I love my wife so much first for Allah then for her character. Even when she yelled at me. I love her even more. I get so happy when I hear her voice or see her face 😭 😍
Assalamualaikum. My grandfather passed away the Saturday before Ramadan Started. His heart was in Mosque. Even after many brain strokes he always went to pray in Mosque, even when he couldn’t see properly and had to take help to reach Mosque. Everyone please pray for my Grandfather so that he may find Jannatul Firdaous.
Subhanallah. I am in the same position, and I've been feeling very deeply hurt and neglected especially these past 2 days, and this video showed up on my feed. Subhanallah. I'm speechless on the love of Allah. It feels like Allah is comforting me in my sorrow. Hasbiyallahu ni'mal wakeel Ya Allah.
May Allah grant you a righteous spouse at His most perfect timing, and may He grant you the ablility to implement everything you've learned for a successful and patient marriage, Ameen ya Rabb
I invite all beautiful people here to come and listen to beautiful recited Quran 🕋 *When the Quran is read, listen attentively, and fall silent, so that you may be blessed with mercy.” (7:204)*
1) Subhan'Allah 2) Alhamdulillah 3) La ilaha illaallah 4) Allahu Akbar 5) Astagfirullah watub ilaihi 6) SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil azeem. it s only going to take a few seconds! Please recite! Have a nice day brothers and sisters
Reminder Series: Whenever a Muslim supplicates for his (Muslim) brother in his absence, the angels say: "May the same be for you" -Sahih Muslim Prophet Muhammad PBUH
@@xsenteur4189 because thats how it works in islam only because she has to obey her husband doesn’t mean they dont have to compromise. If she is not fine with it because she sees a bad in it they should talk it out. You think any marriage would hold especially in islam if the man would just go do whatever he wants because his wife has to obey? Astaghfirullah this will not end well.
@@xsenteur4189 he asked permission and that's the way to go, he cares about his wife,why are you trying to give bad advice?.that's not what Islam teaches ,learn your religion
I cut the string in my hand because I am crying and sad because of a situation and then my mom with a golden heart comes and fixes the string with a smile and love and a big bear hug. Thank you Mother I am so blessed that I have you. May Allah forgive your sins and everyone’s Insh’Allah
Please pray for me. I left an abusive marrage when I was 34 (now 39). My ex husband told me wives are temporary and mothers and sister forever. Since Islam teaches to respect parents - he allowed his mother and sister to abuse me. It has been many years I am still unmarried because most men my age still wants a young wife.
@K C If you make dua for your brother or your sister ALLAH swt send one Angle and he’ll say Aameen on it..ALLAH swt likes the person who make dua for others if you wish for something make dua for others as well you’ll get it sooner in sha ALLAH...May ALLAH swt forgive us Aameen.
Islam also teaches to treat ur wife well as well. The prophet SAW was the best husband to his wives so look for a husband who is good in his deen. Look for someone who truly follows the deen and follows the example of the prophet SAW
But husbands think them as someone damn important person even before wife's mother and father... Abuse her insulting her father is a new level of torture. Using quran and hadis to put her down is his best weapon. Allah plz help your banda from this type of husbands. Give hedayat and your rahmat.
Aslm alkm ww....oh!!! I feel like I want to cry 😭 your wife is your best friend. Make her happy 😁😂 all the time 🙂. Thanks 👍 for the advice. Jazakallahu kheir.
Sheikh you are great. Sometimes devil distracts us from our loved one, we man most of the time done the wrong. After one incident in my life realised the social media/ fake people / everyone.ing shaa ALLAH i will respect her in rest of my life
May Allah s.w.t protects every muslim brother and sister from this covid pandemic and their personal illness And may Allah s.w.t bless me with a rghteous and lovable caring god fearing spouse who will become my coolness to my eyes ,and also with a rghteous progeny Ameen
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My husband abused me verbally, physically.emotionally for no fault of mine just bcoz of his own insecurities...Now I feel nothing for him..Left with no more capacity even to feel pain..But I believe allah will help me one day
Assalaamu alaikkum my dear brothers and sisters... Hope you all are doing well. Insha allah, may Allah Almighty bless us in this beautiful Ramadan, gather us in Jannah
He was trying to make a point, and was in no uncertain terms was he saying that she’s not worthy of respect if she’s simply herself. Allah has honored the children of Adam.
@@kabirrubaiyat Your claim has zero basis, especially when he hasn't even hinted towards it. Our society in general tens to lean more towards relationships of woman rather than woman herself. "She's the daughter/sister/wife/mother of x" instead of "she's x" while the man gets "he's x" instead of "he's the son/brother/husband/father of x" even worth nothing is the fact that the relationship a woman is bound with is almost always with a man while the relationship a man is bound with is never with a woman. A famous example would be Fatima Jinnah "sister of Muhammad Jinnah", while it is Muhammad Jinnah simply.
@@pakizajinnah9716 I don’t think this is religion thing, it’s more a culture thing. In most middle eastern countries, they will rarely refer to a woman by her name because they are protective of her. My brothers don’t tell their friends my name or my sister’s name and similarly I don’t bring up Women’s names when I’m talking to my dad, I’ll say ‘this person’s wife’ or ‘the daughter of’ to identify while keeping it vague. It’s not meant to make the woman feel less.
@@hadilayyad6147 I clarified first and foremost that it was "our society in general", I am not targeting any religion. Secondly, if I was any of your brothers, I would not be talking about my sisters in the first place. What you say to your dad is in a different context from my original comment. You don't say a woman's name out of respect and protectiveness for the woman, but what I said originally was that every woman deserves respect not because she's someone's relative, but because she is herself. It's been long so I don't remember correctly but I'll clarify why I made this original comment, I'm guessing the video said that "you should respect a woman because she is someone's daughter" which to me sounded very offensive. It seems only the parents and siblings would be hurt if their daughter and sister was disrespected in her husband's house? What about the woman herself? Wouldn't she feel hurt? What if the parents don't care at all either? Why can't we say "you should respect a woman because she is a human like us". This is a sad truth. Since ancient times the woman has had to take the husband's family name. I am not personally against it. But even a successful woman like Fatima Jinnah was always introduced as "Muhammad Jinnah's sister", but when it comes to Muhammad Jinnah he has never been introduced as "Fatima Jinnah's brother". So now Fatima Jinnah should only be respected because she is someone's sister? We don't even know unless we bother to learn about her achievements ourselves outside of "sister".
@@pakizajinnah9716 I understand where you’re coming from. This aspect also kind of annoys me but we grew up with it and unfortunately I don’t see it ever changing. My brothers don’t talk about me in details, sometimes they’ll say that I made them a favorite dish of theirs and I spoil them with desserts. Nothing serious or haram. I think the whole ‘daughter of’ and ‘sister of’ is meant to serve as a reminder for men to be more emphatic and to treat her with honor so he will realize if he doesn’t take care of her, her family will. I know not every girl is fortunate to have a family who loves and respects her, but in Islam we teach compassion and empathy. It’s just how most men’s brains are wired, I believe. I argue with my husband all the time with this, he’ll come and complain to me about something that bothered him in his family, like maybe his sister’s car broke down or that her kids are crazy. I then reply that her husband spoils her and actively raises their children together while my husband never fixes anything that needs to be fixed, i have to do it and he doesn’t lift a finger to help me with the kids and treats me like a discarded shoe. I always ask him ‘why is it not okay for your mother or sister but it’s fine for me to be treated this way? ‘ he never has an answer, bc obviously it’s a crappy reason. Men always think ‘oh she’s my wife, she has to settle for me, Islam says so’. And consequently they get away with too much bc even when we are wronged, no one genuinely sides with us bc they don’t want us to put the idea of divorce in our heads. Only genuinely good men with character and deen will respect a woman as her own self, not as his ‘wife’ or as a ‘daughter’. Sorry for the long paragraph 😬 I totally understand your frustration, I’m going through it now.
My husband abandoned me with a baby for another woman without ever taking responsibility of own child. Abandonment like this may Allah protect wives from such husband That's my duah
I’m crying while listening to this, my husband cheated on me and left me for another woman. He slept with her years behind my back and l was so naïve and trusted him. He prayed daily and every Friday in the mosque what an hypocrite. He really destroyed my life while l loved him dearly and was so good to him.
@@hanamimi5300 you're welcome it breaks my heart when i hear that a good sister have been treated badly when now a days it's so rare to find a good women , may god help you and don't forget that allah love you
Bismillah. This talk was going quite well. I was glad to hear this being presented. No need to mention fitness however because it just asserts the view that only one size or shape is ideal. From Aisha to Sauda they were all loved by the same man, may Allah be pleased with them and Muhammed peace be upon him.
Even if they did, they wouldn’t change. I’ve sent my husband tons of articles and videos like this. The fact of the matter is abusers will never ever change, if you don’t like it, they will discard you and find another victim who will allow the abuse.
*NO OTHER RELIGION ON EARTH OR ANYWHERE ELSE GIVES SO MUCH RESPECT & LOVE & IMPORTANCE TO WOMEN… ONLY ISLAM SAYS WOMEN SHOULD BE TREATED IN THE BEST POSSIBLE WAYS IN WHATEVER FORM SHE IS MOTHER,SISTER, WIFE OR DAUGHTER.. SUBHANALLAH.*
True, but many people from some countries (of course I don’t know about all the countries) refuse to give them the right and respect Islam has given to ladies. I’m proud of being Muslim, grateful to my partner, but sad for other ladies. Unfortunately non Muslims don’t blame our society for that but blame our religion 🥲
*Sahih al-Bukhari 38* *Narrated Abu Huraira:* *Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah's rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven."*
I will pray a lot for you sister ! May ALLAH Subhanahu Wa Ta'alaa make things better for you !!!!! May ALLAH get you out of that horrible situation and that you will find happiness soon !!!!!!
One of the most hurtful thing a man does to a woman is having a second wife so please muslim brothers don’t even praise other woman or even think about another wife
So why did Allah allow it in the Quran itself. Lot of things are in Hadith but marrying 4 wives 3, 2 or 1 is the the Quran. In that order. 4 then 3 then 2 then 1!! Ok I get females won’t like it but Allah legislated it as halal if a man wants. The best if creation had multiple wives and so did most of the famous Sahaba we hear famous stories about. Education is key
@@DiaryofaNomad you are very mistaken and misquoting the quraan for your own personal desires. The very next verse after the one you have quoted warns against the punishments of unfair treatment among wives. The quraan also mentions immediately after the verse you have mentioned, how ONE wife is better advised as mankind by nature is not just and there is a terrible punishment if youre unable to fulfil the happiness of all 4 wives. The hadeeth also mentions how this is among the lesser important of sunnahs. It is better for you to get all your fardh in order first - e.g treating that one wife properly and appreciating her, fulfilling her needs, keep her happy (something most men can barely do with just one wife) doing right by your family, praying on time, etc, before rushing to pick the lesser important parts of the deen that suit you. Besides, the esteemed men you refer to are NOT AT ALL comparable to the men of today hence they were able to maintain 4 wives fairly, and even they, pious as they were, had to deal with jealousy among wives, so do not compare men of today with the sahaba (R.A)
@@DiaryofaNomadThere is a reason why allah allows many wives. There will be a time when females will be a lot more in number then men. Then what the extra females will do. There's another reason, in time of Muhammad pbuh there were multiple wars in which many man had died. Then what will happen to the women they left behind. That's why he encouraged the sahabas to marry some of them so that they will not be lost and have someone to rely on. Many men complain why the women don’t accept second wife, It's a sunnah they should accept it. But do you know "You will never be able to maintain ˹emotional˺ justice between your wives-no matter how keen you are. So do not totally incline towards one leaving the other in suspense. And if you do what is right and are mindful ˹of Allah˺, surely Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful." Surah An Nisa,Ayat 129.
Sometimes cry is a little word. They kill the souls and the urge for life to live. They make one to feel worthless , respect less, being guilty for everything and on the top makes references from religion.
Please pray , every man should find a loyal wife and every women finds a caring husband , though the place of a wife is so high , i was ruthlessly betrayed , she was my life,
0:52 since I married he let me cry every after one week now I am scarred to argue and I always try to let him Calm down that he will get upset he but he let me cry for whole night he won’t even let me stop instead he will leave me home alone.I wish he was like my grandma or my parents who wipe my tears to let me stop he said he love me so much i promise i won’t bear a single tear from him I love him so much.and he doesn’t talk me all after all I will be the one to say sorry cuz i don’t want make our relationship worse.I cried At salah to make our stronger need dua inshallah he will know my tears one day ameen
Maximum hubby's think that wife's are garbage. Just feeding them three times and all done. Nothing else isn't important at all. And bitting them is a normal thing. May Allah gives us strength.
Their is a word compromise for both partners too .but if someone don't give you value in your life for such long time so things should be discussed with your spouse and make things settle for yourself ..
For trying to be a perfect muslim/muslimah we can follow 12 steps: 1. Ilm.(Islamic knowledge) 2.Strive against nafs.(Self-evil) 3. Giving Islamic dawah. 4.Sabr.(Patience) 5.Good character.(by reading Seerah) 6.Avoiding laziness. 7.Praying Tahajjud. 8.Concentration in Salah.(By Understanding Quran) 9.Secret Charity. 10.Frequent rememberence of Death. 11.Finding good friends. 12.Increasing love for Allah by remembering His blessings,thanking him by Dua,repenting to Him for our sins and giving Salawah to Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) May Allah make us among those who follows all these steps properly(Ameen)🤲 May Allah grant all of us Jannah without any judgement and with highest companionship of Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) (Ameen)🤲
My grandfather died 3 years ago he had heart problems and he was becoming weaker and weaker and he always went to the mosque to pray and on Friday 12:00 pm he went to the mosque to pray and it was soo hot it was 49 degrees and I kept sleeping because I couldn't wake up and he wasn't back till 4:00 everyone started worying and then started searching him and we found him on 10:00 pm he fell in the bathroom and was in a bad condition so we took him to the hospital and the things weren't going so good and tommorrow he left us all may Allah bless him jannatul firdous and I was happy just because he died in shahadat and in a good condition at the hospital at least not in the bathroom may Allah bless him with jannat ul firdous ammen
My husband he living without me since month passed by....He only believe his sister n mother...he left me for the sake of his family ..I m in pain ..in Ramadan I'm only praying that Allah gives me sbr and make h realized he has done wrong to me ...
I stay away from everyone.... This makes me not to comnit sin 🙂😇... Now I am capable of living a lonely life, I will be okay even if I don't marry and don't have anyone esle in my life... I only Allah and Rasool 🙂
My parents are in a broken marriage and there is no respect between one another either. My dad especially doesn’t treat my mom well and it breaks my heart because he’s such a great dad to us but not a good husband to his wife. I don’t know what to do at this point. And my mom can’t divorce him because she relies on him for financial support.
My mom has been getting yelled at by my dad all the time, and he says he is a good father, but from what I know, good fathers don’t yell at their wife and make them cry. I am starting to not appreciate him as a father anymore. But I will try and help them get their relationship back together again. Inshaallah it will work.
Most of the husband love his wife for new marriage period, once she get old,when she lost her figure n beauty after gives baby birth. Then, he didn't like to love her
Its has been 15 year since i have beeb married.My husband does not know my value.since i have come in his life i have always been crying.I ACCEPT ALL THIS AS MY FATE.MAY ALLAH GIVE ME STRENGTH TO BEAR IT.
2/14/2023 I wish everyone a Happy Valentine's day!! 🌬🎉🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎈🎉🎈🎈🎊🎈🎈🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊 We must have courage to Speak out and defend our Own dignity because as a Woman we are worthy. God bless us all with Justice.
I invite all beautiful people here to come and listen to beautiful recited Quran 🕋 *When the Quran is read, listen attentively, and fall silent, so that you may be blessed with mercy.” (7:204)*
I really love my husband,he gets angry very easily sometimes he shout at me and want to argue with me even if he's the one that wronged me,but the only way out for me is too keep quiet and sometimes i hold my tears sometimes I can't.
Don't worry, in jannah you don't have to deal with him. You can have whatever you want, that's Allahs promise. I know it's hard but focus on your imaan and doing good deeds because we can die any day.
@@Being_Mike9 @Mike what is problem man??? You almost wrote more than 10 comments against women and telling men to get second marriage. You are so rude and you can't understand what people suffering from. May almighty Allah give you mildness and forgive you.
A righteous spouse will be hard to find in these last days.Ive already decided I will quite happily remain single till the end of my days.My life is less stressful without a partner as many people cannot be trusted even those who profess to be following Islam."Betray not the trusts you are given."
My husband abuse me, always he forced me to obey his family not only his father nad mother but also his uncles and cousins also, i am so disappointed from him, my heart cries everyday
Sending Darud and Peace on the blessed Prophet (Peace be upon him) The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) as saying that "One sent by my Sustainer came to me and told me that 'Whoever from your Ummah sends Darud on you once ten good deeds are recorded onhis behalf, his ten (minor) sins are pardoned and he is elevated by ten stages" [SunanNisai and Musnad Ahmed, AI-targhib li al Mundhari, P.157 volume 3] And Anas (Ra) a companion, has said that the Prophet (Sallallahu AlaihiWasallam) said that "When my name is mentioned before anyone it is incumbent upon him to, send darud on me, and whosoever sends darud once, Allah sends His Mercy on him ten times. The best Darud is that which we read towards the end of our Salah and the shortest is to say "Salallahu AlaihiWasallim"
What if the wife makes the husband cry?My uncle cries because of his wife, because she doesn't respect him even though he has gone way out of his way to convince/persuade her(I have literally seen him done so) to keep the marriage afloat,and Alhamdulillah the marriage is still intact but when I see them I just..don't get feeling that my uncle is satisfied with her. Note:They live in India and are born in India so uh,if you think that all Indian husbands are what you think you are..then I'm afraid you are wrong.
@@australia5766 yes they do. Our prophet Muhammad cried so much when her daughter died. Men can cry. Crying is natural and release you from all the pressure and stress.
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May Allah bless all the single people with a righteous spouse who’ll be a comfort to the eyes in this life and the next! Ameen!
امين
Ameen
Ameen
Inshallah
Ameen
Aameen ☺️
I love my wife so much first for Allah then for her character. Even when she yelled at me. I love her even more. I get so happy when I hear her voice or see her face 😭 😍
That's so cute omg May Allah bless your love 😭💕💕
Love has to be from both sides. it cannot be on one side only. I used to be like you, until I felt rejected by my wife over and over and over again.
😢😢😢💔💔💔 MashaAllah
Assalamualaikum. My grandfather passed away the Saturday before Ramadan Started. His heart was in Mosque. Even after many brain strokes he always went to pray in Mosque, even when he couldn’t see properly and had to take help to reach Mosque. Everyone please pray for my Grandfather so that he may find Jannatul Firdaous.
Inalilah wa inalilahi rajiun.
May Allah SWT grant him higher place in Jannah.
@@queenm6171 Ameen
May allah forgive all and grant jannathul firdaws for your grandfather
Amin
ameen
Subhanallah. I am in the same position, and I've been feeling very deeply hurt and neglected especially these past 2 days, and this video showed up on my feed. Subhanallah. I'm speechless on the love of Allah. It feels like Allah is comforting me in my sorrow. Hasbiyallahu ni'mal wakeel Ya Allah.
SubhanAllah! Same here, exactly same feelings.... Allah Bless You With Ease In Your Heart.....
@@connectamna4585 May Allah Ease your pain and bring peace and happiness in your life.... Aameen....
@@nosheenkhan2457 Ameen
Same here...
Hi sis I want say something,I want to say that I love you you are special ,stay strong your pretty your strong
I wish every husband can see that understand that , May Allah bless All the halal relationship in the world
Exectly
I don't have time to wait for my husband to understand,I will just move on .
This make me calm and wiped my tears... In shaa ALLAH one day everything will be fine with ALMIGHTY ALLAH's plan..
We get so much priority bcoz of Islam.. Mash Allah. Indeed Allah is a best planner ❤
Planner* but indeed he is
@@Hhhh22222-w typing mistake bruh.. Thanks for correction 😹
But in reality we don't get respect. Atleast as a wife i don't get respect or love. Infact my husband curses me compares me with other girls.
Yes
@@nafuuuu7 it’s alright. Typo can happen.
I am Stil single 26 years old, But In sha Allah i will take notes from it and learn.
Ameen
May Allah grant you a righteous spouse at His most perfect timing, and may He grant you the ablility to implement everything you've learned for a successful and patient marriage, Ameen ya Rabb
May Allah give you the spouse you want
I invite all beautiful people here to come and listen to beautiful recited Quran 🕋
*When the Quran is read, listen attentively, and fall silent, so that you may be blessed with mercy.” (7:204)*
Iam too 26 , Alhamdulillah I am getting married this July inshallah
This value education.. specially indian husband needs to learn..
Not just indians but south asians as a whole.
I agree with this . I'm married to one and it's been difficult I'm not going to lie .
so it's somali men
@@fatumaahmed4304 haha anagana ma nagu dartay haye
@@Dhuxul9 faaraxyaasha maxumo for real 😳
1) Subhan'Allah
2) Alhamdulillah
3) La ilaha illaallah
4) Allahu Akbar
5) Astagfirullah watub ilaihi
6) SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil azeem.
it s only going to take a few seconds! Please recite!
Have a nice day brothers and sisters
Inshallah u will keep on getting ajar ( good deeds ) when ever someone reads this. I will copy and paste this as well.
Reminder Series:
Whenever a Muslim supplicates for his (Muslim) brother in his absence, the angels say:
"May the same be for you"
-Sahih Muslim
Prophet Muhammad PBUH
Ooo Allah bless every men who loves his wife and respect her Mashaa Allah
Alhamdulillah my wife always let's me go fishing, I love her so dearly and grateful to Allah SWT for blessing me with such a wonderful wife.
that's really great but i don't see why you should ask for permission in your house to do what you want
@@xsenteur4189 because thats how it works in islam only because she has to obey her husband doesn’t mean they dont have to compromise. If she is not fine with it because she sees a bad in it they should talk it out. You think any marriage would hold especially in islam if the man would just go do whatever he wants because his wife has to obey? Astaghfirullah this will not end well.
@@xsenteur4189 he asked permission and that's the way to go, he cares about his wife,why are you trying to give bad advice?.that's not what Islam teaches ,learn your religion
I am crying while listening to this🥺🥺
I’m holding back my tears cause I made her cry and other things
Me too
alhamdulillah i am born a muslim because islam grants us dignity and value 👑❤
I cut the string in my hand because I am crying and sad because of a situation and then my mom with a golden heart comes and fixes the string with a smile and love and a big bear hug. Thank you Mother I am so blessed that I have you. May Allah forgive your sins and everyone’s Insh’Allah
Listening to this while crying deep from my heart 🥺
May Allah help you
Me too
Me too
Same here !
Yes me too
May Allah grant us spouses who always have soft spot for us🤲
Inshallah
May Allah grant us a spouse who have a soft spot for us
Please pray for me. I left an abusive marrage when I was 34 (now 39). My ex husband told me wives are temporary and mothers and sister forever. Since Islam teaches to respect parents - he allowed his mother and sister to abuse me. It has been many years I am still unmarried because most men my age still wants a young wife.
May ALLAH swt make it easy for you. Aameen.
I pray for Allah to grant you a righteous husband sister
I will make dua for you this Ramadan , Love you sister
@K C If you make dua for your brother or your sister ALLAH swt send one Angle and he’ll say Aameen on it..ALLAH swt likes the person who make dua for others if you wish for something make dua for others as well you’ll get it sooner in sha ALLAH...May ALLAH swt forgive us Aameen.
Islam also teaches to treat ur wife well as well. The prophet SAW was the best husband to his wives so look for a husband who is good in his deen. Look for someone who truly follows the deen and follows the example of the prophet SAW
Ya Allah! You know everything about us. Pls give us a good position this life and jannah.
If I cry my husband would say it’s crocodile tears. I don’t have even rights to cry.
😂😂😂 Man will be man stop talking with him and giving him food then see his reaction 😬
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@@AMAANOP loll
may Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala) bless you and me and all Muslim brothers and sisters and our families
@@UnstableAtom2218 😁
may we all enter jannah together because we are a beautiful ummah ameen
Ameen sis
I heard this and I really cried 😭😭 ..
But husbands think them as someone damn important person even before wife's mother and father... Abuse her insulting her father is a new level of torture. Using quran and hadis to put her down is his best weapon. Allah plz help your banda from this type of husbands. Give hedayat and your rahmat.
May ALLAH save us from such people
Women think the same too expect everything from men and say its not my responsibility to do anything for you
I m sufferring the same
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Suffering the same
This is the beauty of Islam. Being kind, compassionate, humble.
may allah bless you teach the husbands that their wife is not just wife
Oh Allah, forgive all of our past, present, and future sins, Ameen.
Always make dua:
ربنا هبلنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا كرة أعين وجعلنا للمتقين إماماً..
May Allah grant us all Jannatul Firdaus Ameen Ya Rabb
Aslm alkm ww....oh!!! I feel like I want to cry 😭 your wife is your best friend. Make her happy 😁😂 all the time 🙂. Thanks 👍 for the advice. Jazakallahu kheir.
Much needed lecture for Muslim Ummah
I was hurt from thes past 2 months....and this vidio popped up...now feeling better
Sheikh you are great. Sometimes devil distracts us from our loved one, we man most of the time done the wrong. After one incident in my life realised the social media/ fake people / everyone.ing shaa ALLAH i will respect her in rest of my life
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May Allah s.w.t protects every muslim brother and sister from this covid pandemic and their personal illness
And may Allah s.w.t bless me with a rghteous and lovable caring god fearing spouse who will become my coolness to my eyes ,and also with a rghteous progeny
Ameen
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may ALLAH guide us all.
it is he who is in control.
and from him i ask for anything i want.
and i am happy with whatever he gives me
My husband abused me verbally, physically.emotionally for no fault of mine just bcoz of his own insecurities...Now I feel nothing for him..Left with no more capacity even to feel pain..But I believe allah will help me one day
Assalaamu alaikkum my dear brothers and sisters... Hope you all are doing well.
Insha allah, may Allah Almighty bless us in this beautiful Ramadan, gather us in Jannah
Wallikum Assalam
Aameen ☺️
Allah (SWT)
This topic cannot be explained better than you did💜
My wife is my world ❤️
A woman deserves respect not just because she's someone's daughter. She deserves respect because she is herself.
He was trying to make a point, and was in no uncertain terms was he saying that she’s not worthy of respect if she’s simply herself. Allah has honored the children of Adam.
@@kabirrubaiyat Your claim has zero basis, especially when he hasn't even hinted towards it. Our society in general tens to lean more towards relationships of woman rather than woman herself. "She's the daughter/sister/wife/mother of x" instead of "she's x" while the man gets "he's x" instead of "he's the son/brother/husband/father of x" even worth nothing is the fact that the relationship a woman is bound with is almost always with a man while the relationship a man is bound with is never with a woman. A famous example would be Fatima Jinnah "sister of Muhammad Jinnah", while it is Muhammad Jinnah simply.
@@pakizajinnah9716 I don’t think this is religion thing, it’s more a culture thing. In most middle eastern countries, they will rarely refer to a woman by her name because they are protective of her. My brothers don’t tell their friends my name or my sister’s name and similarly I don’t bring up Women’s names when I’m talking to my dad, I’ll say ‘this person’s wife’ or ‘the daughter of’ to identify while keeping it vague. It’s not meant to make the woman feel less.
@@hadilayyad6147 I clarified first and foremost that it was "our society in general", I am not targeting any religion. Secondly, if I was any of your brothers, I would not be talking about my sisters in the first place. What you say to your dad is in a different context from my original comment. You don't say a woman's name out of respect and protectiveness for the woman, but what I said originally was that every woman deserves respect not because she's someone's relative, but because she is herself.
It's been long so I don't remember correctly but I'll clarify why I made this original comment, I'm guessing the video said that "you should respect a woman because she is someone's daughter" which to me sounded very offensive. It seems only the parents and siblings would be hurt if their daughter and sister was disrespected in her husband's house? What about the woman herself? Wouldn't she feel hurt? What if the parents don't care at all either? Why can't we say "you should respect a woman because she is a human like us".
This is a sad truth. Since ancient times the woman has had to take the husband's family name. I am not personally against it. But even a successful woman like Fatima Jinnah was always introduced as "Muhammad Jinnah's sister", but when it comes to Muhammad Jinnah he has never been introduced as "Fatima Jinnah's brother". So now Fatima Jinnah should only be respected because she is someone's sister? We don't even know unless we bother to learn about her achievements ourselves outside of "sister".
@@pakizajinnah9716 I understand where you’re coming from. This aspect also kind of annoys me but we grew up with it and unfortunately I don’t see it ever changing. My brothers don’t talk about me in details, sometimes they’ll say that I made them a favorite dish of theirs and I spoil them with desserts. Nothing serious or haram. I think the whole ‘daughter of’ and ‘sister of’ is meant to serve as a reminder for men to be more emphatic and to treat her with honor so he will realize if he doesn’t take care of her, her family will. I know not every girl is fortunate to have a family who loves and respects her, but in Islam we teach compassion and empathy. It’s just how most men’s brains are wired, I believe. I argue with my husband all the time with this, he’ll come and complain to me about something that bothered him in his family, like maybe his sister’s car broke down or that her kids are crazy. I then reply that her husband spoils her and actively raises their children together while my husband never fixes anything that needs to be fixed, i have to do it and he doesn’t lift a finger to help me with the kids and treats me like a discarded shoe. I always ask him ‘why is it not okay for your mother or sister but it’s fine for me to be treated this way? ‘ he never has an answer, bc obviously it’s a crappy reason. Men always think ‘oh she’s my wife, she has to settle for me, Islam says so’. And consequently they get away with too much bc even when we are wronged, no one genuinely sides with us bc they don’t want us to put the idea of divorce in our heads. Only genuinely good men with character and deen will respect a woman as her own self, not as his ‘wife’ or as a ‘daughter’. Sorry for the long paragraph 😬 I totally understand your frustration, I’m going through it now.
My husband abandoned me with a baby for another woman without ever taking responsibility of own child. Abandonment like this may Allah protect wives from such husband
That's my duah
I’m crying while listening to this, my husband cheated on me and left me for another woman. He slept with her years behind my back and l was so naïve and trusted him. He prayed daily and every Friday in the mosque what an hypocrite. He really destroyed my life while l loved him dearly and was so good to him.
In Sha Allah you’ll find hasanat for it in the balance of deeds
that's horrible to hear and i wish you'll be amoungs people of djannah and you'll find happiness with in allah
@@xsenteur4189 thank you so much for your kind words !
@@hanamimi5300 you're welcome it breaks my heart when i hear that a good sister have been treated badly when now a days it's so rare to find a good women , may god help you and don't forget that allah love you
@@xsenteur4189 Amin! Thank you so much for your kind words!
Hats off hadeed.. every men need to understand and act
Mashallah, I really missed your videos z alhamdulillah, you came back and you're well
Bismillah. This talk was going quite well. I was glad to hear this being presented. No need to mention fitness however because it just asserts the view that only one size or shape is ideal. From Aisha to Sauda they were all loved by the same man, may Allah be pleased with them and Muhammed peace be upon him.
I wish all men can hear this
Speak for yourself i get all the attention
@@TheCarmen07 what u mean ?
@@TheCarmen07 then why are you here 😂 to victim blame? What a miserable person you are.
Even if they did, they wouldn’t change. I’ve sent my husband tons of articles and videos like this. The fact of the matter is abusers will never ever change, if you don’t like it, they will discard you and find another victim who will allow the abuse.
*NO OTHER RELIGION ON EARTH OR ANYWHERE ELSE GIVES SO MUCH RESPECT & LOVE & IMPORTANCE TO WOMEN… ONLY ISLAM SAYS WOMEN SHOULD BE TREATED IN THE BEST POSSIBLE WAYS IN WHATEVER FORM SHE IS MOTHER,SISTER, WIFE OR DAUGHTER.. SUBHANALLAH.*
True, but many people from some countries (of course I don’t know about all the countries) refuse to give them the right and respect Islam has given to ladies. I’m proud of being Muslim, grateful to my partner, but sad for other ladies. Unfortunately non Muslims don’t blame our society for that but blame our religion 🥲
@@yeasha1697 Don't pay attention to Non-Muslim societies. They're all full of fitna
Fake
But only 1% follows it ?
What is it called when the husband abuse his wife only when she is sleeping?
*Sahih al-Bukhari 38*
*Narrated Abu Huraira:*
*Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever observes fasts during the month of Ramadan out of sincere faith, and hoping to attain Allah's rewards, then all his past sins will be forgiven."*
May Allah make us from those who bring smiles & happiness😄 to others & not sadness.😔🤲🤲🤲❤️☝️👌👍😎
AMEN!
my husband has made me cry so much today...im already sad...he said he is ok without me.he don't need me
Don't worry sister ❤️ Allah SWT will fix it beautifully inshallah ❤️ just make duas ❤️
He will regret it soon trust me
I will pray a lot for you sister ! May ALLAH Subhanahu Wa Ta'alaa make things better for you !!!!! May ALLAH get you out of that horrible situation and that you will find happiness soon !!!!!!
@@rushdaalam024 insha Allah** please correct spelling
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Lailaha illallahu wahdahu laasharikalahu lahul muluk walahul hamdu wahuwa alakulli shai in khadiir
One of the most hurtful thing a man does to a woman is having a second wife so please muslim brothers don’t even praise other woman or even think about another wife
I'm a men and honestly O don't get why poeple should have another partner.
It's just so wrong
So why did Allah allow it in the Quran itself. Lot of things are in Hadith but marrying 4 wives 3, 2 or 1 is the the Quran. In that order. 4 then 3 then 2 then 1!! Ok I get females won’t like it but Allah legislated it as halal if a man wants. The best if creation had multiple wives and so did most of the famous Sahaba we hear famous stories about. Education is key
@@DiaryofaNomad Would you accept if your wife wanted a second husband?
@@DiaryofaNomad you are very mistaken and misquoting the quraan for your own personal desires. The very next verse after the one you have quoted warns against the punishments of unfair treatment among wives. The quraan also mentions immediately after the verse you have mentioned, how ONE wife is better advised as mankind by nature is not just and there is a terrible punishment if youre unable to fulfil the happiness of all 4 wives. The hadeeth also mentions how this is among the lesser important of sunnahs. It is better for you to get all your fardh in order first - e.g treating that one wife properly and appreciating her, fulfilling her needs, keep her happy (something most men can barely do with just one wife) doing right by your family, praying on time, etc, before rushing to pick the lesser important parts of the deen that suit you.
Besides, the esteemed men you refer to are NOT AT ALL comparable to the men of today hence they were able to maintain 4 wives fairly, and even they, pious as they were, had to deal with jealousy among wives, so do not compare men of today with the sahaba (R.A)
@@DiaryofaNomadThere is a reason why allah allows many wives. There will be a time when females will be a lot more in number then men. Then what the extra females will do. There's another reason, in time of Muhammad pbuh there were multiple wars in which many man had died. Then what will happen to the women they left behind. That's why he encouraged the sahabas to marry some of them so that they will not be lost and have someone to rely on. Many men complain why the women don’t accept second wife, It's a sunnah they should accept it. But do you know
"You will never be able to maintain ˹emotional˺ justice between your wives-no matter how keen you are. So do not totally incline towards one leaving the other in suspense. And if you do what is right and are mindful ˹of Allah˺, surely Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful." Surah An Nisa,Ayat 129.
Mycket intressant. Fina starka ord. Är mycket intresserad av eran religion.
MashaAllah very beautiful reminder
Sometimes cry is a little word. They kill the souls and the urge for life to live. They make one to feel worthless , respect less, being guilty for everything and on the top makes references from religion.
Please pray , every man should find a loyal wife and every women finds a caring husband , though the place of a wife is so high , i was ruthlessly betrayed , she was my life,
😔May Allah grant you ease.Ameen.
0:52 since I married he let me cry every after one week now I am scarred to argue and I always try to let him
Calm down that he will get upset he but he let me cry for whole night he won’t even let me stop instead he will leave me home alone.I wish he was like my grandma or my parents who wipe my tears to let me stop he said he love me so much i promise i won’t bear a single tear from him I love him so much.and he doesn’t talk me all after all I will be the one to say sorry cuz i don’t want make our relationship worse.I cried At salah to make our stronger need dua inshallah he will know my tears one day ameen
Maximum hubby's think that wife's are garbage. Just feeding them three times and all done. Nothing else isn't important at all. And bitting them is a normal thing. May Allah gives us strength.
Their is a word compromise for both partners too .but if someone don't give you value in your life for such long time so things should be discussed with your spouse and make things settle for yourself ..
Islam is very good. I enjoy this religion so much
For trying to be a perfect muslim/muslimah we can follow 12 steps:
1. Ilm.(Islamic knowledge)
2.Strive against nafs.(Self-evil)
3. Giving Islamic dawah.
4.Sabr.(Patience)
5.Good character.(by reading Seerah)
6.Avoiding laziness.
7.Praying Tahajjud.
8.Concentration in Salah.(By Understanding Quran)
9.Secret Charity.
10.Frequent rememberence of Death.
11.Finding good friends.
12.Increasing love for Allah by remembering His blessings,thanking him by Dua,repenting to Him for our sins and giving Salawah to Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W)
May Allah make us among those who follows all these steps properly(Ameen)🤲
May Allah grant all of us Jannah without any judgement and with highest companionship of Prophet Muhammad(S.A.W) (Ameen)🤲
Masha Allah. Women's are very special. May Allah grant us hidayah to respect her always... 👍🏻
🗣️🤲🗣️ May Allaha (swt) guide and help us 🤲🗣️🤲
these stories are very good and they make us better muslims
Such an amazing lesson ♥️
May ALLAH swt protect all the sisters and grant pious loving spouse Aameen sumameen 🤲
I don’t even have family who respect me nor my husband he always make me cry 😭
May Allah see you through
why are you still with him?
My grandfather died 3 years ago he had heart problems and he was becoming weaker and weaker and he always went to the mosque to pray and on Friday 12:00 pm he went to the mosque to pray and it was soo hot it was 49 degrees and I kept sleeping because I couldn't wake up and he wasn't back till 4:00 everyone started worying and then started searching him and we found him on 10:00 pm he fell in the bathroom and was in a bad condition so we took him to the hospital and the things weren't going so good and tommorrow he left us all may Allah bless him jannatul firdous and I was happy just because he died in shahadat and in a good condition at the hospital at least not in the bathroom may Allah bless him with jannat ul firdous ammen
Subhānallah beautifully explained ❤️
My husband he living without me since month passed by....He only believe his sister n mother...he left me for the sake of his family ..I m in pain ..in Ramadan I'm only praying that Allah gives me sbr and make h realized he has done wrong to me ...
I stay away from everyone....
This makes me not to comnit sin 🙂😇...
Now I am capable of living a lonely life, I will be okay even if I don't marry and don't have anyone esle in my life...
I only Allah and Rasool 🙂
It's so informative and beautiful. JazakAllah for sharing
Priceless message☑️
Touched to the bottom of the heart ❤️💓
My parents are in a broken marriage and there is no respect between one another either. My dad especially doesn’t treat my mom well and it breaks my heart because he’s such a great dad to us but not a good husband to his wife. I don’t know what to do at this point. And my mom can’t divorce him because she relies on him for financial support.
My mom has been getting yelled at by my dad all the time, and he says he is a good father, but from what I know, good fathers don’t yell at their wife and make them cry. I am starting to not appreciate him as a father anymore. But I will try and help them get their relationship back together again. Inshaallah it will work.
Most of the husband love his wife for new marriage period, once she get old,when she lost her figure n beauty after gives baby birth. Then, he didn't like to love her
Thanks..very good..for better good with wife & family.. Allah SWT give Blessings for all Aamiin Yra
Its has been 15 year since i have beeb married.My husband does not know my value.since i have come in his life i have always been crying.I ACCEPT ALL THIS AS MY FATE.MAY ALLAH GIVE ME STRENGTH TO BEAR IT.
Same here it’s been 16 years but believe me I cry daily I have no one except Allah please keep me in your prayers sister
2/14/2023
I wish everyone a
Happy Valentine's day!!
🌬🎉🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎈🎉🎈🎈🎊🎈🎈🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊
We must have courage to
Speak out and defend our
Own dignity because as a
Woman we are worthy.
God bless us all with
Justice.
May Allah give everyone an ideal husband like prophet.❤
I love my wife very much 💞💞.there is no conditions in love .
I've yet to see a man who treats his wife with such love she is never crying.Good on those men who treat their wife this way.
It's rare these days . People only want to live what society likes lol . They gonna regret for living like that
I invite all beautiful people here to come and listen to beautiful recited Quran 🕋
*When the Quran is read, listen attentively, and fall silent, so that you may be blessed with mercy.” (7:204)*
Also make a video on when wife makes husband sad.
I really love my husband,he gets angry very easily sometimes he shout at me and want to argue with me even if he's the one that wronged me,but the only way out for me is too keep quiet and sometimes i hold my tears sometimes I can't.
U should talk to him about it
Oh so sorry dear may Allah help all woman in this situation n only u dear
Don't worry, in jannah you don't have to deal with him. You can have whatever you want, that's Allahs promise. I know it's hard but focus on your imaan and doing good deeds because we can die any day.
@@Being_Mike9 @Mike what is problem man???
You almost wrote more than 10 comments against women and telling men to get second marriage.
You are so rude and you can't understand what people suffering from.
May almighty Allah give you mildness and forgive you.
May Allah bless you brother 👍🏼💐❤️
My husband gets angry if I cry! I mean I don’t have the right to express my feelings, emotion and opinion...
Leaveeeeeeeeee
Same here
Same here.....
Its as we do to our kids...when kids cry we shout at them...without thinking they too feel bad...
Leave him
Allah Akbar 🙏 am pregnant but my husband treats me badly and he ran away amonth ago..... but thanks for ur preach...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Allah is with you and He has heard your cry 😢
I will pray for you
May Allah answer your prayer as you wish 😊
A righteous spouse will be hard to find in these last days.Ive already decided I will quite happily remain single till the end of my days.My life is less stressful without a partner as many people cannot be trusted even those who profess to be following Islam."Betray not the trusts you are given."
Jazakallahu khaira for lovely speech
Salam everyone how is Ramadan going?? Salutations from Europe 😚😘😙😍😗😘😍
Alhamdulillah going good 😍
Alhamdulillah
Good alhamdulillah ❤❤ love from Pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰
Easy elhmdl
My husband abuse me, always he forced me to obey his family not only his father nad mother but also his uncles and cousins also, i am so disappointed from him, my heart cries everyday
Im sorry to hear that,you need to leave him this is not a life
MashaAllah JazakaALLAH🙏💯
Mashaallah Mufti Menk you are the best.
Sending Darud and Peace on the blessed Prophet (Peace be upon him)
The Prophet (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) as saying that "One sent by my Sustainer came to me and told me that 'Whoever from your Ummah sends Darud on you once ten good deeds are recorded onhis behalf, his ten (minor) sins are pardoned and he is elevated by ten stages" [SunanNisai and Musnad Ahmed, AI-targhib li al Mundhari, P.157 volume 3]
And Anas (Ra) a companion, has said that the Prophet (Sallallahu AlaihiWasallam) said that "When my name is mentioned before anyone it is incumbent upon him to, send darud on me, and whosoever sends darud once, Allah sends His Mercy on him ten times.
The best Darud is that which we read towards the end of our Salah and the shortest is to say "Salallahu AlaihiWasallim"
Be merciful to your wife so that Allah may be merciful to you
I seriously doubt I'll get married but if I ever do the last thing I'll do is make my wife cry
May Allah bless all of us
What if the wife makes the husband cry?My uncle cries because of his wife, because she doesn't respect him even though he has gone way out of his way to convince/persuade her(I have literally seen him done so) to keep the marriage afloat,and Alhamdulillah the marriage is still intact but when I see them I just..don't get feeling that my uncle is satisfied with her.
Note:They live in India and are born in India so uh,if you think that all Indian husbands are what you think you are..then I'm afraid you are wrong.
May Allah guide the her to the right path Inshaallah . Keep her in your prayer because she doesn't know the harm she is bringing onto herself .
@@australia5766 yes they do. Our prophet Muhammad cried so much when her daughter died.
Men can cry. Crying is natural and release you from all the pressure and stress.
Subhanallah a lot of these men need reality check may Allah rectify to affairs before it’s to late ameen allahuma ameen