What Would Make A Narcissist Come Back | Do They Miss You

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  • @johnkalweit1778
    @johnkalweit1778 4 года назад +319

    Taking a narcissist back into your life is like playing Russian roulette with a semiautomatic pistol.

  • @richardroy3699
    @richardroy3699 3 года назад +179

    6 months no contact. It was hard, but healing and learning how to love myself again has been a major blessing.

    • @nazasha5584
      @nazasha5584 3 года назад +4

      Me too Roy tough and very sad no spoken for months no clarity for like 2yrs Mmh sad for me

    • @nazasha5584
      @nazasha5584 3 года назад +4

      Sad

    • @emmcee476
      @emmcee476 3 года назад +5

      Did she come back or try to hoover you back in, during that time?

    • @joekaramitsos2824
      @joekaramitsos2824 2 года назад +1

      Mine was gone 4 years and came back then 3 years and came back

    • @blancamiranda778
      @blancamiranda778 2 года назад +1

      CONGRATULATIONS 🌹 🦅 CHICAGO HERE ONE MONTH‼️ MY SPIRIT IS COMING BACK ...IM GOOD 👍

  • @len1045678
    @len1045678 4 года назад +283

    The narcissist misses no one just what they was getting from you. A narcissist told me that already let that sink in

    • @jonesfredrick94
      @jonesfredrick94 4 года назад +5

      Really no matter what?

    • @psychictruth5037
      @psychictruth5037 4 года назад +8

      @@jonesfredrick94 no matter what 👈

    • @psychictruth5037
      @psychictruth5037 4 года назад +3

      💯👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @Isochest
      @Isochest 3 года назад +5

      What you have to give them is shit. Like them losing control and being outed to all and sundry

    • @len1045678
      @len1045678 3 года назад +10

      @@jonesfredrick94 none at all. cause they already know your gonna stop talk to them or they have new supplies before the devaluing phase

  • @leannehayes5396
    @leannehayes5396 2 года назад +29

    “They will cry their evil eyes out “ love that

  • @marchalandy3545
    @marchalandy3545 3 года назад +73

    Here is a list of what Abusers/Narcissists usually do to their targets :
    - Insults their target very often. Then lie when confronted about it, or say it was a joke.
    - When confronted with their behavior, they pretend to be innocent and play the victim.
    - Everything is always your fault, even when it's obviously not.
    - They always have a justification for every bad thing they do. They think they're always right.
    - Very controlling, they tell you how to live, but they can live anyway they want. Very hypocritical.
    - They accuse you of what they're doing to you (RED FLAG!), it's called Projection.
    - Portraying themselves as angels outside, when they are actually demons with their family and especially their target.
    - They want you to fail, while pretending to want you to succeed (they're very convincing).
    - They never say they are sorry for hurting you (RED FLAG!).
    - Poison your favorite activities, they don't want you to be happy or to get pleasure. They also poison other useful activities like important skills which will help you in the future. They DO NOT want you to have skills, they want you to be as weak as possible. They don't teach you anything.
    - Subtly lead a smear campaign against their target, so they isolate it and make sure they don't get help.
    - When you want to leave the relationship with a narcissist, they beg you to stay with them and cry crocodile tears. They are the best actors.
    - Sometimes nice, sometimes cruel. You never know where you stand with them.
    - They pretend to be "victims", and they blame the target for their own behavior.
    - They are incredibly arrogant and sadistic. They see the target as weak, and deserving to suffer.
    - They think they are models to be followed.
    - They are spiritually dead although they might loudly profess some kind of Spiritual Belief.
    Please share this message to other people and forums. We have to raise awareness!

    • @amberspeacefulplace5803
      @amberspeacefulplace5803 3 года назад +5

      Wow 🔥💯🎯

    • @loveallofnae8517
      @loveallofnae8517 2 года назад +4

      My narc was a preacher

    • @jojolee3807
      @jojolee3807 2 года назад +4

      Beautiful words of truth. U hit the nail on the head.

    • @marchalandy3545
      @marchalandy3545 2 года назад +3

      @@jojolee3807 Thank you only its a very sad truth!

    • @marchalandy3545
      @marchalandy3545 2 года назад +1

      @@loveallofnae8517 Nice way to reach alot of people and show them how good he is, when im sure you know already better...

  • @dianatucker8077
    @dianatucker8077 4 года назад +178

    My Ex isn’t treating her no better than he treated me . He’s cheating , lying and doing evil. No weapon formed against shall prosper

    • @gamingonus26
      @gamingonus26 2 года назад +1

      The same my ex gf did to me she's a believer 😭

    • @oliviasanyu850
      @oliviasanyu850 2 года назад +4

      Dont even give a damn about who he is with

    • @zsmith7590
      @zsmith7590 2 года назад

      Amen!

    • @catherinegreen3095
      @catherinegreen3095 2 года назад

      Girl you took me out with the doing evil thing!! Lmao the same thing me ex is doing to his right now!. He did it while transition from me to her. It's crazy.

  • @nikeyawashington4332
    @nikeyawashington4332 3 года назад +137

    Whatever you do!! Don’t go back queens !! ❤️❤️🥰

  • @myutube5882
    @myutube5882 3 года назад +37

    They come back when they need money, a place to stay, sex, supply, to make someone else jealous, etc.

  • @dianatucker8077
    @dianatucker8077 4 года назад +140

    I’m blessed he’s Gone thank you lord

    • @judassantadeo2243
      @judassantadeo2243 3 года назад +2

      ur a woman by nature ur narc always playing vixtim NARCS ARE SOME SICK INDIVIDUALS THERE FALL IS THat they cant see there faults and always play victim goh

    • @conniehensley5568
      @conniehensley5568 3 года назад +1

      I relate!

    • @marioashford2057
      @marioashford2057 3 года назад

      I a good man and this narcissist got angry because I didn't let her get away with crime. No one cares what she did because I am a man.🤬

    • @zuli7hernandez80
      @zuli7hernandez80 3 года назад +2

      Amén! 🙏🏼
      I feel the same way…after many attempts to detach but allowing him to Hoover me back in n falling victim of the vicious cycle (mostly bc I didn’t truly understand what a narcissist is n I didn’t want to accept it bc I had fallen hard for him) I was back n forth for over a year. Then this January he completely used me, my feelings, my heart, my money n got completely played n discarded me n ghosted me. I thought it was it! No more. But NOOOO he’s back again (as of a month now) but now I’m a bit stronger, smarter, I’ve been doing the work to heal…I’m not even halfway there but I’m not going to allow him to hinder my healing n growth again. He just want to use me n abuse me. He doesn’t care at all. I know he’s fallen on hard times n that’s the reason he’s back bc he wants to drain me of my resources, feelings, money, etc
      I rather continue to stay discarded.
      It took me some time to understand that his discard was Gods protection. 🙏🏼🙌🏼

    • @marioashford2057
      @marioashford2057 3 года назад

      @@zuli7hernandez80 Is god a female? No, god is a holy spirit. God is both genders.

  • @AngelaJeanChat
    @AngelaJeanChat 3 года назад +77

    Dead on! So true about their amnesia they have done nothing lol. Mine is a comedy show at this point.

    • @pope1089
      @pope1089 3 года назад +6

      They live in a soap opera

    • @SpIcYMoReNa
      @SpIcYMoReNa 2 года назад +2

      @@pope1089 DELUSIONAL is what they are! I’ve told mine plenty of times before I got the courage to do no contact. He discarded himself by going to jail! That was GOD saving myself & our child. I finally decided to cut him off & now he’s feeling everything he did to us , especially ME!

    • @m998hmmwv7
      @m998hmmwv7 2 года назад +2

      Yes amnesia is a narcissist best friend. They get a clean slate everytime...

  • @ausetserketrenenutet5563
    @ausetserketrenenutet5563 Год назад +7

    If you get away from a narcissist keep on moving. You've been saved from being destroyed !!! The fact you got away proves you're stronger then them !!!! NEBER go back learn to love yourself and you will find the love you deserve take time to heal your soul first.
    Be happy you got away because some people can't get away from them mentally or physically !!!

    • @tammyfitzgerald5336
      @tammyfitzgerald5336 4 месяца назад

      Leos we truth head hunters lol run it’s the devil
      Foreva searching for mommy

  • @yvetterichards1511
    @yvetterichards1511 4 года назад +253

    It you take back a narcissist they ,will be coming back with 3 more demons just to destroy you ,

    • @shawannawilliams2221
      @shawannawilliams2221 4 года назад +11

      Wow!!

    • @susanotero6431
      @susanotero6431 4 года назад +22

      I believe it. My ex left me twice first time he walked out on his two kids when they were just babies. Second time 18 years later he did it again. Never gonna get another chance ever

    • @gratefulsoul1661
      @gratefulsoul1661 4 года назад +35

      Try 7 demons or maybe even more. Thats why it's good to have Jesus christ in our lives. God bless you be strong and hang in there. The Lord is gonna make everything right.

    • @jennygabat4094
      @jennygabat4094 3 года назад +16

      So true ... And when he comes back to me ? I saw the demons in him

    • @nannymcphie3948
      @nannymcphie3948 3 года назад +8

      Wow ! Impacting & very deep... I'm going ghost.

  • @ExecutiveProtection51
    @ExecutiveProtection51 4 года назад +42

    NO CONTACT!!!!!!!!!

    • @bertiehobbs1563
      @bertiehobbs1563 3 года назад +5

      I agree with you a hundred percent! No contact full stop! Don't even think about them, let them go!

  • @AZDC99
    @AZDC99 2 года назад +23

    6:20 ""Narcissists act like they have amnesia, and that for whatever reason we should forget all the evil and hurt that they've caused." You could tell it in their tone of their voice too when they show up unannounced. That they expect you to pretend like it never happened or that wasn't so bad!

  • @mee-mee1924
    @mee-mee1924 2 года назад +18

    Love the fact that you said what the give is nothing compared to what they have taken from you or the crap they have put you through! That's nothing but the whole truth

    • @duanegittens719
      @duanegittens719 2 года назад

      They really are the cheapest people you will ever meet!

  • @jacquelinefroehle5868
    @jacquelinefroehle5868 2 года назад +13

    When they come back and you bring up their past abuse to you....THEY WILL HATE YOU FOR HAVING A MEMORY. How dare you have a memory....that means you're insane, and they are not...lol.

  • @s3bastian654
    @s3bastian654 3 года назад +33

    I remember when I was with my narc, I was rather clingy and highly codependant. One thing that boggled my mind is when I was away from him for some time and I'd want him with me, so I'd message him: "I miss you" to which he replied: "I don't thing you are using the right words for the situation, I'd understand if I had been away for a few years but those words mean nothing if its just a few days." and I thought "WHAT??" Even now it trips me up slightly. From what I felt, I felt mocked for showing my emotions to him and expressing affection, which brought me to the realisation: he said that because he wanted to belittle my feelings, but he also got a huge sense of pride in knowing how I cared for him back then. He wanted to seem like he had a more stable head on his shoulders, and I was going insane. What's truly insane is mocking someone for having love in their heart 💚

    • @lorraine6275
      @lorraine6275 3 года назад +1

      😢💔

    • @emmcee476
      @emmcee476 3 года назад +3

      So incredibly toxic :(

    • @LA-lq1zf
      @LA-lq1zf 3 года назад +2

      This happened to me. I didn’t see him for two days and I texted him “I miss you” and he replied “why” and I said “because I haven’t seen you” he would take hours to reply. He broke up (discarded) me on my birthday. He had planned a trip to see a band in a different state and it never happened he just sent me a text telling me he didn’t want me anymore. I replied “that is fine I also don’t want you” I should’ve never said that because he went crazy he couldn’t believe I wasn’t begging him or crying or sad. I simply never wrote back and. Changed my number. He came to look for me at my home but I ignored him even if I was hurting. He still lives up the street, but his new supply hot pregnant. She’s figured him out so they are all busy going through the court for custody battles and what not. Lol I feel bad for her but I’m happy it’s not me in that position. He’s a doosh bag and uses his 1 year old daughter to hurt the mother. So sad

    • @paigeclark91
      @paigeclark91 3 года назад +1

      Mine discarded me left me pregnant with 3 little kids with no food clothes and turned off the electric during covid in November I have no friends or family because of him and his family is horrible and narcs too I called his sister and parents about the pregnancy my dad who doesn’t even have a relationship with me even told him he needed to come take care of his family my narc husband contacted anyone he thought may try an help me and said nasty lies about me had my 95 yr old grandmother in tears he would call me from different numbers from an app just to taunt me he kept throwing stones and i kept begging him to come back and fix our family instead he just told me how he already has been moving on with multiple women most had 4 kids so he used the I was keeping the kids from him excuse it was sick I’m still sick over it lasted 3 weeks and I’m back I lost my baby he got me pregnant right away I lost that one too in my second trimester I think it was god protecting me ajd he keeps trying to get me pregnant because he won’t let me work or drive or leave and puts cameras inside and outside so I can’t leave or talk on the phone becaue he listens through them I don’t know what to do…. So yes using my love for him as a weapon against me in the cruelest thing I’ve ever had to deal with ajd I still love him sadly

    • @LA-lq1zf
      @LA-lq1zf 3 года назад +2

      @@paigeclark91 I’m so sorry with what you are going through. I think for your own mental well being and future you could consider seeing out professional help so you can let go of the power he has over you and realize that everything he is doing is because he is allowed too. Take your power back look for healthy and safe ways to do so. I send you a big hug. You are not alone 💕

  • @nonconformist36
    @nonconformist36 3 года назад +22

    "cry their evil eyes out" LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @shorty9022
      @shorty9022 2 года назад +2

      I saw the Devil in his eye's.

    • @m998hmmwv7
      @m998hmmwv7 2 года назад +2

      I couldn't help but laugh when I heard that lmfao...

  • @mjhstyl5364
    @mjhstyl5364 4 года назад +62

    I discarded my EN and now it’s been 9 months NC. But my intuition is telling me something is about to happen. Perfect timing seeing this video. Thk U....❗️❗️

    • @ronfirek5824
      @ronfirek5824 3 года назад +4

      Stay strong you deserve better.
      Blessings

    • @GuardianAngel..
      @GuardianAngel.. 3 года назад +5

      That girl is going to go crazy because in her mind she thinks that she have you wrapped around her little finger oh boy is she going to be in for a rude awakening.

    • @eveningowl9443
      @eveningowl9443 3 года назад +4

      get ready, mine randomly texted me from his brothers Fb saying "blah bla blah blah my brother is in the hospitall please help , come" i didnt respond and blocked the brother, the brother never liked me or spoked to me, hes always been prideful, u think hell message me saying "PLEAZE" to me? lmao yeah right

    • @AZDC99
      @AZDC99 2 года назад +2

      @@eveningowl9443 Flying monkey gets DENIED! Good job. About the formerly shit-talking brother, as Maya Angelou used to say "when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time!" Easier said than done, of course, hence the her golden mantra nowadays. Great job in blocking the brother!

  • @shawannawilliams2221
    @shawannawilliams2221 4 года назад +70

    After @ 4 years break up.....my Ex ask me to come back home....No way !!!!!!

    • @toronto416.
      @toronto416. 3 года назад +9

      4yrs u guys were broken up and he wanted to get with u again?

    • @GuardianAngel..
      @GuardianAngel.. 3 года назад +3

      Who the hell does that guy think he is he left you hurt for 4 years and after all that he still wants to come back, oh boy is he asking for it.

    • @shawannawilliams2221
      @shawannawilliams2221 3 года назад +5

      @@GuardianAngel.. ...... I didn't fall for his lies...I went an bought me a house.an I'm living my Nar - free

    • @lauradempsey2703
      @lauradempsey2703 3 года назад +2

      I was away from him 6yrs and asked to come back... unfortunately I did before I knew about this condition,he left after 6 months and we have a son together,..can't even remember what he did to leave but it was over 3 yrs ago... never went bk again

  • @lobbybarn1830
    @lobbybarn1830 3 года назад +7

    My covered narsisistic ex girlfriend just tried to hoover me for the second time after 20 months. Unbelievable!! Everything fits to the core! I felt like coming here to watch this video again. Thank you Clarice you are an angel. Your voice is so pleasant to hear. You are saving a lot of us from driving into the dark again.

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 4 года назад +66

    Regardless of who discarded who,count your blessings you escaped the toxic pos, the only thing they miss is what can you do or give them,there attention who'res, I no everyone has heard of bpd ? Well np d is real also it's a disorder, that they have there demons on earth, don't be played by them, trust yourself,you will be fine it's not your fault you just bumped into a very wrong person, your special or they wouldn't pick you out , learn all you can to heal yourself of them, stay no contact,you deserve better, don't be around the demons on earth that's what they are,seek and destroy you your family your life anything,they have have a black heart, I sure hope this helps out anyone take care of yourself and be blessed,by the way great video.

    • @ChristiansPrayingTogether
      @ChristiansPrayingTogether 4 года назад +9

      Yes, black hearts all the way ....

    • @minimouse5914
      @minimouse5914 4 года назад +6

      Lol it's true bpd usually are targeted by npds. Bpd is a mental emotionally ustable moods disorder of a personality. Npds are Satan at his finest that's my opinion.

    • @tanyarawat9700
      @tanyarawat9700 4 года назад +7

      @@minimouse5914 npds are criminals they'll manipulate abuse and exploit you in every way they can and they won't stop ANYWHERE they'll go to any lengths to destroy you

    • @minimouse5914
      @minimouse5914 4 года назад +3

      @@tanyarawat9700yes they try but they forget about one very important thing. Our father God and boy does he pull out all the stops & God loves making a examples of them for his suffering children. Ask a narcissist do they believe in Jesus an God. this narcissatan demon will reply saying no such thing as God or start ranting. They really do turn into the antichrist. I studied these creatures for years but yes they can still catch us off Gard. Thanks for replying. New day Monday fresh start no more Narc's. 😇+❤️

    • @minimouse5914
      @minimouse5914 4 года назад +4

      I really appreciate all these comments. And wow how difficult it is to escape this situation. I personally don't believe it's a disorder. Thought it's a personality disorder lol Narc's don't have a personality. Nope they are robots and I don't feel sorry for them anymore just feel sad for the next victim they device. But yah it won't be my problem anymore.

  • @ginamenk3347
    @ginamenk3347 3 года назад +21

    Our narcissist is gone and all his crap from our yard! Free at last! I've been sleeping all through the night! I can feel the toxic energy leaving, it's amazing 💜

  • @ParadoxReport
    @ParadoxReport 2 года назад +4

    "Cry their evil eyes out" 😂

  • @supremegoddessnani3584
    @supremegoddessnani3584 2 года назад +6

    Yes you’re absolutely right!! It’s been a year since I left my narcissist husband he has tried to come back 4x. I took him back 1x a few months after we separated, he claimed he loved me so much and that he wanted his family back and was willing to do anything to fix things. He even admitted that he was the problem and that it was his duty to change and mend things including going to therapy which is something I’ve been trying to get him to do for years. I naively believed him. It was ALL LIES and ALL talk. I realized rather quickly that things were NOT going to get better and that he has NOT changed, so I left him again for good. Since then he’s tried to get back with me 3x as recent as last week he tried again!! Used our son and my bonus daughter I raised as part of the dismantling process, so grateful I remained strong and didn’t fall prey to his LIES again. I will NEVER EVER EVER take him back again. Since I left him has done so many EVIL things to me. He literally wants me to suffer knowing I’m the only one that takes care of our son. He has attacked our very livelihood and has the balls the audacity to think I would EVER take him back is crazy and very insulting. I’m still in therapy processing all of this and doing the inner work to heal from this traumatic experience.

  • @Narcissiststalkerhackthisphone
    @Narcissiststalkerhackthisphone 4 года назад +39

    Wish I would have heard this 20 year's ago when I knew nothing of narcissism..I thought they was just a little touched upstairs.. Clarice describe my ex (scary accurate) every word is precisely correct.. without even knowing her.. spoke every move she's ever done to me..and to think someone never know what narcissism is...

  • @carvera9496
    @carvera9496 Год назад +3

    Thank you for that wonderful insight & information. Honestly, I can’t fathom the thought of such a person having the audacity to making a return. I’m enjoying my healing process & it’s a process for real. However, psychologically & realistically turning back is not an option for me, it will just really be a mess. My reality is to heal right into my peaceful freedom. Your input has helped me to become so much more aware & what to expect when dealing with such a person. Thank you.

  • @JoseSoto-ok2wc
    @JoseSoto-ok2wc 4 года назад +28

    Walk away shut them down from all ways of communication. After all they will never be in a good place or doing well.
    Its sad that NPD is a misable way to live. Don't take it personally. Move on Love 💗 YourSelf your the only one you have 💪

  • @sll110
    @sll110 4 года назад +58

    if they can take advantage, they would come back .. if they can't use victims anymore, they wouldn't come back..
    I am experience right now, my step father and my narcissist mom kept bothering me that how much they are worrying me, it seems I need them, but in fact, they wanted me to sacrifice my own life to live with them as nanny... horrible selfish...
    I am reading book, NEVER go back !

    • @maxwellsmart6487
      @maxwellsmart6487 3 года назад +9

      Some come back because it's a game.. they are bored, think you might be played again.
      And again.

  • @SRose-xm4qh
    @SRose-xm4qh 2 года назад +12

    They will NOT come back if they know you’ve figured them out and you don’t engage!!!!

    • @fionahawkes1758
      @fionahawkes1758 Год назад +1

      The ex narc I knew knows that I know I told him to his face that I knew he was a narc & even finished his arse for the same reason, yet he still tries to return

  • @bemari76
    @bemari76 4 года назад +20

    So far this chanel is one if the best way ti understand the Narcissism problem
    It’s easy, simple and clear

    • @lauradempsey2703
      @lauradempsey2703 3 года назад +1

      Totally agree...it's really the best at explaining the condition so well

  • @vesnalukic9877
    @vesnalukic9877 4 года назад +45

    The first time she discarded me it was so cruel and then she came back like she didnt leave me for dead..wtf!

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 3 года назад +10

      My ex was the same, when she discarded me it was nasty. She would say I deserved it.
      I am the reason for everything bad that happened to her.
      Supposedly.

    • @dritanstojanovic4576
      @dritanstojanovic4576 3 года назад +6

      It's because they're simply attached to you to destroy you once more time from the beginning. They always come with a nasty & dirty plan to stalk you and probably kill you

    • @MR-mv6hd
      @MR-mv6hd 3 года назад +7

      The same here. He actually said to me “l don’t even want to talk about that” lol 😂 he did not want to talk about the way he discarded me over a text and wanted to get back to me saying “come over for the weekend” and l said NO. He insisted that we would talk once l was in his place wtf. That just sounded like straight up manipulation and actually a trap! I did not go. He tried last weekend and l said NO again. These people would literally drive you insane.

    • @daviedood2503
      @daviedood2503 3 года назад

      @@dritanstojanovic4576 the way they've made me feel, I could only HOPE they'd do it. 😂 Pain is real man. 😂

    • @morosso1968
      @morosso1968 3 года назад +2

      wait Vesna,,, could it be your ex is my ex too?
      i decided to walk away from her, she tried hoovering me just a week ago, she sent me this PM: "how are you? i miss you ,,, :( " WTF! LOL
      hoover all you want, ain't gonna get me. i'm enjoying the show atm,,,,,

  • @elizabethortiz2571
    @elizabethortiz2571 3 года назад +6

    I Thank God for Saving me from Narcissist. Being with Narcissist is being in a Nightmare a Rollercoaster Ride. When they drop you like a Hot Potato it's Devastating! I been through it twice with this type of person. They are Masters of being a Narcissist. You really need to know how to Spot them. Sparing yourself the Hell. Don't be a Victim of them.

  • @vickilarochelle4480
    @vickilarochelle4480 3 года назад +9

    This is happening to me now- and it’s so toxic and hurtful

    • @Jurassic_Thrones
      @Jurassic_Thrones 2 года назад

      I know, its 1 years after my divorce and now she try to take my daughter... on Court. Pfff she don't stop to destroy me. Im tired, sick, pannic attacks etc. i hope the Judge stop her but im scared she going to play the victim in court and the judge belief her. Pfff somebody needs to stop that women. its hell i tell you that.

  • @isha.j655
    @isha.j655 3 года назад +12

    I'm so glad he discard me. It only lasted for about 4 months. I realized now it hurt my feelings but I rather be hurt than depressed for settling for less. OMG he was trash. 😆

  • @Anonymous-py1sf
    @Anonymous-py1sf 2 года назад +3

    I know someone (with probably NPD) who broke up with their partner 18 monts ago and everything who totally fine with them both and nobody regretted the situation.
    Just recently, few months ago the one who got discarded found a new lover and then everything changed.
    Now, the narcissist is always talking bad about them and sometimes even crying. For about 1 year, the narcissist NEVER talked about the ex! Just after finding the new relationship.
    It may sound strange at first but now everything makes sense. Narcissists will go crazy when they realize you can live without them.
    Everything is fine for them if they were the ones breaking up with you and if you are still single they feel that they can still go back to you (if they decide to).

  • @Naked_Sports200
    @Naked_Sports200 4 года назад +38

    The second coming of the devil bringing destruction.. There is so much of negativity here.

  • @nellyshivere4267
    @nellyshivere4267 4 года назад +10

    So powerful... Am well prepared i thank God for saving me

  • @lauradempsey2703
    @lauradempsey2703 3 года назад +6

    This lady is the greatest out there at doing videos about narcissism....just absolutely spot on ❤️

  • @MikeKollin
    @MikeKollin 4 года назад +12

    Great video... I just discarded a narcissist about 2 1/2 months ago and right now they are still sending me gifts, priority mail and packages and begging me to come back. I totally blocked them about 5 weeks ago after they refused to respect my wish for them to stop emailing/calling, texting etc...

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 года назад +5

      OMG! So pathetic! They really think they can torture me some more! No way! Save it all for the Ex, New supply, flying monkeys or whoever! I guess because they have done so much and had very little consequences! They are all going to be crying out for Mercy and because they have tormented so many people nobody is going to help them! And they will see every face they tortured

  • @trecialangley5535
    @trecialangley5535 4 года назад +40

    I wish I didn’t get the Hoover anymore. I have ignored went NC. The narcissist still keeps showing up in my neighborhood doing donuts in front of my home. I see them burning rubber in front of my house and the church. They have no spiritual foundation so the church means nothing to this sick 🤬

    • @nernatbentley3778
      @nernatbentley3778 4 года назад +6

      Tricia Langley,
      You should record the behavior of that Narcissist when he shows up in your neighborhood “burning rubber!” It’s important to have ANY type of documentation(s) against him for Court purposes. In fact, you should have his ass arrested for ‘Stalking’!!

    • @judithmcdaniel7343
      @judithmcdaniel7343 4 года назад +4

      Rose Jenny the exact same here w/ my ex, that's the 1st thing I noticed, secondly he's stingy💲💵💸👎

    • @judithmcdaniel7343
      @judithmcdaniel7343 4 года назад +2

      p.s. the first time that I've noticed I wasn't his person nor did I have any knowledge of narcissism.

    • @jonathandemelo3075
      @jonathandemelo3075 2 года назад +1

      Restraining order block and delete

  • @kellyblack4897
    @kellyblack4897 4 года назад +16

    IMHO your best video yet miss! Love how real you got, and not holding back with your words. 👏

  • @user-ed1mw4us9e
    @user-ed1mw4us9e 3 года назад +20

    Do not take them back. Remind yourself they are not real and do not care. They want to suck you dry! Ask your guardian angels from heaven for help, they will indeed help protect your true heart! 🙏 😇 thanks! Let them feed off each other and betray each other. 🧛‍♀️🧛‍♂️

    • @GuardianAngel..
      @GuardianAngel.. 3 года назад +3

      Your right narcissists are a different species of human or maybe they are an alien wearing a human mask, but whatever the hell they are they should definitely stick to their own kind.

    • @glitchmedia1012
      @glitchmedia1012 3 года назад +2

      Are you an 😇?

  • @shawannawilliams2221
    @shawannawilliams2221 4 года назад +23

    This is a great video 🙂👌

  • @nkwhph
    @nkwhph 4 года назад +24

    So true..they come back with a lovey-dovey tone which is full of deceit! I got a message saying "hey long time lets get dinner.. my shout" 🤥

    • @Erik7prc
      @Erik7prc 4 года назад +7

      Did you blow the whistle and throw a flag on the play?
      Hope so mane

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 года назад +4

      I got flowers and for about 3 days the pathetic soulless evil demon was on their best behavior then all hell broke loose! I couldn’t understand why when I thought everything was going good they would always say some foul nasty mess! I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD ACTUALLY SEE THE DEVIL FACE TO FACE! I could feel it when they touched me! It would make my skin crawl! The New Supply Is Going To Get It Worst!

    • @Erik7prc
      @Erik7prc 4 года назад +2

      @@constancebarton2399 make sure you don't fall for the banana in the tailpipe!

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 года назад

      ErikisOfficial‼ What is that?

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 года назад +2

      I didn’t know what was happening at first. They tried to fool me with Twin Flames. After six months I tried to kill myself and I asked my ancestors what was that? I heard it so clear Narcissism! I had only heard the word twice so I looked it up and it was them! I couldn’t believe they were soulless so I went into denial and tried to live this fantasy relationship I had in my head! I could write a book on all I went through! I pretty sure we all can! I went back over 100 times in 3 years! Trying to see the best in someone, hoping against hope! At the end I was numb! The love had been gone! I had to get tired! And tired I was! We all have choices! I can either heal my childhood trauma, learn how to love myself, see my worth and raise my vibration or I can continue to live in a loveless, tormenting, lying, cheating, gaslighting, crazy making, emotionless sex with a pathetic soulless evil demon! I have completely accepted that the Narc’s only mission is to destroy! I’M TAKING MY POWER BACK! I HAVE TO MARCH TO A DIFFERENT BEAT OF THE DRUM OF LIFE AND NOT LOOK BACK! I GOT THE NOTE THE GOAT WROTE! I’M STRONGER, WISER AND BETTER! Peace&Blessings! 🙏🏾😇💕

  • @jacquicollins7613
    @jacquicollins7613 3 года назад +2

    I'm being stalked by my narc because I won't have him back... another message today off him... your info is so spot on... it helps reaffirm my decision of no contact is the only way forward...thanks

    • @TheMsmith77
      @TheMsmith77 3 года назад +2

      Same here. He's been making sure I see him every time I come out my house. He discarded me and disappeared for several weeks and now resurfaced and hoovering. Sending texts, roaming around his sister she lives next door, and trying to call. He is watching me like crazy. Every time I change my schedule, he mirrors it. I move in four days!

  • @Narcissiststalkerhackthisphone
    @Narcissiststalkerhackthisphone 4 года назад +8

    Clarice seemed a little angry this time around, lol, I never heard her swear.. always impressed with her knowledge on this subject...

  • @amadaacunia8613
    @amadaacunia8613 3 года назад +4

    I got rid of my x. He tried to move on, but kept coming trying to come back. Then go his family to get me back. I stayed strong. I was a safe place for him when things didn't work out for him. I stayed strong. I have not seen or talk to him.

  • @anjualbiroy9465
    @anjualbiroy9465 2 года назад +1

    when he finally left! i could breathe but I was refusing my freedom !! The first month I was like a rebel! In the second month I started realizing life is better! the third month i started rebuilding myself! the fourth month i started moving on from the abusive negative energy and the fifth month i have better dreams and now i am high without being drunk. I love my freedom; independence and life.

  • @jennygabat4094
    @jennygabat4094 3 года назад +7

    Now I totally understand that my foriegner partner was truly a narcissist , and he really is... Am a filipina who was blinded by his sweet words. I'm the one who supported him including his vices. ( cigarette and liquors ) I woke up to this nightmare. He always ask me if I want him to get off my house . I answered him back , that if wants to leave he can leave anytime. But in his mind I'm locking him up. Oh my GOD I want to get rid of him. All I know is I want to help him after his live in partner dump him. Though I liked him even before . And he knows that. I think he uses those to get a chance to used and abused me. Oh God pls help me to get rid of this man ..

  • @luvkumar02
    @luvkumar02 4 года назад +5

    Yeah this video is totally true. A Narcissist is incapable of loving you, and in trying to return after discard only to regain the supply from you. Will only destroy you if you let her/him return in your life.
    I can say this on the basis of experience.🙄🙄🙄👍👍

  • @susanneuniewski
    @susanneuniewski 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for this one. You are describing it in a very good way, it is easy to follow and understand. Hugs from Sweden!

  • @catherinegreen3095
    @catherinegreen3095 2 года назад +1

    Woman I felt every word you said!!! Especially when you started to cuss... lord I felt you've been there before too.

  • @michellezareas8276
    @michellezareas8276 4 года назад +11

    Thank you, great insight! 🙏💕

  • @psychictruth5037
    @psychictruth5037 4 года назад +15

    The narc (asylum patient) - walking free 😆

  • @lyndamitchelle4536
    @lyndamitchelle4536 3 года назад +16

    the only way to truly rid yourself of a narc is to cause a massive narc injury and go no contract, gray rock, block them on everything and disassociate yourself completely.

    • @brandytucker4024
      @brandytucker4024 3 года назад +4

      Yes Lynda your so right. We must stay strong keep our guard up. And go no contact. For ever. Cos they will try to come back.
      Total assholes.

  • @JessicaRamirez91622
    @JessicaRamirez91622 4 года назад +6

    I told him we were done. He left and got wasted. Told me the next night he was done. We already were!

    • @vesnalukic9877
      @vesnalukic9877 4 года назад +2

      Haha mine did the same ! I told her she needs to apologize or I'm done..she refused to so I said I'm done..and then she says...let's block each other this is over! Like no you didnt make that decision I did..

    • @JessicaRamirez91622
      @JessicaRamirez91622 4 года назад +3

      @@vesnalukic9877 They are so childish!

    • @bibiarefaansari7326
      @bibiarefaansari7326 3 года назад +1

      This.... So fukcing true.. They want to believe they are the ones who finished it..... Turning truth....

  • @jeffreyward8561
    @jeffreyward8561 2 года назад +1

    One of the best videos I have ever seen on this apparently I'm an empath and I am a magnet to these people and every time I am fooled

  • @zuli7hernandez80
    @zuli7hernandez80 3 года назад +3

    Love this video. Best one I seen so far. You speak clearly n convey the message very clearly. Good job 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @teysiewpeng3884
    @teysiewpeng3884 3 года назад +5

    Thanks for your reminder, really appreciate it!

  • @getrudemwaura946
    @getrudemwaura946 3 года назад +1

    Shocking ---Very unfortunate for the Narcissist..
    Thank You 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏💞💞💞

  • @betanialacoste7945
    @betanialacoste7945 4 года назад +5

    This is right on.

  • @judym4684
    @judym4684 Год назад

    this is terrific - so clear, matter-of-fact and non-negotiable truths; just what i need to hear again and again for long long while!

  • @rebeccapowell5038
    @rebeccapowell5038 3 года назад +4

    This is really good. Thank you so much!! 💞

  • @shawndarodgers939
    @shawndarodgers939 2 года назад +2

    This video is amazing straight to the point and precisely what I needed to hear. Thank you ❤️

  • @fletchadam
    @fletchadam 3 года назад +3

    Both scenarios so true!

  • @emmaprice766
    @emmaprice766 3 года назад +3

    Amazing. So true. Thank you x

  • @youngw1ze
    @youngw1ze 2 года назад +2

    My ex was all like :"do you still love me?"
    My response: "no"
    The Ex: "Oh, my bad...I thought you were still stupid."

    • @djw8504
      @djw8504 Год назад

      Lol!!! Sorry but wow!! They are such strange, evil, animals! Not human! I hope ur doing well!🙏

  • @johnnyblaze2257
    @johnnyblaze2257 4 года назад +28

    I don’t think the Covert Narcissist I was with for 10 months will come back, I talked to the couple of guys she denied cheating with and they volunteered information, I’m positive she knows that from them.
    It’s been 5 months since that I beat her to the discard, I’ve made an insane amount of gains in that time, but have yet to run into her, tho there’s not a chance in hell that I would ever give her another chance!

    • @psychictruth5037
      @psychictruth5037 4 года назад +2

      👏👏👏

    • @omgimover4075
      @omgimover4075 4 года назад +4

      Yeah I thought the same exact thing until my narcissistic ex showed up at my door in December 22, 2018 even though I discarded him in March 2018. I was with for 10 months also. However, please never underestimate these demons.

    • @johnnyblaze2257
      @johnnyblaze2257 4 года назад +1

      OMG I’M OVER 40 what did you do? How did you act?..what did you say?

    • @nernatbentley3778
      @nernatbentley3778 4 года назад +1

      @@johnnyblaze2257,
      For your sake, I hope your Ex-Narcissist NEVER returns. I’m getting a vibe from you that’s telling me, you’re NOT healed from her, yet.

    • @constancebarton2399
      @constancebarton2399 4 года назад +3

      OMG! Sick demented devils

  • @gint5414
    @gint5414 3 года назад +4

    So helpful!!!!

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 года назад

      Virginia Thorngren Rush,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌺, hope you are not with a narc 😈!!

    • @peterbradley2526
      @peterbradley2526 2 года назад

      No contact don't let them back keep running very bad news they are all the same keep them out of your life just say no no no no an keep running

  • @wildrose2004
    @wildrose2004 3 года назад +4

    Your really accurate about this thank you

  • @garyreynolds9780
    @garyreynolds9780 3 года назад +2

    I played a narcissist at their own game ...then shut the door ...boy it felt good

  • @kimberlybroom2316
    @kimberlybroom2316 4 года назад +2

    Your readings made my life a whole lot clearer.. Thanks

  • @mahlina1220
    @mahlina1220 4 года назад +3

    Spot on. Every second of your video!!🙏

  • @onlyhis5870
    @onlyhis5870 Год назад

    You are a God-send Clarice. Thank you SO-MUCH for all you give on this platform! 👑

  • @judddarguedarbyshire1977
    @judddarguedarbyshire1977 4 года назад +7

    i do look forward to your videos 🌸💕👍

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 года назад

      Judd Dargue Darbyshire 1,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!

  • @rebonemakhura5175
    @rebonemakhura5175 4 года назад +3

    The truth in this video 💯

  • @dorotheaya1245
    @dorotheaya1245 3 года назад +2

    Very good description!

  • @jacquelinefroehle5868
    @jacquelinefroehle5868 2 года назад +2

    When I said, "Let's get a divorce and do this as nice as possible for the kids"....keep in mind in the past he would threaten to divorce me often...and he cheated as well. Him: "No...I'm not ready for a divorce, and now I will have to DESTROY YOUR LIFE". Me: You always were destroying my life....so what's the difference?" Then he made plans for me "You will never get married again....and all kinds of stupid nonsense. THEY OWN YOU...OR SO THEY THINK THEY DO.

  • @kittithelittle3298
    @kittithelittle3298 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for the advice. Super.

  • @sandeepmalhotra5906
    @sandeepmalhotra5906 4 года назад +4

    Very useful and true information u r doing great job carryon

  • @dontdeceiveanddontgetdecei2836
    @dontdeceiveanddontgetdecei2836 3 года назад +1

    Your absolutely right ma'am.
    Great Research and Very Helpful Message.
    Thank you so so much.

  • @amadaacunia8613
    @amadaacunia8613 3 года назад +3

    This is so interesting, I would like to do a research paper on it. I found FAS very interesting to.

  • @6time686
    @6time686 4 года назад +3

    The narc I was entangled with discarded and came back twice in 12 years. I am of no use anymore so I got lucky. I used her just like she used me which is why I let her back in each time. They are empty shells and have nothing to offer. No sadness here. I dealt with her long enough to know what I was getting myself into.

    • @TheRonaldbaxter
      @TheRonaldbaxter 4 года назад

      Mine is like that. Completely empty. She is making a big show online being luvvy duvvy with her husband. He is a right minger though! 😆

  • @chriscarpenter9155
    @chriscarpenter9155 Год назад

    Thank you once more! I needed to hear your vídeo to reinforce my decision and streghten my boundaries. Let's have a wonderful life far from these tormented souls! 🤐🤫 until the day we go completly blank on them, and their control over us is lost for good!

  • @jowest1902
    @jowest1902 4 года назад +3

    You are 1000000 percent correct. My ex narc is trying to get me to contact him but it's not goingbto happen. He can fry for all I care. He left me in the wake of nearly ruining me completely but I am clawing back without him. Do not care one iota what that fool is up to now. He is in my rear view mirror.

  • @tashaequeen8935
    @tashaequeen8935 3 года назад +3

    The crazy thing is when i first saw him i was attracted to him and wanted to get to know him. We worked together i was already working @ the place and so on his first day he got hired i instantly was drawn to him. But my gosh i didn't know what i was getting myself into until 2yrs later. I feel so stupid now. Smh but I'm just glad that's behind me its been a yr seen i had any engagement with him. I've moved on. He has tried to get back in since then but i declined..

  • @maureenblanchard3323
    @maureenblanchard3323 4 года назад +5

    Absolutely true 👍

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 3 года назад +1

      Maureen Blanchard,hope you are not with a narc 🙄 cause you are too precious 🌹🌹🌷🌷🌺🌹🌹

  • @micktaylor1991
    @micktaylor1991 4 года назад +2

    Clarice great to hear your voice always a good video.

  • @sll110
    @sll110 4 года назад +2

    great reminding 👏👏👏👍👍👍

  • @mrinalini9037
    @mrinalini9037 3 года назад +1

    Very accurate and informative. Thanks

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 Год назад +1

    Thank you 😊 I believe.

  • @marilynmartinez6651
    @marilynmartinez6651 3 года назад +1

    Ty for the reminder....

  • @miras.9514
    @miras.9514 3 года назад +4

    7:54 min- What a narcissist gives... Truer word's haven't been spoken...

  • @irenelindsey1005
    @irenelindsey1005 3 года назад +1

    Thank you and you are spot on.

  • @milanmarko8270
    @milanmarko8270 3 года назад +1

    So spot on!

  • @artattack7149
    @artattack7149 3 года назад +2

    Dont play with narc.no contact.. Is the best👍😉

  • @heneverforesakesme4038
    @heneverforesakesme4038 2 года назад

    whenever you say a curse word, it is so friggin hilarious. LOLOLOLOL. Party on Clarice....

  • @Tlove201
    @Tlove201 4 года назад +4

    Yes. I never ever want to go back to a Narc! I am still in the process of healing. Today while going to church, this Narc sent me a message. I owe her money from a business that we had together. Next week I will pay her back but I can never ever be business partners with her or friends. She is a user and a manipulator and she is very controlling. I am going to pray and speak the Word of God and be ready with my guards up when I go to visit her. Meanwhile, I am unbothered by that demon.

  • @sheilaberger1395
    @sheilaberger1395 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video. I really did need to hear this today!