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I think it is time to stop blaming men or giving them advice... wrong gender needs "healing". Prove me wrong - because birth rates disagree with WHATEVER you say.
I think your wrong in your fist statement Alex that it use to be easy for men. It's always been hard for men, buildings' bridges, churches, modern technology, heck even humor were created by men to impress women. Men have sacrificed their lives to protect and care for women. The new generation only sees all the bad and none of the good.
@alexandergrace5350, I'm going to be honest with the level and the quality of woman now days, I have realized that my fredom and peace is worth much more. When you learn to be content by yourself, and you live in a place that a professional companion is cheap. You begin to wonder what is the fuss is all about. The juice is not worth to squeeze, I really want society to crumble and the world to burn.
@AG: you looking like you just woke up under a bridge from a 3-day binge. Perhaps watch a few Kevin Samuel vids and think about the image you're presenting to your audience.
Mr. Grace…your hopefulness always amazes me…sir.😮 “They” can all think they are desirable and feel desirous of many things from men, even from a particular man… sadly, however, there is no establishment that can meet “all” their demands…no retail store…no App…no T.V. Program…or platform! No matter how deserved they think they may be… The sexual market is one space they can’t hook and crook there way along. long term… Men are not a new pair of shoes that any one lady believes she can buy…at any moment?!? Just b/c she says she can afford it! High value men have the final word on commitment and can’t be bought with what ladies have to offer these days…no matter how worthy they think they may be!!! The game is rigged…men with enough experience and sense know better nowadays…especially those of higher value! I am a divorced, single 51 yr. old man who had the chance to observe and to some degree consider different generations of women…via some socializing with them, trying to pick them up for a date and who has dated.. I would NOT waste time on the dating market of today…no matter what you think…or what people say! if a young man is in his teens or twenties…? I would suggest to such men who are younger to focus on raising one’s SMV through work, exercise and education…leave the hope of dating seriously for later in life! If it is a man that is older and he doesn’t have the details women are looking for- DON’T DATE Seriously!!! It is a waste of resources!!! If I were a lad of today, I would invest as little as possible in women…I would go the route of paying for it, go overseas and philander or follow a degree of the No-Fap lifestyle… My view? Men get very little long term anyway from relations with women…Men should not FOMO about women!!! It’s just silly! They assume the same crap in youth but to larger degree when they are older! The longer a guy stay in a LTR with one, the more he has to prove to keep a lady loyal and interested… I should know…I was married for approx. 9 years…and in an LTR before of 4 yrs… Even with my suggestions, I see most men need to see it for what it is through harsh experience if need be… All I am giving is suggestions to the up and coming…and even men slightly younger than me…still hopeful and somewhat delusional…if men want to seriously date they should wait until they are in their late 30’s or early 40’s…or don’t do it at all if they can’t afford it!!! Dating needs to mean something if not…it’s a waste of a man’s M.E.A.T in his youth and the brief SMV of the average Lay-Dee in the West…and even in other ways elsewhere!
and then some woman deside you are the men and she offer herself ,but u know she is with u for that what u provide and she will be gone right after u suffer from something
"Hoeflation: Today's men must work 5 times harder than their grandfathers for women that are 20 times worse than their grandmothers. " It's like the price of pickup trucks in USA now... The average man makes $50k/year. No one can afford a poorly made truck that costs $80k.
Yup back in the days a car would cost less and last 30 years. Now only very specific well made brands will last 10 with luck. And on top of that they cost more. Same shitshow on the housing market(back in the days a new house was worth $100k and now same house is worth millions in certain municipalities despite being 60 years older". And same shitshow with women ... This is what society has evolved into.
Here’s one: about my own damn half-sister. She told me years ago when she was 20 years old at the time that she had already slept with 21 men. However, she told me that “only a third of those were actual relationships“ so she would only admit to *that* amount when relaying her body count… Worse, she told me that *even in her own mind* (not just what she was relaying to others) she only saw it as *that* amount of people “since the ones that I wasn’t in a relationship don’t actually count.” I went from partially red pilled to fully red pilled in that very moment.
When i worked in a school a group of sixth form girls went to Greece for a week after they graduated at 18. One girl apparently slept with 9 guys during that week away ...
My friend went to a birthday party of his room mate. And then there was a girl who was the friend of the birthday boy’s gf. She slept with 3 men(random dudes) in that party one after another. She asked my friend to have some fun with her. He said no. Now think how much men she had slept with in her entire lifetime. Damn it is disgusting.
This kind of thing is very common. Many will do the same thing for cheating. It doesn't count if she was drunk, planning to break up, on vacation, etc... They commit so fully to their delusion that it becomes their reality. That's part of what helps them sell their false allegations too. It's honestly frightening the first time you see it in real life.
Yeah, she's pretty and she knows it. The best women are those wallflowers that didn't become pretty till áfter puberty, so they're not as entitled, stuck up and masculine.
"How do you satisfy women's hypergamy in the modern world" Easy, you don't. 1.- Choose a goal in life (anything other than sticking it in the first hole you see) 2.- Stay on your purpose 3.- Ignore women and other distractions. You didn't brake the dating market, is not your resposability to fix it or to morph yourself to adapt to it. Whoever broke it, is their burden to fix it.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz that’s true, but I see men are waking up. It’s going to get really bad for these females, it already has started. Enjoy the 🍿…KARMA IS REAL
"You're a guest in this household" There would be no households without men. 95% of her safe and comfortable lifestyle is provided by men. The phone she's using to record the video, the data connection she used to upload the video, the vehicle she's sitting in, the road she's parked on, and basically everything else in her life aside from the air she breathes are invented/manufacturered/maintained by men. I could literally go on for days... Kick this guest out of the house, and the house is no more.
In the USA, we subsidize single motherhood (which-->fatherlessness, is the main reason our crime rates are so high). It isn't a good life, but it (& the lack of female stigma for divorce or serial "monogamy") allows the hamster wheel to spin and rational thought to be thrown out the window. "I can do better. I'm special."
They will get isolated from the workforce. Men will stop hiring. Let the last gen of blue pill simps go away to start seeing the changes happening socially.
@@vanguelder 100%, I completely agree, but much much less, definitely just like how a large number of us won't help them at all. I went to a bar 2 times he last 6 months, both times their were about 60 men and 15 of "them", both times the men completely ignored them even when they got up in the middle of the room and danced. NONE a single one got a free drink or free attention! NONE! 3 of them came over and barely got a "hi" from the men. I heard "not worth it" over and over and "Miggy - touuuy" many times... Only 6.8 per 1000 getting married now, that's 1 in 151 men or 0.0068%, huge difference. See USA Today and the CDC to verify the numbers if you want.
@@vanguelder The simps are all followers, will do what everyone expects them to do, if other men tell them it's wrong they will mostly stop too. Especially when they get nothing back. Many to most men have almost completely stopped helping and not even buying drinks and only 1 in 151 getting married show a huge change. We just have to teach all the younger simps self-respect, even that's changing. I did some of that stupidity myself and learned. Same for a third of men not dating now. Not worth it.
@@vanguelder Here in the USA they are the last to get a date and very few would live together, it's a little more common in the fem.... areas but since they usually don't get much back and they are the biggest pain to deal with, big attitudes, it's become much less common, mostly younger guys. If anything the moms only get a night here or there, few will do that now. With their insane egos now many of us completely stopped dating same for me. All the simps made by kids without a dad or any male role models now, even no male teachers now. The biggest difference I've seen is from men teaching the younger men and talking to them on many of the channels like Better Bachelor, Redonkulous, and Tribe of Men. Not so much this channel, he is far to quick to blame men. Maybe you can help other men there and online too. Helping the younger guys, show them they aren't alone and teach them to be strong makes the biggest difference. Even if it's for the friendship it's still definitely worth it.
I actually stopped giving likes to women in social media since its a social media created for them. I dont like photos, posts, mute their stories and in some cases I block them.
Yeah, I don't care to interact with women much anymore. I just don't care anymore. I have some women in my life that I care about, my mom and a very tiny amount of female friends, but far as finding a girl to date etc, yeah I'm done wasting my time with any of that crap.
That clip infuriated me beyond words. I know it shouldn't but it does. She spewed that toxic garbage with a completely blank expression. That just shows you how completely psychotic a lot of women are. And the sad reality is that she's right - and she is a representation of the type of woman a lot of men are married to/engaged to/in a relationship with.
@@sergiogonzalesYT I agree man. Let them keep on spewing their toxic verbal diarrhoea. More and more men are starting to wake up - and the howls of "where have all the good men gone?" will grow louder and louder! It will be music to my ears! 😂
A thinking man would never get involved with such a toxic women on any level. Never try to satisfy female hypergamy. It’s a losing game. It’s simple. Be the best man you can be. And keep building your life and happiness. Any woman you meet who cannot recognize your quality is not worth having. Really. 😊
@@dbird1356 Absolutely. But nowadays, it's almost impossible to tell the difference. I've heard the phrase "starter husband" so many times, it's insane. It's actually funny how us men are viewed as the "commitment phobes" in society.
I couldnt watch it. She clearly a sociopath. I just love these videos and how women stupidity is being immortalized by smartphone cameras. Women are going mad. This will be historic in 500 years. The gender war is happening. Women are going to be isolated from the workforce. The disney illusion and magic curtains are more than gone.
This is bollocks. If a woman really fancies you then all of those rules go out of the window. And that's actually a top tip, a red flag to look out for. If she makes unreasonable demands of you then she really isn't that in to you. Your her second choice, the consolation prize. So you need to move on.
I think you're thinking for a quick fling. When they are ready to settle down... is a whole other ball game. Or if they can't get that guy that they really fancy and have to settle. The rules all come out.
@@totobibi507 aggressive honey badger types like this chick risk regression by being impressed by other similarly super immature and aggressive men. In fact their own kids have super aggressive behaviors for sake of survival and women still think they are the cutest thing when all a man wants to do at that point is punch the baby in the face. It is a matter of getting out of this schizophrenic double bind women control men all the time and sometimes rendering them crazy and schizo too: you are not a real man if you are mean and do hookers but you are a pu$$/ if you cannot exploit other men and women around her, also afraid of roughing her up in bed. The bottom line is than Man as an archetype still is very much in their mind. It is then a matter of socializing little girls into real women. Society does that initiation with alcohol, sometimes drugs and night club flings, the way Sumerian would forbid anyone marrying a virgin and forced all women into prostitution first before marriage as a means of civilizing both strangers and these uninitiated young women. Other codes of socialization involve beauty products, dress codes and what not that ironically we have let gays who despise women at the bottom dominate in defining. Female genital mutilation and infibulation are not that different from genital body piercing and much less invasive than these sex change or enhancement boob and genitals jobs as a matter of creating a social woman as opposed to the natural woman.
A woman can fancy you initially, but maintaining that attraction can be difficult. She can look for other options that she believes are better, for whatever reason, even if you do indeed provide stability. She will then test you. You have to be firm. There are things that you should not tolerate. If she will not comply. Then leave her. To do so, one must rid oneself of a scarcity mindset and morality based inhibitions that make one believe that one cannot get together with other women. The purpose of getting together with other women will be primarily for sex and if one had that option, her threats of withholding sex won't work. Withholding sex threats is one of the biggest fears that men have for not leaving a woman, in addition to being confounded as to why even when one is providing well enough, the woman is becoming less cooperative. The latter is also link to highly unbalanced adoration. If one likes the woman much more than she likes oneself, that gives her much more leverage. That should be absolutely avoided.
This is bollocks is it mate? ok then based on what evidence? or is it just your opinion? one man's opinion based solely on his extremely limited life experiences and the few women he's dated? Im all ears mate, let's hear why this very thurough and decades long research is all complete bollocks?
Don’t ever go out your way to impress or please any woman gentlemen. Several videos on social media sites have proven that women didn’t want equality, they only wanted superiority and the only way to make them wake up is giving them little to no time of day, especially those with big egos and think they are all that. Forever rise above them all and continue focusing on your own ambition, purpose and vision. Genuine love should happen naturally and unexpectedly and shouldn’t feel forced or like you have to try harder to win someone’s attraction, respect and love. Always be that one step ahead of her gents and never be afraid to leave her behind because self respect comes first!
1) Have your own things you offer and develop yourself 2) Have your own standards and demands 3) Do not take any abuse and totally ignore those who do not meet your standards
The only way to win is to not care. It's not always easy to go through life ignoring feelings but it's necessary. People come and go and everyone is expendable. It is what it is.
Ugh, while I feel for men, I don’t totally agree. I’m a 47 yo widowed female married 25 years. I have an 18 yo son and 3 daughters which is why I’m here. I personally actually think that governments (and then media) have created this situation for the purpose of control. I think while women’s nature isn’t great, it has been completely exploited by the folks with a global agenda. Instead of fighting each other, we need to fight the agenda. What I’ve noticed is that women have the “upper hand” until somewhere around 28. Men carry it from 28- 55ish and then women have it again from 60 or so on when men again want a companion- (look it up)… They want us to fight each other! We need a bridge uniting the genders rather than continuing the war! What do you think?
Care enough to let them alone. Each of us is on our own path, don't walk with those you disdain. Walk your own and you will find like minded travelers.
This is spot on. With the right man a woman would pay and buy him everything. Pookies and Ray Rays are the evidence of that. Not giving an ef is the prime feature to surpass and avoid all those requirements today.
Also, yeah okay let's say I get to that threshold of masculinity. What do I get in return in the relationship? No one would want a business partner that takes 80% of your profits but brings next to nothing to the table. Don't get me wrong, striving to become better everyday is an absolute must as a man... but if you make it, the amount of effort it took simply deserves more than 95% of today's women as a reward. Most of us are too good for what today's dating market has to give us.
My exact thoughts! What is my motivation to live up to these "standards" , not worth the trouble most likely. Staying true to ones self is best , and always strive to be the best "you" , IMO!
What you are most often likely to get now is a rude, unpleasant, whinny brat with the expectations of an aristocrat, a large student debt, that is packing a lifetime of entitlement and grievance training from every source possible. Enjoy.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe! A Day of Loneliness Beats a Day of Madness!!
whoever reports first is much more likely to have the law on their said because if your abusive woman claims you abused HER, then you say "that's not true, SHE's the abusive one," you look more guilty, but this actually happens a lot. But if you make the first move then all her false allegations are actually much easier to deal with.
Not really your safety 😂😂😂 I called the police on my ex bc my freedom was In jeopardy, the police was going to show up anyway from her shouting so since she didn't get quiet when I told her to, I called 911🤷🏾♂️ they coming anyway so they should know I'm the victim when they show up since I called. If they show up on someone else's call I'm the suspect.
She's got a lot of filters and makeup on for such a naturally strong beautiful woman who doesn't need men. Clearly she has a lot of self confidence and self esteem!
I like to dance. Once I asked my friend to dance with his wife (in her presence). He said. Oh, she likes to lead, hard woman etc. Ok, I let her lead. And after a while i decided to lead. Afer 10 sec of my leading she told me to lead her.
Is there any point in learning to dance? I want to but I don't go to weddings nor am I a content creator or do i wish to go to weddings to show off. Is dance useful in anything or would it be a wasted hobby? I always dreams of dancing when younger id listwn to music scenes would flow in my head and id try to add dances to the music and scenes (even thoigh i still cant dance or learned) Eventually was just to shy to take any classez and stopped thinking about it but lately. Been listening to mysic and feeling alive dancing around the house. (Even though I still can't dance) Would it be a wasted hobby to learn ? I just dont see how it will benefit or help me out if im not doing a y of those big examples?@@piotrekmajkowski5422
In this era, the more you do for a woman the less respect she will have for you. Never try to please her because she will overlook you and take you for granted.
In spanosh there is a saying that goes "a las mujeres ni todo el amor ni todo el dinero" that in english would be "to women, not all the love Nor all the money", and every time o heafs that phrase were from women.
Absolutely, because the most you can possibly give can become just background noise, and even if she is appreciative at first, and she can become habituated to it. At that point the most you can give is is the least she expects of you. Never habituate people to the absolute best you can do, because then every ordinary day will make you look disappointing.
If WW3 kicks off (and we're slowly sliding towards that) and every major city and military installation in the world is nuked and she somehow survives, let's see how strong and independent she is. She will be begging for any able bodied man to help her survive no matter what.
We are closer than we have ever been. That is NOT just my opinion, btw. The Bulletin of the Atomic Scientists is the organization that has the oldest of the OG memes: the "Doomsday Clock," which has been used as an indicator of how close we are to the end since 1947. The current setting shows us being at 90 seconds to midnight. That is the closest we have _ever_ been, even closer than we were during the Cuban Missile Crisis in 1962. Compare that to 1991, when the clock stood at 17 minutes to midnight after the collapse of the Soviet Union and the end of the Cold War.
Alex’s summary: “be a top 10% man. Don’t be below a top 10% man.” Reminds me of the SNL skit on se***l harassment. “Be attractive. Do not be unattractive.” [edited to fix brain-cramp mistake.]
You do realize that a "top 90% man" is the man who is better than 10% of men and worse than 90% of all men, right? Please tell me not everyone in the comments section is this uneducated.
Women are doing nothing and men are expected to do all sort of things and jump through hoops to get them to like you. Do this, do that, do the other. It ain’t gonna happen. That’s why men are stepping back. Every man is replaceable and every woman is too. Women always have back ups. Women make decisions on a whim, on feelings, on social media trends. It’s a waste of time. Just be yourself. If she don’t like it then so be it. Most importantly don’t marry any woman. That’s the most idiotic move any man can make in the current climate.
U got it wrong. Women do a lot these days. They do tiktok, they scrollin their fb timelines all day, they watch netflix and post instagram selfies and butt pics. Thats all they do.
I'm proud to say that I have now been 6 1/2 years 100% FREE of the female gender in my life. The only regret I have is that I didn't free myself sooner. Now that I'm the happiest I've ever been in my entire life, I can now actually enjoy my life without all of the Needless Senseless Drama, all of the Indecisiveness, all of the Jealousies, all of the Insecurities, and all of the Superficial Garbage that each and every woman on the planet possesses. I have silenced the insanity in my life, and the smile on my face says it all. "My Dance Card Is Full, And I'm Dancing With Myself".
That's great until you're 50 and have no children, no legacy. Like it or not, we need women to produce children and without children life is literally pointless.
you can see the bitterness in her eyes- i guess this is what a TRUE alpha widow looks like. All the guys she wanted didnt want to settle with her so now she blames all men and has to say this stupidity online. Imagine how a man would be treated if he had said those things lol
Thirsty guys ruined the game. Do not tolerate disrespect or games women play because that's a sign she don't like you. If she is not making things easy she is not into you. Simple as that.
Their standards are one thing, but the cost is higher than ever for lower than ever quality. They are asking new Lamborghini prices for used 1980s Gremlins with an attitude. Consider your own standards and what you are even being asked to “buy” with all this hard work and status seeking that’s expected of you. Don’t settle for crap just because the crap thinks it’s high royalty.
Women can talk big as much as they want, but their biology always gets the better of them. Women are more emotional than men, and they will always be the needy ones who beg men to love them, not the other way around. That woman is just trying to get clout on social media, but she is still just a woman and will ultimately behave the same way every woman does.
For sure. It’s easy for them to talk big when they have simps chasing them around and providing them with all that external validation. Remove all male attention and she will be speaking a different tune.
Women are more emotional but men are more emotionally mature as women are bailed out for bad behaviours and coddled their entire lives, they dont have to change their behaviour when their environment and peers enables bad behaviour.
You think we’re more emotional when this whole comment section says otherwise. We’re emotional when we fall in love with a man. Y’all don’t understand women at all
Sad but true... The easiest way to keep a woman is, once she's interested, to never be sure you want to stay with her and don't fully commit. She won't leave.
There is NO more such thing as a mentally stable woman in a modern world, let alone in 2023! As I broke up with my cohabitation gf, after she switched on me suddenly (bait and switch) and after that happened, I quit dating altogether - once and for all - already a decade ago, in 2012, after I saw the movie "Gone Girl" it finally occured to me - all the writings on the wall, I didn't wanna see before. I barely made it out alive btw. with a cut wrist (she tried to slith my throat during our last - farewell - intercourse and I only managed to save my life by putting my arm in the blade's way) needless to say I didn't conformed to what she wanted beforehand (to tie me up with handcuffs) thank god my sixth sense kicked in. Dating modern women is literally a slaughterhouse now!
Sorry, I disagree. Just be yourself. Not that that will help you attract women. But changing yourself to make a woman happy is a fool's endeavor. For those who attract women, tread carefully. For those who don't, find a way to be happy alone. If there are things you hate, don't do them. Only change yourself to meet your own goals.
That's the only way you can change yourself. Otherwise you immitate and impersonate something /someone you aren't. Eventually , the decieved see past the deception , and behind the vale is a stranger. Pretending to be what you aren't may provide short term, immediate gratification but long term it's self destructive.
Rule #1 in gambling: Learn to quit while you’re ahead. Rule #2: Settling while you’re up is actually a smart move. Rule #3: Time is not your friend. The longer you play, the more you pay. Which is why the House always wins in your end. And pro players adapt by finding ways to grind out wins. … Never forget something in life, like beauty, are fungible.
I have seen this clip many times (since so many content creators have used it) and using the jargon of the manosphere, the 'guest in this household" is a reference to frame "Basically, your frame is your own way of thinking, if somebody in your life can influence how you think, you are operating in their frame ” " 'Maintaining frame' means to not let others impose their frame (and perhaps their will) on you. You stick to your guns, so to speak." These days, with all the "strong and independent" rhetoric that f3minism ideology has imposed on all of us, the question that many manosphere content creators ask individuals expressing problems in their relationships is "Whose frame are you in?" It gets particularly confusing when people always refer to "partnerships" when is comes to relationships. As far as the clip is concerned, she lets you know it is her frame that will always lead the relationship...so fair warning. Her language indicates the level of respect she gives men....but I suppose (at least at the time of her posting her clip) she has enough looks to always attract enough simps to give her attention and validation.
I would like to see her reaction to a flat tire on her car, broken sewage or no power in her house. Just...just her reaction to a repairman walking up to her and recognizing her and simply walking away or charging outrageous prices to work for her. I'm not even salty. It's just a normal event of everyday life. I'm curious to see her reaction.
Would love to see her reaction to her own attitude and clip 10 years from now when her looks are on the decline! It is women's turn to objectify men but it backfires in time.
Alexander says it's not hopeless because they don't want the absolute highest level man BUT then gives the example of how a high quality woman will be satisfied with a man that had 140 IQ. A 140 IQ is again the 1%. It may evan be a small fraction of 1%. Moreover, people with that IQ level are going to be doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, and engineers. As an engineer that does IP law, I had a woman, after a few months dating, say "I thought you were going to be something, but you are not all that." I agreed with her, because her expectations were so far beyond reasonable it would be impossible to live up to them.
Yeah, good point. I have a university master's degree in mathematics, so clearly I'm smarter than like 90% or 95% of people. Also I have a good job and make above-median money. Yet I've had two women dump me and I'm currently single. I think my IQ gives me a small edge, but not nearly as big an edge as good looks or money would be.
If you choose a woman based only in appearence, you'll probably have a problem with woman like her. We, as man, easily associate beauty with good characteristics, but buying doing this we forget to look for other things in a woman. Be careful.
I've this one before. She played herself because any guy that she would deem worthy will see this and instantly kick her to the curb, just like she states. I just wish there was a law that prevented women like this who will hit the wall from getting a bunch of animals and abusing them pretending they are her children.
In general, men want a physically intimate relationship and are happy to provide their seed and money in return. In general, women want babies and money and are happy to provide access to a physical relationship in return. The problem we have in 2023, because of divorce laws / child custody laws / child support laws, the costs of a physical relationship is no longer worth the price. What is the point of paying the price that women are asking for when things like P Hub and OF are free/low cost?
The best relationship for me is one that I have one foot out the door and the next one at a moments notice . I rather be ready to leave than be stuck with someone who isn't sure .
@@ytstolemyname I do that every time and yes it feels good but it’s not nearly worth the effort/sacrifice as an average man. Unless you’re a chad that naturally seduces women without much effort, pussy ain’t worth the trouble and drama.
The difference is that you used to be able to be yourself. Now you have to be a lie version of yourself. Men don't need that much, Idk if you've observed a bachelor pad. Some are pretty sparse, the point is men can be happy with little but women they want everything. You have to basically chase things you don't care about in life and live a lie to be with modern women. It's not worth it.
There’s no problem in having high standards. I’m a guy with high standards for everything, but that can sometimes get frustrating. The real question people should be asking instead of “what do I want?” is “what am I doing, in practical terms, to get the results I want?”.
Don’t worry about impressing women focus on yourself. You don’t need a woman for happiness. Also think of the odds even if you do fall in love that it works out. Not extremely good. So learn not to need women. Learn what makes you happy beyond them and validated. Then and only then consider it. But always know you don’t need them for anything
The question is... Are today's women really worthy enough to make those high standards ? And even they are choosers what choices they are making for their own life...
These things would not be a problem of sociaty, if it was not for for social media. It is what makes both men and women allways chasing new ones because it triggers the worse parts of human instinctive thinking.
@@carlitosbrigante6889 thats why the best thing would be if it went away. Because sociaty needs to be adjucted to serve the majority good. Wich is sometimes not allowing people what they want, wich in this case is social media
@@oscarjohansson1988 definitely, and people are like kids , I had observed this in lots women, they are spoiled brats , unfortunately many children are raised by an iPod touch nowadays lol
0:00 - this is the most SCARY thing, I ever saw in my entire 50 years of life... and I've seen a lot (survived gunfights etc.) See, a clear adversary is NOT frightening! The real horror gets you unprepared! This is how and why horror movies work. And the scariest thing is when a horror movie becomes reality! Like this kind of woman is the one, who slits your throat, while you're sleeping, after she confessed her undying love for you. You will get me, when you had a psych ex. The most dangerous are the ones, who look and sweet talk like little do-no-harm angels.
@@beasthaven1571 bro, if only I knew, I'd be rich af. But with the age, you learn to sense it (especially if she's too bubbly, excited of you and fun in the beginning and then abruptly sad and mad at you)
I spoke with men and women who had a 'high standard'. These were very rigid about that the other 'must' meet some criteria. It is entitlement, but it also boils down to a static mindset (opposite of a growth mindset) and lack of sensitivity. I do not think a relationship with this type would be healthy. Instead of joining the dance to unrealistic expectation, let's keep people behind a boundary who are like that. And focus on more healthy people.
Women who are not in the West (a large majority) do not think like that beech. They are far more traditional and respect their man. They need men more than men need women (supply & demand is opposite to the west)
Just out of curiosity: what place would Van Gogh have in your understanding of a "high quality man"? After all, he was poor, virtually unknown. He wasn't handsome or tall. He had no social standing. Yet the countless successful people in his time were forgotten, while he's remembered and his paintings are sold for millions. Is he simply a freak, some exception to the rule, outside conventional norms of what it means to be successful? How would you characterize or describe his place?
You win in terms of value as a man by being good (not the best) in multiple areas. Let's say that you are top 10% in terms of physique, top 10% in income, top 10% in social skills, top 10% in an area of interest, etc. (I deliberately chose things that are in your power to change - of course looks, height, intelligence help if you have them as well). Well, congratulations, now you are an exceptionally valuable man.
The math on those 4 traits: 10% X 10% X 10% X 10% = 0.01% of all men meet those 4 qualifications. That is 1 man out of every 10000 men. Life as a man is not easy.
To an extent you're right -- you can improve your diet and go to the gym. But some guys are just born short, or with an ugly face, or with a low IQ, or they're born autistic, or whatever, and then good luck. Also, suppose that ten men are trapped in a room and only one can leave. Now sure, if you coach a given guy in this room, maybe you can change the situation so that the guy you're coaching is the one who can leave the room. But at the end of the day it's still 9 people trapped. Even if a couple of guys take your advice and self-improve, then the fundamental problem isn't solved. It's just that slightly different guys get laid and slightly different guys can't find anyone. Even if every guy magically improved by 20% overnight, women would just up their standards and most guys would still struggle with finding a partner. We know this because 1000 years ago, women in tiny villages were marrying average guys, so it's not like some absolute independent bar of quality that's the matter, it's that women just want the best guy she can get. If men get better, her demands just increase.
Great video. I really don't like to ruin the fun, but whenever I hear some positive advice, I try to put it to the test, I picture this "authentic full masculine man" being short and ugly, compared to a tall, attractive, masculine looking guy who still didn't find his full masculinity... and it just puts into perspective and reminds me that I got mislead by words again.. cus the second guy will win every time. I assume other guys also do this logical fallacy that the more they imagine a guy becoming masculine in personality, they start to imagine a good looking guy in their head, as if someones genetics are changing as they are becoming more masculine. We always link a picture in our heads to a word.. so I think words have such a high power to manipulate us and that is part of why people just can't get it in their heads how again, at the end of the day it will be about looks. (And I'm very familiar with this concept mentioned here, since in every relationship I was in the girl was "on my island" due to me naturally seeming so ambitious, confident and leader like, the dynamic was always as if I was her dad in a way, having above and beyond respect for me like a cheerleader. But the moment we were around a guy who is taller, more masculine and good looking, this energy suddenly faded a bit, as women are aware who is the most "alpha" guy in the room by their looks. And I could tell that she is secretly more interested in him now.) I'm a 100% on board with this idea of improvement though, I really wish that it was true. But if I think about it realistically I still don't see it work that well, if we don't look the part.
Well said. Truth. Women have been programmed by media to go for the Hollywood ideal of looks and body money and status, and does everything she says to please her. Fantasy of course. The first part contradicts the matter part. But they belive this bullshite Hollywood romantic fantasy where the guy is a footstool and doormat for her majesty but also a trophy guy to show off to her gfs.
if a woman puts me in a position "maybe I'll let you stick around and maybe I won't", I would not stay with such a woman. I don't care how beautiful etc she is. I would just leave. I offer loyalty, but expect loyalty in return.
This is one of your best videos many gold nuggets. Alex is right too much required perfection by the women it's more about her own issues that she needs to work on. Usually better to avoid for at least now. One thing that also never gets talked about is genuine connection and compatability. Yes looks and money are key things but there are only so many females you will have that compatability, chemistry, etc. to go the distance with. That's why these superficial metrics can be okay when dating around for both genders when younger in your early twenties and so on but ultimately finding that person you really connect with can be harder and is what keeps things going assuming you have the other things in order. Not just a handsome face with money or a pretty girl with a nice body. Those things get old.
Yes agree. Except 90pc of women don't want that anymore. Their idea of love is pure fictional hlooywood fantasy. And unless they get it, or monkey branch to get it, they're not happy. Sadly
I gave up on women. Why? The dating scene. I,m divorced, have grown children, and don't "need" to raise a family. In that way I'm lucky. Dating today is vicious. Some time ago I set up a Tinder account. Just to check it out. I'm +50, 180cm, in shape, M.D, good pay, own a home, sportscars, dress well, several yearly vacations abroad. Enjoying life on my own. Really don't miss a wife or need a wife. But I tried Tinder. What a sh*tshow! If I had any hope of dating a woman with similar "qualifications", whoa did I get disillusioned. Matches were fat, failed, fugly and worthless, not to be a misogynist but that was reality. I stopped looking and canceled Tinder. Fine by myself. I'm happy to keep on contracting professionals when need be. Relieved to not be in my 20s or 30s, that dating scene must be depressing.
I said it many, many times: just cut out all public help and I don't care what she said - it's just her opinion. But nowadays women on average get significantly more than they pay to the system and then have audacity to say "I don't need men" - that gets me angry every time to be honest.
I'll tell you what's eff'ed-up: If a woman can't pay for her kids, she gets government assistance. If a man can't pay for his kids, he goes to jail. All this talk about "being masculine" and whatever is worthless till we get the basics fixed.
@@josealexi5141 exactly my point! Any decent man will provide for his kids whatever he can - you don't even need government law for that, the problem is that women nowadays don't want to have kids with decent men with decent money, they prefer some bum that will give chills. Moreover: they expect everyone around to pay for their bad choices. Everything is going into direction where in society you have top 20% men reproducing and all the rest paying for their kids in taxes - if someone would tell me this is sustainable model of society then I said to check his fever...
I can safely say, based on personal experience that this is not just internet hype, women do this and they do it all the time unfortunately. It would seem to me that this really started to get bad with the advent of social media and dating apps/websites. Where women can literally sit back and pick from a crop of thirsty men. As soon as you do something they don't like boom, you are replaced. I think the trick to getting past this behavior is to absolutely focus on making yourself the best version of you that you can and have options yourself. Be selfish, and ready to walk away or have enough options open to you so that if/when you get ghosted, you can recover.
Yep, can confirm this from personal experience. I've had two women go from clearly loving me (one was showing me wedding dresses), and then I showed weakness (cried in front of them because pain from childhood abuse and neglect came up), and they just dumped me via text and found another guy. Young women do treat men as utterly replaceable.
What benefit is there to interacting with them at all? There's none. They are poison. There's nothing good to be obtained from giving them a second of your energy. If you get on their radar and they feel insulted by something and they want to ruin you they will try their best to via gossip. Just don't interact with them at all.
The big kicker is when women don't want to talk out a issue with their man. To resolve the issue. When the women shuts down and don't communicate. That's the red flag of running away as fast as you can.
The problem I have been experiencing is a mass majority of lady’s have massively unrealistic standards. I don’t blame anyone for deciding life is fine being single when this is the only options available. I know some amazing lady’s but they are few and all happily married.
I guess the contradiction is: I'm in the top 90% of a lot of things, and that's still not good enough. You say "oh you don't have to be the best, just GOOD ENOUGH" well... I just don't see it.
Today she is tough but there may be a day when she is old and lonely that day will come. Respect is a two way street treating anyone like that will bring karma dont take that chance in life.
The reason body count is so important to a high quality man is because a high body count is evidence that a woman cannot be satisfied. And woman that can’t be satisfied are undesirable.
The nonsense that the woman spewed didn't even phase me lol. Don't get angry. Not all women are like that and some women are also sick and tired of feminism. Continue working on ourselves.
ever since i can remember ive been treated with utter contempt and hatred by pretty much every women ive ever met, and when your a kid you try to justify things, and it gave me a serious guilt complex im only now starting to get over because i alwase thought it was something wrong with me, like im clearly doing something wrong at pretty much all times because why else would women universally hate me so much!?
Had same feelings before learning truth about women, especially as a teen. A great relief to realize you were ok and it was / is them who are broken actually.
In a world where long term relationships arent valued the character traits needed for those relationships are not valued either. Honesty, kidness, integrity, patience... Find a woman capable of appreciating you for traits YOU WANT to be appreciated for. Not found one? Stay single and healthy.
Honestly, this extreme high standard is mostly just in the western world. If you want a traditional woman, or at least one that isn't going to drive you insane, go to south america, europe or asia. If I'm going to strive for high quality and put all my effort into bettering myself, I need a partner with high quality as well, and to be brutally honest, you can't really find that in the true western society anymore. The few percentages that does exist are either married with children or on the route to the same.
South America and places like Philippines and Thailand have been getting westernized a lot these past few years. If men want a wife right now they need to act now 5-10 years from now it will be difficult.
Ahahah, yes, tell it to my former Brazilian GF, who thought that since she was (is?) beautiful, she should have an easy life, work half day and have some rich guy providing for her. (Of course I dumped her, not only she went out with me while she was still married, not only she wanted an easy life, she also wasn't able AT ALL to get a grip on her finance, always arriving at the end of month with red in her bank account...).
"An example of such polite concealment is found in the traditional etiquette with respect to greeting newly married couples. It was customary to say "congratulations" to the man, but never to the woman; to the bride one offered only "best wishes. The pretense was that the man was receiving an unmerited windfall. The reality, of course, is that the man assumes the principal burden of marriage. For women, it is an economic bonanza. One factor in the disintegration of marriage and s*x roles is that, spoiled by prosperity, women actually came to believe the chivalrous pretense and forgot the underlying economic reality. They expect men to be grateful for the opportunity to support them. It is a case of gallantry being abused by its beneficiaries." -F. Roger Devlin
1.00 Don't demand or expect that events happen as you would wish them do. Accept events as they actually happen. That way, peace is possible. -Epictetus
This only applies to the west. I got my wife from Thailand, I speak the language and I could replace her quickly. She knows it and she works hard to keep me.
@@jean-louislalonde6070 Bro, I really hope, you don't buy into THAT delusion! Women are the same everywhere! I say that as a 50 y.o. man WITH a passport! I've been to many countries and lived in some. Y'all amwricans are so undereducated, Ignorant, arrogant and naive. This is the real reason, even your own women don't respect you. No offense, but y'all got, what you deserved, as y'all gave in to the 19th amendement, let alone to the rise of the feminism and to the police state controlled soyciety.
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I think it is time to stop blaming men or giving them advice... wrong gender needs "healing". Prove me wrong - because birth rates disagree with WHATEVER you say.
I think your wrong in your fist statement Alex that it use to be easy for men. It's always been hard for men, buildings' bridges, churches, modern technology, heck even humor were created by men to impress women. Men have sacrificed their lives to protect and care for women. The new generation only sees all the bad and none of the good.
@alexandergrace5350, I'm going to be honest with the level and the quality of woman now days, I have realized that my fredom and peace is worth much more.
When you learn to be content by yourself, and you live in a place that a professional companion is cheap. You begin to wonder what is the fuss is all about.
The juice is not worth to squeeze, I really want society to crumble and the world to burn.
@AG: you looking like you just woke up under a bridge from a 3-day binge. Perhaps watch a few Kevin Samuel vids and think about the image you're presenting to your audience.
Mr. Grace…your hopefulness always amazes me…sir.😮
“They” can all think they are desirable and feel desirous of many things from men, even from a particular man…
sadly, however, there is no establishment that can meet “all” their demands…no retail store…no App…no T.V. Program…or platform!
No matter how deserved they think they may be…
The sexual market is one space they can’t hook and crook there way along. long term…
Men are not a new pair of shoes that any one lady believes she can buy…at any moment?!? Just b/c she says she can afford it!
High value men have the final word on commitment and can’t be bought with what ladies have to offer these days…no matter how worthy they think they may be!!!
The game is rigged…men with enough experience and sense know better nowadays…especially those of higher value!
I am a divorced, single 51 yr. old man who had the chance to observe and to some degree consider different generations of women…via some socializing with them, trying to pick them up for a date and who has dated..
I would NOT waste time on the dating market of today…no matter what you think…or what people say!
if a young man is in his teens or twenties…? I would suggest to such men who are younger to focus on raising one’s SMV through work, exercise and education…leave the hope of dating seriously for later in life! If it is a man that is older and he doesn’t have the details women are looking for- DON’T DATE Seriously!!! It is a waste of resources!!!
If I were a lad of today, I would invest as little as possible in women…I would go the route of paying for it, go overseas and philander or follow a degree of the No-Fap lifestyle…
My view?
Men get very little long term anyway from relations with women…Men should not FOMO about women!!! It’s just silly! They assume the same crap in youth but to larger degree when they are older!
The longer a guy stay in a LTR with one, the more he has to prove to keep a lady loyal and interested…
I should know…I was married for approx. 9 years…and in an LTR before of 4 yrs…
Even with my suggestions, I see most men need to see it for what it is through harsh experience if need be…
All I am giving is suggestions to the up and coming…and even men slightly younger than me…still hopeful and somewhat delusional…if men want to seriously date they should wait until they are in their late 30’s or early 40’s…or don’t do it at all if they can’t afford it!!!
Dating needs to mean something if not…it’s a waste of a man’s M.E.A.T in his youth and the brief SMV of the average Lay-Dee in the West…and even in other ways elsewhere!
Woman age 25: _You're all replaceable._
Woman age 35: _Where have all the good men gone?_
The wall is undefeated you pretentious princess.
Woman at 40: Kitty kitty, come here kitty!
@@jean-louislalonde6070 😊🤩😝😂🤣
Pretentious w***e
@@jean-louislalonde6070
Which kitty are you talking to?
There's like 40 of em in the room...
@@ralphmarbler27talking to ALL of the kitties
Men should work on themselves for their own sake not for the demands of spoiled women.
This I agree with.
Speak the word brother!
and then some woman deside you are the men and she offer herself ,but u know she is with u for that what u provide and she will be gone right after u suffer from something
This is absolute!
No one is forcing you to work for women. Most women work for themselves. You're just such a loser you only meet the spoiled immature women.
"Hoeflation:
Today's men must work 5 times harder than their grandfathers for women that are 20 times worse than their grandmothers. "
It's like the price of pickup trucks in USA now...
The average man makes $50k/year. No one can afford a poorly made truck that costs $80k.
Yup back in the days a car would cost less and last 30 years. Now only very specific well made brands will last 10 with luck. And on top of that they cost more. Same shitshow on the housing market(back in the days a new house was worth $100k and now same house is worth millions in certain municipalities despite being 60 years older". And same shitshow with women ... This is what society has evolved into.
Not much hope for a radically individualistic fragmented society, even without feminism.
Truth be told, very few men going to buy those trucks actually need them.
That's a good analogy
LMAO hoeflation.
Here’s one: about my own damn half-sister. She told me years ago when she was 20 years old at the time that she had already slept with 21 men. However, she told me that “only a third of those were actual relationships“ so she would only admit to *that* amount when relaying her body count… Worse, she told me that *even in her own mind* (not just what she was relaying to others) she only saw it as *that* amount of people “since the ones that I wasn’t in a relationship don’t actually count.”
I went from partially red pilled to fully red pilled in that very moment.
When i worked in a school a group of sixth form girls went to Greece for a week after they graduated at 18. One girl apparently slept with 9 guys during that week away ...
My friend went to a birthday party of his room mate. And then there was a girl who was the friend of the birthday boy’s gf. She slept with 3 men(random dudes) in that party one after another. She asked my friend to have some fun with her. He said no. Now think how much men she had slept with in her entire lifetime. Damn it is disgusting.
This kind of thing is very common. Many will do the same thing for cheating. It doesn't count if she was drunk, planning to break up, on vacation, etc... They commit so fully to their delusion that it becomes their reality. That's part of what helps them sell their false allegations too. It's honestly frightening the first time you see it in real life.
Ew
Inability to pair bond.
It's breathtakingly shocking how sheer arrogance can INSTANTLY transform someone that's attractive to someone that's repugnant.
Exactly..
I called this the "suddenly a brick"- theory
Yeah, she's pretty and she knows it.
The best women are those wallflowers that didn't become pretty till áfter puberty, so they're not as entitled, stuck up and masculine.
I mean she clezrly plastified her face to be so unactractive too
My lizard brain was looking for my spear by the time she was done....
"How do you satisfy women's hypergamy in the modern world" Easy, you don't. 1.- Choose a goal in life (anything other than sticking it in the first hole you see) 2.- Stay on your purpose 3.- Ignore women and other distractions.
You didn't brake the dating market, is not your resposability to fix it or to morph yourself to adapt to it. Whoever broke it, is their burden to fix it.
Your goal should be to learn the difference between "break" and "brake".
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@@kcor4 meh- when autocorrect changes words as much as happens constantly in daily life- that really shouldn’t be that big a deal to you.
There’s going to be lot of lonely females with cats.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz that’s true, but I see men are waking up. It’s going to get really bad for these females, it already has started. Enjoy the 🍿…KARMA IS REAL
"You're a guest in this household"
There would be no households without men. 95% of her safe and comfortable lifestyle is provided by men. The phone she's using to record the video, the data connection she used to upload the video, the vehicle she's sitting in, the road she's parked on, and basically everything else in her life aside from the air she breathes are invented/manufacturered/maintained by men. I could literally go on for days...
Kick this guest out of the house, and the house is no more.
All facts…
In the USA, we subsidize single motherhood (which-->fatherlessness, is the main reason our crime rates are so high). It isn't a good life, but it (& the lack of female stigma for divorce or serial "monogamy") allows the hamster wheel to spin and rational thought to be thrown out the window. "I can do better. I'm special."
Wrong: the air also was made by a men: God.
They will get isolated from the workforce. Men will stop hiring. Let the last gen of blue pill simps go away to start seeing the changes happening socially.
Unfortunately, her fortune was also made by men. The countless SIMPs who send her $$ or subscribe to her OF.
We ALL need to stop giving them any of our time, attention, or money, teach all men to have self-respect.
@@vanguelder 100%, I completely agree, but much much less, definitely just like how a large number of us won't help them at all. I went to a bar 2 times he last 6 months, both times their were about 60 men and 15 of "them", both times the men completely ignored them even when they got up in the middle of the room and danced. NONE a single one got a free drink or free attention! NONE! 3 of them came over and barely got a "hi" from the men. I heard "not worth it" over and over and "Miggy - touuuy" many times...
Only 6.8 per 1000 getting married now, that's 1 in 151 men or 0.0068%, huge difference.
See USA Today and the CDC to verify the numbers if you want.
@@vanguelder The simps are all followers, will do what everyone expects them to do, if other men tell them it's wrong they will mostly stop too. Especially when they get nothing back. Many to most men have almost completely stopped helping and not even buying drinks and only 1 in 151 getting married show a huge change. We just have to teach all the younger simps self-respect, even that's changing. I did some of that stupidity myself and learned. Same for a third of men not dating now. Not worth it.
@@vanguelder Here in the USA they are the last to get a date and very few would live together, it's a little more common in the fem.... areas but since they usually don't get much back and they are the biggest pain to deal with, big attitudes, it's become much less common, mostly younger guys. If anything the moms only get a night here or there, few will do that now. With their insane egos now many of us completely stopped dating same for me. All the simps made by kids without a dad or any male role models now, even no male teachers now. The biggest difference I've seen is from men teaching the younger men and talking to them on many of the channels like Better Bachelor, Redonkulous, and Tribe of Men. Not so much this channel, he is far to quick to blame men. Maybe you can help other men there and online too. Helping the younger guys, show them they aren't alone and teach them to be strong makes the biggest difference. Even if it's for the friendship it's still definitely worth it.
I actually stopped giving likes to women in social media since its a social media created for them. I dont like photos, posts, mute their stories and in some cases I block them.
Yeah, I don't care to interact with women much anymore. I just don't care anymore. I have some women in my life that I care about, my mom and a very tiny amount of female friends, but far as finding a girl to date etc, yeah I'm done wasting my time with any of that crap.
That clip infuriated me beyond words. I know it shouldn't but it does. She spewed that toxic garbage with a completely blank expression. That just shows you how completely psychotic a lot of women are. And the sad reality is that she's right - and she is a representation of the type of woman a lot of men are married to/engaged to/in a relationship with.
It's GREAT that such videos exist.
Short but loud evidence how crazy and toxic a gal can be.
@@sergiogonzalesYT I agree man. Let them keep on spewing their toxic verbal diarrhoea. More and more men are starting to wake up - and the howls of "where have all the good men gone?" will grow louder and louder! It will be music to my ears! 😂
A thinking man would never get involved with such a toxic women on any level. Never try to satisfy female hypergamy. It’s a losing game. It’s simple. Be the best man you can be. And keep building your life and happiness. Any woman you meet who cannot recognize your quality is not worth having. Really. 😊
@@dbird1356 Absolutely. But nowadays, it's almost impossible to tell the difference. I've heard the phrase "starter husband" so many times, it's insane. It's actually funny how us men are viewed as the "commitment phobes" in society.
I couldnt watch it. She clearly a sociopath. I just love these videos and how women stupidity is being immortalized by smartphone cameras. Women are going mad. This will be historic in 500 years. The gender war is happening. Women are going to be isolated from the workforce. The disney illusion and magic curtains are more than gone.
This is bollocks. If a woman really fancies you then all of those rules go out of the window. And that's actually a top tip, a red flag to look out for. If she makes unreasonable demands of you then she really isn't that in to you. Your her second choice, the consolation prize. So you need to move on.
Truth…
I think you're thinking for a quick fling.
When they are ready to settle down... is a whole other ball game.
Or if they can't get that guy that they really fancy and have to settle.
The rules all come out.
@@totobibi507 aggressive honey badger types like this chick risk regression by being impressed by other similarly super immature and aggressive men. In fact their own kids have super aggressive behaviors for sake of survival and women still think they are the cutest thing when all a man wants to do at that point is punch the baby in the face. It is a matter of getting out of this schizophrenic double bind women control men all the time and sometimes rendering them crazy and schizo too: you are not a real man if you are mean and do hookers but you are a pu$$/ if you cannot exploit other men and women around her, also afraid of roughing her up in bed.
The bottom line is than Man as an archetype still is very much in their mind. It is then a matter of socializing little girls into real women. Society does that initiation with alcohol, sometimes drugs and night club flings, the way Sumerian would forbid anyone marrying a virgin and forced all women into prostitution first before marriage as a means of civilizing both strangers and these uninitiated young women. Other codes of socialization involve beauty products, dress codes and what not that ironically we have let gays who despise women at the bottom dominate in defining. Female genital mutilation and infibulation are not that different from genital body piercing and much less invasive than these sex change or enhancement boob and genitals jobs as a matter of creating a social woman as opposed to the natural woman.
A woman can fancy you initially, but maintaining that attraction can be difficult. She can look for other options that she believes are better, for whatever reason, even if you do indeed provide stability. She will then test you. You have to be firm. There are things that you should not tolerate. If she will not comply. Then leave her. To do so, one must rid oneself of a scarcity mindset and morality based inhibitions that make one believe that one cannot get together with other women. The purpose of getting together with other women will be primarily for sex and if one had that option, her threats of withholding sex won't work. Withholding sex threats is one of the biggest fears that men have for not leaving a woman, in addition to being confounded as to why even when one is providing well enough, the woman is becoming less cooperative. The latter is also link to highly unbalanced adoration. If one likes the woman much more than she likes oneself, that gives her much more leverage. That should be absolutely avoided.
This is bollocks is it mate? ok then based on what evidence? or is it just your opinion? one man's opinion based solely on his extremely limited life experiences and the few women he's dated? Im all ears mate, let's hear why this very thurough and decades long research is all complete bollocks?
Don’t ever go out your way to impress or please any woman gentlemen. Several videos on social media sites have proven that women didn’t want equality, they only wanted superiority and the only way to make them wake up is giving them little to no time of day, especially those with big egos and think they are all that. Forever rise above them all and continue focusing on your own ambition, purpose and vision. Genuine love should happen naturally and unexpectedly and shouldn’t feel forced or like you have to try harder to win someone’s attraction, respect and love. Always be that one step ahead of her gents and never be afraid to leave her behind because self respect comes first!
1) Have your own things you offer and develop yourself
2) Have your own standards and demands
3) Do not take any abuse and totally ignore those who do not meet your standards
Words of real wisdom. Well said bro
So i have to be basically superman just so enjoy the privilege of dealing with a spoiled woman's trauma/past/whatever? I'd rather be alone, thanks
How old are you ? You don’t have to be Superman just be the best you can be and get someone who likes the way you are not Superman dawg
The only way to win is to not care. It's not always easy to go through life ignoring feelings but it's necessary. People come and go and everyone is expendable. It is what it is.
Ugh, while I feel for men, I don’t totally agree. I’m a 47 yo widowed female married 25 years. I have an 18 yo son and 3 daughters which is why I’m here.
I personally actually think that governments (and then media) have created this situation for the purpose of control. I think while women’s nature isn’t great, it has been completely exploited by the folks with a global agenda. Instead of fighting each other, we need to fight the agenda.
What I’ve noticed is that women have the “upper hand” until somewhere around 28. Men carry it from 28- 55ish and then women have it again from 60 or so on when men again want a companion- (look it up)…
They want us to fight each other! We need a bridge uniting the genders rather than continuing the war! What do you think?
Care enough to let them alone. Each of us is on our own path, don't walk with those you disdain. Walk your own and you will find like minded travelers.
Not caring and the ability to walk away is the most powerful weapon for men.
This is spot on. With the right man a woman would pay and buy him everything. Pookies and Ray Rays are the evidence of that. Not giving an ef is the prime feature to surpass and avoid all those requirements today.
@@PennyWise-eu9nz Nobody is born into a world they've made, by definition.
Also, yeah okay let's say I get to that threshold of masculinity. What do I get in return in the relationship? No one would want a business partner that takes 80% of your profits but brings next to nothing to the table.
Don't get me wrong, striving to become better everyday is an absolute must as a man... but if you make it, the amount of effort it took simply deserves more than 95% of today's women as a reward.
Most of us are too good for what today's dating market has to give us.
My exact thoughts! What is my motivation to live up to these "standards" , not worth the trouble most likely. Staying true to ones self is best , and always strive to be the best "you" , IMO!
@@PennyWise-eu9nz He is asking about a hypothetical scenario...hence the "lets say". what would he get in such a scenario?
That’s why u just use her to fu** and ghost them…..never for a relationship….they’re recreation only
What you are most often likely to get now is a rude, unpleasant, whinny brat with the expectations of an aristocrat, a large student debt, that is packing a lifetime of entitlement and grievance training from every source possible. Enjoy.
Never mind, f*ck as many women as as you can and stay single
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
A Day of Loneliness Beats a Day of Madness!!
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whoever reports first is much more likely to have the law on their said because if your abusive woman claims you abused HER, then you say "that's not true, SHE's the abusive one," you look more guilty, but this actually happens a lot. But if you make the first move then all her false allegations are actually much easier to deal with.
Not really your safety 😂😂😂 I called the police on my ex bc my freedom was In jeopardy, the police was going to show up anyway from her shouting so since she didn't get quiet when I told her to, I called 911🤷🏾♂️ they coming anyway so they should know I'm the victim when they show up since I called. If they show up on someone else's call I'm the suspect.
She's got a lot of filters and makeup on for such a naturally strong beautiful woman who doesn't need men. Clearly she has a lot of self confidence and self esteem!
Bingo. Nicely said.
I like to dance. Once I asked my friend to dance with his wife (in her presence).
He said. Oh, she likes to lead, hard woman etc.
Ok, I let her lead.
And after a while i decided to lead.
Afer 10 sec of my leading she told me to lead her.
@@piotrekmajkowski5422 turns out, HE was the one who liked to be lead, eh? That sounds like the story of many western pussified men....for shame.
That's self love & self care.
Is there any point in learning to dance? I want to but I don't go to weddings nor am I a content creator or do i wish to go to weddings to show off. Is dance useful in anything or would it be a wasted hobby?
I always dreams of dancing when younger id listwn to music scenes would flow in my head and id try to add dances to the music and scenes (even thoigh i still cant dance or learned)
Eventually was just to shy to take any classez and stopped thinking about it but lately. Been listening to mysic and feeling alive dancing around the house. (Even though I still can't dance)
Would it be a wasted hobby to learn ? I just dont see how it will benefit or help me out if im not doing a y of those big examples?@@piotrekmajkowski5422
In this era, the more you do for a woman the less respect she will have for you. Never try to please her because she will overlook you and take you for granted.
damn right
Yup. A woman cannot respect a man that goes outta his way to give her what she wants. She wants you to say "no" to her sometimes.
painful truth
In spanosh there is a saying that goes "a las mujeres ni todo el amor ni todo el dinero" that in english would be "to women, not all the love Nor all the money", and every time o heafs that phrase were from women.
Absolutely, because the most you can possibly give can become just background noise, and even if she is appreciative at first, and she can become habituated to it. At that point the most you can give is is the least she expects of you. Never habituate people to the absolute best you can do, because then every ordinary day will make you look disappointing.
If WW3 kicks off (and we're slowly sliding towards that) and every major city and military installation in the world is nuked and she somehow survives, let's see how strong and independent she is. She will be begging for any able bodied man to help her survive no matter what.
We are closer than we have ever been. That is NOT just my opinion, btw. The Bulletin of the Atomic Scientists is the organization that has the oldest of the OG memes: the "Doomsday Clock," which has been used as an indicator of how close we are to the end since 1947. The current setting shows us being at 90 seconds to midnight. That is the closest we have _ever_ been, even closer than we were during the Cuban Missile Crisis in 1962. Compare that to 1991, when the clock stood at 17 minutes to midnight after the collapse of the Soviet Union and the end of the Cold War.
@@righthandwolf306 The Doomsday Cope is bolllocks and that NGO is always screaming wolf just to get some funding
Will she be sent to the front to defend the country? Strong and independant, remember?
After the collapse women like her will be used as currency.
@@patrickbateman3146 Like a CBDC, a depreciating currency...
Alex’s summary: “be a top 10% man. Don’t be below a top 10% man.”
Reminds me of the SNL skit on se***l harassment. “Be attractive. Do not be unattractive.”
[edited to fix brain-cramp mistake.]
Yeah this channel is basically platitudinal dogshit at this point.
Yep. It started off well but got into a less than useful self-help course.
You do realize that a "top 90% man" is the man who is better than 10% of men and worse than 90% of all men, right? Please tell me not everyone in the comments section is this uneducated.
@@selohcin You're correct. I had a brain-cramp moment at the time that I posted my comment.
140 IQ, you know just genius level. Not hard for most men to achieve😂
Women are doing nothing and men are expected to do all sort of things and jump through hoops to get them to like you. Do this, do that, do the other. It ain’t gonna happen. That’s why men are stepping back. Every man is replaceable and every woman is too. Women always have back ups. Women make decisions on a whim, on feelings, on social media trends. It’s a waste of time. Just be yourself. If she don’t like it then so be it. Most importantly don’t marry any woman. That’s the most idiotic move any man can make in the current climate.
U got it wrong. Women do a lot these days. They do tiktok, they scrollin their fb timelines all day, they watch netflix and post instagram selfies and butt pics. Thats all they do.
Alexander Grace is giving baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad advice. This video must be a joke or something.
The marriage is a business contract, it's not bad per se - It's bad when you sign a bad deal.
@@axl1002 it’s an inherently bad deal for the man.
@@axl1002 NEVER enter into a contract where the other party is REWARDED for breaking it.
I'm proud to say that I have now been 6 1/2 years 100% FREE of the female gender in my life. The only regret I have is that I didn't free myself sooner. Now that I'm the happiest I've ever been in my entire life, I can now actually enjoy my life without all of the Needless Senseless Drama, all of the Indecisiveness, all of the Jealousies, all of the Insecurities, and all of the Superficial Garbage that each and every woman on the planet possesses. I have silenced the insanity in my life, and the smile on my face says it all. "My Dance Card Is Full, And I'm Dancing With Myself".
Well said my friend, well said.
That's great until you're 50 and have no children, no legacy. Like it or not, we need women to produce children and without children life is literally pointless.
Like you had a choice
you can see the bitterness in her eyes- i guess this is what a TRUE alpha widow looks like. All the guys she wanted didnt want to settle with her so now she blames all men and has to say this stupidity online. Imagine how a man would be treated if he had said those things lol
Black Widow man eater psychopath written all over her
Nailed it. That is exactly right.
Thirsty guys ruined the game. Do not tolerate disrespect or games women play because that's a sign she don't like you. If she is not making things easy she is not into you. Simple as that.
Damn. You nailed it. Men are sick of having to try and live up to an impossible standard.
Their standards are one thing, but the cost is higher than ever for lower than ever quality. They are asking new Lamborghini prices for used 1980s Gremlins with an attitude.
Consider your own standards and what you are even being asked to “buy” with all this hard work and status seeking that’s expected of you. Don’t settle for crap just because the crap thinks it’s high royalty.
Women can talk big as much as they want, but their biology always gets the better of them. Women are more emotional than men, and they will always be the needy ones who beg men to love them, not the other way around.
That woman is just trying to get clout on social media, but she is still just a woman and will ultimately behave the same way every woman does.
For sure. It’s easy for them to talk big when they have simps chasing them around and providing them with all that external validation. Remove all male attention and she will be speaking a different tune.
Women are more emotional but men are more emotionally mature as women are bailed out for bad behaviours and coddled their entire lives, they dont have to change their behaviour when their environment and peers enables bad behaviour.
It's the society man. Men civilised it so much that these women exist now
when you see this type behavior at first it's a bit insulting but then ya gotta remember :
It's like a posturing 10 yo boy .. much ado about nothing
You think we’re more emotional when this whole comment section says otherwise. We’re emotional when we fall in love with a man. Y’all don’t understand women at all
Sad but true... The easiest way to keep a woman is, once she's interested, to never be sure you want to stay with her and don't fully commit. She won't leave.
Or she will lol
Has any of this bs actually worked? 😂
There is NO more such thing as a mentally stable woman in a modern world, let alone in 2023! As I broke up with my cohabitation gf, after she switched on me suddenly (bait and switch) and after that happened, I quit dating altogether - once and for all - already a decade ago, in 2012, after I saw the movie "Gone Girl" it finally occured to me - all the writings on the wall, I didn't wanna see before.
I barely made it out alive btw. with a cut wrist (she tried to slith my throat during our last - farewell - intercourse and I only managed to save my life by putting my arm in the blade's way) needless to say I didn't conformed to what she wanted beforehand (to tie me up with handcuffs) thank god my sixth sense kicked in.
Dating modern women is literally a slaughterhouse now!
OMG ! I am sorry this happened to you.
As soon as she cut you you should have smashed her face in. I would have.
Yup. They don't exist 🔥
Talk abt a Black Widow! GLAD
you escaped brother
Glad you escaped bro
I like it when girls are that open about their opinions. It tells me not to waste my time with them.
Agreed
Sorry, I disagree. Just be yourself. Not that that will help you attract women. But changing yourself to make a woman happy is a fool's endeavor. For those who attract women, tread carefully. For those who don't, find a way to be happy alone. If there are things you hate, don't do them. Only change yourself to meet your own goals.
Did you watch the whole video?
Well said.
That's the only way you can change yourself. Otherwise you immitate and impersonate something /someone you aren't.
Eventually , the decieved see past the deception , and behind the vale is a stranger.
Pretending to be what you aren't may provide short term, immediate gratification
but long term it's self destructive.
IF women are gonna talk down to a bloke like he is a piece of SHITE WHY BOTHER.
Just be yourself?!? Thats some girl talk 👌🏽
As a 40 year old, I have seen how women with this attitude play out.
So I'll just smile knowing her future.
Remember, you may meet her standards, but she may not meet your standards. There are plenty of women not worth having.
Yeah, 95% of them...
@@HenrySomeone I think that depends on where you live!
Rule #1 in gambling: Learn to quit while you’re ahead. Rule #2: Settling while you’re up is actually a smart move. Rule #3: Time is not your friend. The longer you play, the more you pay. Which is why the House always wins in your end. And pro players adapt by finding ways to grind out wins. … Never forget something in life, like beauty, are fungible.
I have seen this clip many times (since so many content creators have used it) and using the jargon of the manosphere, the 'guest in this household" is a reference to frame "Basically, your frame is your own way of thinking, if somebody in your life can influence how you think, you are operating in their frame ” " 'Maintaining frame' means to not let others impose their frame (and perhaps their will) on you. You stick to your guns, so to speak." These days, with all the "strong and independent" rhetoric that f3minism ideology has imposed on all of us, the question that many manosphere content creators ask individuals expressing problems in their relationships is "Whose frame are you in?" It gets particularly confusing when people always refer to "partnerships" when is comes to relationships. As far as the clip is concerned, she lets you know it is her frame that will always lead the relationship...so fair warning. Her language indicates the level of respect she gives men....but I suppose (at least at the time of her posting her clip) she has enough looks to always attract enough simps to give her attention and validation.
I would like to see her reaction to a flat tire on her car, broken sewage or no power in her house. Just...just her reaction to a repairman walking up to her and recognizing her and simply walking away or charging outrageous prices to work for her.
I'm not even salty. It's just a normal event of everyday life. I'm curious to see her reaction.
Would love to see her reaction to her own attitude and clip 10 years from now when her looks are on the decline! It is women's turn to objectify men but it backfires in time.
Alexander says it's not hopeless because they don't want the absolute highest level man BUT then gives the example of how a high quality woman will be satisfied with a man that had 140 IQ. A 140 IQ is again the 1%. It may evan be a small fraction of 1%. Moreover, people with that IQ level are going to be doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, and engineers. As an engineer that does IP law, I had a woman, after a few months dating, say "I thought you were going to be something, but you are not all that." I agreed with her, because her expectations were so far beyond reasonable it would be impossible to live up to them.
Good thing you dropped that toxic bxxxx then. You escaped w out losing half your wealth. Count yourself lucky
I have a 135 IQ legitimately tested. I've had zero women care.
She expected an Instagram lifestyle apparently, constant entertainment that has to be more and more stimulating or she’ll become bored
You dodged a bullet comrade
Yeah, good point. I have a university master's degree in mathematics, so clearly I'm smarter than like 90% or 95% of people. Also I have a good job and make above-median money. Yet I've had two women dump me and I'm currently single.
I think my IQ gives me a small edge, but not nearly as big an edge as good looks or money would be.
If you choose a woman based only in appearence, you'll probably have a problem with woman like her. We, as man, easily associate beauty with good characteristics, but buying doing this we forget to look for other things in a woman. Be careful.
I've this one before. She played herself because any guy that she would deem worthy will see this and instantly kick her to the curb, just like she states. I just wish there was a law that prevented women like this who will hit the wall from getting a bunch of animals and abusing them pretending they are her children.
In general, men want a physically intimate relationship and are happy to provide their seed and money in return. In general, women want babies and money and are happy to provide access to a physical relationship in return. The problem we have in 2023, because of divorce laws / child custody laws / child support laws, the costs of a physical relationship is no longer worth the price. What is the point of paying the price that women are asking for when things like P Hub and OF are free/low cost?
Also, don't forget that in most european countries you can bang a young hot prostitute for 50 euros. There is very little reason to marry anymore.
The best relationship for me is one that I have one foot out the door and the next one at a moments notice . I rather be ready to leave than be stuck with someone who isn't sure .
yup this is why we prefer to stay inside as gamers instead of living and breathing for a sensation that lasts 20 min
If you last 20 min, it's pretty good actually
@@ytstolemyname I do that every time and yes it feels good but it’s not nearly worth the effort/sacrifice as an average man. Unless you’re a chad that naturally seduces women without much effort, pussy ain’t worth the trouble and drama.
Bro i cant even last 2 minutes 😭
Average lasting time is like 2 minutes or something bro 💀
The difference is that you used to be able to be yourself. Now you have to be a lie version of yourself. Men don't need that much, Idk if you've observed a bachelor pad. Some are pretty sparse, the point is men can be happy with little but women they want everything. You have to basically chase things you don't care about in life and live a lie to be with modern women. It's not worth it.
"Women are hard to please." Then stop pleasing them... Please yourself. Focus on you and they will too.
There’s no problem in having high standards. I’m a guy with high standards for everything, but that can sometimes get frustrating. The real question people should be asking instead of “what do I want?” is “what am I doing, in practical terms, to get the results I want?”.
Why would any man give her a household? She needs to prove she's worthy of it. Newsflash, she's not.
Don’t worry about impressing women focus on yourself. You don’t need a woman for happiness.
Also think of the odds even if you do fall in love that it works out. Not extremely good.
So learn not to need women. Learn what makes you happy beyond them and validated.
Then and only then consider it. But always know you don’t need them for anything
So true. (And remember women don't need men either, at least not in the way you're talkin about) stop worrying about dating and make actual friends.
The first girl in the video: I predict four divorces, financially broke, and alone at age 45 with a body count over 80.
Standards soo high for men 80% are below average and 30-60% are sex and or relationship free.
Is a good thing?
It’s a good thing if the “product” being presented to us is substandard and damaged. Build yourself and your happiness and the rest will follow.
I think she got that in reverse. And men are reminding them of that.
Exactly right.
That stare she gave was pure narcissism 😬
I don't mind the clip from her, let women be polarizing, let them show their red flags, I don't mind. The sooner the better
The question is... Are today's women really worthy enough to make those high standards ?
And even they are choosers what choices they are making for their own life...
These things would not be a problem of sociaty, if it was not for for social media. It is what makes both men and women allways chasing new ones because it triggers the worse parts of human instinctive thinking.
@@cv6176 I agree, but there's too many SIMPs out there 😞
Money and power doesn’t change people , it just reveals who they are . social media is power and money .
@@carlitosbrigante6889 thats why the best thing would be if it went away. Because sociaty needs to be adjucted to serve the majority good. Wich is sometimes not allowing people what they want, wich in this case is social media
@@oscarjohansson1988 definitely, and people are like kids , I had observed this in lots women, they are spoiled brats , unfortunately many children are raised by an iPod touch nowadays lol
0:00 - this is the most SCARY thing, I ever saw in my entire 50 years of life... and I've seen a lot (survived gunfights etc.) See, a clear adversary is NOT frightening! The real horror gets you unprepared! This is how and why horror movies work.
And the scariest thing is when a horror movie becomes reality! Like this kind of woman is the one, who slits your throat, while you're sleeping, after she confessed her undying love for you.
You will get me, when you had a psych ex. The most dangerous are the ones, who look and sweet talk like little do-no-harm angels.
The part where you talk of a clear danger vs a veiled danger. 💯
They are so dangerous, we have to fight our instincts.
I just 🍇 this kind of hoes and leave them
How do you weedle out the hidden crazy?
@@beasthaven1571 bro, if only I knew, I'd be rich af. But with the age, you learn to sense it (especially if she's too bubbly, excited of you and fun in the beginning and then abruptly sad and mad at you)
I Hope her dad hears this, because without him she does not exist.
Her dad probably has seen it and is ashamed to have her as a daughter, i know i would disown her if she said something like this.
You know she has a sugar daddy or three.
Don't satisfy anything for them..just wander off into the sun gentlemen.
I spoke with men and women who had a 'high standard'. These were very rigid about that the other 'must' meet some criteria.
It is entitlement, but it also boils down to a static mindset (opposite of a growth mindset) and lack of sensitivity.
I do not think a relationship with this type would be healthy.
Instead of joining the dance to unrealistic expectation, let's keep people behind a boundary who are like that.
And focus on more healthy people.
She basically confirmed that she's not your girl it's just your turn
Women want you to do everything. Work work, home work, and social work
Women who are not in the West (a large majority) do not think like that beech. They are far more traditional and respect their man. They need men more than men need women (supply & demand is opposite to the west)
Yeah, that's why passport bros are winning and why their movement is getting bigger and bigger
Just out of curiosity: what place would Van Gogh have in your understanding of a "high quality man"? After all, he was poor, virtually unknown. He wasn't handsome or tall. He had no social standing. Yet the countless successful people in his time were forgotten, while he's remembered and his paintings are sold for millions. Is he simply a freak, some exception to the rule, outside conventional norms of what it means to be successful? How would you characterize or describe his place?
You win in terms of value as a man by being good (not the best) in multiple areas. Let's say that you are top 10% in terms of physique, top 10% in income, top 10% in social skills, top 10% in an area of interest, etc. (I deliberately chose things that are in your power to change - of course looks, height, intelligence help if you have them as well). Well, congratulations, now you are an exceptionally valuable man.
Good point brother
The math on those 4 traits: 10% X 10% X 10% X 10% = 0.01% of all men meet those 4 qualifications. That is 1 man out of every 10000 men. Life as a man is not easy.
To an extent you're right -- you can improve your diet and go to the gym. But some guys are just born short, or with an ugly face, or with a low IQ, or they're born autistic, or whatever, and then good luck.
Also, suppose that ten men are trapped in a room and only one can leave. Now sure, if you coach a given guy in this room, maybe you can change the situation so that the guy you're coaching is the one who can leave the room. But at the end of the day it's still 9 people trapped. Even if a couple of guys take your advice and self-improve, then the fundamental problem isn't solved. It's just that slightly different guys get laid and slightly different guys can't find anyone.
Even if every guy magically improved by 20% overnight, women would just up their standards and most guys would still struggle with finding a partner. We know this because 1000 years ago, women in tiny villages were marrying average guys, so it's not like some absolute independent bar of quality that's the matter, it's that women just want the best guy she can get. If men get better, her demands just increase.
Great video.
I really don't like to ruin the fun, but whenever I hear some positive advice, I try to put it to the test, I picture this "authentic full masculine man" being short and ugly, compared to a tall, attractive, masculine looking guy who still didn't find his full masculinity... and it just puts into perspective and reminds me that I got mislead by words again.. cus the second guy will win every time.
I assume other guys also do this logical fallacy that the more they imagine a guy becoming masculine in personality, they start to imagine a good looking guy in their head, as if someones genetics are changing as they are becoming more masculine. We always link a picture in our heads to a word.. so I think words have such a high power to manipulate us and that is part of why people just can't get it in their heads how again, at the end of the day it will be about looks.
(And I'm very familiar with this concept mentioned here, since in every relationship I was in the girl was "on my island" due to me naturally seeming so ambitious, confident and leader like, the dynamic was always as if I was her dad in a way, having above and beyond respect for me like a cheerleader. But the moment we were around a guy who is taller, more masculine and good looking, this energy suddenly faded a bit, as women are aware who is the most "alpha" guy in the room by their looks. And I could tell that she is secretly more interested in him now.)
I'm a 100% on board with this idea of improvement though, I really wish that it was true. But if I think about it realistically I still don't see it work that well, if we don't look the part.
Well said. Truth. Women have been programmed by media to go for the Hollywood ideal of looks and body money and status, and does everything she says to please her. Fantasy of course. The first part contradicts the matter part. But they belive this bullshite Hollywood romantic fantasy where the guy is a footstool and doormat for her majesty but also a trophy guy to show off to her gfs.
Money even more so, and social status as well.
Nah, I'm not going to play their games.
Exactly
It's why one says '' She's for the streets!''
Every woman is a quality one... until she is not. Don't chase unicorns, protect your resources at all costs and don't believe gurus on the internet.
What gurus?
Somebody should do a movie “a world with no men”
All I can say is best of luck to society. This is just going to get better and better.
if a woman puts me in a position "maybe I'll let you stick around and maybe I won't", I would not stay with such a woman. I don't care how beautiful etc she is. I would just leave. I offer loyalty, but expect loyalty in return.
This is one of your best videos many gold nuggets. Alex is right too much required perfection by the women it's more about her own issues that she needs to work on. Usually better to avoid for at least now.
One thing that also never gets talked about is genuine connection and compatability. Yes looks and money are key things but there are only so many females you will have that compatability, chemistry, etc. to go the distance with.
That's why these superficial metrics can be okay when dating around for both genders when younger in your early twenties and so on but ultimately finding that person you really connect with can be harder and is what keeps things going assuming you have the other things in order. Not just a handsome face with money or a pretty girl with a nice body. Those things get old.
Yes agree. Except 90pc of women don't want that anymore. Their idea of love is pure fictional hlooywood fantasy. And unless they get it, or monkey branch to get it, they're not happy. Sadly
I gave up on women. Why? The dating scene. I,m divorced, have grown children, and don't "need" to raise a family. In that way I'm lucky. Dating today is vicious. Some time ago I set up a Tinder account. Just to check it out. I'm +50, 180cm, in shape, M.D, good pay, own a home, sportscars, dress well, several yearly vacations abroad. Enjoying life on my own. Really don't miss a wife or need a wife. But I tried Tinder. What a sh*tshow! If I had any hope of dating a woman with similar "qualifications", whoa did I get disillusioned. Matches were fat, failed, fugly and worthless, not to be a misogynist but that was reality. I stopped looking and canceled Tinder. Fine by myself. I'm happy to keep on contracting professionals when need be. Relieved to not be in my 20s or 30s, that dating scene must be depressing.
I said it many, many times: just cut out all public help and I don't care what she said - it's just her opinion. But nowadays women on average get significantly more than they pay to the system and then have audacity to say "I don't need men" - that gets me angry every time to be honest.
I checked out of western taxman's reach decades ago 😁
Life is *GOOD* 😁
I'll tell you what's eff'ed-up: If a woman can't pay for her kids, she gets government assistance. If a man can't pay for his kids, he goes to jail. All this talk about "being masculine" and whatever is worthless till we get the basics fixed.
@@josealexi5141 exactly my point! Any decent man will provide for his kids whatever he can - you don't even need government law for that, the problem is that women nowadays don't want to have kids with decent men with decent money, they prefer some bum that will give chills. Moreover: they expect everyone around to pay for their bad choices.
Everything is going into direction where in society you have top 20% men reproducing and all the rest paying for their kids in taxes - if someone would tell me this is sustainable model of society then I said to check his fever...
Strength comes from action instead of words ! Never show or tell your enemy what your plans are to do ,especially on the internet!
I can safely say, based on personal experience that this is not just internet hype, women do this and they do it all the time unfortunately. It would seem to me that this really started to get bad with the advent of social media and dating apps/websites. Where women can literally sit back and pick from a crop of thirsty men. As soon as you do something they don't like boom, you are replaced. I think the trick to getting past this behavior is to absolutely focus on making yourself the best version of you that you can and have options yourself. Be selfish, and ready to walk away or have enough options open to you so that if/when you get ghosted, you can recover.
Yep, can confirm this from personal experience. I've had two women go from clearly loving me (one was showing me wedding dresses), and then I showed weakness (cried in front of them because pain from childhood abuse and neglect came up), and they just dumped me via text and found another guy. Young women do treat men as utterly replaceable.
What benefit is there to interacting with them at all? There's none. They are poison. There's nothing good to be obtained from giving them a second of your energy. If you get on their radar and they feel insulted by something and they want to ruin you they will try their best to via gossip. Just don't interact with them at all.
It is funny that some women really think they are not replaceable.
For you who don't know: hypergamy is basically another synonym for prostitution.
The big kicker is when women don't want to talk out a issue with their man. To resolve the issue. When the women shuts down and don't communicate. That's the red flag of running away as fast as you can.
Some Chad or Tyrone just dumped her that's the only reason women act like that
Mmm... most likely.
We all saw Tomi Lahren's freakout months back... 😂
The problem I have been experiencing is a mass majority of lady’s have massively unrealistic standards. I don’t blame anyone for deciding life is fine being single when this is the only options available. I know some amazing lady’s but they are few and all happily married.
I guess the contradiction is: I'm in the top 90% of a lot of things, and that's still not good enough. You say "oh you don't have to be the best, just GOOD ENOUGH" well... I just don't see it.
Today she is tough but there may be a day when she is old and lonely that day will come. Respect is a two way street treating anyone like that will bring karma dont take that chance in life.
The reason body count is so important to a high quality man is because a high body count is evidence that a woman cannot be satisfied. And woman that can’t be satisfied are undesirable.
Bro women are literally swiping on only 1% of men now. The problem isn't men.
The nonsense that the woman spewed didn't even phase me lol. Don't get angry. Not all women are like that and some women are also sick and tired of feminism. Continue working on ourselves.
ever since i can remember ive been treated with utter contempt and hatred by pretty much every women ive ever met, and when your a kid you try to justify things, and it gave me a serious guilt complex im only now starting to get over because i alwase thought it was something wrong with me, like im clearly doing something wrong at pretty much all times because why else would women universally hate me so much!?
Had same feelings before learning truth about women, especially as a teen. A great relief to realize you were ok and it was / is them who are broken actually.
Alexander, the problem is those high quality women you described so accurately, well they are already married. 😂
In a world where long term relationships arent valued the character traits needed for those relationships are not valued either. Honesty, kidness, integrity, patience... Find a woman capable of appreciating you for traits YOU WANT to be appreciated for. Not found one? Stay single and healthy.
Honestly, this extreme high standard is mostly just in the western world. If you want a traditional woman, or at least one that isn't going to drive you insane, go to south america, europe or asia. If I'm going to strive for high quality and put all my effort into bettering myself, I need a partner with high quality as well, and to be brutally honest, you can't really find that in the true western society anymore. The few percentages that does exist are either married with children or on the route to the same.
South America and places like Philippines and Thailand have been getting westernized a lot these past few years. If men want a wife right now they need to act now 5-10 years from now it will be difficult.
@@ssing7113 You should travel more, because obviously, you don't know what the F you're talking about. "They're all the same" sheesh, grow up
Ahahah, yes, tell it to my former Brazilian GF, who thought that since she was (is?) beautiful, she should have an easy life, work half day and have some rich guy providing for her. (Of course I dumped her, not only she went out with me while she was still married, not only she wanted an easy life, she also wasn't able AT ALL to get a grip on her finance, always arriving at the end of month with red in her bank account...).
The situation is hopeless. 55yo and have been single for 12 years. Never been happier in my life.
Want to see someone's true colors? Give them power.
Its all on display now.
"An example of such polite concealment is found in the traditional etiquette with respect to greeting newly married couples. It was customary to say "congratulations" to the man, but never to the woman; to the bride one offered only "best wishes. The pretense was that the man was receiving an unmerited windfall. The reality, of course, is that the man assumes the principal burden of marriage. For women, it is an economic bonanza. One factor in the disintegration of marriage and s*x roles is that, spoiled by prosperity, women actually came to believe the chivalrous pretense and forgot the underlying economic reality. They expect men to be grateful for the opportunity to support them. It is a case of gallantry being abused by its beneficiaries."
-F. Roger Devlin
It is an essential skill for man to be able to filter out crazy woman like her.
1.00 Don't demand or expect that events happen as you would wish them do. Accept events as they actually happen. That way, peace is possible. -Epictetus
10 years later post wall...
Waaaah! Where are all the good men???? Why am I being treated so poorly?
This is precisely why I embrace women from overseas!!!
They are never satiated. Monkey branching is the main issue. If a better option comes along, she will swing away from you without hesitation.
I showed this video to my brother. He gave me his perspective on this issue
This only applies to the west. I got my wife from Thailand, I speak the language and I could replace her quickly. She knows it and she works hard to keep me.
There is a golden rule: when you are in a relationship you should feel at least as well as when you are single, ideally better. If not, dump her.
I wish i knew this rule before
@@beasthaven1571 I learned this rule the hard way bro. It is never too late.
So you're saying, we, men have to become the top 1% just to attract THIS at 0:00?
Get a passport and fly away.
@@jean-louislalonde6070 Bro, I really hope, you don't buy into THAT delusion! Women are the same everywhere! I say that as a 50 y.o. man WITH a passport! I've been to many countries and lived in some. Y'all amwricans are so undereducated, Ignorant, arrogant and naive. This is the real reason, even your own women don't respect you. No offense, but y'all got, what you deserved, as y'all gave in to the 19th amendement, let alone to the rise of the feminism and to the police state controlled soyciety.