The #1 sign it’s time to DUMP your narcissist

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[@balozhende5727]

It is not just romantic partners that may be a narcissist. A long-term friend can be worse. I never have a problem with romantic partners. But a friend has been the culprit. He fooled me for decades.

[@davidemm829]

Glib, smug, and contemptuous..is it's all over time. They are not safe to be around at all..

[@user-qv9nw1dq2f]

I totally agree. When there’s disdain it’s over.

[@aaronjohnmaughan]

I was dating a Cluster B woman for a period of time. Didn't realize at first what I was dealing with. These people will actually seek to harm you if you stand up to them. One night we were watching some YT clips together and happened upon a news story aboutva woman who had been caught trying to slowly poison her husband for life insurance money. I was sickened by the story, but she responded with "yep, women will do that sort of thing." In reality she was admitting that SHE would consider doing that sort of thing.
If you think they might be capable of it, you're probably not wrong. Get out before you get hurt.

[@carparthero]

i make an honest effort to treat people fair. if i am unsure about someone new in my life, i ask myself 4 questions:
1-what value does this person bring to my life?
2-how does this person make me feel when i am around them?
3-if i stayed to myself, what would i actually miss about this person?
4-would this person put in the same or a comparable effort for me if i was in a jam, that i would or have done for them?
if you actually have to ask any or all of these questions out loud with the other person, that's a huge red flag.
i actually asked question #1 with a female, and she got upset that i was catching on to her freeloading scheme. she disappeared shortly after being called out.
cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

[@AlineDreams]

I feel some red flags from you. Calling a woman a "female" is one of them. Only wanting to be with people who bring something valuable to you and treating the relationship as a business and not as something where two people get along with no such a need for strings attached is another. I'm not saying you're a narcissist, but I'm saying you may need to reevaluate and improve yourself, as we all must and need to.

[@gracebe235]

@@AlineDreams……I don’t know…..I guess I could see their list both ways. But to be fair, one does have to start asking themselves similar questions regarding the people in their life, especially if they have been dealing with some abusive narcissistic relationships.
It’s said that we are who we surround ourselves with, and that it’s best to surround ourselves with people that are smarter than us if we want to learn more and be better. So I can see them asking question #1. I mean, why waste one’s time with people who do not help us be better people ourselves? I’m not saying that we don’t have that one friend who always seems to need help…..we can learn from all sorts of people. What I am saying, is after having some bad relationships, one would do well to have some sort of checklist or standard to live by, if they want to see some improvements in different areas of their life. In other words, why keep repeating the same mistakes over and over? Instead, change things up to hopefully improve things?

[@carparthero]

@AlineDreams i am 50 and feel very comfortable with how i weed out people. new or old.
if personal relationships were a "business" as you allege, i would want/expect people to do more for me than i do for them lol. if you go back and read question #4 , it's clear as day that i said "equal or comparable" not more for my benefit lol.
as a reformed people pleaser, i have a right to expect some level of reciprocity from people. i have never looked to get more out of people than what i give.
the "business " of my mental health is sacrosanct. i have no problem walking away from anyone or anything that is bad for my well-being.
if people don't like how they are being treated, then don't do it to others.
if i choose to do something with no strings attached, i would just go volunteer at the soup kitchen or donate some $/valuable items at a charity. the return on investment there would be making a positive impact and hopefully the recipient can make something better for themselves. there's nothing to gain for me, no money or facebook likes lol.
if me calling a woman a female offends you, that's really unfortunate you feel that way. the female in question was actually deserving to be called a much vulgar word, but i chose to take the high road and used my canadian manners.
about self-improvement, that's probably the only thing i would agree on within your comments.

[@flyingsaucer1268]

after watching 100's of your and other youtubers NARC-videos, I feel like an expert 🧐
I think I am well prepred for my next (and hopefully last) relationship 👩‍❤‍💋‍👨

[@williambox2463]

I think it’s worth reflecting on how beautiful Danielle is.

[@Chris-hp2gg]

EQ.😂

[@MichaelTucci-xs6vl]

I think you and I had some of the best conversations together.
We both understand so much about evil x's I wish we knew before we met them.
SINCERELY,
MIKE
Ps. I like the shirt you have on. Bye.

[@MichaelTucci-xs6vl]

@@CroisMoi Thanks.
Do you have a story?

[@CroisMoi]

@@MichaelTucci-xs6vl Your comment about her shirt.

[@MichaelTucci-xs6vl]

@@CroisMoi lol....oh...
Yea it looked alright.
I actually meant what's up with the Narcissist you are involved with ....
but WHATEVER WORKS....

[@1CrispyCracker]

Thank you for all . We’re on the same level and it’s much appreciated