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  • @Surya-23
    @Surya-23 3 года назад +83

    Aapne life ke sabse difficult lesson ko itne easy way me explain kr diya but khte hai na ki auro ke experience se sikhna sabse muskil kaam hota hai. So hum to yhi pray krte hai ki jyada se jyada log aapke is experience ko apna hi experience samjhe aur life ko pure throttle ke sath jiye. Thanks a lot for sharing your wonderful transformation journey Mam...🙏🙏🙏😊

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  3 года назад +9

      Thank you so much for your appreciation

  • @rahulsinghal3926
    @rahulsinghal3926 Год назад +186

    A quote I follow personally which fits here
    A satisfied life is better than successful life because your success is decided by society and your satisfaction is decided by your heart and soul

  • @surindergoel3208
    @surindergoel3208 Год назад +6

    Congratulations madam, you are very lucky that you realise that reality of life so early , which most of us never realised. it's a great service to mankind.

  • @sonaligurav4369
    @sonaligurav4369 Год назад +4

    अपने time पर अपना अधिकार चाहिये... बस यही बात मुझे motivate करती हैं

  • @RohitPatel-xc6bj
    @RohitPatel-xc6bj Год назад +4

    जिन्दगी की भागम-भाग में जब तलक ख़ुद से मुलाकात होती है, तब तक जीवन रेखा अंतिम कगार पर होती हैं।
    जीवन का उद्देश्य ही है आनंद,
    यही यथार्थ है,
    उत्साहवर्धन के लिए धन्यवाद।

  • @krishisandesh5483
    @krishisandesh5483 Год назад +1

    आप भाग्यशाली हैं आपने सबकुछ बाहर का जो पाया औऱ वो छोड़ दिया।और स्वयं की ओर अपनी यात्रा शुरू की।

  • @Wisdom738
    @Wisdom738 Год назад +60

    हम पैदा ही होते है अनंत की प्यास लेकर........जो सिर्फ अध्यात्म से पूरा हो सकता हे 🙏🙏

    • @dhyanmgyann
      @dhyanmgyann Год назад +4

      Yes sir, all have same purpose of life.... - just union with God... as we are one fragment ed part of that biggest energy..

    • @suhaill1890
      @suhaill1890 5 месяцев назад +1

      Sahi bola bhai ! Muje to Namaaz yani Salah se sukoon ya happiness milti hai... Duniya mai sab hi pareshan hai, matlab peace of mind nhi hai.

  • @arvindkurhadkar4599
    @arvindkurhadkar4599 Год назад +1

    ऐसी रिअलिटि पर् बोलने वालि पहलि बार देखा, महोदया, आपको सुनकर् काफी अच्छा लगा, पैसा आवश्यक है लेकिन पैसा सबकुछ नही है, सुख व् आनन्द् दोनो अलग है, इनकि परिभाषा अलग है, जीवन मे आनंद लेना है, तो आपके बतायें तीन बातो पर अमल करणा जरुरी है.

  • @veenanarwani761
    @veenanarwani761 Год назад +32

    Very true. I decided to voluntarily resign from my govt. teacher job after putting in one year in it. It dawned on me later that it was my right decision. I am happier, although I was compelled to resign for some reasons.I was a little depressed for some time. Now I feel that it was wise of me to resign from job.

  • @omparkashkhudia597
    @omparkashkhudia597 Год назад +2

    Really I appreciate you for helping people to get their happiness with 3 lessons.

  • @Akash_3120
    @Akash_3120 2 года назад +77

    First of all, Thank you so much Ma'am for posting this video... It must not have been easy to quit such a prestigious job. Society, friends, family members probably all of these may not support us in taking such decisions but still u took that decision... giving more priority to one's own happiness is really rare in this world where people are running madly after success.... learnt a very important lesson from you🙂

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  2 года назад +4

      Glad you liked the lesson I learnt during my service. You may check out more such content on my website bit.ly/3Hu5wp4 ... do checkout and support this channel with Subscribing, Like, share (if not done yet.) Thank you.

    • @purnachandrarout4794
      @purnachandrarout4794 Год назад

      P

  • @ANILkumar-vo9ko
    @ANILkumar-vo9ko Год назад

    👍👍👍👍👍 apke jaisa banne ke liye bahut daring chahiye mam....bahut acha laga ye dekhkar itna noble insaan bhi hain...thankx mam ,bahut adbhut vichar hain ..bahut bahut naman

  • @Sk.foodytongue
    @Sk.foodytongue Год назад +48

    जिनके पेट और खजाने भरे होते हैं वहीं खुशी खुशी चिल्लाते हैं वरना तो इंसान अपनी जरूरतें पूरी करते करते खर्च हो जाता है

    • @LuckySingh-ln9ox
      @LuckySingh-ln9ox Год назад

      Aisa nhi hai bhai bahut paisa ho lekin khush na ho to kya matlab

    • @rahulkaeducationadda
      @rahulkaeducationadda Год назад

      You are right

    • @rahulkaeducationadda
      @rahulkaeducationadda Год назад

      Sahi bat hai

    • @ayushSharma36847
      @ayushSharma36847 Год назад

      I think there should be a balance mere hisab se aap jo bol rahe ho wo bhi galat nahi hai aur jo ye mam bol Rahi hai wo bhi galat nahi jivan me ek balance hona chahiye

  • @Viraal-bollywood
    @Viraal-bollywood Год назад +6

    Now-a-days systems make us mechanical....higher post➡️ more pressure➡️more risk➡️more tension➡️more depression➡️more deattachment from famialy and social lyf

  • @HareKrishnahareRam_620
    @HareKrishnahareRam_620 Год назад +5

    You are absolutely right mam. I am also in this moment. I listen each word of this vedio peacefully and get my answer. Thank you so much mam 🙏

  • @vijendersingh3622
    @vijendersingh3622 Год назад +1

    Truly said reason for IAS, nowadays young person say I want to serve country, haaa

  • @dharyaaspirant
    @dharyaaspirant Год назад +4

    Moral of the story ... She became ias officer for car means royal sentry that's why her only motivation was becoming better and getting better for herself ..not even doing good for society if that would be her inspiration she would b doing great for social society

  • @farooqbhat9653
    @farooqbhat9653 Год назад +1

    U are really an extraordinary person u wil get full successes in every issue of life u live a freedom ful life

  • @the_pk
    @the_pk Год назад +5

    Do remember happiness is shortet lived. Think beyond. It's exploitation v competition v cooperation, and life is flowing.

  • @biggboss9780
    @biggboss9780 Год назад +2

    I really Love you ma'am. Lots of respect for you. Self satisfaction can never be attained by satisfying society and their demands. Self satisfaction is way beyond all these materialism. Hope our youth also understand this sooner

  • @tesseractworld973
    @tesseractworld973 Год назад +57

    Yesterday night i have resigned from my job due to same reason mam you told.I was never happy there, 24×7 work hour, full of ego managers. I also don't have any plan now but i am gonna do something which i like d most, never compare with others and find my own time to do task. Means full of happiness !!
    Thank you mam, for such a deep and life time video !!

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  Год назад +7

      Thank you for your appreciation . Be your own self and always know that you are unique

    • @factfilenews
      @factfilenews Год назад +1

      Be brave.You will reach your goals.

    • @Kumarsrinivasan3
      @Kumarsrinivasan3 Год назад +1

      Ias aur apki job mei bahot difference hota hai lmao

    • @mrinalbohra2806
      @mrinalbohra2806 Год назад

      u did great bro. cheets

    • @N7_YES
      @N7_YES Год назад

      Govt job thi kya?

  • @aasifiqbal3507
    @aasifiqbal3507 Год назад +2

    अच्छा किया मैडम नोकरी नोकरी होती हैं चाहे चपरासी हो या कलेक्टर की वैसे भी परिंदे नोकरी नहीं करते

  • @madhurkumarverma3609
    @madhurkumarverma3609 2 года назад +5

    Wow maam… Thank you so much… was confused regarding upsc … your video helped a lot…🌸✨

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  2 года назад

      Thank you. I am glad it helps you. Keep liking, keep sharing.

  • @pravinsannake1779
    @pravinsannake1779 Год назад

    आप really. Great ho...mam.. it is unbelievable decision in life never heard this type of decison before....Daredavil heart people can only do
    .

  • @jacksparrow2067
    @jacksparrow2067 Год назад +165

    नौकरी हम भी करते है । पर खुशी नहीं है । परिवार को पालना है इसीलिए नौकरी कर रहे है । गुलाम जैसा लगता है । बात बात पर निलंबन, वेतन कटना, वेतन रुकना आदि । ऊपर से अजीब से आदेश अलग से । डिजिटल के इस युग में व्हाट्स एप ही देखते रहो की कोई आदेश मिस न हो जाए ।

    • @ankursingh6272
      @ankursingh6272 Год назад

      Hmm

    • @mac000666
      @mac000666 Год назад +12

      Bhai ruleaga kya...

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 Год назад +7

      Bilkul theek baat.Main bhi in saare sangharshon se gujar kar sarkari naukri se retire hua.

    • @miscellaneousatoz9423
      @miscellaneousatoz9423 Год назад +14

      भैया एक हमलोग है जो सरकारी नौकरी पाने के लिए दिन रात मेहनत करते है 🙏🙏🙏🇮🇳🇮🇳

    • @jramkumarpatnaik2877
      @jramkumarpatnaik2877 Год назад

      ,,🥺🥺

  • @mahimnajoshi9146
    @mahimnajoshi9146 Год назад

    Respected Madam, your decision is right, I salute you

  • @dr.kishoreparth9106
    @dr.kishoreparth9106 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much ma’am for sharing it. You are inspiring Generations at stake.

  • @narendrabansal4529
    @narendrabansal4529 Год назад

    Anupama you are great and inspiration to the many who are still confused.

  • @YPMR286
    @YPMR286 Год назад +16

    KUDOS MAM and numerous thanks for taking us one step closer to what we are actually seeking rather than what is being forcefully imposed on each one of us, while chasing obnoxious dreams of sumptuous cars, house and fake status set by the society I individually think we have been oscillating away from being kind to plants and animals. We tend to forget that as human beings we have certain values, ethos and morals towards the other beings. While living and chasing our dreams we often imagine ourselves superior than the rest. We don't at times forget to acknowledge that this very food that we eat, house we live and even bicycle that takes us to places everything is made of this very earth, we don't own anything of our own. We deny the fact that Nature/Bhagwan has paid as much attention to create a microbe as he has paid to create we human beings. Everything that we humans think we have invented has already there in nature wehave just found it. My vocab isn't at all capable of the amount of blessing you are putting across to all of us ..mam your videos are truly benevolent and will transform many lives. may Bhagwan always keep you healthy and happy for being who you are.

  • @santusinghparihar8720
    @santusinghparihar8720 Год назад

    Really you are extra ordinary person

  • @Ishq_sufiyana_mera
    @Ishq_sufiyana_mera Год назад +28

    बाहर की दुनिया अलग है और भीतर की दुनिया अलग है हमें इन दोनों में संतुलन बनाना होता है।😌

  • @PsyMathRajinderSivian
    @PsyMathRajinderSivian Год назад

    Right decision mam, salute,.....

  • @vandanarawat9813
    @vandanarawat9813 Год назад +88

    I also resigned from my Govt. Job as PGT at school in 2015 n satisfied now with no earnings doing household chores....in 2012 while cleaning books Almira in my home I saw a book on Bhagwat Geeta by Vinoba Bhave ji ..my father used to read that book n other books by Swami Vivekanand ,Swami Dyanand n other spiritual books....my father was also an IAS officer in Haryana ...being inspired by such great books he was very honest....we were children at that time ...I always say to my father sh. VIJAY KUMAR honesty etc. Sab kitabi baatein h ..we should be practical but after reading Geeta I started admiring my late father not because he is my father but he gave me such a priceless gift Geeta ..but never got the chance to thank him as he died of cancer 15 years ago....my point is that we should have Geeta , Upnishadas etc.in our homes as after reading these books life looks just like play n we really feel light ,peaceful after reading such books

    • @VK-yl5ge
      @VK-yl5ge Год назад +3

      Super madam .. I hope u got good husband

    • @NEHAVERMA-eh4cy
      @NEHAVERMA-eh4cy Год назад +2

      Ma'am it means that you could've changed lives of little kids and earn.. And from that money you could've changed more lives.. Instead you chose to throw away the concept of KARMA from BhagwatGita and embrace laziness.

    • @Wisdom738
      @Wisdom738 Год назад +1

      These are the only things which can fullfill us

    • @be_Practical888
      @be_Practical888 Год назад

      and now m preparing for PGT exam in Haryana

    • @jaysavitrimaai4463
      @jaysavitrimaai4463 Год назад

      Don't you read any creative scientific books , instead of these useless stuff... bcoz all the adventures of inventions bulb , electricity ,fan etc that we r using in our home... they r all foreign inventions , bcoz foreign people don't waste time in this useless and futile stuff

  • @vlogpoetryrs398
    @vlogpoetryrs398 Год назад +2

    😄 soldiers laughing in "siyachin" for you mam !!

  • @sunilkumar-vj3wv
    @sunilkumar-vj3wv 3 года назад +7

    You are really great as like God. Yesterday I have seen your first video after that continue watching and listening your voice. Your every word is inspiring me. Please always make video on how to crack civil service in above 30 age. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @santanubarbara5512
    @santanubarbara5512 Год назад

    May GOD Bless You for Your Divine Wishes, Respected M'am.

  • @AnitaTutorialClasses
    @AnitaTutorialClasses Год назад +5

    Ye society aisi kyun hai ki jo dusre log kr rhe hai wo hme bhi krna chahiye i wanna be a physics professor and i will be too much happy for that but it takes time...and everyone wants too fast ..

    • @creativeaarts4023
      @creativeaarts4023 Год назад

      Haha after becoming professor after sometime u will also quit job and search for happiness

  • @radeonblue1816
    @radeonblue1816 Год назад

    If all people of the world think like you then world will become a beautiful place and people would follow their own passion.

  • @intkhabahmad453
    @intkhabahmad453 Год назад +18

    I had resigned from HPCL a decade ago for similar reasons.... Though I got another equivalent PSU job after some wait.... But i still feel that HPCL was not bad.

  • @gnb2026
    @gnb2026 Год назад +1

    Life is to have peace & Peace is in simple thinking & simple living.

  • @sadhariyavishal
    @sadhariyavishal Год назад +3

    Very helpful video mam. True meaning of happiness where other people are running behind those things which doesn't make them happy.

  • @gdsharma4699
    @gdsharma4699 Год назад

    Gr8! Ma'am! I am 100% in word to word agreement. Salute for your courageous decision 👍

  • @Behappytruthfully
    @Behappytruthfully Год назад +60

    You have clarity. We all are seekers. We all are experimenting with life. Everybody has own journey.
    I too qualified for Civil Services but did not feel to complete it and join. I was to search truth and happiness. I found truth and happiness in Vipassana meditation!!!❤
    Be happy!

    • @Behappytruthfully
      @Behappytruthfully Год назад

      Thank you all for liking my comment. I have talks on you tube, you may listen and if benefits you my subscribe. Be happy!
      youtube.com/@Behappytruthfully

    • @nehakishore8442
      @nehakishore8442 Год назад +1

      Gr8

    • @preetidhingra6247
      @preetidhingra6247 Год назад +1

      From where can I do vipasana

    • @vinodburhade5093
      @vinodburhade5093 Год назад +5

      शायद हर ईंटलेक्चुअल, ऊच्च और गहन विचार वाले व्यक्ती के साथ ऐसा होता है. वे हर रोजमर्रा के व्यावहारिक कामों से जल्दी उकता जाते है और धीरे धीरे जीवन के परम ऊद्द्येश्य/सच्ची खुशी वाले प्रश्न पर आ पंहुंचते है. उसे ढुंढने/प्राप्त करने की ओर आगे बढते है..!
      ये बात शायद सर्वसामान्य व्यक्तीयों की विचारशक्ती/आकलन शक्ती से बाहर होती है और वे रोजमर्रा के कामकाजों में व्यस्त होकर खुश होते है..!

    • @pareshkumar9019
      @pareshkumar9019 Год назад

      Really great ma'am...we salute your decision...

  • @pc4646
    @pc4646 Год назад +2

    Pr jink pas jimmedariya hai wo kaise kr payege khus ho ya n ho

  • @whitehat1659
    @whitehat1659 Год назад +11

    ये मेरे साथ हो रहा है। मैंने कितनी ही नौकरियां बदल दी है लेकिन अंदर से खुशी नही मिल रही है। जिंदगी बेरंग हो गयी है।

  • @ankitkhatri8013
    @ankitkhatri8013 Год назад

    Tumhari personality bahut badhiya he, I think you were destined to be successful!

  • @iamSandeeplahre
    @iamSandeeplahre 2 года назад +11

    Mam subscribed your channel...gain lot of clarity..
    Have been confused between my career
    Professor or Civil servant (going because of perks)
    Thank u so much mam..for giving me this clarity about happiness. ✨

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  2 года назад +5

      If you are interested in IAS then you can read the following article, it also gives you a clear picture of how to start with IAS journey. Do let me know your feedback regarding the given article. Thank you. anupmachandra.com/how-to-become-ias/

    • @iamSandeeplahre
      @iamSandeeplahre 2 года назад +2

      @@AnupmaChandra no mam I always loved teaching...completed my masters ...preaparing for NET ...Thank u mam ..so glad that I found your channel...

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  2 года назад +2

      That's great. All the best.

    • @studyraj6195
      @studyraj6195 2 года назад +2

      @@iamSandeeplahre I also bro
      I was found it by giving it rating
      IAS VS PROFESSOR
      PROFESSOR 💖

    • @user-lg8ob3lx7o
      @user-lg8ob3lx7o Год назад +1

      Same here....

  • @sundeutsch
    @sundeutsch Год назад +1

    सबसे छोटे ओहदे वाला इंसान सबसे ज्यादा आजाद होता है। हर ओहदेदार इंसान खुद से बड़े ओहदे का गुलाम होता है।

  • @dharmendra629
    @dharmendra629 Год назад +3

    Happiness is the ultimate goal of Life.

  • @sadakatali1870
    @sadakatali1870 Год назад

    What a better thoughts.

  • @ME-tc7fk
    @ME-tc7fk 2 года назад +3

    Luv u mam ❣️❣️ this video made me stress free

  • @singhmusafir8958
    @singhmusafir8958 Год назад

    Your thinking is greatful. Rear Persons are think that power,money can’t give us permanent happiness.

  • @akshaygoel7173
    @akshaygoel7173 Год назад +3

    Great u have courage to take tough decision 👌👌👌👌

  • @DeepakSharma-sp8cr
    @DeepakSharma-sp8cr Год назад

    Failure who refused to fight back.. guys-- you have your life... y life it through others????? Live your life

  • @vennmathshub
    @vennmathshub Год назад +22

    those who understand osho and krishnamurthy can live a really happy and peaceful life ..

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 Год назад +2

      Yes

    • @suhaill1890
      @suhaill1890 5 месяцев назад

      I advise you to Once try performing Salah , it's upto u but trying once is so easy. When the head touches the ground, I can't explain the peace 😇

  • @D28f
    @D28f Год назад

    Thankyou di ...itna acha lesson diya apne, aj kal ke life me kisi ko time nahi dusro ke liye 🙏

  • @youthwave
    @youthwave Год назад +4

    स्वतंत्रता तभी मिलती है जब सोच में बुलंदी होती है और आपने बखूबी अपनी सोच और अपने खुलेपन को जिंदा रखा है और जिंदगी को सही मायनों में जी रही हैं

  • @stylemax3252
    @stylemax3252 Год назад

    Thanks mam....acha laga aapko sunkar

  • @abhishekshah3834
    @abhishekshah3834 Год назад +7

    Is logic se 98% logo ko pure din beth ke reels dekhni hai entertainment lena hai.. 😂😂😂
    Aap paisa wali hogi bichare middle class walo ko behekao mat madam.

  • @Sonalispeaks
    @Sonalispeaks Год назад

    Thank you so much ma'am for such a beautiful video ... Mujhe mere kuch sawalon ka jawab mila ..aur kuchh baki hai ... Govt. Me Hun ,state service(specialised) me Hun ,phir bhi khush nehin Hun ... Bahot kuch man me chalta rehta hai... Patience kam ho raha hai ,stress ke wajah se... Family life ke liye jo emotions jaruri hota hai wo kahin kho diya mene ...kav apna man ka kuch kar nehin payi ,always compelled to fit into a standard ...aab thak gayi Hun me .😑

  • @krishnashivhare1192
    @krishnashivhare1192 2 года назад +13

    स्वाभिमान और आत्म निर्णय लेना
    जिंदगी की सबसे बडी खुशी है जो आपने निर्णय लिया सबसे बडी उपलब्धि है ।

  • @ekaamadmi4286
    @ekaamadmi4286 Год назад

    Thanks aap ny merey dil ki bato ka ek dum sahi jewab dy diya jin sewalo mai kai dino sy ulja tha💐💐💐👍🏻

  • @ankitsharma889
    @ankitsharma889 Год назад +3

    Happiness is inherent..

  • @mahendradubey6337
    @mahendradubey6337 Год назад

    आपने जो parrot color ki maxi / gown pahna hua h usne meri college life ki yaad dila di, ek bar meri friend ne bhi aisa hi maxi / gown pahna tha,

  • @chillmonix8301
    @chillmonix8301 Год назад +8

    When r mature, u thought that the true meaning of is happiness
    But when u become mature enough than u realise to go the excellance or higher limits is the real meaning of life .

  • @AmarjitSingh-xq2yu
    @AmarjitSingh-xq2yu Год назад

    I became v impressed by ur message that how u left ur prestigious & reputed job.while in starting of ur talk I was thinking there must be touch of Osho in ur life & I was right when u qote Osho. God exists in danger, risk & insecurity says Osho. I'm listening, reading, enjoying & meditating with journey with Osho. With same time I deeply appreciate ur courage & taking risk of financial insecurity. Deep down u might have tasted the devine silence, bliss & egolessness. After many years I listened true ethantic talk on RUclips which will help so many for inner growth. I must share one thing that knowing about bliss & becoming bliss r 2 different aspects. From ur face, & appearance it looks u became bliss & that is why ur words r magical & magnetic. Thanx for sharing ur experience.

  • @easylearning9578
    @easylearning9578 Год назад +11

    Happiness is ultimate aim of life..whatever we are doing for that happiness.. Money and power never give happiness they only give arrogance and ego..yes it's indeed need of money in life for livelihood but no one buy happiness from that money..

  • @JaiHind-us8qp
    @JaiHind-us8qp Год назад

    Very good Mam, thanku

  • @nileshkohli742
    @nileshkohli742 Год назад +19

    Only courageous people can make such decisions🙂

  • @0OO369BfF-_0O
    @0OO369BfF-_0O Год назад

    Sabhi tarah ki khoj ek chalawa hai, antarik khoj ya safar bhi. Daudane se kabhi kuch nahi milta , bas ruk jao, ek jagah thahar jao, ruk jao. Bas .....☺️☺️☺️

  • @ultimatemotivation1723
    @ultimatemotivation1723 Год назад +16

    Human nature is like comparing ownself with other which often leads to depression, stress and unhappiness with life..... But the ultimate key to happiness is self satisfaction with the environment where we live,with what we do....!

    • @Duniya_Mderchod_Hei
      @Duniya_Mderchod_Hei Год назад

      Yes...but my nature is very straightforward i don't compare with others n i don't feel any regret after doing something...

  • @kumarrishav7399
    @kumarrishav7399 Год назад

    Thank you Anupama Madam. I exactly needed to listen to this talk

  • @FaizanKhan-nr1mi
    @FaizanKhan-nr1mi Год назад +53

    Saaari luxuries bhogne ke baad to mann bhar hii jaayega ....insaan ek jagah tikk nhi sakta ..... madhya maarg apnaaiye wahi behtar ...😊

    • @ashhutg19
      @ashhutg19 Год назад +1

      Bro this is not for whom who doesn't have luxury, this is for someone who want peace - can be a guy who has luxury or not. So if u want peace this for u, doesn't matter u have luxury or not

    • @FaizanKhan-nr1mi
      @FaizanKhan-nr1mi Год назад +1

      @@ashhutg19 jiske pass luxury hai uske paas peace nhi ..or jiske paas peace hai uske paas luxury nhi ..to jab ek mil jaata hai to log dusre ke peeche bhaagne lgte hain ..haallaki dono kaa vilay hona asambhaw hai.. isiliye middle path is the best way to live your life ...

    • @FaizanKhan-nr1mi
      @FaizanKhan-nr1mi Год назад

      Agar aap apne kaam ko pura krne ke baad jivan ki jo pasandida chiz hai wo krle to aapko kabhi peace ki jaroorat nhi pdegi ....q ki agar ekdam extreme peace me Jana chaahega to ek din rest in peace hi ho jayaga ..

    • @auroraabagel6168
      @auroraabagel6168 Год назад

      To OP- Apne kaha ki "Saaari luxuries bhogne ke baad toh Mann bhar hii jaayega", !!!!
      Toh mera sawal hain ki kitne logo ko aapne luxuries chorte huwe dekha hain?! Kitne ias job chore hain ya kitne kharabpati ya celebrity ne woh chamak dhamak ki life chori hain ???!!! Log budhe ho jate hain firbi luxuries or moh se unka mann nai bharta. Toh statement sahi diya karo pehle to.

    • @sacchaaashiq1923
      @sacchaaashiq1923 Год назад

      Bhai yeh mam neh toh upsc crack kiya h ,modi jaison neh toh sirf chutiya banakar raja jaisi zindagi jeeta h adani ko desh bechkar ,kabhi unkey barrey mein bol key dikha kuch .

  • @LasyaChalkASMR
    @LasyaChalkASMR Год назад

    Wow . Impressive. Such a bold decision. It made me think something

  • @ararara4166
    @ararara4166 Год назад +10

    Mam very good morning. Very inspiring and motivating words of yours. Actually I flied with a parachute in search of happiness but after taking VRS I forgot about the parachute and devoted maximum time in search of happiness. Meanwhile my parachute got deactivated. For a certain period of time I had started comparing myself with my close friends who were not as competent and successful as I was but after retirement I observed those friends started going away from me and tried to make me realize that I am nothing in front of them. But I agree with the 3 things rather very very important things to be kept in mind in order to be happy. 99 percent of my colleagues were shocked about my taking vrs and advised not to even think of it but I was so excited about my own freedom which is a key to happiness that I didn't even bother a little. This comparison part made me a little confused and restlessness for a certain period of time and thought that a close and good friend is very important and an essential part of one's happiness but as I started realizing that those who I thought to be one started going away and I was left alone and again started my own journey of my own. And to my surprise walking alone with your own self is so encouraging and satisfying that it is the real experience. Literally I cried . But later when I realized that walking alone and becoming stronger than them has only been possible because of their parting from me. I made calls and thanked them for that.
    Listening to your words gave me the enthusiasm to put my experience on paper.
    Now listening to your story I spoke to my self that walking along in search of happiness is not a wrong decision after taking VRS. Thank you.

  • @AshishKumar-oh5db
    @AshishKumar-oh5db Год назад

    Apko dhanyvaad 🙏🙏🙏

  • @gyangarden
    @gyangarden Год назад +5

    Vague advice. Not impressed.

  • @drrameshkmadaan
    @drrameshkmadaan Год назад

    Jai Hind!Almighty bless 🙏 Health, Happiness and bright Future to ALL 🎉🇮🇳🌎🇮🇳🎉

  • @rashi4563
    @rashi4563 Год назад +12

    U have money backup so you left ur job...but a middle class man has many responsibilities on his shoulders so he can never imagine to resign his job ....at last money is important.....hm kbhi apni khusiyo k bare m nhi soch skte ...hamare upr family ki jimmedari h madam.....

    • @ariyana4461
      @ariyana4461 Год назад

      Aapka jo situation hai uske according aaao bilkul sahi bol rhe hai
      Lekin aap itni zimmedari paiso ki insecurity future fear se itna dar ghr hai ye madam jo bol rhi aapko ek unrealistic baat lg rhi hai
      Koi baat nhi aap apna waqt le lijiye is aur kosis krte rahiye ,kuch nhi hua to jo chal rha wo to chalta hi rhega

    • @rocksoft1236
      @rocksoft1236 Год назад

      Ap sahi bol rahe ho...logo ka janma ek specific reason se hota hai...aur uss reason ko fulfill karna hota...karm bhi ek tarah ka dharm hai...shri Krishna ne Arjun ko Yudh bhumi par kaha tha ki jo insaan dharm ka palan karega mujhe prapt karega...tab Arjun ne pucha kya Yudh Adharm nahi hai? Tab shri Krishna ne kaha bhakti se, tapsya se , jap se mujh tak pahuch sakte ho par sabse jaldi mujh tak pahuchne ka rasta Karm ka palan hai...su-karm se mujhe jaldi paoge....Arjun ka karm tha un Adharmi ke kilaf yudh karna jisse woh shri Krishna ko paa lenge...waise hi hum kuch karm ko purn karne ke liye iss dharti pe aur hai...apka karm hai responsibility ko lena aur Seva bhav se apna karm palan karna...isse bhagwan apse khush hounge aur apke karmic karz khatam ho jayenge....sahi raste pe rahiye apne karm ka palan kijiye ap usse bhi bhagwan ko payenge phir apke mann mein ye dubhidha nahi rahegi ki karm karein ya bhakti kiyuki KARM hi PARAM bhakti hai aur mann ko santusti Dene wali hai....ham dukhi tab hotei hai jab dharm ka palan na karein aur external factors se vichalit ho jaye....Krishna ji ka advice par dhyan dein...apko rasta mil jayega...aur ye bhi samjh ayega ki Sansaar mein sab manushya ka karm path alag alag hai par pahuchna ek Jajah hi hai

  • @realclasses3186
    @realclasses3186 Год назад

    Thanku mam these are life changing principles. 💕💕💕💕

  • @ankurgupta4785
    @ankurgupta4785 Год назад +9

    Very nice...Quick Q Mam- How did you survive without financials mam specislly in the case we dont even have means to survive without money/job..thanks

  • @ashishpradhan5980
    @ashishpradhan5980 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much ma'am for this nice video.

  • @reshmasingh423
    @reshmasingh423 Год назад +5

    Ma'am this is the question that was bothering me day and night , I was trying to arrange all my parachutes and make them in order to make things fall in place. " Lots of counter questions inside my brain , what if this not , what if that not ... I got all my ans . Thanku very much . God bless u ma'am !

  • @Anjikaayadav
    @Anjikaayadav 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanku mam for the motivation...

  • @somachakrabarty1634
    @somachakrabarty1634 Год назад +6

    I appreciate your courage. I have been working for the past 23 years. I have everything in terms of material wealth but no FREEDOM and no TIME. At times I wonder is this life? I have been planning to quit but not being able to as I have always been financially independent. Now my son is working but then I worry about my daughter and have been working for her. In case I run short of money for her education and marriage.
    Very difficult decision Ma'am.

  • @बप्पारावल-ग6त

    किसी का भला करके भी खुशी मिल सकती है।

  • @loveujindgi2475
    @loveujindgi2475 2 года назад +3

    Thanx

  • @jobsinvestment6236
    @jobsinvestment6236 Год назад +2

    Love you maam, your every word touched my heart. I wish one day i will also do what I actually love.

  • @shivaniderwal9780
    @shivaniderwal9780 Год назад +25

    संतुष्टि जीवन का सबसे बड़ा खजाना है। यही सभी प्रकार की खुशी और शांति का स्त्रोत है। जो व्यक्ति जीवन में संतुष्ट है, वह सर्वशक्तिमान है। संपूर्ण संसार उसके सामने तुच्छ और गौण है।

    • @Factopedia12e
      @Factopedia12e Год назад

      I, m exactly in same situation, feeling got stucked, don, t know what I want to do, exactly not in condition to quit my job as gynaecologist at district hospital, andas well as not feeling happy and satisfied to continue my job at govt senario. For doing private practice there are many questions as my temperament ,straightforward nature and personality is not fit for pp, i think so... So please guide me

    • @Learningtofly1974
      @Learningtofly1974 Год назад

      @@Factopedia12e leave it just now.....life is all open for you.....medicine stucks u.....I am 48 and will leave it at 52

    • @masoodahmad1022
      @masoodahmad1022 Год назад

      Right .santosam param sukham.

    • @DeepakGupta-rt5pv
      @DeepakGupta-rt5pv Год назад

      I am totally satisfied now and i got that position after miracle that happened one day. Now I am completely detached from material things, no comparison with any one, all time happy. If you want that mental strength in your life you have to love God, nature, animal and all human beings. This journey is very tough to become budh but i got that after 5 years of struggle with my mind, by chanting mantra, by calling God with tears in my eyes. Suffering, unsatisfied situation is all about feeling. When you detach your feelings with mind, you will become drishta. Now you can see suffering, hear suffering but you will not feel anything. In our body two things are there one is ego and another one is soul. When your body rest in ego. You will become unsatisfied all the time always comparing with other, greed, anger, money, power. But when your body completely establish in your soul you will become budh free from compare, greed, anger. Your mind will become completely peacefull all the time. You will have great love for God, animal, plants, human beings and complete nature.

  • @parashnath3583
    @parashnath3583 Год назад

    Hats off to you. I am also doing same. After listening ur story, I was feeling it's my story.

  • @m.d.ghodake5029
    @m.d.ghodake5029 3 года назад +6

    Madam don't you think society is in need of talent like you but resigning mean neglecting your social accountability so far your inborn genius is concern. Whom do you expect well beingness of society ? Society is going to be face deficiency of such talent in its process of well-beingness.

    • @complexysr
      @complexysr Год назад

      Happy individuals create well-being, NOT vice-versa.

  • @dharmendrapratapchaudhari8242
    @dharmendrapratapchaudhari8242 Год назад

    You are really brave mam

  • @ajayprajapat9329
    @ajayprajapat9329 Год назад +7

    वास्तव में जिसने जीवन में संतोष करना सीख लिया उसने जीवन जीना सीख लिया। धन्यवाद मैडम

  • @santoshkumari3838
    @santoshkumari3838 Год назад

    Good mam very inspiring
    Your decision and thinking can be understood by concious soul only

  • @susmitakumari1620
    @susmitakumari1620 3 года назад +7

    Mai aap neet ke liye kuchh video bnaiye plzz mam❤️🤗🥰

    • @mettleUnbeaten
      @mettleUnbeaten 2 года назад

      Here it is, please watch it for approx 21 days. ruclips.net/video/dHm3aaaCt_M/видео.html

    • @ramatiwari6424
      @ramatiwari6424 Год назад

      @@mettleUnbeaten.inner and outer satisfaction is must for any body in lifetime of successful journey

  • @sayantanchatterjee6644
    @sayantanchatterjee6644 Год назад +1

    I can still say that leaving a job like *IAS* us not worthy

  • @vishakhakamble912
    @vishakhakamble912 Год назад +6

    spiritualty is the answer to live life with the flow

  • @shrikantjavkhedkar5512
    @shrikantjavkhedkar5512 Год назад

    Everyone is not so free to do what he want and achieve happiness. You hve yr responsibility for which u need money.Its not necessary for everyone that u will get money also with happiness. So u need to choose the way which is give u money to complete yr responsibilities.coz the final aim yr life is not only yr happiness but to complete yr responsibility also. In that case u can only take such decisions to find out yr happiness only u are financially strong to fulfill yr responsibility also.Otherwise u need to give priority to yr responsibility first which may take yr entire life.

  • @sunilkumar-vj3wv
    @sunilkumar-vj3wv 3 года назад +9

    I am a teacher in bihar government.I got always average 52% in matric, inter, BA. I am preparing for civil service but now a days selecting 95% IITian in civil service, I am hopeless that how will I achieve my goal. I'm very poor student. Please give me suggestions. 🙏🙏

    • @AnupmaChandra
      @AnupmaChandra  3 года назад +4

      Be consistent in your preparation and you can do it

    • @shekharchoudhary4792
      @shekharchoudhary4792 Год назад +3

      Work harder than IITians ...you will achieve the goal .
      IITians are habitual of working hard , there is no bias in UPSC recruitment process.
      The only way is from with in .
      God bless you 🙏

    • @Rahul-yi3wj
      @Rahul-yi3wj Год назад

      @@shekharchoudhary4792 CSAT paper-2 in prelims is biased towards IIT engineers

  • @surajbhadange806
    @surajbhadange806 Год назад +1

    No one want to do work.. Everyone wants freedom and enjoyment in life but one thing we should have to remember that Money is also important... I know happiness and money is two different things.. But you can't be happy with empty pockets.. After 30 you will be the Head of your family, your family totally depends on you.. Leaving such a prestigious service needs a lot of courage.. Hat's off to you..
    My uncle was in BARC he resigned from the organisation because at that time he was not feeling good in city like Mumbai.. Now his friends taking 40k per month pension.. And my uncle is doing labour work.. He still regrets that decision.. Everyone life is different so think twice before leaving your job..
    you need to earn to support your family.. Think what you will do after leaving your job (Remember competition is very high in every field) happiness is necessary in life but money is equally important you need to balance both