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How to Handle Broken Promises | Amanda Messer | TEDxTAMU
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- Опубликовано: 17 май 2017
- Amanda Messer will bring you into her life's story. She will tell you of her father and how it has impacted her life. Promises have impacted her life in so many ways.
Amanda Messer is the Co-Founder and Chief Technology Officer at because I said I would, a social movement and nonprofit dedicated to the betterment of humanity through promises made and kept. At a young age Amanda learned the affect that promises broken have on relationships. Her father struggled with addiction and was not good with keeping his commitments to his little girl. Amanda was drawn to helping start because I said I would knowing that there are other children whose lives are deeply affected by broken promises.
As the youngest of five children, Amanda grew up in Lorain, OH. Prior to co-founding because I said I would, she worked at Hyland Software - one of Fortune magazine's top 100 places to work in the United States. Amanda has also served as the Vice President for the Cleveland User Experience Professionals Association. She currently resides in Lakewood, OH with her son, Trent, and her dog, Miska (pronounced Meesh-ka).
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Mine was, "I'll never play you if I don't plan on having a future with you" and that's exactly what he did, he played me, with my emotions, with my heart and soul. And all I ever did was loved him and trusted him.
7:55 (how to handle broken promise)
Oh thank God. This was getting sooooo loooong
This is showing how to deal as a person who is lying but what about those who suffer from it?
I remember reading that. I'm in the Akron area. I was watching this to see if I could learn anything to help my son deal with his dad's broken promises. Watching it made me realize the impact loving someone like that had on me and I'm 31 not 9
I can totally relate this thing.. Some times when you look back.. This broken promises hurts so badly..
I can totally relate. I am sorry to those I have broken promises too.
Ty
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My father told me that he will get me a 4000 dollars laptop but gradually lowered the price to 0 and he promised me for more that a year now he doesn't want to buy me one even though he is a multi millionaire and doesn't have any problems with money
In my book that is lying
same here
This is why I'm here💀
I have a childhood bestfriend she is my crush then we play so much like from noon till 6pm then one day she have to move to another city we promise each other that after four years we will see each other again on my hometown so i wait for four years then she is still isnt there so i wait another four years and does not show up then onward to this day i thought everyday about her even in the past eight years then i see her in the mall she was definitely it i walk up to her and i said hi and you know what did she do she said do i know you? And my heart skips a moment and explain myself to her then she said i have not met you before but then her uncle realizes me then we tag along then when we finished in the mall she said that she intend to forget me that she hates me ,she is been annoyed by me so my emotions are mixed up like we make a promise 8years ago then i feel betrayed she is been fooling me around and my emotions cant stand it then i stopped crying,being angered then she touch my shoulder then said are you ok then i answer yes emotionless.That is why people told that im a cold person(She didnt understand the excitement i had when i see her she broke my heart like no mercy).
My mom promised me that i will go back to my home country to see my dad every summer, it's been 3 years and nothing i understand the second year because of covid but the first year there wasn't covid and now it's nearly over.
My dad's an alcoholic too... I understand the feeling...
this instruction is a gem
I wish my fiance listened to this video
AMAZING thanks for sharing 🙏🏼✅💯
how do you deal with a friend who says they will get back to you and they don't?? Is it petty to mention it?
This happens to me all of the time. I am tired of it and done with it.
No, its not petty. Its assertive and an act of selfrespect.
If they fail to come back to you, tell them that you value trust and that this behaviour is not gonna work for you.
If they do it again then you can choose to no longer engage with them.
wanderfull
I knew 2 guys who kept telling me oh when i finish work i speak to u. Or wait iam coming and i will call but the never will do iy
Mom: I'll help you in making a custom picture frame.
Me: thank you so much😄👍
Next day I buy the materials with my savings
Me: mom can you help ?
Mom: no I won't
Me: 😱but you promised
Mom: no when did I even tell you?, go study for your exam!
I study for exam and write the exam and then ask my mom, can you help me now?
Mom: no
Me: why ?
Mom: u got 87 not 100 try again next year
Me in my mind : I guess you just dont wanna make a picture frame and use it to do stuff
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Tell her what exactly you feeel in your mind about this . Everything will be alright ❤️
@@arjjunck I've told but she just constantly pushes it and asks me to do stuff after I do it she is just like no always excuses
7:55
Well thanks for helping me out i broke litteraly a promise to a youtuber his youtube name is Death afton he has like 93 subs and i said to him ill come back to u in a month and i broke it and its very hard to search up his name in youtube name cuz it just seacrhes up the deaths of the afton family oof im sad
there is such thing that people are self delusional and not know aboit their limitations
Still not an excuse.
Absolutely, my dad is one of those people. It's not a great excuse if it's hurting the people around you. If I try easing my dad's burden to help him actually finish what he's started/promised other people, he'll just further increase the burden for both of us, so I've stopped helping him with anything excessive.
I still help him when it comes to practical stuff that is just hard for anyone to do alone that are out of his control of course, like shoveling out his car if there's a crapton of snow coming down all at once, since I live within walking distance anyways. But when it comes to things he's chosen to promise some aqcuaintance, tenant, etc, he can honestly let those people down all on his own without me having to get involved while he still gets most of the credit.
Also, she went through this. So what is the problem exactly? That you aren't capable of listening when a woman is talking?
I made it to 4 min and I give up. She’s talking sooooo slow and she still hasn’t gotten to the point
sad that ppl need this instruction
Nope school's out
Sit, stop working.
Never chase again
Such annoying intro took her 7min to get the point
Blah blah blah, don't ask what your dad can do for you, ask what you can do for your dad.