@cricket5692 That's what I'm saying!! OP said majority are Narcissists so they care alot about appearances, thus a court case and sentencing won't look good for either side, so took their "vengence" in a different form (Malicious passive agressive compliance on part of Grandma, and disinheriting by OPs dad of Stepmomster and kids) but all that money spent after yrs, plus OPs trauma experienced could've been saved with one phone call that night. Disgusting.
I'm 100% in agreeance with you, but would point out that this behavior is not at all uncommon. In many cultures, piercing a child's ears is considered "normal"... those are some backwards cultures, you don't modify someone else's body for aesthetic reasons. They can rationalize it all they want with excuses, but bodily autonomy takes precedence every time, even with children. Cutting her hair, while less severe, follows the same principle. Not your hair, not your business. I know some brides want a specific look for their wedding, and styling is a fair accommodation. But to bleach, straighten and cut it is way too far, especially for young girls who hang a lot of their self-worth on their hair. Trying to force a toddler on a diet for non-medical reasons is frankly abuse if she's not a qualified Nutritionist (and she wasn't, she was a drop-out former babysitter), and even if she was it's still highly questionable. A wedding would never be sufficient reason for that. Compression fitting a child to a dress with duct tape - that's straight up abuse. Demanding she get her baby teeth straightened. Beyond being pointless & unnecessary, that's expensive. Funny how the unemployed person is comfortable throwing around thousands of dollars of other people's money. Getting a child drunk on champagne until she's hung-over the next day is again abuse. Her "Wedding Dress" should have been an orange jumpsuit. Great Grandma was handing out quarter million dollar checks like party favors at her funeral, so it really says something to marry into a family like that, raise children in the family and still end up destitute. I suspect if she was a half-way decent person, she'd have managed just fine. If there is a Hell, I'm sure they'll have a McDonalds for the Step-mom to work at there too... And yes, I will be wanting fries with my order.
a similar thing happened to me as a child. My grandmother put a relaxer in my hair to straighten it while I was visiting for the summer. She left the chemicals in my hair for HOURS and my scalp was burning (you're only supposed to leave them in for 15-20 minutes!!). ] Long story short, 80% of my hair fell out and my scalp was damaged and still is. She was a bitter old lady and didn't like my mother and was against their marriage. When I went back home at the end of the summer, my mother saw me the second my foot exited the car and broke down crying. I had no clue what was going on. My grandma put on her "confused poor old lady" act and to this day, my scalp is still damaged and my hair doesn't grow much
So dad and stepmom were both scum. Dad had some sort of "revelation." Divorced due to "tax reasons." And ensured the devil wife got nothing and his kids got what they needed. Damn. Man truly chose wife in life and kids in death as the daughter said.
OP was more than happy to try and convince sister give HER mom the money their father left, but doesn't want to dip into the money SHE was given by their father 😂😂😂
To be fair, before any updates, she was planning on going along with her younger sister and helping her mother financially. But then she went to therapy and realized what garbage her mother truly was. I just hope the younger sister realizes that she shouldn't wasts a dime on that devil soon.
Being a victim of abuse, doesn't give you the right. To abuse. The sister needs to shut her mouth. Or she's welcome to support her lazy abusive mother.
it's kinda fucked up that the dad left his child bride that he groomed since age 14 completely destitute but also she was a very shitty person so she doesn't deserve any pity from the children, she fucked around and found out
Dad was a predator yes. Mom was also an abuser who is responsible for her own actions as an adult. She abused his daughter. She also abused him financially (not allowing him to support his daughter). Mom needs to face her consequences.
How was he not arrested when he went after a minor who was his employee? How the hell did the abuse go unreported? I remember this woman who made some nice posts about her JN MIL. She called us Drama Llamas
@@LLhotJ-ng9vya 2 year age gap isn’t a big deal in your 20s. As a teen it definitely is. Have you met a 14 y/o? They are not mature enough to be in a relationship with a 16 year old, and any 16year old who is interested in a 14 year old is taking advantage of their inability to understand that they are still kids. He groomed her from before she had any mental ability to consent. He was a predator.
Funny how OP says but it’s my mother and harassing the victim of her horrible abuse for money but when it comes down to her having to share with her own mom suddenly it’s ok not to share and she even advised her other sister not to as well, OP is the AS but for entirely different reason then she thinks
She couldn't live in "the style she'd become accustomed to"? Well...she'll have to become accustomed to a new life style. Is called "LBPL" 💋 LIVING BELOW THE POVERTY LINE. Enjoy! ❤
The sister/OP's Father was not a good person but was not predator....The sister/last OP's Father was 16 when she was born, when she was 4 her divorced her Mother, so he would have 20, the stepmonster was 18....there is only a 2 year age difference, but it sounds bad the way it was written. Glad the sister/last OP had her Grandmother and Great Grandmother who always cared for her. But this story stands as a perfect example of high school age kids having kids themselves and what messed up thing they can do to these children.
I think people are missing the fact that the dad was dating a CHILD. They got married after she turned 18 which means he was dating a 16 year old child. The mother was a victim of the father
OP screwed up. Between both stories the younger sister disappeared and a brother suddenly appeared. She really should have written an outline before she created this tele novella. Also, when an OP cares more about her readers "gathering their drama llamas" and seems itching to spill the tea, my belief in the supposed story plummets.
Cool, so is should cut all contact with op. Who cares if their dad also sucked. Didn't give the step mom an excuse to abuse is just cuz is wasn't her bio daughter. Oh no, mommy has to work for a living jow. Boo hoo
OP needs a reality check if she thinks her mom should deserve anything after all that was done to OS
From the posts, it's clear that OP is just like his father, a narcissist
im disturbed
tbh, i think her mom had it way easier
OP 1 is a man
her mother is a lazy homewrecking tramp.
it's about time she got a job - why would the second daughter enable her???
She TORTURCHERED & DOSED 5 YEAR OLD.... and he STILL married her... And NO one pressed charges???
How did this not end in police charges....absolutely disgusting on everyone's part
@cricket5692 That's what I'm saying!! OP said majority are Narcissists so they care alot about appearances, thus a court case and sentencing won't look good for either side, so took their "vengence" in a different form (Malicious passive agressive compliance on part of Grandma, and disinheriting by OPs dad of Stepmomster and kids) but all that money spent after yrs, plus OPs trauma experienced could've been saved with one phone call that night.
Disgusting.
He probably was scared to go to jail for being a pedo. She would most definitely had reported him
I'm 100% in agreeance with you, but would point out that this behavior is not at all uncommon.
In many cultures, piercing a child's ears is considered "normal"... those are some backwards cultures, you don't modify someone else's body for aesthetic reasons. They can rationalize it all they want with excuses, but bodily autonomy takes precedence every time, even with children.
Cutting her hair, while less severe, follows the same principle. Not your hair, not your business. I know some brides want a specific look for their wedding, and styling is a fair accommodation. But to bleach, straighten and cut it is way too far, especially for young girls who hang a lot of their self-worth on their hair.
Trying to force a toddler on a diet for non-medical reasons is frankly abuse if she's not a qualified Nutritionist (and she wasn't, she was a drop-out former babysitter), and even if she was it's still highly questionable. A wedding would never be sufficient reason for that.
Compression fitting a child to a dress with duct tape - that's straight up abuse.
Demanding she get her baby teeth straightened. Beyond being pointless & unnecessary, that's expensive. Funny how the unemployed person is comfortable throwing around thousands of dollars of other people's money.
Getting a child drunk on champagne until she's hung-over the next day is again abuse.
Her "Wedding Dress" should have been an orange jumpsuit.
Great Grandma was handing out quarter million dollar checks like party favors at her funeral, so it really says something to marry into a family like that, raise children in the family and still end up destitute. I suspect if she was a half-way decent person, she'd have managed just fine.
If there is a Hell, I'm sure they'll have a McDonalds for the Step-mom to work at there too... And yes, I will be wanting fries with my order.
a similar thing happened to me as a child. My grandmother put a relaxer in my hair to straighten it while I was visiting for the summer. She left the chemicals in my hair for HOURS and my scalp was burning (you're only supposed to leave them in for 15-20 minutes!!). ]
Long story short, 80% of my hair fell out and my scalp was damaged and still is. She was a bitter old lady and didn't like my mother and was against their marriage. When I went back home at the end of the summer, my mother saw me the second my foot exited the car and broke down crying. I had no clue what was going on. My grandma put on her "confused poor old lady" act and to this day, my scalp is still damaged and my hair doesn't grow much
So dad and stepmom were both scum. Dad had some sort of "revelation." Divorced due to "tax reasons." And ensured the devil wife got nothing and his kids got what they needed. Damn. Man truly chose wife in life and kids in death as the daughter said.
Stepmom was the scum?
@@thatoneguy9816 Birth Mom to First Story's OP & Step Mom to Second Story's OP,the two stories are linked and the OPs are Half-Sisters.
Grandma has a lot of restraint.
I would have caught a murder charge. 😡
Multiple murder charges in my case.
Yes, same. I think I would have just gone into a blind rage.
Great-Grandma was a Queen,I would've burst into laughter hearing what that bitch got and then Grandma's Clap Back....god damn.
Same!
Ditto
OP was more than happy to try and convince sister give HER mom the money their father left, but doesn't want to dip into the money SHE was given by their father 😂😂😂
To be fair, before any updates, she was planning on going along with her younger sister and helping her mother financially. But then she went to therapy and realized what garbage her mother truly was. I just hope the younger sister realizes that she shouldn't wasts a dime on that devil soon.
The sister described the first OP as brother
Honestly thier both shitty parents honestly dads the worst never both on same level
yeah she's an absolute disease - she wants the older sister to fund her lazy mom. her younger sister gave money, so she's at least not a hypocrite.
The title of the story should have been "Abusive mother abused Op's stepsister but had breakdown when Op's father left everything to Op's stepsister"
Just to clarify, they weren't step siblings but 1/2 siblings. All 4 the kids had the same father.
Being a victim of abuse, doesn't give you the right. To abuse.
The sister needs to shut her mouth. Or she's welcome to support her lazy abusive mother.
it's kinda fucked up that the dad left his child bride that he groomed since age 14 completely destitute but also she was a very shitty person so she doesn't deserve any pity from the children, she fucked around and found out
OPs mother doesn't deserve anything. She put the older sister through hell, and OP asks her to contribute to such a heinous woman? That's a POS move.
"Choose her in life, choose me in death" is a pretty epic line tho
Dad was a predator yes. Mom was also an abuser who is responsible for her own actions as an adult. She abused his daughter. She also abused him financially (not allowing him to support his daughter). Mom needs to face her consequences.
So no one called the police when a child was drugged? Okay…
It was either the 80's or 90's.........Pretty much everyone was drugging everyone so I'm honestly not even surprised tbh.
Previous generations of my family hid a lot worse. Some families really care more about appearances than the wellbeing of each other.
Best case of FAFO ever.
Feel free to share your own inheritance with her....
Omg I remember the story from the older sister’s perspective! I didn’t know the younger half sister had also posted.
"I've divorced better women for less" 😂😂😂
Dad was 100% regretting his choice of the child to groom.
@@malumkishin8608 considering stepmoms psychology I wouldn't be surprised if she targeted the father even in her young age.
How was he not arrested when he went after a minor who was his employee? How the hell did the abuse go unreported?
I remember this woman who made some nice posts about her JN MIL. She called us Drama Llamas
80-s
@@LLhotJ-ng9vy oh...I got confused.
@@LLhotJ-ng9vya 2 year age gap isn’t a big deal in your 20s. As a teen it definitely is. Have you met a 14 y/o? They are not mature enough to be in a relationship with a 16 year old, and any 16year old who is interested in a 14 year old is taking advantage of their inability to understand that they are still kids. He groomed her from before she had any mental ability to consent.
He was a predator.
Because the parents didn't care
Statutory charge have to be pressed by the parents
Funny how OP says but it’s my mother and harassing the victim of her horrible abuse for money but when it comes down to her having to share with her own mom suddenly it’s ok not to share and she even advised her other sister not to as well,
OP is the AS but for entirely different reason then she thinks
If I would have seen my daughter in that condition or granddaughter you can guarantee somebody's going to jail that day.
I really thought dude was gonna leave those trees floating
She couldn't live in "the style she'd become accustomed to"?
Well...she'll have to become accustomed to a new life style.
Is called "LBPL" 💋
LIVING BELOW THE POVERTY LINE.
Enjoy! ❤
Mom is just shy uhhh no mom is an abusive moocher. 🙄🙄
Life lesson don't fuck with someone who lived through the great depression they will have the last laugh.
Great grandmother for the win
Lmaoo I remember this nutty story and the bad piercing holy fuck
I really don’t think she wants her to have anything she just doesn’t want to take care of her
Oooooh "Crept Keeper" I remember this Saga from the JustNoMIL reddit. The Older Sister used to write out stories from the past about Crept Keeper
There are no resources for single people in their senior years. Learned from experience.
Oh yeah! I remember reading all those stories on JustNoMIL a long time ago. It was fucking INSANE. There was a shit ton of stories.
yo, great-grandma was a queen
The sister/OP's Father was not a good person but was not predator....The sister/last OP's Father was 16 when she was born, when she was 4 her divorced her Mother, so he would have 20, the stepmonster was 18....there is only a 2 year age difference, but it sounds bad the way it was written. Glad the sister/last OP had her Grandmother and Great Grandmother who always cared for her. But this story stands as a perfect example of high school age kids having kids themselves and what messed up thing they can do to these children.
SHE WAS JEALOUS OF HAIR &. BEAUTIFUL SKIN
Sounds like OP's biodad is a real piece of work.
To Parents, Children Are Still the Best
Lord please, please make my stepmother suffer in her later years for all the abuse she put me through 🙏🏾
I'm guessing the trusts are irrevocable.
So the answers are:
No, no & no.
step mother doesn't deserve a penny. disgusting.I'm so glad the dad divorced her!
Grandma should have put stepmom in jail.
A brother is mentioned a few times in the story did he not get anything as well?
I think people are missing the fact that the dad was dating a CHILD. They got married after she turned 18 which means he was dating a 16 year old child. The mother was a victim of the father
Wait, so the brother didn’t get anything from dad?
OP screwed up. Between both stories the younger sister disappeared and a brother suddenly appeared. She really should have written an outline before she created this tele novella.
Also, when an OP cares more about her readers "gathering their drama llamas" and seems itching to spill the tea, my belief in the supposed story plummets.
Yeah tell me if I can get my step sister to pay for my mom and same time how can I get out of helping my mom frommmy money.
Cool, so is should cut all contact with op. Who cares if their dad also sucked. Didn't give the step mom an excuse to abuse is just cuz is wasn't her bio daughter. Oh no, mommy has to work for a living jow. Boo hoo
WAIST LEGNTH. HAIR ??