I’ve unintentionally done this before. I was resentful over an ex who hurt me and it was hard for me to let it go. I found a video instructing to do what you said... imagine them saying/doing what it is that would help you forgive them and move on. I envisioned an apology and admitting what he did was wrong. I felt better and like I could begin to forgive him and move forward. 3 days later he reached out and apologized. We met up to talk and he said he regretted his actions and knew he shouldn’t of done what he did. He almost said what I imagined verbatim. I wasn’t trying to manifest him back but he ended up still wanting to be in my life and was respectful and loving ever since. Do this for yourself, not to get someone back! They will naturally come.
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1) deep visualization plus feeling it real 2) continue with your life and don't feel a lack experience How wonderful is this..once you a envision of an end result and drop it , like with least attachment and thus least resistance, you feel satisfied and happy. And to your amazement, while you are letting go by living in the end or by dropping it, it all comes to you!💕💕
Yes. I am in this situation. It’s been right at a year, but it doesn’t matter. I know he loves me, he is only attracted to me, and we are meant to be together. Easy!!
@@ShellyBullard my situation is so complicated because he messed up so many things.Third parties,my parents discovered abt all this amd much more.How is possible that i still truly believe that he is my husband?😂
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I love how you've explained this. You can actually feel your energy here and it's definitely coming from the I am love place. I can actually feel the difference when I read things from people desperately wanting to get their SP back. There's so much work, effort, grasping involved. In this video you show the total opposite -- it's natural, relaxed, led by love. There's no ego. This video really transmits the feeling of coming from a resourced place as opposed to trying to make something happen from a place of lack and separation. Thank you for sharing yourself and your energy and experience, Shelly!
@healingyoga until I naturally dropped the desire/let go, I didn't think I was attached to my sp. ( I had been living in the end for a while, and it genuinely felt good) But when it happened and I properly let go, I could see that I was still trying to get him. It feels so lovely and freeing to no longer grasp at it and just know its happening. I was focusing so much on him ( I first began to learn concious manifesting in February, because of him ) I've now seen how much time, energy and focus i was giving. But also learning to let go has made me feel like I have a magic wand 🧚♀️ and I can intend for something and get instant/ very quick responses. I completely agree with what you have said. But I don't think its something that is easy for someone to realise until they do let go. HAPPY MANIFESTING 🧚♀️💕🧚♀️
Yes i accept. The key is non attachment. You aligned within and you were satisfied with that inner state and you also didn't expect anything to happen in the outer reality. This is actually the KEY. ❣💕
Its so true that circumstances don't matter, the amount of success stories that have come from what you think of difficult circumstances. I was thinking about this recently, even though I feel like I understand everything now ( I know we are always learning, so even though I feel like I understand what I am doing there's so much more to come) But I have been thinking why circumstances don't matter and anything is possible if you can believe it. Its going really be brilliant as always 👌 🦄❤🧚♀️❤
This is beautiful. I have a similar situation with my ex of a 7 year relationship. So much love but it ended really painfully for both of us. There's a lot of resentment and I just came to a point where I'm ready for this to be healed. It's inspiring realizing I can manifest healing and forgiveness without the pressure of needing a relationship with him again. It already feels healed to me.
Thank you for sharing your process on how you received contact from an ex after a year of no contact. This is so inspiring. It really comes through in the video how much this conversation meant to you. And I’m so happy for you! Love everything about this video!💞
I love this! Time really doesn't matter. I've liked my SP for 4 years and it's only through your teachings that I've finally noticed a shift. I kept feeling his energy coming towards me and now he flirts with me constantly at work. I know it's only going to be a matter of time before he tells me how he feels! ♥️
The thing that most resonated for me and what I really want to practice implementing is letting go - detachment. I keep thinking and trying force manifest this guy back into my life (and my DM's) but I think about him constantly throughout the day, stifling it. Gonna focus a lot more on me, the people around me and doing the things I love and taking steps towards my goals:) There's always something in the back of my mind telling me that once I do this, he will come back into my life.
In addition to manifesting my SP, my daily affirmations are showing increase in all areas of my life. My health is better, my skin is better, workouts are producing the body I want, fight training skills are increasing, my confidence levels rise daily, and I am keeping up on my daily tasks. If you follow my updates you saw me and my SP just talked on phone so that is moving towards what I want with her. In addition to the above, I have been manifesting that I will be discovered as a suit model, and it will lead to some more opportunities, including being in movies. I've got 2 specific cars I am manifesting and will have the dream life with my SP and her 3 daughters (my new family). It will also allow me to help other people in need.
@ Karl Hungus you have to got this. Im concentrating on other things too, its definite a guy thing to take the emphasis off of our sps. HAPPY MANIFESTING 💙🧚♀️💙
@@ruthcarlisle2663 - thank you - yes these other things just popped up while I was working on getting her back so I figured it has to be part of my path. How lucky will she be if she gets me back after all of that? ;-)
@@bohead01 similar has happened with me, im manifesting things for others now too. I think the bridge of incidents can be things like this that get us to our end result, even if they don't seem directly related. Ha ha I just noticed my typo above. I meant to say a good thing to take the emphasis off our sps,
@@ruthcarlisle2663 ha ha I wondered about the "guy" comment. I was like, how would she know? ;-) It is satisfying to see someone in need become happy because you were able to help them. For now I am working on manifesting a date with my SP this weekend as I am that close to having her back!
Aha! some more tips for me! A bit offtopic but just wanted to share this with you shelly - I am already learning a lot from you and I am loving the way I am evolving and focusing more on myself- feels liberated. ❤the one most important thing I have learnt from you is - " I don't need anyone else to make me feel loved or secured, I am loved, secured and pursued and I AM THE CATCH!💖" (i have understood this and m working on it as self love is always evolving!)
Every time I watch your videos, I get a sense of being free and so alive 💕 it helps me to let go of everything and know the universe is working it all out. Absolutely love it!
Thanks for sharing your very personal experience. I agree with you 100% Shelly. Before I knew about manifesting, I unknowingly manifested my crush back into my life. We hadn’t spoken in years, and then I found out through a friend that he was married. I cried and went into a mini-depression for a week and then I said goodbye to him in my heart. I was sad and I was jealous but at the same time happy for him. When I said goodbye in my heart and in my mind, I went on with my life and never thought about him again. Two weeks later he reached out to me …and then I began my journey into learning more about consciously manifesting. 💫✨
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Dropping off the manifestation after being content and having no expectations is what I take away from this. I am somewhere in midway where sometimes the mind gets anxious about not being contacted but gradually yes I have landed in the believe that yes the contact is gonna happen. Thank you Shelly this is indeed touching and wonderful
Very insightful and inspiring... thanks for sharing .. My personal opinion is that the hardest part of manifesting an SP back is in the forgiveness and letting go of the resentments towards the person 💜
I've done this with my ex boyfriend after 10 years of no contact. I just specifically thought about him and sent him a bunch of love. A few weeks later I ran into him at a Trader Joe's grocery store!! Crazy!!
Great video! You felt it as it has already occured, so for you it has already happened. I think your soul was asking for this reconciliation and helped you by bringing to you this visualisation which you handled it perfectly. I felt your relief!🌹❣️
A beautiful manifestation! 🧡 I was also contacted by my first boyfriend in the summer, soon after I started to watch your videos. 😊 We haven’t been in touch for about 20 years. I did not do it on “purpose” but I did do a lot of inner work around that time. I can totally relate to what you said in another video: you didn`t want to invest more in this relationship because there was too much history involved… so it was easier to manifest a new person. I’d love to see a video from you on breakups, how to get over someone (who’s expired) very fast 😊 , how to clear your mind and create something new. Thank you for sharing this story!🧡 I love it and I also love the ones in the comments. 💖
I feel like you have read my energy... Iv been in nc with my SP for like two years (I know I shouldn’t affirm this...just need to vent). But I’m really looking forward to this!
My ex came back last month to reconnect after a year of no contact as well, and I am in a new relationship now. One month before this, I saw his best friend while on a day trip. Apparently on a trip he was supposed to have been on.
This really opened my eyes. I've been in no contact for a year and just realized I never really let my ex go. I've expected a reach other that's never happened. Even though I've almost been in another relationship with someone else, I still need to let it go
I really appreciate when you share your personal stories. So happy for you that you had this peaceful experience with your ex. Would love to hear about your health and fitness practices - you radiate health (which I know comes partly from your spiritual outlook but would love to hear about your holistic approach and whether you feel your diet and exercise routine impacts your ability to manifest.
Oh wow, I was chatting about this today with my partner. I actually don't exercise nearly as much as I should... only walking but I might increase that. And I also don't have any food restrictions at all. I do eat intuitively and relatively healthy... lots of "alive" food. But I don't follow any schedule/rules for exercise or diet. Self Love goes a long way for attractiveness. ;) Thanks for the question!
Shelly Bullard Very interesting and not what I expected you to say at all. It’s refreshing that you take this approach. I’m trying to become less rigid with my view of exercise so this is very helpful to hear.
This is such a beautiful story that you shared, thank you so much for sharing this with us. Hearing stories like this and other people's success stories gives me lots of hope, even on my bad days 😊
I had been doing the techniques of living in the end and trying to let go of the old story of SP, but the hurtful memories and resentment would always come back up. The other day I decided to do an imaginal act where he said sorry to me and told me how much he missed me and how he wants to do better, and I felt better. I gave myself the apology without needing it in the 3D.
Have had no contact with my SP for a few weeks now. Most of the time I feel fine but then there are those days when I feel the lack of it and desperation kicks in 😣 but instead of reaching out I go into a mediation or see more videos. I am really working on my self love and self worth which is why I have chosen not to be the one to pursue him. It’s the letting i go i also sometimes struggle. I have more days of having the feeling, the complete knowing we will be together but then it’s those days when doubt sets in and worry tries to breakdown the belief. Would love and appreciate suggestions. Thank you Shelly for your wisdom ❤️✨🙏🏼
I have those days of doubts too. The moment I have them I visualize with affirmations about him and me. I love n live in the end result that I visualize while I say my affirmation which I read . I read it everyday after my prayers n meditation are done. Push those doubtful thoughts out immediately b replacing it with visualizing affirmation n living in the end result go deep into what you feel. Focus on what you feel and are feeling.
Omg yessss this is just the video I needed to see!!!! Especially since the one year of our breakup is on the 14th of this month, so this is so very fitting with the timing and all ♥️
I love your content how do you not run out of ideas? You say the same message in every video but each seems to be different and entirely new when you speak it. Thanks again!
Aww thats sweet. I do feel like I run out of ideas (I'm in one of those times right now) but it really just requires a perspective shift: "I have endless topics to talk about!!" ;)
I think its amazing how u decide not to go with the schedule to release a video everyday and the incredible content just comes to you! I also have experienced small burst of these 'thought abt it..let go and it suddenly appears' moment! But for SP.. its difficult to let go n not think abt..even for a few hours.. 😅
Sometimes I am flooded with memories of a past relationship from almost a decade ago. It hurt me so badly the way it ended and I felt I was used and discarded. I regret trying to initially plead with this person for another chance because I wasn't aware of things he was hiding from me when the breakup first happened. I don't want contact but I would like to visualize things ending in a better way so I can move forward with peace.
Omg I’ve been there! I did it without deliberate manifesting at the time and didn’t care it was one year whatsoever, so when he came back I already moved on but it was good to see how it works with all I know now 🤗
My was a dream that happened Monday morning. So real so intense. It has been over 10 years since the breakup, (there is more to the breakup, a lot more) and all this week all I can feel is her presence around me. Like we are back together again, so I love 💕, in the prefect world together. In a loving committed passionate relationship. I have not seen or heard from her for over fives years. All I can feel is her and I together. I believe she already in my bed. Even though we have no contact. Is this what it feels like “to let go”?? To live in the moment? Because I don’t even want to it to stop. Your story is beautiful. May your day be full of puppy 🐶 kisses and rainbows 🌈.
Why do I get so much more in 2 months following this channel than what I got in 5 years actively following 2 Catholic communities at church? Is that kind of afformation? 😀 Seriously I've been thinking about it. Almost all religions teach separation, that's why I hardly regained my self confidence which is so essential for manifesting. I'm thankful that I regain it and restore my self concept through this channel. 🙏🌹
I have not listened to this yet but it’s amazing how these show up. I actually just had the thought that there is no way after everything my ex husband and I have been through
AS SOOOOON AS I hear from my SP ... I am going to jump on this very video and let you know, Shelly. 😆😁😀😂 I will respond to him an hour or two later. First things first -- and first I celebrate with Shelly!!! 😄😊😆😀😀😂
I’m exact same situation but my mistake is manifesting for her and i to be back in relationship but when you said that “that’s an attachment”, it really opened my eyes. Wow! Thank you for showing me my mistake on manifesting. It’s crazy because here i am thinking i’m not attached but I actually am with my manifesting.
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@@ruthcarlisle2663 Same same lol. I'm wearing a scarf. It's probably only 11 in Birmingham, but I'm still coooold. I can't wit until I move to a place with better insulation and double glazing.
@@decemberclouds ha ha, I'm not that far away in Leeds, think its a similar temperature. Then again, I'm always cold ( I have been sat on a beach before on holiday, everyone has been scorching and I've been cold) You are in your nice warm place 😉😁❤
@@decemberclouds ha true. Even when it gets what is perceived as warm here, im still usually cold. Think I going to have to prep myself to freeze, my sp wants to get me skiing/ snowboarding ( which I do want to do) but I m going to be on the slopes with about 3 duvets on lol.⛷❄☃️
I wonder does divination counts as 3D resistance? I have done tarot and it said we’re not working anymore. If I ignore this tarot result, will it work manifesting?
This is a beautiful account of a reconciliation for all the right reasons. I also have a friend who's friendship with me has been broken for about a year. I have gone through the stages of true forgiveness this time, not fake or surface forgiveness that me and this person had in the past. I forgave him on my own, I forgave myself first. I'm hopeful someday our paths will cross. I'm not sure I want to manifest any type of communication. I certainly do not want any sort of apology. I've learned that apologies keep us chained to the past with no chance to move forward. That's just my opinion. I used to think I needed to hear those words or an explanation. Now, I think there's no point. There's no past, no future, just here and now. I'm curious Shelly, where do you stand with this ex now? Are you still talking?
We will continue to talk as we've decided there are a few more things we would like to discuss/clear/forgive, and because there is also a way that we are very good friends who can support one another in our lives. We won't talk in a regularly, though. We made plans today to talk in a few weeks.
Shelly Bullard That’s awesome. Even though you’ve forgiven him on your own, there still must be a weight lifted having the forgiveness be reciprocated.
So I think I just need to let things go and not try to hang on so much. That seems to be my problem.. I need to do my life and let go of resentment and know that the impossible IS possible!!💕
Shelly, need to tell you this...i said you ryt ..he blocked me on july 31st...i was so attached to them...From few days, i felt so free..idk why...i deleted his contact to forget abt it and i see he unblocked me now...Wow...what!!!! 😍
I just binged on allll you're videos last night . Even tho i watched them bf . I lovee hearing your voice it's like a meditation session while listening to you ☺️ you always come out with something new and inspiring ,❤️Thank You
I must say this video was other level stuff to hear a peesonal story soo authentic and raw the way you describe the complete apology ... it was so moving and touching. I know that ill merit the same treatment very soon... tbh mine isnt even an ex just a close close friend ....
That kind of breakup would be SO HARD! You had to just move on with no closure? Aren’t you in a healthy relationship now with someone else? Wow that couldn’t have been easy ❤️
It totally was one of my hardest relationships, however by the time it ended, I was ready to move on. So was he. And, we were both left hurt. AND, I manifested my current partner very soon after... and he/our relationship indirectly healed a lot of the wounds. :)
Tracking it that closely points to the potential that you're probably saturated in him "not being here." If you can, take some notes from this video and start practicing a new way of relating to the situation. :)
Love the video!! For me is trying to feeling it and the letting go. Some time with trying to manifest contact I feel I like “will it ever happen?” But after watching this it just reminded me that yes it can but you still have to let it all go.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. A query: if you let it go, then dont you move on from that person? Then it doesnt matter they are in your life or not. So what bevomes the purpose of manifesting their coming back? Just curious.
I am curious what or who you’re looking at. Most of your videos you are looking up at something but it’s not the camera lens. I’m just curious what you’re focusing on.
Do you think I could manifest contact from someone I haven’t spoken to in 3yrs....I want to have that same conversation as Shelly. Would love to meet up and talk but unsure if I would want to be in a relationship as I don’t know if the spark is still there.....iv always tried to reach out but never get a response.
I watched this and within two hours went to a speakeasy cocktail bar on a whim and the only other person there was an ex of three years I hadn’t seen in a year and a few months
This video gives me so much hope as I've been trying to manifest my SP for over 8 months now. I feel like I've let go and that there's no attachment, I'm focusing more on me and my self worth... I think I get discouraged when I hear other coaches say nothing should take that long to manifest so I automatically think I must be doing something wrong. I feel confident with who I am and live in the end knowing we are together. I'm just gonna continue on that path 😌 Any other suggestions?
Those coaches are terrible coaches... Time doesn't mean anything. I don't believe in the Law of Attraction and the magic of the universe haha, I believe in the Law of Assumption and the power of our mind. If you want, try this: Every day affirm something like "X looks for me and contacts me constantly" and if you want, one or two more affirmations. Repeat this over and over throughout the day, attaching a specific image to that affirmation each time you repeat it. Repeat this until it sounds natural to you, in a state of peace, especially minutes before sleeping and the first minutes after waking up. Forget about letting go. Forget about all limits. Repeat every day and persist, you have nothing to lose, right? Don't count the days and don't check anything, you just repeat to yourself constantly in your mind, every day throughout the day, that affirmation (or affirmations). Just try it 😊
@@IsabelGarcia-yz4uj thank u so much for your comments 💖 Means a lot u took time to respond 🥰 I do affirmations as well but I'm going to try implementing some new ones and see how it goes. Thank you again l'll keep everyone updated! I've said it before, I really feel like a little family in this group! I absolutely love it!!!!❤
I know this video was made a month ago, but I'm confused because I thought you had a man/relationship with someone else. Isn't it offensive to your relationship to manifest communication from an ex?
Keeping the mental diet after visualization can create the same results, even if I do not let it go, is that right? Beautiful and inspiring story Shelly! :)
My boyfriend broke up with me and told me that our paths aren’t aligning and that we never see each other. I want to be with him/date him/have him be my person. What can I do to have him come back to me and tell me that he wants me as his partner forever?
Hello Dear😎 I know of a man who can help you to get back with your ex easily, he was the one who helped me to fix back my broken relationship of 3 years by making my ex come back to me.
I’ve unintentionally done this before. I was resentful over an ex who hurt me and it was hard for me to let it go. I found a video instructing to do what you said... imagine them saying/doing what it is that would help you forgive them and move on. I envisioned an apology and admitting what he did was wrong. I felt better and like I could begin to forgive him and move forward. 3 days later he reached out and apologized. We met up to talk and he said he regretted his actions and knew he shouldn’t of done what he did. He almost said what I imagined verbatim. I wasn’t trying to manifest him back but he ended up still wanting to be in my life and was respectful and loving ever since. Do this for yourself, not to get someone back! They will naturally come.
EXACTLY!
Love that last bit of advice!
What video was it ?
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1) deep visualization plus feeling it real
2) continue with your life and don't feel a lack experience
How wonderful is this..once you a envision of an end result and drop it , like with least attachment and thus least resistance, you feel satisfied and happy. And to your amazement, while you are letting go by living in the end or by dropping it, it all comes to you!💕💕
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How long do I have to view? Do I have to persist or let go?
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Yes. I am in this situation. It’s been right at a year, but it doesn’t matter. I know he loves me, he is only attracted to me, and we are meant to be together. Easy!!
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@@ShellyBullard my situation is so complicated because he messed up so many things.Third parties,my parents discovered abt all this amd much more.How is possible that i still truly believe that he is my husband?😂
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I love when you share personal accounts! I find it inspiring when the teacher shares their own success stories to propel us all further 🥰
So glad to hear this!
I love how you've explained this. You can actually feel your energy here and it's definitely coming from the I am love place. I can actually feel the difference when I read things from people desperately wanting to get their SP back. There's so much work, effort, grasping involved. In this video you show the total opposite -- it's natural, relaxed, led by love. There's no ego. This video really transmits the feeling of coming from a resourced place as opposed to trying to make something happen from a place of lack and separation. Thank you for sharing yourself and your energy and experience, Shelly!
Exactly exactly exactly, you understand it complete! Thank you for your gorgeous comment and for seeing me!
@healingyoga until I naturally dropped the desire/let go, I didn't think I was attached to my sp. ( I had been living in the end for a while, and it genuinely felt good)
But when it happened and I properly let go, I could see that I was still trying to get him.
It feels so lovely and freeing to no longer grasp at it and just know its happening.
I was focusing so much on him ( I first began to learn concious manifesting in February, because of him ) I've now seen how much time, energy and focus i was giving.
But also learning to let go has made me feel like I have a magic wand 🧚♀️ and I can intend for something and get instant/ very quick responses.
I completely agree with what you have said.
But I don't think its something that is easy for someone to realise until they do let go.
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@@ruthcarlisle2663 So true! I have definitely been in the same boat and have felt the same release. It puts the happy in happy manifesting. 😉
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Yes i accept. The key is non attachment. You aligned within and you were satisfied with that inner state and you also didn't expect anything to happen in the outer reality. This is actually the KEY. ❣💕
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Its so true that circumstances don't matter, the amount of success stories that have come from what you think of difficult circumstances.
I was thinking about this recently, even though I feel like I understand everything now ( I know we are always learning, so even though I feel like I understand what I am doing there's so much more to come)
But I have been thinking why circumstances don't matter and anything is possible if you can believe it.
Its going really be brilliant as always 👌
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This is beautiful. I have a similar situation with my ex of a 7 year relationship. So much love but it ended really painfully for both of us. There's a lot of resentment and I just came to a point where I'm ready for this to be healed. It's inspiring realizing I can manifest healing and forgiveness without the pressure of needing a relationship with him again. It already feels healed to me.
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Thank you for sharing your process on how you received contact from an ex after a year of no contact. This is so inspiring. It really comes through in the video how much this conversation meant to you. And I’m so happy for you! Love everything about this video!💞
Glad you liked it!
I love this! Time really doesn't matter. I've liked my SP for 4 years and it's only through your teachings that I've finally noticed a shift. I kept feeling his energy coming towards me and now he flirts with me constantly at work. I know it's only going to be a matter of time before he tells me how he feels! ♥️
@Amy Leaver hes yours completely.
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@@ruthcarlisle2663 thank you darling! Love you Ruth you beautiful soul! ♥️♥️♥️ Xx
The thing that most resonated for me and what I really want to practice implementing is letting go - detachment. I keep thinking and trying force manifest this guy back into my life (and my DM's) but I think about him constantly throughout the day, stifling it. Gonna focus a lot more on me, the people around me and doing the things I love and taking steps towards my goals:) There's always something in the back of my mind telling me that once I do this, he will come back into my life.
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In addition to manifesting my SP, my daily affirmations are showing increase in all areas of my life. My health is better, my skin is better, workouts are producing the body I want, fight training skills are increasing, my confidence levels rise daily, and I am keeping up on my daily tasks. If you follow my updates you saw me and my SP just talked on phone so that is moving towards what I want with her. In addition to the above, I have been manifesting that I will be discovered as a suit model, and it will lead to some more opportunities, including being in movies. I've got 2 specific cars I am manifesting and will have the dream life with my SP and her 3 daughters (my new family). It will also allow me to help other people in need.
Wonderful!
@ Karl Hungus you have to got this. Im concentrating on other things too, its definite a guy thing to take the emphasis off of our sps.
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@@ruthcarlisle2663 - thank you - yes these other things just popped up while I was working on getting her back so I figured it has to be part of my path. How lucky will she be if she gets me back after all of that? ;-)
@@bohead01 similar has happened with me, im manifesting things for others now too. I think the bridge of incidents can be things like this that get us to our end result, even if they don't seem directly related. Ha ha I just noticed my typo above. I meant to say a good thing to take the emphasis off our sps,
@@ruthcarlisle2663 ha ha I wondered about the "guy" comment. I was like, how would she know? ;-) It is satisfying to see someone in need become happy because you were able to help them. For now I am working on manifesting a date with my SP this weekend as I am that close to having her back!
Love success stories like these , girl I go straight to the “end” to be honest. That being marriage... Excited to see this !
That's right! Know the end result is true. :)
Aha! some more tips for me!
A bit offtopic but just wanted to share this with you shelly - I am already learning a lot from you and I am loving the way I am evolving and focusing more on myself- feels liberated. ❤the one most important thing I have learnt from you is - " I don't need anyone else to make me feel loved or secured, I am loved, secured and pursued and I AM THE CATCH!💖" (i have understood this and m working on it as self love is always evolving!)
Yes, yes, yes! Beautiful. So happy you're here Samhita.
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Every time I watch your videos, I get a sense of being free and so alive 💕 it helps me to let go of everything and know the universe is working it all out. Absolutely love it!
Beautiful.
Thanks for sharing your very personal experience. I agree with you 100% Shelly. Before I knew about manifesting, I unknowingly manifested my crush back into my life. We hadn’t spoken in years, and then I found out through a friend that he was married. I cried and went into a mini-depression for a week and then I said goodbye to him in my heart. I was sad and I was jealous but at the same time happy for him. When I said goodbye in my heart and in my mind, I went on with my life and never thought about him again. Two weeks later he reached out to me …and then I began my journey into learning more about consciously manifesting. 💫✨
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Thank you for sharing this story with us, and walking through each step you took - this is so powerful and inspiring!
Wow this is kinda crazy! You just read my mind 😱
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Dropping off the manifestation after being content and having no expectations is what I take away from this. I am somewhere in midway where sometimes the mind gets anxious about not being contacted but gradually yes I have landed in the believe that yes the contact is gonna happen. Thank you Shelly this is indeed touching and wonderful
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Very insightful and inspiring... thanks for sharing .. My personal opinion is that the hardest part of manifesting an SP back is in the forgiveness and letting go of the resentments towards the person 💜
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Letting go is the hard part. Thank you so much.
I've done this with my ex boyfriend after 10 years of no contact. I just specifically thought about him and sent him a bunch of love. A few weeks later I ran into him at a Trader Joe's grocery store!! Crazy!!
I love this , universe works in crazy ways!
@@alyssamusseau2631 Thank you so much for taking the time to reply to my comment. You are so right. The universe is magic.
Great video! You felt it as it has already occured, so for you it has already happened. I think your soul was asking for this reconciliation and helped you by bringing to you this visualisation which you handled it perfectly. I felt your relief!🌹❣️
Yes, wonderful way to word it.
This is a pretty easy thing to manifest when you’re in a new relationship (which I believe you’ve said you are).
"Easy" is relative... it depends on how you perceive the circumstances.
#Emma I wonder how the new perfect SP feels about it.
A beautiful manifestation! 🧡 I was also contacted by my first boyfriend in the summer, soon after I started to watch your videos. 😊 We haven’t been in touch for about 20 years. I did not do it on “purpose” but I did do a lot of inner work around that time.
I can totally relate to what you said in another video: you didn`t want to invest more in this relationship because there was too much history involved… so it was easier to manifest a new person. I’d love to see a video from you on breakups, how to get over someone (who’s expired) very fast 😊 , how to clear your mind and create something new. Thank you for sharing this story!🧡 I love it and I also love the ones in the comments. 💖
Love this idea. And love your story. Thank you for sharing! 💖
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I feel like you have read my energy... Iv been in nc with my SP for like two years (I know I shouldn’t affirm this...just need to vent). But I’m really looking forward to this!
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I'm in the same situation.. It's almost two years.. N i feel this video is a sign from the universe💕
This is your best video in a while
Thank you!
My ex came back last month to reconnect after a year of no contact as well, and I am in a new relationship now. One month before this, I saw his best friend while on a day trip. Apparently on a trip he was supposed to have been on.
This really opened my eyes. I've been in no contact for a year and just realized I never really let my ex go. I've expected a reach other that's never happened. Even though I've almost been in another relationship with someone else, I still need to let it go
I can't wait to for this! Going on 4 months for me so this will be very helpful 😊
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This video is incredibly beautiful & very inspirational ... and it could not have come at a more perfect time!!! Thank you so much, Shelly. 💙
I really appreciate when you share your personal stories. So happy for you that you had this peaceful experience with your ex. Would love to hear about your health and fitness practices - you radiate health (which I know comes partly from your spiritual outlook but would love to hear about your holistic approach and whether you feel your diet and exercise routine impacts your ability to manifest.
Oh wow, I was chatting about this today with my partner. I actually don't exercise nearly as much as I should... only walking but I might increase that. And I also don't have any food restrictions at all. I do eat intuitively and relatively healthy... lots of "alive" food. But I don't follow any schedule/rules for exercise or diet. Self Love goes a long way for attractiveness. ;) Thanks for the question!
Shelly Bullard Very interesting and not what I expected you to say at all. It’s refreshing that you take this approach. I’m trying to become less rigid with my view of exercise so this is very helpful to hear.
Thank you 🥰
This is such a beautiful story that you shared, thank you so much for sharing this with us. Hearing stories like this and other people's success stories gives me lots of hope, even on my bad days 😊
You’re welcome 🧡
I had been doing the techniques of living in the end and trying to let go of the old story of SP, but the hurtful memories and resentment would always come back up. The other day I decided to do an imaginal act where he said sorry to me and told me how much he missed me and how he wants to do better, and I felt better. I gave myself the apology without needing it in the 3D.
Have had no contact with my SP for a few weeks now. Most of the time I feel fine but then there are those days when I feel the lack of it and desperation kicks in 😣 but instead of reaching out I go into a mediation or see more videos. I am really working on my self love and self worth which is why I have chosen not to be the one to pursue him. It’s the letting i go i also sometimes struggle. I have more days of having the feeling, the complete knowing we will be together but then it’s those days when doubt sets in and worry tries to breakdown the belief. Would love and appreciate suggestions. Thank you Shelly for your wisdom ❤️✨🙏🏼
So glad you're focusing on Self Love and not chasing... these practices will be keys for you.
Thank you Shelly. That is definitely the goal. I want to be at 💯 with my self and self love. ❤️😌🙏🏼
I have those days of doubts too. The moment I have them I visualize with affirmations about him and me. I love n live in the end result that I visualize while I say my affirmation which I read . I read it everyday after my prayers n meditation are done. Push those doubtful thoughts out immediately b replacing it with visualizing affirmation n living in the end result go deep into what you feel. Focus on what you feel and are feeling.
I knew this video was going to be worthwhile. I absolutely love this so much ! They can feel you , oh my gosh , now I’m in a loving space aha.
I'm so glad it resonated!
Wow that is crazy! I love hearing success stories :)
Thank you 🙏
Omg yessss this is just the video I needed to see!!!! Especially since the one year of our breakup is on the 14th of this month, so this is so very fitting with the timing and all ♥️
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I love your content how do you not run out of ideas? You say the same message in every video but each seems to be different and entirely new when you speak it. Thanks again!
Aww thats sweet. I do feel like I run out of ideas (I'm in one of those times right now) but it really just requires a perspective shift: "I have endless topics to talk about!!" ;)
Shelly was born for this work. Its like a divine gift.
You both look beautiful together, eternal love!
Thank you so much!!
Good for you Shelly!! I’m happy for you. I hope to have the same experience soon 🥰💫😘❣️🦋🍀
I think its amazing how u decide not to go with the schedule to release a video everyday and the incredible content just comes to you!
I also have experienced small burst of these 'thought abt it..let go and it suddenly appears' moment!
But for SP.. its difficult to let go n not think abt..even for a few hours.. 😅
yes. exactly.
Sometimes I am flooded with memories of a past relationship from almost a decade ago. It hurt me so badly the way it ended and I felt I was used and discarded. I regret trying to initially plead with this person for another chance because I wasn't aware of things he was hiding from me when the breakup first happened. I don't want contact but I would like to visualize things ending in a better way so I can move forward with peace.
Beautiful. You can do that.
Omg I’ve been there! I did it without deliberate manifesting at the time and didn’t care it was one year whatsoever, so when he came back I already moved on but it was good to see how it works with all I know now 🤗
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Wow, I cannot wait to see this one!
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My was a dream that happened Monday morning. So real so intense. It has been over 10 years since the breakup, (there is more to the breakup, a lot more) and all this week all I can feel is her presence around me. Like we are back together again, so I love 💕, in the prefect world together. In a loving committed passionate relationship. I have not seen or heard from her for over fives years. All I can feel is her and I together. I believe she already in my bed. Even though we have no contact. Is this what it feels like “to let go”?? To live in the moment? Because I don’t even want to it to stop.
Your story is beautiful. May your day be full of puppy 🐶 kisses and rainbows 🌈.
Great video as always. I saw your Instagram a couple months ago and great pictures of you on there!
My ex is very spiritual too. That was the reason we deeply connected
Makes sense. ;)
Shelly, obviously you've healed your abandonment wounds and mastered self-confidence, so how come this relationship was so tumultous and on off?
Why do I get so much more in 2 months following this channel than what I got in 5 years actively following 2 Catholic communities at church? Is that kind of afformation? 😀
Seriously I've been thinking about it.
Almost all religions teach separation, that's why I hardly regained my self confidence which is so essential for manifesting. I'm thankful that I regain it and restore my self concept through this channel. 🙏🌹
Not sure if it's an afformation but I'm happy that it's true!
Because this is driven by love. How it should always be.
Churches are driven by fear. I used to be religious too.
@@itsreallyrona yes totally agree 😊
I have not listened to this yet but it’s amazing how these show up. I actually just had the thought that there is no way after everything my ex husband and I have been through
AS SOOOOON AS I hear from my SP ... I am going to jump on this very video and let you know, Shelly. 😆😁😀😂 I will respond to him an hour or two later. First things first -- and first I celebrate with Shelly!!! 😄😊😆😀😀😂
love ittttt!
Looking forward to this one!!
I still have to get through the process of forgiveness and detachment , thank you for sharing your story ♥️🍀
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I am creating my dream life with my sp right now!
I’m exact same situation but my mistake is manifesting for her and i to be back in relationship but when you said that “that’s an attachment”, it really opened my eyes. Wow! Thank you for showing me my mistake on manifesting. It’s crazy because here i am thinking i’m not attached but I actually am with my manifesting.
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Difficult part is to let go. I consider this as a key factor for any kind of manifestation.
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I think it’s still too hard for me to imagine him saying the things I want to hear. But I’ll get there. PS I love that white lattice feature!!
Yes, just keep practicing that new reality... or keep feeling into a reality closer to the end result.
Oh Shelly, I love your autumn-like background and your shirt. Really feeling like fall. ♥
Lol its feeling far too much like it right now. I'm sat working for home in about 5 layers 😉🥶
@@ruthcarlisle2663 Same same lol. I'm wearing a scarf. It's probably only 11 in Birmingham, but I'm still coooold. I can't wit until I move to a place with better insulation and double glazing.
@@decemberclouds ha ha, I'm not that far away in Leeds, think its a similar temperature. Then again, I'm always cold ( I have been sat on a beach before on holiday, everyone has been scorching and I've been cold) You are in your nice warm place 😉😁❤
@@ruthcarlisle2663 I'm always cold too, something about the cold in England gets into my bones. Everyone I know who wasn't born here says the same. :(
@@decemberclouds ha true. Even when it gets what is perceived as warm here, im still usually cold. Think I going to have to prep myself to freeze, my sp wants to get me skiing/ snowboarding ( which I do want to do) but I m going to be on the slopes with about 3 duvets on lol.⛷❄☃️
I wonder does divination counts as 3D resistance? I have done tarot and it said we’re not working anymore. If I ignore this tarot result, will it work manifesting?
This is a beautiful account of a reconciliation for all the right reasons. I also have a friend who's friendship with me has been broken for about a year. I have gone through the stages of true forgiveness this time, not fake or surface forgiveness that me and this person had in the past. I forgave him on my own, I forgave myself first. I'm hopeful someday our paths will cross. I'm not sure I want to manifest any type of communication. I certainly do not want any sort of apology. I've learned that apologies keep us chained to the past with no chance to move forward. That's just my opinion. I used to think I needed to hear those words or an explanation. Now, I think there's no point. There's no past, no future, just here and now. I'm curious Shelly, where do you stand with this ex now? Are you still talking?
We will continue to talk as we've decided there are a few more things we would like to discuss/clear/forgive, and because there is also a way that we are very good friends who can support one another in our lives. We won't talk in a regularly, though. We made plans today to talk in a few weeks.
Shelly Bullard That’s awesome. Even though you’ve forgiven him on your own, there still must be a weight lifted having the forgiveness be reciprocated.
So I think I just need to let things go and not try to hang on so much. That seems to be my problem.. I need to do my life and let go of resentment and know that the impossible IS possible!!💕
The letting go part is the hardest for me because I am so afraid it will be misinterpreted to "I don't care."
Yes, a lot of people feel this way. Watch my letting go playlist to get more clarification on what letting go is... I think it'll help you.
I always find your videos so helpful and also reassuring. Thank you
So glad you find them helpful🧡
This give me hope. I have not been in contact with my SP for about a year
Have a look at this one also ruclips.net/video/y93Mz9jtcw8/видео.html 💝
I just did my full ritual and released my ex. I’ve been going on with my life so I’m sure I’ll share a similar experience with you soon
Beautiful.
Love success stories. Thank you for sharing yours💖
You’re welcome 🧡
Shelly, need to tell you this...i said you ryt ..he blocked me on july 31st...i was so attached to them...From few days, i felt so free..idk why...i deleted his contact to forget abt it and i see he unblocked me now...Wow...what!!!! 😍
When you stop chasing/feeling attached, they can be attracted back to you.
Such a great personal story!! Thank you for sharing 🌺
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What a nice story! Thank you for sharing it!
You’re welcome!
I just binged on allll you're videos last night . Even tho i watched them bf . I lovee hearing your voice it's like a meditation session while listening to you ☺️ you always come out with something new and inspiring ,❤️Thank You
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I must say this video was other level stuff to hear a peesonal story soo authentic and raw the way you describe the complete apology ... it was so moving and touching. I know that ill merit the same treatment very soon... tbh mine isnt even an ex just a close close friend ....
I'm happy listening this, you are so sweet. Loving your voice😍😍
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Please make a video on manifesting someone who has blocked you
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Can't wait to watch the vídeo ❤
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That kind of breakup would be SO HARD! You had to just move on with no closure? Aren’t you in a healthy relationship now with someone else? Wow that couldn’t have been easy ❤️
It totally was one of my hardest relationships, however by the time it ended, I was ready to move on. So was he. And, we were both left hurt. AND, I manifested my current partner very soon after... and he/our relationship indirectly healed a lot of the wounds. :)
Shelly Bullard oh wow!!!! That’s such an amazing happy ending 💕
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Omg ...needed this.....in 13 days it’s 6 months I haven’t had contact with the love of my life🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Tracking it that closely points to the potential that you're probably saturated in him "not being here." If you can, take some notes from this video and start practicing a new way of relating to the situation. :)
Beautiful !!! Did you do the visualization on purpose or it cams to you ?
Shelly, happy to see you ☺️🌹
So happy to see you Petra!
This gives me hope ♥️
Love the video!! For me is trying to feeling it and the letting go. Some time with trying to manifest contact I feel I like “will it ever happen?” But after watching this it just reminded me that yes it can but you still have to let it all go.
yes ;)
What helps me is: if they can like/love me once they can like/love me again.
111 comments when im watching 💓 ive been getting lots and lots of signs lately. love the confirmation that good things are happening for me 😌
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Shelly, aren’t you currently in a relationship? If so, why would you want contact from your ex?
If you watch the video you'll hear that I wasn't manifesting contact to get back into a relationship.
she did it unconsciously it was just a vision but even if it was conscious sometimes we want closure ✨
Shelly Bullard oh okay so for purposes of closure 💫 I understand 💕
FROM NYC: When will you admit that you are psychic and an empath? It's time. Feeling it real/satisfied. Neville again! Be safe.
Thank you for sharing your personal experience. A query: if you let it go, then dont you move on from that person? Then it doesnt matter they are in your life or not. So what bevomes the purpose of manifesting their coming back? Just curious.
And I'll try to be relaxed as much as possible
I am curious what or who you’re looking at. Most of your videos you are looking up at something but it’s not the camera lens. I’m just curious what you’re focusing on.
I watch myself in the video as it records. I might change that style soon though ;)
Do you think I could manifest contact from someone I haven’t spoken to in 3yrs....I want to have that same conversation as Shelly. Would love to meet up and talk but unsure if I would want to be in a relationship as I don’t know if the spark is still there.....iv always tried to reach out but never get a response.
Yes
Anything is possible if you believe and detach from it (live your life and be happy)
I watched this and within two hours went to a speakeasy cocktail bar on a whim and the only other person there was an ex of three years I hadn’t seen in a year and a few months
love it!
This was such a deep and beautiful story. Amazing shelly. ❤
Thank you!
This video gives me so much hope as I've been trying to manifest my SP for over 8 months now. I feel like I've let go and that there's no attachment, I'm focusing more on me and my self worth... I think I get discouraged when I hear other coaches say nothing should take that long to manifest so I automatically think I must be doing something wrong. I feel confident with who I am and live in the end knowing we are together. I'm just gonna continue on that path 😌
Any other suggestions?
Yes, I think just keep doing what you're doing. Also, if it resonates, follow what I shared in this video. :)
Those coaches are terrible coaches... Time doesn't mean anything. I don't believe in the Law of Attraction and the magic of the universe haha, I believe in the Law of Assumption and the power of our mind. If you want, try this: Every day affirm something like "X looks for me and contacts me constantly" and if you want, one or two more affirmations. Repeat this over and over throughout the day, attaching a specific image to that affirmation each time you repeat it. Repeat this until it sounds natural to you, in a state of peace, especially minutes before sleeping and the first minutes after waking up. Forget about letting go. Forget about all limits. Repeat every day and persist, you have nothing to lose, right? Don't count the days and don't check anything, you just repeat to yourself constantly in your mind, every day throughout the day, that affirmation (or affirmations). Just try it 😊
@@IsabelGarcia-yz4uj thank u so much for your comments 💖 Means a lot u took time to respond 🥰 I do affirmations as well but I'm going to try implementing some new ones and see how it goes. Thank you again l'll keep everyone updated! I've said it before, I really feel like a little family in this group! I absolutely love it!!!!❤
@@ShellyBullard it definitely does and I'll be watching it a couple more times!!!
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I know this video was made a month ago, but I'm confused because I thought you had a man/relationship with someone else. Isn't it offensive to your relationship to manifest communication from an ex?
Keeping the mental diet after visualization can create the same results, even if I do not let it go, is that right? Beautiful and inspiring story Shelly! :)
yes
My boyfriend broke up with me and told me that our paths aren’t aligning and that we never see each other. I want to be with him/date him/have him be my person. What can I do to have him come back to me and tell me that he wants me as his partner forever?
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Thank you for sharing your personal story ❤️
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Thanks for sharing your personal story Shelly. Xxx
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