How To *Musician* EPISODE 5 : Rejection

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

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  • @CoryWongMusic
    @CoryWongMusic  3 года назад +188

    *two guitars were slightly harmed in the making of this video*

    • @jordanwest4595
      @jordanwest4595 3 года назад

      😢

    • @thisisaugusto
      @thisisaugusto 3 года назад

      Noooooo!😟

    • @TKiBoule
      @TKiBoule 3 года назад +1

      I hope that was the back up strat in front of the fire Cory

    • @AJ_VLOGS_DAILY
      @AJ_VLOGS_DAILY 3 года назад +7

      Please tell me that dousing the bacci in gas water was cgi

    • @yeeeeeeeee_e
      @yeeeeeeeee_e 3 года назад +2

      i'm calling HR

  • @adityanemlekar
    @adityanemlekar 3 года назад +114

    Cory Wong has ascended from funk machine to Wise Music Shaman. Level Up!!!

  • @ChildsFamiIy
    @ChildsFamiIy 3 года назад +88

    Your work ethic and respect for what you do is top notch.

    • @DevanBishop
      @DevanBishop 3 года назад

      Yeah it is

    • @tephros19
      @tephros19 3 года назад

      I'm gonna go ahead and agree with you. These series of musician videos are very good.

  • @nathanmaruch9013
    @nathanmaruch9013 3 года назад +20

    These videos are, like, the best professional advices I've received in a long time. I'm an electrical engineering researcher and all of this, with the given substitutions, is applicable to my work. It's a how to: be a professional. Love this.

  • @BrunoFidelisMusic
    @BrunoFidelisMusic 3 года назад +24

    The first minute was a master class in reverse psychology

  • @MrJSlutty
    @MrJSlutty 3 года назад +22

    This series is just some of the best I've seen so far on these topics. I gave the live music/gigging thing a go for awhile as a side hustle in my 20s and I could have really used this stuff back then. So much of this I learned the hard way.

  • @banzai744
    @banzai744 3 года назад +1

    Great video Cory!
    The best coping mechanism for rejection is talking to your friends about it. You end up realising that everyone has rejection stories. And then you have to move on and keep trying.

  • @fueledbykyle
    @fueledbykyle 3 года назад +2

    Dude seriously, thank you for these videos. They’re exactly what I need right now. You’re the man.

  • @Usul
    @Usul 3 года назад +4

    This advice can be adapted to any industry, job, or skill, and is simply fantastic. Spot on recommendations.

  • @dsan3516
    @dsan3516 3 года назад +1

    That striped sweater is awesome! I want one!

  • @chuck7228
    @chuck7228 3 года назад +2

    Cory, thank you for your service!

  • @anishmanandhar3154
    @anishmanandhar3154 3 года назад +2

    Thank you soo much Cory, you changed my life.

  • @billyfairbank
    @billyfairbank 3 года назад +2

    6:44 - Can we get a PSA of this please? 😆 I feel like many people could benefit from this advice.

  • @anonymous06593
    @anonymous06593 3 года назад +2

    This series should be a required watch for every music school. Top tier content!

  • @guitargeronimo7021
    @guitargeronimo7021 3 года назад +1

    Cory now isn't only our guitar mentor but life coach

  • @JohnBogansky
    @JohnBogansky 3 года назад +2

    Cory, this stuff reminds me of the stuff old school RUclipsrs used to do. Thanks for all the advice!

  • @samgreen8865
    @samgreen8865 3 года назад +2

    I was rejected earlier this week from a jazz conservatoire I wanted to go to here in the UK, but now I've just had my other interview, it's looking extremely likely I'll be accepted into an even better school!
    You never know what might come of a rejection, but that doesn't stop it from feeling like crap.

  • @mitchellharris
    @mitchellharris 3 года назад +4

    Literally missed out on a job yesterday, I needed this!

  • @556musicman
    @556musicman 3 года назад +2

    Not only one of my very favorite musicians and writers, but quickly becoming one of my very favorite PEOPLE. Thank you Cory. Keep it up.

  • @YJAMGCF
    @YJAMGCF 3 года назад +1

    Delivering hard truth with a smile. So gentle but also telling it like it is. I should stop being a prick...

  • @ItzTheFury
    @ItzTheFury 3 года назад +4

    I think this is a great perspective from someone who is world-class.
    Now there is a problem: By definition, only a handful of people can ever be world-class. So the reality is: For many of us many things we aspire to may in fact be unachievable simply because of technical proficiency or charisma no matter how much effort we put in. I think it is healthy to be aware of this and then to focus on goals that are actually in your reach. It's so easy in 2020 to always aspire to be the _very_ best because that's what we're seeing on RUclips etc.

  • @rhinoasauras3773
    @rhinoasauras3773 Год назад

    Absolute gem of a show, I can’t believe I hadn’t found it sooner

  • @jazzmike_
    @jazzmike_ 3 года назад +6

    Love this. Also keep in mind that social media puts us constantly face to face with the best in the world at everything we do.

    • @DocBree13
      @DocBree13 3 года назад +1

      That’s a really good point

  • @Charlyzard_ssb
    @Charlyzard_ssb 3 года назад +1

    Cory is just great. This is like a hidden corner of the internet with infinite wisdom

  • @muzikchic555
    @muzikchic555 Год назад +1

    Needed this after a voice wrenching audition where they wanted “Grace Slick” sung at full voice at 10:30 in the morning. No-I never heard back from them. Got any hot tea? 😅

  • @zeberek.mp3
    @zeberek.mp3 3 года назад +2

    LOVING THESE

  • @maurahomerski33
    @maurahomerski33 3 года назад +2

    So soooo good, Cory!

  • @tommyrileydrums8743
    @tommyrileydrums8743 3 года назад +2

    Really needed to hear this Cory! Been at a tuff point in my life trying to decide if I want to continue going for music as a career or settling for something else! Thanks for the motivation!

  • @lfkw2484
    @lfkw2484 3 года назад +2

    finally a topic I know more about than Cory

  • @NothingHereButMe
    @NothingHereButMe 3 года назад +1

    Cory Wong really is the greatest human

  • @noahtorralba
    @noahtorralba 3 года назад +1

    the wisdom you’re sharing in these videos are absolutely priceless. thankful for you dude!

  • @robertscholz1718
    @robertscholz1718 3 года назад

    I think the 5 people thatve downvoted are doing it ironically. This is some pure gold for any musicans getting started

  • @caleb8908
    @caleb8908 3 года назад +3

    rejection...
    proceeds to play the absolute bopper that is "Massive'

  • @threee1298
    @threee1298 3 года назад +1

    You're my hero Cory

  • @PhilipKlaassen
    @PhilipKlaassen 3 года назад +2

    Dude! Love all your content! Thank you so much!!!

  • @JosiahSoren
    @JosiahSoren 3 года назад +2

    gosh this series is AMAZING!

  • @ca8746
    @ca8746 3 года назад +1

    You're amazing, Cory! Thanks for this video!

  • @magicmacify
    @magicmacify 3 года назад +1

    This dude is incredible.

  • @qweasdzxc428
    @qweasdzxc428 3 года назад +1

    I really needed this. Thank you so so much.

  • @joshbuhman3169
    @joshbuhman3169 3 года назад +1

    Great comments on everyone having value Cory. Keep up the good work.

  • @TheAaron3dg
    @TheAaron3dg 3 года назад +1

    Corey thank you for these videos! Musicians, pay attention, the guy is giving away world-class knowledge here for free

  • @JakeBisognin
    @JakeBisognin 3 года назад +3

    Very timely video! Due to this pandemic, I'm betting it's not just me that feels like a failure trying to be a *Musician* when there are much fewer opportunities. Also, the way you've gone about occupying your time and delivering these helpful videos is very inspirational!

  • @charlieruisseau2476
    @charlieruisseau2476 3 года назад +4

    That shot with the guitars burning in the background had me laughing hard. Great vid once again Cory!

  • @jacksnapsband
    @jacksnapsband 3 года назад +4

    10:29 is how I feel listening to pretty much anything Cory plays

  • @synthgreen5648
    @synthgreen5648 3 года назад +1

    those 5 people who disliked are people who like getting rejected

  • @coreyharen24
    @coreyharen24 3 года назад +2

    Really love all these videos! They are so funny and have really great insight! Thanks Cory!

  • @ThomasNordlund
    @ThomasNordlund 3 года назад +1

    Omg that Marilyn Manson meets jazz brunch!

  • @orioncallaghan2659
    @orioncallaghan2659 3 года назад +1

    That's a dope sweater.

  • @ketilsther9997
    @ketilsther9997 3 года назад

    The Soul Asylum story/info is Gold!!

  • @benwinstanleymusic
    @benwinstanleymusic 3 года назад +1

    Really valuable advice here Cory, thank you so much 🙏

  • @JedidiahHorca
    @JedidiahHorca 3 года назад +1

    Much needed advice. Thanks Cory!

  • @HouseHandshake
    @HouseHandshake 3 года назад +1

    we fuggin love you Cory. You've inspired my funky self to come on out

  • @hristi.yanche8487
    @hristi.yanche8487 3 года назад +1

    That's exactly what I needed TODAY

  • @thebutton7932
    @thebutton7932 3 года назад +1

    excellent topic, Cory . . and well handled, dude

  • @CarolJackSinger
    @CarolJackSinger 3 года назад +1

    Great video Cory - hope you don't mind me sharing to my Facebook pages!

  • @SamMerrell1
    @SamMerrell1 3 года назад

    I love how the last couple of videos have been been one part hilarious one parts therapy session.

  • @amalkalive544
    @amalkalive544 3 года назад +2

    This guy is so underrated

  • @jansolo4853
    @jansolo4853 3 года назад +1

    Christ centered musicianship from the man himself, Cory Wong!

  • @mymixture965
    @mymixture965 3 года назад +1

    You are so right, I got rejected for a very good job, but a bit later I got a much better gig wich I would not try to get if I would have got the first one.

  • @Scott-sd1zj
    @Scott-sd1zj 3 года назад +1

    Informative, slick and hilarious. 👍🏼

  • @rborawski
    @rborawski 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for this!

  • @mikegrasso9736
    @mikegrasso9736 3 года назад

    I actually got to see Soul Asylum with Michael Bland on drums at my old high school Pinkerton Academy. Fountains of Wayne and Evan Dando of the Lemonheads too

  • @kckudasai995
    @kckudasai995 3 года назад +1

    Damn this is better thn therapy

  • @BabblingRandomly
    @BabblingRandomly 3 года назад

    Thanks for making this! its so true! rejection hurts

  • @harry_mair
    @harry_mair 3 года назад +1

    Luckily there's no gigs to reject me in rural Australia

  • @miguelescalera626
    @miguelescalera626 3 года назад +1

    Thanks these segments are great.

  • @benjithehuman2639
    @benjithehuman2639 3 года назад +1

    Great advice thanks for this

  • @9999AWC
    @9999AWC 3 года назад

    This will actually help me for my pilot job interview in the future! Thanks Cory! Love your music!

  • @jacksontodd8676
    @jacksontodd8676 3 года назад +1

    yo Cory, where can I get that green and white stripped sweater? It's dope

  • @oldethangoogleacc8484
    @oldethangoogleacc8484 3 года назад +2

    "don't be a computer"
    cory facts

  • @scolhs
    @scolhs 3 года назад +1

    Best rejection coping method is to recreate the audition with your family members and ask them to say yes

  • @hiramgonzalez1367
    @hiramgonzalez1367 3 года назад +1

    I agree ☝️

  • @lloydsnyder7277
    @lloydsnyder7277 3 года назад +11

    Tonight I’m having a party, and we’re going to listen to Wong Notes and watch How to Musician, and every time Cory says “the thing”, we take a drink.

  • @mangolassi_.
    @mangolassi_. 3 года назад

    I didn't imagine Minnesota as a place where you can sit outside in a light sweater at night in December.

  • @blakequalls3145
    @blakequalls3145 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Cory, I needed this today haha

  • @apzoeiru4305
    @apzoeiru4305 3 года назад +1

    The meme potential of this video is huge

  • @mikesguitarcovers2510
    @mikesguitarcovers2510 3 года назад +1

    I missed this class in music school. Haha. Thanks Cory. Love this series man.

  • @JustinNguyen43384
    @JustinNguyen43384 3 года назад

    This is great life advice.. Love the series man!!

  • @yesterdaytodave
    @yesterdaytodave 3 года назад

    I've failed a lot of times. This is something I really need to hear right now. Thanks Cory!

  • @Larriex97
    @Larriex97 3 года назад +1

    I just wanna thank you for this material, it's so precious for us!
    How old are you, Mr. Wong? I'm curious :)

  • @DarkoP9.13
    @DarkoP9.13 3 года назад +1

    This is a Life lesson
    13Wisedome this is

  • @smellsfunnyinhere3928
    @smellsfunnyinhere3928 3 года назад +1

    thank you for this.

  • @markshepardsongs
    @markshepardsongs 3 года назад

    Thank you for this. We need to REJ ECT rejection. Going for the thing that you're going for is the thing to get going on.,, I thingk... "you do not know what is in your best interests..." - The Course In Miracles

  • @JasonMcLemore
    @JasonMcLemore 3 года назад +1

    I believe more people than not could work on the whole "not being a prick" thing. Myself included.

  • @andrespageszamora
    @andrespageszamora 3 года назад

    CORY LOVE YOU BROTHEER, MUCH LOVE FROM COSTA RICA

  • @JesseNorellMusic
    @JesseNorellMusic 3 года назад +1

    This series has gone from "maybe I'll check that out" to "must see TV... immediately!"

  • @JBrm
    @JBrm 3 года назад +1

    Fk Life Coaches, Cory Wong is who everyone should listen to. Musician or not, this stuff is highly motivating!

  • @danielpenberthy3373
    @danielpenberthy3373 3 года назад

    5:35 I love Bob Dylan

  • @BernardoBohm
    @BernardoBohm 3 года назад

    So encouraging

  • @StaszekPikulMusic
    @StaszekPikulMusic 3 года назад +1

    wow, it's really interesting that although you love the alt rock style you nowadays play in quite different, more relaxed and happy style. I always thought that the personal style comes from what you love the most, but it seems that it doesn't? anyway, great video :D

  • @DrJoshGuitar
    @DrJoshGuitar 3 года назад +1

    I just watched some Soul Asylum videos (wasn't too familiar with them) and I have to say... Within minutes you probably would have been bored to tears in that band.

  • @jakedrake84
    @jakedrake84 Год назад

    "THAT'S THE KINDLING!"

  • @MartinoPosenato
    @MartinoPosenato 3 года назад

    love all your videos Cory! Very interesting contents

  • @RaulSanchez777
    @RaulSanchez777 3 года назад +1

    “You’re not going to get the gig if you’ve got whack tone!” 😂😂

  • @tommykavounidis
    @tommykavounidis 3 года назад +1

    Sends this video to band member after "firing" them.....

  • @flybynight1929
    @flybynight1929 3 года назад +1

    It's 2020! But you're still saying wack tone?
    Kidding, I listen to all your podcasts, they're great!

  • @DevanBishop
    @DevanBishop 3 года назад +4

    Most real thing, “a Tuesday night gig that pays in turkey sandwiches...”

    • @CoryWongMusic
      @CoryWongMusic  3 года назад +8

      no lie. i did a tuesday night gig for 6 years that paid less.

    • @DevanBishop
      @DevanBishop 3 года назад +1

      @@CoryWongMusic that’s insane and I’ve played a few 😂

  • @timothyrice1621
    @timothyrice1621 3 года назад

    Zhu Lee, do the thing

  • @NikZ3r0
    @NikZ3r0 3 года назад +11

    Hey Cory, any advice for not becoming a prick when drowning in a sea of pricks?

  • @markvironda
    @markvironda 3 года назад

    Dope