Been watching you guys for 6 months & I've been a mom for 32 years. I am a little jealous of your away time, but it seems so good! Enjoy! One day I'll have my moment!
@@HmRm10xx So Jack has his millionth tantrum and instead of putting him on time out, you spoil and baby him. This is why he’s turned into an awful spoiled kid. He’s a horrible kid who isn’t the least bit cute. Could use a hard smmack to his fatface.
Never feel guilty about remembering why you two got together in the first place. Having children as much as you love every moment we tend to get caught up in the grind and forget about our significant other. 37 years together and we always find time to remember why we are together.
@Carol Barranco A day or two, absolutely. But a week? Sunny is severely underweight and Jack has emotional regulation issues. I wouldn't be going anywhere if both of my kids needed me like that but then, my income doesn't depend on posting content on SM and I wasn't just trashed by the Dad Challenge Podcast for exploiting my babies for bank.
Ohhhh it’s so so important to get time together alone without the kids. Not only does it remind the two of you why you fell in love, it also reminds you of how much you really miss your babies, and helps you to deal with the really hard days with the kids. Have fun and definitely do t feel guilty.
I think you guys have a well adjusted way of looking at your time alone from your adorable kids. I totally agree with you refreshing your bond with Jack and Sunny by having that occasional alone time together. You know the grandparents are having fun indulging the kids, so you guys have fun, no guilt allowed!!!
It is so important to have time away as a married couple! Even a vacation every now and then. You must keep dating and make as many good memories as possible! They will help you get through the storms ahead. We are celebrating our 40th this October and going strong (with four grown children). You've got this!
YES! Your philosophy on just the two of you getting away is a good thing. My husband and I both worked 9-5 jobs, and once in awhile felt we needed time for just the two of us. We would leave my son with his grandparents. My son is now 36 years old, and he remained extremely close to his grandma and grandpa until they passed away. He still brings up the fun times he had with them. So it's a win, win, win. You're leaving the kids in very loving hands, so you can get away and refresh your marriage with peace of mind. Believe me, the grandparents win, too. Just be aware that some day you'll be the ones left at home with the grandchildren. It's a blessing for us grandparents.
As a mom that hasn't had a break in almost 4 years, I agree 1 million percent that it's a very good thing to be able to take a break. My husband works all day every day. I have no family around that offers to come and spend time with our children. Time away definitely would benefit our marriage and it absolutely would help our moral on life. It's so hard being home with the kids. I love your videos. You two are real and I love that. Don't let anyone discourage you from sharing your lives. I think it would be so incredible to look back on your channel years from now and see what life used to be like. ❤
Talk to your neighbors or people you meet at the library ask around about finding a mother's helper. Even if it's just time after school you will be able to have some alone time, it really helps the mental health side of things.😊
I pray that time will come to you and your husband to be able to take some alone together. Hang on there kiddo, keep up the good work in nurturing and bringing up your children. Your time together alone will come and when it does consider it a blessing. God bless ✝️🙏❤️
You guys are getting it right. All of you... the Bunch included 😅 Feed each other...travel, explore, fall more in love...The happier and healthier you guys are, the more your babies thrive. It's the only way ❤️
It's absolutely important to have getaways and equally good for your kids to have parents who love each other and make "us" time a priority. Your marriage will be stronger as a result.
Apologies in advance for this very long message but,I just have to say that I really love watching your entire family,both of your family's!! (Derrick and Tanners family) You guys are not only outstanding parents,but are so loving and active with the kids,and educating them also in a fun way,all at the same time!! Just all such essentially important things for children's mental growth!! I honestly really wish I saw more younger parents bringing their kids up this way, And your so very patient from what I see!! (Even tho I know we're all human and have our "moments" at times) Plus the fun comedic spin you put on handling and approaching situations is fantastic!!! ,👏🏻🙌🏻👍🏻👌🏻 I just love that your all so positive and happy (obviously everyone has their bad days,but your just a joy to watch!) That's why you have amazing well adjusted little ones!! And very happy,healthy,loving,and most importantly COMMUNICATION, RESPECT and COMPATIBLY in your relationships!! (Imo!😉👌🏻) I just love the way you go about things,and who you are! Which is really great to see these days with all the junk on the internet currently. So I hope you had an amazing, relaxing, decompressing mini vacation!!👍🏻👌🏻👋🏻🙌🏻 🚢🌊🕶️🩴🩳😎🌞👙🤿🎣 🩱🥽🐚🐬🦦🦭🦈🐳🐟🐠🐡🦐🦞🦀🦗🐙🦪🦂🐚👏🏻🙌🏻 It's been a crazy busy year for you guys and you very much deserve this break!! It's a healthy thing to do for yourselves and the relationship as a while. And I think that it's absolutely fine and normal and healthy to be away from the kids for a few days,their in a safe,loving environment. So with that said, I'm totally glad you decided to do this for yourselves and I hope you had the time of your lives!! And I'm sure when u got back it was super great to see the kids as you both missed them, as they missed you both!❤🥰 Which again,is so healthy for them to experience,just like mama Sarah said!! 👌🏻👍🏻😉 Shes an awesome mama,and your a awesome dado!! Keep up the amazing content! And wishing you both only great prosperous things in life!!! And a new happy fresh start with the new big move!! Congratulations!! 🎉🙌🏻 👋🏻❤❤️
Never, never let this comment section change how you are. You are the sweetest, fun loving young family on you tube. I absolutely love watching your adventures with and without the little cuties. Your family is so blessed. Love from Canada. ❤
Sunny looks so much like Jack. Same face just different coloured hair. They are so cute❤. I think every parent should take a vacation without the children. All parents need this time together alone. At least once or twice a year. ❤
I love that Sarah was behind the camera, i love seeing her in the power position - catching Derek in cute vulnerable moments but mostly because you’re awesome and i like hearing and seeing you at your most confident
A dozen times in a year including 2 cruises right after their new baby is born? I appreciate every second of my life and truly I have taken 5 cruises. They were my rewards after my kids graduated college and took their seats at the head of the table to raise their own and work in careers that make all our lives better. I am worried about Sunny and just trusting they know what they are doing but I have been a mom for 50 years and this is unusual. Don't you think?
@dianne8276 I think that it's normal for them. Older generations were raised differently and we didn't take the time to spend with our partners. Maybe that's why so many people got divorced. I'm so glad that they take the time to just enjoy each other. This is the first cruise that the took after sunny was born.
@kayon I am 70. Every bit of any extra cash went to their college fund. And trust me if you knew them you would grateful for the investment especially the youngest, my daughter who owns the patents on her inventions that are possible for what we are doing right here, right now. I really would like to brag more on it but right now big tech is being literally physically threatened.
@Dianne this is a toxic mentality that you have. It's totally ok and healthy to go on trips without you kids. You can live your life and enjoy your children
Aloha, i am #9 of 10 kids and my memories of my childhood were my parents going bowling Friday nights, they had friends whom eould come over and play cards and yahtzee and they took trips to the cabin 2x a year and they would go on an annual get away..without us kids. They took us camping and on trips too… the point is they showed us to lead a happy marraige they needed go give themselves “me time or rather couple time”. We were not rich, but we lived joyful lives. Then, they moved 2 of us to Hawaii and we lived a much more simple life and they sorta didn’t do that as much and while they stayed married… i think they had a period of challenges. Thats when i was in high school and I missed our lifestyle we had in Colorado. But overall it still was great, we were just poor financially… but still rich in joy. So, i personally think that what you are doing is healthy and you have a great support system and lots of love to nurture your lives. Don’t listen to the negative as you guys give your keiki so much love and more attention than most! Keep loving, dancing, singing, doing adventures… its the best you can give to each other and your children. Aloha pumehana🌺
So happy to see you're having a great time! A break from children for Mom and Dad is always a good thing. As long as you can afford it and have great baby sitters, I don't see why not! Love you guys.
I couldn’t imagine not being there for my own grown kids and their families. I’m so close to my grandchildren and it’s an honour to help them all out like yours do ❤️❤️ How some grandparents prefer and choose not to be so close blows my mind! They are missing out on so much life long love ❤️ I’m delighted to give my grown Kids and their partners well-being time to re charge their batteries 🥰 And the Grands and I have a great time and so so much love 🥰 They are in their teens and pre teens now and the closeness and unconditional love we share is golden ❤️🤩
I always took my children with us whenever we went anywhere. The only thing my husband and I did alone was a 3 day rafting trip in Zion. I felt so guilty leaving them I couldn’t do it anymore. Especially when they were young. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it especially when they’re with grandma and grandpa. It was just very hard for me personally.
I always took my children everywhere we went. I couldn't leave them behind even though I knew they were safe with grand parents. I had the fun in having them, so I should have the right in raising them. 🧚
I don’t know but my hubby and I waited longer to have kids and we would be lost on vacations without them! We want to experience everything with them and the memories we have from every trip are priceless
It is A MUST, in my opinion, y'all need to have a quality couple, and connection time, untethered by the day-to-day responsibilities that distract and interrupt y'alls quality time. It is so healthy for the long haul, bc Jack and Sunny need two well-functioning parents who are on the same page, engaged, happy, and examples of teamwork. It not only is great for them to see, but it also gives them independence on their own to grow and have a maturity in navigating that, they will one day have to be from you in some sense, and they will have cultivated the security they'll need. Also, it deepens their relationship with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and extension and the deeper shared relationship as siblings with their own shared memories. It's a win all around in my book. ❤hope y'all had a great time. 😊
At the end of the day when the kids are grown it will be you and your spouse so time together is a MUST good for you. And kids are happy when parents are happy. Love your channel!!!!!
Your marriage is the foundation of your family. Nurturing it is the most important thing! I'm proud of you guys for taking time. It makes a stronger family! I never left my kids and it wasn't healthy. For me it was the cost. The kids benefit too spending time with others. It's a win/win!
I don’t have kids but I think you guys totally deserve a break bc being a parent is a full time job and if you want to be the best parents you can be you have to have time to yourself and time into your own relationship with each other! Happy for you guys 😊
Right? They seem to travel every month. I'm hoping the grandparents are putting a little weight on Sunny because, imho, being so underweight is scary, and I hope the lack of filming calms Jack. Hitting other kids and tantruming multiple times a day is a lot to handle.
It's wonderful that you're blessed to be able to have some together time. Life doesn't stop when you have children. You are wonderful parents. It's valuable for your children to learn that they will be OK if you are not with them every minute.
Parents 100% need and deserve some alone time. I’m a firm believer that striking a balance between being a parent and reconnecting with yourself or your spouse/significant other is not only important but beneficial in maintaining a proper balance. Being a parent is dang hard and having a little break here and there is a must! Not only will you benefit, but your child/children will benefit as well from having a mom or dad rested and recharged. You guys enjoy this trip guilt-free!! So well deserved. Thank you for sharing your beautiful trip with us! 🤗🩵🛳️☀️
Definitely a good idea for parents to have time for themselves. I think it makes your relationship better, which is better for the kids. Kids also need time away from parents. That way, they are not so clingy to them. It's important to get interaction with other people, even if it's family members.
100% agree every Mom/Dad/Care Giver needs " me time". My Mom has always said to me "If you don't take care of yourself how can you take care of your kids?" Also i think is very very good for your marriage or relationship to have that one on one time, Keep that spark going so to speak lol
You time makes your time special. Always invest your time with each other. I’ve been married for 52 years. One day your children will leave you. Talk about hard. But my husband and I made it through together. So start making a bucket list. For the future things to do after kids are gone. I love your family , God bless
It’s very very important that you nurture your relationship as husband and wife. It’s what provides a secure environment for your children and by your example It helps your kids to learn how to develop healthy communication skills and relationships outside the home.
I definitely think all parents need that getaway... It is a relax and refresh and it also helps, at least for me, as a reset for my priorities. It's easy to get parent burnout. I think it's really good to get a little "me" time and "us" time when possible
You 2 make a great couple and are clearly loving parents. I respect the fact that you make time for each other so that there’s always enough left “in your cup,” to give to your kids. I’ve been watching your little family grow since Jack was born. I’ve always been curious (and you have likely addressed this previously but I can’t remember reading it, so please know there is no offense behind this question but,) how do you support yourselves? Do you have job(s)? I’m thinking you must have regular income outside of producing “You Tube” videos that enable you to enjoy vacations and build a new home. Thanks for sharing you positivity and beautiful family.
Love you Derek! Hate when you get hurt!! Praying God will heal your knees and keep you from getting hurt! 🙏😭🙏 Love that you are taking time for your relationship! It is vital!! Blessings!!
Cruises provide a safe place to unwind, no worrying, decompress and rejuvenate. How is that not beautiful? The kids are safe…they’ll continue to grow and reuniting will be so much fun too. ❤congratulations & hoping your adventures are all good. And you can rest up .😊
Time away together is really important! You don’t have to go far or long, and you should commit to not talking about the kids the whole time you’re away in order to truly recharge and connect with yourself and each other. So glad you had such a good time! 💕
I am so glad you got to be adults! Happy Birthday Tanner!! I always told parents its important to still date especially after having kids, you need that connection. 💜💜💜💜💜
Torn meniscus is No Joke. They really hurt, cause Inflammation, Increased Pain. I’m glad you didn’t turn out to be paralyzed. Please think before you jump. All parents need time away. You are Fortunate to be able to leave your children w parents who can help you. Enjoy
Absolutely a great idea.Time for you but also so important for your children to have that relationship with their grandparents. It also builds resilience in children to have that short separation. I mean, one day they will be going off to school and Mum and Dad won't be with them then. You are such awesome parents.
Hey guys I was just watching your shorts because they are so darn cute! I came aross the short when Derik didn't want to put Jack to bed and Sara found them both in the crib. Jack makes the cutest little noise kind of a squeaky sound. What makes it neat is in the video when Sara was out Derik was holding Sunny and she made the same little squeaky noise and Derik said it was the most pitiful sound he ever heard.😊 The two babies sounded identical!!
My 3.5 y/o daughter spends a full week at my in-laws’ house (5 hours away) every 3-4 months and it is such a wonderful thing for everyone. While it’s nice for my husband and me to have a break, my daughter loves it, too. It’s like vacation for her. And my in-laws love it! It’s a win-win-win for everybody. I always miss her when she’s gone, which makes the reunions that much sweeter. ❤
As a mom of 2, we always took vacations with and without the kids, must work cause we've been married 46 years! Just keep doing what you're doing! Love you all! ❤
I wish my now, ex-husband and I would have went on little away trips together, without the kids. But we didn’t. By the time our kids were out of school, we were almost like strangers. Our entire life had revolved around our kids. Sure we raised some incredible kids, all three successful adults with kids of their own. But we divorced after 26 years. So don’t ever feel guilty for getting away. ❤
I'm so happy for you both to have intimate time. Just too bad you weren't both totally alone together. Remember to Always have time alone with each other , no kids, no family, just each other. Bless you both.
Taking a break for yourselves is not bad at all. My parents regularly took a week in winter and one in summer when we were younger and when we were teens, they went for two weeks at a time. It helped us accept that time away from them so there were never breakdowns when we went to summer camp or Girl Scouts. But time away from y'all? I can see why Jack & Sunny may cry. Life as your child is fun! God bless you! Love & Light to you
There is a good reason why you have millions of subscriber's ! People love you for you and they love your content and hope you enjoyed your time together. I bet Grandma spoiled them ..lol😂
I think it’s absolutely great to take time for yourselves and your relationship. If y’all’s relationship is strong and full of love it definitely helpings with parenting and the kids can definitely tell. I hope y’all had an amazing time!!!❤❤❤
When I was a child a girl in our neighborhood dived into the 4 ft. pool in her backyard, which was too shallow for diving safely, broke her neck and was paralyzed from the neck down for the rest of her life. She was a kid too dumb to know better, not an adult. Be more careful, that's a choice. Don't jump of high things into 2 ft of water.
You guys play so hard! LOL. You and your brother are always Banged up! Derek's shoulder and Tanners arm is scraped up! I hope you all have so much fun! 🥰🥰🥰
Remembering who you are and why you’re together is not a bad thing it’s very important. Enjoy yourselves and go back to a loving family who has missed you very much.❤❤❤❤❤
Yes we took our kids all over the world! Cruising is the easiest thing to do with kids! Although looking back now I wish we’d done a few on our own but I just wouldn’t leave them - helicopter mum!
You guys would have to be the most Wholesome couples on RUclips, everything is So Real Life and Inspirational to many young couples with babies out there, You deserve to get away and have some couples time without the children, it really makes for better parenting and you appreciate what you have waiting for you at home, not every couple with children have that sadly, they don’t have parents that will look after their children for that length of time, I’m old Lol 😂 and think you guys are doing a Great Job parenting your children, Both families, don’t ever let anyone tell you differently, you boys had a Wonderful Family raising you into the Men you both are today, I can relate to that being a #boymum myself, I’m totally enjoying both your channels and love seeing your beautiful children grow, they all have different personalities yet all are caring of one another and that’s very rare these days. Keep up the great work guys and I look forward to seeing more from your channels. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺🦘🐨❤️❤️
It is great to be great parents and do wonderful quality time with your kids, BUT you have to take time to nurture your relationship with each other and your marriage. Time away is a must! ❤🎉
But they get over it. It’s dad’s fault because he told him and has been telling him go for the gusto, but never told him it’s OK if you don’t get it in on the first try.
I was just sitting here thinking. What if you acted like your son? Show him a tantrum and then maybe he’ll stop it’s worth a try . Then if he asks tell him this is what you look like
I totally agree …. It’s crucial u have time out for yourselves. Your kids are safe with their grandparents which they love and get a great bond … NEVER feel bad about taking a break …. U r great parents
I love these Beeston Family's! ❤ I catch myself ALWAYS smiling at the end of their videos! I feel like they could be my grandkids! Along with my great grandbabies! ❤ Mine live in Louisiana & I live in New Mexico. 💔 Don't get to see them as much as we would LOVE too! ❤
Spending time away from your children and reconnecting with each other is paramount to maintaining your relationship. Of course, your children are important. Long before they ever showed up, your love for one another was paramount. And it has to stay that way. So continue your getaway adventures, with one another..
Hope your enjoying the cruise. Looks like it! It's definitely ok to have time away without kids. It's healthy & normal. All parents deserve it and need it to keep the marriage strong too ❤
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I think it’s vital that you nurture your relationship as much as you nurture your children. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
Been watching you guys for 6 months & I've been a mom for 32 years. I am a little jealous of your away time, but it seems so good! Enjoy! One day I'll have my moment!
Great advice
@@HmRm10xx So Jack has his millionth tantrum and instead of putting him on time out, you spoil and baby him. This is why he’s turned into an awful spoiled kid. He’s a horrible kid who isn’t the least bit cute. Could use a hard smmack to his fatface.
I hope they get off the internet and learn to live a life
@@Cherry_Heartz say that to all families on RUclips then. 🙄🙄
Never feel guilty about remembering why you two got together in the first place. Having children as much as you love every moment we tend to get caught up in the grind and forget about our significant other. 37 years together and we always find time to remember why we are together.
Kids learn, adapt.😅
Would you leave your infant for a week? I couldn't imagine abandoning my baby to film content.
@@Prism_ism They are both with their children 24/7 so I can see it would be healthy for everyone to take a break now and again.
@Carol Barranco A day or two, absolutely. But a week? Sunny is severely underweight and Jack has emotional regulation issues. I wouldn't be going anywhere if both of my kids needed me like that but then, my income doesn't depend on posting content on SM and I wasn't just trashed by the Dad Challenge Podcast for exploiting my babies for bank.
@@Prism_ism oh I think you just revealed your hate and jealousy of this beautiful family. Hope your life gets better.
Ohhhh it’s so so important to get time together alone without the kids. Not only does it remind the two of you why you fell in love, it also reminds you of how much you really miss your babies, and helps you to deal with the really hard days with the kids. Have fun and definitely do t feel guilty.
Absolutely!!!! So good to have time to really reconnect with your partner and then be better parents after! ❤️❤️❤️
I think you guys have a well adjusted way of looking at your time alone from your adorable kids. I totally agree with you refreshing your bond with Jack and Sunny
by having that occasional alone time together. You know the grandparents are having fun indulging the kids, so you guys have fun, no guilt allowed!!!
Jack trying to show how much his dad loves him is one of the most precious things ever 🥺.
He loves him so much 🥹❤️
It is so important to have time away as a married couple! Even a vacation every now and then. You must keep dating and make as many good memories as possible! They will help you get through the storms ahead. We are celebrating our 40th this October and going strong (with four grown children). You've got this!
YES! Your philosophy on just the two of you getting away is a good thing. My husband and I both worked 9-5 jobs, and once in awhile felt we needed time for just the two of us. We would leave my son with his grandparents. My son is now 36 years old, and he remained extremely close to his grandma and grandpa until they passed away. He still brings up the fun times he had with them. So it's a win, win, win. You're leaving the kids in very loving hands, so you can get away and refresh your marriage with peace of mind. Believe me, the grandparents win, too. Just be aware that some day you'll be the ones left at home with the grandchildren. It's a blessing for us grandparents.
As a mom that hasn't had a break in almost 4 years, I agree 1 million percent that it's a very good thing to be able to take a break. My husband works all day every day. I have no family around that offers to come and spend time with our children. Time away definitely would benefit our marriage and it absolutely would help our moral on life. It's so hard being home with the kids.
I love your videos. You two are real and I love that.
Don't let anyone discourage you from sharing your lives. I think it would be so incredible to look back on your channel years from now and see what life used to be like.
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Talk to your neighbors or people you meet at the library ask around about finding a mother's helper. Even if it's just time after school you will be able to have some alone time, it really helps the mental health side of things.😊
I pray that time will come to you and your husband to be able to take some alone together. Hang on there kiddo, keep up the good work in nurturing and bringing up your children. Your time together alone will come and when it does consider it a blessing. God bless ✝️🙏❤️
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I am so glad neighbors give me a break. And my oldest kids help me when I ask. Even if for a couple hours.
Tell your husband you need a part-time nanny (3-4) hours, two or three times a week.
Having mom and dad time alone is key to a happy healthy relationship !!!
Sunny is the most beautiful little baby ever! She's special. Love her ❤
You guys are getting it right. All of you... the Bunch included 😅 Feed each other...travel, explore, fall more in love...The happier and healthier you guys are, the more your babies thrive. It's the only way ❤️
It's absolutely important to have getaways and equally good for your kids to have parents who love each other and make "us" time a priority. Your marriage will be stronger as a result.
Don’t think it’s absolutely important ! Think it’s a choice thing
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Great Adventure !
Well yeah but this is a bit much ain’t it?
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Apologies in advance for this very long message but,I just have to say that I really love watching your entire family,both of your family's!! (Derrick and Tanners family) You guys are not only outstanding parents,but are so loving and active with the kids,and educating them also in a fun way,all at the same time!! Just all such essentially important things for children's mental growth!! I honestly really wish I saw more younger parents bringing their kids up this way, And your so very patient from what I see!! (Even tho I know we're all human and have our "moments" at times) Plus the fun comedic spin you put on handling and approaching situations is fantastic!!! ,👏🏻🙌🏻👍🏻👌🏻 I just love that your all so positive and happy (obviously everyone has their bad days,but your just a joy to watch!) That's why you have amazing well adjusted little ones!! And very happy,healthy,loving,and most importantly COMMUNICATION, RESPECT and COMPATIBLY in your relationships!! (Imo!😉👌🏻) I just love the way you go about things,and who you are! Which is really great to see these days with all the junk on the internet currently. So I hope you had an amazing, relaxing, decompressing mini vacation!!👍🏻👌🏻👋🏻🙌🏻 🚢🌊🕶️🩴🩳😎🌞👙🤿🎣 🩱🥽🐚🐬🦦🦭🦈🐳🐟🐠🐡🦐🦞🦀🦗🐙🦪🦂🐚👏🏻🙌🏻 It's been a crazy busy year for you guys and you very much deserve this break!! It's a healthy thing to do for yourselves and the relationship as a while. And I think that it's absolutely fine and normal and healthy to be away from the kids for a few days,their in a safe,loving environment. So with that said, I'm totally glad you decided to do this for yourselves and I hope you had the time of your lives!! And I'm sure when u got back it was super great to see the kids as you both missed them, as they missed you both!❤🥰 Which again,is so healthy for them to experience,just like mama Sarah said!! 👌🏻👍🏻😉 Shes an awesome mama,and your a awesome dado!! Keep up the amazing content! And wishing you both only great prosperous things in life!!! And a new happy fresh start with the new big move!! Congratulations!! 🎉🙌🏻 👋🏻❤❤️
Never, never let this comment section change how you are. You are the sweetest, fun loving young family on you tube. I absolutely love watching your adventures with and without the little cuties. Your family is so blessed. Love from Canada. ❤
Sunny looks so much like Jack. Same face just different coloured hair. They are so cute❤. I think every parent should take a vacation without the children. All parents need this time together alone. At least once or twice a year. ❤
I love that Sarah was behind the camera, i love seeing her in the power position - catching Derek in cute vulnerable moments but mostly because you’re awesome and i like hearing and seeing you at your most confident
Sunny's face when jack had a Tantrum 😂 such adorable children 🥰 be very proud parents ❤
I absolutely love cruising. And parents absolutely need time away from their kids to reflect, refresh and regroup.I’m glad you guys had a good time!
It’s always a good thing to get away from everything including the kids. It makes you appreciate your life and rest up ready for next week, or year.
A dozen times in a year including 2 cruises right after their new baby is born?
I appreciate every second of my life and truly I have taken 5 cruises. They were my rewards after my kids graduated college and took their seats at the head of the table to raise their own and work in careers that make all our lives better.
I am worried about Sunny and just trusting they know what they are doing but I have been a mom for 50 years and this is unusual. Don't you think?
@@RebornAgain2024 jealous much?? Maybe get off their videos and spend more time with ur family, i pray they arent as miserabble as u are.
@dianne8276 I think that it's normal for them. Older generations were raised differently and we didn't take the time to spend with our partners. Maybe that's why so many people got divorced. I'm so glad that they take the time to just enjoy each other.
This is the first cruise that the took after sunny was born.
@kayon I am 70. Every bit of any extra cash went to their college fund.
And trust me if you knew them you would grateful for the investment especially the youngest, my daughter who owns the patents on her inventions that are possible for what we are doing right here, right now.
I really would like to brag more on it but right now big tech is being literally physically threatened.
@Dianne this is a toxic mentality that you have. It's totally ok and healthy to go on trips without you kids. You can live your life and enjoy your children
Aloha, i am #9 of 10 kids and my memories of my childhood were my parents going bowling Friday nights, they had friends whom eould come over and play cards and yahtzee and they took trips to the cabin 2x a year and they would go on an annual get away..without us kids. They took us camping and on trips too… the point is they showed us to lead a happy marraige they needed go give themselves “me time or rather couple time”. We were not rich, but we lived joyful lives. Then, they moved 2 of us to Hawaii and we lived a much more simple life and they sorta didn’t do that as much and while they stayed married… i think they had a period of challenges. Thats when i was in high school and I missed our lifestyle we had in Colorado. But overall it still was great, we were just poor financially… but still rich in joy. So, i personally think that what you are doing is healthy and you have a great support system and lots of love to nurture your lives. Don’t listen to the negative as you guys give your keiki so much love and more attention than most! Keep loving, dancing, singing, doing adventures… its the best you can give to each other and your children. Aloha pumehana🌺
Yall 1000% deserve a break! You need time for yourselves and as couple. You're doing great and are a beautiful family❤️
So happy to see you're having a great time! A break from children for Mom and Dad is always a good thing. As long as you can afford it and have great baby sitters, I don't see why not! Love you guys.
I think it's a must for parents to spend alone time to let each other know how much they love and need each other
SOOO true! We definitely feel like better partners and better parents after ❤️❤️❤️
I couldn’t imagine not being there for my own grown kids and their families. I’m so close to my grandchildren and it’s an honour to help them all out like yours do ❤️❤️
How some grandparents prefer and choose not to be so close blows my mind! They are missing out on so much life long love ❤️
I’m delighted to give my grown Kids and their partners well-being time to re charge their batteries 🥰 And the Grands and I have a great time and so so much love 🥰 They are in their teens and pre teens now and the closeness and unconditional love we share is golden ❤️🤩
You rock and I hope your kids cherish your willingness and thoughtfulness. I wish my kids had that with their grands.
I always took my children with us whenever we went anywhere. The only thing my husband and I did alone was a 3 day rafting trip in Zion. I felt so guilty leaving them I couldn’t do it anymore. Especially when they were young. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it especially when they’re with grandma and grandpa. It was just very hard for me personally.
I always took my children everywhere we went. I couldn't leave them behind even though I knew they were safe with grand parents. I had the fun in having them, so I should have the right in raising them. 🧚
Well good for yall, want a reward? Sounds like alil jealousy to me!
I don’t know but my hubby and I waited longer to have kids and we would be lost on vacations without them! We want to experience everything with them and the memories we have from every trip are priceless
@@joyce51670 omg such a toxic and dated mentality. It's perfectly OK and healthy to take trips without your kids. No guilt needed
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This is the selfish mentality of today.
Thank you for taking us all along!!
There is nothing wrong with taking a break, from your kids. You are so lucky to have good parents. 💖💙
It is A MUST, in my opinion, y'all need to have a quality couple, and connection time, untethered by the day-to-day responsibilities that distract and interrupt y'alls quality time. It is so healthy for the long haul, bc Jack and Sunny need two well-functioning parents who are on the same page, engaged, happy, and examples of teamwork. It not only is great for them to see, but it also gives them independence on their own to grow and have a maturity in navigating that, they will one day have to be from you in some sense, and they will have cultivated the security they'll need. Also, it deepens their relationship with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and extension and the deeper shared relationship as siblings with their own shared memories. It's a win all around in my book. ❤hope y'all had a great time. 😊
At the end of the day when the kids are grown it will be you and your spouse so time together is a MUST good for you. And kids are happy when parents are happy. Love your channel!!!!!
Your marriage is the foundation of your family. Nurturing it is the most important thing! I'm proud of you guys for taking time. It makes a stronger family! I never left my kids and it wasn't healthy. For me it was the cost. The kids benefit too spending time with others. It's a win/win!
I haven’t been on a cruise, for a long time. Looked like so much fun ❤. Happy 30th birthday Tanner 🎉
Sunny is getting so big just a little ball of light
I don’t have kids but I think you guys totally deserve a break bc being a parent is a full time job and if you want to be the best parents you can be you have to have time to yourself and time into your own relationship with each other! Happy for you guys 😊
It’s absolutely needed to have a break especially not only for the kids but for you two. I’m so happy for you guys!
Derik: “FUNNEST” is NOT a word!!!!!!!!!
I would like to see how your parents are doing with the kids. There is a difference between grandparenting and parenting. I bet it got interesting
I’m so happy y’all got to get away & have some adult fun ... I agree with you that away does make you miss them & appreciate them a lot more
You two are so lucky to be able to go on several vacations. Hope you had a blast.🎉
Yep haha I'm jealous 😅
Right? They seem to travel every month. I'm hoping the grandparents are putting a little weight on Sunny because, imho, being so underweight is scary, and I hope the lack of filming calms Jack. Hitting other kids and tantruming multiple times a day is a lot to handle.
@@Prism_ismoh stop it.
@@nancyfarkas3592 No.
Your adventures like this one are a dream for many people, much love!
It's wonderful that you're blessed to be able to have some together time. Life doesn't stop when you have children. You are wonderful parents. It's valuable for your children to learn that they will be OK if you are not with them every minute.
Sarah looks completey recharged! Looks like the trip was a blast😊
Parents 100% need and deserve some alone time. I’m a firm believer that striking a balance between being a parent and reconnecting with yourself or your spouse/significant other is not only important but beneficial in maintaining a proper balance. Being a parent is dang hard and having a little break here and there is a must! Not only will you benefit, but your child/children will benefit as well from having a mom or dad rested and recharged.
You guys enjoy this trip guilt-free!! So well deserved. Thank you for sharing your beautiful trip with us! 🤗🩵🛳️☀️
Definitely a good idea for parents to have time for themselves. I think it makes your relationship better, which is better for the kids. Kids also need time away from parents. That way, they are not so clingy to them. It's important to get interaction with other people, even if it's family members.
100% agree every Mom/Dad/Care Giver needs " me time". My Mom has always said to me "If you don't take care of yourself how can you take care of your kids?" Also i think is very very good for your marriage or relationship to have that one on one time, Keep that spark going so to speak lol
You are all allowed to have you time! It really does help any of us, to be better parents ! Have fun.
You time makes your time special. Always invest your time with each other. I’ve been married for 52 years. One day your children will leave you. Talk about hard. But my husband and I made it through together. So start making a bucket list. For the future things to do after kids are gone. I love your family , God bless
It’s very very important that you nurture your relationship as husband and wife. It’s what provides a secure environment for your children and by your example
It helps your kids to learn how to develop healthy communication skills and relationships outside the home.
I definitely think all parents need that getaway... It is a relax and refresh and it also helps, at least for me, as a reset for my priorities. It's easy to get parent burnout. I think it's really good to get a little "me" time and "us" time when possible
If you are able to have a little break from the kids that is great. Having a supportive family to help take care of the kids is a blessing.
You 2 make a great couple and are clearly loving parents. I respect the fact that you make time for each other so that there’s always enough left “in your cup,” to give to your kids. I’ve been watching your little family grow since Jack was born. I’ve always been curious (and you have likely addressed this previously but I can’t remember reading it, so please know there is no offense behind this question but,) how do you support yourselves? Do you have job(s)? I’m thinking you must have regular income outside of producing “You Tube” videos that enable you to enjoy vacations and build a new home. Thanks for sharing you positivity and beautiful family.
Y’all are awesome sweet and amazing parents Happy 30th Birthday Tanner
Love you Derek! Hate when you get hurt!! Praying God will heal your knees and keep you from getting hurt! 🙏😭🙏 Love that you are taking time for your relationship! It is vital!! Blessings!!
Cruises provide a safe place to unwind, no worrying, decompress and rejuvenate. How is that not beautiful? The kids are safe…they’ll continue to grow and reuniting will be so much fun too. ❤congratulations & hoping your adventures are all good. And you can rest up .😊
Time away together is really important! You don’t have to go far or long, and you should commit to not talking about the kids the whole time you’re away in order to truly recharge and connect with yourself and each other. So glad you had such a good time! 💕
I am so glad you got to be adults! Happy Birthday Tanner!!
I always told parents its important to still date especially after having kids, you need that connection. 💜💜💜💜💜
Torn meniscus is No Joke. They really hurt, cause Inflammation, Increased Pain. I’m glad you didn’t turn out to be paralyzed. Please think before you jump. All parents need time away. You are Fortunate to be able to leave your children w parents who can help you. Enjoy
Absolutely a great idea.Time for you but also so important for your children to have that relationship with their grandparents. It also builds resilience in children to have that short separation. I mean, one day they will be going off to school and Mum and Dad won't be with them then. You are such awesome parents.
Hey guys I was just watching your shorts because they are so darn cute! I came aross the short when Derik didn't want to put Jack to bed and Sara found them both in the crib. Jack makes the cutest little noise kind of a squeaky sound. What makes it neat is in the video when Sara was out Derik was holding Sunny and she made the same little squeaky noise and Derik said it was the most pitiful sound he ever heard.😊 The two babies sounded identical!!
Jack has beautiful hair, Sunny 🌻 your just precious. Have so much fun .
My 3.5 y/o daughter spends a full week at my in-laws’ house (5 hours away) every 3-4 months and it is such a wonderful thing for everyone. While it’s nice for my husband and me to have a break, my daughter loves it, too. It’s like vacation for her. And my in-laws love it! It’s a win-win-win for everybody. I always miss her when she’s gone, which makes the reunions that much sweeter. ❤
As a mom of 2, we always took vacations with and without the kids, must work cause we've been married 46 years! Just keep doing what you're doing! Love you all! ❤
You guys have an amazing life , great friends, beautiful kids. Enjoy yourselves, it’s nice to have time to yourselves.
I wish my now, ex-husband and I would have went on little away trips together, without the kids. But we didn’t. By the time our kids were out of school, we were almost like strangers. Our entire life had revolved around our kids. Sure we raised some incredible kids, all three successful adults with kids of their own. But we divorced after 26 years. So don’t ever feel guilty for getting away. ❤
I feel that. My kiddo has special needs, so it's almost impossible to get alone time. ☹️
You go Beeston Champs!!! Love you guys! Thanks for bringing us along on your cruise.
Sometimes you need a break. Your children will be just fine. Just enjoy your time together to refresh. I'm glad you all enjoyed your getaway! 🥰❤️
I'm so happy for you both to have intimate time. Just too bad you weren't both totally alone together. Remember to Always have time alone with each other , no kids, no family, just each other. Bless you both.
Sunny holding the bottle: She must really go to town with a Sunny sized bottle! 😂
Taking a break for yourselves is not bad at all. My parents regularly took a week in winter and one in summer when we were younger and when we were teens, they went for two weeks at a time. It helped us accept that time away from them so there were never breakdowns when we went to summer camp or Girl Scouts. But time away from y'all? I can see why Jack & Sunny may cry. Life as your child is fun! God bless you! Love & Light to you
It is wonderful for you two to have time for each other!
There is a good reason why you have millions of subscriber's !
People love you for you and they love your content and hope you enjoyed your time together.
I bet Grandma spoiled them ..lol😂
Glad you guys had a great time on your cruise !!
So thrilled for you guys!!!! It’s important for you guys to do things like this!
You all deserve time for your relationship. And you'll be good parents for it.. because you will be de-stressed. 😊
That baby came put of the womb with natural highlights and perfectly layered hair!!
I think you guys are great parents... even parents need time to themselves 😊
I think it’s absolutely great to take time for yourselves and your relationship. If y’all’s relationship is strong and full of love it definitely helpings with parenting and the kids can definitely tell. I hope y’all had an amazing time!!!❤❤❤
When I was a child a girl in our neighborhood dived into the 4 ft. pool in her backyard, which was too shallow for diving safely, broke her neck and was paralyzed from the neck down for the rest of her life. She was a kid too dumb to know better, not an adult. Be more careful, that's a choice. Don't jump of high things into 2 ft of water.
You guys play so hard! LOL. You and your brother are always Banged up! Derek's shoulder and Tanners arm is scraped up! I hope you all have so much fun! 🥰🥰🥰
Hope you guys have a GREAT week!!! Happy Birthday to Tanner!!🎉
Remembering who you are and why you’re together is not a bad thing it’s very important. Enjoy yourselves and go back to a loving family who has missed you very much.❤❤❤❤❤
When our kids were little we took them everywhere with us. Good memories. They grow up too fast.
Cruises aren't for kids. It's appreciated grown -up time with your spouse!👍
@@karenhouser4123 Plenty of time for that later, when the kids are a little older than months 👍👍
Yes we took our kids all over the world! Cruising is the easiest thing to do with kids! Although looking back now I wish we’d done a few on our own but I just wouldn’t leave them - helicopter mum!
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I can't imagine leaving a baby and toddler to go on a cruise.
@@kathyryder828 agree, then bragging about it on RUclips.
Keep doing what your doing! It’s really important to have your time. Going on 30 years!
Awwww love to see you all together hope you all have a fantastic time ❤x
Happy birthday, Tanner! ( : The cruise looks amazing! So happy you are all having a blast! ( :
It was so amazing meeting you guys! I hope you had such an amazing time on the cruise!
It is absolutely vital to take care of yourselves individually first, then as a couple so that you can each be the best you for your family 💕
Sunny is so cute 🥰
I love both of your beautiful families! I wish you nothing but love and light. I enjoy watching your families grow and flourish!! 🤗❤️
Always remember to joyfully praise the Lord for all your many gifts!❤
Absolutely!
You guys would have to be the most Wholesome couples on RUclips, everything is So Real Life and Inspirational to many young couples with babies out there, You deserve to get away and have some couples time without the children, it really makes for better parenting and you appreciate what you have waiting for you at home, not every couple with children have that sadly, they don’t have parents that will look after their children for that length of time, I’m old Lol 😂 and think you guys are doing a Great Job parenting your children, Both families, don’t ever let anyone tell you differently, you boys had a Wonderful Family raising you into the Men you both are today, I can relate to that being a #boymum myself, I’m totally enjoying both your channels and love seeing your beautiful children grow, they all have different personalities yet all are caring of one another and that’s very rare these days. Keep up the great work guys and I look forward to seeing more from your channels. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺🦘🐨❤️❤️
It is great to be great parents and do wonderful quality time with your kids, BUT you have to take time to nurture your relationship with each other and your marriage. Time away is a must! ❤🎉
How much do I love you? Biggest hugs. Such wonderful memories to live in the now, cherish in the future.
My nephews were like Jack with the tantrums and screaming, wildness, etc. It was a lot to handle, even as an aunt.
But they get over it. It’s dad’s fault because he told him and has been telling him go for the gusto, but never told him it’s OK if you don’t get it in on the first try.
Jack is a horrible spoiled brat
I was just sitting here thinking. What if you acted like your son? Show him a tantrum and then maybe he’ll stop it’s worth a try . Then if he asks tell him this is what you look like
I so enjoyed taking your cruise with yall!! All four of you are awesome parents b/c you take time to be awesome couples. I love you all!!🙏❤️
couple time is very needed and good for the babies to learn to be with others.
I totally agree …. It’s crucial u have time out for yourselves. Your kids are safe with their grandparents which they love and get a great bond … NEVER feel bad about taking a break …. U r great parents
I love these Beeston Family's! ❤ I catch myself ALWAYS smiling at the end of their videos! I feel like they could be my grandkids! Along with my great grandbabies! ❤ Mine live in Louisiana & I live in New Mexico. 💔 Don't get to see them as much as we would LOVE too! ❤
Spending time away from your children and reconnecting with each other is paramount to maintaining your relationship. Of course, your children are important. Long before they ever showed up, your love for one another was paramount. And it has to stay that way. So continue your getaway adventures, with one another..
Hope your enjoying the cruise. Looks like it! It's definitely ok to have time away without kids. It's healthy & normal. All parents deserve it and need it to keep the marriage strong too ❤
Nice to rekindle you relationship once on awhile. Glad your having fun. Hug the kiddos big when you see them 😊