If Jeezy were with a BLACK woman he would still be considered a thug to this community so that’s what we’re going to call him. Stay on code ladies. Thanks for listening❤️
Why are we submitting to our creations? Men are our children? Do you submit to a security guard for protection or does the guard just do his job? There's no purpose to submit to anyone. Thats giving them power over you.
@mizzmolly so let's kill our husband so we can chill is basically what you're saying. And the funny thing is that's exactly what they were created for. So what do we call someone who does all the heavy lifting so we can twirl in our pretty dresses? Slaves or children. Now I call them our creations because the woman was 1st here and they came from us. They start their lives off as women. Women need to connect back to their divine femininity and talk to their ancestors. No where in any tribal culture was a woman submitting. We are warriors, mothers, healers. Why would you submit to a person that can even submit to nature and the divine feminine within themselves. They don't even understand you nor seek to.
Newsflash sweetheart..BM next to WM are the MOST sought out over all other races of men when it comes to dating and marriage. We BW are the least sought out when it comes to MEN across all of the demographics. BM are winning these days and more BW are in the middle of the ocean with deflating life vests on. Who is going to save them??
@@alextroy9202 Check out Black Demographics and better yet go check out Kevin Samuels.. he has countless videos explaining this in full detail. Non BM are sleeping with you in high numbers, that doesn't equal Marriage. What planet are you BW from?? I wished my parents were non black, so that I wouldn't have to share the same skin color as some of you off brand broads. We as BW get lumped together in most cases and I go through absolute hell when I have to constantly prove that I don't think, or act like the majority of you all do. We are our own selves and it is so easy to see why so many BW are in the middle of the dang ocean with deflating life vests on. Read more and work on your nasty attitude...you're one of the main reasons why BM or any other Man don't look to us for Marrying.
Earth Reign I know you are a black men pretending to be a bw & trying to discourage bw. black women ARE marrying out more. Plus you listen to Kevin Samuels who hates bw and doesn’t want wasn’t best for us. You are truly pathetic and sorry for you
Chrissie i want to thank you for openin my eyes. I am a 29 year old South African woman and a chartered accountant making 7 figures. When i first started dating after qualifying i dated down boo. My ex was living in my house, eating my food, demanding an allowance etc😭 and he expected me to be submissive, it was bad. I let that dusty go, after watching your vids and realising i was selling myself short. South African men push this idea of struggle love and expect black women to date them and label us gold diggers if we want more. I am now dating, for over a year, an 38 yr old black man who is an executive, no baby mamas, also making 7 figures, girl he gives me an allowance, even though i make 7 figures, he provides, courts me, dates me and treats me good, and i submit to him naturally, because i know he has my best interests at heart, and can finally rest in my femininity. However, i had to be intentional with ensuring i found a high value man. Ladies, dont ever sell yourself short. Only submit to a man who allows you to rest in your femininity.
@Get Those Nuts Away From My Face yes, all dusties call us gold diggers because we wanna be hypergamous. Another once asked me if I will give him money because my family well off compared to his. No ✋BYE, I'm not paying a grown man ish lol.
Im so exhausted at this point. Im just over black men. I used to be mad or upset anytime I saw them with other races, now I advocate for them to stay the hell away from me.
Could you please explain to be why you used to be mad or upset when you saw them with other races. I’m a black woman but I’ve never felt this way and I’d just like to know why? Genuine question.
@@heyamina7043 I feel this way as well. I think the difference though is that I was always interested in other races in addition to blk guys. I grew up around more non blk people so seeing blk men prefer non black women didn't really feel like a loss because they weren't the only ones I wanted to be with. Although I will say there have been blk guys who tried to make me feel insecure by talking about how they don't like blk girls or giving pics of other race of women compliments (while ignoring the blk girl pics) in front of you. Little did they know that I wasn't one of those 'nothing but a black man' chicks. It's a little confusing if you don't relate but if you think about it, if a blk woman is only trying to date blk guys and all she sees is blk guys with non blk women it'll probably be more personal for her. I do think that most blk women regardless of their preferences are still negatively affected by the hostility towards them though.
I’m tired of men crying about submission. If your woman isn’t submitting to you, YOU’RE THE PROBLEM. EDIT: just rewatched the video and I noticed that Jeannie said “men inherently, IF YOU’VE GOT A GOOD MAN, want to lead and want to protect you.” BM on RUclips have said numerous times they don’t want to protect so according to Jeannie herself, they’re disqualified. Again, why are these BM youtubers begging for submission?
Stephen Baller don’t do that as if chrissie doesn’t hold black women accountable all the time. The fact of the matter is that a man that is truly a MAN will not have to beg a woman for submission. If you’re having a difficult time with the women in your life, perhaps ask other men to help you on your level up journey 😘
They actually feel that they're supposed to automatically just get submission without them doing anything that a real man is supposed to do. they don't realize that submission is not a given it has to be earned and a majority of them are doing absolutely nothing to earn a BW's submission!
It’s funny because I remember people just roasting Jay Z like a month ago because he used to sell drugs to the black community. When I brought up that lots of BM rappers sold drugs, even Tupac, then folks cried and told me to shut up lol. They pick and choose when they want to be offended by drug dealing. They literally turn around and praise rappers like lil Wayne and Future rapping about lean and smoking pot 24/7.
Jay Z too was once a drug dealer and now he's been married for the last 12 years w/ 3 kids. Yeah he cheated on B but powerful men having an affair is nothing new. The Kennedys made their fortune through illegal alcohol & I don't see anyone devaluing them.
Exactly! When the hell did Jeanie’s skin get the same color as the other ladies on the panel. Damn is it a requirement to put on blackface just because you date black men? Jeanie Mai’s a clown and I can’t relate to darkening your skin dependent on the complexion of the guy you date. Lame
"He's a thug with money, nothing more" But don't most women like high earning men with edge? The bad boys with swag but can also provide and protect? Because that's what I see in society that even square guys, the lames, the incels, are complaining about women liking thugs and the bad boys.
Tommy T bm said choose better and stop being with gangstas so I guess it’s just advice being taken . They also said it’s gold digging to be with a men just because he has money so idk is it good digging or now is it just high value because they’re now with the “prize”
@@PrincessYonna1 think about the point i'm trying to make here. Lames and incels complain about women choosing thugs and bad boys because they can't get the women. They call women goldiggers when they choose high earning men because the women aren't choosing the broke men. They say something like "she's a goldigger, I don't want her anyway. She ain't taking my money" when they are clearly broke. Its a defense mechanism they use to feel better about themselves. Trust me, if broke dudes had money and "goldiggers" were choosing them, these broke dusties would not be whining about women. If these lame dudes and incels had game, they would not be complaining about the bad boys taking all the women. The original commentor posted that Jeezy is a thug, those women can have him. She uses that as a defensive mechanism to protect her ego. Historically, and even to this day, women tend to date guys who are "no good" because he has swag or money. That's what women like. The stats are there. But since the guy that they like didn't choose them, all of a sudden the women don't like him anyway because he was no good for them to begin with.
She’s basiclly said most black men are not feminine
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@@sacramentobakers559 she basically said black men are backseat drivers. countries with no running water or electricity, impoverished u.n. aid needing no vaccine no hospital having countries, countries with currency not worth putting on the stock market, countries with people who still have to slaughter the antelope, no navy, no military and no banks and technology talking about failure and no family structure I am at a loss for words sometimes when I see comments about women failing from naker incels.
naomi Exactly, rich dusties exist too. Also the clout she gets too. A lot of non bw in the entertainment industry can build careers off of who they are dating non Black or not or gain a career boost. Jeannie has had a successful career, but her profile has increased significantly and she has access to Black spaces and since Black culture is extremely profitable and popular she benefits. Since she started dating Jeezy, she’s all over Black blogs in addition to white ones. She now has access to a broader network. She was not getting invited to Tyler Perry gala events prior to her current relationship.
She was shading bw. Sorry,, but I'm old enough to remember a time when the excuse as to why bm were preferring nonbw is because of them being more submissive. Wouldn't be surprised if he told her this as well.
I definitely knew she was throwing stones, let her sit down give her 5yrs because that's when the marriages either make it or break it. It's her new love at the moment she will say and do anything in a new relationship.
I was thinking the same thing. Something about her and what she said doesn't sit right with me. She has revenge written all over her. She was either saying this to get back at her ex or it's like jeezy was telling her all the bullshit BM say about BW and she said what she did to make herself look good. Maybe she is more sadistic and was saying what she said to make BW look bad.
Men who love to quote the Christian perspective of marriage that women should submit to their husbands should also note that 1 Timothy 5:8 says 'But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel'. Women's submission is natural to men who lead. If your marriage and home leadership is lacking you will find women picking up the slack and filling in the role that you should be doing. You cannot expect your wife to fulfill both duties of the submissive and the leader at the same time. So men, make a choice. If you want submissive wives then lead from the front and provide for your families.
You should blame bw. Bw advertised them as the most desirable men based off the myth that they have bigger penises and are good at sex, nothing that we actually need from men.
Wasn’t B Simone ridiculed by everyone (INCLUDING black women) for wanting a man who is an entrepreneur (a man with money) but now an Asian woman being with a black man is getting all the praise (by black women) for saying she wants a dominant (essentially a man with money), providing man to submit to? Aren’t BOTH of their arguments valid??
jenf yes, she proceeded to explain that she wanted someone who is an entrepreneur because SHE is an entrepreneur. She said she wants someone who is on her level work ethic wise because they will “understand her lifestyle”. Why would she be ridiculed for saying a man who works a regular 9-5 doesn’t understand her lifestyle?
Jeannie strategically said this to try to shame Black women because she knows the stereotypes. She's never talked about being submissive before and any time I've seen that show she's acting ratchet.
Right! All of the time that she was married to her white husband she never once spoke about submission but now she "plans" submit to a thug , a felon and a baby daddy who created out of wedlock kids with different women? Whoo Child! LOL😁🙄
I love how she somehow got praised for this simultaneously breaking so many of the MGTOW rules that black males online claim are the rules for deciding and choosing worthy women 😂😂😅 Like being over age 30, divorced, leading masculine careers, not virginal or having less than 2 partners, getting turned out by a ex con, loud and opinionated, etc Very interesting how swiftly and randomly the goal posts move 🤔😂
Exactly, they’ll change the rules constantly to fit their narrative. Bottom line, they prefer non black women and will take them in whatever form they are over us.
Adele is allegedly dating a rapper too now. She can do better but hey, let these non black women take all these non desirable rappers who dont like us anyways.
That makes sense to me. A man with his own kids won’t pester you to have any. 😂 A step-mom isn’t the same as a mom. If her bf doesn’t have custody, then the most Jeanie would do is baby sit them occasionally.
I wonder if she will keep that same energy when/if her income has to go towards his child support payments lol. Just bc your “net worth” says one figure online doesn’t mean that you can withdraw those funds from your bank account.
Why is his not paying CS such a big factor to these women?? If it isn't your child then don't worry about it...are the mothers of his children homeless, or are his children living in Squalor?? If not then it is not to be discussed. Love is love and if he makes her happy, let them be. If she wants to submit to him, let her..at least she has a better chance of keeping him if she does. No man wants to argue & fight with Mike Tyson's little sister every night. I'm happy for them, maybe more BW should take a few pages out of their book on how to find, get and keep a man who will want to marry them eventually.
it is not crazy.. if you dont wan't kids and cant find a guy who wats the same. the next option is to get a divorcee with his own kids and doesnt want more.
Jeannie comes off as one of those gassed up non-black women who’ve been put on this imaginary pedestal by black men. She was mad messy, I believe she was low-key addressing black women with that comment of hers. I bet you she’s heard all of these complaints about black women’s so-called “lack of submission” from the black men she’s around 🙄
@@kkmccoy9428 They are racist against black men too. The "love" stops where the money, clout, and racial worship does. These women know these men feel non-black people are superior (and they feel the same), they get off on this. This woman knows her position in society is above that of this black man, it's easy to "role-play" submission when you know that in reality, this man is racially considered a second-class citizen. These women don't love BBC (some do, but it's MUCH deeper than that). I hope black women stop thinking everything is about sex and looks. These women would date a 4ft slimly, green alien if that alien had money, popularity, and/or constantly reaffirmed she was better than other women.
Are they running out of topics because we really didn’t need such an announcement. These celebrities are shouting stuff from the rooftops and then in 5 years time, they’ll be back here crying. Let’s keep some stuff private inside the couple.
I was thinking that to myself, let's watch and see. New relationships are always lovely, then kids come in the mix and then a few more years rolls by then that's when the real relationship starts, to after 5yrs that's when the hard works starts in a relationship. My opinion. So for her it's new plus no kids as yet.
mel jobson Lol so true, I was standing on all kinds of soap boxes at the beginning of a new relationship, thought I had all the wisdom. Wish I could go back in time and tell myself to shut the hell up 😂 Relationships never wind up being that easy or straightforward.
I think the conversation was about someone else talking about submission in relationships. Everyone else gave their commentary talking about the topic then Jeannie gave her two cents.
It's the same "narrative"Bm,tell thier nb partners these old wives tales and reasonings they date them instead.....fragile Ego feels stroked then they act as if they are thier bm saviors,Chile I don't even know why so many of us let's this egg them into this dumdass convo erytime!!!NB women use black men to inflate thier esteem after it has been"cripwalked "(,FREDDY moving on and g€tting what she claimed she never wanted to give anyway )on by thier true love.Thats when they come for the Esteem boosting blackmales .Let them submit and whatever else they do and see how that works out ....Have we ever seen any Sunset rides yet with these media shows..........I'LL WAIT⏳,and it's the same for the Men just vice versa,Two users deserve to use eachother and get out of the "GROWN"folks way.
@@nathaliesuazo588 Fr Fr I wish black men would leave me alone. Even though I’m mixed it’s like they expect me to date them, but I’ve always preferred white guys. Their behavior has always creeped me out, and I’m pretty reserved so my personality just clashes with most of them.
Black American men from my expirence have been the worst of the worst and I’m only 20 😭 the only BM who treated me like a queen was African men specifically west African thoes the only black men I’m checking for now a days
Diini A Unless it’s a BM with money or a future career that makes money, the majority of them choose WW that are overweight/obese. And there are plenty overweight/obese men. In USA majority are overweight/obese in any race or sex.
@@msbrit5178 no they don't men with more money tend to marry women that are fit or thin. 32% of white women are obese 34% of White men are obese and between 35% and 36% Black men are obese for Black women its between 60% and 80% obesity pandemic hit the black women population hard nice deflection though.
Diini A Read my first sentence. We are saying the same thing. Unless they have money. As for USA look those numbers up for recent data. USA is fat. And thought some are fat there is plenty of options for fit as well. Again you can can find fit or fat in everyone. What’s harder is financially stable and high priority driven individuals that are on the same level. Remember if you chose not to want a BW or BM you will find any and every excuse of why it’s hard. I don’t care about race I care about what the future holds.
@@msbrit5178 America is fat no doubt but in that category its BW that leads with 80% compared to white women with 32% America being fat won't excuse that the truth hurts
I find this kinda crazy , this will be her second marriage and I don’t remember all this from her first marriage but now she is with a whole dusty lol ( dusty with money) now she wanna give advice 😂🙄
Exactly this dude is probably gassing her head up telling her all these things and now thinks she can tell all and I RLLY believe she was low-key talking to black women with that "sisters" comment
Black Women and ACCOUNTABILITY are in two totally different countries then...we are the absolute worst when it comes to blaming BM for our problems. We have to look at ourselves first and foremost in several different mirrors and at all angles. BM are getting married, where are our rings at in high numbers?? In the dang bathtub....we have more baby showers and dang baby reveals going on in the black community these days than I care to admit. BW are divorcing in higher numbers as well so what is really going on?? We don't play well with others and most of us weren't raised to be wives, especially in the fatherless households. Call it what is...most BW of today, were brought up to serve God and your mom and her bf's plate. Most of you raised yourselves and learned the little you do know from the dudes you dated, their mother, or your grandmother. Most of us are NO PRIZE...from the lack of daddy "Issues" to the non existing counseling that you needed from your teenage years to now. Some of you BW are carrying the most hurt and pain around...come on now. We have things that we are dealing with and that we need to be healed from and delivered from. Quit putting all the blame on BM..at the end of the day most of the BW flat out refuse to see what is wrong with US...in high numbers may I add. I've exhaled
@@livewell-xt5xr thank you!😆🤦🏾♀️🙄 and im not blaming anyone for my problems I want to take accountability that’s why I’m watching Chrissie to begin with.
@@livewell-xt5xr Re-read my comment in it's entirety and then feel free to get back to me. I never said that I can't stand BW, I will admit that most of you all are impossible to talk to or get along with though. I have no black female friends for that exact reason also. I've tried hard through the years to be genuine friends with BW, however most of you all are just too messy and they always thought that they were better than me. When I wasn't dealing with those issues, they accused me of wanting their man..little did some of them know I had already banged their man before he got with them so it didn't bother me for real..they were getting my left overs. I can admit that I'm one of those women who didn't play well with others for a long time (MEN to be exact) and then one day everything changed. I started to hold myself accountable for my actions and my life and reinvented myself one step at a time. I had to change my thought process, the way that I did things..the whole 9 yards. I started meditating, going to the gym, traveling, going to counseling and reading anything that I could get my hands on. I no longer blame my parents or any other being for my past issues...it is better to face the truth than try to continously run from it. Once you deal with you thoroughly, then and only then will you be able to deal with someone else. I've exhaled
Submission is not free, it is earned. If you provide for your wife a life of comfort and happiness submission will happen naturally. You can't force women to submit to subpar men sorry not sorry. You get what you work for.
Chris J where did she say that she was using a man for resources? Is wanting comfort and happiness too much to ask for? I thought those were basic things that both women and men should give to each other. She’s saying that if you can provide comfort and happiness, then you will receive submission. If a woman couldn’t provide you a place of comfort and happiness you are not obligated to take care of her as well if those are the things you want in a relationship.
For 20 years of dating BM I was trying to fit a square peg into a round hole! I kept looking for a traditional relationship with BM and all that ever happened was me having to pick up more and more of the load. One guy even asked me for $20 for fuel 👀 (I have tons of similar stories, he wasn’t the only one). I’m now married to a WM who takes extreme pride and joy in giving me everything I want and need so it makes it easy to submit to him 🤷🏽♀️
ok so. I was dating a black man who when we were talking found out I date white men. He was self aware enough to admit to me he felt a way. Even though I was the first black woman he’s ever dated! He then said I just don’t have to worry about black guys but I got to worry about white men too?! ( he said it in a joking/ serious way) long story short women date within your race and out. Stop being so loyal. Make black men compete a bit.
Interesting speech, but wrong messenger Jeanie is a lighter skin Vietnamese woman who is desired by everyone because she fits this mold of desirability. Her idea of the word submission is totally different than most black women because black women are subjected to a different type of submissions. Plus she has said colorist things about black women any way. She know very well that her privilege as a light skin woman affords her with protection and a safe space from black men because many of them suffer from internalized anti blackness. Dark skin women like Loni is held to an entirely different expectation, men expect these women to cater them no matter how much pain they cause them because many men don't value black women and have this mindset that they should be grateful that any man would want them. No!! I am so glad that black women are establishing standards and standing their ground. Y'all deserve better men and better lives. For instance, Jeannie is Vietnamese and a lighter skin women because she is closer to whiteness and desired men give her the space to be feminine and relinquish control because the man is willing to take care of her. Black women on the other hand, are masculinized and forced to do everything within a relationship men view black women as men and they expect them to work, have kids, and do everything. Plus we also have to look at the fact that black women's submissions is viewed differently. When black women submit they are expected to submit to a man no matter what whether he is a good leader, bad leader, abusive, mean, or unambitious, broke, lazy, etc. Black women are forced to accept a man no matter what his status is and that's the difference. I know so many black women who are feminine, but as a black man we cannot tell black women to be feminine when we don't provide them the spaces to do so. How can she be girly when she is subjected to abuse, and harm on a daily basis. Men are the one's who subject black women to these masculinized positions. You can't expect our women to be girly when many of us don't even protect or value them as people. Also, Jeezy literally was awful to all the black women he dated, but now he has his stuff together when he dates the light skin woman how interesting.
Best comment. I'm not black and I obviously cannot speak from that angle but myfather was a hyper-mysognistic wife beater to my mom and this is how he treated her in the home. Expected her to do everything and treated her like dirt and mentally abused her. He destroyed her mind. So I believe in these papers dynamics because I've seen one unfold in front of my eyes growing up.
Her being lighter skinned Asian doesn't make her truly desirable. She is not Aryan blonde hair blue eyed whiteness so she is still less desirable than White people. Also, she is looked down upon in the Asian Community because she doesn't have a college degree is a high school dropout and has a criminal record and has tattoos. So she is not desired by her own Asian/Vietnamese people. Asians place high status on educational standards plus career choices being a makeup artist is a lowly career option even if she is "rich" now. She also comes from a poorer Asian family and born to a teenage mother which is looked down upon. She is not desired by her own and that's why she turns to BM.
I want to pray in solidarity with every woman reading this, may God bring you a loving, humble godly gentleman who is perfect for you and in the mean time, may God comfort you and continue to nurture you into who He wants you to be
A good leader will never have to ask his woman about submitting because it would automatically be done. That also applies in the workforce, good leaders never have to ask that question. We can rest in femininity and secure.
That’s exactly what I don’t understand... You don’t even want dark skin black women yet you don’t want them to date out.. make it make sense.. Ladies go where you’re celebrated.. burn the cape!!
Here is the thing, most black men want a submissive woman but they don’t want to do anything that goes with it. In general most black men are traditional and old fashioned but never in the ways that actually count. You can’t require 50/50 and also want a submissive woman it doesn’t equate.
I fell in love and married a white man. I’m happy I considered stepping out of my race. I have a great life and family. I never have to worry about money, being protected or loved like the queen that I am. No relationship is perfect but mines has been close for me for more than 5 years now. Looking forward to 20+ more.
Something about her and what she said doesn't sit right with me. She has revenge written all over her. She was either saying this to get back at her ex or it's like jeezy was telling her all the bullshit BM say about BW and she said what she did to make herself look good. Maybe she is more sadistic and was saying what she said to make BW look bad.
@ right but that isn't a part of her and isn't that what BM says they don't like about BW is their attitude but when nonBW have the same attitude it's cute.
@ her phenotype means nothing. In Asia someone like her wouldn't even be considered attractive because of looks. If you look at Asian standards of beauty she's not it. She is actually too dark to be considered attractive to East Asians. She can only get American non-Asian men. We need to stop thinking that the way we perceive beauty in the Black Community applies to Asians and other non-Blacks.
Jeannie Mai’s too dark to be considered attractive by East and Southeast Asian men, especially by Vietnamese men. Jeannie’s also older than 25, divorced, has been with at least one non-Vietnamese guy before (especially a non-Asian man), doesn’t conform to conventional Asian beauty and feminine standards, has a job that allows her to perform outside of conventional Asian feminine standards, and is likely not a “pure and innocent virgin”, so she would have a hard time finding an Asian male partner (that wouldn’t just use her and doesn’t have incel tendencies or “nice” guy syndrome). A lot of cis straight Vietnamese men hate non-mixed Vietnamese women and desire part-Vietnamese, East Asian, and non-Asian women. [Basically, a lot of Vietnamese men (especially if not mixed) like JT Tran love part-Vietnamese women like Ali Wong and hate non-mixed Vietnamese women like Kelly Marie Tran but a lot of part-Vietnamese women hate Vietnamese men because of the fetishization (and a lot of those guys turn out to be terrible partners). Mixed Vietnamese women are way more likely to have non-Vietnamese or non-Asian male partners than non-mixed Vietnamese women, yet non-mixed Vietnamese women get harassed a lot more for dating/marrying out than mixed Vietnamese women do. Note that Asian women in general, especially ones that are born and raised in non-Asian countries, have a hard time finding Asian male partners that are both decent, financially stable, on their level, and don’t have incel tendencies or “nice” guy syndrome. This issue is magnified more in some Asian ethnicities than others.] To be honest though, I highly doubt Jeannie is actually submissive to her current boyfriend/husband as she claims to be. If she wasn’t submissive back then, why would she be submissive now? If she actually believed in being submissive to her man, she would have been married (most likely to a Vietnamese man) a long time ago and not get divorced (regardless of whether that marriage is good or bad). To be honest though, I don’t think her relationship with Jeezy is going to last long because they don’t seem to be on the same level. If his history with women is true, he is probably going to cheat on her. Plus, a lot of financially stable Asian women who are either divorced, widowed, or not married by the age of 25-29 usually end up single in the end. Unlike white women, very rarely do Asian women remarry, let alone remarry more than one time, or have opportunities to date as much as white women do.
Chile smh didn’t Fantasia say this.. what tf is the difference!! also I feel so bad for her first husband.. CLEALY she did NOT want that man and he wasted all those years with her because her attitude towards submission was way different..
Jeanie is willing to submit to jeezy because he is worth $10 million dollars, he is rich. Fantasia was submitting to a dusty. This is just a classic case of hypergamy. Jeanie mae is only worth $1 million. This is hypergamy.
It’s because Fantasia was submitting to a felon whom she just met after a few weeks.... he is considered a “dusty” and she put him in charge of her finances.
I felt bad for her husband because she roasted that man every chance she got on the older episodes. She would constantly lust after BM and tell the world how much she hated her husband, Freddie. It was foul.
Great ending message by Chrissie! She's right about everything. BM compete with BW, and BM want women who contribute financially. Since I started leveling up, BM friends suddenly want a relationship.
I think she and Jeezy have been watching the “hotep” sector of RUclips lol. I also think she may have been shading his other baby mommas because she got “the ring”, not thinking he was engaged to one of his baby mommas and they ended up not getting married. Get married first before you start giving marriage advice. These celebs kill me dating, engaged or being married for five minutes trying to give relationship advice smh. I put in 19 years but I don’t give advice unless I’m asked or participating in a social media post.
Black men never tell nonblack women to "choose better" because them "choosing better" means choosing men that aren't them. Be aware of the mental gymnastics that are being shown, ladies.
I don’t think submission has ever been a negative connotation, I think the problem came when certain type of men were taking advantage of that position to lead and mistreat women. it just really depends on what type of men you associate with, and I would say both genders just have problems on identifying what needs to be done or not in a relationship nowadays.
I agree. I do not recall thinking that submission was something negative. It always blew my mind when I heard others confuse it with controlling and being forceful or even telling people that a woman can learn to submit when a man was not worthy of it.
Al Kahinat yeah I understand what you mean, the thing with religious context is that even in the Bible it also mentions that the men should love their wife as Christ loved the church, but for some reason they never mention it which just causes women to rebel a lot because over all it just feels very one sided and for the slavery context, we haven’t healed from it and that ptsd is making black men to crave that submission in order to feel important and respected after many years of embarrassment, but then again it’s not fair to BW who went through the same stuff as them which a lot don’t seem to understand.
Diamon. I completely understand your point. I’ve personally never heard my parents mention it too and they’re very traditional as well. If you really pay attention to the men who mention submission a lot, they’re very insecure and are equivalent to the feminists they seem to hate so much lol.
She learned her lesson lol. Someone told me women naturally submit to the right man. Her first husband was emasculated by her because he was a push over and probably didn't provide as much.
What’s funny is that men (and some black women) will shade Loni’s man because he ain’t a Henry Cavill but Loni’s man matches her in money and looks. Loni is in her correct lane to hear them tell it any other time.
black men have the highest divorce rate when it comes to marrying non-black women. Chrissie mentioned it in this video and look at Jeannie and Jeezy now.
I really don't understand where I am being led to? What's the obsession with the term ''submission''. Why can't we just have a partnership? He can contribute to areas that he is fit to lead in and I do the same as well. Why is the term ''leadership'' even considered masculine in the first place? Lol, also, why do people keep bringing up those same 3 sentences in the Bible about women submitting to their husbands? The Bible also mentioned how we should remain virgins until marriage but nobody is bringing that up, so let's not cherry-pick when it's convenient. We also shouldn't generalize men and say they were born to lead and this is their inherent desire. All men are not fit to lead because many have not learned to. Just like all women are not naturally submissive we are taught that through enculturation. Both men and women can have feminine and masculine characteristics. Everything that we are, we have learned within our environment, upbringing, and society. Some traits may come easier to some, yes. But ultimately, women that want to be submissive should do so without trying to persuade or force others to do the same. What works for YOUR relationship may not work for someone else's.
@g7dmother •}:{• Mostly men and women of the church that like to use the Bible as a weapon. I grew up in the church and it's always used to justify submission.
It's "funny" that when she was with that White man her skin color was white or more pale looking. Now since she's with a Black man her skin tone is darker or more tan. Chile please lol.
First off, how the hell is Jeezy a high value ,man? I guarantee if Tamara had said this about her white husband man dusties and pickmes everywhere would be crying from the mountain tops. God forbid Loni Love had came out and said it. It would be a bunch of people mad as a damn boogabear. Honestly this is a conversation for broke mfs that have no power. The submission speak goes along with the endless memes of " who get the biggest piece of chicken and who gets served first, your husband or kids? Real men that require a traditional woman are usually traditional themselves and not about to beg a woman to scream from the rooftop she is a submissive woman. I noticed that the people that are usually happy in their marriages and go the distance is the ones that get along great and know their traditional roles.
Jeezy couldn't lead anyone out of a paper bag! It's not about equality in a relationship or marriage because men and women are different by design. It's more about equity.
I just find it interesting that when Jeannie and Freddy - a white man - were together she always spoke about them being equals and what not. Never any talk about submission. But now that she is with a black man submission is now a huge part of her discussion as it relates to their relationship. hmmm
A lot of these same men on RUclips complaining about black women not “submitting” aren’t even giving us anything to submit to in the first place, but nobody wants to talk about that right? ☕️👌🏾 great video, Chrissie! 💕
As a pro traditionalism, pro femininity woman, I agree with Jeannie's statement. That's my ideal marriage dynamic, too. But submission should only be reserved for high quality, masculine men. If you don't take charge of your own life as a man, why should a woman give into you? Be cautious, ladies.
Wrong. Egalitarian marriages is the standard and has always been. Actually I studied this in my religion and gender class. The answer is that about 5000 years ago, we transitioned from hunter-gatherer, egalitarian, interdependent societies to patriarchal societies. This was a direct result of men controlling the means of food production in the society. We started cultivating wheat, through the creation of large scale agriculture production. Once we started growing wheat, women were no longer needed for their support. In hunter gatherer societies, women provided majority of the food supply. Hunting was not always reliable, so we survived on nuts and berries. Both men and women had to contribute to the food supply in order to ensure the protection and survival of the species. Once we started cultivating wheat, men were able to completely remove women from the food production, i.e. economy, and women were forced into homes for domestic labor. This is also, from a religious tradition perspective, when you start to see the removal of female God's ( Asherah, isis, Lilith) etc. If you look at a lot of the Eastern religions, there's a balance in power with the gods. Their male gods or female gods, the Yin and the Yang. There's always that balance. There is another layer that adds to this as well. Because humans had not previously cultivated wheat and other crops on such a massive scale, they did not know that overworking the soil would lead to soil degradation. Once the soil went bad, we started to shift to livestock production versus crop production. It's actually what the story of Cain and Abel is about. It's allegory for this battle between animal herders and crop producers. It is about the suppression and removal of female goddess. Asherah, along with Astarte and Anath, was one of the three great goddesses of the Canaanite (descendants of Cain) pantheon. In Canaanite religion her primary role was that of mother goddess. Cain was cast out for killing his brother because his land wasn't producing (due to soil degradation), so the gods associated with it were cast out. The same way politicians today will blame immigrants for a failing economy. As you start to see the old gods failing to provide for humans, you have the shift. They shift to remove the female gods. You see women being pushed into the homes for domestic labor because they were no longer needed in the field. You have this massive shift and development of the patriarchy. Now, technology has freed women from being solely dependent on men. The decline in people's commitment to religious tradition is freeing women as well. I don't think we'll ever get back to the full recognition of the feminine divine but we will damn sure find it in ourselves.
And I think Jeezy has definitely used Jeannie to rehabilitate his image from the thug dude as well. Trying to position himself in different circles and she helps with thag
Yes he is rehabing his image so he can get on television, maybe get a podcast, end up in a comedy movie. Then he'll divorce Jeannie and they will have a kid for publicity even though she said she never wanted any.
Jeanie Mai is talking out the side of her neck. She said she is a dominant woman. (Operating in her masculine all the time) She said going into her marriage she WANTS to submit to her husband. She wants to come home and submit. Her man is not taking the lead naturally. She is letting him take the lead. She is ALLOWING him some room to feel like he is being submitted to. She just basically said she wants to come home and submit after a long day of being the dominant one. Basically she gon do what most working women in a 50/50 relationship do she gon wrok full time and be a boss then come home and cater to her man so he can feel like the king in THEIR castle. She is gonna come home and play "Cater to you" by Destiny's Child and pretend she is being submissive to Jeezy. lol Girrrrl byeeeee.
I love your content Chrissie, I’m not a black woman but a lot of what you talk about reminds me of how it is in Hawaii, local men love white women and local women are viewed as not feminine or submissive just as you say in your videos. I couldn’t put my finger on why I was so drawn to your channel even if these videos are specifically addressing black women.
Brown Becky it is similar to what Chrissie explains in a lot of her videos, that local women are loud or scrappy/aggressive, dominant in relationships but . But most (like more than 97%) local people are a big mix of ethnicities anyway, be it Hawaiian, Filipino, white, or Hawaiian, Chinese, Japanese and Filipino and Portuguese. Local men’s first preference is usually not a local girl unless she’s a mix and has certain features of what you see in a Hawaiian model calendar. So they are part white with thick long wavy hair and a flat stomach, a tiny waist and a smaller facial structure. The double standards are what have always bothered me. Just the culture of local people reminds me sometimes of what she speaks on. I have several friends that have this dilemma with their husbands/partners, and I’ve experienced it myself when I was in school. Also my boyfriend has also confirmed he knows for a fact that local guys do not prefer local girls a lot of times. The way Chrissie refers to “low value” men and “high value” men reminds me of the local guys here as well. But back to an earlier point, most local people have a mix of different ethnicities anyway, so whether they are Hawaiian or just someone raised in the local culture that has no Hawaiian bloodline, I found it relatable to what Chrissie talks about.
When people say black women aren’t traditional I think about a lot of women I grew up seeing in Africa. Those women do it all in their homes. Cook, clean, take care of their husbands etc. This is the reason why I believe people should travel to different continents at least once
When I was coming up in the South, in the US black women cook, clean, raise the kids, take care of his other kids and were in church on Sunday in their best! These men are gaslighting saying black women don’t submit.
Black women are just not with them. The same way black women have to within yourself wonder why they attract masculine men is the same thing black men need to do to wonder why they can’t attract feminine submissive women. Self reflection
@24:08 "So level up mind, body and soul, tap into your femininity and attract and manifest the best man for the job that is worthy of submitting to". Thank you Chrissie! I needed to hear that today! 💜
Jeannie is not a submissive asian woman whatsoever. Her last marriage didn't work out because she out earned her man and was dominant. She admits to this herself. Most men, if they've watch Jeannie on TV, they can clearly see that she is not submissive naturally. She is being submissive in her new relationship probably because her new man makes more money and she realizes where she went wrong in her last relationship. Those men are making assumptions about her without doing their research lol!
@@brittanyluvsyouso Yeah she talked about it a few times. Then he left and announced getting another women pregnant which sparked rumors of infidelity.
If Jeezy were with a BLACK woman he would still be considered a thug to this community so that’s what we’re going to call him. Stay on code ladies. Thanks for listening❤️
Chrissie please tell me you saw the Russian lady setting that Black man straight in a recent viral video❓😂😂
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Oh I didn't link.....ruclips.net/video/cXVKY0-yLTI/видео.html I'm sorry. Trying to find the original source. Burst his little bubble chile😂😂
I understand where she’s coming from. But if you’re going to submit to a man, make sure you’re submitting to someone that’s worth submitting to.
And dont submit to a man who earns less. That is so toxic. In order for me to be submissive he has to be a provider
Why are we submitting to our creations? Men are our children? Do you submit to a security guard for protection or does the guard just do his job? There's no purpose to submit to anyone. Thats giving them power over you.
Absolutely, but we know not many are worry to submit to especially BM sorry not many out there are worth even talking to.
@@corinthia1431 preach
@mizzmolly so let's kill our husband so we can chill is basically what you're saying. And the funny thing is that's exactly what they were created for. So what do we call someone who does all the heavy lifting so we can twirl in our pretty dresses? Slaves or children. Now I call them our creations because the woman was 1st here and they came from us. They start their lives off as women. Women need to connect back to their divine femininity and talk to their ancestors. No where in any tribal culture was a woman submitting. We are warriors, mothers, healers. Why would you submit to a person that can even submit to nature and the divine feminine within themselves. They don't even understand you nor seek to.
“Stop complaining about black women not being feminine, when you’re not even trying to be masculine” 😬 the truth is cold y’all
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Where are my (our) architects, city planners,contractors, lawyers,doctors, and so on......I didn't think so?
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@@earthreign Don't even.
Never been this early and I consider this a personal achievement.
Hey I love your channel thank you 😍❤😊👍🏼
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“They compete with us because they can’t compete with men of other races..... it’s the only way they feel powerful.”
THIS IS A WORD!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yup! They get nervous and scared when other races of men come around
Newsflash sweetheart..BM next to WM are the MOST sought out over all other races of men when it comes to dating and marriage. We BW are the least sought out when it comes to MEN across all of the demographics. BM are winning these days and more BW are in the middle of the ocean with deflating life vests on. Who is going to save them??
Earth Reign that’s a LIE. And you know it smh you know damn well BW are sought after by all men, non BW are interested in us
@@alextroy9202 Check out Black Demographics and better yet go check out Kevin Samuels.. he has countless videos explaining this in full detail. Non BM are sleeping with you in high numbers, that doesn't equal Marriage. What planet are you BW from?? I wished my parents were non black, so that I wouldn't have to share the same skin color as some of you off brand broads. We as BW get lumped together in most cases and I go through absolute hell when I have to constantly prove that I don't think, or act like the majority of you all do. We are our own selves and it is so easy to see why so many BW are in the middle of the dang ocean with deflating life vests on. Read more and work on your nasty attitude...you're one of the main reasons why BM or any other Man don't look to us for Marrying.
Earth Reign I know you are a black men pretending to be a bw & trying to discourage bw. black women ARE marrying out more. Plus you listen to Kevin Samuels who hates bw and doesn’t want wasn’t best for us. You are truly pathetic and sorry for you
Chrissie i want to thank you for openin my eyes. I am a 29 year old South African woman and a chartered accountant making 7 figures. When i first started dating after qualifying i dated down boo. My ex was living in my house, eating my food, demanding an allowance etc😭 and he expected me to be submissive, it was bad. I let that dusty go, after watching your vids and realising i was selling myself short. South African men push this idea of struggle love and expect black women to date them and label us gold diggers if we want more. I am now dating, for over a year, an 38 yr old black man who is an executive, no baby mamas, also making 7 figures, girl he gives me an allowance, even though i make 7 figures, he provides, courts me, dates me and treats me good, and i submit to him naturally, because i know he has my best interests at heart, and can finally rest in my femininity. However, i had to be intentional with ensuring i found a high value man. Ladies, dont ever sell yourself short. Only submit to a man who allows you to rest in your femininity.
Hey fellow South Africa. I agree with you Chrissie is doing the Lord's work...she has helped me a lot
they call us slay queens & gold diggers🤣
those dusties target women with their life together & all they have to offer you are compliments about how you work so hard & are independant
Does your man have a brother? I'm in Jozi btw
@Get Those Nuts Away From My Face yes, all dusties call us gold diggers because we wanna be hypergamous. Another once asked me if I will give him money because my family well off compared to his. No ✋BYE, I'm not paying a grown man ish lol.
Im so exhausted at this point. Im just over black men. I used to be mad or upset anytime I saw them with other races, now I advocate for them to stay the hell away from me.
Me too.
Could you please explain to be why you used to be mad or upset when you saw them with other races. I’m a black woman but I’ve never felt this way and I’d just like to know why? Genuine question.
@@heyamina7043 I feel this way as well. I think the difference though is that I was always interested in other races in addition to blk guys. I grew up around more non blk people so seeing blk men prefer non black women didn't really feel like a loss because they weren't the only ones I wanted to be with. Although I will say there have been blk guys who tried to make me feel insecure by talking about how they don't like blk girls or giving pics of other race of women compliments (while ignoring the blk girl pics) in front of you. Little did they know that I wasn't one of those 'nothing but a black man' chicks. It's a little confusing if you don't relate but if you think about it, if a blk woman is only trying to date blk guys and all she sees is blk guys with non blk women it'll probably be more personal for her. I do think that most blk women regardless of their preferences are still negatively affected by the hostility towards them though.
morbid dom oh my gosh that’s how I grew up too. It makes a bit of sense now. Ty
Me too Sis!
I’m tired of men crying about submission. If your woman isn’t submitting to you, YOU’RE THE PROBLEM.
EDIT: just rewatched the video and I noticed that Jeannie said “men inherently, IF YOU’VE GOT A GOOD MAN, want to lead and want to protect you.”
BM on RUclips have said numerous times they don’t want to protect so according to Jeannie herself, they’re disqualified. Again, why are these BM youtubers begging for submission?
Right. A woman will submit and buss it open for a black man who has his life together
Everyone’s the problem but yall😫🤡
Stephen Baller don’t do that as if chrissie doesn’t hold black women accountable all the time. The fact of the matter is that a man that is truly a MAN will not have to beg a woman for submission. If you’re having a difficult time with the women in your life, perhaps ask other men to help you on your level up journey 😘
They actually feel that they're supposed to automatically just get submission without them doing anything that a real man is supposed to do.
they don't realize that submission is not a given it has to be earned and a majority of them are doing absolutely nothing to earn a BW's submission!
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I still look at Jeezy as the “Snowman” he claimed to be. A whole drug dealer is what he perpetuated to the community for years.
😂😂I was soo confused when all this high value was used to describe him. 🤦🏽♀️I thought she got with someone else for a second.
It’s funny because I remember people just roasting Jay Z like a month ago because he used to sell drugs to the black community.
When I brought up that lots of BM rappers sold drugs, even Tupac, then folks cried and told me to shut up lol.
They pick and choose when they want to be offended by drug dealing.
They literally turn around and praise rappers like lil Wayne and Future rapping about lean and smoking pot 24/7.
Jay Z too was once a drug dealer and now he's been married for the last 12 years w/ 3 kids. Yeah he cheated on B but powerful men having an affair is nothing new. The Kennedys made their fortune through illegal alcohol & I don't see anyone devaluing them.
Exactly! When the hell did Jeanie’s skin get the same color as the other ladies on the panel. Damn is it a requirement to put on blackface just because you date black men?
Jeanie Mai’s a clown and I can’t relate to darkening your skin dependent on the complexion of the guy you date. Lame
I am milan there is a difference between high value in money and high value in character.
He's a thug with money, nothing more. She can keep him, because us classy BW over here don't.
"He's a thug with money, nothing more"
But don't most women like high earning men with edge? The bad boys with swag but can also provide and protect? Because that's what I see in society that even square guys, the lames, the incels, are complaining about women liking thugs and the bad boys.
We dont want him.... she will see why..
Tommy T bm said choose better and stop being with gangstas so I guess it’s just advice being taken . They also said it’s gold digging to be with a men just because he has money so idk is it good digging or now is it just high value because they’re now with the “prize”
@@PrincessYonna1 think about the point i'm trying to make here. Lames and incels complain about women choosing thugs and bad boys because they can't get the women. They call women goldiggers when they choose high earning men because the women aren't choosing the broke men. They say something like "she's a goldigger, I don't want her anyway. She ain't taking my money" when they are clearly broke. Its a defense mechanism they use to feel better about themselves. Trust me, if broke dudes had money and "goldiggers" were choosing them, these broke dusties would not be whining about women. If these lame dudes and incels had game, they would not be complaining about the bad boys taking all the women.
The original commentor posted that Jeezy is a thug, those women can have him. She uses that as a defensive mechanism to protect her ego. Historically, and even to this day, women tend to date guys who are "no good" because he has swag or money. That's what women like. The stats are there. But since the guy that they like didn't choose them, all of a sudden the women don't like him anyway because he was no good for them to begin with.
@@donald7723 u have a good day..
“Ask yourself: Why is it that other men can get feminine Black women but you can’t?” WHEW CHRISSIE ISSA WORD!!!!!!!
She’s basiclly said most black men are not feminine
@@sacramentobakers559 she basically said black men are backseat drivers.
countries with no running water or electricity, impoverished u.n. aid needing no vaccine no hospital having countries, countries with currency not worth putting on the stock market, countries with people who still have to slaughter the antelope, no navy, no military and no banks and technology talking about failure and no family structure I am at a loss for words sometimes when I see comments about women failing from naker incels.
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There is nothing wrong with submitting to your husband. But I wouldn't submit to someone like Young Jezzy. Jenny mai going to see for herself. Chile
He is worth 10 million dollars. Its all about the resources. Never forget that. If he was not rich she would not look his way.
naomi Exactly, rich dusties exist too. Also the clout she gets too. A lot of non bw in the entertainment industry can build careers off of who they are dating non Black or not or gain a career boost.
Jeannie has had a successful career, but her profile has increased significantly and she has access to Black spaces and since Black culture is extremely profitable and popular she benefits. Since she started dating Jeezy, she’s all over Black blogs in addition to white ones. She now has access to a broader network. She was not getting invited to Tyler Perry gala events prior to her current relationship.
@@pinklady2994 Preach🙌
@Lina Kumar I agree.
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She was shading bw. Sorry,, but I'm old enough to remember a time when the excuse as to why bm were preferring nonbw is because of them being more submissive. Wouldn't be surprised if he told her this as well.
I definitely knew she was throwing stones, let her sit down give her 5yrs because that's when the marriages either make it or break it. It's her new love at the moment she will say and do anything in a new relationship.
I was thinking the same thing. Something about her and what she said doesn't sit right with me. She has revenge written all over her. She was either saying this to get back at her ex or it's like jeezy was telling her all the bullshit BM say about BW and she said what she did to make herself look good. Maybe she is more sadistic and was saying what she said to make BW look bad.
@shayla champion what does (w/=_w. G.M) mean???
It's funny that Asian women hate the stereotype about them being submissive till it can benefit them in some way.
@shayla champion he had a baby with a what??
Men who love to quote the Christian perspective of marriage that women should submit to their husbands should also note that 1 Timothy 5:8 says 'But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel'.
Women's submission is natural to men who lead. If your marriage and home leadership is lacking you will find women picking up the slack and filling in the role that you should be doing. You cannot expect your wife to fulfill both duties of the submissive and the leader at the same time. So men, make a choice. If you want submissive wives then lead from the front and provide for your families.
"Lead from the front" I felt that in my soul
Well said Afrinaturality
Woooooow. I’ve never thought of that scripture before! ❤️
Amen.
Wow thank you for that verse
Alot of BM are way too cocky with nothing to show. I blame the internet 😒! All the memes and thirst trapping .....
You should blame bw. Bw advertised them as the most desirable men based off the myth that they have bigger penises and are good at sex, nothing that we actually need from men.
This!! They wanna claim the “King” title with NO kingdom😂
@@CJ-ql9py lmao, that part!
@@meymay11 trueee bw are at fault
@@CJ-ql9py time to take the throw down for them especially but all these incels in general..
Wasn’t B Simone ridiculed by everyone (INCLUDING black women) for wanting a man who is an entrepreneur (a man with money) but now an Asian woman being with a black man is getting all the praise (by black women) for saying she wants a dominant (essentially a man with money), providing man to submit to? Aren’t BOTH of their arguments valid??
I believe she was ridiculed for saying she didn’t want a man working 9-5.
B Simone actually had some requirements that's why the men were mad. They just want submission without any work.
jenf yes, she proceeded to explain that she wanted someone who is an entrepreneur because SHE is an entrepreneur. She said she wants someone who is on her level work ethic wise because they will “understand her lifestyle”. Why would she be ridiculed for saying a man who works a regular 9-5 doesn’t understand her lifestyle?
The Black collective lives vicariously through non-Blacks many times.
Nashya I understand what you’re saying but those buzz words made people upset with her.
Jeannie strategically said this to try to shame Black women because she knows the stereotypes. She's never talked about being submissive before and any time I've seen that show she's acting ratchet.
Exactly.
Populer Pickme strategy. We see her. She ain't slick.
Right! All of the time that she was married to her white husband she never once spoke about submission but now she "plans" submit to a thug , a felon and a baby daddy who created out of wedlock kids with different women? Whoo Child! LOL😁🙄
Her statement was definitely meant to shade black Women.” BWLM “
Exactly. Sis was married for over 10 years and never mentioned submitting once.. but now she’s married to a black man - here she is 🙄
Patriarchy is NOT free. And you will WILL NOT be patriarchal using my money.
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I love how she somehow got praised for this simultaneously breaking so many of the MGTOW rules that black males online claim are the rules for deciding and choosing worthy women 😂😂😅
Like being over age 30, divorced, leading masculine careers, not virginal or having less than 2 partners, getting turned out by a ex con, loud and opinionated, etc
Very interesting how swiftly and randomly the goal posts move 🤔😂
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Exactly, they’ll change the rules constantly to fit their narrative. Bottom line, they prefer non black women and will take them in whatever form they are over us.
Adele is allegedly dating a rapper too now. She can do better but hey, let these non black women take all these non desirable rappers who dont like us anyways.
Exactly 💯
Poor Adele. She lost weight, she can do better than a rapper.
Yes she’s dating Naomi Campbell’s ex, Skepta.
@@mindingmybusiness8477 what is the pattern?
Girl right.... I’m so happy these women are cleaning out the trash
You can tell he’s been bashing black women to her... 😂😂 my goodness.
I don’t know much about her. Has she bashed Black women?
Yep
@@LaFlor718 idk
Submit to your HUSBAND, not a boyfriend ladies.
Thank you! So many women get this wrong!
Not a FIANCE either.
Finally someone said that
Follow this advice and you will always be a girlfriend just like most black women
@@kt-wt8pl troll alert
😂every time I see a pic of them all I can hear is her “dark meat on the side” comment. Just uncomfortable.
Yesss , thought I was the only one.
Me too🤣🤣
i dont date them so i never took that comment personal
Omg, I thought I was the only one?!
Brown Becky It’s not about dating them. Dark meat could easily apply to any black person😬
It’s kinda crazy that she doesn’t want children but is now engaged to a man with children. One who doesn’t pay child support even
That makes sense to me. A man with his own kids won’t pester you to have any. 😂 A step-mom isn’t the same as a mom. If her bf doesn’t have custody, then the most Jeanie would do is baby sit them occasionally.
I wonder if she will keep that same energy when/if her income has to go towards his child support payments lol. Just bc your “net worth” says one figure online doesn’t mean that you can withdraw those funds from your bank account.
Why is his not paying CS such a big factor to these women?? If it isn't your child then don't worry about it...are the mothers of his children homeless, or are his children living in Squalor?? If not then it is not to be discussed. Love is love and if he makes her happy, let them be. If she wants to submit to him, let her..at least she has a better chance of keeping him if she does. No man wants to argue & fight with Mike Tyson's little sister every night. I'm happy for them, maybe more BW should take a few pages out of their book on how to find, get and keep a man who will want to marry them eventually.
@@earthreign because a man who can't/won't provide for his children is very telling of his masculinity
it is not crazy.. if you dont wan't kids and cant find a guy who wats the same. the next option is to get a divorcee with his own kids and doesnt want more.
Jeannie comes off as one of those gassed up non-black women who’ve been put on this imaginary pedestal by black men. She was mad messy, I believe she was low-key addressing black women with that comment of hers. I bet you she’s heard all of these complaints about black women’s so-called “lack of submission” from the black men she’s around 🙄
Ána Khana yep
I was thinking the same thing.
I believe she was shading his baby mums too
Cuz many of them are really racist against bw but love bm whether openly or secretly...
@@kkmccoy9428 They are racist against black men too. The "love" stops where the money, clout, and racial worship does. These women know these men feel non-black people are superior (and they feel the same), they get off on this.
This woman knows her position in society is above that of this black man, it's easy to "role-play" submission when you know that in reality, this man is racially considered a second-class citizen.
These women don't love BBC (some do, but it's MUCH deeper than that). I hope black women stop thinking everything is about sex and looks. These women would date a 4ft slimly, green alien if that alien had money, popularity, and/or constantly reaffirmed she was better than other women.
Are they running out of topics because we really didn’t need such an announcement. These celebrities are shouting stuff from the rooftops and then in 5 years time, they’ll be back here crying. Let’s keep some stuff private inside the couple.
I was thinking that to myself, let's watch and see. New relationships are always lovely, then kids come in the mix and then a few more years rolls by then that's when the real relationship starts, to after 5yrs that's when the hard works starts in a relationship. My opinion. So for her it's new plus no kids as yet.
mel jobson Lol so true, I was standing on all kinds of soap boxes at the beginning of a new relationship, thought I had all the wisdom. Wish I could go back in time and tell myself to shut the hell up 😂 Relationships never wind up being that easy or straightforward.
I think the conversation was about someone else talking about submission in relationships. Everyone else gave their commentary talking about the topic then Jeannie gave her two cents.
@Diamon. Exactly! Move in silence.
It's the same "narrative"Bm,tell thier nb partners these old wives tales and reasonings they date them instead.....fragile Ego feels stroked then they act as if they are thier bm saviors,Chile I don't even know why so many of us let's this egg them into this dumdass convo erytime!!!NB women use black men to inflate thier esteem after it has been"cripwalked "(,FREDDY moving on and g€tting what she claimed she never wanted to give anyway )on by thier true love.Thats when they come for the Esteem boosting blackmales .Let them submit and whatever else they do and see how that works out ....Have we ever seen any Sunset rides yet with these media shows..........I'LL WAIT⏳,and it's the same for the Men just vice versa,Two users deserve to use eachother and get out of the "GROWN"folks way.
I just had to come back to this 2 years later. Jeezy has filed for divorce.
I personally don't check for black men. Especially Black American Men.
I feel you on that most of them arent even traditional miss me with that submissive shit
@@nathaliesuazo588 Fr Fr I wish black men would leave me alone. Even though I’m mixed it’s like they expect me to date them, but I’ve always preferred white guys. Their behavior has always creeped me out, and I’m pretty reserved so my personality just clashes with most of them.
Same!
Black American men from my expirence have been the worst of the worst and I’m only 20 😭 the only BM who treated me like a queen was African men specifically west African thoes the only black men I’m checking for now a days
@@KM-np1rf LOL … why waste your time with someone mixed when you can have the full blooded real thing … that's like settling for a toy car.
If you don’t want us then don’t talk to us. Go ahead and free yourselves.
Yasssss, go ahead to someone else
Gurl I felt that “yasssss”.
I'm the background " go ahead and free yaseeeeeelllllffff" 👋🏿😂
Burning the cape is the best thing I ever done 💯
So freeing!!
HOW MANY TIMES HAVE U TYPED THAT A COMMENT SECTION, JUST CURIOUS!
@Purple Root AL LOT, ITS A PERSISTANT THING PEOPLE LIKE TO TYPE IN COMMENT SECTIONS.LIKE NARCISSIST
@@danec2572 who cares? She can yell it off the rooftop if she wants to.
@@Amber-db9cz periodt
Hard to be submissive to a man that you have to take care of. We need to be honest on the choice of male or female you chose.
It's hard for BM to choose because between because 80% of BW in America are obese/overweight.
Diini A Unless it’s a BM with money or a future career that makes money, the majority of them choose WW that are overweight/obese. And there are plenty overweight/obese men. In USA majority are overweight/obese in any race or sex.
@@msbrit5178 no they don't men with more money tend to marry women that are fit or thin. 32% of white women are obese 34% of White men are obese and between 35% and 36% Black men are obese for Black women its between 60% and 80% obesity pandemic hit the black women population hard nice deflection though.
Diini A Read my first sentence. We are saying the same thing. Unless they have money. As for USA look those numbers up for recent data. USA is fat. And thought some are fat there is plenty of options for fit as well. Again you can can find fit or fat in everyone. What’s harder is financially stable and high priority driven individuals that are on the same level. Remember if you chose not to want a BW or BM you will find any and every excuse of why it’s hard. I don’t care about race I care about what the future holds.
@@msbrit5178 America is fat no doubt but in that category its BW that leads with 80% compared to white women with 32% America being fat won't excuse that the truth hurts
I find this kinda crazy , this will be her second marriage and I don’t remember all this from her first marriage but now she is with a whole dusty lol ( dusty with money) now she wanna give advice 😂🙄
Exactly this dude is probably gassing her head up telling her all these things and now thinks she can tell all and I RLLY believe she was low-key talking to black women with that "sisters" comment
Jeannie always gave good marriage advice, she just never took it. 😂 she emasculated her first husband so much.
Mimi A. Maybe that’s when she realized it.
Hunny she got her dark meat on the side she got it figured out 😏
After five years that's when the hard work starts. Let's wait until then, a couple of kids in the mix married is hard plus with a dusty even worst.
Black men and accountability are strangers to each other.
Like water and oil. Don't go together at all smh.
Black Women and ACCOUNTABILITY are in two totally different countries then...we are the absolute worst when it comes to blaming BM for our problems. We have to look at ourselves first and foremost in several different mirrors and at all angles. BM are getting married, where are our rings at in high numbers?? In the dang bathtub....we have more baby showers and dang baby reveals going on in the black community these days than I care to admit. BW are divorcing in higher numbers as well so what is really going on?? We don't play well with others and most of us weren't raised to be wives, especially in the fatherless households. Call it what is...most BW of today, were brought up to serve God and your mom and her bf's plate. Most of you raised yourselves and learned the little you do know from the dudes you dated, their mother, or your grandmother. Most of us are NO PRIZE...from the lack of daddy "Issues" to the non existing counseling that you needed from your teenage years to now. Some of you BW are carrying the most hurt and pain around...come on now. We have things that we are dealing with and that we need to be healed from and delivered from. Quit putting all the blame on BM..at the end of the day most of the BW flat out refuse to see what is wrong with US...in high numbers may I add. I've exhaled
@@earthreign then why are you here? Its crazy you will surround yourself by the women you can't stand
@@livewell-xt5xr thank you!😆🤦🏾♀️🙄 and im not blaming anyone for my problems I want to take accountability that’s why I’m watching Chrissie to begin with.
@@livewell-xt5xr Re-read my comment in it's entirety and then feel free to get back to me. I never said that I can't stand BW, I will admit that most of you all are impossible to talk to or get along with though. I have no black female friends for that exact reason also. I've tried hard through the years to be genuine friends with BW, however most of you all are just too messy and they always thought that they were better than me. When I wasn't dealing with those issues, they accused me of wanting their man..little did some of them know I had already banged their man before he got with them so it didn't bother me for real..they were getting my left overs. I can admit that I'm one of those women who didn't play well with others for a long time (MEN to be exact) and then one day everything changed. I started to hold myself accountable for my actions and my life and reinvented myself one step at a time. I had to change my thought process, the way that I did things..the whole 9 yards. I started meditating, going to the gym, traveling, going to counseling and reading anything that I could get my hands on. I no longer blame my parents or any other being for my past issues...it is better to face the truth than try to continously run from it. Once you deal with you thoroughly, then and only then will you be able to deal with someone else. I've exhaled
If Loni got with a bottom shelf Brad then Jeezy got with a bottom shelf Ming Lee🤷🏽♀️
This just ain’t nice. We don’t like it when people do this shit to us.. being kind is the best revenge, then they got nothing on you ❤️
Submission is not free, it is earned. If you provide for your wife a life of comfort and happiness submission will happen naturally. You can't force women to submit to subpar men sorry not sorry. You get what you work for.
Hamdi Mohamed so much wrong with what u said
Lina Kumar u won’t have to worry about any men we stay far from girls with ur mentality...u got red flags men can see already
@@oneluv11 just because you don't like the message doesn't mean its incorrect.
Hamdi Mohamed all u said was I want a man o can use as a resource and bring nothing to the table and just show up smh sad
Chris J where did she say that she was using a man for resources? Is wanting comfort and happiness too much to ask for? I thought those were basic things that both women and men should give to each other. She’s saying that if you can provide comfort and happiness, then you will receive submission. If a woman couldn’t provide you a place of comfort and happiness you are not obligated to take care of her as well if those are the things you want in a relationship.
For 20 years of dating BM I was trying to fit a square peg into a round hole! I kept looking for a traditional relationship with BM and all that ever happened was me having to pick up more and more of the load. One guy even asked me for $20 for fuel 👀 (I have tons of similar stories, he wasn’t the only one). I’m now married to a WM who takes extreme pride and joy in giving me everything I want and need so it makes it easy to submit to him 🤷🏽♀️
ok so. I was dating a black man who when we were talking found out I date white men. He was self aware enough to admit to me he felt a way. Even though I was the first black woman he’s ever dated! He then said I just don’t have to worry about black guys but I got to worry about white men too?! ( he said it in a joking/ serious way) long story short women date within your race and out. Stop being so loyal. Make black men compete a bit.
I’m still shocked about her comments about marrying white men but keeping black men as her side... but ok 👍🏾
Well Jeezy is not offended so I don't understand the shock.
@@pagethreemodel because some women still got a cape for bm
she was talking about asian men not black men.
Interesting speech, but wrong messenger Jeanie is a lighter skin Vietnamese woman who is desired by everyone because she fits this mold of desirability. Her idea of the word submission is totally different than most black women because black women are subjected to a different type of submissions. Plus she has said colorist things about black women any way. She know very well that her privilege as a light skin woman affords her with protection and a safe space from black men because many of them suffer from internalized anti blackness. Dark skin women like Loni is held to an entirely different expectation, men expect these women to cater them no matter how much pain they cause them because many men don't value black women and have this mindset that they should be grateful that any man would want them. No!! I am so glad that black women are establishing standards and standing their ground. Y'all deserve better men and better lives.
For instance, Jeannie is Vietnamese and a lighter skin women because she is closer to whiteness and desired men give her the space to be feminine and relinquish control because the man is willing to take care of her. Black women on the other hand, are masculinized and forced to do everything within a relationship men view black women as men and they expect them to work, have kids, and do everything. Plus we also have to look at the fact that black women's submissions is viewed differently. When black women submit they are expected to submit to a man no matter what whether he is a good leader, bad leader, abusive, mean, or unambitious, broke, lazy, etc. Black women are forced to accept a man no matter what his status is and that's the difference.
I know so many black women who are feminine, but as a black man we cannot tell black women to be feminine when we don't provide them the spaces to do so. How can she be girly when she is subjected to abuse, and harm on a daily basis. Men are the one's who subject black women to these masculinized positions. You can't expect our women to be girly when many of us don't even protect or value them as people.
Also, Jeezy literally was awful to all the black women he dated, but now he has his stuff together when he dates the light skin woman how interesting.
A word!
Best comment. I'm not black and I obviously cannot speak from that angle but myfather was a hyper-mysognistic wife beater to my mom and this is how he treated her in the home. Expected her to do everything and treated her like dirt and mentally abused her. He destroyed her mind. So I believe in these papers dynamics because I've seen one unfold in front of my eyes growing up.
Lmboooo! I’ll just allow your screen name to speak for itself. 🙄
Racey 🤣🤣🤣
Her being lighter skinned Asian doesn't make her truly desirable. She is not Aryan blonde hair blue eyed whiteness so she is still less desirable than White people.
Also, she is looked down upon in the Asian Community because she doesn't have a college degree is a high school dropout and has a criminal record and has tattoos. So she is not desired by her own Asian/Vietnamese people. Asians place high status on educational standards plus career choices being a makeup artist is a lowly career option even if she is "rich" now. She also comes from a poorer Asian family and born to a teenage mother which is looked down upon. She is not desired by her own and that's why she turns to BM.
I want to pray in solidarity with every woman reading this, may God bring you a loving, humble godly gentleman who is perfect for you and in the mean time, may God comfort you and continue to nurture you into who He wants you to be
Thank you 🙏🏽 😩
aw so sweet :)
Thank you and Amen
Hallelujah 💆
Amen to thatJay Kay.
A good leader will never have to ask his woman about submitting because it would automatically be done. That also applies in the workforce, good leaders never have to ask that question. We can rest in femininity and secure.
BM can't provide or protect anything. I'll never submit to a black man. How am I'm going to submit when I'm the breadwinner? 🙄
@Mike 4 Bm as a collective have never been providers or protectors
Omg for real
I have 2 disagree
@@politicallyincorrect1546 bw have never been attractive or classy women
Guess she wasn't fit, feminine and friendly enough?! 😂😂
They call her a modern woman now 😂😂😂😂.She still has made appearances on TV and getting child support unscathed by the black men
That’s exactly what I don’t understand... You don’t even want dark skin black women yet you don’t want them to date out.. make it make sense.. Ladies go where you’re celebrated.. burn the cape!!
Here is the thing, most black men want a submissive woman but they don’t want to do anything that goes with it. In general most black men are traditional and old fashioned but never in the ways that actually count. You can’t require 50/50 and also want a submissive woman it doesn’t equate.
They want to be exactly like WM, power to oppress and all... but they aren't about to rub to nickels together and plan to get there.
I passed away when Chrissie said "They are trying to squeeze all these broke men in that category [definition of high value men]"
I fell in love and married a white man. I’m happy I considered stepping out of my race. I have a great life and family. I never have to worry about money, being protected or loved like the queen that I am. No relationship is perfect but mines has been close for me for more than 5 years now. Looking forward to 20+ more.
Happy for u sis ❤pray for us too 😅it’s hard out here
Something about her and what she said doesn't sit right with me. She has revenge written all over her. She was either saying this to get back at her ex or it's like jeezy was telling her all the bullshit BM say about BW and she said what she did to make herself look good. Maybe she is more sadistic and was saying what she said to make BW look bad.
Get over it
And typically non-Black women like her or Cyn Santana can't get men in their own community...
She is looked down upon in the Asian Community.
@ right but that isn't a part of her and isn't that what BM says they don't like about BW is their attitude but when nonBW have the same attitude it's cute.
@ her phenotype means nothing. In Asia someone like her wouldn't even be considered attractive because of looks. If you look at Asian standards of beauty she's not it. She is actually too dark to be considered attractive to East Asians. She can only get American non-Asian men. We need to stop thinking that the way we perceive beauty in the Black Community applies to Asians and other non-Blacks.
Jeannie Mai’s too dark to be considered attractive by East and Southeast Asian men, especially by Vietnamese men. Jeannie’s also older than 25, divorced, has been with at least one non-Vietnamese guy before (especially a non-Asian man), doesn’t conform to conventional Asian beauty and feminine standards, has a job that allows her to perform outside of conventional Asian feminine standards, and is likely not a “pure and innocent virgin”, so she would have a hard time finding an Asian male partner (that wouldn’t just use her and doesn’t have incel tendencies or “nice” guy syndrome). A lot of cis straight Vietnamese men hate non-mixed Vietnamese women and desire part-Vietnamese, East Asian, and non-Asian women. [Basically, a lot of Vietnamese men (especially if not mixed) like JT Tran love part-Vietnamese women like Ali Wong and hate non-mixed Vietnamese women like Kelly Marie Tran but a lot of part-Vietnamese women hate Vietnamese men because of the fetishization (and a lot of those guys turn out to be terrible partners). Mixed Vietnamese women are way more likely to have non-Vietnamese or non-Asian male partners than non-mixed Vietnamese women, yet non-mixed Vietnamese women get harassed a lot more for dating/marrying out than mixed Vietnamese women do. Note that Asian women in general, especially ones that are born and raised in non-Asian countries, have a hard time finding Asian male partners that are both decent, financially stable, on their level, and don’t have incel tendencies or “nice” guy syndrome. This issue is magnified more in some Asian ethnicities than others.] To be honest though, I highly doubt Jeannie is actually submissive to her current boyfriend/husband as she claims to be. If she wasn’t submissive back then, why would she be submissive now? If she actually believed in being submissive to her man, she would have been married (most likely to a Vietnamese man) a long time ago and not get divorced (regardless of whether that marriage is good or bad). To be honest though, I don’t think her relationship with Jeezy is going to last long because they don’t seem to be on the same level. If his history with women is true, he is probably going to cheat on her. Plus, a lot of financially stable Asian women who are either divorced, widowed, or not married by the age of 25-29 usually end up single in the end. Unlike white women, very rarely do Asian women remarry, let alone remarry more than one time, or have opportunities to date as much as white women do.
@@medtle1 Too dark??
Chile smh didn’t Fantasia say this.. what tf is the difference!! also I feel so bad for her first husband.. CLEALY she did NOT want that man and he wasted all those years with her because her attitude towards submission was way different..
Jeanie is willing to submit to jeezy because he is worth $10 million dollars, he is rich. Fantasia was submitting to a dusty. This is just a classic case of hypergamy. Jeanie mae is only worth $1 million. This is hypergamy.
It’s because Fantasia was submitting to a felon whom she just met after a few weeks.... he is considered a “dusty” and she put him in charge of her finances.
naomi and okay her white man was worth money as well.. just saying worth way more then her. So we can’t say hypergamy
K G o okay..
I felt bad for her husband because she roasted that man every chance she got on the older episodes.
She would constantly lust after BM and tell the world how much she hated her husband, Freddie. It was foul.
I just wanna know who asked🙄
Nobody! I mean who cares about what she is going to do with Jeezy?
@@KG-hh9mf Exactly. This was info she could have kept to herself
😆 🤣
Gurl ikr🤣🤣
No one
After all the submission. He filed for divorce after just 2 years. She’s a clown
🗣Dont forget about Cyn and how black men love Latinos ....she is now single Baby momma! 🤣🤣🤷🏾♀️🤦🏽♀️
And he cheated with a beautiful darkskinned woman
Chrissie Chrissie Chrissie!
Chrissie hit the nail on the head yet again.
Great ending message by Chrissie! She's right about everything. BM compete with BW, and BM want women who contribute financially. Since I started leveling up, BM friends suddenly want a relationship.
Al Kahinat and its embarrassing
Black men that provide and have stable income went Women that are healthy fit and feminine. Mybe you should ask men what they really want
@@alkahinat4558 in America no there isn't between 60% and 80% of Black women are overweight/obese
@@alkahinat4558 I am hearing bunch of excuses if you want real fact check out blackdemographics.com
@@alkahinat4558 Abusing? Damn you are getting too emotional I am out 🤣
I think she and Jeezy have been watching the “hotep” sector of RUclips lol. I also think she may have been shading his other baby mommas because she got “the ring”, not thinking he was engaged to one of his baby mommas and they ended up not getting married. Get married first before you start giving marriage advice. These celebs kill me dating, engaged or being married for five minutes trying to give relationship advice smh. I put in 19 years but I don’t give advice unless I’m asked or participating in a social media post.
goodjudy aka STEM-Chan that’s what I got from this whole thing too. She just wanted to parade that she got the ring..
Not "hotep sector" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Black men never tell nonblack women to "choose better" because them "choosing better" means choosing men that aren't them. Be aware of the mental gymnastics that are being shown, ladies.
Just came to make a comment about this video aging like fine wine 🍷 ❤ byyyyeeee
I don’t think submission has ever been a negative connotation, I think the problem came when certain type of men were taking advantage of that position to lead and mistreat women. it just really depends on what type of men you associate with, and I would say both genders just have problems on identifying what needs to be done or not in a relationship nowadays.
I agree. I do not recall thinking that submission was something negative. It always blew my mind when I heard others confuse it with controlling and being forceful or even telling people that a woman can learn to submit when a man was not worthy of it.
Al Kahinat yeah I understand what you mean, the thing with religious context is that even in the Bible it also mentions that the men should love their wife as Christ loved the church, but for some reason they never mention it which just causes women to rebel a lot because over all it just feels very one sided and for the slavery context, we haven’t healed from it and that ptsd is making black men to crave that submission in order to feel important and respected after many years of embarrassment, but then again it’s not fair to BW who went through the same stuff as them which a lot don’t seem to understand.
Diamon. I completely understand your point. I’ve personally never heard my parents mention it too and they’re very traditional as well. If you really pay attention to the men who mention submission a lot, they’re very insecure and are equivalent to the feminists they seem to hate so much lol.
She wasn't submissive to her 1st husband.🤔
Her first husband was not worth $10 million dollars like jeezy. Of course she is going to submit lol
Very true. She even talked about her mother emasculating her father growing up, people are conveniently leaving out that part of the interview.
She learned her lesson lol. Someone told me women naturally submit to the right man. Her first husband was emasculated by her because he was a push over and probably didn't provide as much.
naomi Chile yes he was rich as hell.. he wasn’t broke at all
@Abdullah A If marriage was considered like this I'm sure we would have far fewer divorces
I’m all for submission, but you need to be the type of man worthy of me to submit to!
Same. In fact, I naturally submit to a certain type of man.
If you’re going to submit to your man, he better be paying all your billz and spoiling, pampering you 💅🏻
I'm dying, where Chrissie find these crazy stock pictures of angry men at??
Chrissie, your commentary has me dying laughing. 😂😂😂 On point! 👌🏾
Broke men are so aggravating. 🤦🤦🤦 I agree with everything you said. This was such a good video. ♥️
_BibleBeltBelle 😂
I hate broke men
What’s funny is that men (and some black women) will shade Loni’s man because he ain’t a Henry Cavill but Loni’s man matches her in money and looks. Loni is in her correct lane to hear them tell it any other time.
Emphasis’s on looks because you can tell some of these people would never date certain people if it weren’t for their money.
black men have the highest divorce rate when it comes to marrying non-black women. Chrissie mentioned it in this video and look at Jeannie and Jeezy now.
Please keep putting black women on game. I already know, but a lot of these women just don’t know...burn the cape.
Exactly
What tf does burn the cape mean
Now today he divorced her 😂😂😂 black men really knows how to pick ‘em 😂😂😂😂
@@passionatedahlia he sure should’ve 😂
50/50 is a trap that benefit mostly men. Ladies let’s do better!
I agree with Jeannie about the submission comment but to me she was coming for black women subliminally and I didn’t appreciate that!
We are awake now, so they can all have these dusties.
"If we don't have Black families, we don't have Black anything"
KEVIN SAMUELS A.K.A. THE GODFATHER
@@earthreign
Black men aren't even leaders. Start there first.
Now she gets to submit to being baby mama number 3.
Wheeeewweeee
I really don't understand where I am being led to? What's the obsession with the term ''submission''. Why can't we just have a partnership? He can contribute to areas that he is fit to lead in and I do the same as well. Why is the term ''leadership'' even considered masculine in the first place? Lol, also, why do people keep bringing up those same 3 sentences in the Bible about women submitting to their husbands? The Bible also mentioned how we should remain virgins until marriage but nobody is bringing that up, so let's not cherry-pick when it's convenient.
We also shouldn't generalize men and say they were born to lead and this is their inherent desire. All men are not fit to lead because many have not learned to. Just like all women are not naturally submissive we are taught that through enculturation. Both men and women can have feminine and masculine characteristics. Everything that we are, we have learned within our environment, upbringing, and society. Some traits may come easier to some, yes. But ultimately, women that want to be submissive should do so without trying to persuade or force others to do the same. What works for YOUR relationship may not work for someone else's.
@g7dmother •}:{• Mostly men and women of the church that like to use the Bible as a weapon. I grew up in the church and it's always used to justify submission.
THIS
Wise words
100 percent agree
I agree with this comment the most. out of thousands here. Muslim girl here and a lot of shit marriages are these days, they kinda scare me
I like how you add the “quotations” to every one of your HIGH VALUE MEN videos... 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Keep reminding them Chris!!!
It's "funny" that when she was with that White man her skin color was white or more pale looking. Now since she's with a Black man her skin tone is darker or more tan. Chile please lol.
Patricia Judkins or she might’ve been bleaching and finally stopped, bleaching is really big in Asia.
First off, how the hell is Jeezy a high value ,man? I guarantee if Tamara had said this about her white husband man dusties and pickmes everywhere would be crying from the mountain tops. God forbid Loni Love had came out and said it. It would be a bunch of people mad as a damn boogabear.
Honestly this is a conversation for broke mfs that have no power. The submission speak goes along with the endless memes of " who get the biggest piece of chicken and who gets served first, your husband or kids? Real men that require a traditional woman are usually traditional themselves and not about to beg a woman to scream from the rooftop she is a submissive woman. I noticed that the people that are usually happy in their marriages and go the distance is the ones that get along great and know their traditional roles.
Jeanie is willing to submit to jeezy because he is worth $10 million dollars, he is rich.
@@ebonynaomi1085 agreed. She wouldn't touch him with a 10 ft pole if he was Jay, worker at Amazon.
naomi omg stop commenting on every comment we get it
@@nadaleenatasha I have commented on 3 threads on this video. I can comment where ever I want to. You are not the boss of me.
naomi 3 threads?? I stopped counting after 6. We get it he’s worth 10 million dollars.
Can she get even married first before giving all of this matronly advice, I mean really
I'm not submitting to a man that isn't also submitting to me. There should be a balance.
Jeezy couldn't lead anyone out of a paper bag! It's not about equality in a relationship or marriage because men and women are different by design. It's more about equity.
😂😂😂 right
I didn’t want to hear what she had to say but since it your video Chrissie.
Same
I haven’t even watch that show in years because I hate to hear her bias “matter-of-fact” opinions.
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The sick irony of it all. A man with multiple children he created broken homes but he's high value? The jokes write themselves.
I just find it interesting that when Jeannie and Freddy - a white man - were together she always spoke about them being equals and what not. Never any talk about submission. But now that she is with a black man submission is now a huge part of her discussion as it relates to their relationship. hmmm
Jeezy and Tory Lanez are dusties with money.
Wasn't Fantasia clowned for saying something similar? 🤔
I had to re-watch this video cause now Jeannie and Jeezy are getting a divorce.
A lot of these same men on RUclips complaining about black women not “submitting” aren’t even giving us anything to submit to in the first place, but nobody wants to talk about that right? ☕️👌🏾 great video, Chrissie! 💕
As a pro traditionalism, pro femininity woman, I agree with Jeannie's statement. That's my ideal marriage dynamic, too. But submission should only be reserved for high quality, masculine men. If you don't take charge of your own life as a man, why should a woman give into you? Be cautious, ladies.
Wrong. Egalitarian marriages is the standard and has always been.
Actually I studied this in my religion and gender class. The answer is that about 5000 years ago, we transitioned from hunter-gatherer, egalitarian, interdependent societies to patriarchal societies. This was a direct result of men controlling the means of food production in the society. We started cultivating wheat, through the creation of large scale agriculture production. Once we started growing wheat, women were no longer needed for their support.
In hunter gatherer societies, women provided majority of the food supply. Hunting was not always reliable, so we survived on nuts and berries. Both men and women had to contribute to the food supply in order to ensure the protection and survival of the species. Once we started cultivating wheat, men were able to completely remove women from the food production, i.e. economy, and women were forced into homes for domestic labor.
This is also, from a religious tradition perspective, when you start to see the removal of female God's ( Asherah, isis, Lilith) etc. If you look at a lot of the Eastern religions, there's a balance in power with the gods. Their male gods or female gods, the Yin and the Yang. There's always that balance.
There is another layer that adds to this as well. Because humans had not previously cultivated wheat and other crops on such a massive scale, they did not know that overworking the soil would lead to soil degradation. Once the soil went bad, we started to shift to livestock production versus crop production. It's actually what the story of Cain and Abel is about. It's allegory for this battle between animal herders and crop producers. It is about the suppression and removal of female goddess. Asherah, along with Astarte and Anath, was one of the three great goddesses of the Canaanite (descendants of Cain) pantheon. In Canaanite religion her primary role was that of mother goddess. Cain was cast out for killing his brother because his land wasn't producing (due to soil degradation), so the gods associated with it were cast out. The same way politicians today will blame immigrants for a failing economy. As you start to see the old gods failing to provide for humans, you have the shift. They shift to remove the female gods. You see women being pushed into the homes for domestic labor because they were no longer needed in the field. You have this massive shift and development of the patriarchy.
Now, technology has freed women from being solely dependent on men. The decline in people's commitment to religious tradition is freeing women as well. I don't think we'll ever get back to the full recognition of the feminine divine but we will damn sure find it in ourselves.
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And I think Jeezy has definitely used Jeannie to rehabilitate his image from the thug dude as well. Trying to position himself in different circles and she helps with thag
Exactly. How do you go from being a thug rapping about selling drugs to sitting front row at fashion shows
Yes he is rehabing his image so he can get on television, maybe get a podcast, end up in a comedy movie. Then he'll divorce Jeannie and they will have a kid for publicity even though she said she never wanted any.
Good point. This reminds me of future and Ciara
@@jebiusenvy yup reality show, pod cast, possible new music etc stuff no one will care about
i don't like driving, pumping gas, carrying luggage at the airport, killing spiders, etc i'll let my boyfriend be the "strong" one lol
Sis... exactly.
Jeanie Mai is talking out the side of her neck. She said she is a dominant woman. (Operating in her masculine all the time) She said going into her marriage she WANTS to submit to her husband. She wants to come home and submit. Her man is not taking the lead naturally. She is letting him take the lead. She is ALLOWING him some room to feel like he is being submitted to. She just basically said she wants to come home and submit after a long day of being the dominant one. Basically she gon do what most working women in a 50/50 relationship do she gon wrok full time and be a boss then come home and cater to her man so he can feel like the king in THEIR castle. She is gonna come home and play "Cater to you" by Destiny's Child and pretend she is being submissive to Jeezy. lol Girrrrl byeeeee.
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According to that community....she is too old and way passed the danger zone. Yall see how inconsistent these fools are.
I love your content Chrissie, I’m not a black woman but a lot of what you talk about reminds me of how it is in Hawaii, local men love white women and local women are viewed as not feminine or submissive just as you say in your videos. I couldn’t put my finger on why I was so drawn to your channel even if these videos are specifically addressing black women.
really?? wowww why arent hawaiian women not viewed as feminine?
Brown Becky it is similar to what Chrissie explains in a lot of her videos, that local women are loud or scrappy/aggressive, dominant in relationships but . But most (like more than 97%) local people are a big mix of ethnicities anyway, be it Hawaiian, Filipino, white, or Hawaiian, Chinese, Japanese and Filipino and Portuguese. Local men’s first preference is usually not a local girl unless she’s a mix and has certain features of what you see in a Hawaiian model calendar. So they are part white with thick long wavy hair and a flat stomach, a tiny waist and a smaller facial structure. The double standards are what have always bothered me.
Just the culture of local people reminds me sometimes of what she speaks on. I have several friends that have this dilemma with their husbands/partners, and I’ve experienced it myself when I was in school. Also my boyfriend has also confirmed he knows for a fact that local guys do not prefer local girls a lot of times. The way Chrissie refers to “low value” men and “high value” men reminds me of the local guys here as well.
But back to an earlier point, most local people have a mix of different ethnicities anyway, so whether they are Hawaiian or just someone raised in the local culture that has no Hawaiian bloodline, I found it relatable to what Chrissie talks about.
I think American women as a whole are viewed as less submissive honestly.
Wow really that’s a surprise because I think Hawaiian women are really beautiful and feminine. The local guys must be blind
When people say black women aren’t traditional I think about a lot of women I grew up seeing in Africa. Those women do it all in their homes. Cook, clean, take care of their husbands etc. This is the reason why I believe people should travel to different continents at least once
When I was coming up in the South, in the US black women cook, clean, raise the kids, take care of his other kids and were in church on Sunday in their best! These men are gaslighting saying black women don’t submit.
Black women are just not with them. The same way black women have to within yourself wonder why they attract masculine men is the same thing black men need to do to wonder why they can’t attract feminine submissive women. Self reflection
Al Kahinat Waaayy too submissive. We’re waking up though, some of us
It’s funny watching this video in the future where he files for divorce from her 🤣🤷🏾♀️
I don’t think any woman in her right mind has a problem submitting to a high value, high quality man that has her best interest at heart.
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"So level up mind, body and soul, tap into your femininity and attract and manifest the best man for the job that is worthy of submitting to".
Thank you Chrissie! I needed to hear that today! 💜
Jeannie is not a submissive asian woman whatsoever. Her last marriage didn't work out because she out earned her man and was dominant. She admits to this herself. Most men, if they've watch Jeannie on TV, they can clearly see that she is not submissive naturally. She is being submissive in her new relationship probably because her new man makes more money and she realizes where she went wrong in her last relationship. Those men are making assumptions about her without doing their research lol!
It didn’t work because he changed his mind on wanting kids. What are you talking about
@@Angel-ou1fr on her talk show, I once heard her say that she never wanted kids
@@brittanyluvsyouso Yes ma’am and her ex husband said the same but 10 years into the marriage changed his mind.
@@Angel-ou1fr oh wow, I didn't know that
@@brittanyluvsyouso Yeah she talked about it a few times. Then he left and announced getting another women pregnant which sparked rumors of infidelity.