1.5 YEARS of NO CONTACT - My Ex Contacted Me!

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2024

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  • @FlowOfConsciousness
    @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +2

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  • @chevy2583
    @chevy2583 3 года назад +8

    I fee your excitement bro! Glad to hear that things are fine in your life.

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +5

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  • @jorimdelaere4325
    @jorimdelaere4325 3 года назад +6

    It was just a thing of beauty seeing you grow this last one and a half year. It has ups and downs but it was so cool to witness you go into this big path of growth. Keep on going ma boi!

  • @stayce751
    @stayce751 3 года назад +4

    I have to go back to the beginning and watch your videos. This has me excited for you, but also for myself and my situation.

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +1

      I am grateful to have you here. There's hope for you! I am convinced you will be able to heal and feel whole again. I made a playlist with most of my breakup related videos, maybe it's easier for you to find the videos this way. If you want you can have a look:
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      I am sending you strength and courage in the process. You got this.

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      @muhammadbello1450 3 года назад

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    • @muhammadbello1450
      @muhammadbello1450 3 года назад +1

      I just fixed my relationship and my ex wife has come back to me and we are living happily like never before. I received the help of a powerful spiritualist and his spells work effectively as you want ...

    • @Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829
      @Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829 3 года назад

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  • @deepak69644
    @deepak69644 3 года назад +3

    Love your energy man. Very wholesome.

  • @ayumelove
    @ayumelove 3 года назад +2

    you beautiful human being

  • @theconsciousmovement9669
    @theconsciousmovement9669 3 года назад +1

    Love the name of your channel

  • @RekynGH
    @RekynGH 3 года назад +2

    What are you saying ..

  • @brittneyslightom9421
    @brittneyslightom9421 Год назад +1

    tysm :(

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  Год назад

      Take good care of yourself Britt ✨💙 sending you a warm hug.

  • @niniinin6867
    @niniinin6867 3 года назад +2

    A year of no contact in December and I’m good 🥰

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад

      That's fantastic Nini! I'm glad to hear you're feeling good ✨ thank you for watching and leaving a comment

  • @slimjim1104
    @slimjim1104 3 года назад +2

    6 months no contact and still hurts...

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +3

      I hear you slim jim... It's not easy. But you are strong and on the right path. 6 months is incredibly hard and difficult. You are very brave for staying true to yourself and for committing to your own healing process. Keep showing up for yourself. Things will get better, I promise.

  • @signsignsign74
    @signsignsign74 3 года назад +1

    I’m getting close to 10.5 months. She just got dumped by her rebound, so we’ll see.

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +1

      Stay strong my friend. And keep focusing on yourself. That's in my opinion always the best route.

    • @signsignsign74
      @signsignsign74 3 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness Did you and your ex get back together?

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад

      @@signsignsign74 no, we didn't. After our call together we just naturally didn't feel the need to stay in close touch. We both moved on with our lives, and we are no longer part of each other's journey. I have a pleasant feeling about the relationship, it was a very meaningful partnership for me after all, and I am sure she does too. We both learned a lot from it, and I am grateful to have had the experiences we shared together. I am also very happy to not feel any emotional pain anymore when I think back. We both completely moved on, and we're both happy for each other. I wish her well anytime she comes to mind and that brings me peace.

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 3 года назад +1

      Why would you want her back after she has been with some other Guy. Just Saying. What makes you think the same reason that she went to someone else is not going to happen again.

  • @Count_Jacula
    @Count_Jacula 3 года назад +1

    My ex left me at the start of nov an i think she is hookingup with someone else already it killed me I've only been in NC for a month or so now but its been very hard I'm trying to improve an work on myself i really am it was a 2 years relationship but we had plans an dreams kids family all planned out an i feel now I've gone from like 99% of having my dreams to 0. The idea of my ex reaching out honestly feels impossible an like it will never happen i would just love to sit down with her again because we really did connect an when it was good there was so much love their i was her first ever long term bf. She seems so fine without me whilst I'm in pain etc i don't understand how she just doesn't seem to be effected I'm sure she is but i wouldn't know as literally had NC with her for a month now its so bizarre to go from talking to someone everyday to just them not being in your life anymore

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад

      I'm deeply sorry to hear about your loss Jack... I feel your pain. And it's absolutely normal that you feel like this. It's incredibly painful to go through this experience. Give yourself the time you need. It's going to take a while for you to heal and accept the situation. I know it's hard, but you can do it, trust me.
      What really helped me the first few weeks after the breakup was calling my friends and family almost daily. It's important to talk to the people who know and love you when you're going through a breakup.
      But always remember man: you are worthy of love, and it's not because she left you that you're no longer worthy. Stay strong buddy, you got this.

    • @Count_Jacula
      @Count_Jacula 3 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness Thank you for the reply was much needed. I know i can do this because i just keep thinking i had a life before her so this cant be the end of that. It just feels like i lost my best friends as well as my lover. But i have to respect her choice and NC has to happen so i can find myself again an become a better version of me. I really appreciate your message thank you

    • @Count_Jacula
      @Count_Jacula 2 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness Thank you sorry only just getting back to you. Weird but i felt fine most of decemeber and didn't really think about things but now its back in my head again which is kind of annoying as i thought i was part this point. Like id say last 3/4 weeks I've been good an accepting working on myself but last few days suddenly i feel like i did right after the breakup. I don't know if i miss her or the relationship itself we have not spoken now for months does worry me she may never talk to me again an forget about me but if that happens not much i can do really.

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  2 года назад +2

      @@Count_Jacula it's completely normal to go through these ups and downs brother. You're not moving backwards, even though it might feel like that initially. Healing takes time, it's not a race. Give yourself the space and time you need. You're on the right path, trust me. I've felt exactly the same way like you so now, and eventually you'll move past it again. Sending you lots of love and positive energy brother. You got this

    • @Count_Jacula
      @Count_Jacula 2 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness Thanks for the reply its nice to feel an know that its not just me an others have been in the same situation its just hard ya know when some days i don't think about it an other days i hear my phone an just long an wish for it to be her but it never is. I dunno its strange i just have to move forward still thank you much love man keep doing what your doing really does help people

  • @priyapathak8972
    @priyapathak8972 3 года назад +1

    I need to share something (quite long) with you...
    How can I contact you

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад

      Hey Priya, thank you for watching and leaving a comment. You can contact me at flowofconsciousness1@gmail.com

  • @charlesdc1233
    @charlesdc1233 5 месяцев назад

    Who broke up? You or her?

  • @silentlovermohan
    @silentlovermohan Год назад

    Bro, did you begged and pleaded after breakup? Please tell me bro I'm stuck 💔🙏

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  Год назад +1

      Hey buddy, I'm sorry to hear you're struggling so much at the moment. I didn't beg, nor did I plead. I know it's tempting to do so, but it will only make you feel worse afterwards. I know it's goddamn hard to accept it right now, but the person you used to be together with no longer wants to continue that relationship. There's nothing you can do about that. And you want to be together with someone who voluntarily chooses to be with you, isn't it? It's better to accept the loss right now and focus on moving on, then it is to try and hold onto something which no longer is. I know it's painful, I have been there many times. But eventually you will be alright again, trust me. I am speaking from firsthand experience. You're not the first person ever to go through this, nor will you be the last. And almost everyone recovers from this and eventually will feel okay again. So will you. Hang in there buddy, you got this. And if you're too overwhelmed you can always ask for help, no need to do this alone by yourself. Take good care of yourself 🍀

    • @silentlovermohan
      @silentlovermohan Год назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness bro, you are a good man love from India 🇮🇳 ❤️ but still i have a question that i begged and pleaded for 6 months but she said no, so my question is if i maintain no contact for 6 months then wht you that she will come back or not, she said to me that I'll not realize your love ever and if you think I'll come back to you like your ex after few years than you are wrong. So bro plz tell me that she will come back after 6 months or should i contact her after 6 months? Please bro i request you 🙏🇮🇳❤️

  • @dabbadoodle
    @dabbadoodle 3 года назад +1

    Thank you from one soul to another. Grieving myself but ultimately I wish to be able to wish gratitude and forgiveness upon my ex. I know it will happen we are just finding ourselves again after 5 years together. Blessings

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +1

      I am sorry to hear about your loss Capt. Thank you for your heartful comment. I know that you eventually will be able to wish gratitude and forgiveness upon your ex. It takes time. Allow yourself the time to heal. You are on the right path, I can hear it from your words. You got this, and I have faith in you.

    • @dabbadoodle
      @dabbadoodle 3 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness Thank you, I love your channel! Keep it up. Much love!!!

    • @muhammadbello1450
      @muhammadbello1450 3 года назад

      I just fixed my relationship and my ex wife has come back to me and we are living happily like never before. I received the help of a powerful spiritualist and his spells work effectively as you want ...

    • @muhammadbello1450
      @muhammadbello1450 3 года назад

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  • @Nathan-sq9xv
    @Nathan-sq9xv 3 года назад

    Love the thumbnail 😂
    Broke up in late August but we dated 2 mo this, nothing long at all. It was intense though
    I really refuse to believe that she’ll come back but she left me because I stood up for myself
    Basically, she’d always cancel on me but shed say that she wanted to see me “so bad”
    She’d always cancel though
    Eventually I got mad and then she said I’m not letting her see other people (clearly being passive aggressive) but yea

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching and leaving a comment man!
      Yea, sounds like the was making excuses. If someone really wants to be with you, they will make it happen. Don't waste time on people who don't respect you and focus on building a social circle with people who show up for you.

    • @Nathan-sq9xv
      @Nathan-sq9xv 3 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness I just hope she loves to regret it, that’s all :)
      I won’t count on it though
      Not to mention she cancelled our plans to be with her ex 😂

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +1

      @@Nathan-sq9xv I understand you hope she'll come to regret it right now, I've been there myself. I came to learn that it's better to just let it go and focus on your own life and to wish her well, despite the hurt. The mature version of me doesn't stay stuck in resentment, and that's the version of myself I want to be. Kindness, compassion and forgiveness is in my humble opinion always the best route.
      You're going to be okay brother 💜

    • @Nathan-sq9xv
      @Nathan-sq9xv 3 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness thanks, you’re very optimistic, which is a good thing. I have to let go though. It’s been 2 1/2 months since the breakup

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +2

      @@Nathan-sq9xv give it time, and keep telling yourself whenever you feel stuck in resentment, anger or sadness 'whatever I feel is valid right now and I forgive her and myself for what happened'

  • @ayutrnita
    @ayutrnita 3 года назад

    After 1.5 years no contact is it possible for you to be friends again with your ex?

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад

      It depends on the person and how the relationship ended. With this particular ex girlfriend I don't think we can be friends atm, maybe in a few years, but definitely not right now. I have a few ex girlfriends with who I am great friends now, so it's definitely possible. It really depends on the person, the time passed and the relationship you had together.

    • @ebohoimenvictor7804
      @ebohoimenvictor7804 3 года назад

      I know a man who can help you to bring your ex back to you without delays he was the one that helped me to get back my ex within tow days

    • @ebohoimenvictor7804
      @ebohoimenvictor7804 3 года назад

      Message him on WhatsApp

    • @davidhabila663
      @davidhabila663 3 года назад

      @@ebohoimenvictor7804 contact pls

    • @sophiestanza
      @sophiestanza 2 года назад

      @@FlowOfConsciousness when you say definitely not right now, why is that? Is it because you feel she’ll interfere with your healing journey or are there other reasons?

  • @theconsciousmovement9669
    @theconsciousmovement9669 3 года назад +2

    Wonder if she will see this video…. Lol

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +2

      Haha I think she did, since she discovered my RUclips channel right before reaching out to me

  • @GoddessVibesVonnie
    @GoddessVibesVonnie Год назад

    Are you saying this bc you know dudes watching your channel 🤷🏽‍♀️😳

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  Год назад

      Hey Rossellini! Thank you for watching the video. Saying what exactly? :)

  • @AlexanderBeenGreat
    @AlexanderBeenGreat 2 года назад

    How tf did she find this page? 😂😂😂

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  2 года назад +2

      Girls have mind-blowing stalking skills dude, trust me 😅

  • @jefferythompson6881
    @jefferythompson6881 3 года назад +3

    She is deceiving you. Move on for your own sake.

    • @FlowOfConsciousness
      @FlowOfConsciousness  3 года назад +5

      Thank you for watching the video and leaving a comment Jeffery! I am sure she wasn't deceiving me, as we both completely moved on from each other. We simply shared our appreciation for one another, and I thought it was absolutely beautiful she reached out to me to share her gratitude.