The Decision That Changed My Life Forever

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  • @hilarybreedon3429
    @hilarybreedon3429 4 года назад +157

    Don't feel bad for taking the other patient's surgery time. You were a priority because you were in critical condition and he was probably more stable.

  • @jimbo2325
    @jimbo2325 4 года назад +188

    So sad. I am 52 and think of all the dumb things we did in our mid to late teens. Somehow my friends and I survived without any life long altering ill effects.
    God bless us all.

    • @perfectlyhonest4139
      @perfectlyhonest4139 4 года назад +6

      JimBo Yes except she wasn’t a teen when she did this .
      Diving is something we do without thinking.
      People usually turn out fine and don’t think this will happen this them.

    • @scrumps101
      @scrumps101 4 года назад +5

      Amen. I”m 49 and I can’t count how many stupid things we all did that could have resulted in some sort of trauma. I’m so grateful that we all came out physically unscathed for the most part. I grew up in So. California and the amount of times we drank and went surfing alone it’s almost a miracle that nothing ever happened. We stupidly had that young invincibility fog that clouded our still growing brains. Now that I’m older I’m not nearly that adventurous or stupid. Now a dive or jump into a body of water however is seemingly pretty tame and harmless one would think. Seeing this young, intelligent woman so injured from just that is a strong reminder to the contrary.

    • @denisepaulsenful
      @denisepaulsenful 4 года назад +2

      @@scrumps101 Agreed. I suffered a spinal chord injury back in 2011. My situation was different. i simply fainted. That aside, most of the inhabitants of the rehab centre - where i was for 4 months post injury - they were predominantly young men between the ages of 18 to 25-yrs of age.

    • @scrumps101
      @scrumps101 4 года назад +1

      Denise Paulsen I’m really sorry to hear that you suffered such an injury. My heart goes out to you. Now that I’m older and wiser than my stupid teen years it’s situations like yours that cross my mind. Sometimes things are so beyond our control. It’s crazy the amount of fluke things that can happen just by living our daily lives. We put ourselves in harms way so often at younger ages and it makes me wonder how so many people make it passed 25 nearly completely unscathed. I hope you are doing well and have had success in your recovery.

    • @jimbo2325
      @jimbo2325 4 года назад

      @Carson Lowe Amen

  • @viorp5267
    @viorp5267 4 года назад +243

    4:53 ... that is done to check your mental state. Checking if someone can remember their name and address is done to see if they injured their brain. Sometimes they might also ask simple math questions.

    • @charlaneachelsee3476
      @charlaneachelsee3476 4 года назад +66

      Viorp she was soo snarky and rude I cant.

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 года назад +55

      Ikr that’s common sense haha “stop asking me questions”
      It’s their JOB to make sure her fucking head is okay. Idk why she was rude about it 🙄

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 года назад +19

      She liked a comment about her eyes being complimented but didn’t like this comment 😂 probably feels stupid

    • @viorp5267
      @viorp5267 4 года назад +2

      @@underthestarsoverthemoon4259 Or didn't see it

    • @Kk-kv1rw
      @Kk-kv1rw 4 года назад +42

      Y’all are being wayy too harsh, she just got paralyzed and could barely breathe obviously she’s not gonna be super happy about being asked seemingly unimportant questions while she’s basically on her deathbed. Y’all complain about her being rude retelling HER story y’all the type of bitches to scream at your barista for not giving you fat free milk smh

  • @tinacollins9213
    @tinacollins9213 4 года назад +91

    I was 24 when I broke my spine life has been hard but you do cope ,be strong love 💕

    • @abhitaratanjee4381
      @abhitaratanjee4381 4 года назад +2

      My niece is now paralyzed at 24. It's just been a few months. I have been finding it so hard to deal with this. Esp to see my niece like this..can you help me

    • @Danybella
      @Danybella Год назад

      @@abhitaratanjee4381 Alwyn Uys

  • @daviddo2783
    @daviddo2783 3 года назад +8

    It’s a tough process and lots to handle but I’m glad you’re doing well! I’m a C7 incomplete. Was paralyzed from the chest down but 8 months into my recovery I’m walking with a cane and progressing. I can only thank God everyday! God bless!

  • @RubyOpheliaQuinn
    @RubyOpheliaQuinn 4 года назад +416

    I wish people were aware of how dangerous jumping into water can be.

    • @sarahh367
      @sarahh367 4 года назад +9

      U can become paralyzed driving home ..so , having fun is just that ..

    • @RubyOpheliaQuinn
      @RubyOpheliaQuinn 4 года назад +78

      @@sarahh367 Except when you're jumping from a height into water you have no idea what's underneath, you don't know how deep the water is and if you land wrong you can end up paralysed or dead. It's not like driving a car, it's like driving a car with a blindfold on.

    • @jimbutler1189
      @jimbutler1189 4 года назад +3

      Mimi Everyone’s entitled to their opinion...
      no matter how petty and how many shards of glass fill their asshole.

    • @viorp5267
      @viorp5267 4 года назад +1

      @Mimi Honestly you ain't wrong...

    • @johngray9434
      @johngray9434 4 года назад +12

      RubyOpheliaQuinn
      Yip. Jumping off a bridge = death. Difficult to understand why anyone would risk their life for a moment of complete madness

  • @amcgoo1135
    @amcgoo1135 3 года назад +7

    I was 20 when I became a T12 paraplegic and I had the absolute #1 traveling surgeon in the US put me back together, I got lucky to have such luck in that situation.

  • @detroitfettyghost8492
    @detroitfettyghost8492 4 года назад +36

    OMG. I jumped off a similar bridge so many times, I didn't realize this could been me! You are so tough and courageous- bless you

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +7

      Thanks for watching. Right! I didn't think beyond that moment either.

    • @adrieanajosephine6938
      @adrieanajosephine6938 4 года назад +4

      Yea sometimes hitting the water wrong that happens not only that but from certain heights hitting water is like hitting concrete

  • @apexpredator5428
    @apexpredator5428 4 года назад +65

    My spine was shattered August 8, 2004. I still haven’t brought myself to talk about it although I think about it every day. I suffered so much loss. I have recently started watching and subbing to channels such as yours. Watching you tell your story kind of makes me feel like I could share mine with somebody. My story is pretty radical like yours and people say I’m so lucky to be alive but on the inside I don’t feel like it even though on the outside I play the games of bubbly life.

    • @rmorell28
      @rmorell28 4 года назад +10

      You already have started! You just shared a part of your story and it moved me to reply. I can sense the reluctance you have in sharing your experience and how it must make you feel vulnerable. It takes great courage to communicate to others the devastating aftershocks of spinal injury, especially in response to insensitive and intrusive questions so many people may ask seemingly unaware of their own casual indifference to a subject matter so obviously and exquisitely emotionally intense. I admire your brave courage. I hope you continue to share your story. Thank you!

    • @jennifersinclair7249
      @jennifersinclair7249 4 года назад +1

      This is why I am so upset with my mother. Because she acts bubbly and cheerful but really is not so, inside. I tell her to be authetic. Don't act happy if she isn't. It has caused MASSIVE problems - the lack of authenticity.

    • @apexpredator5428
      @apexpredator5428 4 года назад +4

      Jennifer Sinclair I genuinely am so sorry to hear about the problems. I don’t know your situation but I’m sure there are some similarities to my situation. I feel compelled to try to give you words of wisdom but I have none. I know that I try to act like it’s OK because I don’t wanna burden the people I love. I think my family has read my lack of authenticity I don’t know what else to do because if I told anyone what goes on inside my head they would lock me up. If I had any advice to give it would be to try to be patient (I know that is super hard) and just keep that door open with your mom and she will go thru it when she is able. I would want someone to let me know that. My family is jacked up big time and I don’t have that option. You can only make her know you will be there You cannot make her act differently and it’s not on you to do. Don’t make it a crusade to change her behavior. Live your life and move on. I don’t know if this is good advice or not but it’s what I think.

    • @84953
      @84953 4 года назад +3

      @@jennifersinclair7249 Jennifer, I don't see anything else from you that explains more, but from what is here, there is likely one of two things happening. If it's something that has happened to her, it may be that she is still in denial, or it could be that she is putting forth a brave face for you. That's something parents do. When I was young, we (myself and siblings) never realized how bad things had been for the family because we were protected from it by our parents. There were always ways to get around the issues and keep us clueless. We had a great time growing up, and I can appreciate now so much more how they handled it. Don't force it with her and don't get angry. Sometimes it's just a coping mechanism.

    • @84953
      @84953 4 года назад +3

      @@apexpredator5428 I think you're right on the money so far as your response to Jennifer. So far as for you, I'm not really sure what your speaking of, but I don't get the impression that you need to be locked up. I think that you are struggling with something and not doing well. What you need to do is seek counseling. It doesn't mean that you need to see a "shrink" or be hospitalized for a mental illness. (I'm guessing that's what you're referring to.) Perhaps you can see a licensed clinical social worker, or some other counseling help. Sometimes you need that help FROM the people that you love. How do you feel when you can help someone else either physically or mentally? Has it ever occurred to you that rather than feeling like you're a burden, they might appreciate the opportunity to help.

  • @nm2795
    @nm2795 4 года назад +26

    I was in a bad car wreck. By the grace of God I made a full recovery. I had a brain injury. I was very young. But can remember bits of it. They was asking me the same questions. At the time I just wanted to sleep. But they saved my life by asking those silly questions. It’s to help keep u awake But those questions can give them a sense of what’s going on and how u really are. I’m very grateful for EVERYONE that helped. It’s bc of our. Small town Volunteer fire Department, EMT s that got me to the hospital. God Bless and sending prayers

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +1

      So grateful for the rural health care workers! Their knowledge has to extend so far

  • @redperk
    @redperk 4 года назад +30

    So sorry! Know body wants to be paralyzed from the waist, chest or neck down - I hope we find a way to heal and reconnect nerves! Stay strong and keep your spirit!!

  • @celestephelps1717
    @celestephelps1717 4 года назад +58

    I'm a paraplegic, L1 incomplete. 17 years now. My doc said that you can still have a good life, and she was right! Have a safe journey!

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +4

      Life is good :)

    • @peaceonearth351
      @peaceonearth351 4 года назад +2

      Same, L1 incomplete. I am wondering if you get the pain in the legs. I've had it pretty much since the injury and I've heard something about its at that level where people get this a lot.

    • @victornyamu2547
      @victornyamu2547 4 года назад

      @@peaceonearth351 God be with you.

    • @peaceonearth351
      @peaceonearth351 4 года назад

      @@victornyamu2547 Thanks, bro.

    • @victornyamu2547
      @victornyamu2547 4 года назад

      @@peaceonearth351 no problem. Stay safe.
      Cheers

  • @bridgettroup7946
    @bridgettroup7946 4 года назад +12

    Hi honey my name is Bridget I am a paraplegic and am so utterly captivated by your story You made me feel like I am not alone thank you for telling your story

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад

      Hey Bridget,
      Thanks for taking the time. You are definitely not alone :)

  • @rollwiththepunches5932
    @rollwiththepunches5932 4 года назад +31

    Thanks for sharing! I broke my neck surfing in 1998, i have shared my story many times at schools and corporate company's to inspire and educate people for years, i just started a you tube channel to reach more people. thanks

    • @tameikabrown
      @tameikabrown 3 года назад +1

      Is U Back Walking Again Since Breaking UR Neck During A Surf Accident

    • @rollwiththepunches5932
      @rollwiththepunches5932 3 года назад +1

      @@tameikabrown no. i been in a chair 23 years

    • @tameikabrown
      @tameikabrown 3 года назад +1

      @@rollwiththepunches5932 Damn I’m So Sorry 😞 For UR Situation IK U Wish U Could’ve Done It Differently If U Could Go Back To That Day

  • @paulbroderick8438
    @paulbroderick8438 4 года назад +37

    So brave of you to relate your traumatic experience. My God, how a life can change in a split second. Since you are young, future medical advances will benefit you
    no doubt. God Bless.

  • @nancybeveridgetaylor3256
    @nancybeveridgetaylor3256 4 года назад +31

    I was assaulted at work by a patient and got a brain injury as well as other severe injuries, I am a retired nurse, the questions they asked you on site served 2 purposes, 1, assess your cognition for a variety of reasons 2, keep you awake until the air ambulance arrived and you were sufficiently stabilized.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +13

      As someone educated with first aid I do understand the purpose of the questions. In this video I am relaying only what was going through my head at the time... lack on logic in the midst of catastrophe.

    • @DJcyberslash
      @DJcyberslash Год назад

      I thought the second one

  • @RemiMW
    @RemiMW 4 года назад +20

    “God, In the middle of the woods in BC try to find 6 sober men” so true.
    Vancouver islander here! I do my fair share of jumping off cliffs and bridges in the summer all over the island.. This really hit home.
    You’re so strong and determined. Will definitely be starting a binge watch of your channel.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +2

      I hope my content production keeps up with your binge watching!

    • @RemiMW
      @RemiMW 4 года назад

      Pro Tips For Paras watched them all in a day😬 subscribed and waiting for new videos!! Thank you so much for noticing my comment! Keep being the beast babe ass kicker you are!!

  • @Gdesign959
    @Gdesign959 4 года назад +59

    My story of being in a very remote area when injured is very similar to yours. Thank god for helicopters. 25 years later I'm still going strong and loving life. You got this.

  • @tinat5484
    @tinat5484 4 года назад +6

    Thanks for sharing your story. I’m sure it wasn’t easy. You have helped a lot of people injured and not injured.

  • @Postthisvideo
    @Postthisvideo 4 года назад +9

    Thx 4 sharing. One of my buddies whom I grew up with was a bmx rider and a damn good one. He went over a jump he's could do blindfolded and something went wrong and he ended up 90% paralyzed. Just like I sense with u his attitude is so positive, and inspiring. I'm so glad u seem to be in a good mindset, and ok. Wow, what an ordeal.

  • @jimmurray9214
    @jimmurray9214 4 года назад +230

    You have the prettiest eyes I’ve ever seen.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +33

      Flattered thank you. My great grandmothers

    • @KKuurus
      @KKuurus 4 года назад +17

      @@ProTipsForParas Does she know you have them?

    • @patrickkeefe3679
      @patrickkeefe3679 4 года назад +2

      @@KKuurus that's a knee slapper.😂

    • @obscurelyvague
      @obscurelyvague 4 года назад +3

      @Catherine Hart You probably did it yourself

    • @JMac-27
      @JMac-27 4 года назад +2

      my daughter's are pretty special and yes she has mine but they can be seen on my channel photo if you click on my profile pic thing. bright light blue but my son has light amber that are pretty damn incredible too

  • @deborahdennehy9937
    @deborahdennehy9937 4 года назад +30

    My heart goes out to you my friend. It must have been the most traumatic thing ever for you. I am fortunate enough not to have your terrible problem & wish you well for now & the future. xx

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +9

      Like I said it has been an uphill ride since then. Definitely some downs, but the friends I have made that help me through these are tried, tested and true! :) Mostly smiles these days.
      Thanks for tuning in to my story.

  • @needmetal3221
    @needmetal3221 4 года назад +18

    I can't watch this all the way through. Even though I dont know you, people like yourself renew my faith in humanity .

  • @TheJohn93226
    @TheJohn93226 4 года назад +8

    You're beautiful the way you are no matter what and never let anyone tell you any different

  • @caraevans2609
    @caraevans2609 4 года назад +5

    I was born paraplegic (Spina Bifida 3-4 L) and I can’t imagine what it would be like to all of a sudden have some abilities taken away. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @andrewp4220
    @andrewp4220 4 года назад +5

    I’m sure this took a lot but thank you for telling your story. People (myself included) take for granted the “given” things in life. This video has probably helped others that are in the same situation but also those who are not. Keep positive !!

  • @torbinator9729
    @torbinator9729 3 года назад +3

    The wherewithal you had to essentially direct your care during such a critical moment under such stress is amazing. "Get me the choppa!" That's fuckin' bad~ass! From one injured person to another, keep fighting the good fight!

  • @dantimber
    @dantimber 10 дней назад

    I skimmed ahead - so glad you're here! Thank you for warning people about the dangers of jumping. Keep making videos. God Bless

  • @JWW922
    @JWW922 4 года назад +9

    I couldn't blink watching her tell a painful story, what courage she has, it amazes me!

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад

      I suffered a recreational injury. Life goes on :) Thanks for watching

  • @MadisonJehle
    @MadisonJehle 4 года назад +5

    Nothing but best wishes for a full recovery from Alabama 💖🌹

  • @bethpeters3187
    @bethpeters3187 4 года назад +6

    Your such a brave woman. I admire your strength to talk about your injury.

  • @samuelseager6785
    @samuelseager6785 4 года назад +14

    It is so amazing and wonderful that you had a relationship with your exboyfriend that you felt you could still reach out to him in your time of need and trust him to make decisions for you.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +3

      Thanks for the kindness around my mention of that :) Have a great weekend Samuel.

    • @icannotpretend5834
      @icannotpretend5834 4 года назад +1

      I thought that was pretty great too. "Listen to my ex. Hes making all the decisions." That was some serious trust she was able to put into him.

  • @glee_again2594
    @glee_again2594 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for being candid. God bless you in your journey. You’re an amazing woman !

  • @pointingdog7235
    @pointingdog7235 4 года назад +27

    I hope your recovery is going well, thank you for posting this.

  • @shelbygrl29
    @shelbygrl29 4 года назад +14

    I have CES- Cauda Equina Syndrome- and then had a car accident in March 2014... same year as you- T12 injury. I'm wheelchair bound also. Best wishes hun. Life does get better!!❤❤❤
    Luv
    Michelle
    Ontario,Canada

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +1

      My life nearly six years post injury is absolutely wonderful!! thanks for taking the time to tune in and watch my story.

  • @malibustacy3333
    @malibustacy3333 4 года назад +3

    ❤ Hi Beautiful! Thank you for your video & bringing some awareness to this! My uncle is a Quad, who broke his neck jumping into a lake on spring break. My whole life I've known him to be a fighter with a wonderful attitude! You seem to be the same way girl! Many prayers & love to you n yours! Stay Beautiful & Strong, like you've ALWAYS BEEN ❤

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for the love Stacy. Sending love and light back to you, your uncle, and the rest of those closest to you.

    • @malibustacy3333
      @malibustacy3333 4 года назад

      @@ProTipsForParasThank you so so much! All my love n support from Michigan. I'm sure you've got GREAT things ahead! ❤

  • @michaelgrayson7400
    @michaelgrayson7400 4 года назад +4

    I hate that you got paralyzed but you're still gorgeous and have a good future ahead of you. God bless

  • @justinsalaskanadventures
    @justinsalaskanadventures 4 года назад +17

    Incredible story, your a bad ass, I’m happy you survived and very impressed on your resiliency! I’m writing this with limited cell service in the far reaches of western Alaska in my off-grid cabin. Your a true inspiration :)

  • @Hopeandpeaceinjesus
    @Hopeandpeaceinjesus 4 года назад +2

    You did awesome. You’ve got this. Much love from 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 U.K. 🇬🇧

  • @tariebarkley7736
    @tariebarkley7736 Год назад +1

    Wow! I'm so sorry to hear about your injury!
    My 3 year old son AJ is Paraplegic chest down but under different circumstances, he was born with spina-bifida & he also has Hydrocephalus, I've just subscribed to your channel to get tips on how to help my bubba, we're in the UK, thank you and God bless xxx

  • @estebanperea5661
    @estebanperea5661 4 года назад +3

    I dont know why im enfatuated with you if its your eyes your looks your voice or your courage may your life be the best one you wana have blessing to you and your fam

  • @unknownRebelPL
    @unknownRebelPL 4 года назад +28

    There is sadness's in your eyes.. Keep the smile on and the head high ;-) Will be fine !

    • @Lollita23
      @Lollita23 4 года назад +2

      Yeah ya think? She's describing the most traumatic event of her life.

  • @MS-es9hm
    @MS-es9hm 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing - very brave. I too am in a wheelchair and know it takes guts every day to push forward. Stay strong :)

  • @eddieluvski4499
    @eddieluvski4499 4 года назад +9

    You will be your old self again! Mark my words! Hope they didnt do anymore damage when they moved you. Cant wait for you to post a video dancing with your two beautiful, strong legs. Keep strong. God Bless you!😉👍

  • @M.C.Blackwell
    @M.C.Blackwell 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your story, you are such an incredible and strong person. I wish you love and happiness

  • @ParalyzedPlinker
    @ParalyzedPlinker 3 года назад +1

    I'm in the hospital with a broken neck and back. Paralyzed from the waist down. I've been watching so many inspiring videos and learning how to live this new life. Thanks for sharing your story. Blessings

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  3 года назад +1

      Hope the new life and healing are coming with ease :)

  • @DocP4ra
    @DocP4ra 4 года назад +13

    Thanks for sharing your story! I think a part of recovery is acknowledging what happened and dealing with it, just like this. Your story is similar to mine, as I am also a T6 complete (snowboarder vs tree) and struggling to breathe is the main thing I remember doing till they got some oxygen going in the helicopter and knocked me out.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +2

      Thanks for sharing this Dave. Crazy how stories align...same same but different.

  • @marcelcoenen1437
    @marcelcoenen1437 Год назад +3

    You are a wonderful lady and I like your way of talking and telling your story! Greetings from Germany

  • @bobscafidi9184
    @bobscafidi9184 4 года назад +7

    My prayers and admiration for you. I admire your inner strength. I hope to god somehow research finds a cure. Best of luck.

  • @sarahdanielle1985
    @sarahdanielle1985 4 года назад +3

    Amazing beautiful strong young lady. Thank you for your story. I wish the best for you which you will receive. Keep up your great work and telling people your story

  • @bernardflint9338
    @bernardflint9338 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your story. You are tough. I wish you the most complete recovery possible. Be well.

  • @MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals
    @MichelleKiwiGirlCrawfordvocals 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for sharing, all the best for the future!

  • @beachbum2687
    @beachbum2687 4 года назад +7

    I’ve always have an unexplained fear of my children becoming paraplegics, ever since they could walk and talk I’ve told them never to jump off anything. Well a few years ago he was at a party and his friend dove into a pool and is now a quad. His dad is head of the emergency room. Can’t imagine being a dr and your kid comes in

    • @obscurelyvague
      @obscurelyvague 4 года назад

      "Beach Bum" you seem to have a psychic or paranormal type of talent to sense accidents that make people paraplegics way before it happens.

  • @yellownaped2577
    @yellownaped2577 4 года назад +25

    Your story blessed me with love and courage to be strong with life’s challenges. Big Hugs❤️

  • @relanaallen5513
    @relanaallen5513 4 года назад +19

    Paramedics are there to get you to definitive care as quickly as possible. They have to ask questions if your conscious because the info could save your life. Those men and woman may even be volunteers. I hope one day you feel a bit more grateful for their efforts at some point. I'm so sorry this happened to you. May god bless and keep you.

    • @maree6250
      @maree6250 4 года назад +2

      As a former paramedic her attitude bugged me too

    • @seratonin7004
      @seratonin7004 4 года назад

      I think you're seeing it from your perspective, which is fine, in the same way that she's seeing it from hers.
      However, unlike her, the paramedics are acting in their roles as professionals, are trained to consider the stress, pain and trauma the patient is under, and that the way they react may not be reflective of how they usually present. She also acknowledged the paramedic was new, had just been woken, that she was struggling to breathe and communicate, and was in immense pain. Her frustration was trying to answer basic questions relating to her contact information whilst struggling to breathe and with the world swimming above her head - she did not complain about assessment questions. I think her response is not only understandable and heavily influenced by pain, fear and trauma, it also does not mean she's ungrateful. I'm more surprised by the lack of compassion in these comments.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +2

      I was surviving.
      If you watch my TEDxLangford talk I speak of my paramedics as the Top Guns. I am grateful for them every day. I owe my life.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +2

      Thank you for explaining this for me. I am at a loss for words when people comment the way they do about my sharing the experience.
      Grateful for you.

    • @seratonin7004
      @seratonin7004 4 года назад

      @@ProTipsForParas having had many ambulance rides and been in agony, critically ill and fearful, I truly understand and have compassion for that experience. Especially the first few times, I didn't know the process or what to expect.
      The paramedics have been incredible, and some were especially great at helping with my anxiety and explaining what was happening, but of course, each has a different approach and manner. I'm also lucky we do have exceptional ambulance services and paramedics here, but I'm aware this does vary based on country, location and the skill set expected for the role.
      I'm also blessed to have paramedic friends who were able to explain certain aspects to me when I was not in crisis and able to absorb information properly. I didn't initially understand that seemingly unimportant questions were being asked in order to assess my cognition, for example.
      It's always problematic when a single video is viewed without great context, or the advantage of knowing the person and being able to interpret the attitude of the video through the context of knowing their values, personality and expression.
      Thank you for sharing your experience. It's always a vulnerable choice to share ourselves openly with the public.

  • @adamh542
    @adamh542 4 года назад +16

    It just shows how quick something can happen.

  • @Mr07491
    @Mr07491 4 года назад +5

    I too got injured on 10 August, although in 2017. Subsequently, after almost 10 surgeries, we could not salvage my right ankle and foot. I got my below knee amputation of my right leg on 25 Nov 2019. Today after lots of physio and personal efforts in resisting to go down, I am walking on a prosthetic limb and it feels great. looking back I remember how much pain I went through and kept waiting for some miracle. Despite me being an Orthopedic Surgeon, I left my state into the hands of the surgeons and their team, never applying my knowledge upon my self. But now I'm free of the pain and suffering and freely moving around.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад

      Have you gone back to your career?! How cool would it be knowing your doc has the same exact experience in life as you're now living. Just a thought!

  • @daisytheunicornTV
    @daisytheunicornTV 4 года назад +4

    Beautiful testimony. I couldn't stop watching. You gave a really good description of everything. You can be a great motivational speaker. I watched this twice

  • @georgemark8484
    @georgemark8484 4 года назад +6

    God bless you for the life changing experience that you have endured . Something that all of us dont think of and take for granted!

  • @gregsomebody7247
    @gregsomebody7247 4 года назад +5

    You're very brave for sharing. Respect.

  • @lindseybooth1393
    @lindseybooth1393 4 года назад +4

    Your strength is so inspiring , thanks for sharing your story ❤️

  • @jackiemorris240
    @jackiemorris240 4 года назад +3

    Beautiful and brave,so strong.God Bless you🌸

  • @hadendeal5727
    @hadendeal5727 4 года назад +7

    Thanks for sharing your story. My brother had a very similar experience in rural Oklahoma. It's hard enough as a family to deal with the changes that come with a spinal cord injury but I cant imagine being the one with the injury. Thanks again!

  • @EbayWay2Shop
    @EbayWay2Shop Год назад +2

    Your story is amazing... I was born with CP (brain damage at birth). I have always been unable to walk. I've always said I count (consider) myself "lucky" to have never walked. I don't really know what its like to walk-dont know what I'm missing. To lose the ability to walk... WOW!

  • @cfdmedic78
    @cfdmedic78 4 года назад +25

    Sorry about your situation. Prior to my injury I was an Emergency Department Registered Nurse in a Trauma Center, as well as a paramedic for a number of years. Unfortunately, EMS in remote areas are often what you see is what you get. I'm sure they were freaking out in dealing with your injury. Bad EMS is usually better then no EMS. Thank you with sharing your experience with us. I try to latch on to tips that people share on RUclips to make my relatively new journey a bit easier. Again, thanks.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +8

      Being a resident in a small community for a long time I understand the struggles through all the levels of government employment, and people need to start somewhere. No problem with the kids that helped me that day, just mad love and respect for the air ambulance staff, the Top Guns! They really save the day!
      Merry Christmas! I hope that you continue to find this channel of value. Please let me know if there is anything you'd like to see covered on video :) I only know what I know.

  • @BUBBLEGUMGIRLONE
    @BUBBLEGUMGIRLONE 4 года назад +3

    It’s wonderful what you’re doing to help people who are in wheelchairs live life. The things you talk about take years for people to learn and apply. You’re helping people learn things in minutes, that the doctors and therapist don’t talk about. Practical living skills, it’s wonderful what you’re doing. You could possibly be a paid consultant one day.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +3

      I do have a juvenile consulting business. Working on that along with the charity (RAD Recreation Adapted Society www.radsociety.ca) and this channel + social platform.
      Thanks very much for the kind words :) I find that I have a hall pass to ask all of the inappropriate questions. So I do, because I need the answers. And I am not hung up on people's opinion of mine, so I love to share all the things, expand peoples minds and my own through conversation and comments.
      please let me know if there are things you think of that I have not.

    • @BUBBLEGUMGIRLONE
      @BUBBLEGUMGIRLONE 4 года назад +1

      Pro Tips For Paras that’s so great I’m happy for you. Thanks for asking for my in put or opinion. I can’t think of any thing. Let me know if you try the swim shoes? They help me a lot. You can buy them at a sporting good store. I find it much easier than using a towel. Keep up the good work you’re doing you have a great idea.

  • @barryrothman7430
    @barryrothman7430 2 года назад

    Sorry you had gone through that glad to see you alive and well

  • @soggydogspaw4269
    @soggydogspaw4269 4 года назад +22

    Just lost my wonderful father that had been a quad for 41 years. His strength, attitude and the will to continue to live life to its fullest taught me more than anything else ever could. ❤️

    • @IngridduPreez
      @IngridduPreez 4 года назад

      Awww... Very sorry for your huge loss. He sounded like such a good role model with a very positive outlook. May you one day become reunited.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +2

      You are worlds beyond in your compassion for others when you experience this with someone you love. Condolences.

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast 4 года назад

      Soggy Dog Spaw sorry

    • @barbaravyse660
      @barbaravyse660 4 года назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼

  • @Branman345
    @Branman345 4 года назад +2

    Don’t ever feel bad you were a medical emergency. Regardless of your age. I worked in the ED and would admit patients based on the risk they were in and if someone is vomiting verses someone that isn’t breathing I’m treating the person that’s not breathing. Same with surgery if I see that it needs to happen not it’s going to happen. Don’t feel bad and I’m sure they explained to him what was going on. Keep it together and I’m glad you shared this with us. You gained a follower.

  • @merrillcoates7493
    @merrillcoates7493 3 года назад +1

    God bless you, you are such a inspiration! I was born with C.P. so I don't know how to walk quote normal, but I am blessed and I thank you for all you do to show people what we can do!

  • @shellyphillips7316
    @shellyphillips7316 2 месяца назад +1

    To those who thinks it’s okay to ask wheelchair users “what happened to you?”, this is why. Imagine going through this situation. Then imagine that every time you go to a grocery store, some random person will ask you to explain it. No they won’t get the full story, but the person in the chair will remember/relive it, when all they want to do is move forward from that awful situation.

  • @SopranoFantab
    @SopranoFantab 2 года назад +2

    oK, What right do people feel they have to ask how you ended up on a wheelchair?! To me, that’s a classic case of *lack of social boundaries*. I just found your channel today. It was very enlightening to watch this video, but because you chose to share your story and tips with us. I’m sightless; and I just find it so bizarre and intrusive when asked how I lost my sight. I’ve shared how it happened on my RUclips channel, but because I made that choice. People need to respect other people’s privacy. Thanks for sharing your challenges and achievements with us.

  • @jacquelynfelstead5856
    @jacquelynfelstead5856 4 года назад +163

    These men whom you felt knew nothing, may well be the men who end up the paramedics in the helicopter one day. They were in fact doing their job in asking questions to assess your cognitive response in order to try and determine if there was a possibility of a brain injury. Be more gracious and respectful of everyone who had a hand in saving your life, it was a combined effort, from beginning to end. We doctors often get the accolades, but without all the links in the chain being there prior to you getting to us, how many would survive?

    • @fredschmidt7023
      @fredschmidt7023 4 года назад +20

      I so agree with all your commment. She is here today because of the first responders.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +12

      In my TEDxLangford talk I refer to my paramedics as the Top Gun of the field. I am very grateful for the people who took care of me.

    • @JMac-27
      @JMac-27 4 года назад +24

      yes good grief how awful and condescending was that? in situations of trauma those questions keep you cognizant and even in cases of stroke using your brain talking and keeping those neurons firing can save your brain from damage. I really couldn't listen to anymore after that, really isn't a great representation for someone who should be beyond grateful to all who cared enough to help

    • @mlfetterman
      @mlfetterman 4 года назад +18

      @@ProTipsForParas but you were very dismissive of them in this video. People who don't see your TED talk don't know that you have said anything different. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, but I am glad that you made it, you are strong! :)

    • @4Dangert
      @4Dangert 4 года назад +14

      And you Jacquelyn should be more empathetic and gracious to someone who is simply sharing her story that changed her life. She was fine and not ungracious at all.

  • @northerngirl4924
    @northerngirl4924 4 года назад +3

    Triage is what it is. You were more in need than the man who’s surgery got postponed. That’s the way it should be. You are asked to state and spell your name to see how mentally cognizant you are when first approached on an accident scene. Such a terrifying event to go through and I am truly sorry for your situation now, and hope advances in medicine help you in the near future. Stay strong and positive.❤️

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +2

      I know... I was a little cranky as I lie there. I'm always grateful for the team that came to my rescue. They definitely upped my survival rate

  • @kenwesters7834
    @kenwesters7834 4 года назад +7

    Sorry to hear. You are brave and strong! Also stunningly beautiful!!!!

  • @Blackxs93
    @Blackxs93 4 года назад +7

    Wow and you have the strength to tell your story your a strong woman

  • @PDBenkert
    @PDBenkert 4 года назад +1

    God bless you. What an eye opening experience you have shared. To many young people don't understand the blessing they have in a healthy body and they do dumb and stupid things not thinking about the price that they might have to pay for their fun. I hope your life only the best. Again, God Bless you for opening so many eyes.

  • @ThisIsWheelLife
    @ThisIsWheelLife 4 года назад +5

    Wow thank you for sharing your story! I’m a quadriplegic myself. Glad you were in good hands ❤️

    • @ThisIsWheelLife
      @ThisIsWheelLife 4 года назад +1

      I have a video on my channel about what happened.

    • @marys3127
      @marys3127 4 года назад +2

      I will find your channel and watch it!

  • @Shelilah41
    @Shelilah41 4 года назад +1

    So sad. I pray that you will be able to get some movement back. I can see you still are thriving and living your life. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад

      Thanks :) I hope so too. Stay happy and healthy!

  • @phyllismontoroula6454
    @phyllismontoroula6454 4 года назад +1

    I hope you have full recovery you are in my prayers. Thank you for posting your story

  • @fishfingers3024
    @fishfingers3024 4 года назад +1

    There is usually good reasons medical staff ask questions and do what they do. I hope you find peace with your injuries, life throws punches.💙❤️🧡

  • @free2binnh
    @free2binnh 4 года назад +3

    I avoided watching this video for the longest time, but I did watch it today. I am an empath so could feel what you went though making the video. I believe this was your destiny, go within, meditate if you need answers.

  • @ingridgott1
    @ingridgott1 4 года назад +2

    thank you for sharing your experience too many people ignored how dangerous it is jumping

  • @shawndoucette724
    @shawndoucette724 3 года назад

    You are the light in the darkness of the world tanelle bolt 💜💕 you've heard it all before from me over time and it'll never change. The world needs more people like you in it, thank you for sharing your story and passion. FYI I'd give up a year off my lifespan if it ment you would at least get feeling back or hopefully walk again 🌹💪

  • @matthewrodenbeck2235
    @matthewrodenbeck2235 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. I broke my back in 1995 racing motocross and vividly remember looking at all of the ceilings and flourescent lights passing by in the hopsital, just s you described.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing. Crazy how our experiences can be so similar. Hope you are doing well :)

  • @bernardflint9338
    @bernardflint9338 4 года назад

    Good luck in navigating your way forward. Be Well.

  • @findilk1753
    @findilk1753 4 года назад +9

    This caused me to cry. May you feel the presence of your Maker. The Lord, the Prince of Peace manifest full measure of His grace upon your blessing others as you administer comfort to them in their need.

  • @goldenboyi1989
    @goldenboyi1989 4 года назад +11

    Your story reminds me of Charles Krauthammer. He was a young man who was paralyzed after jumping into a swimming pool but his life ended last year.-i hope the future is bright for you.

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +3

      Sending warm holiday vibes to the late Charles. Jumping/fall accidents account for a large number of paralyzing injuries.
      I hope the future is bright for both you and I!

    • @goldenboyi1989
      @goldenboyi1989 4 года назад +2

      @@ProTipsForParas Cool.I hope to meet you one day.Was in Vancouver last year for a few hours and Calgary too for a couple of hours.Studied out west though and live in the East.Ever been to the East?

  • @nomadman123
    @nomadman123 4 года назад

    What a bummer. Your story is tough to hear but very inspirational. It brings back memories for me and the similarities. May 20, 2012, on vacation from Edmonton, laying at the bottom of a ravine, in my motorcycle gear, in a place called Goshen Canyon, about an hour away from Salt Lake City. Excruciating pain, I was having trouble breathing, I was laying face down, with two broken ribs, perforated lung and fractured T10 & T11. It was a lonely road, on a Monday morning and almost no traffic. Miraculously, another motorcyclist found me and called for help. Everything was surreal after that, like I was in a bad dream. But the pain and the trouble breathing were very real. I was happy to be alive but I wasn't 100% sure I was going to live until I arrived at the hospital. The helo pilot was also a motorcyclist and he took a longer route, in order to get me to a University Hospital outside of SLC. He knew they had a renowned Spinal Cord Injury wing so it was a smart move. I'm all happy now and yeah it's been a great challenge but I still wish I hadn't missed that corner in the canyon. I've got a friend from Parksville who just had a stroke and it reminded me, like your story does, of the helpless feeling in the hospital. Knowing that my life was changed, for ever and ever. Any issue I'd ever had previously, I always knew that I'd get better in a few days or a week or two weeks but being paralyzed was effed up!

  • @thehighpriestess8431
    @thehighpriestess8431 4 года назад +3

    I am sorry this happened to you. Thank you for sharing your story.
    Edit: I am happy for you that Canada is your homeland.

  • @Mrchadmam
    @Mrchadmam Год назад +1

    I was helping a friend with his dump truck when the Hydraulics blew out and it fell on me I remember I was in shock and I couldn't help but laugh my friend was freaking out now I am a T3 complete but getting by I have good family and friends

  • @ericherrmann3799
    @ericherrmann3799 4 года назад

    Still beautiful , still alive, You sound strong please stay that way, your story may help others, young and dumb we all where.

  • @Whitpusmc
    @Whitpusmc 4 года назад +3

    Kudos for sharing your story. Your bravery is only matched by your grandmothers eyes.

  • @AnotherBadyoga
    @AnotherBadyoga 4 года назад +1

    whew, thanks for sharing your story. In the US healthcare coverage is such an issue, lots of folks uncovered

  • @DarrenHughes-Hybrid
    @DarrenHughes-Hybrid 4 года назад +3

    Since my accident, it physically (maybe mentally) hurts to hear stories of pain. I almost didn't make it through your video, but I forced myself to hear your whole story. The entire time I wishing as hard as I could that this had never happened to you. While wishing, I knew that if God could make it that you had never been hurt, then this video would never be. So, I found I was wishing this video away too. Sorry it didn't work. I'm thinking that there must be a reason for this video and I'm thinking that it's this video must help people. Maybe save some people from jumping of bridges. Who knows? I'm just sorry, I couldn't wish away your accident (or mine) but I won't stop me from still wishing!

  • @markhunt2515
    @markhunt2515 4 года назад +5

    Hi beautiful.i myself had a accident .a drunk hit me on my motorcycle and my leg was off and twisted .needless to say it did change my life and not for the better.but m 66 now and there were times I wanted out but I'm still here limping in pain all the time.but hang in there you seem very strong.1 more thing ok.ask Jesus into your heart to save you .God bless mark

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching and sharing your story Mark. I hope you are staying happy and healthy in this season of uncertainty. I am grateful for my injury experience, it feels as though this is another similar experience.

  • @exchevelle
    @exchevelle 4 года назад +5

    Very sad hear your story. All best to you. Happy new year. Greetings from Finland..

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад +3

      Happy New Year from this side of the world!
      It is just my story :) no need to be sad. I am a better person with some perspective

    • @exchevelle
      @exchevelle 4 года назад

      @@ProTipsForParas Need lot of strengh and positive attitude found new way to life when all things change. I`m just emotional person so thats why I must write comment to you. I don`t know any person in wheelchair, some reason in RUclips front page was your video. Whit no any reason I just want look it...

  • @prionisable
    @prionisable 4 года назад

    i ve been in a wheelchair for 15 years now due to a bike accident.i live in greece btw..saw some of your videos and im really glad that you are trying everyday for the best!

    • @ProTipsForParas
      @ProTipsForParas  4 года назад

      Thanks for taking the time to follow along with my juvenile wheelie life!

  • @missblue4699
    @missblue4699 4 года назад

    Thank you Tanelle, for sharing your personal story - it's not an easy thing to do. I think you will be a force for the good in the SCI and adaptive world. Much love to you 💙💙

  • @mikecolburn2164
    @mikecolburn2164 4 года назад +8

    You are an incredibly Beautiful Lady with a great attitude & outlook.

    • @infantrygunner3444
      @infantrygunner3444 4 года назад +2

      You think she has a good attitude lol you are distorted she is a spoiled brat