Finding the confidence to accept yourself without needing validation from others is important to living a happy life. I know a lot of people in my life that worry too much about how others feel they look or what others think about how they live their life.
Yes, I think that too! There is nothing wrong with dressing and presenting yourself the way you like it but sadly a lot of us do these things not for ourselves but for someone else or society or whatever...
Yes. I embrace my white hairs because I went through intense suicidality and never thought I’d live long enough to get white hair. I love my wrinkles because they are my body’s way of keeping a journal of my smiles and frowns. I remember finding my grandmother - in her 80’s, bald, wrinkled, and mottled skin - so very beautiful because her heart was so kind. Thank you for this video reminding me of all this.
You are a very wise young woman, Lia, for one so young and you look lovely. I am 75 years old and living on my own for the first time in many decades. It is so freeing to just do what feels right for yourself and not have to please others. I am cutting down in many areas - plastic, clothes, possessions, people too, actually - and your vlogs have been so interesting. I just still can't stop straightening my very frizzy hair. Perhaps I should shave it off like you! Thank you and best wishes for your channel.
I’m so so glad you made this video. In a world of perfection portrayed on social media - it’s very rare to find someone who’s truly happy in their appearance. Which is so so sad. At one point I could never leave the house without wearing makeup - again so sad. After years it’s only recently where I’ve felt comfortable (and lazy 😂) enough to not be bothered about it. I feel like videos like these and people like you who are so real and true, will help people much more than you know. I think we’ll all always have something we’re not happy with but like they say - if it’s not broke don’t fix it. Unfortunately the dark side of social media makes you feel like everything is broken and you can’t be complete until you fix it. Not true. Such a valuable video. I hope someone watching this, that’s struggling, learn to love themselves in the skin they’re in ✨
This comment means a lot to me! And I hope too that more people can see that our appearance is really not the most important thing. I absolutely think we should do what makes us happy but I think we should not feel pressured unto doing things that we don't do for us but just to fix things that aren't broken as you said so well! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts ☺
@ but Lia didn’t say she stopped having preferences? We can all be minimalist but have our own style and taste. I think she was trying to get at the bigger picture here which is overall not looking like or fitting in with a certain aesthetic or theme etc ☺️
Τhere is nothing more refreshing and liberating than hearing a woman sayimg she doesn't care how she looks. You are my idol, honestly. My highest aspirsrion in life is to be like you, as I suffer from EXTREME self image issues and obsession over looks.
Your eyes speak so much! I like looking at your videos because you are one of the few people on RUclips that seems to be “normal and real” very honest as well.
Thank you for this video. In the past, I couldn't imagine going out without makeup. This is the norm for me now. I started to feel good about myself with no camouflage on my body. I don't wear jewelry, I dress comfortably, and I've finally achieved happiness in minimalism. You are wonderful the way you are ❤️
I find it sad, how many people do surgery just to 'look better'. I think your views are very sensible. Love that you post so often nowadays, feels like talking to a good friend☺️
This reminds me of an experiment that I did after I had my son. I spent quite a few months without looking at myself in a large mirror. (I did use a small one to tame my eyebrows) but that was all. I was tired of obsessing with my body and my face and my hair. After this time period I found that I was forced to focus more on doing things and eating healthy. I was forced to stop thinking on a daily basis about my looks and over analyzing features that others really "don't see". Once I did start using a larger mirror again I was happier with my appearance but mostly because I started making better choices for my health wich then reflected in my appearance rather than trying to find a quick fix, like clothes and makeup and hairstyles. These practices actually took time from me taking better care of myself. Since this experiment I have learned balance. I can have the best of both worlds. Sometimes we have to take ourselves completely out of something to see whats actually going on. I think this is all she is saying. Rather than feeling the need for a quick beauty fix, she has let that mentality go. And in return she is blessed with a healthy physic and clear skin. 😊😊
That sounds like a great experiment! And in the end, it definitely is about balance and finding a way to be ourselves including making the intentional decision to wear/or not wear makeup, jewelry, certain clothes, etc ☺
I did something similar, i only had a small mirror to see my face/hair in an apt i lived in for 4 years. I didn't even notice tbh until i had a friend stay with me and she was very confused abt how i would see myself fully. There were full length mirrors in the hall by the elevator, so she would just run down the hall to look at herself, which I hadn't even thought of, haha.
I have now been living in an apartment without a full mirror for 2 years. It's been great for me to focus more on how clothing feels and how my body feels inside and outside, and it has open a new dimension where I am experimenting much more with my style and judging less my image.
This is so interesting, I did something similar! It wasn't really an experiment, I just moved from a furnished apartment to an unfurnished one a few years back, and I never bought a full body mirror. It's so healthy. When I put my clothes on I just choose something I actually feel like that day, not depending on how it looks on me. I've never been love confident in my body, cause I depend on how I FEEL and not on judging my self on appearance.
Totally iconic intro, Lia. 😂 Okay, I feel like I have to share this tidbit to anyone who feels like they have an asymmetrical face - 1) asymmetry is SUPER common, even movie stars have this 2) Asymmetry is more evident when you look in photos and YES even in the mirror, because it’s 2-dimensional. It seems like a 3-D image, but that’s just our brain interpreting the data that is reflecting back. I learned this when I was worried about my son‘s flat head and why his facial asymmetry looks worse in a mirror. So THERE YA GO, the more you know right? 😌
That is an interesting addition ☺ and yes, I was a bit worried some people would be upset about the intro but until now I think the same amount of people think it's funny ☺
People are always shocked when I say I don't care about my hair. I'll cut and dye my own hair, I always just think "oh well if it goes wrong it's just hair" 🤷♀️
@@OfWavesAndWinds not nessecarily , no. I'm a chef, I have to keep my hair short so I cut it, but I dont style it. Sometimes I dye it because I'm bored and then it grows out for years, but I dont care that I have 5inch roots and faded colour.
@@OfWavesAndWinds I think that you can dye and cut your hair without linking the new style to your self worth if you know what I mean. That disconnect is the "not caring" part. ❤️
I have been following you for almost 1.5 years and also proudly following you become more successful day by day! Congrats and thank you for this amazing channel❣️❣️
I had quite a bad accident a yesr ago which meant that I couldn't colour or style my hair or apply makeup and I found it difficult to dress myself. The result of all that means that my survival was more important than my image. With that, my vanity was gone! I look at my self in a whole new way now.
Confidence allows you not to care, and confidence you have in buckets. Also, at your tender age, I sometimes envy your clarity. Everyone's face is assymetrical. Now, I'm going to make some delicious soup. Be well !
What I heared from u is to acknowledge ur privileged and be greatful, thank u for reminding ppl to stay positive but for me it's hard to not obsess over beauty, actually im watching this cuz i feel ugly ,iv tried the diets, exercise and failed, now im ready to accept i have no control over my looks and life doesnt end cuz im ugly, I'm not at a place of confidence now but I'm ready to try. This video was a good start 🙏.
I am so grateful to you for this video. I really appreciate your disclaimers ad well. I've always had a difficult relationship with my appearance but at this point a lot of it does stem from skin issues and physical health issues. I think we often forget how many things outside our control directly affect our sense of self.
Thank you! I am always trying to express that this is just my perspective and I agree with you that that is very important! I am glad that you liked the video ☺
I want to thank you for this video. I used to be very upset and obsessed with my appearance, i train myself to let go of it. But the part which really touched me, is when you said your body doesn't hurt all the time. It's true, we forget that our body make us able to do a lot of things. For the past year I have some chronic pain which invalidade me, and i have to chose what i do everyday and prioritize. It's hard.
I love this video ❤️ My favourite part was when you said you want to explore finding yourself and the beauty in feeling like yourself 🙏🏼 I feel like we’re on a similar journey, all the best ❤️
This video is beautiful and thoughtful! Deep stuff! I agree with you, I like to focus on how my body feels too, and work from that space. I feel like that is a healthy place to work from! What I notice about others when I meet them, is their soul. Who they are. Things like old shoes or new shoes or such, I really don't pay attention to. Thoughtfulness, warmth and light decorate a human being. The rest is icing!!! One of my close friends looks like a model, and dresses to the nines. Me, I wear yoga pants and a sweater, hair in a ponytail. We have so much fun when we are together, we could be sitting in a chair drinking tea, doing nothing else and have a great time!💖
I feel there is nothing more powerful than you being fully and unapologetically you because that, whether we're aware of it or not, gives me permission to be fully myself, too. And hopefully this goes vice versa. I always find that people look their best if they dare to be themselves ❤️
Watching this I think self-actualization....and of Abraham Maslow. It is good not to be wrapped up so tight in belief that I have to look like someone or something other than what I truly am and oh so wonderful not to care what others think. I just found your channel earlier this week and find it truly helpful and calming to watch. Thank you!
You are an interesting, beautiful, powerful human. And you have a great sense of humour! Thank you for this video that is a good reminder of why we are so much more than someone else's definition of us.
Great message! I don't do my makeup or fix my hair into a formal hairstyle. I bye used clothes and few new clothes I feel comfortable in. It can make me wonder if people judge me for not having new outfits or hairstyles, makeup or nails. I think that relates to marketing or social expectations of women. I am comfortable with how I am and I am glad to hear your message.
I've been working on this recently as well! I have depression that seems to worsen occasionally, for now example. I've not been exercising and eating well like I used to and I've put on a bit of weight/lost muscle. I'm trying to be okay with the changes and love my body for what it is. It has a lot to do with comfortable clothing like you said! I've changed up my wardrobe a lot and it helps so much. Also, I've always thought that your nose and face as a whole are so darling 💕 hehe
Human anatomy is so beatiful and fine but we are still looking at the mirror all day , everyday and say " How my hair looks ? Is my nose looking fine ? Is outfit of the day good enough ? I don't think my jewerly match my outfit " etc. I don't want to waste my time with these things. I want to cook , take care of my plants more , spending time with my cats and don't thinking these unneceserry stuffs ! 🌱🌿
I totally agree with you on “do not care about your appearance to the others”. This way we remember to maintain our body and appearance to our self appreciation☺️ If we are happy with our own body it doesn’t matter what the others think😊
We are all our own biggest critics! The most beautiful and important thing is that we are as happy and healthy as we can be in our own bodies! After that, if someone wants to wear makeup or jewelry or whatnot, that's great and they should definitely express themselves however they want but they should NEVER feel that those things are requirments! Thank you for another great and thought-provoking video!❤
Your videos are so deep! When I was a teenager I got a few negative comments on aspects of my appearance (I suspect most girls do) and that stuck with me. When I was pregnant, and suddenly less physically able, was the first time I realised I should focus on being grateful for what I can do with my body rather than worrying about how I look. I can't say I don't worry how I look now but I'm on the journey. I'm also thinking about how to teach my young daughters to have a healthy relationship with their appearance.
yes, I absolutely got some negative comments too and still remeber some of them vividly. Not so much the positive ones.... I think it can only be beneficial to at least also look at our abilities, character etc, and not just at how we look! And teaching our kids a good relationship with their bodies is so important!
This is probably the first time I have heard a woman say she doesn't care about her looks. It's uncomfortable for me to hear it because that's exactly the way I feel yet I'm ashamed to say out loud in a time where your external beauty is all that matters. Being 18 and having this belief also doesn't quite help. The lives of the people around me practically revolve around the way they look, and it feels scary sometimes when you are amongst the few who find it odd and concerning. Thank you for having the courage to talk about ideas like this. You are a breath of fresh air.
I never noticed your "big" nose. I think it's a normal size. Also didn't find your face asymmetrical tbh what about shaving ? would be killer if there were more natural bodies, means bodies with body hair, on RUclips and social media because shaved bodies are not natural and we all manipulate ourselves into believing that it's the normal state, but it's not and this bothers me accepting natural body hair especially on women should also be a thing it's sadly also a "beauty standard" would love to hear what you think, Lia
Thank you! I am glad you liked the video! I do sometimes shave but never my legs and I left my armpits for a whole year. But recently I started getting sexually inappropriate comments because of my body hair on Instagram... So that is the other side of it 🙄
oh wow, didn't know that, gotta check you out on Instagram :D I know it's hard, I struggle with that as well. it's easier with support so: I support you
@@ecofriendlia there will always be disgusting people in the world find comfort that you are a beautiful soul please always appear as you feel right F the commenters
I dont care how I look either. Or other people. While I do sometimes find people really interesting to look at due to their personal style it isn't a factor in how I feel about them
Hi Lia, I admire you so much! I love too see someone who looks peaceful with is body. I've always thought at my self as a cute girl but when I was 20 I started to have an obsession for my face. I had a compulsive behavior consisting in: spending hours at looking my face in the mirror or in a photography trying to repeat tons of I time what I liked about it; I started to count how many times my friends, my mum or others told me I was pretty; also I spended lot of time seeing the other the girls on social media to make paragon with me. I was anxious to meet the mirror, cried almost every time I looked my face through it. I thought only surgery could have made me happy. I am 25 now and I am not obsessed anymore but I have to do much for my mental health 🙃
I have always been a natural-look girl and liked it, but I have struggled a lot with accepting my body 100%. I got sensitive as a child to people's opinions about my appearance because I grew up early. I got so many comments about my size that I didn't want to tell people my age because I knew how the conversation was going to end. They would also compare me with my sister and my cousins, which were a bit older. I also got comments at school and I felt that this was a very important topic for people around me. Then, puberty came and I didn't know how to feel about the changes in my body. I got curves, stretch marks, acne and started to feel sexualized. It was so strange. I didn't feel really bad about my body but I felt bad about getting comments again on my appearance and my style. Later on, even if I felt good in my body, I had this idea of fixing my flaws in order to feel better. I focused on my skin and weight and how to make them look right. But luckily I eventually got fed up with fighting my perfectly functional and beautiful body and giving in to people's opinion. It took me years and I am somehow still in the process. But I started loving my body for what it is and now I have even decided to grow my firsts grays in my thirties because it feels right and liberating and beautiful to me. I do also love creativity, beauty and aesthetics and I think that is partly why I care about my look. But now I can finally see how subjective beauty is and how beautiful is the diversity of bodies and appearances in this world. I am also trying to experiment with not caring that much when I don't feel like it and this encourages me a lot. Thanks for this video, because this is a very important message. I urge you all: please, love your body, honor your own beauty and don't be afraid of expressing your uniqueness, whichever style you like!
Great message. I think many people get pressured by society to look a certain way but it’s important to focus on the inside rather than the outside. And congrats on the sponsorship! 👏🏻
Thank you! Yes, I totally agree! But I also totally understand that it can be hard. It's a journey like many things in life and I hope to maybe add a valuable perspective with this video ☺
I find women with short hair and/or no makeup to be very attractive! I realize that your video is more about the philosophy, but I want to post this for other women to see that many people find the natural "not made up" look to be gorgeous!
I have a very round face, gap in my front teeth, I’m chubby.. but I’m me and I feel ok when I look in the mirror . I have some health issues.. I have depression .. but I am focused on being more healthy . I wear minimal makeup and just don’t get too caught up in appearance . My spiritual well being is also more important to me .
This was a really inspiring video. Women are bombard with so many airbrushed and photoshoped images from models who don't even eat and have historically had so much of their worth tied to their looks that it severely damages so many women mentally. There's literally billions of dollars invested from beauty companies into making women feel awful about themselves and solving it with some new product. Even worse for anyone who doesn't have the marketing-decided current beauty standard. And, unfortunately, men are increasingly starting to get pressured the same way with how visual everything is becoming. As you said, I have no issue with anyone who genuinely enjoys makeup or any of that, but what I hate is the pressure from society that women and an increasingly larger number of men feel like that HAVE to do this or that to get accepted or start losing their self-worth/confidence because of these things. Seeing someone just satisfied with how they look is so refreshing. I think you're really pretty too!
Only over lockdown I've came to the same conclusion. I realised how much effort and mental energy I was giving to look good to other people , To look pleasing to people I pass on the street and never see again. I now dress for me and myself only :o)
Wichtiges Thema, und schön, dass du es aufgegriffen hast. Ich habe eine ganz ähnliche Einstellung zu meinem Körper, aber dafür musste ich deutlich älter werden. Ich lebe diese Einstellung aber anders aus, ich liebe z.B. Mode und setze mich viel damit auseinander. Ich glaube, wenn man erwachsen wird, tanzt man immer auf einem Seil und muss das Gleichgewicht finden zwischen Akzeptanz durch Anpassung/Ähnlichkeit auf der einen Seite und Individualität auf der anderen. Wir leben ja alle in einem sozialen Kontext, und da gibt es immer beide Kräfte. Und klar muss man alle akzeptieren... dennoch ertappe ich mich leider immer wieder dabei, wie ich die offensichtlich operierten innerlich verurteile und nicht mehr ernst nehmen kann. Für mich sagen sie damit aus: Ich komme nicht klar mit mir und kann nicht in Würde älter werden. Und das ist für mich das Gegenteil von Attraktivität und Schönheit. Das Gegenteil von Selbstliebe. Schade finde ich das. Kontroverses Thema, ich weiß. 😂 Mach weiter so! 🙋♀️
I think your nose is super cute :-) Noses sharpen the profiles of our faces, Literally and figuratively. They make us unique. So wear yours with pride! :-)
You look great, who cares what others think, besides, most women admire the bravery of wearing a buzz cut, some would love the freedom from messing with their hair…no bad hair days, included!
I actually really like your nose. I’m not white and bigger noses are normal to me. I’ve always thought white girls look so cool and beautiful when they have noses that don’t fit eurocentric beauty standards. I like strong noses.
Genau! Und darum möchte ich darauf lieber den Fokus legen☺️ Obwohl ich natürlich verstehen kann dass einem das Aussehen auch viel Freue oder Sorgen machen kann
The older I get the less I care about every single small detail. When I was younger I was thinking about it all the time what other people think and if they notice small imperfections etc. I had a really unrealistic image of myself. I was wearing clothes and makeup I didn’t even like just to fit in and look a certain way. When I was in my twenties I had therapy and it really changed the way I think. Two years ago I had a nose job and decided to try lip fillers because those two things genuinely bothered me for 15 years. I do not regret anything. I feel so much better, I wear less makeup, I’m more confident and now at 31 I feel like I’ve accepted myself and I’m not bothered by looking in the mirror. The difference is that before I was doing everything for other people’s sake and now I’m doing it for myself. It’s a huge difference.
Another thing... I understand you talked about how your hair gets really oily naturally but one thing I've been doing is only mechanically cleaning my hair. I have hard water too and when I tried to use it it made not using shampoo impossible. Did you ever try using a boar bristle brush? Sorry for commenting this on this specific video but I thought of it since you mentioned growing your hair out again.
To me it isn't an be-all end-all, but I do find it quite important how I look and how others present themselves (looks and what/how they say things. Just because it usually says something about the person.
I understand that too! I just think it becomes a problem if we start lresenting ourselves in a way we thing other want it from us instead of being us (in the way we present ourselves too) ☺
Oh my - this couldn't have come at a more interesting time to be honest. I have your hair and I actually live in Austria but am from Los Angeles and am visiting here for a few months. I found that in Europe, it's not such an issue. Here, it's like whut. People think you're either angry, gay, or just weird. Or edgy...depending on how you're dressing and presenting yourself. I have realized the huge importance of how hair plays a factor in how people respond to you (depending on where you live) and it's been quite jarring to get so stared at here. It's quite uncomfortable. But will I grow it out? Oh hell no. xoxo
Fico feliz que haja pessoas como você no mundo, achei que eu era a única garota no mundo que não se importa com aparência, eu não adquiri esse pensamento no meio do caminho, eu já nasci com isso, não me sentia confortável no grupo de garotas da minha idade pois aparência era o tema preferido delas, eu me isolei depois disso, qualquer diálogo que seja sobre aparência eu sinto sono e solidão.
Good perspective on appearances! I've felt pressure to look good and my best for six decades and it's just way too much to think about how I look so much of the time. It's good to examine why that is. Also, is that the tank top you re-engineered? nice work!
Hi Miss Beauty create pleasure for you and others,,,, So its formal if you are feeling beauty in yours all kind of work. Keep life like this in Natural way..
Hello! Im a 17 girl who is trying to accept her body and not depeding from others thoughts …I suffered from an eating disorder 2 years ago and Im still fighting agaist some of bad concepts that are stuck in my head about my body and the way I present to others …thank you so much for sharing this video,I needed it❤️ (also sorry If my english isnt perfect)
Lea, consider this, that you are young and thin. Your nose is good too, it is stright and symertical to your face. By the way, I think, that your face is symertical too- and it was my first thought, before you said that your face isn't symmertical. What's my point, is that you are a beautiful young woman. So it is easy for you accepting your body. But think about the people, who are really big problems with their anatomy, their faces ( sometimes, because of the illneses, obesity or just really asymmetical type of face). In such cases, it can be really difficult to accept it. Everyone prefers to have nice face, and thin healthy body, even without expensive fancy clothes, and jewellery 🙂
I understand that! That is why I said it is easier for me because I am privileged like that. I see that I am young, thin, able-bodied, etc... Maybe I will have struggles accepting my body when I am older and that is ok too ☺
It's great that you aknowledge your privileges. But some people can be overweight, have coloured skin, have seen their body changed after giving birth (things that are considered as beeing less lucky) and be super grateful for that ! I love what i call my "mommy belly" because it reminds me of what my body has done. And i love that i'm plump becaus it's part of my identity.
Of course! I just wanted to acknowledge that I fit in many societal "norms" so maybe it is easier for me. Also because if I didn't point them out there would be more comments like "you are young, thin, etc for me it's not that easy". But I absolutely understand that we can be grateful for many different bodies since they mean different things to us and because "beauty" is really not only one body type ☺️
@Julie Pltz Yes,ok.I don't want to assume ill intentions where there are none,but to some degree semantics do matter and whether you are a fluent English speaker or not,you subsumed having "colored skin" under a general theme of presumed negative traits. Just letting you know that to people of colour,this can come off as assuming that whiteness is an jdeal.That is definitely a problematic starting point- people of colour don't need your pity and it doesn't matter what language you speak.
@@mirandatarantella I see the point. But comming from Europe, it is true to consider that a discrimination with your skin type exists and also considering the standard of beauty. That's a reality eventhough I'm still really bothered by this. But as much as when you have acne, or strech mark, or any other non-conventianal characteristics.
There are people who have an imaginary Y axis, they just look at others & put them either above them & suffer from inferiority complex or below them & suffer from superiority complex. I have a X axis where everybody looks the same.
long hair isn‘t necessarily feminine. just think of native american men, do they look any feminine to you?😂 not to me, at least! some people don‘t think of gender at all when thinking about the length of their hair. some instead think of being natural and being in tune with what nature is trying to equip u with
@@ecofriendlia oh ok. i agree with gatis regarding nutritiion though (not all but the majority )but that doesn't give him the right to be mean and insult people. he also got flaws physically just like all of us.
You have a Asian accent, why? Also, you look nice, normal, and natural. And I have to say that you do not have a big nose, it is average size, it's even cutish.
Finding the confidence to accept yourself without needing validation from others is important to living a happy life. I know a lot of people in my life that worry too much about how others feel they look or what others think about how they live their life.
Yes, I think that too! There is nothing wrong with dressing and presenting yourself the way you like it but sadly a lot of us do these things not for ourselves but for someone else or society or whatever...
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Yes. I embrace my white hairs because I went through intense suicidality and never thought I’d live long enough to get white hair. I love my wrinkles because they are my body’s way of keeping a journal of my smiles and frowns. I remember finding my grandmother - in her 80’s, bald, wrinkled, and mottled skin - so very beautiful because her heart was so kind. Thank you for this video reminding me of all this.
You are a very wise young woman, Lia, for one so young and you look lovely. I am 75 years old and living on my own for the first time in many decades. It is so freeing to just do what feels right for yourself and not have to please others. I am cutting down in many areas - plastic, clothes, possessions, people too, actually - and your vlogs have been so interesting. I just still can't stop straightening my very frizzy hair. Perhaps I should shave it off like you! Thank you and best wishes for your channel.
totally. There are so many more interesting things about a person than what they look like
Yes, I think so too! ☺ I am way more interested in your thoughts and actions than in how you look ☺
I think thoughts shape the way we look . And there are very interesting ways to “ scientifically” test it out
I’m so so glad you made this video. In a world of perfection portrayed on social media - it’s very rare to find someone who’s truly happy in their appearance. Which is so so sad. At one point I could never leave the house without wearing makeup - again so sad. After years it’s only recently where I’ve felt comfortable (and lazy 😂) enough to not be bothered about it.
I feel like videos like these and people like you who are so real and true, will help people much more than you know. I think we’ll all always have something we’re not happy with but like they say - if it’s not broke don’t fix it.
Unfortunately the dark side of social media makes you feel like everything is broken and you can’t be complete until you fix it. Not true.
Such a valuable video. I hope someone watching this, that’s struggling, learn to love themselves in the skin they’re in ✨
This comment means a lot to me! And I hope too that more people can see that our appearance is really not the most important thing. I absolutely think we should do what makes us happy but I think we should not feel pressured unto doing things that we don't do for us but just to fix things that aren't broken as you said so well! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts ☺
@ but Lia didn’t say she stopped having preferences? We can all be minimalist but have our own style and taste. I think she was trying to get at the bigger picture here which is overall not looking like or fitting in with a certain aesthetic or theme etc ☺️
Τhere is nothing more refreshing and liberating than hearing a woman sayimg she doesn't care how she looks. You are my idol, honestly. My highest aspirsrion in life is to be like you, as I suffer from EXTREME self image issues and obsession over looks.
Your eyes speak so much! I like looking at your videos because you are one of the few people on RUclips that seems to be “normal and real” very honest as well.
Thank you! I really try to keep it normal and real ☺
Thank you for this video. In the past, I couldn't imagine going out without makeup. This is the norm for me now. I started to feel good about myself with no camouflage on my body. I don't wear jewelry, I dress comfortably, and I've finally achieved happiness in minimalism. You are wonderful the way you are ❤️
Thank you! And that sounds wonderful! ☺❤
I find it sad, how many people do surgery just to 'look better'. I think your views are very sensible. Love that you post so often nowadays, feels like talking to a good friend☺️
This reminds me of an experiment that I did after I had my son. I spent quite a few months without looking at myself in a large mirror. (I did use a small one to tame my eyebrows) but that was all. I was tired of obsessing with my body and my face and my hair. After this time period I found that I was forced to focus more on doing things and eating healthy. I was forced to stop thinking on a daily basis about my looks and over analyzing features that others really "don't see". Once I did start using a larger mirror again I was happier with my appearance but mostly because I started making better choices for my health wich then reflected in my appearance rather than trying to find a quick fix, like clothes and makeup and hairstyles. These practices actually took time from me taking better care of myself. Since this experiment I have learned balance. I can have the best of both worlds. Sometimes we have to take ourselves completely out of something to see whats actually going on. I think this is all she is saying. Rather than feeling the need for a quick beauty fix, she has let that mentality go. And in return she is blessed with a healthy physic and clear skin. 😊😊
That sounds like a great experiment! And in the end, it definitely is about balance and finding a way to be ourselves including making the intentional decision to wear/or not wear makeup, jewelry, certain clothes, etc ☺
I did something similar, i only had a small mirror to see my face/hair in an apt i lived in for 4 years. I didn't even notice tbh until i had a friend stay with me and she was very confused abt how i would see myself fully. There were full length mirrors in the hall by the elevator, so she would just run down the hall to look at herself, which I hadn't even thought of, haha.
I have now been living in an apartment without a full mirror for 2 years. It's been great for me to focus more on how clothing feels and how my body feels inside and outside, and it has open a new dimension where I am experimenting much more with my style and judging less my image.
This is so interesting, I did something similar! It wasn't really an experiment, I just moved from a furnished apartment to an unfurnished one a few years back, and I never bought a full body mirror. It's so healthy. When I put my clothes on I just choose something I actually feel like that day, not depending on how it looks on me. I've never been love confident in my body, cause I depend on how I FEEL and not on judging my self on appearance.
LOVEDDDD that intro, it genuinely made me grin. the square space intro was sooo smooth haha
Had a thank you! I wasn't sure if it was good or if people would be offended because the topic is more serious and I make an ad out of it ☺
Totally iconic intro, Lia. 😂 Okay, I feel like I have to share this tidbit to anyone who feels like they have an asymmetrical face - 1) asymmetry is SUPER common, even movie stars have this 2) Asymmetry is more evident when you look in photos and YES even in the mirror, because it’s 2-dimensional. It seems like a 3-D image, but that’s just our brain interpreting the data that is reflecting back. I learned this when I was worried about my son‘s flat head and why his facial asymmetry looks worse in a mirror. So THERE YA GO, the more you know right? 😌
That is an interesting addition ☺ and yes, I was a bit worried some people would be upset about the intro but until now I think the same amount of people think it's funny ☺
People are always shocked when I say I don't care about my hair. I'll cut and dye my own hair, I always just think "oh well if it goes wrong it's just hair" 🤷♀️
Yes, I have cut my hair for so many times and mostly it was ok ☺ and it's really just hair so a short while later we get a new chance 😉
If you cut it and dye it, you obviously care, lol.
@@OfWavesAndWinds not nessecarily
, no. I'm a chef, I have to keep my hair short so I cut it, but I dont style it. Sometimes I dye it because I'm bored and then it grows out for years, but I dont care that I have 5inch roots and faded colour.
@@OfWavesAndWinds I think that you can dye and cut your hair without linking the new style to your self worth if you know what I mean. That disconnect is the "not caring" part. ❤️
I'm so so far away from this way of thinking, but I understand your point of view and I wish I could be more like you. I think I would be happier...
Just do what is right for you and your authentic self ❤️Sending you love - form woman to woman (if isn’t easy for us!)
I have been following you for almost 1.5 years and also proudly following you become more successful day by day! Congrats and thank you for this amazing channel❣️❣️
I had quite a bad accident a yesr ago which meant that I couldn't colour or style my hair or apply makeup and I found it difficult to dress myself. The result of all that means that my survival was more important than my image. With that, my vanity was gone! I look at my self in a whole new way now.
Confidence allows you not to care, and confidence you have in buckets. Also, at your tender age, I sometimes envy your clarity. Everyone's face is assymetrical.
Now, I'm going to make some delicious soup. Be well !
You are strong and beautiful and such an inspiration! Your videos have helped me rethink so much of my life recently! ❤️
Lia, you have a light around you . Thank you for sharing your insight.
What I heared from u is to acknowledge ur privileged and be greatful, thank u for reminding ppl to stay positive but for me it's hard to not obsess over beauty, actually im watching this cuz i feel ugly ,iv tried the diets, exercise and failed, now im ready to accept i have no control over my looks and life doesnt end cuz im ugly, I'm not at a place of confidence now but I'm ready to try. This video was a good start 🙏.
I am so grateful to you for this video. I really appreciate your disclaimers ad well. I've always had a difficult relationship with my appearance but at this point a lot of it does stem from skin issues and physical health issues. I think we often forget how many things outside our control directly affect our sense of self.
Thank you! I am always trying to express that this is just my perspective and I agree with you that that is very important! I am glad that you liked the video ☺
Love the intro and love this video!!! It’s all about appreciating what you do have.
I want to thank you for this video. I used to be very upset and obsessed with my appearance, i train myself to let go of it. But the part which really touched me, is when you said your body doesn't hurt all the time. It's true, we forget that our body make us able to do a lot of things. For the past year I have some chronic pain which invalidade me, and i have to chose what i do everyday and prioritize. It's hard.
I love this video ❤️ My favourite part was when you said you want to explore finding yourself and the beauty in feeling like yourself 🙏🏼 I feel like we’re on a similar journey, all the best ❤️
This video is beautiful and thoughtful! Deep stuff!
I agree with you, I like to focus on how my body feels too, and work from that space. I feel like that is a healthy place to work from!
What I notice about others when I meet them, is their soul. Who they are. Things like old shoes or new shoes or such, I really don't pay attention to. Thoughtfulness, warmth and light decorate a human being. The rest is icing!!!
One of my close friends looks like a model, and dresses to the nines. Me, I wear yoga pants and a sweater, hair in a ponytail. We have so much fun when we are together, we could be sitting in a chair drinking tea, doing nothing else and have a great time!💖
Thank you for this. I feel the same. My heart recognizes that you are beautiful. 🌼
This video boosted my self love 1000%💞
I am happy to read that ☺❤
You're awesome and I love your enthusiasm in your videos!😃
I feel there is nothing more powerful than you being fully and unapologetically you because that, whether we're aware of it or not, gives me permission to be fully myself, too. And hopefully this goes vice versa. I always find that people look their best if they dare to be themselves ❤️
I appreciate your messages and really love your simple beauty!
I enjoyed this video thank u n ur one of the very few minimalists that are genuinely content n have real joy in their life💕
Watching this I think self-actualization....and of Abraham Maslow. It is good not to be wrapped up so tight in belief that I have to look like someone or something other than what I truly am and oh so wonderful not to care what others think.
I just found your channel earlier this week and find it truly helpful and calming to watch. Thank you!
True beauty shines from within 🌿✨💚💎
Yes absolutely! I'd rather do beautiful things, communicate important things, etc instead of just looking good ☺
You are an interesting, beautiful, powerful human. And you have a great sense of humour! Thank you for this video that is a good reminder of why we are so much more than someone else's definition of us.
Great message! I don't do my makeup or fix my hair into a formal hairstyle. I bye used clothes and few new clothes I feel comfortable in. It can make me wonder if people judge me for not having new outfits or hairstyles, makeup or nails. I think that relates to marketing or social expectations of women. I am comfortable with how I am and I am glad to hear your message.
100% this! You nailed it Lia!
I've been working on this recently as well! I have depression that seems to worsen occasionally, for now example. I've not been exercising and eating well like I used to and I've put on a bit of weight/lost muscle. I'm trying to be okay with the changes and love my body for what it is. It has a lot to do with comfortable clothing like you said! I've changed up my wardrobe a lot and it helps so much.
Also, I've always thought that your nose and face as a whole are so darling 💕 hehe
"I want to get away of trying to look different" ❤
Human anatomy is so beatiful and fine but we are still looking at the mirror all day , everyday and say " How my hair looks ? Is my nose looking fine ? Is outfit of the day good enough ? I don't think my jewerly match my outfit " etc. I don't want to waste my time with these things. I want to cook , take care of my plants more , spending time with my cats and don't thinking these unneceserry stuffs ! 🌱🌿
Yes! Absolutely! I also think that these other things are so much more important than our appearance ☺
It's important to care about how we look (the outside matters because it is YOU) but without the obsession with perfection that social media focus on.
I totally agree with you on “do not care about your appearance to the others”. This way we remember to maintain our body and appearance to our self appreciation☺️ If we are happy with our own body it doesn’t matter what the others think😊
We are all our own biggest critics! The most beautiful and important thing is that we are as happy and healthy as we can be in our own bodies! After that, if someone wants to wear makeup or jewelry or whatnot, that's great and they should definitely express themselves however they want but they should NEVER feel that those things are requirments! Thank you for another great and thought-provoking video!❤
Your videos are so deep! When I was a teenager I got a few negative comments on aspects of my appearance (I suspect most girls do) and that stuck with me. When I was pregnant, and suddenly less physically able, was the first time I realised I should focus on being grateful for what I can do with my body rather than worrying about how I look. I can't say I don't worry how I look now but I'm on the journey. I'm also thinking about how to teach my young daughters to have a healthy relationship with their appearance.
yes, I absolutely got some negative comments too and still remeber some of them vividly. Not so much the positive ones.... I think it can only be beneficial to at least also look at our abilities, character etc, and not just at how we look! And teaching our kids a good relationship with their bodies is so important!
This is probably the first time I have heard a woman say she doesn't care about her looks. It's uncomfortable for me to hear it because that's exactly the way I feel yet I'm ashamed to say out loud in a time where your external beauty is all that matters. Being 18 and having this belief also doesn't quite help. The lives of the people around me practically revolve around the way they look, and it feels scary sometimes when you are amongst the few who find it odd and concerning. Thank you for having the courage to talk about ideas like this. You are a breath of fresh air.
I never noticed your "big" nose. I think it's a normal size. Also didn't find your face asymmetrical tbh
what about shaving ? would be killer if there were more natural bodies, means bodies with body hair, on RUclips and social media
because shaved bodies are not natural and we all manipulate ourselves into believing that it's the normal state, but it's not and this bothers me
accepting natural body hair especially on women should also be a thing
it's sadly also a "beauty standard"
would love to hear what you think, Lia
Thank you! I am glad you liked the video! I do sometimes shave but never my legs and I left my armpits for a whole year. But recently I started getting sexually inappropriate comments because of my body hair on Instagram... So that is the other side of it 🙄
oh wow, didn't know that, gotta check you out on Instagram :D I know it's hard, I struggle with that as well.
it's easier with support so: I support you
@@ecofriendlia there will always be disgusting people in the world find comfort that you are a beautiful soul please always appear as you feel right F the commenters
I dont care how I look either. Or other people. While I do sometimes find people really interesting to look at due to their personal style it isn't a factor in how I feel about them
Thank you so much for posting this, I agree with all of this.
I'm so glad you made this video. Excellent content. "Find beauty in feeling like myself." Such great advice.
Yes! Thank you! I am glad you liked it! :)
thank you sooo much! 💓
Hi Lia, I admire you so much! I love too see someone who looks peaceful with is body.
I've always thought at my self as a cute girl but when I was 20 I started to have an obsession for my face. I had a compulsive behavior consisting in: spending hours at looking my face in the mirror or in a photography trying to repeat tons of I time what I liked about it; I started to count how many times my friends, my mum or others told me I was pretty; also I spended lot of time seeing the other the girls on social media to make paragon with me. I was anxious to meet the mirror, cried almost every time I looked my face through it. I thought only surgery could have made me happy.
I am 25 now and I am not obsessed anymore but I have to do much for my mental health 🙃
I have always been a natural-look girl and liked it, but I have struggled a lot with accepting my body 100%. I got sensitive as a child to people's opinions about my appearance because I grew up early. I got so many comments about my size that I didn't want to tell people my age because I knew how the conversation was going to end. They would also compare me with my sister and my cousins, which were a bit older. I also got comments at school and I felt that this was a very important topic for people around me.
Then, puberty came and I didn't know how to feel about the changes in my body. I got curves, stretch marks, acne and started to feel sexualized. It was so strange. I didn't feel really bad about my body but I felt bad about getting comments again on my appearance and my style.
Later on, even if I felt good in my body, I had this idea of fixing my flaws in order to feel better. I focused on my skin and weight and how to make them look right. But luckily I eventually got fed up with fighting my perfectly functional and beautiful body and giving in to people's opinion. It took me years and I am somehow still in the process. But I started loving my body for what it is and now I have even decided to grow my firsts grays in my thirties because it feels right and liberating and beautiful to me.
I do also love creativity, beauty and aesthetics and I think that is partly why I care about my look. But now I can finally see how subjective beauty is and how beautiful is the diversity of bodies and appearances in this world. I am also trying to experiment with not caring that much when I don't feel like it and this encourages me a lot. Thanks for this video, because this is a very important message. I urge you all: please, love your body, honor your own beauty and don't be afraid of expressing your uniqueness, whichever style you like!
Great message. I think many people get pressured by society to look a certain way but it’s important to focus on the inside rather than the outside. And congrats on the sponsorship! 👏🏻
Thank you! Yes, I totally agree! But I also totally understand that it can be hard. It's a journey like many things in life and I hope to maybe add a valuable perspective with this video ☺
You wrote what i was thinking, literally 👏💚
@@ecofriendlia definitely!
I find women with short hair and/or no makeup to be very attractive! I realize that your video is more about the philosophy, but I want to post this for other women to see that many people find the natural "not made up" look to be gorgeous!
I have a very round face, gap in my front teeth, I’m chubby.. but I’m me and I feel ok when I look in the mirror . I have some health issues.. I have depression .. but I am focused on being more healthy . I wear minimal makeup and just don’t get too caught up in appearance . My spiritual well being is also more important to me .
This was a really inspiring video. Women are bombard with so many airbrushed and photoshoped images from models who don't even eat and have historically had so much of their worth tied to their looks that it severely damages so many women mentally. There's literally billions of dollars invested from beauty companies into making women feel awful about themselves and solving it with some new product. Even worse for anyone who doesn't have the marketing-decided current beauty standard. And, unfortunately, men are increasingly starting to get pressured the same way with how visual everything is becoming. As you said, I have no issue with anyone who genuinely enjoys makeup or any of that, but what I hate is the pressure from society that women and an increasingly larger number of men feel like that HAVE to do this or that to get accepted or start losing their self-worth/confidence because of these things. Seeing someone just satisfied with how they look is so refreshing. I think you're really pretty too!
Only over lockdown I've came to the same conclusion. I realised how much effort and mental energy I was giving to look good to other people , To look pleasing to people I pass on the street and never see again. I now dress for me and myself only :o)
Great video :) so much of self love and self acceptance 💕 thank you ❤️
Thank you! I am glad you liked it! ☺
Wichtiges Thema, und schön, dass du es aufgegriffen hast. Ich habe eine ganz ähnliche Einstellung zu meinem Körper, aber dafür musste ich deutlich älter werden. Ich lebe diese Einstellung aber anders aus, ich liebe z.B. Mode und setze mich viel damit auseinander.
Ich glaube, wenn man erwachsen wird, tanzt man immer auf einem Seil und muss das Gleichgewicht finden zwischen Akzeptanz durch Anpassung/Ähnlichkeit auf der einen Seite und Individualität auf der anderen. Wir leben ja alle in einem sozialen Kontext, und da gibt es immer beide Kräfte.
Und klar muss man alle akzeptieren... dennoch ertappe ich mich leider immer wieder dabei, wie ich die offensichtlich operierten innerlich verurteile und nicht mehr ernst nehmen kann. Für mich sagen sie damit aus: Ich komme nicht klar mit mir und kann nicht in Würde älter werden. Und das ist für mich das Gegenteil von Attraktivität und Schönheit. Das Gegenteil von Selbstliebe. Schade finde ich das. Kontroverses Thema, ich weiß. 😂
Mach weiter so! 🙋♀️
This needs to reach out to more people ♥️
I think your nose is super cute :-) Noses sharpen the profiles of our faces, Literally and figuratively. They make us unique. So wear yours with pride! :-)
I really like the way you think!
Thank you for this video. I love what you say ☺️
What a lovely video, thanks 💗
Thank you! ☺️
I am so inspired by you
Your amazing 💚
Thank you so much!
You look great, who cares what others think, besides, most women admire the bravery of wearing a buzz cut, some would love the freedom from messing with their hair…no bad hair days, included!
👏👏👏👏 You are brilliant 👌👌😍😍😍😍😍😍
I actually really like your nose. I’m not white and bigger noses are normal to me. I’ve always thought white girls look so cool and beautiful when they have noses that don’t fit eurocentric beauty standards. I like strong noses.
you are beautiful the way you look and besides i think anyone is good enough how they look
Totally agree ! 😃👏
Es ist viel leichter gut auszusehen als ein guter und aufrichtiger Mensch zu sein. Darauf sollten wir uns etwas mehr besinnen. 💚
Genau! Und darum möchte ich darauf lieber den Fokus legen☺️ Obwohl ich natürlich verstehen kann dass einem das Aussehen auch viel Freue oder Sorgen machen kann
You are awesome !
The older I get the less I care about every single small detail. When I was younger I was thinking about it all the time what other people think and if they notice small imperfections etc. I had a really unrealistic image of myself. I was wearing clothes and makeup I didn’t even like just to fit in and look a certain way. When I was in my twenties I had therapy and it really changed the way I think.
Two years ago I had a nose job and decided to try lip fillers because those two things genuinely bothered me for 15 years. I do not regret anything. I feel so much better, I wear less makeup, I’m more confident and now at 31 I feel like I’ve accepted myself and I’m not bothered by looking in the mirror.
The difference is that before I was doing everything for other people’s sake and now I’m doing it for myself. It’s a huge difference.
🙏 thank you
This was a great video.
6:57 I have a really hard time with that because my body doesn’t work the way it should and it’s disabling
Another thing... I understand you talked about how your hair gets really oily naturally but one thing I've been doing is only mechanically cleaning my hair. I have hard water too and when I tried to use it it made not using shampoo impossible. Did you ever try using a boar bristle brush? Sorry for commenting this on this specific video but I thought of it since you mentioned growing your hair out again.
No, it's done I appreciate it! I haven't had a bit bristle brush in a looooong time, maybe as a kid. Maybe, I'll give it another try ☺
WOW that was a smooth intro I love it hahahhahahahh
I don't care how I look either. There's so much more life!
To me it isn't an be-all end-all, but I do find it quite important how I look and how others present themselves (looks and what/how they say things. Just because it usually says something about the person.
I understand that too! I just think it becomes a problem if we start lresenting ourselves in a way we thing other want it from us instead of being us (in the way we present ourselves too) ☺
What was it like having cancer as a child? If you feel comfortable talking about it I would be interested watching a video on the topic 💕
Oh my - this couldn't have come at a more interesting time to be honest. I have your hair and I actually live in Austria but am from Los Angeles and am visiting here for a few months. I found that in Europe, it's not such an issue. Here, it's like whut. People think you're either angry, gay, or just weird. Or edgy...depending on how you're dressing and presenting yourself. I have realized the huge importance of how hair plays a factor in how people respond to you (depending on where you live) and it's been quite jarring to get so stared at here. It's quite uncomfortable. But will I grow it out? Oh hell no. xoxo
But you look really beautiful sister👍
Fico feliz que haja pessoas como você no mundo, achei que eu era a única garota no mundo que não se importa com aparência, eu não adquiri esse pensamento no meio do caminho, eu já nasci com isso, não me sentia confortável no grupo de garotas da minha idade pois aparência era o tema preferido delas, eu me isolei depois disso, qualquer diálogo que seja sobre aparência eu sinto sono e solidão.
Good perspective on appearances! I've felt pressure to look good and my best for six decades and it's just way too much to think about how I look so much of the time. It's good to examine why that is. Also, is that the tank top you re-engineered? nice work!
i have stopped caring. i am kind of attractive and in shape but just do not care much on how esp men perceive me anymore
Hi Miss Beauty create pleasure for you and others,,,, So its formal if you are feeling beauty in yours all kind of work. Keep life like this in Natural way..
Hello! Im a 17 girl who is trying to accept her body and not depeding from others thoughts …I suffered from an eating disorder 2 years ago and Im still fighting agaist some of bad concepts that are stuck in my head about my body and the way I present to others …thank you so much for sharing this video,I needed it❤️ (also sorry If my english isnt perfect)
Lea, consider this, that you are young and thin. Your nose is good too, it is stright and symertical to your face. By the way, I think, that your face is symertical too- and it was my first thought, before you said that your face isn't symmertical.
What's my point, is that you are a beautiful young woman. So it is easy for you accepting your body.
But think about the people, who are really big problems with their anatomy, their faces ( sometimes, because of the illneses, obesity or just really asymmetical type of face). In such cases, it can be really difficult to accept it. Everyone prefers to have nice face, and thin healthy body, even without expensive fancy clothes, and jewellery 🙂
I understand that! That is why I said it is easier for me because I am privileged like that. I see that I am young, thin, able-bodied, etc... Maybe I will have struggles accepting my body when I am older and that is ok too ☺
You are beautiful 😘💜💜💜💜
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It's great that you aknowledge your privileges. But some people can be overweight, have coloured skin, have seen their body changed after giving birth (things that are considered as beeing less lucky) and be super grateful for that ! I love what i call my "mommy belly" because it reminds me of what my body has done. And i love that i'm plump becaus it's part of my identity.
Of course! I just wanted to acknowledge that I fit in many societal "norms" so maybe it is easier for me. Also because if I didn't point them out there would be more comments like "you are young, thin, etc for me it's not that easy". But I absolutely understand that we can be grateful for many different bodies since they mean different things to us and because "beauty" is really not only one body type ☺️
HAVE COLOURED SKIN???? wtf.
@@mirandatarantella sorry, I don't speak english so well. So I probably used a word that is rude. That was not my intention at all.
@Julie Pltz Yes,ok.I don't want to assume ill intentions where there are none,but to some degree semantics do matter and whether you are a fluent English speaker or not,you subsumed having "colored skin" under a general theme of presumed negative traits.
Just letting you know that to people of colour,this can come off as assuming that whiteness is an jdeal.That is definitely a problematic starting point- people of colour don't need your pity and it doesn't matter what language you speak.
@@mirandatarantella I see the point. But comming from Europe, it is true to consider that a discrimination with your skin type exists and also considering the standard of beauty. That's a reality eventhough I'm still really bothered by this. But as much as when you have acne, or strech mark, or any other non-conventianal characteristics.
I never cared how I look it makes no sense to waste your time to care how you look
There are people who have an imaginary Y axis, they just look at others & put them either above them & suffer from inferiority complex or below them & suffer from superiority complex. I have a X axis where everybody looks the same.
IF, you don’t care how you look then why do you worry about not having a long hair is such a contradiction
long hair isn‘t necessarily feminine. just think of native american men, do they look any feminine to you?😂 not to me, at least! some people don‘t think of gender at all when thinking about the length of their hair. some instead think of being natural and being in tune with what nature is trying to equip u with
You make me want go shave my hair
i have a strong feeling that this is a lowkey response to gatis previous video about you.
It could be but I filmed it before that so no, not really ☺
@@ecofriendlia oh ok. i agree with gatis regarding nutritiion though (not all but the majority )but that doesn't give him the right to be mean and insult people. he also got flaws physically just like all of us.
Who is gatis and why did this person make a video about her?
We are not our body.
You are inspiring!
Thank you!
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You have a Asian accent, why? Also, you look nice, normal, and natural. And I have to say that you do not have a big nose, it is average size, it's even cutish.