Is my ghosted Ex Wife possibly tracking me down?
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- Is my ghosted Ex Wife possibly tracking me down?
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"She wasn't with anybody after I left"
So she can go without sex while single, but can't resist cheating on you while married? Do people realize that this makes things worst, right?
That makes her seem even more petty, she clearly had him in the bag and thought it was easy to just cheat, now that she *allegedly* doesn't have sex with anyone else is because she's in love.
She’s most likely lying 😊
and "it didnt mean anything"
Apparently, no
@@jordanwardle11 didn't mean anything. but the whole time she was doing it she denied her husband affection.
I always find it hilarious when cheaters say "it didn't mean anything". So basically your saying you threw away your marriage for shits and giggles.
Yeah, I think this one is just to hurt you even more than being cheated on did.
I understand what they're TRYING to say, ie it was only physical cheating and not emotional, but it still constitutes a serious violation of their relationship dynamic. They're actively trying to downplay their betrayal.
@@perrycarters3113it’s funny because if it was only physical they’d have just gotten a prostitute which is how some cheating starts and ends for guys. For girls it’s always an affair
the op is not the jerk 22:06
It’s all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits
"I need time with you that you didn't give me before."
After all she's done. She's a pure narcissist and Paul dodged a nuke.
He didn’t dodge. He got hit and lived.
Bro dodged a meteorite.
They always are
She’s begging 🙏🏾 and pleading after the husband took action. After all he did for her
She’s begging 🙏🏾 and pleading after the husband took action. After all he did for her
"I need time with you that you didn't give me before" there it is again, her victim blaming him because he didn't have time. He doesn't owe her shit, and if she was really sorry she would understand that and wouldn't pull *that* card
Not only that, but listen to that BS, he seemed to catch her an awful lot when she was out the door, and as we saw with the dinner he definitely made attempts to spend time with her, but "oh I'm so tired, or oh I'm gonna go out for drinks with the company!" yeah, he didn't have time for her
And ironically, she became the person he was to her. Because he “wasnt giving enough time to her” she ended up spending all her free time w her affair partner, basically not giving any time to him.
Yes. This has ”im sorry i beat you but you made me”- vibes
And when he made the time, she dismissed it or ignored it. Sheesh. Can't have it both ways, lady!
She had time. She had a romantic dinner laid out for here and she went to get nailed by other men instead.
Ray is the Uncle Buck that we all need on our lives. He's far from perfect, but he has ideals he'll never abandon.
He's a true chad
Gigaray
@@im_back_mods8385 no. He's a Ray😊
@@AleV69692 Ray is a legend fr
Ya know, props to paul for not sinking into the drinking hole. Alcoholism would've made things so much worse so the fact that even at his worst, he limited things, was amazing.
What strikes me is her smirking when she was cheating. She was proud of herself, and looking down on her husband as a chump. That boiled my blood.
Look, I get cheaters sometimes are remorseful, but this is not the case. She's just immature, alone and desperate. She was weak and OP had to pay for it. People, a spouse is a partner, a person we are supposed to trust, someone mature enough to allow us to communicate and work things through. One is not supposed to raise a spouse. I don't have to suffer for your weak character. She could've talked to OP, work on things, reject the executive's advances at least out of self-respect and consideration for OP, but no, she ruined several relationships, her professional life (now everyone knows she's a cheater) and now is desperate. Good on OP for moving on and good riddance on the ex.
no, once a cheater always a cheater, she wasnt sad because it happend she sad because she got caught
@@Michael-pn9vbI don't think that is necessarily true in all cases. I think the younger you are, the more likely you are to learn from your mistake with something like that. I don't think a cheater deserves a second chance with the same person. I don't think forgiving a cheater once makes them a fool either. It's incredibly gracious, for sure.
If I were to be cheated on by a woman, I think my initial reaction would be anger and betrayal. If they seemed like they actually felt bad about it, I would probably hope that they find happiness with someone else and improve as a person, but I would never take them back.
This is another fictional story stolen from the website, Literotica.
She’s was sad 😢because she was dumped and ghosted
@@Michael-pn9vbwhat a horrible mindset. Holding hate for a person no matter if they have regret for their actions and/or change for their other partner(s) in the future. Such prejudice. Hope you lose the mindset soon.
Women like that, don’t deserve a second chance.
She betrayed your trust, and you should never look back
@@chaalbaaz429 because I’m specifically talking about the guys wife in the video…..
@@chaalbaaz429
He wrote „women like that“
@@chaalbaaz429 Because women like that will make themselves victims. Men get their comeuppances. Never really seen that with women... much.
Women and MEN !
@@chaalbaaz429ur making it weird tbh
"Until you broke me, and i broke you just as well"
No. You broke him worst.
Yeah i really dont understand that level of delusion, she broke herself not him lol
If there was any "breaking", she did it to him. Repeatedly. WHILE he was trying to mend things. She only "tried" after he'd gone out the door. She had no interest in fixing what she broke because she treated him like a mushroom, feeding him shit and keeping him in the dark, so what would need "fixing" in her eyes?
10:00 the amount of pride i hold FOR him for thinking about drinking healthily makes me so happy. he really strutted forward
If I ever find out someone cheats on me, it's over. if they give me as much of a sob story as she does, I'll just tell them I give no second chances for cheating. once a cheater, always a cheater. cheating gets no second chance, no matter how bad their life has become due to the cheating, or how much they miss me or whatever, it's done. for me, cheating is akin to murder in a relationship, and you cant revive the dead.
"For me, cheating is akin to murder in a relationship. And you can't revive the dead."
This quote, whether it's yours or one you've once come across, is one of the best things I've heard in a while.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Only a cheater tries to disprove this!
"a cheater is 3x more likely to cheat in the next relationship."
exactly, if i found out someone i was dating was cheating on there partner we are done because they would do the exact same to ke
Ray is one hell of a salesman 😅
Mf saw a sale and riled it in asap, even got his wife on the gig
We need more people like Ray
Wife is a AH, She cheated on OP, making alleged excuses "AP manipulated me", she said she wanted to use him and hated when they were doing that, If I remember correctly, she always put a happy face(she said she hated it, why would she be happy) when she alleged, she was going "out with her friends", we know that was not always true, she was having an affair. Personally, I think she was using OP, she just used him as a back-up, incase the affair didn't work. And also if she wanted to manipulate him why cheat so much, even after OP found out, but was asking her, if she has an affair, if she hated it, she would've stopped at that point, and how much longer would she cheat, if she was trying to manipulate him to get a better position, she knew it wasn't working. And the funniest part, "She wasn't with anybody after I left"
So she can go without sex while single, but can't resist cheating on you while married,
WOW, what good logic she used there.
Fr
I'm left to wonder... Do cheaters who use "I was lonely and h* rny and you're never here" as an excuse not understand the concept of using "adult toys"?
Exactly!! That excuse is total bs. If that was really the case, just get a toy or something.
The truth is that they want something new, dangerous & exciting, and the absence of their partner became the perfect excuse/opportunity.
It's especially apparent that the excuse is false, because in nearly every story where it's used, the partner they cheated on makes attempts at intimacy/time spent together, but the cheater refuses. If they "just wanted attention", they would have taken it from their partner right then & there.
The excuse is just a way for the cheater to shame their partner, and to shift the blame so they feel less bad about themselves.
They use that excuse to rationalize their behavior. They want to portray themselves as the victim, and construct an imagined reality that allows them to be that victim.
I know this isn't the OP posting but I'll put my words here: Any relationship you have to walk away from is one that you should stay away from. I'm in a similar situation with an ex who still, after 3 years apart, is still asking me to come back nearly every day. Every time i tell her to look for someone else, I'm not the guy for her any more. It was fun while it worked, but not once she broke the trust.
Wow, do y'all have kids together? How is she able to communicate with you daily?
You broke my trusted
Trust
Tell it right
Just block her
I really like this one. Dude fell, picked up his crown, dusted himself off and just vanished and proceeded to live the best life he could.
This is exactly what my aunt did when she got caught cheating. The sobbing, the I love yous, I’m so sorry, I hate myself so much, please forgive me, I’ll starve myself to death, unalive myself, etc etc. Pathetic groveling that made my uncle feel like she was SO hurt too, take pity on her, take her back. So how did she repay him? He was a known easy mark then after that. She screwed half the guys he works with and he doesn’t know it. At any given time that he’s speaking with a man at work, it may be one of the ones who has been balls deep in his wife. Don’t fall for the old sob story people. It isn’t true. They aren’t sorry. They are only sorry they got caught, and they don’t want to give up their nice cushy lifestyle and comfort zone. Or start over on housing again. They don’t love you, because love doesn’t destroy people on purpose for their own sexual gratification.
Poor guy. But simps gonna simp I suppose.
@@MKULTRA_Victim_he aint a simp honestly. Saying she would end her own life probably scared him out of his mind, but like seriously? What the hell? What sort of move would it be to TAKE HER BACK? He 100% should have let her feel better and then cut contact, kind of like OP. Her taking her own life would be much better than her destroying his
Wait if you know she's cheating on him again why didn't you say anything.
Cause you make it sound like no one told him yet you know or are you just making this up
When a cheater threatens to minecraft themselves, the proper response is "I'll believe it when I see the corpse"
@@kingthe13 for whatever reason I never got a notification on your comment until just now-I got one from the last response. Oh trust me I’m not making it up, I wish I was. My aunt is the worst. She has screwed the partners of her friends and family members and even showed up in a see through nightie at the door when she knew me and my high school age boyfriend were coming by to pick up something for my grandma. She knew he was bringing me because we listened to my grandma tell her so on the phone. She’s truly this awful. The story is second hand from my mom who still talks to her. I do not speak to her anymore for obvious reasons. I have zero clue why my mom does because she’s tried to bang all of my mom’s ex’s and even once stole a fiancé from her and literally wore mom’s engagement ring (that she threw at the guy when she found out) to a family holiday dinner. She has zero shame. My uncle is a puppet to her and he does anything she says even knowing that she cheated on him. There’s no helping someone who won’t help himself. He lives with her and has seen her antics all of these years, you’d think the zillion red flags would be enough to get him to leave her…but no. He stays, his life and his choice. She’s not exactly subtle in her approach to men. And she has no shame about being inappropriate around him towards a guy.
Ray is the friend we all need
I love how she thinks "we can move to a new town with a fresh start" you kidding right? Op is the literal victim you are trying to run to a new city to make a new life for! I'm glad he got some closure but like I never understand the logic and lying of cheaters that will basically "live like a prisoner" if you will take them back we all know you won't after a year of this you either guilt them into stopping or you get a second phone so you can hook up anyway.
SHE can run off to a new town and get a new start... probably has to b/c of her job and all. But he's got his peace; leave him the hell alone, lady!
This guy is my hero. I was scared at the end that he will take her back, but his strong character made the right decision and won.
Ray is awesome.
After a betrayal, trust can never be fully recovered.
Ray is the Galdalf in of this. Old wise mage..
Fr, if I were religious I’d wonder if he was a guardian angel of some sort
She's probably not gonna cheat again. But he will never be able to trust her plain and simple
Idk If it's a real story or not,but she has quite the record so cheating is definitely on the table for her.
The problem with trusting a cheater is that they can pur an act for 1 year then guilt trip/manipulate you just like nothing has happened and you are back to the shitty cheater as a partner status.
They hardly change,they just get desperate when they realise their SO is not a doormat,they try to make their man doormats and pull the whole trick bag,but they'd never give them what they gave the affair partner from the get go.
This story is full of things to think about.
Cathy is a narcissist snd is incapable of reflection or even putting Paul first for a few moments,in the end it was about how it affected her or how her life went downwards,Paul is just an accessory that she needs to get back.
As a friend of mine says “once a cheater always a cheater.” A very good saying since once someone cheats on you who’s to say they won’t do it again to you or anyone else.
20:19 bro had enough with the parkour💀
You saw NOTHING! Do you understand vukvukanovic...
@@Telltales. Yes, sir.
Wth
Bro is hiding smth
“And the clothes just flew off”
NAAAHHHH WHAT💀
yea, had that with a couple of exes. Its quite fun.
@@RandoWisLuL bruv you did not need to tell me that
@@Giggitygooner oh but i wanted too *Mr.Bean.jpeg*
Wow people have sex, what a surprise 💀
This is how mistakes begin. They focused on chemistry rather than learning each other’s character. As soon as you let physical drive lead, your logical mind takes a back seat.
I’m willing to bet paul missed red flags from before marriage.
"GD Paul, I love you so much..." She loved him so much, she cheated on him and now she doesn't want to be held responsible for her actions
She loved him so much she lied to him, infantalized & insulted him, and even went as far as to blame him for her own affair. What a keeper, guys, what a keeper.
That made me cringe hard reading that. Every time I keep thinking the cheater wants their betrayed lover back because they feel if others see that they're together again, the cheater can tell themselves that what they did wasn't so bad after all, because if it WAS, then why would their lover accept them back?
Probably why we get those "repeater cheater" stories when a spouse forgives, and then it's "here we go again". The cheater got emboldened and deep down wants to push the envelope.
@@tallyp.7643 It seems to be more rare than not that they decide to just go right back to cheating, because the consequences weren't actually that bad. It's like they think "now I know you will never leave me, so I can do whatever ❤️"
What I’ve noticed from a couple of these stories lately is that wives that work in an office job are more likely to cheat and the men in power at these jobs are likely to try to pursue the women they work with
Most of these are fake anyway
The abuse from male uppermanagement probably isn't fake tho
@@ahkosorsomesaykosby9999 ye but they are feasible
but facts are facts. Women in corporate 4 out of 5 cheat. @@ahkosorsomesaykosby9999
These are fictional stories stolen from the website, Literotica.
22:52 "Get rid of your old baggage" actually made me giggle out loud 😂
This story is so cathartic; I watched it twice! My ex-wife cheated on me. Now I am happily married with a great wife and we have 2 sons together. Live your best life. Move on!
It’s okay to cry out of rage man
She wants closure when he doesn't need it😂😂😂
Ray is a real one
never ever gave the cheater a closure, let them soak with guilt and shame for the rest of their life
whenever i want a relationship i watch these videos. they help
I will never in my life understand what goes on in the mind of a cheater.
If you have problems in a relationship or marriage then talk to your goddamn partner about it, try to make it work & if you still can't fix those problems you break up or divorce.
Are people really that stupid thinking that their cheating will never be exposed? Especially with such stupidly obvious behavior she showed & was even called out for it but yet still denies it.
Humans are just the fucking worst
Except for Ray
Cheaters are not human, they are interdimensional entities puppeteering in human flesh.
@@spencerbutisbauch17Rays not human Rays a Ray
The issue is that, more than likely, the cheater's relationship issues either aren't that bad, or are a result of self-sabotage. It's just easier to shift blame to your partner/relationship in order to feel better about yourself.
Like a "yeah, well I did that horrible thing, but I'm not a horrible person because I did it for a reason!"
Upon self-reflection, they will obvious know their reason is bs, but obviously, these people have a particularly difficult time self-reflecting. They always have to be the victim, and it will never be their fault in their minds, no matter how much they try & assure you otherwise after you pull away.
20:14 bro really got fed up and just skipped the course lmaoo😂
damn that was VERY well played, just full on moving on, what that guy said was very good, it doesnt matter who the other guy is and it doesnt matter what she says or does after, stay strong ma dude. give em hell
"You broke me." She says?!
No, she broke herself.
Edit: damn i was worried he wss gonna go back with her. So glsd he didn't.
First time on your channel. Love the graphics and your narrator. Ray is a Angel sent to help others 🥰👍I am glad that OP had the strength to move on and work on improving and finding his true happiness. You rock OP.
Lol the narrator is an AI text-to-speech voice
Ex’s ALWAYS try to track you down again, always.
The constant gaslighting just to call it a mistake. Crazy
Glad he ran into good people at the right time, the night of his really bad time.
He did everything right and smart.
May OP remain forever blessed.
I broke her heart like she broke mine? Are you nuts or just sugarcoating your past. She stepped out on you, she lied to you, she gas lighted you, she betrayed you. Called you insecure, all you did was walk out when you found out. You didn't break her heart, she broke yours. You didn't even retaliate, you just walked away. How that affected her is not your responsibility in any way shape or form.
he’s lucky with how clean that divorce was.
"she wanted the time he didnt give her" nah you didnt give him time wtf walked out on dinner and flowers bro
Bro fumbled the bag
Cheaters always want a second chance but never did anything to deserve it
DO NOT take her back, tf are you talking about
We all need a Ray
This is why I'm scared of dating
I have listened to this story 3 times and every time I enjoy it more.
OP is a fawking vanilla if he ever gives a 2nd chance
For some reason this is the only one I've heard that I believe it's their actual names.
Idc I just consider it as their real names anyway. Makes it more personal to me.
@@Lawlz4DayzzOh you dangerous😭!
if they cheat and you take them back they will never respect you and they will cheat again. you cant rebuild trust and there will always be doubt and suspicion and life is far to short to live that way.
"a brand new start in a new location" at a new workplace with new bosses to bang.
"Things got so uncomfortable that I had to quit" pretty sure that is an excuse for "I was fired"
“I broke you just as much as you have broken me”
Me: the only thing that’s broken here is you. I moved on you didn’t. Get out of my sight I don’t like looking at broken women like you
When trust is broken, sorry means nothing -The Joker
“I was planning to tell you,” so her plan was to lie and gaslight him and say he was the problem and then tell the truth? Riiiight. Yeah, she would’ve never come clean.
cheating is an absolute no, just either be friends or never contact her.
This sounds insane to me, to be friends with someone who betrayed you in the worst way possible. The only option is to go no contact.
"Don't call me a chump"
Dude, the person that ruined your life tracked you down to apologize, her apology was blaming it on the ap for "manipulating her" and making excuses, she accused you of breaking your heart, told you she can stay without sex while single (but couldn't stay without cheating on you) and tried to sneak back into your life (while you are seeing someone else I might add)
And you consoled her and took her to dinner
That's the definition of a chump😂
At least he shut her down after
nah my dude took the high road without compromising his dignity
he chose not to be vindictive and to move on with his life, and he only took her out as a kindness, dude is focusing on himself instead of holding a pointless grudge, and he stands firm by rejecting her in the end
if you think not wallowing in anger and spite makes him a chump, then i think your priorities are wrong
@@Auroraen This. Dude chose peace over petty revenges and hes right, it benefits all of us in the long run, even if that damn woman really didnt deserve anything good at all.
@@Auroraen tbh, there are two ways. Kind and then heartless. He chose the kind route, but for me, I would be the heartless route. It doesn’t involve anger or holding a grudge, it just involves being essentially emotionless to that person. Basically showing that you don’t feel sorry for them being sad and broken after what they caused. The OP hugged her or whatever when she was sobbing whereas I would do nothing, she is an adult and can make her own decisions and she dug her own grave with the affair. Actions have consequences. I don’t really understand the logic of being nice to someone who you spent years on and building that relationship with but they end up cheating on you 🤷. Maybe I’m just a cunt 😂.
There are at least a couple good reasons to take the high road like OP. First, you show the other party what they lost out on. Second, at least in this scenario I think, the relationship stopped without the stress of one or both of them seeking to hurt the other/stalk them/etc. Obviously what she did was wrong, but don’t forget this is someone he loved for 5 years.
Why not play with the food
'he manipulated me' that woman wasnt accepting fault, this is probably an old story but damn.. women will never ever gonna take accountability
I say the same about men in stories where men cheat
Paul is not going back. His trust is broken. She's full of it. I wouldn't trust her. And her continuing to try and use sex to get him back is just manipulative. Go full NC. I'm glad Op was honest and upfront with her. But you just KNOW if he gets a girlfriend l, the ex is gonna lose it. I wish OP nothing but happiness.
He's too bit of a coward. He nadato learn to engage in conflict.
God bless Ray. Honestly even he gave me a bit of hope in his advice.
Ray is looking with a smile but fades when you gave the email (it can be use to track online data which includes your location)
"We can have a fresh start" translates to "I want you back but I don't want to face the consequences so let's just pretend we can get past this."
Stacy had one job!!!😂
God i hate being in your situation, I’m the type of guy to easily cave in to apologies, but then again she spared him no sympathy or time when given the chance. She ultimately fucked it all up and i really think what op did was a good call. I hope you find more happiness in your life without her and discover more about yourself.
the moment you take back a cheater, youve conveyed to her that is okay to do it again.
This is the only type of ending I was to hear! No second chances
"I need time with you that you didn't give me before" this bish is only sorry she got caught.
Also, there's a high chance he's going back to her in time.
Never give cheaters ANY attention after they're exposed!
Reading all kinds of stories about cheating kinda makes me wish there was a database ppl could contribute to about cheaters. Obv many ppl wouldn't be caught to be put in it, however it could Def save some ppl from heartache if someone who is a serial cheater would be in said database.
It makes no sense to treat them like sex offenders. Yes, they ruin lives, but they are dealt the same exact blow. Their punishment of having genuine love taken away from them, is more than enough. Love is a deadly emotion, a cheater is usually a person that didnt value it enough, until they finally lose it. And when u do lose it, while knowing its 100% your fault, it breaks you. Hence why all these ppl start ruining their lives trying to make things right. Because they realize they just threw away something, that was everything. "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is a lazy way to analyze ppl. U dont say that about alchoholism or drug addiction, both of which ruin just as many lives, because we have support networks for those. We wanna help some ppl overcome their life ruining circumstances, and others we want to condemn for life. What do u think a cheating woman is gonna be, if she feels like and is constantly reminded shes a "disgusting whore"? Theres nobody thats gonna be sympathetic to her, and its hard to fight alone in this world.
@@kklap3219 Why are you going to bat for people who perpetrate the most hurtful betrayals on their partner?
Your antagonism towards a database to hold cheaters accountable is most suspicious.
I would wager that you yourself have a myriad of problems with infidelity.
Just gonna say, loving the longer videos. :)
Paul, do what you want. You suffered, but atleast he is finally happy
W Ray chain here gang. We need more Ray in our lives
I love how all these expressions of love, affection, and genuine caring come after they screw up. Why couldn't this be her reality when they were married. Why does it always take one party walking away before the other realizes how much they care? Because they don't actually care. They only want to win you back so they can screw you over again. Homeboy did the right thing in moving on.
"Why won't you give me a chance?" She asks, ignoring the fact that they were married which was her chance.
Ray be like: 🗿🍷
I wouldn’t give her another second of your life. She had her chance but threw it away for shits and giggles that apparently meant nothing.
When the OP blacks out, he probably passed out from a sharp rise in blood pressure.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Never let the same flame burn you twice.
If I was in that place where their voices got raised, I'd go out onto the street after the guy and yell "YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY"
shouldve just ignored her. She wasn't worth the effort and time.
Cheaters do not deserve 2nd chances. There are endless opportunities, endless stop sighs and endless possibilities to say "no, I have respect and self respect I will not betray myself and my SO" AND LEAVE
Or risk it depending on the situation though personally don't think it's worth the risk but despite what people say people can change usually for the worst but rarely for the better.
So if you belief they can change and want to risk it no shame in that though if they do anything other then take full responsibility for there actions and tell the whole truth that's an immediate GTFO
He shouldn’t have talked to her after she tracked him down. He should’ve totally blanked her.
Paul:🗿
Ray:🗿
Damn this guy really let this woman talk to him again and he fell for it a bit.
Man, we all need Ray in our lives.
DONT TAKE HER BACK! SHE MADE HER CHOICE AND SHE'S ONLY COMING BACK BECAUSE SHE SCREWED UP WITH HER AP!
This guy may not have gone nuclear but I like his style. One note and that was it, radio silence after that, letting the cheater lose all of her dignity while retaining his
Funny how the cheaters always want the other betrayed spouse after they get caught. They go from not giving attention to love bombing them
The is the 3rd or 4th time I’ve heard this story, and I can’t stop
Once a cheater always a cheater once the boundary is crossed there is no going back
Here is how you empower yourself: Do not give the cheater a single second of your life after you leave them. No closure, no talking, no coffee, no friendship. Just a thought in their head about "what if". Let them stew in their hatred of themselves while you live on.