Jealousy Among Women: From Comparison to Confidence with Caroline Stanbury

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

Комментарии • 47

  • @lorrainemurton6004
    @lorrainemurton6004 2 месяца назад +6

    you cant let go when the most negative person in your life is your own mother ....could listen to you for hours ,love the podcast x

  • @sheilagadde5975
    @sheilagadde5975 2 месяца назад +14

    Your home is bright and cheerful. You have accomplished a great deal. At 77, it's too late for me, but you can teach younger ladies to be self sufficient. Good for you. Blessings...

    • @carolineglass4654
      @carolineglass4654 2 месяца назад +7

      It's never too late, my Mother is 80 still working and having a great time! Age is nothing but a number!

    • @carolinekelly8481
      @carolinekelly8481 2 месяца назад +4

      @@carolineglass4654❤❤❤absolutely!
      That’s old style thinking 🤔 people don’t do age anymore

  • @michellecarr5591
    @michellecarr5591 2 месяца назад +9

    Caroline, it’s so true about your oldest friends, jealousy is a sad thing for a girlfriend to have, I’m always so proud and happy for friends who are doing well, a jealous person is an ugly person, negativity/ jealousy/ envy by a female girlfriend should never be accepted, quietly cut them out of your social friendship group, absolutely loving / enjoying your podcast 👏👏

  • @rochellevincentevonk
    @rochellevincentevonk 2 месяца назад +11

    Totally.... I was modeling for Vogue by the time I was 12 and working with supermodels, have always been around incredible women, who actually also protected me as a kid.. and never felt anything more than incredible gratitude to know such badass women and call them my friends

  • @natashageluk2510
    @natashageluk2510 2 месяца назад +3

    I Concur!! Love! Love! Love this!! Caroline great message ! Stay blessed... 🙂

  • @gengland8601
    @gengland8601 2 месяца назад +3

    Im A widow now and do not have a materialistic life but I’m happy and love all my treasured memories of a life lived at 60. Life has ups n downs and I wouldn’t trade anything. I learned things and had a lovely journey so far. Jealousy is pointless

  • @nancybenoit2845
    @nancybenoit2845 2 месяца назад +3

    You are speaking so much truth! Thank you!

  • @kforkendel4751
    @kforkendel4751 2 месяца назад +2

    Love your outlook on life , as we get older we don’t tolerate jealousy and negativity, i can’t have everything you have but i try for snippets and thats what makes me happy xxxx

  • @CharleneY
    @CharleneY 2 месяца назад +8

    I believe jealousy is a form of hate. But I really have to wonder if jealous people really just hate themselves more than who they're jealous of. I think they hate themselves for not being something or some way.

  • @momcc7882
    @momcc7882 2 месяца назад +1

    My motto. If I have to explain my self constantly to a friend what’s the point of the friendship. We don’t need jealousy complications in our lives. My mother always said, why jealous people they always want to be around us ? How else they are going to be jealous?

  • @kls6612
    @kls6612 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh my goodness! 10 years already! I drop toxic people now so quickly that they don't have time to blink! That is the fabulous part of getting to a certain age😊

  • @deborahilyia1125
    @deborahilyia1125 2 месяца назад +2

    If someone is jealous ,it is a mirror on what we need to see in myself!😊😊

  • @GM-vk7ug
    @GM-vk7ug 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for your podcasts it actually soothes my soul ❤

  • @Luluguajardonino
    @Luluguajardonino 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for being you 💖🌸💖 You help my mindset so much!!!

  • @estefanyrodz
    @estefanyrodz 2 месяца назад +2

    Love this, so good.

  • @CarolynSebellin
    @CarolynSebellin 2 месяца назад +1

    Oh my dear Caroline - you're amazing!! (way cheaper to listen to than my therapist - hee! & make more sense) I definitely have toxic relationships in my life, it's so difficult to " cut them out/off" but I know I have to in order to live my best life. Thank you🥰

  • @deborahilyia1125
    @deborahilyia1125 2 месяца назад +2

    You two are great ❤😊

  • @syreetathibodeaux6114
    @syreetathibodeaux6114 2 месяца назад +3

    Go Caroline ..put out that content girl. We got your back xoxoxo

  • @Milady890
    @Milady890 2 месяца назад

    What an amazing reflexion about jealousy.
    Thanks!!!!!!!❤

  • @deborahilyia1125
    @deborahilyia1125 2 месяца назад +2

    I love my two dogs. They are with me when no one else like or love me. I am 72 years old but they my dogs love me!❤❤❤. ❤

  • @justathought274
    @justathought274 2 месяца назад +2

    A lot of comments seem to connect jealousy with money. Any number of work environments including competitive fields harbour jealous women and some men. It derails, sabotages, creates divisons and is generally misery making. Being isolated etc is difficult. But. To anyone going through it, especially in a study or work context, do you, no matter how hard. Because it is hard. Caroline is right. It is a journey.
    English dictionary definitions:
    Jealousy: a feeling of unhappiness and anger because someone has something or someone that you want.
    Envy: a mostly negative feeling of desire for something that someone else has and you do not. Envy is not a good feeling-it can be described as a mix of admiration and discontent. But it's not necessarily malicious. Envy is very similar in meaning to jealousy.
    Envy is when you want what someone else has, but jealousy is when you're worried someone's trying to take what you have.

  • @deborahilyia1125
    @deborahilyia1125 2 месяца назад +1

    There is a difference between❤.🎉 envy and jealousy! You are perfect!

  • @deborahandrianos463
    @deborahandrianos463 2 месяца назад +4

    I tell all the kids two things in life to stay away from ,one is Jealousy and the other is credit cards! The Devil is behind them 🙏❤️

  • @carolineglass4654
    @carolineglass4654 2 месяца назад +1

    Watching 'Ladies of London' I always felt the other ladies were very jealous and envious of Caroline. I have not seen the Dubai show or seen it advertised in the UK. I try and do a kind deed for every woman in my life daily!

  • @gengland8601
    @gengland8601 2 месяца назад

    Glad u spoke about this. B cuz my feelings on this is many women feel very competitive and jealous w each other and it shouldn’t be this way. We should all bee 🐝 cheerleaders 📣 of each other. We all get our day in the sun. When I was younger and my hub had an ambitious success and bought us a new whatever ! We got divorced and he bought me a new smaller home on a golf course community. I watched it being built. I had one friend that was so angry she just said oh I have ti go blah blah blah. It hurt my feelings. B cuz although I was heartbroken that our marriage failed I got to pick out new things on the new house 🏡

  • @monikamonika-dq2wh
    @monikamonika-dq2wh 2 месяца назад +3

    A służąca jest?

  • @SR-kg3vn
    @SR-kg3vn 2 месяца назад

    Wow Caroline not sure the trolls really get you or the message you are trying to get across You do you and enjoy every minute. Routine - thanks for reminding me. I’m building a new business and the imposter syndrome is real. 💖

  • @tatjanabarat3399
    @tatjanabarat3399 2 месяца назад +3

    Another angle of camera would be good idea. :)

  • @rachaelkeates1608
    @rachaelkeates1608 2 месяца назад

    thanks babe

  • @deborahilyia1125
    @deborahilyia1125 2 месяца назад

    I love my two dogs. They are with me when no one else like or love me. I am 72 years old but they my dogs love me!❤❤❤. ❤😊😊

  • @sheilagadde5975
    @sheilagadde5975 2 месяца назад +1

    Usually, it's unfortunate looking jealous women. In Dubai the quality of female features is higher in Glam. Even the beautiful ones exhibit jealousy.

  • @benice3268
    @benice3268 2 месяца назад

    Ppl are jealous of me and I don’t even understand why 😂

  • @deborahilyia1125
    @deborahilyia1125 2 месяца назад

    My love at 72 years old . I have not gone with jealousy or envy. I helped my husBAND run a 100 million dollar company I see now the people around me wanted him!

  • @kforkendel4751
    @kforkendel4751 2 месяца назад +1

    Envy is when you want your neighbour’s convertible , jealousy is when they take your husband for a ride in it !!!

  • @tinkerbell8285
    @tinkerbell8285 2 месяца назад +1

  • @AP-wq9dv
    @AP-wq9dv 2 месяца назад +2

    It would help if you looked at the camera

    • @Sheenoshine
      @Sheenoshine 2 месяца назад

      I know … I didn’t know if she was talking to someone else 🤔

  • @welcomwelcom9882
    @welcomwelcom9882 2 месяца назад

    Since social media started there seems to be far more jealousy and envy
    Doesn't surprise me at all
    Human nature!
    I do feel sorry for the nasty haters however!
    Not surprising at all and I can understand it completely

  • @wendygiardino1184
    @wendygiardino1184 2 месяца назад

    I want to come back as you in my next life❤

  • @ClaraM-lr5kh
    @ClaraM-lr5kh 2 месяца назад +1

    Honestly I feel that you talk to the wrong audience 😉 I think no one would watch you on YouToube if they were jealous of your materialistic „assets“. Women are usually jealous of the youth, charisma and attractiveness of other women. That’s because the status of a woman is defined by that…opposite to the male status that is defined by materialistic things, social status and an attractive partner. The whole video sounds like you were promoting all the assets that allegedly make (us little viewers) jealous. But who would watch your videos just to become jealous? We WANT to be inspired. I never heard of you before clicking on your last video…I think you need to calm down a little bit 😉 you look quite average and it’s not a big deal anymore to live a luxury lifestyle or to have a younger partner. I am afraid to tell you that. Hopefully it makes you more humble which I doubt 😄

  • @sonicsky4126
    @sonicsky4126 2 месяца назад +1

    Sadly u looked so much prettier before yr face lift. U may look younger yes, but not by a lot. Its the stra gest thing, it took the real beauty out of yr face. & now yr face seems blank? If yr happy guess that's all that really counts in the end. Yr art pieces are fab!

  • @RestorationDream
    @RestorationDream 2 месяца назад +1

    I honestly think it just might be where you live and the business that you are in that you have a problem with people being jealous of you etc. You live in an extremely superficial city and show business is like that. I watched that Dubai show just to see you in it and I could not believe how superficial and nasty all the other women were! Especially the African Americans. I found their behaviour shocking! They have just sort of fallen into that money or beauty equals importance thing and I don’t happen to find any of them to be beautiful. That is so stupid. At least you have a nice husband and are happy, otherwise I don't see how you could stand being on that awful show. Those of us who are mere mortals, and perhaps my being autistic helps me as Aspies cannot be anything other than themselves, we are mainly concerned with how to pay the rising cost of living and how to put food on the table, or how to afford the work on my house or how to afford getting my two rescue rabbits fixed. Those sorts of things concern me, not what other women are doing. I never feel jealous of other women. I am very happy being myself. I am a nice person and I like that about me. I have empathy and love animals. I am creative and smart, too. I don't wish to be anyone else. I do wish working and earning my keep were easier as that is a real struggle and it does make me unhappy, but I do think I will get there.

  • @katrinacool
    @katrinacool 2 месяца назад +5

    It must be a Dubai thing as where I live we have millionaires and billionaires with their second/third/fourth or whatever home with their boats and cars but no one cares here. I live in a place, Key West, where money isn't envied. I've seen millionaires walking around looking like some homeless person but they are loaded. Or women wearing their best jewelry playing tennis or shopping at the grocery store. It's like this in many parts of the US- it just doesn't matter. I'm not trying to keep up with someone else- I've got what I want and get what I want but health and love and experiences mean more to me than material possessions. I truly believe a lot of women are bitchy catty creatures which is why most of my best friends are male. Love these chats!! ☀️🦩🌴😍😊☺️❤️🥰❤️🥰