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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024

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  • @calcauter8
    @calcauter8 5 лет назад +891

    I don’t think Andrea knows how to be angry or sad. His every emotion is happiness.

    • @JustCallMeAnnie
      @JustCallMeAnnie 5 лет назад +3

      Idon't know So true!

    • @TiMalice2009
      @TiMalice2009 5 лет назад +22

      He has a sweet temperament.

    • @itzmais
      @itzmais 5 лет назад

      True

    • @emmabramley4205
      @emmabramley4205 5 лет назад

      Hes such a happy little boy...definitely can brighten a room with his happiness 😊

    • @westiekid8400
      @westiekid8400 4 года назад

      He’s so in love with his Daddy. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him other than happy with his daddy 😭😭😭

  • @heyyitstk
    @heyyitstk 5 лет назад +140

    Thank you Anna for highlighting the time and effort that goes into joining, sustaining and finishing med school. As a recent graduate, now a doctor, it is really frustrating to see people on the internet giving their "expert" advice behind a keyboard just cos everyone has access to it now and spreading misinformation. I am glad you guys are educated enough to tell that to your viewers too! I really appreciate it

    • @donnadavis235
      @donnadavis235 5 лет назад +5

      We have to educate ourselves

    • @heyyitstk
      @heyyitstk 5 лет назад +3

      @@donnadavis235 agreed! But having influencers talking about something to spread decent information is a good start for a lot to those who follow them.

  • @annemariebodo5300
    @annemariebodo5300 5 лет назад +183

    I have never seen a sunnier child than Andrea! Such a lovely little man!😍😍😍

  • @jazlynsyvretcreative9282
    @jazlynsyvretcreative9282 5 лет назад +300

    Andrea is such a chunky baby and I love it! So cute! I think Emilia is going to have a pretty singing voice as she gets older

  • @emilysian8532
    @emilysian8532 5 лет назад +144

    He’s such a little darling . He’s so happy ☀️ such a ray of sunshine .
    Get well soon baby chunk xx

  • @Amystephensxx
    @Amystephensxx 5 лет назад +114

    Andreas teeth literally come out of nowhere, one min he’s got none, next he has a mouthful! he’s such a gorgeous happy boy😍

  • @KatyWatson173
    @KatyWatson173 5 лет назад +59

    Andrea is by far the happiest baby he is destined for an amazing life. Eduardo an Emilia’s performances were delightful.

  • @tanni3670
    @tanni3670 5 лет назад +23

    That little man is without a doubt one of the happiest, sweet natured souls I have ever seen, bless his little heart, sick but still laughing, smiling...…..lovable Andrea.

  • @GoodandDelicious
    @GoodandDelicious 5 лет назад +42

    I swear, that rash was the proof I needed to figure out if Andrea was actually a human child or not. I mean, when is the baby not happy?! What a gorgeous, happy chunker!

  • @paulapaixao3928
    @paulapaixao3928 5 лет назад +94

    Andrea might be going through some trouble but he's on FULL PARTY MOOD aaaw he's such a sunshine child. I hope he gets better soon!!!

  • @daisybelle1632
    @daisybelle1632 5 лет назад +96

    Haven’t watched for a while and so glad the old intro music is back!!!!

  • @Bethanyef
    @Bethanyef 5 лет назад +100

    I too am allergic to penicillin with the same reaction! I can imagine how scary that must have been. My little boy has had meningitis twice and would just say that it doesn’t always come with a rash so bare that in mind! Keep and eye for cold hands and feet. Glad he’s so happy through it all though x

    • @GoodandDelicious
      @GoodandDelicious 5 лет назад +1

      Bethany F very true! My dad somehow survived a severe case of meningitis. They had to fly to a special hospital and Texas and was hospitalized for several months.

    • @EyeGlassTrainofMind
      @EyeGlassTrainofMind 5 лет назад

      ++++

    • @RoisinColette
      @RoisinColette 5 лет назад +2

      The rash is usually one of the last symptoms to show with meningitis - fever, cold hands and feet, sensitivity to lights , seizure, stiff neck, vomiting are other symptoms. So important to spread awareness ❤️

    • @RoisinColette
      @RoisinColette 5 лет назад

      Bethany F happy your little boy is okay now. That must have been so scary for both of you! X

  • @Amystephensxx
    @Amystephensxx 5 лет назад +23

    Andrea is just so happy, he’s adorable! Penicillin is such a common allergy, bless him!

  • @marinalopes3368
    @marinalopes3368 5 лет назад +60

    Poor little ginger 😔 glad he is doing better, he's a little sun! So so brighttt

  • @helenamondragon8817
    @helenamondragon8817 5 лет назад +87

    Oh poor sweet Andrea, I hope he’s all right! 💛

  • @lynnmcclaine7683
    @lynnmcclaine7683 5 лет назад +32

    Loved your recitation, Eduardo. So expressive. And Emilia's song - with backing vocals from Alessia - well done!

  • @etta1024
    @etta1024 5 лет назад +31

    Even sick and covered in rash, Andrea is the happiest baby!

  • @pennilynlotts5138
    @pennilynlotts5138 5 лет назад +14

    “Stop smiling for a second!” Lmaooo that kid is too dare cute!

  • @Mellovesdeep25
    @Mellovesdeep25 5 лет назад +11

    What a sweet boy, bless him. I hope he starts feeling better 🙏🏼

  • @sophiep2622
    @sophiep2622 5 лет назад +15

    Andrea is looking so much like Emilia now bless him. I love his beautiful red hair ❤️

  • @LafLaKiTa2010
    @LafLaKiTa2010 5 лет назад +41

    Aww poor Andrea but at least he's smiley

  • @justme-qj1mq
    @justme-qj1mq 5 лет назад +5

    *poor bubba!!* 😭😭 but look at his wonderful mood regardless!!! He's SUCH A BEAUTIFUL BOY!!! 😍😍

  • @sophiep2622
    @sophiep2622 5 лет назад +3

    I’m so glad you said that about influencers not giving out advice about things. Always ask a professional. Thank you for saying that I wish the other ones would realise this and see they could cause serious damage to someone.

  • @connieroberts9575
    @connieroberts9575 5 лет назад +20

    Emilia is going to have such a beautiful singing voice when she is older. And get well soon Andrea

  • @elsacain8146
    @elsacain8146 5 лет назад +5

    Well done for handling it so calmly, lots of people would have panicked and therefore their little ones would panic too. You stayed calm so Andrea was happy and relaxed throughout. Hope he’s feeling better soon xx

  • @tammydee9700
    @tammydee9700 5 лет назад +23

    Saw on Instagram yesterday! Poor guy...But he's such a happy baby like Emilia was.

  • @leahparkin3717
    @leahparkin3717 5 лет назад +205

    I'm highly allergic to penicillin it's very common xx

  • @fragilefleur
    @fragilefleur 5 лет назад +7

    Poor Andrea. He likely was smacking his ear bc it was hurting or itchy. Likely hurting. Good that you caught his allergy early and documented if. Eduardo did great with his poem and loved his magic trick. He seems to focus and be more chill and less frustrated. I think he loves personal attention a lot. Maybe middle kid syndrome of sorts. Normal. And GREAT job
    Emilia on your French counting song and the poem. Your kids school is obviously excellent. I hope Andrea is very much better by the time this gets to you. Poor little guy. At least he was tiny and smiling and not older and more able to express it and freaking out. You guys handled it like a pro too. Getting advice is a bit hard from someone in a profession also and yet to ask for it in a pinch or possible emergency is ok I think. My mom was a nurse and everyone always passed stuff by her. She usually took it in stride and wasn’t annoyed or put off at all. Glad you had a pro on hand and access to medical care quickly. Get well Andrea!! 💗

  • @daisy78mx
    @daisy78mx 5 лет назад +20

    Emilia voice is beautiful!!!!💕💕💕

  • @vikkic9013
    @vikkic9013 5 лет назад +9

    Andrea is such a smiler even when he clearly must be feeling rotten bless him

  • @ami.louise
    @ami.louise 5 лет назад +72

    When Andrea smiles he looks completely like (Baby) Emilia!

  • @sabbihabegum8656
    @sabbihabegum8656 5 лет назад +12

    Poor baby , I hope Andrea feeling better. X

  • @richapradhan9411
    @richapradhan9411 5 лет назад +19

    No matter what, Andrea is always a little sunshine! What a blessing 💜
    Hope all’s well!
    SacconeJolys all the way EVERYDAY!
    Dropping everything for the family 💕💕💕

  • @shannonwilde9906
    @shannonwilde9906 5 лет назад +11

    My brother, an adult now, is also allergic to penicillin (that family of meds). Scary stuff! Sending speedy healing and prayers your way. Goodness!

  • @Louptitcoeur
    @Louptitcoeur 5 лет назад +5

    I'm French and Emilia's counting in French was perfect!!! She's doing an amazing job

  • @Lauren-nc2uj
    @Lauren-nc2uj 5 лет назад +303

    Jonathan why don’t you do daily videos Monday to Friday and have the weekend off too spend time with the family?

    • @tabsxx4492
      @tabsxx4492 5 лет назад +5

      Lauren yessssssss🙌🏽❤️

    • @Socialyawkpenguin
      @Socialyawkpenguin 5 лет назад +3

      They did that for awhile. Ik they don’t post everyday now tho

    • @TCBK416
      @TCBK416 5 лет назад +10

      They used to at one point I think, and people complained

    • @Socialyawkpenguin
      @Socialyawkpenguin 5 лет назад +41

      Tyler Brenner somebody is gonna complain no matter what, tho.

    • @DevilWitch519
      @DevilWitch519 5 лет назад +10

      I miss the daily vlogs, n then they did it monday to friday weekends off n it was great. I don't like the way it is now, but they have a life to live n this must be easier for them. With 4 kids n 6 dogs n working on the new house. But the have the old school opening back which is nice so maybe they will go back to 5 days.

  • @AdrienneMcGuire
    @AdrienneMcGuire 5 лет назад +5

    Andrea certainly didn't act like he was in any discomfort! My youngest son also has a penicillin allergy and he had his first reaction around the same age as Andrea, but my son's hives were so much worse. It was very VERY scary and it took weeks for it to fully clear up. I'm glad Andrea's isn't too bad.

  • @lisas2802
    @lisas2802 5 лет назад +2

    He is THE most smiley, happy, jolly, gorgeous little chap 😍

  • @ada20101993
    @ada20101993 5 лет назад +9

    This same situation happend to me when I was 17! I had a high fever and I ended up passing out in public, taken to the hospital, given amoxicillin, two hours later I was swollen and covered in the same type of rash. I was already feeling horrible this made me miserable. I can't believe how happy Andrea is! He's an incredible little boy ❤️

  • @brendaspamperedkitchen9878
    @brendaspamperedkitchen9878 5 лет назад +33

    Second breakfasts?..that would make Alessia a Hobbit😄💕

  • @emiliaslayer
    @emiliaslayer 5 лет назад +3

    Prayers for a full recovery. Sweet little boy. 🥰

  • @Iqra30635
    @Iqra30635 5 лет назад +1

    Awww Andrea is always so happy even when he is ill aww bless him
    Bless you all xx

  • @meiraloraduncan8953
    @meiraloraduncan8953 5 лет назад +4

    Hopefully the rash goes away quickly and the new prescription works for him. Allergic reactions especially severe ones can be quite scary. And Jonathan you’re correct they can run in the family and you can also develop a new one at any time and point in your life. Sometimes when you have a reaction to penicillin you can also be allergic to it’s variations like Amoxicillin which is why the doctor had to put him in the registry to alert other doctors who might treat him. Plus they want to be careful about the class of medications they prescribe for him in the future.Your friend who is a doctor is very correct about saying a second reaction to anything is worse than the first one. I have ended up being rushed to the hospital many times due to new reactions and reactions to something that is related to the first medication or the same medication with a different name. Anaphylactic reactions are no joke and you have to react quickly to stop them which is why they prescribe an epi pen, inhaler and even a nebulizer with medication to open up your lungs in addition to allergy medication. Anna I couldn’t agree more about how many people think they’re experts because of whatever online thing they read. But on the other hand when a person has a condition or allergy to something they have to become knowledgeable about it and their health and the treatments that work and don’t work because doctors see hundreds of patients and may not remember everything about a patient that they don’t see often. So you have to create a team that works together to maintain your health and treatments. You are also correct that what works for one person doesn’t mean it will work for another and more people need to remember that before telling someone what to do. Hopefully Andrea doesn’t have more episodes like this one. It kills me how happy he is even when you know he has to be uncomfortable with the rash and everything. What a sweet heart.

  • @Jennierob1
    @Jennierob1 5 лет назад +2

    No matter how sad or down I'm or anyone is feeling you just need to see Andrea's smile and it warms your heart the best smile, Smiler Saccone-Joly 😘😊

  • @georgialolage
    @georgialolage 5 лет назад +12

    That’s so scary but at least you know now for future! He’s looks so happy to be out and about with mum and dad just him for once though ha 😆

  • @HayDot-bk8cm
    @HayDot-bk8cm 5 лет назад +50

    I think your doctor probably told you to look out for wheezing not wincing. Wincing is not a sign of anaphylaxis.

  • @up4itgal
    @up4itgal 5 лет назад +8

    Lots of love, for Andrea 😍😍

  • @erinlorelai1940
    @erinlorelai1940 5 лет назад +45

    Drunk and awake at 3am, yet on time for the vlog. Spectacular.

  • @susanplunkett5779
    @susanplunkett5779 5 лет назад

    Love the kid's doing thier play song. They are so well mannered. I'm sure like all kid's they have their moment's. But I think you can tell a overall happy child. Andrea, my goodness. I've never seen such a happy little fella. Allergic reactions are very serious. Glad he's getting medicine.

  • @margarethewish4502
    @margarethewish4502 5 лет назад +1

    He is so adorable and happy if I feel a bit down I just watch him and feel better💙💙💙💙

  • @elizabethhalliday8568
    @elizabethhalliday8568 5 лет назад +1

    Hope Andrea Feeling better soon. Brilliant viedo. Beauitful singing Amelia and alesia.

  • @janetreadgold5773
    @janetreadgold5773 5 лет назад +1

    You have the happiest baby EVER in Andrea, he is so gorgeous I adore him...... Please get better soon Baba ..... still smiling away even when poorly....... God bless & lots of love.........xxxxxx

  • @hayleyroffey9513
    @hayleyroffey9513 5 лет назад +34

    This happen to my son its scary very scary I didn't sleep right for over a week look at my son at night making sure he was breathing

    • @AdrienneMcGuire
      @AdrienneMcGuire 5 лет назад +7

      Me too! I went in with a flashlight throughout the night for fear of waking him b/c he was so miserable that sleep was difficult for him but I was so worried.

  • @maddiethomas9413
    @maddiethomas9413 5 лет назад

    Emilia has such a good little singing voice, I can see her being really good when she’s a bit older💖💖
    Can’t get over how smiley Andrea is even though he is poorly,so adorable💙😭

  • @pandareads
    @pandareads 4 года назад

    Poor little Andrea and he's such a fighter just smiling the whole time

  • @brunomeral7885
    @brunomeral7885 5 лет назад +20

    A wish for a proper recovery to his little health troubles to Andrea (aka Mister Smiles A Lot).
    A few thoughts.
    OK for the vlog every 2nd days, so you can keep time for re-vamping the friendliest friends channel this summer (lots of children = lots of adventures ;) ). An other idea, uploading the (vertical) IG stories on the Jonathan channel. They are "small daily vlog" and deserve to be kept longer than 24 hours!!! Maybe Anna can do the same to keep her channel alive, too?

    • @belbobelle603
      @belbobelle603 5 лет назад

      Bruno MERAL some fan accounts uploads their insta-stories ❤️

    • @brunomeral7885
      @brunomeral7885 5 лет назад

      @@belbobelle603 Thanks I didn't know that was possible (and, in facts, I didn't search for them at all, it was just an idea)

  • @sarahrose0413
    @sarahrose0413 5 лет назад +16

    Poor bubba..... my son had an anaphylaxis reaction to peanuts at 8 months old..... scary scary.... hope he gets better!!!

    • @khay_66m
      @khay_66m 5 лет назад +2

      My daughter carries her epi-pen she also has a severe allergy towards all types of nuts.
      Its scary for your child go through this!

  • @nilaheartin142
    @nilaheartin142 5 лет назад +5

    Poor Andrea 😢
    But he’s taking it like a champ! 🏆

  • @Diamandinae
    @Diamandinae 5 лет назад +1

    OH DEAR- I have this allergy, need something else, Andrea is so wonderfully good!! HOPE Andrea gets better!! You are all a joy!! Thanks!!

  • @Letitia-Smith
    @Letitia-Smith 5 лет назад

    Aw well done Emilia & Eduardo, get well soon Andrea. Sending my love and hugs to you all, so cute when Alessia was singing with Emilia.. Adorable.. wonderful family 💖❤️😃💕 xxx

  • @lifeonline6905
    @lifeonline6905 5 лет назад

    He is absolutely gorgeous baby boy! He is such a joy and you are such a wonderful mum!!

  • @megan-jayebarton117
    @megan-jayebarton117 5 лет назад

    He’s such a happy little chappy, poorly and smiling through it all! He always brightens my day with his smiles and laughter and happiness 🧡🧡

  • @annallison3646
    @annallison3646 5 лет назад +1

    Poor baby , but ohhh that smile 😊😊😊😊😊😊 thanks for sharing your songs and poems Amelia and Edwardo , beautifully performed.

  • @MissPerez2011
    @MissPerez2011 5 лет назад

    Good job on the performances Emilia and Eduardo. Glad Andrea is feeling better and lessie cute singing twinkle little star 💫

  • @namritamanoo2545
    @namritamanoo2545 4 года назад

    so nice to see the children them they are beautiful

  • @emilygrace2065
    @emilygrace2065 5 лет назад

    andrea s the cutes baby ive ever seen hes just so smiley and happy all of the time even when isnt feeling well.. i just love him. ps love all of you so much

  • @cali290501
    @cali290501 5 лет назад +4

    Avoid anything with cillin as it’s the same family amoxicillin, penicillin flucloxacillin etc. anything ending with mycen and starting cef will be fine as it’s a completely different family of antibiotics.

  • @Xk8rsx
    @Xk8rsx 5 лет назад +1

    Awww little Andrea 🥺🥺 sweet little boy, going through all this and that nasty rash and still smiling...God bless him. Hope he gets better

  • @didis2217
    @didis2217 5 лет назад +1

    Emilia has such a beautiful voice 😍💓

  • @jellybean97458
    @jellybean97458 5 лет назад

    Bless his heart ♡ hes such a happy lil guy ♡ love his sweet smile♡

  • @fofucha1980
    @fofucha1980 5 лет назад +18

    I'm allergic to Amoxilin and had the same of reaction of Andrea

  • @Houdini_2013
    @Houdini_2013 5 лет назад

    I'm itchy just watching this! What a trooper! I am allergic to penicillin and wear the bracelet. Having severe hives is unbearable, I certainly wasn't smiling when I had them, he's amazing. I had severe stomach cramps from penicillin when I was a child. So glad there are other options that work.

  • @loislyons3724
    @loislyons3724 5 лет назад

    Poor little fella! Keeping him in my prayers. He's so good natured, even when he's so poorly.

  • @mauuuddd
    @mauuuddd 5 лет назад +1

    Emilia counting in french and her pronunciation is really good! Ooh poor Andrea I hope you get well soon. I also can't help but see a mini version of Jonathan in Andrea.

  • @selesaretto9210
    @selesaretto9210 5 лет назад +9

    Guys get used to it hehe being a redhead myself I have had so many allergies and weird rashes/diseases because us redhead tend to get a weaker immune system! My mom actually said it was an eternal struggle since I was a child🤷🏼‍♀️
    Cheers from Costa Rica

  • @rosec.f.martinez4249
    @rosec.f.martinez4249 5 лет назад

    They are so beautiful and I love how much of great eaters the babies are not alot of kids eat as well. Andrea's ur such a beautiful happy baby boy I hate you being sick omg that's a really bad rash he smiles no matter how sick he is I love him so much.

  • @wowi93
    @wowi93 5 лет назад

    I love the way that Emilia is singing. I will like to see her acting.
    Your family is making me feel better and less stress when I am watching your video. Love you!

  • @juliafoster6172
    @juliafoster6172 5 лет назад

    Aww Eduardo’s little poem, and Emilia so lovely 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕juxxxxxxx

  • @zoek92
    @zoek92 5 лет назад +2

    Emilia's such a good singer! :O

  • @kimhuff8798
    @kimhuff8798 5 лет назад +3

    I wrote to you in yesterday’s vlog telling you that he may have a reaction to penicillin. Red heads ( per my dr) seem to have more allergies to medications .. I’m allergic to everything. I had a severe reaction to penicillin as a child. It put me in Children’s Hospital for almost 3 weeks..You may want to get him a necklace or bracelet that has his penicillin allergy on it when he starts daycare or preschool. Just so if you’re not there then everyone is aware. ❤️

  • @Rachel-uc7kc
    @Rachel-uc7kc 5 лет назад +2

    Andrea is happy 24/7 and seeing him so happy puts me in such a good mood I love it

  • @saadiapeerzada1348
    @saadiapeerzada1348 5 лет назад

    Emilia and Alessia singing together is the most adorable thing. Wishing Andrea great health for the future.

  • @sineadmc1990
    @sineadmc1990 5 лет назад +1

    Andrea is the happiest baby om earth😍 he is so like Emelia its mad! ❤

  • @loricanales5759
    @loricanales5759 5 лет назад +3

    I'm not even finished watching the video yet, but I remembered last summer when Anna got a weird heat rash on her belly. I wonder if that was related to Andrea's coloring/sensitivity?

  • @picketfence2028
    @picketfence2028 5 лет назад

    Andrea, such a precious baby smiling through the whole thing. Oh yes, he is your smiler. I'm an old pediatric nurse, it looks like a penicillin reaction to me. Scores of people over the years have asked my advice regarding their children, and the first thing I always say is see your doctor! Love the channe!l Love & like you all. I hope Andrea feels better soon. ;)

  • @flagal6053
    @flagal6053 5 лет назад +3

    Andrea sure loves the camera, he always puts on a show for us. He's been watching his brother and sisters perform and he's always full of smiles and giggles. I could tell the rash is bothering him while he's fidgety and rubbing his face, but he is a little trooper. Precious baby, get well soon.

  • @bernadetteb5277
    @bernadetteb5277 5 лет назад +1

    poor Andrea 😭 all the best to him 💙😘 but you guys are pretty cool - I would have freaked out if my little boy would have looked like this 🙈😭🤯

  • @CanadianMom1
    @CanadianMom1 5 лет назад

    What a sweet boy, bless him. I hope he starts feeling better

  • @Babette_
    @Babette_ 5 лет назад

    Oh no, poor Andrea. I'm allergic to penicillin too and I remember being 7 and having this reaction. Bruising and red spots everywhere. Hope he gets better soon, this heat must be terrible for him now. Lots of hugs and kisses from me! Wishing him a speedy recovery and a lovely weekend for the rest of the family.

  • @ashleysullivan7788
    @ashleysullivan7788 5 лет назад

    Eduardo is so stinkin cute!!! He did such a good job with his song!
    Emilia too!! She did such a great job! What a little star she is!!

  • @richapradhan9411
    @richapradhan9411 5 лет назад +4

    Was refreshing some old memories, and got the notif! 💜

  • @ber9313
    @ber9313 5 лет назад +2

    Prayers for that wonderful little boy. He's such a sweet baby.

  • @Valerie99653
    @Valerie99653 5 лет назад +2

    Sending lost of love to all of your family❤
    Absolutely love you guys😍

  • @kokogalletly5117
    @kokogalletly5117 5 лет назад +1

    Emilia is so good at singing 😍❤

  • @johannecowan3128
    @johannecowan3128 5 лет назад

    Be well sweet baby. Awesome job singing everyone.

  • @sophiebingham2808
    @sophiebingham2808 5 лет назад +1

    Poor little baby Andrea I hope he's better soon xx

  • @ahc7533
    @ahc7533 5 лет назад

    Amazing Andrea was fine wearing sleeveless top & short. I would be shivering in the grocery stores. Baba was still so happy even when he was not feeling well.🥰😘

  • @charlenep3224
    @charlenep3224 5 лет назад +2

    Emilia's french prononciation is really good 👌👌

  • @kathrynstewart800
    @kathrynstewart800 5 лет назад +3

    Haha! Mommy did a stinky!! Poor little Andrea; he just wants to be a sweet baby and didn’t sign up for all this rash stuff!

  • @Pariskodola
    @Pariskodola 5 лет назад +3

    I'm allergic to Penicillin, and I came out in a rash like Andrea did! Bless him 😥