This BIG Mistake Keeps You From Healing Trauma!

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  • @ChristinaLopes
    @ChristinaLopes  Год назад +8

    NEXT UP: THIS Keeps 90% Of Spiritual People Trapped 👉🏽 ruclips.net/video/rjFGh2TBClE/видео.html

    • @1snakebob
      @1snakebob Год назад +1

      What if you have a 28-year-old son that screams at his daughter telling her that he hates her ? And then you have a bunch of abusive inconsiderate neighbors at system of guarding your house with obscenely loud music day after day after day and you have a PTSD psychosis on top of it I have done so much to improve myself I was 275 pounds on 195. I no longer a diabetic I no longer take blood pressure medicine. I eat healthier I cut sugar in red meat out of my diet. I am doing everything that I can, and I have grown spiritually exponentially but things like I had mentioned with my son has got me a little sideways things like him and litigation over remodelers that destroyed my house and I can’t move because of it, and add to the fact that I get abused assaulted with sound on a regular basis I can’t hear my trauma. If I can’t remove myself from that which is traumatizing me it’s like healing your wounds and then having scabs repeatedly ripped off I have endured this for 12 years now and I’m holding strong. I forgot sake I need a fucking break I run to the woods as much as I can. I pretty much stay in the woods all day, I’ve set up tarps outside my car I do runs I do hikes I take my dog places the only time I’m really at home is when I sleep and even that on some nights have become difficult and lately the last few days and I don’t wanna push myself it’s been OK so let’s just hope that that trend continues. I hope you read this. I hope you can get back to me. I really dig your message and your teachings ! As I was voice texting this, I had a whole family, a deer come out across me in front of me on the road. I had a start, and they waited to see if I was gonna let them go and I did, and they all walked across in front of me it was very beautiful Synchronicity‘s ? But I can’t live with my son I can and he lost his job and he may be losing his apartment worry stacy and I just can’t live with him. I don’t know what to do. Christine.

    • @Competitive_Antagonist
      @Competitive_Antagonist Год назад +1

      Good video. I'm mostly cynical of mental health month, but the algorithm has been impressing me lately.

    • @Competitive_Antagonist
      @Competitive_Antagonist Год назад +1

      ​@robert long
      I really hope you can find a break sometime. You appear to love nature, hiking and the woods. Maybe you can take a camping trip in solitude or with a close friend where you can learn to release some of your trauma.
      Finding time to be free from triggers is important for healing. I kind of have an issue with that myself, but no where near as much as you.
      Well for surviving this long. Best of luck in healing your pain.

    • @1snakebob
      @1snakebob Год назад

      @@Competitive_Antagonist ty

    • @1snakebob
      @1snakebob Год назад

      @SamarSummrising ?

  • @NinaDreams81
    @NinaDreams81 Год назад +5

    I was definitely the person who was in therapy for years without healing. My therapists never even explored trauma with me. I wasn't aware how traumatized I was. I have done most of my healing on my own in a journal. But its time to do body and soul work.

  • @angegentilleufituwe6731
    @angegentilleufituwe6731 Год назад +1

    I miss you christina.come back

  • @HerveBoisde
    @HerveBoisde Год назад +4

    Great video. I’m a hypnotherapist and it’s true that just doing talk therapy isn’t helping people heal traumas as effectively as we think it does.

  • @shaniquawhipple6413
    @shaniquawhipple6413 Год назад +1

    I'm trying to put myself when spiritual awakening

  • @carmagurl317
    @carmagurl317 Год назад +8

    Wonderful tips. You forgot the most important one - to FEEL it. When having intense emotions to just sit still and let them come. Too often we rush to talk about it, move around, try to make a change instead of just grieving the pain first.

  • @virginiadelrio3665
    @virginiadelrio3665 Год назад +18

    I've in behavioral cognitive herapy for almost 2 years, I had this feeling of "this is great, I was able to voiced my sexual, emocional and physical abuse for the first time in my life. But I feel something more needs to be addressed" great great tips and video. Thank you! Getting back to oneself after cptsd is a process I feel I can do now fully. Tons of hugs to you and everyone

    • @markflierl1624
      @markflierl1624 Год назад

      Cognitive Behavioral therapy doesn't work very well. It doesn't get to the emotions. You need Affective therapy.

  • @youtubecanal
    @youtubecanal Год назад +1

    Thank you! I have 2 books of Dr. Gabor Mate. The Myth of Normal maybe be my next book of this author.
    Bem-vinda a Portugal, país de boa gastronomia, sol e pessoas simpáticas.

  • @XBret64
    @XBret64 Год назад +9

    I've been stuck in the talking phase for years now, and its true that you really do hit a brick wall. With the help of this video, i feel like im gonna be back on track. No more beating my head against the wall!

  • @gojiberry7201
    @gojiberry7201 Год назад +16

    This is crazy. I was literally listening to "The Myth of Normal" this morning on audio book while at work. My local energy healer had recommended it to me when I kept saying, "I just want to be normal." So far it's so amazing!
    P.S. I am going to my local shaman this weekend for my first soul retrieval. I have seen her a few times for reiki and I'm excited to do this

  • @lee_tully
    @lee_tully Год назад +3

    Something every Psych needs to be able to understand 🙏

  • @cecilliachi
    @cecilliachi Год назад +1

    Dr Gabor helped pivot my life 360 degrees for the better starting WTH my parenting. He is angel ✨

  • @wonderfulrainyday
    @wonderfulrainyday Год назад +13

    Again, timely video. My body hurts so much, even stretching is not the same for me anymore. Since the last moon, my fascia is more knotted than before. I feel stiff in a spiritual way too ✨

  • @Freedpeoples
    @Freedpeoples Год назад +5

    You helped me so much at the beginning of my awakening when I thought I might be losing my mind. Just wanted to say a big thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Год назад +1

    We never finish healing fully, just facing it in unique ways helps it hurt less day by day

  • @jaynesouth8488
    @jaynesouth8488 Год назад +18

    Thank you 🙏 for your support today ❤

  • @tryskael
    @tryskael Год назад +2

    Esse português no fim do vídeo, make my day!💜🙏💫

  • @carrieorser5534
    @carrieorser5534 Год назад +1

    From my own experiences I didn’t know how to deal with trauma. Many years ago we didn’t have the knowledge and awareness we do today and I appreciate people that bring it to light and help the people who are looking to heal otherwise triggers effect your whole life. I wish I could afford to join your retreat. Thank you so very much. I have watched your videos on and off for a few years now and I didn’t always understand them but your awareness is awesome!❤❤❤❤

  • @christinevandenberg4455
    @christinevandenberg4455 Год назад +7

    So glad your feeling better. Much Gratitude for bringing out the importance of trauma

  • @mainsquezze2487
    @mainsquezze2487 Год назад +4

    This video is just what I need I'm trying to release trauma to unblock my energy.

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade Год назад +8

    Thank you so much Christina. Dr Gabor is so accurate in his analysis. The sad thing is that so many people carry so much shame. I hid from the world for five years because I was so afraid of telling anyone about my childhood.
    The body keeps the score and your soul. I am so grateful for this video ❤

  • @calliejohnson
    @calliejohnson Год назад +2

    Yes! Yes! Yes! This is exactly why I’m started my Embodied Dance practice ❤❤❤

  • @temperancemoon8888
    @temperancemoon8888 Год назад +19

    I intuitively bought that book 2 weeks ago! What a synchronicity to come across this video.
    Grateful for you, Christina. 💜🙏

    • @A-feather-of-truth
      @A-feather-of-truth Год назад +3

      It's really good. And the other book she mentioned the Myth of Normal. I've been reading both

    • @temperancemoon8888
      @temperancemoon8888 Год назад +2

      @@A-feather-of-truth the Myth of Normal is the book I got! I've wanted the body keeps score for some time. Now that she's mentioned it again, I am getting it as well.

    • @Shanaya1402
      @Shanaya1402 Год назад

      Name of the books

    • @juliespoering3197
      @juliespoering3197 Год назад +1

      Me too!

    • @temperancemoon8888
      @temperancemoon8888 Год назад

      @@juliespoering3197 i love that!!! Have you started reading it yet?

  • @Jhandle29
    @Jhandle29 Год назад +2

    I love your haircut!!! And obvisouly your content!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @mooxjesus
    @mooxjesus Год назад +2

    Thanks for pointing out the emotional body that also needs healing.

  • @ladyspellbreaker1313
    @ladyspellbreaker1313 Год назад +4

    Thank You so much for this! Very few realize that we have all been traumatized by this plandemic. I have complex PTSD Myself, so I’m doing whatever it takes to reduce stress so I can Heal properly especially during traumatic grief and loss of my only child.

  • @sarahswanger979
    @sarahswanger979 Год назад +1

    All of this is so true!!! Thank you!!!

  • @London22708
    @London22708 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much ❤️♾️❤️ I now understand why I’m not healing for years I’ve been saying no matter how much i speak about my trauma it doesn’t take the pain/feeling i carry with me daily i now can see a way of lifting that heaviness from myself.
    ❤️thank you❤️

  • @benjamindsouza6736
    @benjamindsouza6736 Год назад +3

    Thank you Christina! You understand trauma at a deeper level & you're one of my favourite therapists!
    💚💙🤍🙏🙏🙏

  • @catmama3121
    @catmama3121 Год назад +4

    Thank you Christina for your guidance on how to move stuck trauma . This tips will be most helpful. ❤🙏🏽

  • @tinathegreat88
    @tinathegreat88 Год назад +8

    Amazingly direct and concise, just what I needed as I also work through talk therapy. Thank you so much ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @davidalanmors3233
    @davidalanmors3233 Год назад

    Thank you, again for this.

  • @aNnAkt1qw
    @aNnAkt1qw Год назад +2

    Thank you Christina❤, love Gabor Mateo.

  • @ashotfanyan1312
    @ashotfanyan1312 Год назад

    She is the Soul after my awakening I first found her videos, you need have a good source of info for everything, she IS .
    Please keep doing what you do.
    Thank you❤

  • @antoniomari2730
    @antoniomari2730 Год назад

    Very helpful information

  • @alessandrawilliams5801
    @alessandrawilliams5801 Год назад

    OMG You are awesome im so glad you like gabor mate !!! thank you for all you do

  • @mbs...479
    @mbs...479 Год назад

    Love this thank you ❤

  • @autumngrace8541
    @autumngrace8541 Год назад +7

    This is a powerful message!❤

  • @deastover898
    @deastover898 Год назад +3

    So grateful for your help with all things spiritual ❤ I pray to one day be able to attend a retreat of yours. Since my coma in august I have so many more unanswered questions. Someday it will all align and I will figure it out but for now your videos are the best help❤

  • @School-of-Milo
    @School-of-Milo Год назад +1

    Christina you are a gem, thank you!

  • @klaraivanovich
    @klaraivanovich Год назад +1

    This was so good! Thank you!!!❤

  • @robinpeterson8333
    @robinpeterson8333 Год назад +1

    Thank you Christina ❤

  • @robinpeterson8333
    @robinpeterson8333 Год назад

    Wow this is Amazing. I did a meditation video with a shamaon where I call back all my soul fragments. I had a Panic attack white I was meditating. I have never had one before or since. I thought that was crazy.

  • @claudiamuster2286
    @claudiamuster2286 Год назад +1

    @Christina Lopes: Thank you for the Video. I would like to point out something else: I my case I experienced that Shamanic drumming can open up unknown trauma big time. The first seconds of drumming opened up an unexpected and overwhelming trauma out of the blue. Please be so kind and advice your listeners that it might be helpful to consult a trustworthy Shaman to accompany the process in case guiding and buffering the experience is needed. Otherwise the unguided Shamanic experience might cause troubles that reverberate on another level and creates more chaos than order. All the best.

  • @newvedawithzhané
    @newvedawithzhané Год назад

    This video was very timely for my journey. Thank you for sharing these important steps for healing!

  • @ronaldnock9666
    @ronaldnock9666 Год назад +1

    This is cool!

  • @jenniferzuiff8517
    @jenniferzuiff8517 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this video Christina ❤🫶🏻🙏

  • @caanujbali
    @caanujbali Год назад

    You are so original, love the in depth & profound explanations. Love your videos, nice to have learnt so much through your videos since months/yrs.

  • @BJM_siblings
    @BJM_siblings Год назад +1

    Thanks for the teaching 🙏🙏🙏

  • @lfurry808
    @lfurry808 Год назад

    What if we inherited the trauma from inside the womb? I apologize if you have addressed this already in your teachings but this is the first video I have ever watched. Thank you.

  • @evelynezih104
    @evelynezih104 Год назад

    Thank you thank you for this detailed explanation

  • @cathyguljord95
    @cathyguljord95 Год назад

    Wow! That was the most beneficial video I’ve seen. Thank you so much! Learned so much. 🥰

  • @Bloomfofis
    @Bloomfofis Год назад +1

    This is so helpful, thanks 🙏

  • @joannrobinson6363
    @joannrobinson6363 Год назад +1

    Gratitude 💕✨

  • @simranjadhwani3107
    @simranjadhwani3107 Год назад

    Hi I'm a spiritual seeker..i follow paramhansa yogananda teachings..we are well trained to meditate for hours and follow a path of self realisation, i now want to learn to heal others and be of service to mankind with my spiritual wisdom.
    If you can guide me on this path, it would be great.

  • @ENA_444
    @ENA_444 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Christina 🙏😇💚💜 Such good, important & really helpful information about trauma! 🌺💚

  • @clareliang9340
    @clareliang9340 Год назад

    Dear Christina, I have been following your materials for a while and I am deeply appreciative of the wisdom you share with us.
    Could you please make a video or talk about nightmares, their meaning and how to help resolve them? I have "resolved" trauma from this lifetime but nightmares of being in various types of danger occur every night. It's like my conscious mind has made peace but a deep part is still fragmented in fear. I believe many others might suffer from frequent nightmares and not know how to consciously address this issue.
    Your wisdom on this topic would be greatly appreciated 🙏✨💞

  • @palmira1989
    @palmira1989 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much. This helps clarify something inside me. ❤

  • @mark_______
    @mark_______ Год назад +1

    Love it as always Christina. Thanks ❤🙏

  • @eze8970
    @eze8970 Год назад

    TY 🙏🙏

  • @jojoeltabey
    @jojoeltabey Год назад +2

    True 👌 thank you for this video

  • @missmarisaferreira
    @missmarisaferreira Год назад

    Love the Portuguese at the end girl! Lol great video!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @dennissutton3767
    @dennissutton3767 Год назад

    Im going to buy that book today!

  • @pamchesler242
    @pamchesler242 Год назад +4

    I wonder if you can either journal or speak aloud with yourself about your experiences? I’ve tried both in addition to psychotherapy and the former were just as effective (in my experience) in releasing the stagnant energy of trauma…

  • @angimacedo3615
    @angimacedo3615 Год назад +1

    Loved this video ... thank you ... very informative..👍

  • @naseemakhter5586
    @naseemakhter5586 Год назад +2

    Thanks for sharing with us 🙏🙏

  • @melaniebisher3623
    @melaniebisher3623 Год назад

    Manifesting retreat !!!! 👏🏻🙋🏼‍♀️😄🙌🏻

  • @crazykatrockchickhippie4835
    @crazykatrockchickhippie4835 Год назад

    Thank you for this video. Good timing..I've been using these authors so to speak to delve more into my trauma world, body due to LC and more for the past few years. Despite this I am one of whom you mention, alone with no funds for therapy so no support. I've tried journaling and body moving including so much more, however, today I came to see that it's way too painful to continue alone like this and despite still reaching out to old friends for help, they've not wanted to. I want to live again but I'm really stuck. Surely someone cares. Sorry but I dont know where to turn to as my healthcare has told me to find my own help. I've literally tried everything so what now. Sorry for gloomy post but I never used to be this stuck or alone. I pray for help but silence follows🌱

  • @NicolaiMeyer_wahres_Potenzial
    @NicolaiMeyer_wahres_Potenzial Год назад

    Thank you for this wonderful inspiration. I just was dancing to the Drum Music and it is really freeing and i feel that its really healing ✨🙏

  • @kdean5514
    @kdean5514 Год назад +2

    Dope!!! Thank you!!

  • @NinaDreams81
    @NinaDreams81 Год назад

    I tried body work part. I started crying before I began. I started moving my legs as I lay there and I could hear like huge clicks in my knees. 😮 i think i need acupuncture, massage, and who knows what else. 😅

  • @kellycurtis4483
    @kellycurtis4483 Год назад +2

    Thank you!

  • @kellym143
    @kellym143 Год назад +1

    How can we forgive ourselves for trauma we have caused to ourselves?

  • @Flow-rise
    @Flow-rise Год назад +1

    Helpful! 🙌🏻💎

  • @piramida369
    @piramida369 Год назад +1

    Christina Lopes...👌👍🙏

  • @anthonyphillips111
    @anthonyphillips111 Год назад

    When I talk to certain people and they are a little upset with me as I'm communicating with them and I guess I'm a lil afraid my heart will speed up and when that happens I will have a hard time communicating with ppl after that for at least an hour. It's improving a lot but this might be a good example of how trauma affects us when it gets stirred and loose in the body for me it's with my heart and communication (throat)😊 Feedback is welcome😊

  • @rhondahunter246
    @rhondahunter246 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your guidance. 💕 I don't know if you answer questions within your posts, but just incase you do. Does it matter if you don't remember the trauma that has happened? Are we still able to use these tools to help heal the hidden trauma? Thank you ❤

  • @cmellowdee
    @cmellowdee Год назад

    I love me some soul retrieval

  • @danellepiacitelli
    @danellepiacitelli Год назад

    What do you do when your truth is so astounding that people don’t believe you? And because they don’t believe you have been so horrifically abused they decide to harass and abuse you even more? I have been totally honest about my truths and I’ve been getting persecuted and harassed like crazy for several years. It is very difficult to navigate. And I will not be anything other than honest about my truths. People not believing me is their own problem.

  • @1snakebob
    @1snakebob Год назад

    @Christina Lopes I have been assaulted by very very inconsiderate, neighbors with excessively loud bass music having had, or dealing with a PTSD psychosis for many years this abuse has really affected me on a deep level. It actually drove me into a spiritual awakening, and now I have a very, very serious sound sensitivity, and I cannot listen to drums any loud, drumming certain guitar. I can’t listen to music I used to love music and I can’t listen to music if it’s up loud, even if it’s low and there’s certain vibrations to come across that I can’t deal with it. I also feel energy deeply through music and TV. I haven’t watched TV. I can’t the energy the music that they play with everything today. Has that boom boom boom to it and I can’t tolerate it a it does something neurologically. I can’t think straight a get screwed up with what I’m doing. I lose track of what I was doing. I forget things. It’s been really tough, so any input would be appreciate it.

  • @travelchannel304
    @travelchannel304 Год назад

    WOW! WOW! WOW !

  • @candaceyoung1759
    @candaceyoung1759 Год назад

    Thank you😮

  • @Patrick-io2wt
    @Patrick-io2wt Год назад

    Thank you

  • @DA-te7xe
    @DA-te7xe Год назад

    Does anyone know how I can get rid of chronic head pressure and tinnitus?

  • @Godfree1212
    @Godfree1212 Год назад

    Trauma is an over used word and has such negative connotations that most think it’s a right of passage. Trauma is the result of something you were unable or unwilling to experience when it happens.

  • @ButterflyAwakening
    @ButterflyAwakening Год назад

    Embrace your uniqueness, love and accept yourself, and allow the healing frequency of the universe to flow through you. Have a blessed and fulfilling day!🦋🦋

  • @1snakebob
    @1snakebob Год назад +1

    What if your stuck in a living situation that you keep getting traumatized by multiple ppl ?

  • @charltonclose5326
    @charltonclose5326 Год назад

    How do I figure out what my trauma is ?

  • @mjbl4tube
    @mjbl4tube Год назад

    very good information, if you would be so kind, list the resources you mention in this video...? like the drummers name? Your work is the med. we need Thank you

  • @andrewanderson6618
    @andrewanderson6618 Год назад +2

    Zebras shake their body after being chased by a lion. Will this do?

  • @Ironmanplayz2
    @Ironmanplayz2 Год назад +1

    Gamer here!

  • @ritabn8910
    @ritabn8910 Год назад

    Espetacular 😁

  • @blessedsoul14
    @blessedsoul14 Год назад +1

    Can anyone give me the link to byron metcalf's shamanic drums? There are so many videos in his name. Which one is the real one? I don't trust 90% youtube channels.

  • @shezg780
    @shezg780 Год назад

    333 likes Ty Christina 💖😇🙏

  • @estherlam5190
    @estherlam5190 Год назад

    🙋How do we know we're healed from trauma?

  • @domingo3632
    @domingo3632 Год назад

    my ego won't let me be myself. my parents belittle me

  • @wesker1739
    @wesker1739 Год назад

    No wonder I feel so dead most of the time. It messes up my work ethic at my job.

  • @gesammelteeindruecke9038
    @gesammelteeindruecke9038 Год назад

    trauma begin with that childhood lie you have to be a human and a human is ... or humanity has to look like and so on ... from cutting the roots to the part of the god of love that we represent in a form trauma is from this ...

  • @charlenecharliewilliamson449
    @charlenecharliewilliamson449 7 месяцев назад

    ❤ cheers 😂😮

  • @incognito7479
    @incognito7479 Год назад +2

    My father abused me mentally and physically for 5 years between 11 and 15. I am now 68 and still have difficulty with that. He has no remorse at 93.
    I’m embarrassed to use his last name.
    Btw, Christina, my sister, Christine who’s 1 year older hates me too.
    And I’m a peace living hippy from the 70’s.
    I don’t get it.

    • @ao6685
      @ao6685 Год назад

      They are narcissists. Please check out some videos online. Type in Dr. Ramani