About those vintage cutting boards...With very rare exceptions, cutting boards are made of teak, walnut, or pine. All of those species of wood have volatile oils and a surface cell structure that is quite deadly to bacteria. In scientific studies of wooden cutting boards (they tested teak, pine, and beech) versus "sanitary" polyethylene boards, they could not discover ANY bacteria after five minutes on the wooden boards. Even on wooden boards used to chop raw meat and poultry, even when the boards were wet and left wet. Nope. The wooden boards were more sterile than the supposedly impervious plastic cutting boards. The older and more close-grained the wood, the more effective it is at destroying bacteria. This is true even with 100-year-old wood. A vintage chopping board is one of the safest and most sanitary choices you can make. I can supply the scientific references for you if you are interested. Please, go ahead and use your vintage cutting boards. Wash them with a gentle blend of warm water and soap, oil them with food-safe mineral oil, and chop to your heart's content.
You never cease to amaze me with your thoughtful and realistic ideas. You not only have great ideas, but you are freaking awesome at communicating them as well. Keep up the good work, what you do is so appreciated.
1. I didn't spend money on open shelves because I know my messy husband and kids will never keep them the way I'd like. 2. I didn't spent money on a console entryway table because they don't have storage. Instead, I got a large cabinet and use it to store all my candles, home fragrances and occasional decor. 3. I didn't spend money on ready-made furniture for my livingroom. I got a custom-made sectional sofa that fits perfectly within my space and chose a durable fabric that my kids won't be able to ruin. 4. I didn't buy any trendy large furniture. I opted for the calm peices with the idea that I can always juggle with the small decor peices instead of wasting my money on the expensive large pieces and getting stuck with them. 5. I didn't waste my money on cheap art that does not mean anything to me. Although my walls are bare, I am saving up and looking forward to putting up only the art that I genuinely want to be hung on my walls.
Hi :) can you please tell me the company and durable fabric you used? I am looking to buy my first couch and I am looking for something stylish and durable that can last me several years.
really agree with the excessive dining areas in a home. growing up in the 90s, it seems de rigeur to have the eat in kitchen and a formal dining room that is never used. when I bought my second home (a single family house), it was the first time we had an excess of space (my other residence being an apartment in the city). I told my husband that we don't need an EIK plus a dining room; why not just eat in the dining room all the time, and make every meal feel special? and that's what we did. the dining room was further styled like a library so not only do we eat in it every night, we can also read and work during other hours among all the books and decor.
I SO agree. I cannot remember a single time eating at the formal diningroom table. We did ay my grandmas for holidays, but never at my house. I'll be moving into a bigger apartment soon that'll most likely have an eik area with a dining room area. I want to use it as a gym space. Not the most ascetically pleasing, but it's a much better use of the space.
15:50. I love you! Finally a designer who doesn’t flood the most in demand seating of the sofa with a mountain of pillows with nowhere to move them to!
I can't be without my sideboard! It's my fav piece of furniture and is where I enjoy showcasing my personal style! Is that a sideboard behind you in the video? 🤣
I got a side board to store all of our board games. So they are right there when we have game nights. And we needed a really long one because we have a large dining room. But "side boards" get pretty pricey. So I just found a little 2 door cabinet I really liked and ordered 3 of them to put right next to each other. It works great!
Aunt Kiva has spoken more words of wisdom than we could have thought possible. Say thank you. Thank you from the bottom of our pocketbooks- and hearts,of course.
I inherited an antique Stickley buffet that is in my combo living - dining room.I honestly don't know what I'd do for storage without it. Beside that it is beautiful, & we like the ambiance antique furniture gives.
I bought 6 dining room chairs instead of 8. I used the same seat cushions in the kitchen & just bring them in for entertaining. It looks nice & now it’s more spacious in the dining room as a result.
Very thoughtful video, Kiva. Yes, I have a Brookstone lumbar pillow that I use for traveling. Love it! I do, however, also have a dining room sideboard that I have had for over 30 years in a formal dining room. It holds my various table linens, serving pieces and various holiday table decorations. I use everything that I have accumulated over the years. (I know, I know, I am dating myself). I have a wood burning fireplace and love it. I use it often every fall and winter. I often light a fire just for me (not just when I am entertaining during cold months). It is all a matter of priorities and what you love.
I love extra storage. My sideboard has games, toys all kinds of fun things, As much as I like open shelves there is no way you can store anything in them.
You are soooo right for all of these things in the video!! 4 years ago I realized that my dining table and chairs are useless to me and they just took up valuable space in my living room and that the space could be better used otherwise. Since I live on my own, I usually eat with a tray on my lap on the couch in front of the TV, as I always did even younger at my parents' house. So I sent my IKEA dining table to my parents' basement (they have plenty of storage) and rearranged the 4 chairs throughout the house so that they would serve a purpose as well. Now the vacant space is used as a dancing practice area (my favorite hobby) and I couldn't be more happy! Also there was a fortunate timing when all of that happened, just before COVID locked us in our homes, so I had the space I needed for my online dancing lessons. When I will need a dining table, I will search for a small expandable one, so that it doesn't take up space in my appartment. You are wonderfu Kiva! Keep up the good job!!!
Ooooh I relate to that! If you want space for dancing in your home, it's ridiculous how much furniture all of a sudden is not needed anymore.😊 (I decluttered my bedframe for that matter and sleep on a matress on the floor which I fold up against the wall during the day.)
I recently purchased both a console and a sideboard. I absolutely LOVE them! They are so beautiful and very functional. I have a very small house and they take up valuable space but since they provide storage, the trade-off is a non-issue.
I think of a sideboard as a landing space. As one brings food from the kitchen to the eaters, it's an elegant solution for the need for a staging area. Just like in a restaurant, the server drops the tray on the sideboard and serves from there. It's also a nice space for a buffet spread.
I have an atypical approach to pillows. I have them on the sofas, but they're smaller than usual and squashy. You can actually sit down without worrying about them. They provide visual interest and you can pile them up if you want support.
When I moved into my condo the previous owner abandoned their sideboard, I moved it to the living room where it is now a fancy entertainment center. One less piece of furniture to buy.
I agree with most of these. I made the mistake of buying a 3-seater sectional years ago and what I’ve found is, I can rarely be bothered to squish into the corner to lay down as it’s too far from the fire/tv. And when we have visitors, they tend to sit uncomfortably on the leg part with no one sitting in the corner seat. A separate ottoman is a much better idea - far more versatile. The only one on your list that I disagreed with was the lumbar pillow. I use the one in my bedroom to support my head when reading, my living room one supports my head when watching tv and the one on my patio dining chair supports my lumbar region. I wouldn’t be without them.
You can get a beautiful cutting board that isn't vintage. There are plenty of carpenters, craftsmen and artists that make and sell them. Maintenance isn't complicated, you may just have to treat the wood with an oil regularly (you can use very cheap mineral oil). I bought one as a gift for my husband last year and it's a statement piece in our kitchen that we use every single day.
Wow. I've been shopping for a sectional because I want to somehow divide the space between the dining area and living area. Then the other day I found the perfect small sectional but it is SO expensive! Now, I love the ottoman idea. So much to think about! Also, this condo came with a heavy chandelier in the little breakfast nook area that dictated where the table had to go - but I study there - and hit my head on that chandelier. Changing to a flush mount was the BEST decision.
You might want to consider an armless sofa or loveseat as the divider. I’m doing that to separate the dining area and living area … facing sofas are a lot more conducive to conversation than a sectional and it definitely helps to define the functional spaces
I really love playing your videos in the morning when I'm cooking breakfast! Love your tips and communication style. Really appreciate what you're sharing with the world, it genuinely has a positive impact! Thank you!
Traditional fireplaces funnel the heat right up the chimney with the smoke. If you put in a fireplace insert, it will actually funnel the heat into the room , and keep you cozy without burning through logs really quickly. They’re almost as efficient as wood stoves and fit inside your fireplace. Since you close them, you can just let it burn down safely.
I do not NEED the chaise, BUT I absolutely want it for myself so everyone has to sit elsewhere. 😄Thankfully, my room is a great size so yep, keeping it on the list. I've had a sofa and ottoman for years and definitely ready for the chaise.
Please listen to her. Like you, I just HAD to have a chaise sectional, so I got one. Because of Covid, I waited 10 months to get it and absolutely HATE it. It is awkward to sit on and really uncomfortable. I should have gone with a sofa and added an ottoman. Sooo, $1500 later, I’m trying to find a furniture maker who can convert the chaise part to an end unit for a reasonable price. Strictly my own personal experience..good luck
@@brendaindallas9880 I watch frequently and know the fabric of my life and the set up of my home. Thank you for weighing in, but this particular tip just doesn't apply to me.
I love the chaise life!!!! I seriously have only had a couch with a chaise for my own spaces because I didn't like the lack of one growing in my parent's house. I can imagine the waste of space of the ottomans too.. I am just not a fan of ottomans
@@stefanianzo9907 Yes, if the ottoman doesn't have storage it can be inconvenient at times. I'm looking at furniture now and will DEFINTELY be ordering a chaise.
I couldn’t agree more. I have a massive dining area that is empty due to not knowing what to do with it. We have no family or company and never eat at a table. Someday I will figure it out. I love all your videos. Such good info.
OMG, Ive been trying to decide between a traditional sofa or one with a chaise. Less than a minute into this video and Kiva has made the decision for me - love her!
Get the chaise 🤣 I love mine. You don’t NEED it but if your budget and space allows it’s actually a very practical purchase. I don’t regret my purchase one bit
I’ve used a sideboard for many things. To set up desserts or charcuterie, for off season candles and it’s great for storing board games that are often played on the dining table. I use it also for my sons’s school craft supplies, platters, chargers and placemats.
We spend all of our time in the family room, so the formal living room never gets used and the formal dining room never gets used because we always use the breakfast nook in the kitchen. The spaces are fully furnished and decorated "for company" but we never actually have company lol. And in the 11 years I've lived in my home, I'd never thought of my wood burning fireplace as anything other than a spot to decorate around for the holidays.... had never used it once.... until last year when a winter storm hit and we were without electricity and heat for several days, with temps in the low teens.
We lived in a brownstone for about 30 years. I had the most gorgeous fireplace in the living room and never used it once! Who wants all that stuff, maybe smoke idk burning next to your nice furniture! But it was great to decorate!
Uh, this is why I don't like the open space trend. It feels like living in a studio. Plus the smell from the kitchen can easily get into your couches. You may not smell it because you live in your home, but guests can smell it. It can even get into your clothes. People don't think about stuff like this. I prefer closed kitchens with open walkways.
I have this couch that has a detachable ottoman situation. It was from ikea - its the coolest thing ever bc depending on how your maneuver the cushions around you can create a couch with an ottoman OR attach it on the left or right side again depending on how the cushions are placed on the sofa - instantly become a chaise lounge 😀 definitely affordable and practical for Any living situation!
@@ltgemini1599 I have been legit searching their website and can not find it (I got it a long time ago) can't remember the name ofcourse - I have a feeling they stopped making that model. I'm sure you can get couches in pieces though and put them together how you want so you have lots of options for your space. I have seen sectionals that do that - you put them together to create the sofa you need vs spending money on something that may not fit 🤔
I have a 4 x 5" cutting board and one little bit larger. I'm always moving them into the kitchen where I'm working. So I never really thought about it.. This sound to earth shattering I will have to check this out. Thanks
To me, their dust and grease collectors. I have a cat and a kitchen open to the living room so anything that isn’t going to be used and washed/wiped down daily cannot be left out.
This is hilarious. I am hands down a chaise sectional fan. I love sprawling out on them, that’s how I’m the most comfortable. And I hate ottomans. Maybe it’s because we have dogs, but they’re always getting moved around and I find it annoying dragging them back into place. I’m suddenly into chandlers, but I agree totally not necessary.
I agree! I do not like ottomans because it gets in the way of a coffee table and then I don't like the way how ottomans look on their own seperate from the couch!! Also... Ottomans as a coffee table??? I would have to purchase sperate pieces to set food items like a server. For this, the chaise sectional is just a cost and life saver for me... I sprawl on the couch as well lol
@@naromiesbeninche6975 that’s what keeps me from going that route but the chaise sofa I want would be too big for my current space so I’m waiting. My son just bought one for his apt and loves it. To each their own. Like she says, we have to do what works for our space and lifestyles. 🥰
@@michellem3879 that's true it more often whichever can fit the place! My thinking is that At least with the sectional I figure that 2 people can lay down at once(me and My hubby).I am moving to Texas soon. I am worried whether the sofa would work for the new place (haven't seen it yet.. only had a 3D virtual tour)but I really want that sectional so we both can get cozy at the same time. @stefani I hate the Ottoman too. I never opened it 🤣🤣🤣
Same we use to have an ottoman and not the best. Also not comfortable over time it always made a gap when you wanted to use as a sectional. We race for who will go on the chaise part since it’s so comfy.
If you love the stacked vintage cutting boards but feel sketchy about using them, just get one of those plastic liner cutting mats to use on top. You can store one behind the wood board.
We always called the sideboard the buffet. You’d place large platters of food on it and guests could serve themselves and sit down. I see a lot of modern dining rooms with just a table and chairs.
I completely agree with the chaise sectional segment. I opted for a sofa and two chairs instead, and though only one person can lay down at a time, I can seat more people this way. Plus, my kids have found a way to “lay down” on the chairs.
I agree with you. It’s just my husband and myself, how much seating do we need not much. I am cutting back on throw pillows. You help me save a lot of money. 😃
I agree sideboards can create "commotion" in a small dining space. I just took the sideboard out of our dining room today and it feels SO MUCH better! Ours always had to many plants on it and it drove me bonkers. It looks so much more minimalist now- which is what I lean towards. I don't know why it took me so long! Thanks for validating me haha
OMG, Kiva, I put chandeliers wherever I can!! Two minis in my walk-in closet. I shop REALLY intensively, have the most gorgeous chandeliers, and have never paid more than $300. I bought one, a knock off of--you know the one--it has branches and crystals for leaves and the color was brassy. A real bargain because they couldn't sell it, it was so ugly. I painted it gold, keeping the darkened recesses and creases and it looks terrific in a stairwell. But I also have recessed and bulbs etc. You just have to SHOP!
I feel like if it works within your life you should get it. I take others advise with a grain of salt! If you love chandeliers and they bring you joy and you’re able to get great deals, then kudos to you!! ✌🏾♥️
@@ms.one-town901 I agree and also feel that applies to everything. There are good pieces of advice and general rules, but what excites one individual may be anathema to another. 💛
So glad I found this channel… I just moved and I haven’t bought much furniture just a couch and the cubes because I want to be aware of how I’m decorating it….I have so much extra space in my living room and still trying to figure out how I want to use it… and I don’t want my home to be cluttered
I love your honest advice, I too am guilty of some of these and have ended up selling things like a purple chandelier for example as it served no purpose and my colour scheme is more neutral as I have evolved in taste 🙂🇬🇧
I use my lumbar pillow. It really helps. Might be the type of sofa I have. AND I live in Pittsburgh too and have a gas FP. I’ve had wood burning FPs in other houses but didn’t use them much. The house I’m in already had a gas FP and it is sooo easy to use. I have realistic logs and it’s beautiful. Highly recommend converting if you think lighting and cleaning a wood burning FP is more trouble than it’s worth.
I had no idea that vintage cutting boards were a thing. I love my wooden cutting boards but in general, I don't buy vintage items for my kitchen. The materials they used way back when weren't regulated or tested for food safety the way we do now. I use glass and food safe wood in my kitchen and that's basically it. Great video!
I can definitely see how ppl’s lives evolve. I have a buffet in my dining room. However I just look at it as storage so anything decor, sunglasses, candles are all in there. I think the big thing is if you already owned something making sure you repurpose for how you live. I also agree with eliminating multiple eating areas. It may depend on how your space is laid out but typically those areas are super close to each other. I think we’re just use to buying certain furniture for certain designated spaces. I knew I didn’t want another full fledged table and chairs so I made the kitchen more cafe/lounge style. It’s not formal. I can drink coffee in the AM or open my laptop to pretend I’m at a coffeehouse. The table can fit two/three plates if need be. But to your point, dining chairs alone are pricey. So I wouldn’t bother unless I entertained a lot.
I live in Europe, in my country kitchen island are not the norm also we have close or semi open concept. I have a Mediterranean/Alentejo kitchen which are large kitchen with a big wood table and a huge stone fireplace that you can cook, never like dining rooms, no matter the occasion we eat in the kitchen, it's warmer, cozy and close to the food😊
We just got our sofa with a 35X35 inch ottoman and it's perfect! You can move in around, you can move it to the side if you need to open up the room or move it to the other side of the coffee table for parallel siting. My parents have an chaise sectional and it's very limiting especially if you ever want to rearrange the direction of your living room.
Chaise is so practical. I love it. I can even take afternoon naps on it. And best for watching movies. I think it's the most practical piece of furniture you can have in a home. Unless your space is very small, then yes, chaise is not the best.
Kiva! As usual, your information is appreciated. I use my server to hold my platters, chargers, teacup and saucer collection, teapots, candles, and my set of Christmas dishes. My server is a functional piece, and it's a beautiful espresso color. I have two gorgeous lamps on top at either end, two lovely tall chunky candlesticks, and three art deco pieces (small glass clock and two wooden busts). Maybe it's because I'm older (67), however I love my server! By the way, I live in an 800-square foot apartment with a small kitchen and limited cabinet space.
Yo i can’t understand why anyone would hit the thumbs down! Like I seriously wish I could find them ask them what’s the problem! 😡😤lolll thanks for the tips girl! I always thought those type sectionals were cute but not practical. I’m sooo glad I’m not the only one 🤗
I'm pretty minimal. The only thing I have more of are pillows. Since I live in a studio, my bed needs to look good during the day and not 'look' like just my bed. Dual purpose furniture is what it's all about. Also, The more horizontal space you have, the more it can create clutter. Thanks Kiva! 😁💜
I've been daydreaming about getting a chaise sectional - but I take your points about their potential inflexibility. My friends bought a lovely one where the chaise/ottoman piece is attachable, like with magnets or something because there isn't any velcro or anything jarring that you can see. But however it attaches, it works really well and allows them to move the addition to wherever on the sofa they want it - or to push it out to act as a temporary coffee table. Win-win!
Great tips as always :) Regarding lighting: one additional tip I would give - know in the US dimers and smart bulbs are pretty accessible, but for me - renting and in Brazil - I REALLY loved some bulbs I got that are self-dimering and would really recommend!
Once again, excellent advice. You have just talked me out of a lumbar pillow for my couch. You are so right about dining room furniture. I agree with you on fireplaces. I love them, I have had two. We used them on winter holidays. Wood is dirty, upkeep of the chimney is very expensive. They permanently use up wall space. Love your videos! ❤️ Shirley
It took me 60+ years, but I finally have a house with enough space for that chaise sofa I always wanted and I’m going to leave my boob fixtures until I’m ready for a change! I’m having trouble with figuring out what to put over the fireplace because my other half has very different likes than I do in the art department and we’re still working on counter stools! The mini upgrade for my bedroom is trying to figure out how to retrofit my gorgeous king sized midcentury modern headboard to my queen sized bed.
Have you thought of placing a mirror above your fireplace? That away it doesn’t have to be a issue between choosing styles of art, plus it can help bounce some light in the space.
My partner doesn't like wood smoke, the house has a fireplace. He sealed up the flue and we use it for vase storage. We got a fire screen that has a mid-century modern feel to it and I also put a Himalayan Salt Lamp in the firebox behind a large glass platter and the ambient glow of the ''fire'' is better than a fire, no ash mess.
Kiva great and thought-provoking video again! It made me rethink things even if to make me realize why - I do want the lounge sectional (love the look more and don't really have people over who aren't 'close' 😁), - cabinets and consoles (extra storage + surface for my plant babies) - lumbar pillows (I have ikea ones 😁) do help my back support and for cuddling but your styling tips are very useful - on the dining room isn't that applicable in my little European house haha, - energy prices are getting higher and higher and thank God most houses here come with one so we just have to break it open but you're right that you only need to do it when you do, - can't agree more on the piano! Didn't even knew people used that just for decoration 😅 Anyway much love and respect to you as always, I'm pretty sure this is a controversial one 😂
Love your videos!! If I get a notification, and I can't watch right away? Anxiety!! Tha k you for placing examples into your explanations. Images to the words , amazing!! It's great to be able to see what you are talking about fir the visual customer! Keep up the great work 👍 👏
Love the video! Not having an ottoman trains people not to put their feet up on the coffee table. As an academic I would prefer the chaise sofa for reading and grading with less stress on my knees. The ottoman is very hard on your knees and hips over time. As you age, it matters.
I'm at the age point where I prefer a recliner lol. Ottoman definitely are rough on the knees, and the chaise is tough to climb in and out of! So I'm more of a recliner type. ( elegant ones...not those big overstuffed man cave types)
Our "dining room" is now our homeschooling room and I love it so much more than having two tables to decorate and keep clean! Also, the fireplace not being used reminds me of when my sister-in-law hosted Christmas, and instead of lighting a fire in her actual fireplace she turned on RUclips and had a fake fire on the TV that is OVER the fireplace. When I asked her why she said she loved the sound and that her fireplace was gas and didn't make it. I reminded her that they had their house built from the ground up and she was the one who chose to get a gas fireplace because she didn't want to clean out soot from the fireplace.
I have a sideboard, only because it came with the set my mother-in-law gave me. I love the table and chairs, but have lately been considering getting rid of the sideboard because it does waste space, and I store things in it that are rarely used. I need to declutter those for sure! And cutting boards? I have vintage boards, but only because I have had my own for years, they were bought new. I always only use one side, to keep them "nice" on the other side... never thought of using them as display pieces. Great idea, I love it!
I don't know why I thought you were Canadian and based in Toronto :) You are just the sweetest, I love your channel! Looking on your website now too! Cheers from Nova Scotia!
So true about the chaise sectional! I had one and by the time I got rid of it, I was soooo "over" it! Lol No one ever sat on that part either. It took up space for no reason.
You must have huge homes in Pittsburgh, KB, if you can fit a piano in your living room! With these items, I think context is all important. A chandelier can look superb in a Parisienne or Grand Millenial setting, sideboards can be used as a cocktail bar, a TV stand or for hiding ugly items like printers, toys & shoes, a fireplace can be a lovely feature of a living room (as long as it’s authentic & used) & dining in the middle of the kitchen is not everyone’s cup of tea. I agree with you on the lumbar pillows & vintage chopping board though. What I don’t like are glass TV stands or open, clear cupboards where you can see tech wires. Grrr.
I believe the point she is trying to make is not to buy things just because they look nice, but invest in what you TRULY need. For example, I understand her point with the chase, but for my husband and me it suits us perfectly for 2 reasons: 1) We have a small apartment with only 1 tv that is in the living room, so we relax on the chaise every single night after dinner to watch a show. 2) We have a small group of family/friends in our town, so we never entertain large parties. She is simply giving broad directions on how we could save money and invest only in things that truly serves a purpose in our lifestyle
My dining room is used as both a place to eat and a study project area. Same with our eat in kitchen table. I find we don't have as many dining type chairs as we need, but I'm not rushing out to buy them. Instead I am keeping an eye out for chairs I really like at the restore for a good price. As long as they coordinate and they are comfortable I am good.
💯 agree on the vintage cutting board! I never understood this trend. It really grossed me out & I would never use one, therefore never buy one. I buy the shape/style I like new & use it. The more you use it (and wash it), it will age & patina naturally & you know where it’s been!
Ultimately, what one *needs* in their house is very much dependent on one’s lifestyle. As a 30-something I love to host dinner and cocktail parties. Therefore, a side table is a necessity for me to store my linens (I’m all about cloth napkins), vintage glassware, serving dishes, bar glassware, candles, etc. My bar cart is also a necessity to store my 30+ bottles of alcohol because I’m always making a signature cocktail for my parties.
I got a chaise and an ottoman. It was the best decision since I needed the long part for separating an open concept space but I also couldn't find a coffee table that worked. An ottoman does require a rug though since it will slide on wood floor.
I have a chaise sectional because it fits perfectly beside the window - the armrest is against the wall, the chaise part is along the radiator that's below the window. I wouldn't want the armrest blocking the heat. So for me it's just perfect.
Fireplaces draw heat out of your home as they go out. So you need doors to close to prevent that. I’ll have a gas fireplace in my new place, which is easy. No more wood burning fireplaces for me! I graduated from Girl Scouts a long time ago!
…as I have been waiting 5 months for my chaise sofa to arrive. 🤣🤣🤣 It IS replacing our sectional because it’s life is over and I didn’t want another sectional, lol. I felt the sectional just cut into our space, kind of swallowed it a bit, and we just don’t use “all” of it. This new chaise sofa will def open up our space, but the ottoman is definitely a smart and versatile alternative!! Great video!!! ❤️🙈😂
Whether you can do without a chandelier depends upon the room. Giant rooms with high ceilings need chandeliers. Anything smaller would throw the balance off. Using sideboards also depends on the size of the room. Large elegant dining rooms need them for formal dinner banquets as a place to put serving trays.
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About those vintage cutting boards...With very rare exceptions, cutting boards are made of teak, walnut, or pine. All of those species of wood have volatile oils and a surface cell structure that is quite deadly to bacteria. In scientific studies of wooden cutting boards (they tested teak, pine, and beech) versus "sanitary" polyethylene boards, they could not discover ANY bacteria after five minutes on the wooden boards. Even on wooden boards used to chop raw meat and poultry, even when the boards were wet and left wet. Nope. The wooden boards were more sterile than the supposedly impervious plastic cutting boards. The older and more close-grained the wood, the more effective it is at destroying bacteria. This is true even with 100-year-old wood. A vintage chopping board is one of the safest and most sanitary choices you can make. I can supply the scientific references for you if you are interested. Please, go ahead and use your vintage cutting boards. Wash them with a gentle blend of warm water and soap, oil them with food-safe mineral oil, and chop to your heart's content.
I am always telling people that wood is self cleaning. I just did know all the science. Thankyou for that.
@@lililijo You are welcome, Liz! 😊
Yes! Wood boards are great and a pleasure to use. I was thinking no, no, no, when she was slamming them.
@@LadyInBlue3 Thanks!
I agree
You never cease to amaze me with your thoughtful and realistic ideas. You not only have great ideas, but you are freaking awesome at communicating them as well. Keep up the good work, what you do is so appreciated.
You are too sweet! Thank you so much for your kind words! 💕💕
1. I didn't spend money on open shelves because I know my messy husband and kids will never keep them the way I'd like.
2. I didn't spent money on a console entryway table because they don't have storage. Instead, I got a large cabinet and use it to store all my candles, home fragrances and occasional decor.
3. I didn't spend money on ready-made furniture for my livingroom. I got a custom-made sectional sofa that fits perfectly within my space and chose a durable fabric that my kids won't be able to ruin.
4. I didn't buy any trendy large furniture. I opted for the calm peices with the idea that I can always juggle with the small decor peices instead of wasting my money on the expensive large pieces and getting stuck with them.
5. I didn't waste my money on cheap art that does not mean anything to me. Although my walls are bare, I am saving up and looking forward to putting up only the art that I genuinely want to be hung on my walls.
Hi :) can you please tell me the company and durable fabric you used? I am looking to buy my first couch and I am looking for something stylish and durable that can last me several years.
really agree with the excessive dining areas in a home. growing up in the 90s, it seems de rigeur to have the eat in kitchen and a formal dining room that is never used. when I bought my second home (a single family house), it was the first time we had an excess of space (my other residence being an apartment in the city). I told my husband that we don't need an EIK plus a dining room; why not just eat in the dining room all the time, and make every meal feel special? and that's what we did. the dining room was further styled like a library so not only do we eat in it every night, we can also read and work during other hours among all the books and decor.
I SO agree. I cannot remember a single time eating at the formal diningroom table. We did ay my grandmas for holidays, but never at my house. I'll be moving into a bigger apartment soon that'll most likely have an eik area with a dining room area. I want to use it as a gym space. Not the most ascetically pleasing, but it's a much better use of the space.
I just bought a new home and NOT having a formal dining and living room was one of my main priorities.
😂 I put my hamster 75 gallon tank on the formal dining room buffet/sideboard... if not, no use is made of that room
I will never give up my chaise sectional, lol. We actually have an ottoman-type chaise you explain, AND the chaise for both of us. It's perfect.
Ha, ha, me same, it's in my bedroom and it's my sacred space. I need comfort...so yeah chaise not going anywhere!!
Same!! I’ll never trade in a chaise for an ottoman 😂😂😂 I need to lay down without sliding
I'm looking for a couch sectional w chaise. A sliding ottoman is what I was concerned about and falling through the crack!
I love mine, too, but I never entertain. I've had the sofa for a few months now and I've had one person over.
Yup I am getting a sectional. I love them!
15:50. I love you! Finally a designer who doesn’t flood the most in demand seating of the sofa with a mountain of pillows with nowhere to move them to!
I can't be without my sideboard! It's my fav piece of furniture and is where I enjoy showcasing my personal style! Is that a sideboard behind you in the video? 🤣
Lol we need a need answers Kiva 😂
It looks like a desk.
I got a side board to store all of our board games. So they are right there when we have game nights. And we needed a really long one because we have a large dining room. But "side boards" get pretty pricey. So I just found a little 2 door cabinet I really liked and ordered 3 of them to put right next to each other. It works great!
Our board games live in our sideboard as well! Also our masks and sanitizers lol
They are very expensive! I just got one from a yard sale for $40 that im going to revamp
I had a used wood dresser in the dining room and it was perfect for games and homework supplies.
Aunt Kiva has spoken more words of wisdom than we could have thought possible. Say thank you. Thank you from the bottom of our pocketbooks- and hearts,of course.
I inherited an antique Stickley buffet that is in my combo living - dining room.I honestly don't know what I'd do for storage without it. Beside that it is beautiful, & we like the ambiance antique furniture gives.
I bought 6 dining room chairs instead of 8. I used the same seat cushions in the kitchen & just bring them in for entertaining. It looks nice & now it’s more spacious in the dining room as a result.
Very thoughtful video, Kiva. Yes, I have a Brookstone lumbar pillow that I use for traveling. Love it!
I do, however, also have a dining room sideboard that I have had for over 30 years in a formal dining room. It holds my various table linens, serving pieces and various holiday table decorations. I use everything that I have accumulated over the years. (I know, I know, I am dating myself). I have a wood burning fireplace and love it. I use it often every fall and winter. I often light a fire just for me (not just when I am entertaining during cold months). It is all a matter of priorities and what you love.
I love extra storage. My sideboard has games, toys all kinds of fun things, As much as I like open shelves there is no way you can store anything in them.
Giiiiirl don’t come for me and my chaise! That’s the comfiest spot in my house 😂
You are soooo right for all of these things in the video!! 4 years ago I realized that my dining table and chairs are useless to me and they just took up valuable space in my living room and that the space could be better used otherwise. Since I live on my own, I usually eat with a tray on my lap on the couch in front of the TV, as I always did even younger at my parents' house. So I sent my IKEA dining table to my parents' basement (they have plenty of storage) and rearranged the 4 chairs throughout the house so that they would serve a purpose as well. Now the vacant space is used as a dancing practice area (my favorite hobby) and I couldn't be more happy! Also there was a fortunate timing when all of that happened, just before COVID locked us in our homes, so I had the space I needed for my online dancing lessons. When I will need a dining table, I will search for a small expandable one, so that it doesn't take up space in my appartment. You are wonderfu Kiva! Keep up the good job!!!
Ooooh I relate to that! If you want space for dancing in your home, it's ridiculous how much furniture all of a sudden is not needed anymore.😊 (I decluttered my bedframe for that matter and sleep on a matress on the floor which I fold up against the wall during the day.)
I recently purchased both a console and a sideboard. I absolutely LOVE them! They are so beautiful and very functional. I have a very small house and they take up valuable space but since they provide storage, the trade-off is a non-issue.
I think of a sideboard as a landing space. As one brings food from the kitchen to the eaters, it's an elegant solution for the need for a staging area. Just like in a restaurant, the server drops the tray on the sideboard and serves from there. It's also a nice space for a buffet spread.
I have an atypical approach to pillows. I have them on the sofas, but they're smaller than usual and squashy. You can actually sit down without worrying about them. They provide visual interest and you can pile them up if you want support.
When I moved into my condo the previous owner abandoned their sideboard, I moved it to the living room where it is now a fancy entertainment center. One less piece of furniture to buy.
I agree with most of these. I made the mistake of buying a 3-seater sectional years ago and what I’ve found is, I can rarely be bothered to squish into the corner to lay down as it’s too far from the fire/tv. And when we have visitors, they tend to sit uncomfortably on the leg part with no one sitting in the corner seat. A separate ottoman is a much better idea - far more versatile. The only one on your list that I disagreed with was the lumbar pillow. I use the one in my bedroom to support my head when reading, my living room one supports my head when watching tv and the one on my patio dining chair supports my lumbar region. I wouldn’t be without them.
You can get a beautiful cutting board that isn't vintage. There are plenty of carpenters, craftsmen and artists that make and sell them. Maintenance isn't complicated, you may just have to treat the wood with an oil regularly (you can use very cheap mineral oil). I bought one as a gift for my husband last year and it's a statement piece in our kitchen that we use every single day.
Wow. I've been shopping for a sectional because I want to somehow divide the space between the dining area and living area. Then the other day I found the perfect small sectional but it is SO expensive! Now, I love the ottoman idea. So much to think about! Also, this condo came with a heavy chandelier in the little breakfast nook area that dictated where the table had to go - but I study there - and hit my head on that chandelier. Changing to a flush mount was the BEST decision.
You might want to consider an armless sofa or loveseat as the divider. I’m doing that to separate the dining area and living area … facing sofas are a lot more conducive to conversation than a sectional and it definitely helps to define the functional spaces
I really love playing your videos in the morning when I'm cooking breakfast! Love your tips and communication style. Really appreciate what you're sharing with the world, it genuinely has a positive impact! Thank you!
Get a gas-log fireplace, they are marvelous = fire looks great, heats the room+, plus no clean up afterwards.
Traditional fireplaces funnel the heat right up the chimney with the smoke. If you put in a fireplace insert, it will actually funnel the heat into the room , and keep you cozy without burning through logs really quickly. They’re almost as efficient as wood stoves and fit inside your fireplace. Since you close them, you can just let it burn down safely.
I do not NEED the chaise, BUT I absolutely want it for myself so everyone has to sit elsewhere. 😄Thankfully, my room is a great size so yep, keeping it on the list. I've had a sofa and ottoman for years and definitely ready for the chaise.
Please listen to her. Like you, I just HAD to have a chaise sectional, so I got one. Because of Covid, I waited 10 months to get it and absolutely HATE it. It is awkward to sit on and really uncomfortable. I should have gone with a sofa and added an ottoman. Sooo, $1500 later, I’m trying to find a furniture maker who can convert the chaise part to an end unit for a reasonable price. Strictly my own personal experience..good luck
@@brendaindallas9880 I watch frequently and know the fabric of my life and the set up of my home. Thank you for weighing in, but this particular tip just doesn't apply to me.
I love the chaise life!!!! I seriously have only had a couch with a chaise for my own spaces because I didn't like the lack of one growing in my parent's house. I can imagine the waste of space of the ottomans too.. I am just not a fan of ottomans
@@stefanianzo9907 Yes, if the ottoman doesn't have storage it can be inconvenient at times. I'm looking at furniture now and will DEFINTELY be ordering a chaise.
Yes you have to have a huge room for a chaise lounge sofa or you will trip over it for sure! Lol!
I couldn’t agree more. I have a massive dining area that is empty due to not knowing what to do with it. We have no family or company and never eat at a table. Someday I will figure it out. I love all your videos. Such good info.
OMG, Ive been trying to decide between a traditional sofa or one with a chaise. Less than a minute into this video and Kiva has made the decision for me - love her!
I love my chaise 💁
Get the chaise 🤣 I love mine. You don’t NEED it but if your budget and space allows it’s actually a very practical purchase. I don’t regret my purchase one bit
I love my chaise. My best spot in the living room. Can even nap in it. Best decision I made.
Get the chaise lol. Normally I agree w most of her points but this is one of those exceptions. 😂🙂 It can be such a great piece!
I’ve used a sideboard for many things. To set up desserts or charcuterie, for off season candles and it’s great for storing board games that are often played on the dining table. I use it also for my sons’s school craft supplies, platters, chargers and placemats.
We spend all of our time in the family room, so the formal living room never gets used and the formal dining room never gets used because we always use the breakfast nook in the kitchen. The spaces are fully furnished and decorated "for company" but we never actually have company lol. And in the 11 years I've lived in my home, I'd never thought of my wood burning fireplace as anything other than a spot to decorate around for the holidays.... had never used it once.... until last year when a winter storm hit and we were without electricity and heat for several days, with temps in the low teens.
We lived in a brownstone for about 30 years. I had the most gorgeous fireplace in the living room and never used it once! Who wants all that stuff, maybe smoke idk burning next to your nice furniture! But it was great to decorate!
With the loss of kitchen space due to open architecture, a sideboard may become more and more useful to us.
Great point!
Uh, this is why I don't like the open space trend. It feels like living in a studio. Plus the smell from the kitchen can easily get into your couches. You may not smell it because you live in your home, but guests can smell it. It can even get into your clothes. People don't think about stuff like this. I prefer closed kitchens with open walkways.
I have this couch that has a detachable ottoman situation. It was from ikea - its the coolest thing ever bc depending on how your maneuver the cushions around you can create a couch with an ottoman OR attach it on the left or right side again depending on how the cushions are placed on the sofa - instantly become a chaise lounge 😀 definitely affordable and practical for Any living situation!
Ooooo...whats it called, please? 😃
@@ltgemini1599 I have been legit searching their website and can not find it (I got it a long time ago) can't remember the name ofcourse - I have a feeling they stopped making that model. I'm sure you can get couches in pieces though and put them together how you want so you have lots of options for your space. I have seen sectionals that do that - you put them together to create the sofa you need vs spending money on something that may not fit 🤔
@@DavidOwenCreates Thank you for the update!
@@ltgemini1599 sorry I couldn't find it!!
Am I the only person who actually dislikes the vintage cutting boards layered on the kitchen counter? I'm just not a fan of the trend at all. 🤷♀️
I’m with you on this one. Functional cutting boards belong in a cabinet in my house. Otherwise, they’re just clutter to me!
I don’t like it, clutter and dust collectors to me!
I have a 4 x 5" cutting board and one little bit larger. I'm always moving them into the kitchen where I'm working. So I never really thought about it.. This sound to earth shattering I will have to check this out. Thanks
Yes VERY trendy indeed. I seriously don’t get this one. Like why a used vintage cutting board? Weird
To me, their dust and grease collectors. I have a cat and a kitchen open to the living room so anything that isn’t going to be used and washed/wiped down daily cannot be left out.
This is hilarious. I am hands down a chaise sectional fan. I love sprawling out on them, that’s how I’m the most comfortable. And I hate ottomans. Maybe it’s because we have dogs, but they’re always getting moved around and I find it annoying dragging them back into place. I’m suddenly into chandlers, but I agree totally not necessary.
I have a sofa with Ottoman for 3 years and I hate it. Moving to L sectional. Sorry KB 😞
I agree! I do not like ottomans because it gets in the way of a coffee table and then I don't like the way how ottomans look on their own seperate from the couch!! Also... Ottomans as a coffee table??? I would have to purchase sperate pieces to set food items like a server. For this, the chaise sectional is just a cost and life saver for me... I sprawl on the couch as well lol
@@naromiesbeninche6975 that’s what keeps me from going that route but the chaise sofa I want would be too big for my current space so I’m waiting. My son just bought one for his apt and loves it. To each their own. Like she says, we have to do what works for our space and lifestyles. 🥰
@@michellem3879 that's true it more often whichever can fit the place! My thinking is that At least with the sectional I figure that 2 people can lay down at once(me and My hubby).I am moving to Texas soon. I am worried whether the sofa would work for the new place (haven't seen it yet.. only had a 3D virtual tour)but I really want that sectional so we both can get cozy at the same time.
@stefani I hate the Ottoman too. I never opened it 🤣🤣🤣
Same we use to have an ottoman and not the best. Also not comfortable over time it always made a gap when you wanted to use as a sectional. We race for who will go on the chaise part since it’s so comfy.
If you love the stacked vintage cutting boards but feel sketchy about using them, just get one of those plastic liner cutting mats to use on top. You can store one behind the wood board.
You are so on point! Bold! Practical! Very smart as well!!!
Thanks so much Janet! 💕💕
We always called the sideboard the buffet. You’d place large platters of food on it and guests could serve themselves and sit down. I see a lot of modern dining rooms with just a table and chairs.
Omg! The fireplace thing! I laughed so hard!🤣
I completely agree with the chaise sectional segment. I opted for a sofa and two chairs instead, and though only one person can lay down at a time, I can seat more people this way.
Plus, my kids have found a way to “lay down” on the chairs.
I agree with you. It’s just my husband and myself, how much seating do we need not much. I am cutting back on throw pillows. You help me save a lot of money. 😃
I agree sideboards can create "commotion" in a small dining space. I just took the sideboard out of our dining room today and it feels SO MUCH better! Ours always had to many plants on it and it drove me bonkers. It looks so much more minimalist now- which is what I lean towards. I don't know why it took me so long! Thanks for validating me haha
OMG, Kiva, I put chandeliers wherever I can!! Two minis in my walk-in closet. I shop REALLY intensively, have the most gorgeous chandeliers, and have never paid more than $300. I bought one, a knock off of--you know the one--it has branches and crystals for leaves and the color was brassy. A real bargain because they couldn't sell it, it was so ugly. I painted it gold, keeping the darkened recesses and creases and it looks terrific in a stairwell. But I also have recessed and bulbs etc. You just have to SHOP!
#teamchandelier here too!
@@andreathorpe7035 😍😍😍
I feel like if it works within your life you should get it. I take others advise with a grain of salt! If you love chandeliers and they bring you joy and you’re able to get great deals, then kudos to you!! ✌🏾♥️
@@ms.one-town901 I agree and also feel that applies to everything. There are good pieces of advice and general rules, but what excites one individual may be anathema to another. 💛
So glad I found this channel… I just moved and I haven’t bought much furniture just a couch and the cubes because I want to be aware of how I’m decorating it….I have so much extra space in my living room and still trying to figure out how I want to use it… and I don’t want my home to be cluttered
Same! Good luck!
A lumbar pillow ... A shield against kicking toddlers in the middle of the night 😂. Or my nest. Don't enter the nest LOL!
I love your honest advice, I too am guilty of some of these and have ended up selling things like a purple chandelier for example as it served no purpose and my colour scheme is more neutral as I have evolved in taste 🙂🇬🇧
I use my lumbar pillow. It really helps. Might be the type of sofa I have. AND I live in Pittsburgh too and have a gas FP. I’ve had wood burning FPs in other houses but didn’t use them much. The house I’m in already had a gas FP and it is sooo easy to use. I have realistic logs and it’s beautiful. Highly recommend converting if you think lighting and cleaning a wood burning FP is more trouble than it’s worth.
I had no idea that vintage cutting boards were a thing. I love my wooden cutting boards but in general, I don't buy vintage items for my kitchen. The materials they used way back when weren't regulated or tested for food safety the way we do now. I use glass and food safe wood in my kitchen and that's basically it. Great video!
The fireplace comment is spot on. I’m in the middle of a remodel & we’re working around the insert instead of replacing it but it’s still expensive.
Awesome video, as always, Kiva. You're the best. I especially appreciated your advice on all the dining spaces in our homes!!
I can definitely see how ppl’s lives evolve. I have a buffet in my dining room. However I just look at it as storage so anything decor, sunglasses, candles are all in there. I think the big thing is if you already owned something making sure you repurpose for how you live. I also agree with eliminating multiple eating areas. It may depend on how your space is laid out but typically those areas are super close to each other. I think we’re just use to buying certain furniture for certain designated spaces. I knew I didn’t want another full fledged table and chairs so I made the kitchen more cafe/lounge style. It’s not formal. I can drink coffee in the AM or open my laptop to pretend I’m at a coffeehouse. The table can fit two/three plates if need be. But to your point, dining chairs alone are pricey. So I wouldn’t bother unless I entertained a lot.
I live in Europe, in my country kitchen island are not the norm also we have close or semi open concept.
I have a Mediterranean/Alentejo kitchen which are large kitchen with a big wood table and a huge stone fireplace that you can cook, never like dining rooms, no matter the occasion we eat in the kitchen, it's warmer, cozy and close to the food😊
I’m probably older than most of your followers which is why I have everything you mentioned in my home! Except the antique cutting board!
My husband saw me listening to you today and he said, "Finally someone that puts practicality first!"
I can always use advice to save money and be smart.
We can still have a lively home space without clutter! Thanks KB for your video 😃
Thanks so much for watching Erin!! 💕
We just got our sofa with a 35X35 inch ottoman and it's perfect! You can move in around, you can move it to the side if you need to open up the room or move it to the other side of the coffee table for parallel siting. My parents have an chaise sectional and it's very limiting especially if you ever want to rearrange the direction of your living room.
Chaise is so practical. I love it. I can even take afternoon naps on it. And best for watching movies. I think it's the most practical piece of furniture you can have in a home. Unless your space is very small, then yes, chaise is not the best.
Kiva! As usual, your information is appreciated.
I use my server to hold my platters, chargers, teacup and saucer collection, teapots, candles, and my set of Christmas dishes. My server is a functional piece, and it's a beautiful espresso color. I have two gorgeous lamps on top at either end, two lovely tall chunky candlesticks, and three art deco pieces (small glass clock and two wooden busts). Maybe it's because I'm older (67), however I love my server!
By the way, I live in an 800-square foot apartment with a small kitchen and limited cabinet space.
Yo i can’t understand why anyone would hit the thumbs down! Like I seriously wish I could find them ask them what’s the problem! 😡😤lolll thanks for the tips girl! I always thought those type sectionals were cute but not practical. I’m sooo glad I’m not the only one 🤗
I'm pretty minimal. The only thing I have more of are pillows. Since I live in a studio, my bed needs to look good during the day and not 'look' like just my bed. Dual purpose furniture is what it's all about. Also, The more horizontal space you have, the more it can create clutter. Thanks Kiva! 😁💜
I've been daydreaming about getting a chaise sectional - but I take your points about their potential inflexibility. My friends bought a lovely one where the chaise/ottoman piece is attachable, like with magnets or something because there isn't any velcro or anything jarring that you can see. But however it attaches, it works really well and allows them to move the addition to wherever on the sofa they want it - or to push it out to act as a temporary coffee table. Win-win!
Great tips as always :)
Regarding lighting: one additional tip I would give - know in the US dimers and smart bulbs are pretty accessible, but for me - renting and in Brazil - I REALLY loved some bulbs I got that are self-dimering and would really recommend!
So I discovered your channel last night & been binging since! 😩😁💘
Omg welcome!! So happy that you’re here :)
I absolutely love this! Thank you so much for your tips. I have been slowly decluttering our home,and learning less is more! Thank you so much lady!
OMG, we did the ottoman option last year when we got new living room furniture last year. Love the ottomans. Work as seating, tables, and a foot rest.
Once again, excellent advice. You have just talked me out of a lumbar pillow for my couch.
You are so right about dining room furniture. I agree with you on fireplaces. I love them, I have had two. We used them on winter holidays. Wood is dirty, upkeep of the chimney is very expensive. They permanently use up wall space.
Love your videos!
❤️ Shirley
It took me 60+ years, but I finally have a house with enough space for that chaise sofa I always wanted and I’m going to leave my boob fixtures until I’m ready for a change! I’m having trouble with figuring out what to put over the fireplace because my other half has very different likes than I do in the art department and we’re still working on counter stools!
The mini upgrade for my bedroom is trying to figure out how to retrofit my gorgeous king sized midcentury modern headboard to my queen sized bed.
Have you thought of placing a mirror above your fireplace? That away it doesn’t have to be a issue between choosing styles of art, plus it can help bounce some light in the space.
You could get a Samsung frame tv above it and then display both your styles of art on a rotation?
My partner doesn't like wood smoke, the house has a fireplace. He sealed up the flue and we use it for vase storage. We got a fire screen that has a mid-century modern feel to it and I also put a Himalayan Salt Lamp in the firebox behind a large glass platter and the ambient glow of the ''fire'' is better than a fire, no ash mess.
KB!!! I’ve followed you from the beginning,I’m so
Happy to see you are on your way to 300k!! Yes!! 😘
Kiva great and thought-provoking video again! It made me rethink things even if to make me realize why
- I do want the lounge sectional (love the look more and don't really have people over who aren't 'close' 😁),
- cabinets and consoles (extra storage + surface for my plant babies)
- lumbar pillows (I have ikea ones 😁) do help my back support and for cuddling but your styling tips are very useful
- on the dining room isn't that applicable in my little European house haha,
- energy prices are getting higher and higher and thank God most houses here come with one so we just have to break it open but you're right that you only need to do it when you do,
- can't agree more on the piano! Didn't even knew people used that just for decoration 😅
Anyway much love and respect to you as always, I'm pretty sure this is a controversial one 😂
Finally!! I totally agree about the couch plus ottoman option!!! Thank you Kiva!!!!
Love your videos!! If I get a notification, and I can't watch right away? Anxiety!!
Tha k you for placing examples into your explanations. Images to the words , amazing!! It's great to be able to see what you are talking about fir the visual customer! Keep up the great work 👍 👏
Love the video! Not having an ottoman trains people not to put their feet up on the coffee table. As an academic I would prefer the chaise sofa for reading and grading with less stress on my knees. The ottoman is very hard on your knees and hips over time. As you age, it matters.
I'm at the age point where I prefer a recliner lol. Ottoman definitely are rough on the knees, and the chaise is tough to climb in and out of! So I'm more of a recliner type. ( elegant ones...not those big overstuffed man cave types)
I grade on my chez lounge all the time!
Our "dining room" is now our homeschooling room and I love it so much more than having two tables to decorate and keep clean!
Also, the fireplace not being used reminds me of when my sister-in-law hosted Christmas, and instead of lighting a fire in her actual fireplace she turned on RUclips and had a fake fire on the TV that is OVER the fireplace. When I asked her why she said she loved the sound and that her fireplace was gas and didn't make it. I reminded her that they had their house built from the ground up and she was the one who chose to get a gas fireplace because she didn't want to clean out soot from the fireplace.
😂😂😂😂 I think fireplaces are like tubs. Some people get them and never use them. Love that she put on RUclips! Lol
Great advice! Totally agree on the waste around multiple dinning furniture.
Another truly excellent video, as always!
Thank you!! 💕💕
@@KivaBrent Thank YOU. : )
Oh my! I was just about to get the chaise sectional! Thanks for the insight!
I have a sideboard, only because it came with the set my mother-in-law gave me. I love the table and chairs, but have lately been considering getting rid of the sideboard because it does waste space, and I store things in it that are rarely used. I need to declutter those for sure!
And cutting boards? I have vintage boards, but only because I have had my own for years, they were bought new. I always only use one side, to keep them "nice" on the other side... never thought of using them as display pieces. Great idea, I love it!
And spending up to $300 for a vintage cutting board??? I cannot even imagine doing that!!!!!!!!!!!!! People are crazy!
Love this video sound quality. Thanks for the ideas.
You've just provided another perfect vid. Thank you
Wow thank you so much! So happy you enjoyed it! 💕
I don't know why I thought you were Canadian and based in Toronto :) You are just the sweetest, I love your channel! Looking on your website now too! Cheers from Nova Scotia!
Thank you so much!! 💕
So true about the chaise sectional! I had one and by the time I got rid of it, I was soooo "over" it! Lol No one ever sat on that part either. It took up space for no reason.
You must have huge homes in Pittsburgh, KB, if you can fit a piano in your living room! With these items, I think context is all important. A chandelier can look superb in a Parisienne or Grand Millenial setting, sideboards can be used as a cocktail bar, a TV stand or for hiding ugly items like printers, toys & shoes, a fireplace can be a lovely feature of a living room (as long as it’s authentic & used) & dining in the middle of the kitchen is not everyone’s cup of tea. I agree with you on the lumbar pillows & vintage chopping board though. What I don’t like are glass TV stands or open, clear cupboards where you can see tech wires. Grrr.
I believe the point she is trying to make is not to buy things just because they look nice, but invest in what you TRULY need. For example, I understand her point with the chase, but for my husband and me it suits us perfectly for 2 reasons: 1) We have a small apartment with only 1 tv that is in the living room, so we relax on the chaise every single night after dinner to watch a show. 2) We have a small group of family/friends in our town, so we never entertain large parties.
She is simply giving broad directions on how we could save money and invest only in things that truly serves a purpose in our lifestyle
As I'm looking for a home to downsize to, I'm discovering a fireplace is a must. Of course, we live in Chicago.
Agreed it’s a must! I live in Chicago and that small addition makes home feel like a luxury.
Kiva I love you your videos are awesome and always entertaining!
Thanks so much Colette! 💕💕
My dining room is used as both a place to eat and a study project area. Same with our eat in kitchen table. I find we don't have as many dining type chairs as we need, but I'm not rushing out to buy them. Instead I am keeping an eye out for chairs I really like at the restore for a good price. As long as they coordinate and they are comfortable I am good.
I spend more time watching your videos saying, “Hmm I never thought of that!”. You are so practical so often, 😉.
💯 agree on the vintage cutting board! I never understood this trend. It really grossed me out & I would never use one, therefore never buy one. I buy the shape/style I like new & use it. The more you use it (and wash it), it will age & patina naturally & you know where it’s been!
Ultimately, what one *needs* in their house is very much dependent on one’s lifestyle. As a 30-something I love to host dinner and cocktail parties. Therefore, a side table is a necessity for me to store my linens (I’m all about cloth napkins), vintage glassware, serving dishes, bar glassware, candles, etc. My bar cart is also a necessity to store my 30+ bottles of alcohol because I’m always making a signature cocktail for my parties.
Valuable information!!!! Makes so much sense!!!! Thank you for saving me thousands!!!!❤️
Thanks so much for watching Shaun! 💕💕
I got a chaise and an ottoman. It was the best decision since I needed the long part for separating an open concept space but I also couldn't find a coffee table that worked. An ottoman does require a rug though since it will slide on wood floor.
Fireplaces. Preach!! Love them, grew up with one but if it is not going to be right then NEXT!!
Your humor makes me laugh. I'm looking for a fireplace and grand piano this weekend 😜🤣
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I love the look of a fireplace, whether I am using it or not. It is staying.
I have a chaise sectional because it fits perfectly beside the window - the armrest is against the wall, the chaise part is along the radiator that's below the window. I wouldn't want the armrest blocking the heat. So for me it's just perfect.
Thanks for your time I'm learning
Fireplaces draw heat out of your home as they go out. So you need doors to close to prevent that. I’ll have a gas fireplace in my new place, which is easy. No more wood burning fireplaces for me! I graduated from Girl Scouts a long time ago!
Thank you for talking about fireplaces!
…as I have been waiting 5 months for my chaise sofa to arrive. 🤣🤣🤣 It IS replacing our sectional because it’s life is over and I didn’t want another sectional, lol. I felt the sectional just cut into our space, kind of swallowed it a bit, and we just don’t use “all” of it. This new chaise sofa will def open up our space, but the ottoman is definitely a smart and versatile alternative!! Great video!!! ❤️🙈😂
I love my sectional with the chaise and ottoman. Yes my livingroom is big. I miss your hair color.
I'm sure it looks beautiful in your living room! Thanks for watching Torrie! 💕
Like this look on her
I like her current hair color better, tbh.
I love this hair color - natural and beautiful.
Whether you can do without a chandelier depends upon the room. Giant rooms with high ceilings need chandeliers. Anything smaller would throw the balance off. Using sideboards also depends on the size of the room. Large elegant dining rooms need them for formal dinner banquets as a place to put serving trays.
Thank you I agree I live in west coast of Florida and a fireplace is a waste of space for the 2 days a year that it’s cold