled with tears
I now understand me now listening to this lady Haaa I need to speak up too These old her she talked about is just me This is how I'm God of my father I need this healing 🙏 My heart is so heavy And it makes me so abusive Always cursing Bad mouthing Been through a lot God pls heal me like this I'm happy for u sis ❤ Take ur flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
I could tell she faced alot like a whole lot that if many had experienced they would have died and not survived it but she was really preserved and strengthened.... She is really strong and has such a powerful grace... The most beautiful part of this story that fascinates me is her husband ... Not many men I mean believers and MOG's can ever accept to stay through with such women, even knowing she is still in process and being worked on....instead If you ask them they'll always say they want the good submissive ones from a good or pastoral background that will give them peace of mind. I would really love to hear from him his own part and how he accepted her to be his wife... because he is such a great hero and a real MOG. He did what many can never do... Many of us feel undeserving of good men like him because of what we had gone through... Lord please renew and transform our mind 🙏 I really celebrate her and her story this is so miraculous of God. And may God bless us with good spouses beyond our imagination by his mercies and grace.
Hmmmm, I congratulate you for someone holding your hand into your healing. I am holding myself by myself, but I am determined to heal somehow, trusting God to help me. I hope that someday I will be able to use my story to help the world (I mean my kind in the world) I pray for total healing for you, and I wish myself the same.
Thousands of women or ladies are in abusive relationships and marriages. Coming from a dysfunction home sometimes both parents are together and the children can't see them in love. It is not only a female child that needs good upbringing, for our society to be fine male child needs to be trained as well. Thank you for sharing your story.
I pray my husband and I can heal from whatever childhood trauma we have been through so that we may build a beautiful environment for our children. I trust the Lord Jesus Christ will see us through. Thank you for this podcast🙏
Thank You Jesus. Thank you Apostle for yielding to God. Thank you Moses. I know your family esp. Joseph & Tina.....I truly salute you & God's grace on your life.
Her story truly resonates. I suffered the same, but I am thankful for God's Grace and to the man I married who sees beyond all my flaws. I pray that God continues His healing in all of us.
I just discovered weeks ago that a lot of people didn't have a "normal" upbringing and it plays a major part on how they turn out as adults. Lord have mercy 🙏.....I honestly pray that people get to heal from all this experiences.
Her story almost like mine,😢 i shed tears listening to her, grew up seeing my dad hitting my mum and now that I’m in very healthy relationship i sometimes try to push my partner to hit me, but God gave me the most calmest man, loving and caring he understands me more than I understand myself. With him I’m experiencing another level of love and healing
God has a very strong calling on her life. Im happy she encountered Apostle and his ministry. She has a story and a ministry in her. So many children have gone through things that their parents have no clue about. May we be praying parents. We also need to be emotionally, mentally, and psychologically available for our children and even others around that we discern something is going on with. I'm glad she had the platform to speak out. This story needed to be told, and it will grant her release. Anyone going through abuse, please leave. It is not love, confide in people.
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Many interviewer needs to learn from pastor Lazarus
Listen more and let your guests talk
God bless you sir
Exactly
I agree especially Nedu Wazobia
Lots of improvement from the first interview 😊
😂@@RealMoneyBaddie
Exactly what I was just saying!!! They interrupt too often.
There is something unique about this lady, she doesn’t even look like what she’s been through. She has a lot to offer, I pray it unfolds faster than she imagine. Thank God for your healing.
Honestly! My thought.
Thank God for Her Husband
So so true
The power of healing 😢
My thoughts exactly, she is speaking as if she didn't experience it😢
If you come from a godly home you honestly do not know what God did to you. That's your first great blessing.
Honestly
It's depends on what you refer to godly, some parents love God but don't give attention to their children.
Yes ooo
That's the first blessing they are enjoying
And we owe it to perpuate the godly cycle and also to be emotionally available to our children.
So true 🎉
Truly, we need to meet her fiance and shake or hug him. The guy is amazing. He needs to be studied. Let him come and teach us.
Don't pretend like you don't see this, may your mom live more than 80 years ❤️
Amen
AMEN
May I live more than 80 years old. Amen. I lost my Mum 10 years ago
Amen!
Amen 🙏
Had to watched d full video all d way from tictok. I’m a muslim but this pastor is really wat all people want as their spiritual guidance
To be honest
God bless u.
Yes oooo
He’s my therapist🥰
Wisdom no go kiii u
Same here@@oduolaoluwakemisola8771
My God!back in lokoja(phase 1) I knew her as a kid, I’m friends with her elder brother.
Even at a very tender age she showed strong signs of being a very very strong woman one that is full of potentials❤ I pray you completely heal.
Wow thank God
The kind of podcast we need in this generation
Yes you’re making sense
Absolutely
Exactly 💯
Apiostle pleaase, if you can see this comment, this woman is an asset, a deliverer to help a certain group of voiceless and helpless people. Please teach her , so that she can heal and develop capacity.
I'm surprised she didn't cry saying this. She has really shedded a lot of tears.
I love you Ufedo. May God continue to help you through your husband to be.
Now I know I didn't see half of what you went through.
She's literally telling my story. Thank God for growth and healing. No more wanting to revenge. My healing will be perfected IN Jesus name amen
Amen..
Note: please love yourself okay
Amen
❤❤❤
❤❤❤
Amen
If you’re coming from instagram gather here
From IG
Lol I ran straight from the reel😅
Yes ooo we are here
lol from IG
From ig i saw it yesterday
She mentioned earlier that she will tell her story without repeating lines. Guyyys, she was right! She didn’t repeat any. This woman saw a lot 😢
Honestly
That shows she's intelligent.. she take caution of every bit of her words coming out from her mouth.
😢all under 18.. omoooo
Honestly
@@sarahachi-xi1thfrrr
In this life, you need Jesus, a good church, a good pastor and good relationships.
Honestly!!
Yes oh...
In this world …
Unfortunately, I don't have any of those except christ!
You nailed it ooooo
Her mystery has become her ministry. Her ministry is birthed through her trials and temptation. Watch out for this lady. God is going to use her to liberate many from the confinement of the devil.
Amen
Dear Pastor Femi Lazarus, Thank you, sir for saying YES to the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Thank God for him truly😢
Her husband should be appreciated.
Seriously ❤❤
Why ?
He’s a good man indeed
God bless him
This young woman is obviously gifted and talented and the devil tried to take her out early . I see her wining multitudes and to Christ
This podcast is amazing. I learnt a lot from your story ma. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us... It's a blessing to see how much God's healing and love can remodel us
I love how she's able to tell her story so confidently
And people who are mostly abused for some reason I am yet to delve into, are emotionally attached to their abusers
So it's very understandable
And thank you Apostle Lazarus for helping this woman
God bless you too for sharing your story Woman of God
Truly the devil is in trouble!!! This woman is emerging and there's nothing that loser can do! Thank you Jesus ❤
He picks the broken, mends it lovely and use it for His Glory.
Amen
Amen
Glory to God
Amennnnnn
She's literally literally telling my story!
Almost lost my husband due to trauma.
Kai! This lady is saying how healing story!
I just don't even have words.
Thank you Jesus for healing, thank you Apostle for teaching on this
God in himself has made me to discover this channel this day.
This episode is what am truly going through, am in an abusive marriage which have produced 3 beautiful daughters, but God has helped me today to believe in myself and know that thjs relationship is wrong and pray God to smoothly pull me out and keep me and my children.
Thank you for sharing
I listened to this,had a family fellowship shortly after and as we sang There's healing in the blood of Jesus such power gushed through the phone call...20 minutes we couldn't talk.Jesus really came to heal us.I know I am healed ..I have been healing and I know today for sure desolations of many generations have been restored in my life and my family.
God bless you Apostle Femi Lazarus and Ufe..
Thanks galore
Thank you for allowing her to tell her story without punctuating it with questions. Your questions on this video were well timed and it gave her the opportunity to pour her heart out. Thank you for making the change from the other woman Evangelist video. God bless you brother for what you are doing.
Her husband was the therapy God sent to her😢.
Honestly
Healing is a vital part of a dysfunctional life. This story made me realise that I also need to heal from my dysfunctional background. Now, mine is not as worse as hers, but I thank God for helping her heal at the end of the day.
Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. You are indeed a blessing to this generation.
Check apostle’s page he has a message on dysfunctional background it will really bless you
When I tell people that I've never heard my parents raise their voices at eachother, they tell me it's not possible.
People need healing 😢
Hmmmm
When i tell people this too, they don’t believe me. Until my mum passed away, i never saw her and my father raise voices at each other.
@@amarachinwachukwu6028 so sorry for your loss dear
@@amarachinwachukwu6028same here
Dear God, I pray for a marriage void of quarrels and troubles.
I pray for a peaceful and happy home
An environment where the GOSPEL is preached snd taught comes with liberation and healing.
Thank God for Pastors and Teachers of the Gospel. God bless you.
The battle you have faced is because of the grace you carry. It's a dangerous grace, it scares the kingdom of darkness. But your light has come! They've thrown their best punch, but now is your turn: SCATTER EVERYTHING, MAKE THE DEVIL CRY! SHINE FOR GOD'S GLORY!!!
Ohhh thank you!!! I receive it in Jesus name 😢
I shine for God's glory
Best comment. Pls like, I must come back for this revelation
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I was going to learn n I changed on this video and it's almost like my life story for the past 23yrs of loose my parents as a pupil,and I know there's an end to it because healing has come to the glory of God,thank u Bishop for being a good Man of God.
I literally cried watching her speak. This is a lot, coming from a functional loving home is a big win. May the Lord help us to be better and be the best for our kids. Amen
Wowwww, if u have a lovely family, no quarrelling no fighting, just be grateful to God... Thank God for your life... Your life is indeed a testimony❤❤❤
OMG, listening to all you went through brought tears from my eyes 😢
I'm like, "you mean someone actually went through all these, and she's still living?"
You're indeed a strong and destined Woman.
And a woman of purpose.
God bless your Husband. And may your love for each other continue to grow. Thank God for coming through and pulling strong from all those things. Thank God for your permanent healing.
Despite that I came from a home where my parents did not practice the same religion, I still experienced love and there was peace no contradiction. I give God the glory. And I pray for my sister who just shared her story, that the lord will heal you completely because you have conquered the devil. Shalom!
I saw a piece of this on Instagram and came right here ❤ ... This is so deep and to hear the girl put all these things into the right words takes tons of healing. Glad she made it .. Thanks to the pastor who brought this out in a beautiful 🎉 way with healing 😍..
Same here! Patiently waiting
Even me too@@hansiaessuman3188
True
And one thing I really love about this lady is that she is so real in everything she says. She does not try to hide some aspects of her in the past. That is a thing to congratulate
Her maths teacher that paid for her weac, was my teacher too. He use to talk about her. Mr Okehi
Oh wow!
Mr. Okechi needs to be awarded
Please we need to give him something. I wish I can reach him
He needs to be rewarded ooo
If you have Mr okechi's, contact share it he needs to be encouraged and appreciated
She's so beautiful.
A happy life looks good on you. You're full of life and beauty 🥰
Thank you. I’m a Jamaican living in the UK. I have been trying to understand me for a while. God has been healing me and this is another layer of wisdom I didn’t understand. Thanks you both. I am so proud of your honesty.
You're really a conqueror
You will never know pain again
God bless you, Pastor Lazarus
She is indeed
She had cried so much that she no longer has any tears left in her eyes. I mean how could you not shed a single drop of tears, narrating this story? Thanks to God for His healing power.
Likee..i myself was crying listening to her story😢
@@ehirimgoodness824I couldn't describe the way I felt listening to her story.
I tell u😢😢😢
This lady said if she start talking she will go on and won’t repeat herself, truly she has been through a lot I hope she finds the healing she deserves
Waaoooohhh! Electrifying words right there. God be praised for the healing Ufedo has gotten. I can't wait for the TIME i will tell my own story... Cos kaii! you see, my own story ehnnn, it's in another level entirely ni faa, hmmmm. Gather here! if you come from a home where you have a seriously toxic, abusive & alcohol addicted father with a combo of a Mother in Israel who loves the Lord and really wants to serve him. Although he's late for about 20yrs+ ago but i can still remember clearly how he abused my mum and we the children.
I am so in love with this lady. She’s born with a purpose. She is a message to this generation
This just reminds me of the gracious Father we have🤭🥰
People may look and say, "is this one a Christian? This one that curses at the slightest provocation or this one that is so bitter, bla bla bla", but that's not how our Father sees us, He's so loving, so patient, waiting for the perfect time to fix us 🥹
When you think what you're going through is too much, and then you hear someone else's experience 😂😂😂 My God!! I have drawn strength from this 😌
Thank you so much ma for sharing your experiences with us and thank you Apostle for hosting this❤️
I was going to just scroll by but I'm glad I didn't. You have no idea how this comment has touched something in me
The fact that she shared all of these without shedding tears amazed me. She has cried alot in the past truly.
She has been healed,that is the sign.Crying and shedding of tears is a sign that the pain is still there.
My dear, I am here doing the crying. My thoughts too
@@augustinaoluchi1902 Hmmmm that might be true.
@@augustinaoluchi1902 You know sometimes we cry not Because we are not yet healed, we cry because we remember what we passed through even though we have been healed.
Honestly she tried...I was literally crying while watching
Her beauty is something else like there is this aura❤ around her. Feels like everyone have got to know her. You are blessed my dear. May God heal you and heal your relatives too
Her message is so profound!
Thank you so much for putting it out there.
Hearing her story will bring healing to a lot of people.
God bless she and her fiancé!
Who else noticed;? that whenever she gets to a happy memory she smiles🥲
I noticed that too 😢😢who no like peace and beautiful memories
It's a psychological thing. My therapist said I also did that in our first sessions
@@kaysiechinere7285WOW
@@chunadine7795 yeah
I noticed that especially when she mentioned about her math's teacher ,how he paid her fees and later smiles saying "he is a good man".
I didn't know when I started crying. I could relate with many of the things this lady talked about.
Imagine getting to the point of simply accepting ill treatment and abuse from people as part of life, just because those who were supposed to protect and set the standards failed us.
A man once told me that I am too masculine and defensive to be a lady😂😂. I laughed it off because I know he would not understand if I told him that being like that is the only way I know how to protect and defend myself. Unfortunately, not ever on is emotionally intelligent enough to identify or understand trauma and the effect it has on an individual.
Thank you pastor 🙏. May God bless and you because this generation needs you.
God bless you my sister, I have learnt so much from your story today and I pray that someday, I will have the courage like you, to share mine with others.
I need this healing ,like my comment so I come back here .Thank you ❤
I pray God give you the strength to push through. Love n light ❤
Desiring it is the first step, God will perfect it all . Amen 🙏
May God heal you Speedily ❤Amen
A lot of girls go through abuse and live with the trauma without proper healing.
May God heal you
Dear Lord let me and my husband be there for our children.
This is one reason I don't judge people who don't behave the way an adult is ought to behave because I don't know how their childhood experiences are or their life experiences is... Thank God for the healing process, you are a testimony Ma
What a testimony! My friend came from an abusive background she married a good man. She was so grateful and fit right in although she struggled she never became abusive or had hatred to this level. She was blessed to have such a man full of kindness and love
The Ministry of Fatherhood is something we need to take serious
this comment...
How broken pastor Femi is just shows how his heart is full of love..
❤❤ ,🇿🇲🇿🇲
Please don't rush her to part Two. Help her heal before the wedding. So the guy will not suffer. The guy is her strong point. Thanks to you Pastor for being her Father. Please don't leave her.
I agreeeeee
Thank you, you said my mind.
She needs more time to heal better. She has gone through to much for her age. God will completely heal her in Jesus name
GOD abegggggg!
Mrs Ufedo May God preserve you and your fiancee with longife and every good thing from above and bless you with a loving home
Pastor Lazarus: of a truth a generation has risen. Thanks for yielding to this call of healing. I believe many souls and homes will be blessed
I was so engrossed watching this story and what amaze me is she didn’t look like what she go through. Grace has found you and God will expand you. Thank you PASTOR FEMI LAZARUS
She's seen a whoooooole lot! I mean, she's not even tearing up. I'm all teary just watching this.
Cried a whole river
She don cry finish in this life...Tears don finish😢
Feels like she is telling a lot of people's stories.
I prayer we experience and also encounter the healing we deserve.
Amen
Honestly, how won't you tear up with this kind of story?
Pastor femi God bless you sir, i can relate with this lady omo pain is heavy oh, mine came with asthma effects like i had an inhaler for almost 5 years and i could enter mini coma like pass out for two to three days under oxygen tanks as a result of groaning.. i gradually started hallucinating too and survived suicide in 2023 but thank God for saving me before my parents understood how severe i needed help, i have had 2 therapy sessions in the last 3 years and to be honest it didn't work for me till i started listening to persons like APOSTLE JOSHUA SELMAN, PASTOR FEMI LAZARUS and i also joined NSPPD Prayers . i know that i will still tell my story one day but till then thank you sir for all you do God bless
Keep staying in the WORD. Hugs 🤗
This is the first time i watch a podcast from beginning to end. My heart goes out to everyone facing this challenge.
" every single person I ever trusted have brought me pain". This hit me real bad😢.
I wish to heal
U will ok just believe
I pray that heal in the name of Jesus Christ amen ❤
You'll never understand her pains if you've never been in this position... I vowed to never give birth outside marriage because I had a terrible childhood. Lord we thank you for healing. Thank you Apostle.
Right
Same here 😭
My dear, u will have a good marriage. U can give birth in marriage and still suffer but that's not ur portion. U will marry, and marry well.
God will honour your prayers in Jesus mighty name Amen
Same journey. I am 36 this year still trusting God for marriage in order not to repeat family pattern
God will make a way for us
Kudos to the man who took to walking you through this healing. I wish there are more people like that.
This lady is still healing. I pray God makes her completely whole.
Apostle Sir, thank you for saying yes to the Lord and being a blessing to us.
To our beautiful guest, indeed the Lord has preserved you for a great assignment. Keep being strong Dear Sis.
In my life there has always been two narratives. For every small mistake, my mother would scream so loud and tell me that I am a disappointment. Another narrative was that I was smart and people around me always said I would do great things. I am an adult now trying to make something of myself but feeling like a failure because i believed my mother. The way parents treat us has such a huge impact on our lives and I pray that we all find a way to heal and to believe what God says about us above every lie of the enemy.❤
Same here, my mummy could shout at me, call me bad names, but five years ago she's trying to correct it, but am still trying to come around
Don't allow those words gets to you
I'm a survivor of something similar from my mom
How she did not drop a tear😢😢😢while sharing her story 🥺🥺hmmmmm
Such a strong woman…God will continue to heal you ma🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹
I cried and cried, I thank God for the message of healing from dysfunctional background, even though I haven't healed fully but I see a great change in my life
One of the reasons Apostle will always be my favourite. Always digging to the root, rather than just judge blindly. Thank you so much for such an amazing time. Thank you for bringing us this opportunity, thank you so much for sharing, my beautiful sister. May God perfect your healing. God bless you, ma and sir❤
Hmmm
You can never bring healing to people when you are yet to get healed.
You must get healed first before healing can flow from you to others no matter how much you wish or desire to see people healed, healing must start with you.
Thank you so much sir and ma.
You will never be short if wisdom in Jesus name.
This is literally 60% of my life story 😭😩but then we have a GREAT GOD that never forsakes or abandons us 🙌😇Grateful that he was working behind the scenes 😩❤️🤲
40% of what I went through. The only way is to fine Jesus. Thank for God...
I intentionally came to RUclips to look for this video.
The confidence that a person has after being able to successfully come out of of a dark place and face your demons is unmatched, you can feel the emotions as she talks about it. See ehh no matter how bad your situation is , God still performs wonders.
Since God delivered me from an abusive relationship 5years ago, I can say Jesus is still working on me, he's still healing me, ohhhh the trauma, anxiety is a lot, I'm from a loving family but a strict christian home, so I was scared to speak up because I'm not supposed to be "dating" in the first place, oh I suffered in silence for 4years, I almost ran mad, but Jesus is so good, the only part that is difficult is for me is to forget everything, I just want God to wipe the memories off.
I pray God surrounds you with His love 🎉🎉 Keep feeding your mind with God's word. And just believing He loves you.....the memory fades with time.
@@favouregbe7299 Thank you so much
God will perfect your healing
@@Donmykeinterior Amen 🙏
I pray God comforts your heart and fill your heart with his love ❤❤
Dear Pastor Femi Lazarus sir, Thank you for pick your call to ministry.
God bless you sir.❤
It’s the way she smiled through this … sweet sweet girl. May God heal your heart and your pain dear one. ❤️
I can't even work, I leave work to concentrate on this video. God!!
Hmmmm.... I have a lot to say but I just can't speak. Those who grew up in non-toxic homes don't know what God has done for them. Thank you, Sir for this episode and for those reassuring eminders you gave towards the end of the video.
Alot to learn from her story. Watch out for patterns in families. She said her sister is currently experiencing mental issues. But thank God for the blood of JESUS who blots out every ordinance written against us.
Thank you, Apostle Femi Lazarus 😢❤. Thank you for accepting the call of God and staying true to your calling. You're healing a generation 😢😢😢
This speaks so much about me, being raised from a toxic home, being in a toxic where I was abused. One thing about trauma is that you will end up bleeding on people who never cause you pain. Thank God for this podcast, and I thank God for my healing journey. I am still trusting the process, and I can't wait to be whole again
God bless you, dear.
This babe has cried all the tears in her, she has none again to shed. That is why she can say all these without a tear, while i the listen is filled with tears
honestly 😭
I’m happy she met a good man, God is good.
I now understand me now listening to this lady
Haaa
I need to speak up too
These old her she talked about is just me
This is how I'm
God of my father
I need this healing 🙏
My heart is so heavy
And it makes me so abusive
Always cursing
Bad mouthing
Been through a lot
God pls heal me like this
I'm happy for u sis ❤
Take ur flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Please get professional help. Therapy. If you can. God will help you.
Wow,I cannot believe someone can go through this kind of pain and torment,but then,I know I relate very well to this story.Thank God for Jesus.
I could tell she faced alot like a whole lot that if many had experienced they would have died and not survived it but she was really preserved and strengthened....
She is really strong and has such a powerful grace...
The most beautiful part of this story that fascinates me is her husband ... Not many men I mean believers and MOG's can ever accept to stay through with such women, even knowing she is still in process and being worked on....instead If you ask them they'll always say they want the good submissive ones from a good or pastoral background that will give them peace of mind.
I would really love to hear from him his own part and how he accepted her to be his wife... because he is such a great hero and a real MOG. He did what many can never do...
Many of us feel undeserving of good men like him because of what we had gone through... Lord please renew and transform our mind 🙏
I really celebrate her and her story this is so miraculous of God. And may God bless us with good spouses beyond our imagination by his mercies and grace.
Hmmmm, I congratulate you for someone holding your hand into your healing. I am holding myself by myself, but I am determined to heal somehow, trusting God to help me.
I hope that someday I will be able to use my story to help the world (I mean my kind in the world)
I pray for total healing for you, and I wish myself the same.
Thousands of women or ladies are in abusive relationships and marriages. Coming from a dysfunction home sometimes both parents are together and the children can't see them in love. It is not only a female child that needs good upbringing, for our society to be fine male child needs to be trained as well. Thank you for sharing your story.
Very true
Did you say, you were smart?? No, you weren't smart, YOU ARE GREAT, greatness lies in you girl, God bless your path
I pray my husband and I can heal from whatever childhood trauma we have been through so that we may build a beautiful environment for our children. I trust the Lord Jesus Christ will see us through. Thank you for this podcast🙏
Thank You Jesus.
Thank you Apostle for yielding to God.
Thank you Moses.
I know your family esp. Joseph & Tina.....I truly salute you & God's grace on your life.
Her story truly resonates. I suffered the same, but I am thankful for God's Grace and to the man I married who sees beyond all my flaws. I pray that God continues His healing in all of us.
That’s the most important thing ooo
May god bless us with a good man to make us have the love we never had while growing up
To people with similar stories, I pray we heal completely ❤❤
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Amen 🙏 😢😢
@@estyonyi8153🙏🏿🙏🏿
Amen
Amen ND I pray God gives me the courage to share mine some day😢
Amen
I just discovered weeks ago that a lot of people didn't have a "normal" upbringing and it plays a major part on how they turn out as adults. Lord have mercy 🙏.....I honestly pray that people get to heal from all this experiences.
Apostle Femi Lazarus is a blessing indeed. This alone is healing to many. God bless Apostle
Her story almost like mine,😢 i shed tears listening to her, grew up seeing my dad hitting my mum and now that I’m in very healthy relationship i sometimes try to push my partner to hit me, but God gave me the most calmest man, loving and caring he understands me more than I understand myself. With him I’m experiencing another level of love and healing
Thank God for you... Thank you
God bless him
Love it for you ❤
God has a very strong calling on her life. Im happy she encountered Apostle and his ministry. She has a story and a ministry in her. So many children have gone through things that their parents have no clue about.
May we be praying parents. We also need to be emotionally, mentally, and psychologically available for our children and even others around that we discern something is going on with.
I'm glad she had the platform to speak out. This story needed to be told, and it will grant her release. Anyone going through abuse, please leave. It is not love, confide in people.