Yog txawj xav thiab txawj tu siab txawj hlub npaum koj ces koj yeej tsis cia nws nyob da quav da zis li. Yog koj hlub nws tiag, thaum hnub kawg uas nws tias nws mob mob kom koj los coj nws mus hoob maum cas koj ho tsis lo kiag koj tseem mus coj koj tus txhais mus fawm tsheb. You know you can do thst anytime. Txhob khav tias koj hlub niam yau. Koj lub sisb ces lism hiam thiab qia dub npaum koj niam. Lam los khav tom qab xwb.
As much as I wanted to support the author, I couldn't because based on the story, he did not do everything in his ability love her. He continued to use her love and money until the day she left and even in death he continued to use her. Using his biological mother as an excuse is so poor. He could've easily taken care of her if he was a better son and daughter-in- law. What's the use in throwing a big funeral and saying that you'll love them in spirit and in the next life? Why is it so hard to love them now? To appreciate them and show how much they mean to you in this lifetime? They don't deserve her love and good grace
You and your wife didn't love your step mom like you say... she love and give so much to you and your silbling cause she want that love in return but you weren't man enough to love her back/fight for her. You let your mom stand in the way and stop you.
I totally agree. This isn’t love. You left your mom miserable and alone for years and just went to see her when it was convenient to you. That isn’t love. You’re not a good son.
@@lxmoua4245 I agree with you. You said you love her but you let her lived by herself and she died a lone if I were you I will not tell the world that i love her. This is not love
Ua cas yuav Nkim koj niam yau lub zog los tsa koj yim thiab hlub nej yog koj hlub tiag ces koj twb tuaj tu txhua hnub lawm vim koj twb yog ib tug txiv tsev lawm ne tsam no niam yau tuag lawm ces lam ua txij hais tias hlub yeej tsis muaj tseeb tiag
I don’t know how you can say you loved her. You didn’t, not you nor your wife. You only pretended to care for her after she gave you $60k. You were a grown man with teenagers and adult kids, so don’t use your mom as an excuse. You waited until she died alone to say you’ll love her in repayment for her love. How the heck are you going to love after she had already passed. She wasted her love for you and your family.
Thank you!! You speak the truth. Fact is fact, can’t pretend to make a lie into truth. This man is full of shit! He said 4 years, he left her to live alone and goes over to care for her.... how the hell you care for her when U work and only go for an hour a day?!?!?! And you use your mom as an excuse that u can’t bring her to live with you?!? You’re 16 years old??! Her own son asked to take her, and u refused cuss you’re afraid you won’t get her money. Now she’s dead and you regret that you are a screwed up person so now you try to tell this story to make yourself feel better that you love her?!?! You don’t love her! Why can’t u be a man and just admit that you screwed up, just admit that you’re a messed up person. Stop lying to yourself. Anyone with a brain can see you didn’t love her, you refused to let her go with her son because you were afraid to lose the money. What a selfish, manipulative, greedy, inconsiderate person. If you loved her, and your mother lives with u, then let her go with her son!!! Even if she takes her $60k to her son, it’s fine!! She freaking paid for your wife when your own mother won’t do it. Just admit the truth, u left her to die alone, refused to let her kid take her because you are afraid to lose the money to her kids. Omg, this story is so screwed up!!!!
@@00ninja00 yes!!! He loved her so much, he didn’t even know that she got injured taking care of his dad until way after his dad’s passing. He loved her so much, he left her alone knowing she couldn’t move. He loved her so much, even when she asked him to take her to the hospital, he decided to take his daughter driving instead of checking on her. And he loved her so much, he left her to die all alone. I’m sure that was her fear hence why she loved him like her own even when his own mother didn’t.
It saddens me that you couldn’t repay the love your stepmom gave you in this lifetime. Your stepmom was a wonderful mother to you and gave you more love and support than your birth mom ever did but yet you continue to listen to your birth mom. God bless her soul!
This story is soooo sad! I feel so bad for her. You can try and justify your actions but you know damn well you didn't love her like your own mother 😭 Every child wishes for a mother like her. 😭 shame on all of you!
You loved her the best that you could. But there’s also a difference between obligations and loving someone. Listening to this story, it only feels like you are obligated to take care of her only because you owe so much to her that no matter what you do or say will never compensate anything that Niam Yau have done or given to your family. Your birth mom’s curse won’t do any good unless you’ve done something bad to her. She can curse from here to hell and nothing bad will come of it. You’re other mom was kind hearted that she didn’t curse you. That will definitely take you to hell because she paid for your wife. That’s what a real mom should do. Just because your birth mom gave birth to you doesn’t make her a mom material.
How can these people leave this woman to live like that for 4 freakin years???!!? Come on!!! What a Poor lady. She shouldn’t have to ask you guys to help her. You have eyes. You’re grown. You should know better. You guys should’ve done better.
You left her alone, why didn't you move her in with you. It's so lonely. You didn't even let her go live with her biological don't either. She stays home for 20 hours a day. You visit for only a few hours. Why didn't you take better care of her. So sad.
Such a beautiful story!!! I have the best stepmom ever too!!! I love her and she loves me more than anything. I can't live without her, I don't want to imagine my life without her. She loves my children more than my mom do. She's our grandma...
Niam ntsuab teev koj hais tus me kwv no zaj dab neeg cas yuav tu siab kawg g quaj los kua muag,me kwv koj niam yug koj g hlub koj li koj niam yau kuv ntseeg tias muaj tseeb,koj niam muab plab yug koj xwb koj niam lub siab me2 lub siab g zoo thiab g loj li koj niam yau kuv nrog koj tu siab tias g muaj txoj hmoo tus hlub us g nrog u nyob lawm tu siab tshaj plaws li no kav chawj mog ua ib siab,ciab fab lwm tiam
Koj lam khav tias koj Yog ib tug tub zoo xwb. Raws li koj cov lus mas koj ntshaw niam yau lub zog thiab cov nyiaj xwb. Txog txij niam yau npo pa tuag ces koj yeej ua phem txaus lawm.. How do you sleep at night? Niam yau tuag ces nws yuav nqa nws li koob li hmoov nrog nws mus.. hnub twg ntuj tig ko diav los txog koj ces koj yuav paub.
You did not love her, you couldn't stand up to your mom. You should have let her son from her previous marriage take her to go live with them, so they can take care of her throughout the day. How awful and sad that she died alone. She deserved better. May she rest in peace and no longer be in pain.
You’re lucky to have a loving mom who loved you better than your birth mother! Other ppl will kill to be in your position bc not every stepmothers are kind!
The step mom has a right to be sad and upset. If the author of this story was her birth son, the moment she called saying she’s hurting and to take her to the hospital. He would have dropped everything and helped her. Not take his daughter to practice driving. I’m sorry but you don’t love her that much.
Beautiful story. I hope she will be queen in her next life. She gamble her love and it didn’t disappoint. This gentlemen did what he can and most importantly he knows and he realized and that’s is key.
Ntuj aw!! Cas pab koj txaj muag dhau li os...koj niam yau pob nyiaj los nta koj thiab lub zog los tu koj thiab koj poj niam me nyuam ces poob qhov ntuj tag lawm os. Kuv yog koj ces. Twb tsis muaj ntsej muag tuaj qhuas yus tus kheej rau saum no li os...koj niam tsuas yug koj xwb twb tsis hlub tsis nta koj lub neej koj niam foom khaum los tseem tsawg..tiam sis koj niam yau tu thiab nta poj niam rau koj tu neb cov niam txiv tub da quav da zis mam hnub twg npam mas haj yam yuav npam loj 2 puas npaug nawb..😭😭😭
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os ua neej tiam no nco ces nco tus hlub yus xwb os tus muab txoj sia rau yus hlub tsis tau yus ces tsis nco luaj twg tus uas hlub yus tu yus loj mas cas yuav nco nws ua hnub ua hmo no tsawg pluag qab los nom khuvxim rawv tias cas tsis muaj nws nrog yus noj koj zaj dab neeg no ua rau kuv quaj quaj nco kuv pog heev os
I don't think he's pretending. There's definitely love there. If she didn't trust him, she wouldn't give him anything. Though I do wish that he could have done more for her, it is hard to fulfill any stepparents desires simply because they will always think that the kid(s) would love them harder if it's their blood. I understand that every story is unique, but this topic is too familiar to me as I too came from a household of multiple wives. Just be truthful to your heart be kind to others. Always.
Thov qhuas Niam yau Lub Siab Zoo nawb,100 tus niam yau kuv nyuam qhuav hnov koj txiv tus Niam yau no thiaj Hlub Niam loj COV mi nyuam li koj txiv tus Niam yau no li nawb mog 👍
Why did you let her suffer all those years alone? She suffered because of your family, not by her choice. Yet you didn't allow her son to come save her? What a sad life she lived.
To this author: You are evil. Dont even try to say that you love her. You don't. In your head, you keep thinking she is not my mom. You dont deserve to be her son. If you truly love and care for her, you would have done everything in your power to care for her.
Coco pha kuj yog thiab, tab sis lawv aw tej tus tsi yog li koj hais thiab os. Lawv aw niam tshiab yeej tu siab hais tias yus tsis yog lawv yug es yus tsis hlub lawv no los yus kuj tu2 siab hais tias luag tsis yug yus es lawv tsis hlub yus no thiab os lawv aw 😭 😭 😭 tu siab tshaj plaws li os lawv aw. Thaum yus twb muaj neej tag lawm luag mam li hlub yus xwb os lawv aw tu siab kawg li thiab os.
Love when the person is still alive. Words are meaningless after the person dies. You didn’t return her love and kindness, but at least you did the bare minimum and carried her to her to her grave like she hoped for.
For those of us who don’t know what mother love is.. Oh Mother, in another lifetime I would love to be your son!! I would give all the love to you mother.. Please be my mother in another lifetime 😢😢😢
Some new mom or step mom are bad but few are good like her. & few kids of the other mom can speak the truth like you. Then, most people will hate the truth.
You should go see her after work or took off from work to see her, she’s waiting for you all day but you didn’t show up until 8:00 PM that’s why .... I hope you learn your lesson....
I know right! She had asked you to take her to the hospital n you did not show up to 8pm! Omg, That's not how you love someone! Uh ah that's not love! You have no balls n neglect your stepmom big time! You grow Marijua using her money n her life insurance money. Stop or you will get busted!! She won't do anything to hurt you but "God" will!
Even though she doesn't want to move in with you. You could have move in with her. The day she was going to passed away and asked for you, you could have come to her after work first before taking your daughter to practice driving. I'm glad you realize your step mother love is real.
Some niam yua are mean and theres is some first wife mean and cruel too. We cant judge just becuz they second wife. Love the one who loves you. Niam loj is so selfish.
Koj tsis hlub nws tiag koj twb yog neeg laus lawm koj tseem ntshai koj niam thiab nws tsis yog npo pa tuag hos yog nws tuag ntshai xwb hos 1b hmo in hnub 8pm koj mam mus saib ua zoo xav koj tsis hlub nws kiag li thiab vim li cas koj tseem tsis cia nws mus rau nws tus tub tu hais los nws tus tub yuav hlub nws tshaj koj. Pab tu siab kawg li 😭😭😭😭
I don't see why you should never love her but it seems like you always listen to your mom. I think if I were you I would love her as much I love my mom even if my mom try to stop me from helping her. It is your life and your choice not her. You are old enough to be a man. Apparently you are not a man that's why you can't do anything about it. She is very sad because she knew you weren't her real son so the chance of you going to help her is less. I am very disappoint at how you treat her even though you did helped her but it sounds like you are not really there for her when she needed you the most. Sad how corrupted hmong people are. I hope 2021 forward Hmong will continue to change.
My stepmother is my dads first wife, and she truely love me like this lady love her son. I still miss my first mom. Listenining to this story makes me cry alot. I miss u mom and dad.
This is why is better to have your own children. Qhov hlub lawv tej me nyuam ces tsuas hlub kom lawv txhob tu siab xwb os yeej paub lawv yeej tsis hlub yus npaum lawv hlub lawv niam
Lawv aws... txawm zoo li ca lo swb yu cov yu yug os mog ..tu niam yau no es hlub nej npaum ko lo nej twb hlub tsi tau nw li pab nw tu siab kawg tim koj ua tsi tau 1 tug tub zoo xwb qhov hnub no koj tuaj qhua nw txoj kev hlub ce twg yog koj tau nw cov nyiaj xwb lo ma
Of course everyone is gonna judge when ur not the biological kid or parent. Like old folks said, step kids or step parents, u do good people say you show off, u do bad people say ur evil. So no matter what you do for him or her, people will always say negative things about it because ur just a step son n she’ just a stepmom.
Tus me txiv tsev aw koj yeej ua zoo kawg lawm os,pab koj niam yau tu siab Dhau lawm os ua cas koj niam yau yug tsis muaj hmoo li Es nws yug tsis tau ib tug Los hlub nws
Cas yuav tuag tau txaus hlub ua luaj li os. Nej twb tsis hlub nej niam yau es nej niam yau tuag nej thiaj tsis pom thaum nws siav tu. Ntshe nej niam yau tuag tshaib plab xwb. Tshaib los tshaib npaum mob los mob npaum ces zog tag plawv nres lawm xwb. Txoj niag kev txom nyem thaum laus tsis muaj tus hlub cas yuav ua rau tej laus txom nyem ua luaj li os lub ntuj e.
A lot of these comments are very negative and unwarranted. You misunderstood the point of his story. The title says it all. He cannot repay the love from his step mom. He lives with guilt and regret and want to share the story of his step mom having a beautiful heart and her sincere love for him and his siblings. This story is about how pure hearted his step mom was and the legacy she leaves behind. His biological mom is wrong by making her children pick sides. Their relationship is not their children's problem. I too have a step mom and she was not always good to me but I respect her as my fathers wife and care for her as I can. Its then her choice to love me or not. Stop being so negative. You don't know the situation until you are in it yourself. To all those that think they can do better, do better and hope that this never happens to you. Whether you become a widow/widower or step parent or in the son's shoe. Learn from this man's story and love unconditionally.
You say you love her, but she died alone in pain! You gonna tell me your mom is in pain, and you rather go driving, and thats love? Stop kidding yourself....she was a burden to you. Hope your children don't do that to you!
Niam yau lub neej tsis kawg cas niam yau tsis mus nrhiav niam yau lub neej tug kav tug es ho los txeeb koj niam tug na vim koj niam yeej yog koj niam tiag
Sim neej no yus hlub ib tug neeg, yus yeej tsis npam khuv xim tus nus koj ua tsis yog lawm. Tus neeg phem foom npaum li cas los yeej tsis npam txawm yog niam yug. Hmoob lub neej ces khav foom xwb tab sis yus ua qhov yog yus yeej tsis npam. Txaus tu siab tiag 2 tus poj niam no siab zoo tshaj plaws. Khuv xim tias tus nus no pauj tsis tau nws txoj kev hlub. Kav liam cia nws mus nws, nws thiaj tsis txom nyem. Ua neeg nyob los nco ntsoo, tuag lawm los tseem nco qees. Koj niam yau no yeej hlub neb 2 Niam txiv tiag 2 . Txoj kev los kua muag ua yus ua tsis tau li lub siab xav ces zoo li no. Thaum tseem tshuav siav nyob hlub thiaj tsim nyog txhob cia twb zoo li thaum no.
Thaub mloog mas koj lub siab yeej phem thiab nawb Yom.....Yog koj tsis txhaum koj niam yug koj e ceg tawg tag txawm foom lo yeej tsis npam li OS ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag pob ntseg kawg....
It's a sad life for women in this hmong culture. If you cant let ur mom live with your brothers and take her in... let her son take her in. I hope karma hits... taking all the love and money and not caring for the person who did everything to have a place to die... yet she died alone.
Im glad someone had a good experience with loving step child and step parent too.
Yog txawj xav thiab txawj tu siab txawj hlub npaum koj ces koj yeej tsis cia nws nyob da quav da zis li. Yog koj hlub nws tiag, thaum hnub kawg uas nws tias nws mob mob kom koj los coj nws mus hoob maum cas koj ho tsis lo kiag koj tseem mus coj koj tus txhais mus fawm tsheb. You know you can do thst anytime. Txhob khav tias koj hlub niam yau. Koj lub sisb ces lism hiam thiab qia dub npaum koj niam. Lam los khav tom qab xwb.
As much as I wanted to support the author, I couldn't because based on the story, he did not do everything in his ability love her. He continued to use her love and money until the day she left and even in death he continued to use her. Using his biological mother as an excuse is so poor. He could've easily taken care of her if he was a better son and daughter-in- law. What's the use in throwing a big funeral and saying that you'll love them in spirit and in the next life? Why is it so hard to love them now? To appreciate them and show how much they mean to you in this lifetime? They don't deserve her love and good grace
Probably getting her pca money too.
You and your wife didn't love your step mom like you say... she love and give so much to you and your silbling cause she want that love in return but you weren't man enough to love her back/fight for her. You let your mom stand in the way and stop you.
I totally agree. This isn’t love. You left your mom miserable and alone for years and just went to see her when it was convenient to you. That isn’t love. You’re not a good son.
@@lxmoua4245 I agree with you. You said you love her but you let her lived by herself and she died a lone if I were you I will not tell the world that i love her. This is not love
Ua cas yuav Nkim koj niam yau lub zog los tsa koj yim thiab hlub nej yog koj hlub tiag ces koj twb tuaj tu txhua hnub lawm vim koj twb yog ib tug txiv tsev lawm ne tsam no niam yau tuag lawm ces lam ua txij hais tias hlub yeej tsis muaj tseeb tiag
I don’t know how you can say you loved her. You didn’t, not you nor your wife. You only pretended to care for her after she gave you $60k. You were a grown man with teenagers and adult kids, so don’t use your mom as an excuse. You waited until she died alone to say you’ll love her in repayment for her love. How the heck are you going to love after she had already passed. She wasted her love for you and your family.
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Agreed!
True!
Thank you!! You speak the truth. Fact is fact, can’t pretend to make a lie into truth. This man is full of shit! He said 4 years, he left her to live alone and goes over to care for her.... how the hell you care for her when U work and only go for an hour a day?!?!?! And you use your mom as an excuse that u can’t bring her to live with you?!? You’re 16 years old??! Her own son asked to take her, and u refused cuss you’re afraid you won’t get her money. Now she’s dead and you regret that you are a screwed up person so now you try to tell this story to make yourself feel better that you love her?!?!
You don’t love her! Why can’t u be a man and just admit that you screwed up, just admit that you’re a messed up person. Stop lying to yourself. Anyone with a brain can see you didn’t love her, you refused to let her go with her son because you were afraid to lose the money. What a selfish, manipulative, greedy, inconsiderate person.
If you loved her, and your mother lives with u, then let her go with her son!!! Even if she takes her $60k to her son, it’s fine!! She freaking paid for your wife when your own mother won’t do it.
Just admit the truth, u left her to die alone, refused to let her kid take her because you are afraid to lose the money to her kids. Omg, this story is so screwed up!!!!
@@00ninja00 yes!!! He loved her so much, he didn’t even know that she got injured taking care of his dad until way after his dad’s passing. He loved her so much, he left her alone knowing she couldn’t move. He loved her so much, even when she asked him to take her to the hospital, he decided to take his daughter driving instead of checking on her. And he loved her so much, he left her to die all alone. I’m sure that was her fear hence why she loved him like her own even when his own mother didn’t.
You're selfish...You didn't love your niam yau...you only loved her $$$!!! How disappointing 😥
It saddens me that you couldn’t repay the love your stepmom gave you in this lifetime. Your stepmom was a wonderful mother to you and gave you more love and support than your birth mom ever did but yet you continue to listen to your birth mom. God bless her soul!
This story is soooo sad! I feel so bad for her. You can try and justify your actions but you know damn well you didn't love her like your own mother 😭 Every child wishes for a mother like her. 😭 shame on all of you!
You loved her the best that you could. But there’s also a difference between obligations and loving someone.
Listening to this story, it only feels like you are obligated to take care of her only because you owe so much to her that no matter what you do or say will never compensate anything that Niam Yau have done or given to your family.
Your birth mom’s curse won’t do any good unless you’ve done something bad to her. She can curse from here to hell and nothing bad will come of it.
You’re other mom was kind hearted that she didn’t curse you. That will definitely take you to hell because she paid for your wife.
That’s what a real mom should do. Just because your birth mom gave birth to you doesn’t make her a mom material.
Yog, nawb.
Txawm yog yus niam yug yus, Los yog yus txiv yug yus_______Yog yus ua zoo xwb lub ntuj yeej tsis npaum yus, no nawb..
Txhob ntshai_____Tsis npam, Tsis khaum vim yus ua txoj kev zoo zoo xwb.
How can these people leave this woman to live like that for 4 freakin years???!!? Come on!!! What a Poor lady. She shouldn’t have to ask you guys to help her. You have eyes. You’re grown. You should know better. You guys should’ve done better.
Koj ces tsis tsim nyog nej niam yaus hlub li Nkim kj niam yaus txoj kev zoo
Tus txiv tsev nkim Aw... nkim niam yau lub zog hlub koj koj Yog ib tug txiv tsev lawm koj hlub koj niam koj hlub koj niam yau txawm koj niam yuav foom koj los yeej tsis npam li koj lam hais tias koj ntshai2 koj niam foom koj koj thiaj tsis hlub koj niam yau heev no qhov ko ces koj lam hais xwb txhob coj tuaj hais saum huab cua txaj muag dhau lawm
You left her alone, why didn't you move her in with you. It's so lonely. You didn't even let her go live with her biological don't either. She stays home for 20 hours a day. You visit for only a few hours. Why didn't you take better care of her. So sad.
It's sad that those who gives out their love unconditionally are almost always the ones who don't receive love in return.
Such a beautiful story!!! I have the best stepmom ever too!!! I love her and she loves me more than anything. I can't live without her, I don't want to imagine my life without her. She loves my children more than my mom do. She's our grandma...
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Niam ntsuab teev koj hais tus me kwv no zaj dab neeg cas yuav tu siab kawg g quaj los kua muag,me kwv koj niam yug koj g hlub koj li koj niam yau kuv ntseeg tias muaj tseeb,koj niam muab plab yug koj xwb koj niam lub siab me2 lub siab g zoo thiab g loj li koj niam yau kuv nrog koj tu siab tias g muaj txoj hmoo tus hlub us g nrog u nyob lawm tu siab tshaj plaws li no kav chawj mog ua ib siab,ciab fab lwm tiam
Zaj no tu siab heev li os mloog mas ua rau kuv mas kua muag poob
Koj lam khav tias koj Yog ib tug tub zoo xwb. Raws li koj cov lus mas koj ntshaw niam yau lub zog thiab cov nyiaj xwb. Txog txij niam yau npo pa tuag ces koj yeej ua phem txaus lawm.. How do you sleep at night? Niam yau tuag ces nws yuav nqa nws li koob li hmoov nrog nws mus.. hnub twg ntuj tig ko diav los txog koj ces koj yuav paub.
You did not love her, you couldn't stand up to your mom. You should have let her son from her previous marriage take her to go live with them, so they can take care of her throughout the day. How awful and sad that she died alone. She deserved better. May she rest in peace and no longer be in pain.
niam yau yeej muaj tus zoo hlub yus tiag os mloog zaj neej neeg no nco kuv niam yau kawg li os 😭😭😭😭😭
To the author - you have been there from the beginning. You are a good person.
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You’re lucky to have a loving mom who loved you better than your birth mother! Other ppl will kill to be in your position bc not every stepmothers are kind!
Tus neeg zoo nws yeej ib txwm zoo os lawv
It angers me that she died alone.. no one deserves to die alone! And she was in pain when she died.. ugh, my heart hurts so much for her 😭😭😭
The step mom has a right to be sad and upset. If the author of this story was her birth son, the moment she called saying she’s hurting and to take her to the hospital. He would have dropped everything and helped her. Not take his daughter to practice driving. I’m sorry but you don’t love her that much.
Beautiful story. I hope she will be queen in her next life. She gamble her love and it didn’t disappoint. This gentlemen did what he can and most importantly he knows and he realized and that’s is key.
Your mom is a beautiful person. Thank you for sharing
Ntuj aw!! Cas pab koj txaj muag dhau li os...koj niam yau pob nyiaj los nta koj thiab lub zog los tu koj thiab koj poj niam me nyuam ces poob qhov ntuj tag lawm os. Kuv yog koj ces. Twb tsis muaj ntsej muag tuaj qhuas yus tus kheej rau saum no li os...koj niam tsuas yug koj xwb twb tsis hlub tsis nta koj lub neej koj niam foom khaum los tseem tsawg..tiam sis koj niam yau tu thiab nta poj niam rau koj tu neb cov niam txiv tub da quav da zis mam hnub twg npam mas haj yam yuav npam loj 2 puas npaug nawb..😭😭😭
This story never gets old. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Beauitful story.... At last i 😢 listening to this story.
พี่เล่นกับเด็กนอกประสบการณ์ชช
😭😭😭😭😭
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os ua neej tiam no nco ces nco tus hlub yus xwb os tus muab txoj sia rau yus hlub tsis tau yus ces tsis nco luaj twg tus uas hlub yus tu yus loj mas cas yuav nco nws ua hnub ua hmo no tsawg pluag qab los nom khuvxim rawv tias cas tsis muaj nws nrog yus noj koj zaj dab neeg no ua rau kuv quaj quaj nco kuv pog heev os
To the author.. you have done the most you can as a son. May your step mom watch over you and only bring you success ❤
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Nco thaum lawv nqa u li quav pob tseg thiaj tsi npam u nb
I don't think he's pretending. There's definitely love there. If she didn't trust him, she wouldn't give him anything. Though I do wish that he could have done more for her, it is hard to fulfill any stepparents desires simply because they will always think that the kid(s) would love them harder if it's their blood. I understand that every story is unique, but this topic is too familiar to me as I too came from a household of multiple wives. Just be truthful to your heart be kind to others. Always.
Thov qhuas Niam yau Lub Siab Zoo nawb,100 tus niam yau kuv nyuam qhuav hnov koj txiv tus Niam yau no thiaj Hlub Niam loj COV mi nyuam li koj txiv tus Niam yau no li nawb mog 👍
Heartwarming story. Thank you for sharing.
Why did you let her suffer all those years alone? She suffered because of your family, not by her choice. Yet you didn't allow her son to come save her? What a sad life she lived.
Koj hlub koj niam yau tsis tsim nyog qhov nws hlub koj li.
Tu siab ua lj li os hmoob
To this author: You are evil. Dont even try to say that you love her. You don't. In your head, you keep thinking she is not my mom. You dont deserve to be her son. If you truly love and care for her, you would have done everything in your power to care for her.
Agreed
Yes, I agree👍
Amen!!!
Yes he was weak and ignorant. She may not be your birth mother but she was more than a mother to you.
Your thoughts don’t count
Niam tshiab yog 1 leej Niam zoo kawg godbless
Coco pha kuj yog thiab, tab sis lawv aw tej tus tsi yog li koj hais thiab os.
Lawv aw niam tshiab yeej tu siab hais tias yus tsis yog lawv yug es yus tsis hlub lawv no los yus kuj tu2 siab hais tias luag tsis yug yus es lawv tsis hlub yus no thiab os lawv aw 😭 😭 😭 tu siab tshaj plaws li os lawv aw. Thaum yus twb muaj neej tag lawm luag mam li hlub yus xwb os lawv aw tu siab kawg li thiab os.
Zoo siab koj tau ib leej niam zoo kawg tiamsis koj twb hlub nws tsis tau li nws lub siab ntshaw thiab os
Love when the person is still alive. Words are meaningless after the person dies. You didn’t return her love and kindness, but at least you did the bare minimum and carried her to her to her grave like she hoped for.
Koj mas tsis tsim nyog kiag txiv ntxawm mas las qas pis nrog koj niam tau tu siab heev au mas las qas pis aw
ฟังไปด้วยร้องไห้ไปด้วย.คุณทำถูกแล้ว.อาจเป็นเพราะช่างปลายชีวิตจะให้คุณได้ดูแลเขาช่วงวัยหนุ่มคุณเลยมีอุบัติเหตุเกิดขึ้นเพื่อพิสูจน์ความกตัญญู.ของคุณว่าจะมีต่อแม่เลี้ยง😭😭😭
Your a good man
Koj hais yog lawm os niam yua g siab phem tas tu nawb kuv twb yog ib tug nyab ua niam loj g nyiam thiab niam yau yeej hlub yu dua lawm
A really genuine and sad story. Thanks to the narrator- you are so good! Thanks to the author for sharing! You made my tears come out.
For those of us who don’t know what mother love is.. Oh Mother, in another lifetime I would love to be your son!! I would give all the love to you mother.. Please be my mother in another lifetime 😢😢😢
Some new mom or step mom are bad but few are good like her. & few kids of the other mom can speak the truth like you. Then, most people will hate the truth.
So sad story 😭thanks for sharing your story bro
Tu siab tshaj yus yug tsis tau ib tus li lwm hnub yuav zoo li cas 😭
Lub neej ua niam yau tu sab kaws le
Your step mom had a beautiful heart. Love is seen by your actions
Don’t be fooled by May’s tears and crying voice. A beautiful heart person will never take someone else’s spouse.
Koj yeej saib Dej ua Ntu saib neeg ua phlu. Koj yeej tsis npam kiag yog koj muab txoj kev hlub pab rau tus hlub koj.
You should go see her after work or took off from work to see her, she’s waiting for you all day but you didn’t show up until 8:00 PM that’s why .... I hope you learn your lesson....
I know right! She had asked you to take her to the hospital n you did not show up to 8pm! Omg, That's not how you love someone! Uh ah that's not love! You have no balls n neglect your stepmom big time! You grow Marijua using her money n her life insurance money. Stop or you will get busted!! She won't do anything to hurt you but "God" will!
Even though she doesn't want to move in with you. You could have move in with her. The day she was going to passed away and asked for you, you could have come to her after work first before taking your daughter to practice driving. I'm glad you realize your step mother love is real.
Nyab Ntsuab Teev, koj tham tau tus tij laug zaj neej neeg no zoo mloog thiab nrog nws tu siab kawg.
Zoo kawg nawb.
Some niam yua are mean and theres is some first wife mean and cruel too. We cant judge just becuz they second wife. Love the one who loves you. Niam loj is so selfish.
Nej niam yaus g yog nej ntas nw lub ntees o kj niam yaus rov ntas nw lub ntees xwb nawb
Koj tsis hlub nws tiag koj twb yog neeg laus lawm koj tseem ntshai koj niam thiab nws tsis yog npo pa tuag hos yog nws tuag ntshai xwb hos 1b hmo in hnub 8pm koj mam mus saib ua zoo xav koj tsis hlub nws kiag li thiab vim li cas koj tseem tsis cia nws mus rau nws tus tub tu hais los nws tus tub yuav hlub nws tshaj koj. Pab tu siab kawg li 😭😭😭😭
I cried 😢😪 have niam Yau that I stay with her a lot too.
I don't see why you should never love her but it seems like you always listen to your mom. I think if I were you I would love her as much I love my mom even if my mom try to stop me from helping her. It is your life and your choice not her. You are old enough to be a man. Apparently you are not a man that's why you can't do anything about it. She is very sad because she knew you weren't her real son so the chance of you going to help her is less. I am very disappoint at how you treat her even though you did helped her but it sounds like you are not really there for her when she needed you the most. Sad how corrupted hmong people are. I hope 2021 forward Hmong will continue to change.
Tseem yuav zoo npaum cas los muaj lub siab los yuav luag tis txiv ces yeej yog neeg siab phem. Uas kom niag txiv hlub xwb.
My stepmother is my dads first wife, and she truely love me like this lady love her son. I still miss my first mom. Listenining to this story makes me cry alot. I miss u mom and dad.
This is why is better to have your own children. Qhov hlub lawv tej me nyuam ces tsuas hlub kom lawv txhob tu siab xwb os yeej paub lawv yeej tsis hlub yus npaum lawv hlub lawv niam
There are nursing homes all over
Yog lawm os
Lawv aws... txawm zoo li ca lo swb yu cov yu yug os mog ..tu niam yau no es hlub nej npaum ko lo nej twb hlub tsi tau nw li pab nw tu siab kawg tim koj ua tsi tau 1 tug tub zoo xwb qhov hnub no koj tuaj qhua nw txoj kev hlub ce twg yog koj tau nw cov nyiaj xwb lo ma
You a good man. You will be blessed
Peb pog yau yog ib tug zoo2 li tus no thiab os...
Of course everyone is gonna judge when ur not the biological kid or parent. Like old folks said, step kids or step parents, u do good people say you show off, u do bad people say ur evil. So no matter what you do for him or her, people will always say negative things about it because ur just a step son n she’ just a stepmom.
Tus me txiv tsev aw koj yeej ua zoo kawg lawm os,pab koj niam yau tu siab Dhau lawm os ua cas koj niam yau yug tsis muaj hmoo li Es nws yug tsis tau ib tug Los hlub nws
Txhob tuaj khav theeb tias koj hlub koj niam yau koj lam tuaj hais kom teb chaws qhuas tias koj yog tus neeg zoo es kom txhob npam koj qhov uas koj niam yau tau hlub koj. Yog koj hlub nws tiag koj yeej tsis ntshai koj niam yug koj txoj kev foom koj li koj yuav hlub kom tau koj niam yau li nws lub siab ntshaw.
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Cas yuav tuag tau txaus hlub ua luaj li os. Nej twb tsis hlub nej niam yau es nej niam yau tuag nej thiaj tsis pom thaum nws siav tu. Ntshe nej niam yau tuag tshaib plab xwb. Tshaib los tshaib npaum mob los mob npaum ces zog tag plawv nres lawm xwb. Txoj niag kev txom nyem thaum laus tsis muaj tus hlub cas yuav ua rau tej laus txom nyem ua luaj li os lub ntuj e.
Wow I love this story, ❤ im sure your stepmom knows you love her.
A lot of these comments are very negative and unwarranted. You misunderstood the point of his story. The title says it all. He cannot repay the love from his step mom. He lives with guilt and regret and want to share the story of his step mom having a beautiful heart and her sincere love for him and his siblings. This story is about how pure hearted his step mom was and the legacy she leaves behind. His biological mom is wrong by making her children pick sides. Their relationship is not their children's problem. I too have a step mom and she was not always good to me but I respect her as my fathers wife and care for her as I can. Its then her choice to love me or not. Stop being so negative. You don't know the situation until you are in it yourself. To all those that think they can do better, do better and hope that this never happens to you. Whether you become a widow/widower or step parent or in the son's shoe. Learn from this man's story and love unconditionally.
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You say you love her, but she died alone in pain! You gonna tell me your mom is in pain, and you rather go driving, and thats love? Stop kidding yourself....she was a burden to you. Hope your children don't do that to you!
Niam yau lub neej tsis kawg cas niam yau tsis mus nrhiav niam yau lub neej tug kav tug es ho los txeeb koj niam tug na vim koj niam yeej yog koj niam tiag
Thaum yus muaj mob thiab txom nyem mas thiaj paub tias tus twg hlub yus tiag, Leej twg hlub yus ces yus yuav tsum nco nws txiaj ntsim os mog
Koj ua yog lawm os hlub koj niam yau nawb. Tsimnyog hlub nws mog.
Sim neej no yus hlub ib tug neeg, yus yeej tsis npam khuv xim tus nus koj ua tsis yog lawm. Tus neeg phem foom npaum li cas los yeej tsis npam txawm yog niam yug. Hmoob lub neej ces khav foom xwb tab sis yus ua qhov yog yus yeej tsis npam. Txaus tu siab tiag 2 tus poj niam no siab zoo tshaj plaws. Khuv xim tias tus nus no pauj tsis tau nws txoj kev hlub. Kav liam cia nws mus nws, nws thiaj tsis txom nyem. Ua neeg nyob los nco ntsoo, tuag lawm los tseem nco qees. Koj niam yau no yeej hlub neb 2 Niam txiv tiag 2 . Txoj kev los kua muag ua yus ua tsis tau li lub siab xav ces zoo li no. Thaum tseem tshuav siav nyob hlub thiaj tsim nyog txhob cia twb zoo li thaum no.
Is very sad story is good good for niam you
Niam ces ib puas tus ces muaj ib tug xwb os
yog koj Txawj xav npaum ko ces koj yeej tsi ce nws txom nyem npaum ko
Now I like this story I want to have her heart
😭😭😭😭😭😭
ถ้ารักแม่คนที่2จริงควรทำดีกว่านี้แล้วควรเฝ้าดูแลดีกว่านี้ สอนลูกสาวขับรถสำคัญกว่าแม่ที่ป่วยอยู่หรอ มาถึงตอนนี้ไม่ต้องมาสาถยายความรักมันสายมาก และการเอามาพูดมันไม่ได้ทำให้คุณดูดีขึ้น ถ้าสำนึกจากใจจริงไม่ทำแบบนี้หรอก
Wow how sad. Life without ending is so hard!
Niam ntsuab teev yaj kuv niam noog koj cov neej neeg heev os kuv quaj quaj qhov muag o tag li os hihi
Thaub mloog mas koj lub siab yeej phem thiab nawb Yom.....Yog koj tsis txhaum koj niam yug koj e ceg tawg tag txawm foom lo yeej tsis npam li OS ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag pob ntseg kawg....
I don't think he really loved his stepmother. He pretended to care after her death. That's satisfied.
yuav npam kj qhov kj g hlub niam yau laub
Tu tub, koj zaj dabneeg no ces txhais tias koj nco txog es khuv xim xwb. Tabsis tsis yog koj niam, koj hlub tsis tag siab tag ntsws. Koj nco nws thaum koj niam tsis hlub koj.
Brother tus neeg siab zoo yeej zoo os mog Tsi hais twg li, pab koj zoo siab hais tias muaj tus hlub koj thiab zoo siab tias muaj koj hlub nws no os mog tu siab rau txoj kev sib ncaim lawm xwb😭😭
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It's a sad life for women in this hmong culture. If you cant let ur mom live with your brothers and take her in... let her son take her in. I hope karma hits... taking all the love and money and not caring for the person who did everything to have a place to die... yet she died alone.
Muaj ib cov niam tsev tsi txawj uas niam tsev es cov txiv neej thiaj li yuav niam yaus mas cov niam loj siab phem duas cov niam yaus ho me tub
kj txhob khav2 qhov kj zoo os niag tsov tom tub phem kj yuav tuag sai2 no kiag nawb
Cas e ua neeg es lwm yam pheej tsis ntshai es pheej ntshai kev npam na, yog yus ua qhov yog thiab qhov zoo lawm yeej tsis npam os, yog pheej ntshai npam mas txhais tias yus yeej ua tsis ncaj es thiaj pheej ntshai npam xwb, txawm koj niam yug koj los yog koj ua qhov yog xwb nws yeej foom tsis npam os, tej zaum koj tsis tshuav xav hlub koj niam yau xwb os.
Yog li phooj ywg tsis tag mus khwv txawm khwv los yeej yuav tsis tau noj npam ib hnub xwb.