This is so true sis!!! I lived with one and they will run you into the ground and exhaust you! He is a grown boy!!!!! Ladies listen to Tony, he is telling the truth! I have lived it. Young ladies pay close attention to these videos on grown boys, he has been dropping jewels. I am older and did not peep game until I had lost a great deal of my time and energy. If you see multiple grown boy tendencies, pray for the power to be set free and leave. I wish I understood men and knew the manipulative games some of them play when I was young...I know better now. Thank you Tony!
Younger women date older men TO SKIP areas of life growth with their own peer group. Older men date younger women because THEY SKIPPED necessary areas of growth for women his peer group.
You are right on point sis, our men over here uses the word, "hardworking." To me that sounds like, I am good at footing some bills and they eye you up and down like some good beef found in the market. I bounce, without looking back. No time for nonsense.
What some don’t understand is, God truly LOVES us and He does NOT want us in toxic relationships. It hurts Him. Yes, He has FEELINGS! We need to love God enough, to choose Him and what He wants for us because what He wants for us is ultimately nothing but the BEST.
But why GOD doesn't help the people who are extremely in need ,oppressed ,abused ,violated , severely sick ,disabled ,with no money ,with no one who take care of them ,etc...for decades and decades. .if HE has feelings.
I don’t believe god controls the world we are currently living in, look around… Also, god gave us the gift of choice. Most of our suffering in life is created or made worse by our poor choices.
He is trying to make you feel less of a person and that is disgusting -_-. There is too many men trying to make women feel less bc they feel less of a man or feel empty inside
Wow after being in a failed relationship with a man who was 13 years older; I completely understand this. It’s actually laughable now 😂. Girl run, you can do better. These old men don’t deserve us 😩
@@clarkclarke I agree. She's ignoring the red flags and allowing naivety to cloud her judgment. They are both responsible for their actions. Hopefully now that she has confirmation, she'll make a wise decision.
And once she leaves, he's going to jump up and find him another young hunny. The next one wont even have half the ambition. He just wants a body. Get your ambitious self on girl, become something.
a lot of younger women are trying to date older men cus it’s glamorized on social media. I was 27 dating a 41 year old because of some RUclips videos I saw said they was more mature , well off , etc. the man ended up lying about being successful, would pick arguments on every date have me crying, would say I wouldn’t accomplish the financial goals I had, wouldn’t find love. I’m pretty confident and I believed it some how. Crazzy we see old men as harmless, easy to manipulate they are not they will turn the tables on you have you thinking you are the problem. Once I heard tony talk about dating older men in a video it all made sense 😅 single older men have mastered the grown boy ways. Never again
If you don’t have top tier game do not date older man.. they will put you thru the ringer .. they have been in the game longer especially if they have never been married s which is a red flag..
My ex was 13 years older than me..mid 40s. Worst relationship I ever had.master manipulator, cheater, had it together financially though. Don't believe the hype that older men are ready cause that's not always the case.
Women, WE ARE THE PRIZE. If he doesn’t notice “what you have to offer”, he’s not the one for you. A man can visualize what you can add to his life without you saying a word. That would’ve been the last conversation we ever had.
If an older man is asking what you bring to the table run .. he’s trying to put you thru the ringer to see what you will tolerate....I have been around grown men and they not worried about what a a women bring to the table or requesting you pay half... these old man be playing out young girls... if you don’t have top tier game do not date grown men.
Thank you Tony Gaskins for this message. As a 42 yo RN formerly engaged to a 60 yo commercial pilot, who owned a Cessna twin engine, came to an end after he pointed a double-barreled 12 gauge shotgun at me! My crime? I called him a liar!prior to this day, I hadn’t realized he owned a weapon. Ladies, this type of weapon is used when deer hunting. There were infrequent disagreements, yet, were settled before sundown. His reaction was clearly a red flag to me to ‘quickly exit stage left’ AND I did just that! Thank God I didn’t use rationalization to remain in the relationship! So ladies please, please, please listen to Tony’s message and take heed I never considered this guy being a ‘pervert’ in relation to our 18 year age difference. I considered us emotionally mature adults. Yet, reflecting he was 18 when I was born, put a whole new spin on that relationship, which makes me even now, shudder in disgust!
In the word of Tony Gaskin sis go on about your business. You are not a pet this man has real issues, that you can not fix. Run while you still have some sanity. Watch when you get rid of the mess, how you will be blessed. He does not love you, does not care about you and gets pleaure in putting you down...Run chile..
It's always a red flag when a person starts with all their degrees. ...gurl men don't care about all that. The ones that do ....got plans for your wallet.
Exactly lol .. my dad always told me that he says women that do that the man is calculating in his head how much money he can get from you... women that led with degrees and money get used he told me because the man don’t want them.. my dad went to college and my mother only had a high school diploma he told me real men don’t date a women because of a degree or money they use them😐
“K” is horrid, disrespectful to women, calling them chicks and broads and thinking he is high value. Women need to stay off his channel, calling in and getting abused for his clicks and views. All those wanna be men talking crap on their flip phone, eating hot pockets in their mommas basement. SMH
This man has no intentions of marrying her. And furthermore she shouldn't even want to. She needs to pick up her purse and her candle 😂 and go. But in all seriousness she needs to leave.
emotional and mental abuse .... he stepped on her and he stepped on her HARD.... He has no respect ..no love ..nor does not care about her ....and she would never ever be able to do anything "to please" him .... yet she want to make excuses for this bad behaviour????? ...move in silence...and be happy
I lost my mother in 2017. I still have my moments where I just have to let it out 😭🙏🏽 But know it does get easier with time ♥️ Write it out, pray it out, cry it out. You got this 🙏🏽
What can you offer me! WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THIS? Sister, there are real men out there looking for a woman to love. You deserve much better. Heal for the daddy wounds, love yourself and please know, that you matter. Much love❤
These last round of videos have opened up some wounds that I’m trying to heal from, and they are definitely needed in facing head on. God is really using you as a vessel. I wish more women and men discovered your videos, as they are critical in getting through relationships and life. By far the best content on RUclips.
He told her he's with her because she has nothing to offer 😐 what!!! That would have been a confirmation for me to go on about my business, what!!!!! Hell no he is/was disrespectful on so many levels trying to make her feel less than. Ooohhhhh hell no!!!! Because he think he's all that, chile please bye!!!!!!
Exactly. These guys are so psychologically annoying. Nobody is interested in your guy's stupid word scramble and mind games. Why the hell are they with us if we don't bring anything of value to them? How stupid do they sound to be wasting their time with us if we are not valuable. They think they're really making a point when they just sound stupid with their games. If these guys have such problems with women's value, why dont they leave us alone? I don't get it.
Love you, uncle Tony. Thank you for everything you've done for women around the world that don't have a father or a caring, stable uncle. We're stronger mentally, physically, and emotionally because of you. May God continue to protect, bless, inspire, and guide you.
My ex told me it was his way or no way. We had an argument and this was the terms to us reconciling. His old arse is 52. 5 months on he hasn’t heard from me.
My ex was 7 yrs older than me and looking back on it he was too old for me and I was too young for him. We didn't even like the same type of music because we were brought up in 2 completely different generations 🤷🏾♀️
The fact she is saying her confidence is suffering and this relationship is preventing her from prospering in other aspects of her life..leave it alone. I went though the same thing dating an older man 13 years my senior. He blatantly did things to mess up my mental. Manipulator and a cheater. My confidence was shot after dealing with him and it took me a year to get back to myself. Now I'm focused on the things that matter..the 3B's
I was hanging up the washing and just listening when tony read the part about "total submission". I dropped them socks and ran straight over just to see Tonys face 😂
@@genxx2724 awwww thats so sweet. Im actually Irish. So good guess Zee im just across the water from you. Isnt it lovely how we can all chat and smile with each other from all over the world ☺️. O and i was hanging it up on a clothes horse in the house 😉
Omg Tony you are so hilarious. 😆 I can't stop watching and I should be asleep. I'm laughing so hard this morning. So happy I found your channel. I needed to hear a few things here. She seriously need to leave him. It took me 3.5 years to realize I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and took another year to leave. Men like him really strip you down to shreds until you are no longer attractive to yourself. Still piecing those shreds back together. Praying for you sister.
Girl gone bout yo business. You going to school getting all that education to let a man bluntly disrespect you? This is why you stuck and can't get your career in order because you're hanging on to someone who verbally told you he don't want you. I really hope you pack your bags and just leave. Don't even tell him it's over go! Just go sis!
He DOES NOT want you to feel successful as he is intimidated of all the mobility and potential you have in your life. His "come up" is tied to you being in submission to him. If you ever recognize his inadequacies you would see him for who he really is and leave.
Sis he is the King of grown boys!!! He is intentionally blocking your clarity and keeping you up and down. Total submission thou! He DOES NOT love you. Run!
Whenever I’m feeling down and need emotional adjustment I just click on today’s video and BAM! Fresh anointing to carry me over! No joke! This here anointing is the three “Ps” ...It’s Perfect, Plausible and Plenty GOOD!!!! Yass Lawd, Thank You!! 🙏🏽🙌🏾❤️
“You see how fast I got gone” That’s the last conversation you ought to have right there” When a man tells you to run🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾! Run so fast! Don’t ever look back! I’m telling y’all Tony been on a roll. I’m here for it! Blessing Tony to you and the Queen🙏🏾
Im catching em..this is by Devine Design..whomever the word is for won t miss it!! Thank you for setting an example on many levels..you could never fully understand how great it is to receive a no filtered word in due season!! I say that because we are the receivers of a portion of Gods Grace on you, for your Devine Purpose and you labor to Align with that Purpose. With all that said, thankyou!! You always right on time!! Even it it's something I may not be in Alignment to hear!! Best believe, it'll come back to me and then I hear you in my inner ear😊😊😊
When he grabbed that phone charger, I knew what time it was 😂😂. Thanks so much Tony for your continuous giving of insight into unhealthy relationships.
If you didn’t hear anything else ...hear what Tony said here 57:29 ... your better than that girl. Leave him, don’t waste no more time. A friend of mine is STILL wasting time with a guy like this, he knows he has her in the palm of his hand... 5 plus years and she is still telling me manipulative things he says and does. She has her own place in the city but she drives out an hour after work everyday to sleep in his bed 🥴🤔 that’s just a tip of the iceberg 😐
That statement actually gave me chills down my spine....”all you can do for me is complete submission...” absolutely NOT...thank God for your teachings Tony 💯
I really hope some of the women who write Tony send in updates eventually. I’d love to hear the outcomes and that they’re doing well. The advice he gives is priceless.
Sister, it sounds like this man is not for you. I’m so sorry to say. He’s trying to Mr. Gray you...like the 50 shades, but that movie is a fairy tale Also, she’s with him because he puts it down and is “respectful and liked by her family/friends/etc.” Tony is spot oN! I’ve been there. I’m telling you. Mine looked like an Aussie model & was VERY successful, “respectful & well loved by all.” Those who respect him don’t know him that well & haven’t seen that side much or more than once (it does get deep with these guys too).
So true a person I was seen apparently knew so many people including ladies that either acted as pick me girl s not knowing how he really is, even female friends that want him not knowing how he really treats a lady in inner rooms, and some guy friends would say "who am I to tell him how to treat his woman" then they either again don't know him that good or they are pieces of 🗑️ like him. Hope all of you doing better.
You said a mouth full! Those who love them don't know the real person, they know the facade, that person underneath is mean, manipulative, disrespectful, dishonest, petty, but most of all extremely insecure.
Your wife sounds like an absolute sweetheart! Play with her Tony, you are blessed that she is able to have fun with you! My hubby was very playful too. We had a very happy marriage.
"There's nothing you can offer me except TOTAL SUBMISSION ",..... Oh naw, that's a whole monster.
This is so true sis!!! I lived with one and they will run you into the ground and exhaust you! He is a grown boy!!!!! Ladies listen to Tony, he is telling the truth! I have lived it.
Young ladies pay close attention to these videos on grown boys, he has been dropping jewels. I am older and did not peep game until I had lost a great deal of my time and energy. If you see multiple grown boy tendencies, pray for the power to be set free and leave. I wish I understood men and knew the manipulative games some of them play when I was young...I know better now. Thank you Tony!
God complex. He’s crazy.
Right....run Forrest run 🏃
Running mode: activated 🏃🏿♀️GTG
So what do you do ugg?
Younger women date older men TO SKIP areas of life growth with their own peer group. Older men date younger women because THEY SKIPPED necessary areas of growth for women his peer group.
Right!!
WHEW!!! Great perspective.
Love this
Yesssss
WOW!
When a man has to ask what you bring to the table get yo track shoes on. 👟 ✈️
I feel like men are smart. If my sparkle doesn't shine for you then keep it pushing!
You are right on point sis, our men over here uses the word, "hardworking."
To me that sounds like, I am good at footing some bills and they eye you up and down like some good beef found in the market.
I bounce, without looking back. No time for nonsense.
Lol!
What some don’t understand is, God truly LOVES us and He does NOT want us in toxic relationships. It hurts Him. Yes, He has FEELINGS! We need to love God enough, to choose Him and what He wants for us because what He wants for us is ultimately nothing but the BEST.
But why GOD doesn't help the people who are extremely in need ,oppressed ,abused ,violated , severely sick ,disabled ,with no money ,with no one who take care of them ,etc...for decades and decades. .if HE has feelings.
I don’t believe god controls the world we are currently living in, look around…
Also, god gave us the gift of choice. Most of our suffering in life is created or made worse by our poor choices.
Thank you sis I needed this ❤ God bless ❤
A relationship shouldn't make you emotionally drained, I have been there and it is not worth it in the long run.
He is trying to make you feel less of a person and that is disgusting -_-. There is too many men trying to make women feel less bc they feel less of a man or feel empty inside
Wow after being in a failed relationship with a man who was 13 years older; I completely understand this. It’s actually laughable now 😂. Girl run, you can do better. These old men don’t deserve us 😩
He's insecure & would never respect her PhD & will try to make her feel less than. Girl, run!!!✌
He sounds like a narcissist to me. IJS
Her intuition was telling her...now she has confirmation. He is damaging her self-confidence.
She is letting him
@@clarkclarke I agree. She's ignoring the red flags and allowing naivety to cloud her judgment. They are both responsible for their actions. Hopefully now that she has confirmation, she'll make a wise decision.
“A man could have money and success and still be a grown boy.” TG
Yep a lot of us don't understand this because we equate "good man" with a high earning man. 🙆🏾
So true
ugg so right.
Of course ! Personality is something different !
Took the words right out my mouth. Alot of women will date older men for money and status . And fail to question why those men are single.
@@genxx2724 They think being a good father means maturity.
@@genxx2724 If he was a good father he would not be dating someone thay could be his child.
"Total submission?" This is some Fifty Shades of Crazy nonsense. RUN!
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao 🤣🤣 it's true
“...Everybody getting addressed: the lost sheep, the found sheep, the wolves, the hyenas...” 🤣🤣🤣
Right 😂
Right, everybody can get it! He had me choked on a piece of ice.
It was the lost sheep for me! I cackled😂😂😂 Tony DOES NOT PLAY! Okkk🤣🤣
@@aminastoned5687 the radio at all 😂
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And once she leaves, he's going to jump up and find him another young hunny. The next one wont even have half the ambition. He just wants a body. Get your ambitious self on girl, become something.
a lot of younger women are trying to date older men cus it’s glamorized on social media. I was 27 dating a 41 year old because of some RUclips videos I saw said they was more mature , well off , etc. the man ended up lying about being successful, would pick arguments on every date have me crying, would say I wouldn’t accomplish the financial goals I had, wouldn’t find love. I’m pretty confident and I believed it some how. Crazzy we see old men as harmless, easy to manipulate they are not they will turn the tables on you have you thinking you are the problem. Once I heard tony talk about dating older men in a video it all made sense 😅 single older men have mastered the grown boy ways. Never again
@Allie, you nailed it 💯
They have more experience at being a low down dusty, that's all. That's the only difference.
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e 😅🤣🤣😆
If you don’t have top tier game do not date older man.. they will put you thru the ringer .. they have been in the game longer especially if they have never been married s which is a red flag..
My ex was 13 years older than me..mid 40s. Worst relationship I ever had.master manipulator, cheater, had it together financially though. Don't believe the hype that older men are ready cause that's not always the case.
NEVER let a man get in your head like that.
Facts!!
Most of them be having the audacity 🥺🙄
When he took the candle with him 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
😭😝😂😅😂
😅😂🏃🏃
Took me out😂🤣!!!
That took me out , candle still burning and everything 😂😂😂
Lose the man...finish your doctorate...
Women, WE ARE THE PRIZE. If he doesn’t notice “what you have to offer”, he’s not the one for you. A man can visualize what you can add to his life without you saying a word. That would’ve been the last conversation we ever had.
If an older man is asking what you bring to the table run .. he’s trying to put you thru the ringer to see what you will tolerate....I have been around grown men and they not worried about what a a women bring to the table or requesting you pay half... these old man be playing out young girls... if you don’t have top tier game do not date grown men.
“You don’t have to settle for a man” -TG
Yes ! Settling will make you bitter not better ! Settling is a trick of the enemy to make us doubt God’s word ❤️! Never doubt God & NEVER SETTLE !!!!!
Thank you Tony Gaskins for this message. As a 42 yo RN formerly engaged to a 60 yo commercial pilot, who owned a Cessna twin engine, came to an end after he pointed a double-barreled 12 gauge shotgun at me! My crime? I called him a liar!prior to this day, I hadn’t realized he owned a weapon. Ladies, this type of weapon is used when deer hunting.
There were infrequent disagreements, yet, were settled before sundown. His reaction was clearly a red flag to me to ‘quickly exit stage left’ AND I did just that! Thank God I didn’t use rationalization to remain in the relationship!
So ladies please, please, please listen to Tony’s message and take heed I never considered this guy being a ‘pervert’ in relation to our 18 year age difference. I considered us emotionally mature adults. Yet, reflecting he was 18 when I was born, put a whole new spin on that relationship, which makes me even now, shudder in disgust!
In the word of Tony Gaskin sis go on about your business. You are not a pet this man has real issues, that you can not fix. Run while you still have some sanity. Watch when you get rid of the mess, how you will be blessed. He does not love you, does not care about you and gets pleaure in putting you down...Run chile..
I’m done when he “packed up his things” and took the candle 😂💀
his packing up gets me every time!
Baby I could have passed out ! 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 me too!!!!!!
🤣🤣🤣 took the candle
This popped up right on time and when I just ended a 10 year relationship. I felt a burden lifted and here comes your video. I thank u Tony!
I am divorcing after 10 years of disrespect and lies, congratulations and may God continue to bless us both, lol!
@@terrybrown7510 Yes ma’am let’s continue to flourish m, be blessed and stay out of a relationship for a while. We got it!
God knows what we we need when what we going through
It's always a red flag when a person starts with all their degrees. ...gurl men don't care about all that. The ones that do ....got plans for your wallet.
Exactly lol .. my dad always told me that he says women that do that the man is calculating in his head how much money he can get from you... women that led with degrees and money get used he told me because the man don’t want them.. my dad went to college and my mother only had a high school diploma he told me real men don’t date a women because of a degree or money they use them😐
“Does his name start with a K?”😂😂👏🏼 yep, was thinking it was that “High Value Man” bs right from the start.
Girl I just caught that! Lol it took me a minute! 😄
@@PeaceBeStill- Right! I recently ran across couple of “K’s” videos and immediately recognized that 😂
Mr. K I'm familiar 😂
that man is terrible...I can't believe woman actually listen to him
“K” is horrid, disrespectful to women, calling them chicks and broads and thinking he is high value. Women need to stay off his channel, calling in and getting abused for his clicks and views. All those wanna be men talking crap on their flip phone, eating hot pockets in their mommas basement. SMH
Ladies these men that like women 10 years+ younger... trust they just might be a pervert.
Got a video on this today. Uploading now!
@@TonyGaskins you’re speaking nothing but truth.. found this out the hard way 😐
Honey it's about control
24:38 😱😱😱 omg WHAT?! I'm devastated fr I gotta watch the follow up video😭
Tony is naturally hilarious and he don’t even be trying. I love this channel! God bless you Tony. Good message.
Me too sis
Same here🙋🏾♀️
He has blessed me tremendously with his advise
I love Tony sense of humor very real in answers and awesome he's been so helpful 😊 lol I love that purse routine and gone bout yo business
This man has no intentions of marrying her. And furthermore she shouldn't even want to. She needs to pick up her purse and her candle 😂 and go. But in all seriousness she needs to leave.
Girl, I've been waiting on that purse animation😅🤣😂😅🤣😂. Sreaming laughing when he picked up that candle too.
@@10nicity I live for the purse animation! It’s my all time favorite😅😂🤣!!!!!
Yes please do!!!
emotional and mental abuse .... he stepped on her and he stepped on her HARD....
He has no respect ..no love ..nor does not care about her ....and she would never ever be able to do anything "to please" him ....
yet she want to make excuses for this bad behaviour?????
...move in silence...and be happy
I'm so needing this my mother died last Wednesday 😢 and it's killing my spirit😪
Condolences.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I’m so sorry my dad passed away in December so I know how you’re feeling my condolences to you during this difficult time.
My prayers and condolences to you and your family God Bless you all, I pray that God will give you comfort. 🙏
I lost my mother in 2017. I still have my moments where I just have to let it out 😭🙏🏽 But know it does get easier with time ♥️ Write it out, pray it out, cry it out. You got this 🙏🏽
What can you offer me! WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THIS? Sister, there are real men out there looking for a woman to love. You deserve much better. Heal for the daddy wounds, love yourself and please know, that you matter. Much love❤
When Mr. Tony grabbed the candle 🕯 I almost fell out!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Gurl, me too. I died😂!!!
"Nothing to offer but total submission." Heck I choked on my rice and had to pause the video for about 25mins. Wtf.
I had to pause as well 😳😳😳
Me too..he sound like he'll kill ya!
😂😂😂
Honey run because you have too much going for yourself to subject yourself to this type of abuse.
This is the 1st time in 2021, TG pulled out the white cord-purse....and I died laughing when he picked up the candle.
"Scuse me." 😭😂
He took the candle 🤣🤣🤣
The candle 😂
💫🤣🤣🤣, I replayed that many times. And - the hard stare and 3 long blinks - I CANNOT 😉.
Brother Tony delivers 💯‼️
I laugh so hard when he pulls out the cord for a purse.
Follow the trail of broken women. You will see a pattern. He has always been this way, not just with you. Run 🏃♂️
I've heard the saying that goes, PHD women who are broken, will fall for a GED man, both literally and figuratively.
Truth
😳
Yep
Noooo not the “got to go” purse 😂
I was going to bed, but I received a notification, so I'll sleep later.
Rt, shole was.. who needs sleep when you can get this Word 🤷🏾♀️😊👂🏾
I stayed up to watch it too.
Don’t worry about late videos , we all love it , even when we get up at 5 am next day to go work. At least, we go asleep with hope and knowledge
These last round of videos have opened up some wounds that I’m trying to heal from, and they are definitely needed in facing head on. God is really using you as a vessel. I wish more women and men discovered your videos, as they are critical in getting through relationships and life. By far the best content on RUclips.
I’m laughing soooooo hard at how he says his wife plays especially about the jug of water lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same! 🤣🤣🤣
Lol...I luv that too...😂😂😂😭😭😭
Same 🤣🤣
When we get older as woman we don't tke shit
He told her he's with her because she has nothing to offer 😐 what!!! That would have been a confirmation for me to go on about my business, what!!!!! Hell no he is/was disrespectful on so many levels trying to make her feel less than. Ooohhhhh hell no!!!! Because he think he's all that, chile please bye!!!!!!
Exactly. These guys are so psychologically annoying. Nobody is interested in your guy's stupid word scramble and mind games. Why the hell are they with us if we don't bring anything of value to them? How stupid do they sound to be wasting their time with us if we are not valuable. They think they're really making a point when they just sound stupid with their games. If these guys have such problems with women's value, why dont they leave us alone? I don't get it.
I left my ex in the same manner. Bye Felicia, blocked all contact and my life has truly been blessed ever since.
The action with the headphonepurse takes me out everytime😂🤦🏽♀️
Yep😂🤣! It’s even funnier because Tony is not laughing. He’s dead serious, while I’m over here hollerin😂🤣
I HOPE THIS SISTER TAKES TONY'S ADVICE .
The look he gave here after reading the email, I fell out of desk chair and Hollered out laughing. The gathering his things GOT Tah GOOO....🤣😂😅🙃😉
Love you, uncle Tony. Thank you for everything you've done for women around the world that don't have a father or a caring, stable uncle. We're stronger mentally, physically, and emotionally because of you. May God continue to protect, bless, inspire, and guide you.
How you have nothing to offer when you have done all you can to establish yourself lady gone about your business in the words of Mr. Gaskins
Your wife is playful because she loves you, that’s how some of us women are.
Hes gaslighting her
How are we discussing what one brings to the table 4 years in!? This man doesn’t respect her. The relationship is over, it’s just no one has left yet.
My ex told me it was his way or no way. We had an argument and this was the terms to us reconciling. His old arse is 52. 5 months on he hasn’t heard from me.
@rosemarie daway YOU GO GURL! YOU TOOK THE HIGHWAY!
@@ysmithriley sickening! These types of men think they are all that!
Women need to stop allowing to men to use us like second class citizens
Our PURSE (white earphones) is back!🤣 I holler EVERYTIME he swing it over is shoulder!😆🤪
Gurl!! I have been waiting all month for our “purse” to make an appearance😂🤣😅😅😅! It takes me out every single time!!!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 IKR!👜👛 in holler EVERY TIME!
“You is with him for his money” *looks at camera* 😭😭😭 what is wrong with this man
Right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He’s a grown boy for sure. He never would of asked her what do you bring to the table and judge like she have absolutely nothing
It sounds like he just wants control over her. She needs to run 🏃🏽♀️ not walk 🤧 And focus on her goals and focus on finishing her degree.
Everybody getting addressed! Wolves sheep, tigers, lions and bears. Tony coming for ya! 😂😂😁😁🤪🤪
My ex was 7 yrs older than me and looking back on it he was too old for me and I was too young for him. We didn't even like the same type of music because we were brought up in 2 completely different generations 🤷🏾♀️
The fact she is saying her confidence is suffering and this relationship is preventing her from prospering in other aspects of her life..leave it alone.
I went though the same thing dating an older man 13 years my senior. He blatantly did things to mess up my mental. Manipulator and a cheater. My confidence was shot after dealing with him and it took me a year to get back to myself. Now I'm focused on the things that matter..the 3B's
I was hanging up the washing and just listening when tony read the part about "total submission". I dropped them socks and ran straight over just to see Tonys face 😂
😂😂😂
Must be British
That’s how we speak
@@genxx2724 awwww thats so sweet. Im actually Irish. So good guess Zee im just across the water from you. Isnt it lovely how we can all chat and smile with each other from all over the world ☺️. O and i was hanging it up on a clothes horse in the house 😉
@@genxx2724 in Europe we hang everything.
@Taz you’re right...and some of us with common behaviours. My dryer in the conservatory lol
Listen to Tony, how he described what your man is capable of... are the exact things that my ex-husband did to me... RUN 🏃🏾 🏃🏿♂️ 🏃🏾♀️ RUN
If you say "eclectic" one mo' time 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣 a whole mess lol
" A jug of water! That is not equivalent payback. You holding stuff from the past " 😂
Y'all are too cute!
I almost fell from my chair when he got up and left at min 13:16 😂😂he’s so funny. “You are with him for his money... swallow now” 😂😂
Omg Tony you are so hilarious. 😆 I can't stop watching and I should be asleep. I'm laughing so hard this morning. So happy I found your channel. I needed to hear a few things here.
She seriously need to leave him. It took me 3.5 years to realize I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and took another year to leave. Men like him really strip you down to shreds until you are no longer attractive to yourself. Still piecing those shreds back together. Praying for you sister.
Girl gone bout yo business. You going to school getting all that education to let a man bluntly disrespect you? This is why you stuck and can't get your career in order because you're hanging on to someone who verbally told you he don't want you. I really hope you pack your bags and just leave. Don't even tell him it's over go! Just go sis!
Exactly!!!💯
@@cher361 💯
@Gloria Ann big fact! 💯
He DOES NOT want you to feel successful as he is intimidated of all the mobility and potential you have in your life. His "come up" is tied to you being in submission to him. If you ever recognize his inadequacies you would see him for who he really is and leave.
Sis he is the King of grown boys!!! He is intentionally blocking your clarity and keeping you up and down. Total submission thou! He DOES NOT love you. Run!
GURRRRRL This here Ninja wrote the grown boy book....possibly the captain🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really like and appreciate Talks with Tony..
Tony: RUclips dont show all my videos
Me: “ me Anna? Me im gone find dem videos” yes!
Whenever I’m feeling down and need emotional adjustment I just click on today’s video and BAM! Fresh anointing to carry me over! No joke! This here anointing is the three “Ps” ...It’s Perfect, Plausible and Plenty GOOD!!!! Yass Lawd, Thank You!! 🙏🏽🙌🏾❤️
This here Ninja...yes! Say that Tony!!! He IS Captain Grown Boy!!! TOTAL SUBMISSION?! Sisssss!!!! Nope. Please listen to Tony!
This guy is getting tired of Miss Eclectic and/or already has someone else. It's basically already over.
Oh my God Nooooo did he really get the candle🤣😂 I burst out laughing
“You see how fast I got gone” That’s the last conversation you ought to have right there” When a man tells you to run🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾! Run so fast! Don’t ever look back! I’m telling y’all Tony been on a roll. I’m here for it! Blessing Tony to you and the Queen🙏🏾
I don’t understand why anyone corrects the teacher here.. grateful to learn and have this space Tony!
Damn, that guy must hate himself so bad, but he has to put you down in the worst way in order to keep you with him.
what do I bring to the table ? hmm , everything to the right man !
Yet he has no table ...and don't know how to build/make/prepare one
Im catching em..this is by Devine Design..whomever the word is for won t miss it!! Thank you for setting an example on many levels..you could never fully understand how great it is to receive a no filtered word in due season!! I say that because we are the receivers of a portion of Gods Grace on you, for your Devine Purpose and you labor to Align with that Purpose. With all that said, thankyou!! You always right on time!! Even it it's something I may not be in Alignment to hear!! Best believe, it'll come back to me and then I hear you in my inner ear😊😊😊
Big bro🙏
When he grabbed that phone charger, I knew what time it was 😂😂. Thanks so much Tony for your continuous giving of insight into unhealthy relationships.
If you didn’t hear anything else ...hear what Tony said here 57:29 ... your better than that girl. Leave him, don’t waste no more time. A friend of mine is STILL wasting time with a guy like this, he knows he has her in the palm of his hand... 5 plus years and she is still telling me manipulative things he says and does. She has her own place in the city but she drives out an hour after work everyday to sleep in his bed 🥴🤔 that’s just a tip of the iceberg 😐
Share his videos with her
Another thing, women can see all the signs but will stay because of the time invested
That statement actually gave me chills down my spine....”all you can do for me is complete submission...” absolutely NOT...thank God for your teachings Tony 💯
I really hope some of the women who write Tony send in updates eventually. I’d love to hear the outcomes and that they’re doing well. The advice he gives is priceless.
Sister, it sounds like this man is not for you. I’m so sorry to say. He’s trying to Mr. Gray you...like the 50 shades, but that movie is a fairy tale
Also, she’s with him because he puts it down and is “respectful and liked by her family/friends/etc.”
Tony is spot oN! I’ve been there. I’m telling you. Mine looked like an Aussie model & was VERY successful, “respectful & well loved by all.”
Those who respect him don’t know him that well & haven’t seen that side much or more than once (it does get deep with these guys too).
I think you meant "respected" by the outside world, because he is DEFINITELY not respectful but very DISRESPECTFUL towards her!
@@ThisAndThat4All I sure did! “respectful”
respectful, yes to those who don’t really know him AT ALL
Yes these men show up VERY well to outsiders and family but will break you down behind closed doors. Tony is 💯..girl get gone. You deserve better.
So true a person I was seen apparently knew so many people including ladies that either acted as pick me girl s not knowing how he really is, even female friends that want him not knowing how he really treats a lady in inner rooms, and some guy friends would say "who am I to tell him how to treat his woman" then they either again don't know him that good or they are pieces of 🗑️ like him. Hope all of you doing better.
You said a mouth full! Those who love them don't know the real person, they know the facade, that person underneath is mean, manipulative, disrespectful, dishonest, petty, but most of all extremely insecure.
Watching these helps me get through life! Thank God for giving Tony the wisdom.
Tony G., thank God for men like you teaching women the game and how to avoid the players of the world. Your wife is truly a blessed woman.
Dr Tony breathing life into this woman..girl, .take the resuscitation and go about your business!!!
Loooove when Tony does "Illustrations" with his facial expressions- The getting up from his seat 😂😂😂
“Does his name start with a K” 😂😂😂
🤣😂😂😂 Tony grabbed the CANDLE and the LAPTOP 😂 I know that's right
We ain’t missing none of your videos Tony. I watch and rewatch. Keep em coming.
When Tony grabbed his stuff and the imaginary purse I fell out 🤣🤣🤣
Your wife sounds like an absolute sweetheart! Play with her Tony, you are blessed that she is able to have fun with you! My hubby was very playful too. We had a very happy marriage.
Apple need to send him his check 😂😂 this purse
I cannot live without him getting that purse 👛 😂😂😂😂