No, someone would be trans, for no reason, which diminishes gender and sexual fluidity. 80's bisexual stereotypes have existed since... the 1980's. This SNL sketch was dated when it was released.
@@SubjectDelta20 lol, and probably accidentally. Just so much dirty constantly happening that it took two women twenty minutes to notice they were slamming the same dude. Or vice versa.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt that way. I've never had one inside my marriage. I had two in my younger years. It's really not all it's hyped up to be.
Just remember the golden rule. It’s not gay, when you’re in a three way. With a honey in the middle, there’s some leeway. I’m sure somebody has written this exact same thing.
@@eriks1765 Wish I had a threesome. The closest I've ever been to that is when my ex and her best friend (another chick) and me made out but that's the farthest it went
The very best part of this video, and the comments is appreciating how good I have it. Yes my wife and have played that game, more than once, and it’s always been a great experience!
Believe it or not but I can tell by the acoustics that they are indeed not In house. The reverb is indicative of a large space, no ceiling, and the timbre of the sound from the reverb indicates that the walls are not insulated as they don't absorb hardly any sound it literally sounds like they are on a sound stage, like just listen to the audio without watching and you can hear it's different then it would sound in a house and obviously the live studio audience gives that away but if they filmed a scene from a movie with that mic on that sound stage I would be able to tell they weren't in a real house by the sound, Jazz Musician by trade so I can glean quite a bit of detail from sound :p
That's because they have more experience. If the first time you had sex with one person wasn't great, *and it wasn't,* why do you think your first time with two people would be any better?
You can be comfortable with your own sexuality and not liking treesome anyway.Or don't be that kind of husband that can't really understand that your wife is doing it just for you,because she thinks in that way she won't be seen as a boring prude,in fear of losing you.Moral of the story do what you like respecting the other, cause sooner or later someone is going to suffer and the other one will (sometimes pretend) to not have seen it coming.
@Julia Mimi Open relationships are a thing. Maybe you can't separate romance and sex, but some can, so don't assume you know how all relationships work
They were definitely looking at the cue cards. The fact they were supposed to be avoiding eye contact with each other just made it look more natural. They most likely had the cue card holders set up right over the shoulder of both Chris and Ana then another one in front of them.
For all those in the comments section that haven't experienced it yet, it's best when all 3 of you are single but interested in each other. If 2 of you are dating then there will def be those awkward moments from my experience.
Or that no matter the dreams you have or goals you set nor plans you follow how hard you work and heart sincere in all that you strive, you can only achieve just below every thing you don't want to be.
HA! SANTAS NOT REAL! next thing youre gonna tell us is that The Easter Bunny ain't hoppin around and The tooth fairy doesnt take my teeth and keep em in her bedroom, than you're gonna tell me the ghost of michael jackson ain't watching me from my closet waiting for me to sleep so he can lick my toes. HA YOURE CRAZY!
Nobody reads cue cards during a skit since those are all improv. A sketch is something written before it's filmed. But they were definitely reading them. They just hid it better than most.
Actually, Heather Graham made a movie with this subject as the plot. It was called two girls and a guy and Robert Downey Jr was the guy! Underrated film you should check out.
I paused it a few times at 0:23 It seems like a cut out picture of a man smiling as it is falling down but looks also like maybe a reflection or silhouette or perhaps maybe an entity? Creepy though.
This is EXTREMELY on the mark. It's very healthy to sit down afterwards and talk about things. It's more common than not for a threesome to be disappointing, lame, or upsetting. They can be good. But for them to have a threesome with their babysitter probably wasn't a great decision as they already had a positive business and "almost family" relationship with her. That's putting a lot of good stuff at stake. Having said all that, a threesome can be super fun. As unspontaneous as it may seem, you have to talk out limits, protection, etc. ahead of time so no one's feelings get hurt. Make sure everyone understands the meaning of consent. But if you've got all that, everyone is feeling the vibe and excited, go for it. Mistakes will be made no matter what, so learn from them, like the people in this skit.
By whom? Where? When? She was a member of the cast repeatedly due to her talent, has a career due to her talent, and you and many thousands of people know her name because of her talent. So who exactly is underrating her?
Yea this was like a video exhibition of healthy communication through awkward feelings and moments. Rather than a skit. You and your wife had a three way. You and you wife tried to spice it up and it went awkwardly.
I’m pretty sure this is a riff on a movie that Heather Graham did with Robert Downey Junior. So for people saying it’s awkward it’s supposed to be because that’s what the movie was like.
This is why you do 2 guys, or 1 guy and a confirmed lesbian. Most men can't really deal properly with 2 women, unless the girls are also super into eachother. I'm sure there are a few out there, but in general you can't expect the man to be the highlight of the night for both women.
My Debbie says this is brutally honest and is probably the norm when a loving partner is talked into a three some. Indulging in such can never lead to anything good, healthy or up-building for any of the people involved.
I've been in one 3 way (girl, girl, guy) and it was epic! As I see it, the secret to having a good experience is to not be in a romantic relationship with anyone else involved. No one gets jealous and there are no strings attached.
The reason porn sex is so awesome? Those folks know they're there for 1 reason. Same with real life, IF one (or 2) can make it happen. Mad Dog 20/20, a little rope, and a skinny belt...
It always seems simple on TV, often it causes huge problems. No matter what the couple goes into it thinking, no matter what rules are laid down. It can work out, but often it becomes a huge stumbling block within a marriage.
This felt like a pilot episode for a doomed, raunchy sitcom.
He's company with John Ritter
i think they made that "You, me, Her" on Netflix
Exactly, Tom. More strange than funny.
Well, this did come on in the late 1990s into the 2000s and sitcoms like that existed.
This was awesome. The acting was top notch awkward. It displayed Ana G. acting talents. She is a very talented character actress, in many movies.
Lmao
This was practically just like a scene you’d see in a sitcom today.
No, someone would be trans, for no reason, which diminishes gender and sexual fluidity.
80's bisexual stereotypes have existed since... the 1980's.
This SNL sketch was dated when it was released.
I wasn't laughing, but the last line put a smile on my face.
This isnt a comedy skit, it's post-nut clarity personified.
post-nut guilt.
Democrats
@@patriciastewart2537 lmao what
HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY
HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY ANNIVERSARY
I thought the premise of this was going to be that they invented the threeway, as in the first to discover it, which would have been funny.
That would be if Norm MacDonald wrote it.
@@PJErvin haha, yeah.
I thought it would end up being a joke about three-way calling.
The first three way probably took place somewhere in France.
@@SubjectDelta20 lol, and probably accidentally. Just so much dirty constantly happening that it took two women twenty minutes to notice they were slamming the same dude. Or vice versa.
0:23 is that a crew member outside? Or a ghost?
Omg. It was a ghost! The SNL set is haunted!
Or just the reflection of Chris Parnell
..ghost of a crew member.. duh
Is the boyfriend
Looks like emperor Palpatine.
The dude just jumping past the door in the beginning spooked me
Good eye! I didn't notice. I went back and seen it at 0:24 after reading your comment!
The youtube algorithm has finally started giving me new Chris Parnell sketches. Yay!
You could just search them yourself
If you live in canada they only let us view the old sketches on youtube since the pandemic
Parnell was great on the show.
"New"
Thanks for the heads-up
Chris Parnell walked so that Jason Sudeikis could run.
Some you might think it's the other way around, but chronologically, that would be incorrect.
I swear, after only hearing his voice I thought it was Jason for a second
This scene is so fucking true to life especially when he says “well it was nothing like my fantasy” I felt that
I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt that way. I've never had one inside my marriage. I had two in my younger years. It's really not all it's hyped up to be.
It NEVER IS..😳🤦♀️🤢💔
Just remember the golden rule. It’s not gay, when you’re in a three way. With a honey in the middle, there’s some leeway. I’m sure somebody has written this exact same thing.
I like how this has 69 likes.
The area's grey in a one, two, three way.
What if it's three guys?
@@DavidLS1 That’s quite a mouthful.
@@obediahpolkinghorniii564 Nothing I can't handle.
Heather Graham, always... amazing.
Beautiful pokies
Roller Girl = Fun
He's playing Jerry Smith years before the character existed.
If he was Jerry the threesome would have been (and was) with another guy
That’s just Chris Parnell. He’s Jerry in real life.
100th like 🎉🥳🎊
The fact they all came down full dressed was the funniest part to me 😂😂
Why was that funny? We’re you expecting them to come down naked?
Why?
@@BigSnipp Why do you care?
@@MontagZoso Because that's the way my sense of humor works. No to your 2nd question.
Thanks for coming.
@@Shasgirl Lol someone acting defensive after leaving a comment that doesn't makes sense is 'the funniest part to me'
"You want to watch the tape". "yeah just fast-forward when I tell you to". LMFAO!!!
Less than a comedy skit and more like a scene from a play.
That punchline: "Do you want to watch the tape?" 😂😂😂
"A sucret & a nickel" 😆😂😂
"If I'm ever in a three way, I gotta be honest, one of you might NOT get a turn." -Felipe Esparza
Did anyone see that crew member walk past the glass door
Time stamp?
@@samwood917 around 00:20 secs in
Tried to duck his head a little too late lol
Yeah I saw him too. At first I thought he was part of the skit.
@@samwood917 0:22
Way to ruin a perfectly good three way, Cyril
Archer is that you?
@@DMobi Duh, and or, hello.
The on-deck circle 😆
and the award for most awkward skit in the history of SNL goes to.........
On the other hand, the skit itself was... slow an uncomfortable... like an actual post three-way conversation might be.
Yep. You're not wrong. The awkwardness is real.
Depends on the people doing it and how well you know each other too, actually.
The Julie Noltke threeway video is much funnier.
@@eriks1765 Wish I had a threesome. The closest I've ever been to that is when my ex and her best friend (another chick) and me made out but that's the farthest it went
that's actually why I love this sketch.
Love Heather Graham during that time period. Always came across as cute and playful.
2:36 - now that's an unfortunate choice of words
Right? I imagine they’d have done a little more with that line nowadays.
Yea, that was at the very least, a missed opportunity for a pause.
0:20 Mike Myers peeping through the window?
0:22 Notice the stage hand on the other side of the door...
0:22 surprise stalker in the front door window
Fastest way to ruin a relationship is to ask for an "open relationship" or start experimenting w/additional partners.
Heather Graham, always liked her look.
@0:23 is that Dracula in the window?!
Oh.... Fuck... that was scary.
Oh how good is ur vision
damn could have had a four way...lolz
Wow...
It was her boyfriend
Neighbor creeping in the back yard
Dude ducking down in the window 😂😂😂
Watched 3 times before I caught it
I’m pretty sure this is exactly how most people feel after their first three-way 😂😂😂
two Gemini and a libra goes really well.
nope - I keep skeeting on everyone until I fall asleep. Then make breakfast in the morning and skeet some more
Nah.
@@Raven-rf7czwhat? Take your astrology somewhere else idiot...
None of them that I had involved someone I was seriously involved with (like married), so no. But in those cases probably so.
The very best part of this video, and the comments is appreciating how good I have it. Yes my wife and have played that game, more than once, and it’s always been a great experience!
It's not gay when it's a 3 way - golden rule
Or when you have socks on
It is when it is three guys.
@@jamesfetherston1190 No way, that's just three bois being proud to be bois, enjoying their manliness together
@There is no freewill You sound like an insecure buzzkill. Sorry, i only fuck real men that are proud to be men.
we're talking about Caesar!
To think that this was just a stage that was put together in seconds. You totally buy that it's a house.
its the house where Chris Farley tells you he lives in a van down by the river!
Believe it or not but I can tell by the acoustics that they are indeed not In house. The reverb is indicative of a large space, no ceiling, and the timbre of the sound from the reverb indicates that the walls are not insulated as they don't absorb hardly any sound it literally sounds like they are on a sound stage, like just listen to the audio without watching and you can hear it's different then it would sound in a house and obviously the live studio audience gives that away but if they filmed a scene from a movie with that mic on that sound stage I would be able to tell they weren't in a real house by the sound, Jazz Musician by trade so I can glean quite a bit of detail from sound :p
@@420Effect are you a wizard?
The "on deck circle" comment is on point
"oh come on yourself" and no one noticed a great zinger
I did.
@@wendyraye well played.
And "left uneaten!" I almost can't believe they got that one through!
This doesn't go over so well in 2021.
Well written, kinda insightful!
This takes on a real ''Of course...'' perspective when considering that he's Jerry.
This isn’t how porn videos depict it.
Practice makes all the difference.
That's because they have more experience.
If the first time you had sex with one person wasn't great, *and it wasn't,* why do you think your first time with two people would be any better?
the acting was marginally better, and the writing was a step up
I know...all seem extremely satisfied. And eager to do it again.
That's because drama is reality with all the boring parts cut out, while porn is sex with all the drama cut out.
The moral of the story don´t do Threesomes if you aren´t comfortable with your own sexuality already.
You can be comfortable with your own sexuality and not liking treesome anyway.Or don't be that kind of husband that can't really understand that your wife is doing it just for you,because she thinks in that way she won't be seen as a boring prude,in fear of losing you.Moral of the story do what you like respecting the other, cause sooner or later someone is going to suffer and the other one will (sometimes pretend) to not have seen it coming.
@Julia Mimi Open relationships are a thing. Maybe you can't separate romance and sex, but some can, so don't assume you know how all relationships work
Lol the random person ducking through the door at about the 20 second mark
Had to go back and see it. Nice eye.
Hey, they actually memorised their lines, rather than looking at cue cards for the entire sketch!
They were definitely looking at the cue cards. The fact they were supposed to be avoiding eye contact with each other just made it look more natural. They most likely had the cue card holders set up right over the shoulder of both Chris and Ana then another one in front of them.
For all those in the comments section that haven't experienced it yet, it's best when all 3 of you are single but interested in each other. If 2 of you are dating then there will def be those awkward moments from my experience.
@Norm Meunier going by your thumbnail ( whatever) you got nothing to worry about
This is one of the most depressing skits ever. Like when you find out that sugar makes you diabetic. Or that Santa isn't real.
Or that no matter the dreams you have or goals you set nor plans you follow how hard you work and heart sincere in all that you strive, you can only achieve just below every thing you don't want to be.
What?
Unmasking and emotional intelligence are really great though, and can be done by recreating very cringy things
What's this about Santa?
HA! SANTAS NOT REAL! next thing youre gonna tell us is that The Easter Bunny ain't hoppin around and The tooth fairy doesnt take my teeth and keep em in her bedroom, than you're gonna tell me the ghost of michael jackson ain't watching me from my closet waiting for me to sleep so he can lick my toes. HA YOURE CRAZY!
"She's practically family" one of the worse things to say unless you live in Alabama
Best comment here.
Or any other red state really. They're pretty much all equally bad at this point.
I mean, your spouse is technically your family.
Arkansas...or ILLINOIS.
my wife and I always felt a little closer afterwards- We ALL enjoyed ourselves!
The live studio audience was a little comfortable with this sketch. 😂
They were comfortable?
@@larrycrabs5995 like to comfortable maybe idk
It's nice to see a skit where they're not reading off of cue cards.
Nobody reads cue cards during a skit since those are all improv. A sketch is something written before it's filmed. But they were definitely reading them. They just hid it better than most.
This would’ve worked perfectly in a sitcom or something of that nature. Still enjoyed it though. I miss this kind of SNL
I miss this kind of SNL too!
@@cindyobanion7049 SNL no way different than its ever been.. a few great skits and then a few duds.. Most people can’t just skip over the trump stuff
Actually, Heather Graham made a movie with this subject as the plot. It was called two girls and a guy and Robert Downey Jr was the guy! Underrated film you should check out.
0:23 did I see someone in the window or am I losin it??
@@josephpapai5867 lol..thanks..and yes I still may be losing it. :/
It's the ghost of someone killed on that stage.
I paused it a few times at 0:23 It seems like a cut out picture of a man smiling as it is falling down but looks also like maybe a reflection or silhouette or perhaps maybe an entity? Creepy though.
@@AnthonyOldhandGarcia Stage hand, trying to duck.
@@Gearhead-en8dz Could be but looks weird looking.
0:22, they have someone snooping outside :D Is it that hard for the crew to stay away from windows? :D
lol!
This is why Jerry Seinfeld couldn't go through with it in-universe on his sitcom.
Actually he just didn't want a change in lifestyle.
Never anything this deep.
We don’t want to lose you as our babysitter.. lmao
This is EXTREMELY on the mark. It's very healthy to sit down afterwards and talk about things. It's more common than not for a threesome to be disappointing, lame, or upsetting. They can be good. But for them to have a threesome with their babysitter probably wasn't a great decision as they already had a positive business and "almost family" relationship with her. That's putting a lot of good stuff at stake.
Having said all that, a threesome can be super fun. As unspontaneous as it may seem, you have to talk out limits, protection, etc. ahead of time so no one's feelings get hurt. Make sure everyone understands the meaning of consent. But if you've got all that, everyone is feeling the vibe and excited, go for it. Mistakes will be made no matter what, so learn from them, like the people in this skit.
Heather Graham could turn a flamboyant man straight 🐕🎸
Ana Gasteyer is underrated.
By whom? Where? When? She was a member of the cast repeatedly due to her talent, has a career due to her talent, and you and many thousands of people know her name because of her talent. So who exactly is underrating her?
I can't offer an opinion on that since I haven't been in a three way with her.
@@rubert134 makes the save
Love her so much
Ana is an SNL favorite of mine, along with Hartman, Lovitz, Jan Hooks, and Mya Rudolph
The punchline was the only funny part.
Agreed it was more like a scene from a play than a comedy sketch.
whats going on at the window at 0:25 ??
Jamie White Chris Parnell's reflection on the glass.
that was no reflection
Jamie White Oh yeah, you mean at 0:23 ? Looks like a mannequin falling off...
guys its a set. probably some sound guy
fucking dracula!!
Man I love Ana Gasteyer. Totally unfair she didn't seem to have as much of a movie career as her SNL alum from that era.
She is pretty active in the theatre. I saw her in Wicked a few years ago and she was pretty awesome.
She also is the lead in American Auto, created by Justin Spitzer who was the creator of Superstore
Writers don't do anything really funny for women, they're either cute enough to be a cutesy character or ignored.
@@StarWarsMoments Odd, this skit was written by a woman.
@@MrRwk314 Aw just kidding we don't hire women
That stage hand in the door window at 0:23 though. LOL
All I could think about is his tiny arms lol
Psycadelic Gaming he looks like a lego man
How are his arms so short, and his neck so long?
Mens' clothes in the 90s were HUGE
Yea this was like a video exhibition of healthy communication through awkward feelings and moments. Rather than a skit. You and your wife had a three way. You and you wife tried to spice it up and it went awkwardly.
I had no idea Heather Graham had host...
I’m pretty sure this is a riff on a movie that Heather Graham did with Robert Downey Junior. So for people saying it’s awkward it’s supposed to be because that’s what the movie was like.
The roller girl that I like!
iS hE tHe VoIcE oF mOrTy'S dAD?
+alZiiHardstylez Yes. Yes he is.
And the voice of Cyril Figgis on Archer.
Holy shit, it is. He even looks like Morty's Dad.
StreakyBaconMan and like Cyril :D
His name is Jerry, you uncultured swine(the last part is a joke)
Lol, I feel sooo sooo sooo old when you ask a question like that!!!
never knew people who engaged in such things who didn't end in disaster... it's not healthy
Sounds like whoever wrote this skit had some issues.
Yep...involving a Sucrets and a nickel
That's all these sketches are today.
This is why you do 2 guys, or 1 guy and a confirmed lesbian. Most men can't really deal properly with 2 women, unless the girls are also super into eachother. I'm sure there are a few out there, but in general you can't expect the man to be the highlight of the night for both women.
Chris Parnell was awesome. The babysitter. Hahahah
"Cold and uneaten"
Cold and uneaten ....
"I was parked up there on the bureau"
Did not see the video tape bit coming...excellent ending.
"Oh come on yourself". slipped that one in lol.
These never end well lol
If I've learned anything in life, it's don't include a good babysitter in a three-way. It just gets weird and you lose the babysitter.
He's effortlessly Jerry at all times.
I just realized that was Jerry Cool
My Debbie says this is brutally honest and is probably the norm when a loving partner is talked into a three some. Indulging in such can never lead to anything good, healthy or up-building for any of the people involved.
Those crazy 80's sitcoms
LMAO, this is about right. I wouldn't know but, this sounds like par for the course.
Great throwback! I need more guys! MORE INPUT!!!!
SNL cast people you couldn't imagine actually doing it. Heather Graham and any other two people sure.
She SPRINTED out of there
In a three-way, there’s always a loser.
I've been in one 3 way (girl, girl, guy) and it was epic! As I see it, the secret to having a good experience is to not be in a romantic relationship with anyone else involved. No one gets jealous and there are no strings attached.
The reason porn sex is so awesome? Those folks know they're there for 1 reason. Same with real life, IF one (or 2) can make it happen. Mad Dog 20/20, a little rope, and a skinny belt...
that was awkward
My favourite line - “Come on yourself!”
This is why you have a three way with two girls you're not in a relationship with!😁
It always seems simple on TV, often it causes huge problems. No matter what the couple goes into it thinking, no matter what rules are laid down. It can work out, but often it becomes a huge stumbling block within a marriage.
Heather Graham. Hottest Woman Ever!
Did anyone else notice someone ducking behind the door at 0:21
A 3-way with Heather Graham and Anna Gasteyer would be soooooo hot!
Gut punch that this aired 25 years ago
Heather Graham in Boogie Nights was awesome..