"If you don't want a relationship with me, it's your loss." What does she lose exactly? There's nothing to lose and very little to gain. You're entire family sounds like they would Preach about being good people, than piss on the homeless.
If he brings something good to your familial relationship sure, but if there's nothing to use and they simply won't take in account they are the problem, then no, your sperm donor is useless.
S1: run. get away from this relationship. no one in that family is healthy in any way and should not be in any relationship. as for the brother, he can't be helped and will always act like a child. I feel bad for bf because he seems like a nice guy with a toxic family who will make sure he is single
I never met my sperm donor. I didn't find him until after he died. I was so incredibly angry that he cheated me out of telling him off. But ducking out and cheating is all he ever did. F him! Good job OP! Well done.
Good thing the OP has a chance to really examine what his life would be like with this woman before years down the road and it ends with a nasty expensive divorce.
doesn’t matter you need boundaries with anyone he’s not a good man if he lets another women even if she’s marrying his bother touch all over him and stuff like that’s disrespectful to the max and ppl don’t get it and won’t stop there inappropriate things it doesn’t matter how many years you have known some one five min five weeks or years it’s gross and over stepping
OP is seriously spineless. Stands there while FSIL paws her man. The last woman that I knew who pawed on her cousin (by marriage) was 1st warned: Touch my man again, I will break your bones. About 6 months later at a family BBQ, the gal forgot her warning. She ended up with 2 broken wrists and 1 broken knee.
#4. he made a mistake. his partner sounds like she is bats*** crazy somehow. but i'll bet he ignored all the red flags. sounds like she can't drop her caretaker role. she has telegraphed she cannot be relied on or depended on. sister stubs her toe she will have to rush over to kiss the booboo. I'm thinking the sister got tired of this. frankly, I would have the marriage annulled.
The only catholics that preach are hypocrites because the people that preach don't even follow what Jesus truly preach witch is being kind love one another and help people.
Elegant_Eclipse777 here! I like how you told my story. Honestly, i didnt think my story was interesting enough to be retold on youtube but im glad you did tell it. I hope my story can be some form of strength to those in my situation. I waited 31 years for some form of a relationship with my sperm donor only to be disappointed. Whether i regret it or not thats something i have to deal with in the future. For now, im just living my life the best way that i can. I enjoyed your video and i hope everyone has a good day ❤❤
Great job for standing up for yourself and setting clear boundaries. How did you feel after telling your side of the story to your boyfriend's family? Do you think there's a way to resolve this conflict with them while maintaining your self-respect?
I'm thoroughly confused, wtf with that first story? The inlaws sound batshit nuts and why the bf still wants contact is incredible, to me. Good loooord.
"This is the best relationship I've ever been in" is almost never followed up with a description of a healthy relationship
Its really pitiful that a relationship like that is the healthiest to a person
Exactly. She needs to move on, keep working on herself, and find a better future relationship. There is a veritable bouquet of red flags here.
Really easy to be the best when the bar is so low it's scraping the ground.
‘Best’ and ‘least bad’ need to be significantly more distinct expressions despite technically meaning the same thing.
'she wants to know why there are second thoughts??'.. bugs bunny: 'what a marroon'
In the words of a wise man...
GET OUT!
"If you don't want a relationship with me, it's your loss." What does she lose exactly? There's nothing to lose and very little to gain. You're entire family sounds like they would Preach about being good people, than piss on the homeless.
If he brings something good to your familial relationship sure, but if there's nothing to use and they simply won't take in account they are the problem, then no, your sperm donor is useless.
Op definately needs to tap out of this relationship. It's only going to get worse.
"She was needed..." No she wasn't. There was an entire family there, Tanya was not required.
worst of all it didn't seem like she was wanted
S1: run. get away from this relationship. no one in that family is healthy in any way and should not be in any relationship. as for the brother, he can't be helped and will always act like a child. I feel bad for bf because he seems like a nice guy with a toxic family who will make sure he is single
I never met my sperm donor. I didn't find him until after he died.
I was so incredibly angry that he cheated me out of telling him off.
But ducking out and cheating is all he ever did.
F him!
Good job OP! Well done.
Deadbeat dad: mom was on point. If I was op I would tell Dad, you'll b ok then block.
Story 2 here sister even kicked her out and she still wanted to be as close as possible OPs ex has issues to say the least.
Good thing the OP has a chance to really examine what his life would be like with this woman before years down the road and it ends with a nasty expensive divorce.
He's a bf, you can leave.
everything starts so normal but it is amazing how the simmering bottom scum gets stirred up when the surface crud gets stirred up
doesn’t matter you need boundaries with anyone he’s not a good man if he lets another women even if she’s marrying his bother touch all over him and stuff like that’s disrespectful to the max and ppl don’t get it and won’t stop there inappropriate things it doesn’t matter how many years you have known some one five min five weeks or years it’s gross and over stepping
OP is seriously spineless. Stands there while FSIL paws her man. The last woman that I knew who pawed on her cousin (by marriage) was 1st warned: Touch my man again, I will break your bones. About 6 months later at a family BBQ, the gal forgot her warning. She ended up with 2 broken wrists and 1 broken knee.
Supporting your parents in their delusional beliefs and unconscionable actions doesn't honor them at all.
#2. tell sperm donor to go do what is anatomically impossible
Sounds like Christmas at my ma's house to be honest. wasn't till I met my exes family that I realised this isn't how families normally work.
Story 1 - Uh, I don't want to be involved with this family. Just, don't. I don't need that kind of a boyfriend.
I really like content like this, it sounds so fascinating!
Story #1:
BiL = SIMP 💯😮💨🙄😐😒
People are crazy lol
#4. he made a mistake. his partner sounds like she is bats*** crazy somehow. but i'll bet he ignored all the red flags. sounds like she can't drop her caretaker role. she has telegraphed she cannot be relied on or depended on. sister stubs her toe she will have to rush over to kiss the booboo. I'm thinking the sister got tired of this. frankly, I would have the marriage annulled.
The only catholics that preach are hypocrites because the people that preach don't even follow what Jesus truly preach witch is being kind love one another and help people.
3rd OP was called an Ahole for not understanding? Might as well call Marie an Ahole too because she's on the same boat as OP lmao
Elegant_Eclipse777 here! I like how you told my story. Honestly, i didnt think my story was interesting enough to be retold on youtube but im glad you did tell it. I hope my story can be some form of strength to those in my situation. I waited 31 years for some form of a relationship with my sperm donor only to be disappointed. Whether i regret it or not thats something i have to deal with in the future. For now, im just living my life the best way that i can. I enjoyed your video and i hope everyone has a good day ❤❤
third story does OP's SO have an alligator purse
The AI reader saying XX as "Roman Twenty" is unintentionally cool as hell.
Great job for standing up for yourself and setting clear boundaries. How did you feel after telling your side of the story to your boyfriend's family? Do you think there's a way to resolve this conflict with them while maintaining your self-respect?
yeah how dare you come into our frozen family dynamic of weird SIL pron fantasies and make things awkward by pointing out the obvious!!!!1eleventyone!
I'm thoroughly confused, wtf with that first story? The inlaws sound batshit nuts and why the bf still wants contact is incredible, to me. Good loooord.
Bro in the third stories pretty based