Can Two Unmarried Christians Kiss Each Other?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
  • Is Kissing allowed between two unmarried Christians in a relationship?
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Комментарии • 150

  • @JaszOudi
    @JaszOudi 4 месяца назад +91

    I used to think kissing was okay because that was the way I expressed my love until I realized I was a canal man and I was a natural man and until God began to work in me, Now I have decided not to kiss or allow anyone touch me because my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. So Lord your girl is sorry

  • @justinafikayomi_JFK.
    @justinafikayomi_JFK. 4 месяца назад +32

    Pastor Kay said "Your thinking needs to be sanctified", Amen! 😂

  • @toluwanimiomolowo
    @toluwanimiomolowo 4 месяца назад +84

    So profound. Kissing is to arouse and not to satisfy. Why start a fire, if you don't want to burn.

  • @Debbie_obasi
    @Debbie_obasi 4 месяца назад +127

    Kissing is made to arouse not satisfy. Thank you PK

  • @Jane-ig4um
    @Jane-ig4um 4 месяца назад +64

    I had a strong conviction not to do this while in relationship and here is another confirmation. Thank you Sir for saying it how it is and not going through the corners.😊

  • @rachelessien4723
    @rachelessien4723 4 месяца назад +130

    This is the first video I have come across that has really addressed this topic. Your stance is very clear and doesn't leave room for any assumptions. Thank you Pastor K.

  • @abosedeotitoju6013
    @abosedeotitoju6013 4 месяца назад +29

    Pastor K, the way you explained this ehn, infact you blew my mind. I have had a hard time explaining to some Christians why kissing before marriage is out of the question ❤❤❤.

  • @rhashaunajoseph7869
    @rhashaunajoseph7869 4 месяца назад +40

    AMEN PASTOR SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT “TWO SINGLE UNMARRIED PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE KISSING” !!!!!!!

  • @shikan.d.favour4792
    @shikan.d.favour4792 3 месяца назад +2

    Hmmm, I grew up in Church, I attended single programs, but for the first time in my life I have heard true message every single Christian needs to hear, the discipleship going on in many churches is not promoting Holiness, Purity and consecration among the single Christians, until I started spending time in God's word the messages from the pulpit really clouded my sense of judgement. Thank you Jesus for such messages in this times and seasons, God bless you Man of God. The Holy Spirit convicted me of so many things from the past when I started spending time in His word(The Bible) this message is indeed a confirmation. Sanctification is really necessary in our journey, but how many ministries are taking new converts through this process, every new believer deserves to know the whole truth of God's word and grow from there.....Hmmm God have mercy

  • @jabaridavid1256
    @jabaridavid1256 4 месяца назад +7

    What you said about kissing arouses not satisfies, that really impacted me.

  • @munachimsoezeamaku5612
    @munachimsoezeamaku5612 4 месяца назад +21

    Thank you for addressing this topic without mincing words sir.
    It’s the seriousness and funny but true examples for me😂😂

  • @omezikamugwa9942
    @omezikamugwa9942 4 месяца назад +5

    Pastor Kingsley is too nice…I came here because I thought Pastor Mildred will answer the question 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @yunogreg
    @yunogreg Месяц назад +2

    I prayed to Jesus to show me the answer, and he did!! This clears up so much.

  • @CYNTHIASOMMA
    @CYNTHIASOMMA 4 месяца назад +17

    We know these things. They have never changed but our guys do not agree in our relationships, they insist on being satisfied sexually

    • @love19895
      @love19895 4 месяца назад +17

      Then you should insist on keeping God first! Even if that means politely and firmly excusing yourself from these relationships. Your own husband should not come before God further more for a man who is not EVEN your husband.
      Sexual satisfaction is for a HUSBAND not a boyfriend or EVEN a fiancé.
      We as women need to stop letting these kinds of ungodly thinking men deplete our moral and spiritual bank and stand up firmly for what we know about God and the way HE would like us to live.

    • @HisGraceIsSufficient555
      @HisGraceIsSufficient555 4 месяца назад +1

      @@love19895 Amen sis!!

    • @kennethchukwukammadu4005
      @kennethchukwukammadu4005 4 месяца назад +6

      On the contrary...
      We're searching for the sisters who won't call us weaklings or other names because we don't want to touch them before marriage!

    • @HisGraceIsSufficient555
      @HisGraceIsSufficient555 4 месяца назад +3

      @@kennethchukwukammadu4005 If a woman does that it’s a quick and easy way for you to weed out the ones that are not for you.

    • @derickjd5274
      @derickjd5274 3 месяца назад

      You also want it my dear. Stop pretending 😂😂

  • @betheleyo2701
    @betheleyo2701 4 месяца назад +14

    I love Pastor K's energy on this

  • @enlessmalikhwa
    @enlessmalikhwa 4 месяца назад +11

    When I had this question myself, I kept imagining Jesus Christ and the example he led. Like did we ever hear that Jesus kissed someone somewhere because he liked them...?? No!! And that was the basis for my judgement. We need to be completely Holy!!! That is what is required of us

  • @chesyabwanausi2231
    @chesyabwanausi2231 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for this. I know a couple who merely hugged after the exchange of vows. They preferred that any contact that might lead to arousal be private.

  • @valentinerudo
    @valentinerudo 4 месяца назад +10

    I learned so much from this video
    Christianity is really a journey. Thank you Pastor K

  • @abidemigbemi9019
    @abidemigbemi9019 Месяц назад

    God bless you abundantly Sir. I thought I was been too over spiritual for not permiting all sorts of physical touch like kissing, cuddling.The guy I was in a relationship with, broke up with me because of this particular subject matter. God bless your ministry Sir.

  • @ChiamakaChiamaka-wh4dd
    @ChiamakaChiamaka-wh4dd 16 дней назад

    God please I'm really sorry,i don't know that kissing is a sin,am deeply sorry 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏 have mercy on me

  • @sarahbaks
    @sarahbaks 3 месяца назад

    Thank you very much Pastor K for addressing this. We are called to a holy life in everything we do. The purpose and motive for any action should reveal and glorify Jesus 🙏

  • @PIPI-LOVE
    @PIPI-LOVE 4 месяца назад +31

    Can an unmarried person kiss an unmarried person kiss in your church 😂. No biko ohh
    Some kind of hug self most times is uncomfortable in church not to talk of kissing
    Daddy don't mind them they know the right answer in their heart😂😂😂

  • @Grace-to6hn
    @Grace-to6hn 3 месяца назад

    Subscribed. You are really the first person I've seen that answered this question directly. You left no doubts in your answer. God bless you sir.

  • @ko6081
    @ko6081 Месяц назад

    This is very good. Kissing is the beginning of arousal. So you’ll be starting a fire you can’t put out. Thank you!

  • @angelabassakpo589
    @angelabassakpo589 4 месяца назад +1

    God richly bless you man of God. You have said the truth. God bless you

  • @itoroakwa3415
    @itoroakwa3415 4 месяца назад +6

    Thank you, sir. This video explains the topic really well.
    God bless you, sir.

  • @Your_tecksis
    @Your_tecksis 4 месяца назад +1

    😂😂😂the way Pastor K answered this. Thank you sir.

  • @naomiwilda3183
    @naomiwilda3183 4 месяца назад +2

    Clear, simple and precise🔥🔥🔥 May God bless you Pastor

  • @official_creania2006
    @official_creania2006 4 месяца назад +7

    Wow 😳 I'm so cleared on this

  • @okeogheneozomaro1920
    @okeogheneozomaro1920 3 месяца назад

    This is the best answer so far😂😂😂. Thank you Pastor

  • @Jesurun670
    @Jesurun670 4 месяца назад +5

    God bless you sir, you are doing your part, more grace

  • @evansglobal1
    @evansglobal1 4 месяца назад +2

    Hmm, interesting 🤔. I've been doing my personal research on this topic and I have heard similar answers from many ministers of God, that kissing outside marriage is sinful. But I have one question to ask: if kissing is biblically wrong outside the marital framework, why then does the Scriptures admonish Christians to greet one another with an ‘holy kiss’ (Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26; 1 Peter 5:14)? Note that the word ‘kiss’ appears about 46 times in the entire Bible 📖 and not one reference to it was sexual or lustful. Please can someone help me out? Remain blessed in Jesus' name 🙏.
    #TrueTalkMatters
    #EvangelistGlobal

  • @nokwazi_malinga
    @nokwazi_malinga 4 месяца назад +7

    This is so clear -Thank you so much Sir!

  • @zinnyafams7938
    @zinnyafams7938 4 месяца назад +1

    Pastor K, always driving home the point. God bless you Sir❤

  • @splendydom
    @splendydom 4 месяца назад

    Finally an answer to my hidden question, I kept asking the holyspirit if kissing was bad, and im certain he was the one that brought me here.

  • @transfildahkasiya3051
    @transfildahkasiya3051 4 месяца назад +4

    Wow I 💯agree with this!thank you sir what a blessing to this generation 🙏

  • @VictoriaChimaroke
    @VictoriaChimaroke 3 месяца назад

    Pst K just gained a follower 😍😍🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😍😍

  • @BongiKovax
    @BongiKovax 17 дней назад

    Thank you this has helped me thank u

  • @Purityadvocate
    @Purityadvocate 4 месяца назад +2

    Hmmn!!
    Yes Pastey.
    Thank you so much for this.❤

  • @pabalelomashiloane5793
    @pabalelomashiloane5793 4 месяца назад +1

    Truth always hits hard…. Thank u sir❤️

  • @TheRealReservedRuky
    @TheRealReservedRuky 4 месяца назад

    God bless you Sir for this! 📌📌❤️

  • @obichukwuchrist8518
    @obichukwuchrist8518 4 месяца назад +5

    Thanks so much and highly appreciated

  • @faithomojo4117
    @faithomojo4117 4 месяца назад +3

    I love this!!!!
    Thank youuuuu so much sir!!!

  • @thenaomiuba
    @thenaomiuba 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you so much for such wisdom sir!!!

  • @veranwankwo5706
    @veranwankwo5706 4 месяца назад +1

    Amazing and well detailed answers you gave there.
    Thank you, sir.

  • @zeruiahzeechize2068
    @zeruiahzeechize2068 4 месяца назад +1

    The question may also have been sent by someone who may be trying to ctest the pastor's views and spiritual values

  • @ChisomOkolie12
    @ChisomOkolie12 4 месяца назад +1

    God bless you PK! Very important!🔥🔥🔥

  • @je39981
    @je39981 4 месяца назад +1

    Amen, I will be kissing. I think there's kissing and then making out. Kissing could be a peck and a brief greeting. On the other hand, making out is where the petting comes in which I do believe that's a boundary crossed. Boundaries are important. Some couples kiss and some decide to not kiss. Some kissed and then decide to no longer kiss.

  • @lindahnamubiru218
    @lindahnamubiru218 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Pastor I'm really blessed ❤

  • @onyiorahchukwuebuka-xb9uu
    @onyiorahchukwuebuka-xb9uu 4 месяца назад +3

    May God bless you forever sir.

  • @rosaliadavid3954
    @rosaliadavid3954 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you very much Sir!

  • @sarahadewuni1662
    @sarahadewuni1662 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so much Sir

  • @SafeHavenGrace37
    @SafeHavenGrace37 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this confirmation!!🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @jessemcjordanm9935
    @jessemcjordanm9935 4 месяца назад

    Loved this
    Bro cooked
    🔥

  • @wearethemicanas
    @wearethemicanas 4 месяца назад +3

    God bless you pastor K!

  • @Esther_nwachukwuu
    @Esther_nwachukwuu 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you sir for this clarity ❤

  • @faingunshijoan5031
    @faingunshijoan5031 4 месяца назад +2

    I see some people kissing in their pre-wedding photos and engagement photos, and I am what on earth????

    • @Chiekwugo
      @Chiekwugo 4 месяца назад

      If they're traditionally married, what's wrong with them kissing?

    • @orocktakangagbor4177
      @orocktakangagbor4177 4 месяца назад

      Even if 6.9 BILLION PEOPLE fornicate out of 7 BILLION PEOPLE ON EARTH will that make it CORRECT??
      When the church gives a law it's a standard if many people are doing what's wrong it doesn't make it right or It doesn't mean it's approved by God, yes through the mercies of God that can be tolerated but still not approved
      Not everyone will necessarily cheat or stop loving thier spouse even if they have sex before marriage but does that make fornication right for such a couple??
      Right or wrong is not defined by majority
      Majority might do wrong and be pardoned by God's mercy but you that knowledge or awareness will be treated differently
      So watch out & peacefully spread the message in patience that they might change!!,
      Some people always think life being holy is boring so the prefer to sin and make God forgive them but trust me this is because of prematurity in the Christian faith, when they grow they will realize that holy living is far more satisfying both spiritually and emotionally than intentional living in sin and asking forgiveness almost like provoking God

    • @dipolasoju8912
      @dipolasoju8912 4 месяца назад

      You are dense for saying this

    • @Chiekwugo
      @Chiekwugo 4 месяца назад

      @@dipolasoju8912 Nigerians love making something that is simple to appear complicated. The original question you asked exposes your limitations to the basic knowledge of marital background

  • @DavidBash-be9gd
    @DavidBash-be9gd 3 месяца назад

    God bless you sir.

  • @Marilyntours
    @Marilyntours 4 месяца назад +3

    Be blessed Sir

  • @eldaahgabriyella4810
    @eldaahgabriyella4810 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much Sir 🙏🏼

  • @adegbemirojoseph6927
    @adegbemirojoseph6927 4 месяца назад

    well said sir. God bless you

  • @FaithUnplugged7
    @FaithUnplugged7 4 месяца назад +5

    Louder sir 👏 🙌 🙏 👌

  • @iswatoladele
    @iswatoladele 3 месяца назад +2

    Someone pleaseeee share this with the American church 😭😭

    • @derickjd5274
      @derickjd5274 3 месяца назад

      I love the message but not sure I want to practice that😂😂😂😂. We don't have sex but cuddling and kissing not sure I will stop. Nice teachings though

  • @JethroMicah
    @JethroMicah Месяц назад

    What then should be done after falling for the lust. Break the relationship or what???

  • @fingerstouch5975
    @fingerstouch5975 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you Pastor

  • @preciouschinweike2600
    @preciouschinweike2600 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Sir!

  • @ShubieSani
    @ShubieSani 4 месяца назад

    Lesson learnt...thank you

  • @VICTORETIM-n4r
    @VICTORETIM-n4r 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you sir

  • @iamsamuelnguiffo
    @iamsamuelnguiffo 4 месяца назад +3

    The spirit of the law. Oh yeah

  • @etietopumana1279
    @etietopumana1279 4 месяца назад +2

    Well said Sir

  • @TalentedLevite
    @TalentedLevite 2 дня назад

    God have mercy, i don commit oh, i don kissed my babe before i watched this video oh 😢

  • @itumelengprincess2031
    @itumelengprincess2031 4 месяца назад +2

    Well addressed , wowwww!

  • @liz9664
    @liz9664 4 месяца назад +42

    Hehehe, someone who is not married is watching this now but has kissed and will continue to kiss another who is also unmarried. 😂
    Flee sexual temptation my dearies.

  • @eunyju7284
    @eunyju7284 2 месяца назад

    Thank you. Bad question.

  • @nellykh1900
    @nellykh1900 4 месяца назад

    Two pastors who just got engaged kissed in front of their friends while breaking the news to them 🚶🏻‍♀️🚶🏻‍♀️

    • @HopeOgbili
      @HopeOgbili 4 месяца назад

      Talking about pst jamal and kari...i was surprised too...but u know these are doctrines....and it differs from church to church

    • @IsabelKafui
      @IsabelKafui 4 месяца назад

      It doesn't differ. God's word is God's word everywhere. It is Sin and they need to repent​@@HopeOgbili

  • @ADENIYI-MERCY-ADEOLA
    @ADENIYI-MERCY-ADEOLA 4 месяца назад

    Thank you pk

  • @Shanice-qs1wy
    @Shanice-qs1wy 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you

  • @tegaokeme1057
    @tegaokeme1057 4 месяца назад +2

    Wow 🔥 🔥 🔥 of HIS Truth
    #TruthAtAllCost

  • @oseiosei-bonsu5318
    @oseiosei-bonsu5318 4 месяца назад +1

    How about kissing on the forehead? And kissing the hand? Not on the lips.

    • @NisoDays
      @NisoDays Месяц назад

      You will soon land on the lips, it's just a matter of time.. Take heed.

  • @mofoluwasoadeyemi7753
    @mofoluwasoadeyemi7753 4 месяца назад +2

    God bless you sir. More grace

  • @cattyreals572
    @cattyreals572 3 месяца назад

    Dear God please I'm sorry😢😢😢😭😭

  • @theglobalmc
    @theglobalmc 4 месяца назад

    Lovvvveeeee iiiiittttttt! May God help us!

  • @thando_tlng
    @thando_tlng 4 месяца назад +2

    AMEN AND AMEN🙏🏻

  • @user-Esther1908
    @user-Esther1908 4 месяца назад +3

    Thanks

  • @sheillaoppong7751
    @sheillaoppong7751 4 месяца назад +1

    Mercy Lord 😢

  • @kipkuruihillary9137
    @kipkuruihillary9137 4 месяца назад +1

    We are called to live a holy life.

  • @briankirimi3611
    @briankirimi3611 4 месяца назад +1

    i didn't know cuddling is part of sexual outercourse, is it?

    • @eldaahgabriyella4810
      @eldaahgabriyella4810 4 месяца назад

      Yes it is. You don't start just like that right. You get in the mood, get aroused and eventually help your body get ready for the s*x. That's why girls get w*t and guys hard.. God made our bodies so, but not for the purpose of extra-marital adventures. So it's a prep process to intercourse.

    • @dorcaso1619
      @dorcaso1619 4 месяца назад +2

      Arouse
      It leads to that next step
      Why entertain it before marriage?

  • @annette-zamar
    @annette-zamar 4 месяца назад +6

    Outercourse+intercourse=sinnercourse😂

  • @genesisogwuche7103
    @genesisogwuche7103 4 месяца назад +5

    No scriptures says we can't lick ear sir 😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Thank you so much pastor

  • @KornyiEmmaculate
    @KornyiEmmaculate 4 месяца назад +2

    A question please,can two individuals who aren't joint in holy matrimony in church but have done traditional and cort wedding allowed to have sex?

    • @prettygemini3432
      @prettygemini3432 4 месяца назад

      A marriage is a marriage please. If it's officiated and is signed in court it's a marriage. But everyone can or want to get married in a church

  • @hannahagbor3329
    @hannahagbor3329 4 месяца назад +2

    In conclusion, if you want to live a HOLY LIFE, do it. If not, then go and live with the Unbelievers.
    It's not just about what we do but the SPIRIT in which we do it.
    Thank you, PK 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @nekabarizornaata9299
    @nekabarizornaata9299 3 месяца назад

    Kissing is made to arouse not satisfy.

  • @davidedit4313
    @davidedit4313 18 дней назад

    God forgive me 😢.

  • @favourmgbojikwe8045
    @favourmgbojikwe8045 4 месяца назад +1

    Hugging nko?

  • @GlowingEse
    @GlowingEse 4 месяца назад +1

    3:20 🔥🔥

  • @Jide_jide
    @Jide_jide 2 месяца назад

    Is kissing a sexual activity only ?
    Sex starts in the mind..abi

    • @Jide_jide
      @Jide_jide 2 месяца назад

      Should we stop thinking because it's also part of sex?

  • @bensonbanda4446
    @bensonbanda4446 4 месяца назад +1

    Amen 🙏

  • @PrincessZambwe
    @PrincessZambwe 4 месяца назад

    Amen❤they will beat the demon out of you😂

  • @NanaKwameYEBOAH-g2d
    @NanaKwameYEBOAH-g2d 4 месяца назад +1

    Hmmm

  • @graceacquah246
    @graceacquah246 4 месяца назад +4

    Hmmm🙃🙂