I only blame her for not doing her own research. Jumping into something too quickly and you will find yourself in a mess you need to get yourself out of.
Haib kawg me muam qhov koj kwv tape saum xwb pwg yog lub sij hawm in the 70- 80 but today 2020 so upgrades your stylish because you looked beautiful n I like to listen to your story alot
Tab sis koj yog tus neeg nguag thiab siab zoo ais tus thij 3 thiaj yog tus hlub tiag tiag thiab hum koj lub siab . Los rau tej kwv tij neej tsa os nrog koj zoo siab thiab ov
Cas tu siab ua luaj txawm tus txiv g hlub koj los txhob tu siab cas nej niam txawj yug es yuav yug tau ib co me nyuam txawj2 xav hlub koj ces yeej zoo tshaj es cas nim zoo ib qho tshuav ib qho os ntse lub ntuj yeej xaiv li no rau peb taug os.
These type of stories is depressing but its reality. Not everyone is the same and not everyone will deal with things the same. Sometimes its easier said than done, especially when we are the not one experiencing it. Stories like this are lessons that we all can learn from.
ua cas koj ho yuav muaj hmono ua luaj ntshe yog koj lub siab zoo los yog koj txoj hmoo os KOJ MAS THIAJ YOG LI TEJ LAUS HAIS TIAS UA ZOO THIAJ TAU NTUJ NTOO CES YOG KOJ TIAG nrog koj zoo siab kawg os mog me sister aw
I'm happy for you sister. You seem like a genuine kind hearted person. Even after what you've been through emotionally with your first two husband, you did not bad mouth them. I was sadden by how hurt you were. You deserve nothing but happiness.
It took me 18 years to finally said enough is enough. The grass is not always greener at the other side but there will he light at the end of the tunnel for everyone
Ua ib tug neeg nyob es yog txog 2 tug txiv nrauj huv si lawm ces vim yog koj dab tuag zog lawm nawb , peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces yeej noj mov cuav zos qab dua , yeej pom tus sab tod zoo dua.
Mloog tsaw zaj lo peb cov poj niam yeej poob peev dua xwb xav ma tu siab tshaj ca txiv neej mu tsheej hli tsi muaj plaub yus es luag tej hai ib lo xwb lo tseem raug tsim
When a man doesn't love you, kids don't make him love you or make him treat you better. A lot of marriage counselors stressed on that a lot bc it's up to the person.
Ua neej nyob ua cas yuav nrhiav tus txij nkawm kom yus thiab nws txawj sib hlub sib hwm es yuav nrhiav nyuaj ua luaj. Kuv ces tsis nkag siab li lawm vim thaum xub thawj yeej sib hlub tshaj plaws li...ib leeg yeej nrug tsis taus ib tug li, tabsis ntev mus ib tug cia li txawj ua phem thiab ntxeev siab rau ib tug. Does true love really exist??? How many times do we have to divorce to find the right one? Tus me niam tsev, ua tsaug rau koj share koj lub neej rau peb. Thov kom neb sib sib hlub xwb mog.
Nyab ntsuab teev aw2 thaj no mas khws cov nkauj hmoob vib nais xyoo 81-82-83 ntag lau2 pom koj thaj duab no mas nco txog lub caij nyoog ntawv kawg li os nyab aw2.
peb cov txiv neej moob including kuv hab, caag peb yuav phem ua luaj rua peb cov quas puj le os, yug tsi pum yug lub txim le os os cov kwv tij phooj ywg awd.....
Tus viv ncaus aw txawm tias koj dhau 2 lub neej los lawm los txhob tu siab mog 2 lub neej ntawv tsis zoo los xav tias tsis yog koj tus tseeb no nawb nrog koj zoo siab tias koj yog ib tug neeg muaj hmoo heev tseem tshuav tus hlub koj tiag tiag nyob tos ko🎈🎈🎈🏅🥇
Tug neeg zoo li kj ces txog hnub uas nws mus thawj poj nrauj los poj nrauj yuav muab nws laij tawm ces kj thiaj paub xb os niag neeg muaj plus aw ts ntev ces kj lub neej yuav tag nqi rau txhua tug neeg hauv ntiaj teb no mus lawm os mog luag yuav ts ntsia kj z li kj ua rau luag ib yam nkaus xwb os neeg siab nyoos aw
Koj niam hais zoo hais mos npaum ntawd rau koj ib tug txiv diam ntag. Sim neej no yog peb ua neej nyob yig pais lus mos lus muag npaum thaum tseem ua nkauj ua nraug nyob thiab hais lus mos muag npaum no mas btshe sim neej no yeejtsis muaj hnub sib nrauj sib tso li os
Kuv tsis to taub tias vim li cas cov mus ua dua neej tshiab es pheej mus yug me nyuam dua es nej pheej xav tias cov me nyuam ntawv yuav tuav tau nej txoj kev hlub ruaj khov no los yog li cas nej nco ntsoov tias yog me nyuam tuav tau kev hlub ces nej lub neej tag los yeej tsis puas li mas lawv es.
I tsi to taub cov txiv neej ua pheej cem peb cov ua ntxhais los yog cov ua niam mus xaus rau qhov chaw tsim noob neej xwb. cov txiv neej zoo li no tsi tsim nyog yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm kom rov mus yuav txiv neej los yog tsiaj lawm xwb. thiaj phim cem nawb. thiab tsi ntshai tub qaug nws niam ua ntsub2 nws tawm los thiab. cov txiv neej coj niag cuj pwm liam li no thov kom liam mus li xwb nawb.
Zoo hais los zoo mloog rau txhua tus poj nrauj los yawg nrauj ces nws kuj tsis phem li teb chaws saws daws hnov thiab pom, tab sis zoo hais los tsiv mloog rau nws ces txog txij nws tau los nyob qhov position "nrauj" no lawm ces nws yeej phem txaus nkaus ntag. Tus txiv los tus niam mas xav kom nws yeej txhua yam nkaus xwb thiab nws yeej tsis paub xam txim rau nws tus txij nkawm.
Ladies if you are divorced, do not rush to remarry again. You need to be able to be on your own, be self sufficient, gain inner peace and most importantly have respect for your self. Learn from your past. Educate yourself. A husband should only e a bonus to you and not someone to depend on. The right person is not found on the street, you have to search in the right place. Have patients. The right person will come unexpectedly. Patients is virtue!!!
Maum dev os maum dev koj Niam ua cuag ntiaj teb no tsis muaj txiv neej tsoob koj ces koj kawg tuag los xav sib tsoob npaum ko es kuj txhob yuav txiv es mus sib tsoob tas yus los yus tsev xwb los poj cas es koj Niam ua cuag cov txiv dev no xwb thiaj txawj tsoob koj haj haj zoo li koj ko tos tus txiv txhav qaib tsis xum yuav koj lawm los koj yeej khaus tiag tiag txhob tu siab os mog cov txiv dev uas xav tsoob pim thuan xavvtau chaw nyob mas luam tuag nyog neeg nawj es yog koj ntshai tsam tsis tau qau xwb ces koj txhob poob siab mog qhov poob siab ces coj li koj coj mas koj yuav laj quaj txog hnub koj tuag xwb mog maum dev liam
Nrog koj tu siab rau koj txoj hmoo phem yuav tau pes tsawg tus txiv lo raug tsim txom koj lub siab mob tab si zoo qhov koj ob tus txiv tso nkawm cov menyuam rau koj tu es kav tsij mus claim child support lo yug koj cov menyuam kom loj es lawv mam hlub koj rau thaum laus thiab lo lam hlwb tim nplog no nrog peb cov neeg siab zoo nawb
I'm with you there. I was starting to lose patience with her story. I still also don't understand her logic for not doing more in depth research about the men she's going to spend the rest of her life with. If this was me, I hire a private investigator to dig up everything because you are allow to be made a fool once but 2 or more times, you are the fool.
H L oh koj hais mas yog kawg! Tabsis nco ntsoov hais tias pom luag tsev kub nyiab mas zoo saib tshaj li tabsis txog yus thaum twg no ces nhriav dej los tua tiag mog!
Niam ntsuab teev pom koj daim duab no zoo nkauj cuag li nkauj hmoob vib nais tiag2 li os❤❤❤👍👍👍
One in how many women are like this. Too bad u r hurting too many times. It’s wonderful you found the right man at the end.
I only blame her for not doing her own research. Jumping into something too quickly and you will find yourself in a mess you need to get yourself out of.
@@maipha8560 Yes, you're right!
So many women go through this but service.
Cas koj Hais koj zaj dab neeg zoo2 thiab tus2 siab kawg tab si cas koj hais lus txhaws2 qa na .tsi yog koj tsis xis neej lo
Niam ntsuab teev koj daim duab no zoo nkauj kawg, zoo li nkauj hmoob nplog na hihihihi..😃😃
😭😭😭😭💔😭😭😭😭 tu siab tshaj o lawv ..
Niam ntsuab teev aws. Thaum pom koj thaij duab zoo li peb tiam hlua nkauj, hlua nraug ua rau peb nco, nco peb lub neej 30 xyoos dhau los thaum peb tseem hluas hos.
Txaus los kua muag vim hnov muaj ib yam hmoob lub neej tsis tau muaj dua. Zoo siab rau tus viv ncaus no koj ntsib txoj kev zoo. Tej sib hlub yeej sib hlub tiag 2 tsis yog koom niam txiv ib plab thiaj hlub nyob ntawm yus lub siab zoo xwb. Zoo siab rau tus viv ncaus no txoj kev uas nws ntsib tau txoj kev hlub nawd
Theres always a rainbow at the end of every storm. Awesome life story!
Koj thaj duab no mas koj zoo li cov menyuam ntxhais hluas nkauj tseem nyob tim vibnais.. zoo nkauj tau ntxim hlub li nyob hauv vibnais... pom koj daim duab tseem nco cov hluas nkauj vibnais..
Haib kawg me muam qhov koj kwv tape saum xwb pwg yog lub sij hawm in the 70- 80 but today 2020 so upgrades your stylish because you looked beautiful n I like to listen to your story alot
Tu siab heev og Niam laug a kuv 16xyoo xưb kuv tug txiv tưb ua ua hluag lawm ua lub neej tsaug tsaug ntuj li og 😰😭😭😭😭
May Vang koj zoo nkauj li hluas nkauj thaum nyob Vinai ntag
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Wow thov qhuas tus niam tsev no os sib2 hlub nawb nrog koj zoo2 siab os.
Tab sis koj yog tus neeg nguag thiab siab zoo ais tus thij 3 thiaj yog tus hlub tiag tiag thiab hum koj lub siab . Los rau tej kwv tij neej tsa os nrog koj zoo siab thiab ov
Omg I cried without knowing. I love this girl and I admire her!!! Great story!!
Yeej yog li koj hais yeej yog yus txoj hmoov zoo thiab thaum kawg los kuj tau tus zoo txij nkawm hlub yus mog! Nrog koj zoo siab os
Now that's a REAL MAN!!! Congratulations on finally finding the one that really love, cherish u for who u are! Happy for you!
Cas tu siab ua luaj txawm tus txiv g hlub koj los txhob tu siab cas nej niam txawj yug es yuav yug tau ib co me nyuam txawj2 xav hlub koj ces yeej zoo tshaj es cas nim zoo ib qho tshuav ib qho os ntse lub ntuj yeej xaiv li no rau peb taug os.
Niam ntsub teev hnub no koj teem tuas tau zoo nkauj kawg thiab tseem hluas li os.
These type of stories is depressing but its reality. Not everyone is the same and not everyone will deal with things the same. Sometimes its easier said than done, especially when we are the not one experiencing it. Stories like this are lessons that we all can learn from.
I can't believe you actually listened to your ex and didn't get child support. Those are his kids and he need to support in half. You're so kind.
Pab koj zoo siab os, cov yav tag los ces yog los yuav yuam kev xwb tiag2 lau
ua cas koj ho yuav muaj hmono ua luaj ntshe yog koj lub siab zoo los yog koj txoj hmoo os KOJ MAS THIAJ YOG LI TEJ LAUS HAIS TIAS UA ZOO THIAJ TAU NTUJ NTOO CES YOG KOJ TIAG nrog koj zoo siab kawg os mog me sister aw
I'm happy for you sister. You seem like a genuine kind hearted person. Even after what you've been through emotionally with your first two husband, you did not bad mouth them. I was sadden by how hurt you were. You deserve nothing but happiness.
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Nyob zoo os viv ncaus Vinais koj dress tau zoo nkauj kawg.
Nrog koj zoo siab koj tus txiv hlub hlub koj lawm mog vivncaus.
May!! koj daim duab zoo tau nco txog cov hluas nkauj nyob Vib Naib kawg
Zoo siab thaum kawg koj tau tus txiv siab zoo lawm hlub y nws mog
Why do people give up so easily on relationships nowadays. 😕 😪 The grass is not always greener on the otherside.
It took me 18 years to finally said enough is enough. The grass is not always greener at the other side but there will he light at the end of the tunnel for everyone
Right?!!
Because people are fickle. Only very few don’t have a change of heart.
You can’t make someone loves you. It hurts deep but the best thing is to let him go.
cuz when they find new dick n new pussy then nothing can stop them for leaving
Vuag..hnav li ko ma.khwg nkaug cov niam mos ab sab tim nplog li lau ..zoo nkauj heev tuan lawm laiv koj na
You’re such a blessed person. May god continue to bless you every way you do and go through. So happy for you.
Ua ib tug neeg nyob es yog txog 2 tug txiv nrauj huv si lawm ces vim yog koj dab tuag zog lawm nawb , peb cov txiv neej hmoob ces yeej noj mov cuav zos qab dua , yeej pom tus sab tod zoo dua.
Zoo mloog kawg! Nrog koj zoo siab os tus mes vivncaus!
So happy for her that she found some one who love her for her.
Nrog koj zoo siab os mag ob tsiag lawm ces zaum no tau tus uas hlub koj tiag lawm zoo kawg li os
Mloog tsaw zaj lo peb cov poj niam yeej poob peev dua xwb xav ma tu siab tshaj ca txiv neej mu tsheej hli tsi muaj plaub yus es luag tej hai ib lo xwb lo tseem raug tsim
When a man doesn't love you, kids don't make him love you or make him treat you better. A lot of marriage counselors stressed on that a lot bc it's up to the person.
Correct, a man only love the kids, when he loves their mother.
So when he doesn’t love her anymore, the kids are nothing to him
Hehe koj daim duab no haib kawg May ,kuv pom kij daim duab li no ua tsau kuv tseem nco txog phaum cov tij nyob tim thaib kawg
Txiv neej cev zoo thawm txos nyem xwb mas😢
Im glad you found happiness. Don’t regret your past life. You are being loved! ❤️
Hai tau zoo
Koj qhias taus peb hmoob muaj kev sib hlub yog leej twg txawj hkaw os.
Ua neej nyob ua cas yuav nrhiav tus txij nkawm kom yus thiab nws txawj sib hlub sib hwm es yuav nrhiav nyuaj ua luaj. Kuv ces tsis nkag siab li lawm vim thaum xub thawj yeej sib hlub tshaj plaws li...ib leeg yeej nrug tsis taus ib tug li, tabsis ntev mus ib tug cia li txawj ua phem thiab ntxeev siab rau ib tug. Does true love really exist??? How many times do we have to divorce to find the right one? Tus me niam tsev, ua tsaug rau koj share koj lub neej rau peb. Thov kom neb sib sib hlub xwb mog.
Nyab ntsuab teev aw2 thaj no mas khws cov nkauj hmoob vib nais xyoo 81-82-83 ntag lau2 pom koj thaj duab no mas nco txog lub caij nyoog ntawv kawg li os nyab aw2.
Us women are the most strongest fighter ever, men put us thru hell, but we rise up and make it thru!!!
peb cov txiv neej moob including kuv hab, caag peb yuav phem ua luaj rua peb cov quas puj le os, yug tsi pum yug lub txim le os os cov kwv tij phooj ywg awd.....
Aww, I am so happy to hear you found your happily ever after. Everything happens for a reason, sister. You are right where you should be.
Nrog koj zoo siab tshaj uas koj kuj muaj hmoo tau ib tug txiv uas hlub koj lawm os es tsuav hlub li no xwb ces yeej meem hlub nws rov qab nawb. Kuv yeej ntseeg 100% tias yuav tau txij nkawm zoo tsis yog txawj xaiv nawb, yog nyob ntawm txoj hmoo xwb tiag2 li os es nrog koj zoo siab os
Glad that you finally found your happiness!!!!
Beautiful picture
Koj tus txiv thib 3 no muaj peev xwm tshaj thiab nrog koj zoo siab.
Ruam li koj thiaj ib sij mag ib teg pov pov khawv ntag los maj . Txoj kev ntshaw ntsaw txiv tsis kam mloog luag tej ghia li maj
I'm so happy that you finally found happiness!!! May God continues to blessed you...
Good news. Nliaj teb no tseem tshua neeg zoo thiab Los. Muaj hmm rob tau luv neej zoo lawm os
You made the right decision sister. Let the evil go.
Tus me niam tsev aw txhob tus siab os tsis yog peb ib tsoom poj niam li khoob loj os twb yog lawv qhov niag khoom ntawm ntsws tas lawm xwb mas nawv
😂😂 yog kawg
Zoo siab lawm tau 2 neej tsa lawm kuv ntshav 2 li no
Wow! Love the ending. Sitting at work crying.
Ua neeg zoo yeej tau zoo good story !
Nyob zoo os
Nkauj Hmoob Thai os. Ev thev mus mloog tim roob kaum npauj.
Zoo siab koj nrhiav tau tus neeg hlub koj lawm os es ua neej sib hlub mus kom kawg keeb nawb
Great ending- made me sad, makes me miss my two older sisters, who are no longer with us. Best of luck to this couple!
Tus viv ncaus aw txawm tias koj dhau 2 lub neej los lawm los txhob tu siab mog 2 lub neej ntawv tsis zoo los xav tias tsis yog koj tus tseeb no nawb nrog koj zoo siab tias koj yog ib tug neeg muaj hmoo heev tseem tshuav tus hlub koj tiag tiag nyob tos ko🎈🎈🎈🏅🥇
Tug neeg zoo li kj ces txog hnub uas nws mus thawj poj nrauj los poj nrauj yuav muab nws laij tawm ces kj thiaj paub xb os niag neeg muaj plus aw ts ntev ces kj lub neej yuav tag nqi rau txhua tug neeg hauv ntiaj teb no mus lawm os mog luag yuav ts ntsia kj z li kj ua rau luag ib yam nkaus xwb os neeg siab nyoos aw
Happy ending at last nrog koj zoo siab uas koj ntsib ncaj tus yawg ntsuag hlub2 poj niam tuag instead of tus yawg ntsuag tsim2 poj niam tuag os mog
Koj niam hais zoo hais mos npaum ntawd rau koj ib tug txiv diam ntag. Sim neej no yog peb ua neej nyob yig pais lus mos lus muag npaum thaum tseem ua nkauj ua nraug nyob thiab hais lus mos muag npaum no mas btshe sim neej no yeejtsis muaj hnub sib nrauj sib tso li os
Kuv tsis to taub tias vim li cas cov mus ua dua neej tshiab es pheej mus yug me nyuam dua es nej pheej xav tias cov me nyuam ntawv yuav tuav tau nej txoj kev hlub ruaj khov no los yog li cas nej nco ntsoov tias yog me nyuam tuav tau kev hlub ces nej lub neej tag los yeej tsis puas li mas lawv es.
So happy she got a happy ending. Third was a charm.
I tsi to taub cov txiv neej ua pheej cem peb cov ua ntxhais los yog cov ua niam mus xaus rau qhov chaw tsim noob neej xwb. cov txiv neej zoo li no tsi tsim nyog yuav poj niam ntxiv lawm kom rov mus yuav txiv neej los yog tsiaj lawm xwb. thiaj phim cem nawb. thiab tsi ntshai tub qaug nws niam ua ntsub2 nws tawm los thiab. cov txiv neej coj niag cuj pwm liam li no thov kom liam mus li xwb nawb.
Txhob yuav txiv lawm thiaj tsis mob siab
Me niam tsev aws, your story is exactly like my life too. Tus zoo tseem mauj nawb. Pab koj zoo siab os mos.
Nrog koj zoo siab lub thib 3 ua siab ntev mog
Tus muam koj txoj kev xav yog lawm
Aib pog no khij xuaj heev nawb, nws siv lub sij hawm nws niag txiv mus tim nplog los deev hluas nraug pauj xwb, sib nrauj tag nrho es tab meeg mus yuav txiv ces kawg yog lawm
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I will never understand why some women are so desperate for men. Especially men that treat you like crap!
Zoo siab rau thaum kawg
Love stories with happy ending.
Ua cas zoo li cov txiv neej hmoob meka e tib co liam2, ho tsi paub hlub me nyuam li ne mloog tsawg zaj los zoo tib yam xb
Vidncaus, 2 niag txiv qub siab phem ntawv ntuag, tsis yog koj tus txiv rau tiam no. Nkawd thiaj tso koj tseg rau tus txiv siab zoo uas hlub2 koj no. Thov 🙏kom neb sib💑 hlub nyob 👫kajsiab lug.
Love both u familys
Good for you👍👍👍👍👏👏👏
Zoo hais los zoo mloog rau txhua tus poj nrauj los yawg nrauj ces nws kuj tsis phem li teb chaws saws daws hnov thiab pom, tab sis zoo hais los tsiv mloog rau nws ces txog txij nws tau los nyob qhov position "nrauj" no lawm ces nws yeej phem txaus nkaus ntag. Tus txiv los tus niam mas xav kom nws yeej txhua yam nkaus xwb thiab nws yeej tsis paub xam txim rau nws tus txij nkawm.
Kev sib nrauj ces nrauj tag nrho tawm plaws nraum zoov lawm ces leej twg yuav los yeej tsis txhaum thiab yeej raug cai, vim hmab plam yuav txuas hmab hlua plam yuav txuas hlua.
Ladies if you are divorced, do not rush to remarry again. You need to be able to be on your own, be self sufficient, gain inner peace and most importantly have respect for your self. Learn from your past. Educate yourself. A husband should only e a bonus to you and not someone to depend on.
The right person is not found on the street, you have to search in the right place.
Have patients. The right person will come unexpectedly.
Patients is virtue!!!
kj zoo nkj tiag2 o
Maum dev os maum dev koj Niam ua cuag ntiaj teb no tsis muaj txiv neej tsoob koj ces koj kawg tuag los xav sib tsoob npaum ko es kuj txhob yuav txiv es mus sib tsoob tas yus los yus tsev xwb los poj cas es koj Niam ua cuag cov txiv dev no xwb thiaj txawj tsoob koj haj haj zoo li koj ko tos tus txiv txhav qaib tsis xum yuav koj lawm los koj yeej khaus tiag tiag txhob tu siab os mog cov txiv dev uas xav tsoob pim thuan xavvtau chaw nyob mas luam tuag nyog neeg nawj es yog koj ntshai tsam tsis tau qau xwb ces koj txhob poob siab mog qhov poob siab ces coj li koj coj mas koj yuav laj quaj txog hnub koj tuag xwb mog maum dev liam
Nrog koj tu siab rau koj txoj hmoo phem yuav tau pes tsawg tus txiv lo raug tsim txom koj lub siab mob tab si zoo qhov koj ob tus txiv tso nkawm cov menyuam rau koj tu es kav tsij mus claim child support lo yug koj cov menyuam kom loj es lawv mam hlub koj rau thaum laus thiab lo lam hlwb tim nplog no nrog peb cov neeg siab zoo nawb
Txhob tu siab txiv neej yeej siab phem
Hi. Saib koj thaj duab no zoo li ib tug ntxhais hmoob toj siab kawm ntawv muaj 14 xyoos xwb
I'm so glad you found a real love. The last 2 didn't deserve you.
Happy tears for you sister.
So sad 🥺
Nrog koj zoo siab mog viv ncaus hlub2 koj 2 yog neej tsa li ko ces yog lawm
Good story!!!!
Love u familys
Tus niam tsev no is too weak! I can’t stand listening to this neej neeg.
I'm with you there. I was starting to lose patience with her story. I still also don't understand her logic for not doing more in depth research about the men she's going to spend the rest of her life with. If this was me, I hire a private investigator to dig up everything because you are allow to be made a fool once but 2 or more times, you are the fool.
@@maipha8560Hihihi You're always a secret agent yourself and I am so proud of your comments!
@@maipha8560 thank you
@@touavang477 time is money and if I am going to invest time with someone I'll do all the research I can before jumping on board. 😅
H L oh koj hais mas yog kawg! Tabsis nco ntsoov hais tias pom luag tsev kub nyiab mas zoo saib tshaj li tabsis txog yus thaum twg no ces nhriav dej los tua tiag mog!
You two wear meant to be together
Niam tshuab teev aw ca hnav ncaub ncaw zoo thaum 1975