God Is Telling You to OPEN UP More to Someone If . . .

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @LearningtheHarp
    @LearningtheHarp 4 года назад +23

    When I was in the beginning stages of a relationship and scared to open my heart for fear of being hurt, I felt the Lord saying to me that I didn’t need to GIVE my heart to the person, just to open it. My heart would be safely held in the Lord’s hands.

  • @angelicsparkles
    @angelicsparkles 4 года назад +32

    I realize I have probably trusted too much too soon and allowed people to push my boundaries which opened me up to various hurts. I am strengthening these areas.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +2

      God bless as you grow in Christ

    • @dezibevineau9782
      @dezibevineau9782 4 года назад

      It’s very hard for me to trust. I see in men what goes unseen in the naked eye. I sense lust like a shark senses blood and it’s horribly revolting. Lust and eagerness in men make me quick to not trust them. I also have a fear of being raped. So men who struggle with eagerness and lust scares me. Because one day they might loose control.

  • @liftYAHusha
    @liftYAHusha 4 года назад +78

    I recently met someone that i felt comfortable opening up to and honestly thought i could trust.
    Unfortunately that backfired. It's scary how good people are at pretending they care.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +27

      Yes, it is, which is why time is needed to really see if someone is trustworthy

    • @CATNESS1993
      @CATNESS1993 4 года назад +6

      Christ Lift yes I know this all too well. I pray that we heal with Gods grace

    • @hooballoolify
      @hooballoolify 4 года назад +3

      Same here.

    • @liftYAHusha
      @liftYAHusha 4 года назад +4

      @@hooballoolify Frustrating, isn't it.

    • @liftYAHusha
      @liftYAHusha 4 года назад +2

      @@CATNESS1993 Amen to that.

  • @tracyjohnson7857
    @tracyjohnson7857 4 года назад +36

    We guard our heart.. yes.. but we still love one another.. remembering who our first love is 💕

  • @angelchampagnechildofGod20
    @angelchampagnechildofGod20 4 года назад +59

    God is always on time with what I need to hear

  • @crownedmelaninqueen
    @crownedmelaninqueen 4 года назад +22

    Just prayed about this with my homegirl an hour ago ! Amazing God is hilarious with his timing and messages ! This message is practical and spiritual.

  • @cjdiaries7722
    @cjdiaries7722 4 года назад +24

    This is such perfect timing, it scares me to open up i literally hate it. Idk if this means I should open myself up to this person or what. We literally just started texting and I’ve never just had someone on my mind this soon it’s weird 😂. I’m going to pray on it, thankyou for this video!

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +7

      Amen, pray about it and take it slow either way. Opening up a little might be wise but not too much too soon :)

  • @Nuue70
    @Nuue70 4 года назад +9

    In my case, i never get the person who i find attractive and ready to have a relationship with that particular person.i have always failed in love matter.sometimes this made cry.But i will put my trust in God's timing.

  • @naturallygigi3294
    @naturallygigi3294 4 года назад +20

    On the flip side, I'm learning to guard my heart as I have not found one that is worthy of it yet. The bible says in Prov 4:23 "Above all esle, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." So I am gaurding my heart until I find The One that is worthy of it! 🙏🏽💍👰🏻

  • @txwarriorbride5112
    @txwarriorbride5112 4 года назад +17

    I think the Holy Spirit will also give you an idea of when it is appropriate to open your heart to someone also. Or when Not to do so. If we listen to it. My experience is that when one person's spirit speaks to yours, you feel less fear about opening up to them. Hard to describe, but you know when it is there. Do you take a risk? Of course, but usually you will find soon enough if it was worth it. I have found it harder for men to open up than women, basically because they are not used to being vulnerable. I dont know if they realize how beautiful it is to a woman when they do that. It is a rare and valuable thing to have a man do that with you. If eventually the two are to be ONE as the Bible says, then that vulnerability belongs to both of you.💕🙏😁

  • @perryhughes3721
    @perryhughes3721 4 года назад +38

    I'm asking The Lord to open the heart of a very special woman to give me an opportunity to get to know her

  • @koketsobaholo7
    @koketsobaholo7 4 года назад +4

    *_God_* continue to protect and guide you and your family, in the name of *Jesus*

  • @talonthorn
    @talonthorn 3 месяца назад

    This is just what I needed to hear. I have gone all out in the past, not realizing I can and should open up slowly.

  • @conchetta8209
    @conchetta8209 4 года назад +61

    I have opened up....and i keep getting HURT...God help me.

    • @lifeofelizabeth2351
      @lifeofelizabeth2351 4 года назад +3

      Conchettas Blessed if you are getting hurt maybe you need to leave the person or maybe ask god what to do and what you are doing wrong as well currently going through this

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +2

      These videos may help: ruclips.net/video/KTpppAH6g58/видео.html

    • @conchetta8209
      @conchetta8209 4 года назад +3

      @@lifeofelizabeth2351 his in jail and out of my life...thank you Jesus

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +7

      I know what you mean. But we just need to learn how to listen to the spirit of the Lord. If God shows us things about people, and the Holy Spirit advise you to let them go. Then do so. Because God knows our heart.

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +1

      @@lifeofelizabeth2351 I agree with you. Pretty picture. Have a blessed night.

  • @noahhelmuth6497
    @noahhelmuth6497 4 года назад +18

    I'll put a Amen on this once the virus thing is off I want to pursue for a partner this person that I'm interest in I am trying to open up to her she's a very nice person

  • @krissiabonita1782
    @krissiabonita1782 4 года назад +10

    Guard my Heart ❤

  • @georgiaaax1316
    @georgiaaax1316 4 года назад +11

    This was exactly what I needed to hear, God bless you and your ministry 🙏

  • @SavageThoughts-x3c
    @SavageThoughts-x3c 4 года назад +14

    Both the man and the woman have to get out of their personal self interests and invest in the interests of the relationship in order to benefit from the success that'll come with the happiness

  • @toriavera2481
    @toriavera2481 4 года назад +3

    This is true because I’ve been opening up more to him. Thank you Jesus

  • @chocolatetiea1127
    @chocolatetiea1127 4 года назад +1

    Mark your messages are always on time. Thank you for allowing God to use you.

  • @shana2116
    @shana2116 3 года назад +2

    My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 month and 4 weeks. Over the period of time that we've been dating he has opened his heart to me but I barely opened my heart to him. Please pray for me that I open my heart more to him and not let my insecurity get in the way. I want to
    trust the Lord fully to lead our relationship in the direction he wants it to go and to make our relationship grow stronger and deeper daily.

  • @viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154
    @viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154 4 года назад +8

    Really enjoyed this type of video!

  • @drakeclifton5625
    @drakeclifton5625 4 года назад +2

    I live with a relative and pretty sure I need to open up more and so does he. Uncle and nephew situation. Nothing romantic or anything.. but our relationship needs to grow. Prayer is the best thing for this situation.

  • @a1xluv
    @a1xluv 4 года назад +2

    In past times I’ve been very open to a relationship: shared a lot and opened my heart to possibilities of a great love! Being hurt shut a lot of that down! Praying I can find someone to trust my heart with who loves God and self beyond....!

  • @_arielrcolemann
    @_arielrcolemann 4 года назад +6

    Amen! 🙌 this is soooo helpful and a good reminder. Thank you so much.

  • @latindolphin
    @latindolphin 4 года назад +1

    Thanks Lord for guiding me to this video message tonight. Guide me and give me that wisdom that I need. 🙏🏻✨

  • @thisprofilepicisakittyboi9831
    @thisprofilepicisakittyboi9831 4 года назад +4

    This is exactly what I’m going through right now. I have a crush on a friend of mine, we’ve known each other since we were freshmen and she has done great things that have meant so much to me. We have so much in common that it’s like we’re the same person. I wish to tell her how I feel but I’m scared of being rejected and I’m scared of how she’s going to react if I do.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад

      This may help you: ruclips.net/video/2xbZs-Cwcz0/видео.html

    • @MoonBaby1222
      @MoonBaby1222 4 года назад +4

      I will tell you this....
      My now current Spouse had a crush on me in HS. I liked him too but he in his mind always saw me as above him aka better. He kept his feelings closer and I didn't pursue him because I figured he didn't see me like that. Then in 2004 he came back into my life. This time it was more eye contact still no one saying anything. I started dating somebody else and remained single. Then again 2006 he came back into my life for a third time. This time we became very close we actually got to know each other I admitted my feelings to him. But he still didn't admit his. So again because I thought you didn't like me and it would never turn into a relationship that I would like I ended it and got back with an ex. After years of not speaking I'm going through a divorce and me going through an abusive relationship. I ran into his parents three different times. the third time is when he actually came back into my life for the fourth time. That's what he admitted everything. He was scared to admit his feelings to me because he was always magnetically drawn to me since HS. Then we became best friends and he actually got to know me start falling in love. That feeling scared him since you never felt it before. and you were so scared that if he admitted it I would respond by rejecting him. Because he always saw himself as not good enough. And I admitted to him if he would have told me at least had feelings for me not necessarily love stayed in his life. I hope I'm giving you advice by telling you this.... Please do not let that rejection or her reaction give you fears. That what if will kill you more. He regretted it. He end up marrying somebody that was very horrible. And I was very miserable in my own life. Now that we are we both are content. So please don't let that fear of her saying I don't feel the same make you run.

  • @kimmyqueen8009
    @kimmyqueen8009 4 года назад +21

    It’s a little more difficult to open up to someone indirectly on the internet as opposed to in person.

    • @leorenthlei3186
      @leorenthlei3186 4 года назад +1

      Yes, and the words to say. Its hard to open up when we like someone. 😅
      But I guess good things, most of the time, comes with a price and risks too. That's what kinda makes them worth it ✌🏻

    • @paulwgraves
      @paulwgraves 4 года назад +1

      Opening up in person is always the better option in my opinion, because it establishes more trust and real interaction and it's easier to see how real a person's response is too.

    • @kimmyqueen8009
      @kimmyqueen8009 4 года назад

      Paul Graves I can understand that but a little more private would be nice.

    • @paulwgraves
      @paulwgraves 4 года назад +1

      Absolutely. In my opinion opening up should be done normally in a one-on-one setting... private by all means (but could also be in a public space! like coffee shop, etc.). I make a comment about public space because sometimes there is more "pressure" in an isolated private discussion vs in a public setting.

    • @kimmyqueen8009
      @kimmyqueen8009 4 года назад

      One day I’ll get him alone!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 года назад +3

    Glory Hallelujah! Your videos are much needed, and they are right on time. God bless you.

  • @zacqueeentertainment7336
    @zacqueeentertainment7336 4 года назад +2

    I’m very reluctant to open my heart to someone again for a long time. A person I thought was a good friend ended up being more of a hinderance than a benefit. We were super close and it’s been pretty difficult to cut that person off and move forward. I already have issue trusting people. I shouldn’t have been so attached. Hopefully I’ll meet someone soon that’ll show me it’s okay to open up.

    • @keturah1980
      @keturah1980 4 года назад +1

      Talks with Josiah welp the Bible says guard your heart....people come and go. Life goes on. The older you get the easier it becomes to let go. I pray your heart detaches.

  • @jasminekelleelyngdoh3824
    @jasminekelleelyngdoh3824 4 года назад +1

    This came at the right time!

  • @CATNESS1993
    @CATNESS1993 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for producing this content especially during this time.

  • @iamlexiarielle
    @iamlexiarielle 4 года назад +1

    This is SO SPOT ON😩😭

  • @jenellubin7120
    @jenellubin7120 4 года назад +1

    Thank you, God help us to guard our hearts Lord.❤️🇬🇾🌍

  • @youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884
    @youcantalkyourwaytohealthi8884 4 года назад +1

    Excellent advice! Thanks for sharing this 🙏🏾

  • @musicallands7385
    @musicallands7385 4 года назад +15

    Can this apply to friendships?

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +4

      I think much of it can

    • @alexag5093
      @alexag5093 4 года назад +2

      So glad I came across this comment cuz I have a guy friend and we’ve been friends for a year but I don’t open up to him a lot because he likes me a little and also because I’m generally a very private person but yeah this past week has been rough I def need to talk to him about it although I have spoken to God through prayer about it as well

  • @mary-annelei3588
    @mary-annelei3588 4 года назад +1

    Good thoughts shared thanks.

  • @neydanguema4123
    @neydanguema4123 4 года назад +1

    THANK YOU 😊 GOD BLESS Y’ALL

  • @sheilahallee
    @sheilahallee 4 года назад +1

    Great Video!! Thank you!! 😊

  • @graceibelegbu189
    @graceibelegbu189 4 года назад

    He treated me bad.
    My heart is closed towards him.

  • @eddieteddie5559
    @eddieteddie5559 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this, Mark!

  • @sajip.l8458
    @sajip.l8458 4 года назад +1

    really useful

  • @mak88119
    @mak88119 4 года назад

    Opening up means getting hurt. It's better to do what Paul said and stay single and serve God. Serving God as a single person will Never backfire.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +1

      Fear is never a good motive though, it makes us avoid true desires God put there. A call to singleness like Paul talked about is not motivated by the fear of getting hurt but rather by the desire to serve God in singleness

  • @PowerAestheticsOfficial
    @PowerAestheticsOfficial 3 года назад

    great advice!

  • @celestemariscal4360
    @celestemariscal4360 4 года назад +3

    Mi situación es complicado ...sólo Dios sabe 😭🙏🏻

    • @jdfodio
      @jdfodio 4 года назад +1

      This video is simplifying your "complicated situation". Trust God.

    • @celestemariscal4360
      @celestemariscal4360 4 года назад

      jdfodio thank you 🙏🏻 thank you so much

  • @Corthos10
    @Corthos10 4 года назад

    I'm about to have a talk with this girl I really like tomorrow. I don't expect it to end the way I'd want but I think God wants me to give it a shot anyways. Please pray that I will be able to handle whatever gets decided. I rarely find girls like her and it'll be hard to move on if it doesn't work. Thanks and Godbless you all.

  • @thepowerzzone206
    @thepowerzzone206 4 года назад +1

    This video is for ever popping up this is like the 10th time its popped up so God must be giving me a hint to open up to somebody more but who is the question lol please pray that God helps me with that sooner than later maybe like today in jesus name amen has anybody else been like this or is just me? Say I if you have

  • @ariannag1510
    @ariannag1510 4 года назад +4

    I like a guy that’s a family friend and I don’t know what to do about it. We don’t talk and aren’t close. How do I get over him?

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +3

      I talk about that here: ruclips.net/video/B9bjFk6Qcx8/видео.html

    • @tracyjohnson7857
      @tracyjohnson7857 4 года назад +2

      I haven't watched the video in response.. Mark has great biblical advise.. but in my experience I try to remember God's word.. I shouldn't have let anyone replace my thoughts but my flesh way of thinking did.. I had to go back to our first love who is God.. And get Him back first in my heart.. He says seek ye first the kingdom of God and rest will be added.. God bless you 💕❤️

  • @albertfrancis1664
    @albertfrancis1664 4 года назад

    I am afraid, I will lose my friendship too, if she dont Love me the same way I love her.. So am keeping quiet... I am afraid to open up, since she might get a doubt... 😌😌

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +1

      Yes, but you will lose that friendship when she starts dating or gets married to someone else too though, so in my view it's usually best to give it a shot at some point

  • @banananna411
    @banananna411 4 года назад +2

    Is there a point in pursuing a relationship if these are really the last days?

  • @dezibevineau9782
    @dezibevineau9782 4 года назад +1

    A man is not a man unless he steps first. If he doesn’t step first he is a coward. And I have a high non tolerance for cowards.

    • @rubymarabu
      @rubymarabu 5 месяцев назад

      Ruth stepped first...sometimes The Lord will lead you to make the first move...we can all be cowards...hence the grace of God

  • @CyscoRealSmoove
    @CyscoRealSmoove 4 года назад +1

    question here! do you believe God has destined someone specifically for us or God allows us to build a relationship with the partner we choose, if both want the relationship?

  • @villerogladys1368
    @villerogladys1368 4 года назад

    Me and negative arse struggles to open up cause im toxic on my own. Dont want to pass it to others.

  • @acharich
    @acharich 4 года назад +2

    Mmm, vulnerability.. 🔥💎🔥
    Not too little & not too much.. 😅
    James 1:5.. 🔑🔑🔑
    - @Acharich

  • @krxis1109
    @krxis1109 4 года назад +7

    Pastor i keep having bad habits and my discerment is fading. I want to keep glorifying God and Jesus 😭. I loosing bible knowledge how can i teach and etc and do what i was call. God and Jesus i love you. Don't leave me. I sorry.. I will die if i don't have Jesus and God. For i am naked and poor and needy. God and Jesus how will i live with out both your presences. I am Sad. I don't know what i did wrong i repented for my bad habits. Myself in God all i lived For. I want to keep spending time with God. There a voice tormenting me. Father how can i go on with out you Jesus and God. What your message for me God. I feel like dying dry bones. I feel drained and feel lost. I will not give up on God. I feel overestimated by people. Father how long will i be isolated. Through you who knows my heart and soul. Through you know my Love for you both and your people. How i adored my God. How i want to be more like Jesus. How i care about God and his son Jesus. How i yearn and cried when i do something wrong. How i repent. God and Jesus Don't leave me. How i feel bad and hate win i sinned. for i am a sinner. How thou me will live with out the holy spirit and his presence. I don't want to leave people to there death without telling them the truth. I know Jesus is coming 😭. Test me God. You know me.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  4 года назад +2

      Psalm 51 is helpful

    • @krxis1109
      @krxis1109 4 года назад

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Is there a message for me God. I feel weak and drybones. I feel eaten by a locust. Tormented by jezebel. Drained. My body weak and long suffering. Father will thou hear me. Do thou still love me and love me and love me. For thou crying not wanting to give up on you.

    • @viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154
      @viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154 4 года назад

      I don't know if this will help you.
      But look at these verses.
      Saul hated and persecuted Christians:
      Acts 8: 3. As for Saul, he made havock of the church, entering into every house, and haling men and women committed them to prison.
      Acts 9: 1. And Saul, yet breathing out threatenings and slaughter against the disciples of the Lord, went unto the high priest,
      Then later:
      Acts 9: 20. And straightway he preached Christ in the synagogues, that he is the Son of God.
      If God who loved even this man who strongly hated Christians and changed him, how much so does He loves you? God loves you beyond your comprehension don't worry.
      If you've been having bad thoughts, my practical advice is that the mind will pump thoughts nonstop but God gave men authority over the mind. You can choose what subject to think about. Choose something. Also learning in this time is really good to keep the mind going. Don't let it empty or it'll fill itself with whatever it wants. How much is 54 + 22 + 7? If you did the math you had to use your mind as a tool. Use it.
      God bless you and give you peace!

    • @krxis1109
      @krxis1109 4 года назад +1

      @@viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154 So its my mind that is mess up? Yes lately i been having negative thoughts. I take pills for my illness. But the new sleeping pills that i have taken doesn't make me sleepy or slow down my mind. So i will have to talk to my Doctor about it. I keep feeling bad over bad habits. But i need to stop. These negative thoughts affecting my mind. My mind serge into my thoughts then affects my body? Sometime i cry out to God and hear him also Jesus. But using logic isn't God. We suppose to use God wisdom and discerment.

    • @viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154
      @viniciusmagalhaeshorta7154 4 года назад

      @@krxis1109 I believe so.
      You see, God helps us spiritually but emotionally and intellectually also. You can also do practical physical stuff too is what I mean.
      The KJV Bible is certainly fun to read. The book of acts is very interesting after you get engaged and have a map of that time to see where the apostles were. (You can just Google it and there's many images available). There are lots of cool stuff like a boy that fell profoundly asleep during a Paul's long speech (he talked up to midnight or more) and fell from a high place and died and Paul had to go resurrect the boy!😂🤣
      Genesis is quite fun, how it all came to this. There's funny passages like when the Lord came down incarnated with two angels and said Sarah would have a baby(she was quite old) and she chuckled inside. And God asked her why she chuckled and she said she didn't but the Lord said :"oh yes, you did". In the new testament it says that when Abraham begat he was 'as good as dead' haha. The gospels are a lot about Jesus teachings and His life for us and we can harness from His personality also. The Epistles are for exhortation and comforting. Revelation is about the end. So the stories are pretty cool and what I'd suggest, 1-2 Samuel and 1-2 Kings. Lots of really cool stories. Aside that you could download Duolingo if you want to, and learn a new language, it's quite fun. Or learn a new skill. Painting, drawing, solving puzzles...idk. You would best know something that you like doing and is enjoyable regardless of what anyone else thinks. But I do suggest that you work and occupy your mind with something good for the moment. God bless you very very much!

  • @johnhealy4647
    @johnhealy4647 4 года назад

    What about opening our hearts to God the father? How most of the "fathers" in our lives have killed that potential?

  • @ISing4Jesus6353
    @ISing4Jesus6353 6 месяцев назад

    So if me and this guy are just really good friends, should I be opening my heart to him to see if there's more there?

  • @michailajordinne4373
    @michailajordinne4373 4 года назад

    How? The case differs on gender, norms and race. I'm a girl. If a man somehow make you feel something as such, you need reassurance but it is need to be from the words of a guy and not just in action. Sometimes, feelings might change so it is hard to open up just like that. I somehow trust the person but i dont trust human nature.

  • @shearwood757
    @shearwood757 4 года назад

    0:00 only a Sith deals in absolutes

  • @HudjamMan
    @HudjamMan 4 года назад

    I cannot even get someone to talk to me or like me.

  • @oyenkachiboguw5624
    @oyenkachiboguw5624 4 года назад +1

    Ain't gat no trust

  • @gggsonysony6444
    @gggsonysony6444 4 года назад

    Prise the lord everyone brothers and sisters some people disappointed me you don't get marriage that's better for you They told me but i am totally confused plzz prayer for me and answer me totally I am confused 😔😔

  • @oyenkachiboguw5624
    @oyenkachiboguw5624 4 года назад

    Ain't love with anyone else

  • @ryry9319
    @ryry9319 4 года назад

    What if she got a boyfriend but she ain’t married lolz

  • @colerogers3681
    @colerogers3681 4 года назад +1

    Bad idea before, bad idea in the future. Can't trust outsiders.

  • @FantasyLord19
    @FantasyLord19 4 года назад

    Look at all the models in your video, having a perfect relationship with the perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. As if it would be hard to open up if you were able to find such person or the person you actually like in the first place 🙄

  • @oyenkachiboguw5624
    @oyenkachiboguw5624 4 года назад +1

    I don't need relationshit