The #1 way to gain your POWER back from a narcissist
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- Опубликовано: 23 дек 2023
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let go of the urge to change or control the narcissist. the idiot narcissist is a broken person that you cannot fix.
control yourself instead and let that be enough. when they cannot take away your self control, it is GAME OVER for them.
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Merry Christmas from Cornwall, Great Britain.
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Spot on, they wanna take away our self control.
Spot on. We must enjoy our lives and give the narcisist no attention. Grey rock and acting as if they were strangers. Forget about their existence. 😊 thank you 🙏 Merry Christmas 🎄
The grocery store clerk analogy is super helpful. Provides a real life, easily accessible reference point to inform all interactions.
I learned long ago to stay non-reactive. I don't respond with words or body language to any bait they offer.
I keep conversations short and to the point. I keep my thoughts and opinions to myself
Best stoic approach towards those people or any who are looking to get you in an emotional bait
I wasn't and am NOT Trauma Bonded to my Narcissist! -- When she left for greener grass (that turned out to be very brown)! -- I was OVERJOYED and my life became FANTASTIC!
And it still is, because God is protecting me from everything she tries!
I literally just started this strategy this week and it does work oh my goodness wish I would of done this so much earlier could of saved so much stress and decades of my life
Nice! What type of narc are you dealing with if I may ask? An overt, covert, malignant one etc
Danielle ,you must be a Goddess or something.
I feel like you're reading my heart,mind & nightmare situation/ pain.
Amazing timing and advice, to the point it feels like my mind is being read.
The guidance and words you use are so perfect in matching the description.
I'm sitting here racking my brain on all this & I turn on the wifi to check out RUclips on this phone& boom there you are with this absolutely perfect medicine for this brain.
Extremely phenomenal.
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In divine timing when i prayed to be free from narcissistic person in my life, the moment i finished prayer i seen in my youtube on computer videos of Danielle, i subscribed to channel, she is totaly right about the narcissistic people they are pure evil that will never change and we should eject such who torment us from life totaly and never get them back at all!
Great way to get your power back.
❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤ Victorious Amen Amen Amen
Grey rocking, yesssssss!! Thank you for sharing your knowledge! I’m finally starting to get the hang of this!! 🙏🏼
Merry Christmas 🎄🌟
She’s always on point miss Danielle.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you, lifesaver.
Merry Christmas eve🎄
Just make it to the end of the year
I have so many conflicting things popping up on this RUclips that only serve to confuse me, one thing I'm starting to really feel certain about as I run over everything in my brain, is that your teachings seem to be what line up the most.
What you are saying is Golden, right on the mark.
What you're saying has to be the one & only truth of the situation.
It has to be what I delt with, there's no way it could be anything else, and I MUST follow your instructions in order to survive , overcome this,& move on& foward.
Yeah Danielle's stuff is golden. I too find other channels confusing and conflicting.
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There seems to be a repeating pattern in this life/ world that makes me wonder though if it's more than just narcissism.
I'm starting to wonder if certain people are just luckier than others on this planet.
Maybe the narcissists do have childhood trauma that has evolved into their adulthood and created their devastating bad behavior but is there also another element to the story& maybe they're trying their best with the situation at hand?
Although for me if feels like honesty hurts less than lies, I can see how hard it would be for the other person in the scenario?
Maybe it's time for me to except my seemingly reality?
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There seems to be a lot involved in psychology as well, like maybe secrecy is what drives many on this earth, like it's what gets them going?
I'm just trying to understand & wrap my mind around what seems to be a repeating pattern in this life & do it in a non-judgmental/ compassionate way?
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How could it be that I've ran into that many narcissists in this life.
Am i a magnet for some strange reason.
I'm in no way making excuses for people's bad behaviors, I just don't want to hurt someone who did give me the world prior to her bad behavior kicking in so it's extremely hard for my heart & mind to condemn her.
Maybe judge is a better word then condem.
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Maybe sometimes people do care about someone as they say , but they don't have the courage to tell them the truth for fear of hurting their feelings so they beat around the bush & try to put in hints and & readings between the lines, so the person on the receiving end ends up feeling like why would this person do this to me when I like them so much I'd sacrifice my life for them?
I'm guessing it's a case of not too many people are courageous enough to come forward with their true feelings for fear of hurting others/ also an element of narcissism/ psychopathy?
They are a stranger..
These techniques work❤
Wow!!! Well put analysis. Happy holidays.
Putting our our locus of control inside ourselves, starts with this word, NO
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Merry Christmas
Danielle, You look stunning in this video and that necklace is pretty.
Zen Liberation.
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In fact " cap mgmt. " Is making sure facts never get open.
The True Self of a Narcissist is can be explained with 1 awesome example from an Anime called:
Full Metal Alchemist;Brotherhood... That One Character ; Envy !
The Shape of Envy at the Start of the Anime looks kinda Cute and physically weak. but That Humonculus has Shapeshifting power.İt can be anyone.. just like the Narcissist at the first times of the Relationship,Cute innocent and nice...
As the anime goes on, We see another Shape of The "Envy" Which has a Huge Abnormal Physical Shape powered by hundreds of Souls and its body is 5x-6x times bigger than a human.The souls here can be explained as the love we give to a Narcissist. More we give, the bigger they grove. and they can use this power against us to manipulate in everyway.
and the final and real form of "Envy" is that Tiny litle shrimp not bigger than a finger...Envy turns into this original shape when it looses every soul which gives him power.its whole characteristics are same as of a Narcissistic person...
Here you can Watch the parts when Envy fight against our Protagonist and full shapes of Envy... You'll see what i mean =)
ruclips.net/video/JN5kNhBRu2M/видео.html