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The narrator has a bad take on the Lexi story, you can’t just dump your child on someone because you have a social event planned, and then ignore every call when they try to reach you, I would’ve sent the same text.
Man, the narrator of this one has some weird hot-takes in both story 5 and 6. At the core both of these stories involve people having their consent violated. The first one being tricked into a date they didn't want and the second one someone getting a kid dumped upon them so the mom can go party.
It’s really just this one reader who is trying way too hard to be neutral
I've never disagreed so much with a channel owner/reader like I have this guy. and these two takes are nothing compared to some of his other ones.
@@Tutuy17 yeah, can agree there. He seems like a mostly OK guy, but every so often he'll have a pretty potato take.
The OP in story 5 reads to me like they are on the ace spectrum and telling somebody who is a-spec that they don't know what they're missing because they've never been in a relationship is insulting and condescending. Do not need to be in relationships to be whole or happy
@@Jackie_XIII could be. Or maybe they're just not in the right space for a relationship. Could be any number of reasons why. Regardless; trying to mush people into an unwanted relationship is just toxic.
"My tinder date brought his dead mother to my house"
This sounds like some type of fucking sitcom episode lmfao
Was her date’s name Norman Bates?
Hottake for the narrator: is it so hard to believe that some people just aren't interested in dating or sex?
It seems he doesn't know asexual people exist...or maybe sapiosexuals who just can't date any random people.
I'm aromantic; love sex, hate dating
I have some bad news for you..@@carashank
Story 6: No No No! Op was in the right and until the lady is officially married to the brother , op has no responsibility to her or her kid. Plus it was underhanded. A dump and dash? Talk about disrespectful
My motto is: not my life, not my problem. Because 911 is one phone call away." I people in the dead bottom of the list, everyone else better be dead, in the hospital or otherwise unable to take your kids. If I wanted children, I'd start liking girls and have a baby. Until then, I'm the gay uncle they see at family gatherings and only then.
Packing story: That business trip might not have been that important because if it was, the husband could have switched to another flight, even if he was late the 1st day, he could catch up in the...you know...13 days left of it. If it was important & he decided not to go, it means he is an immature idiot who just wanted to spite his wife. There's no logic in the husband's reasoning at all.
Lexi is the only jerk in her story.
Regardless of what OP was doing that day, she declined to babysit. That should have been the final word.
Lexi lied to the cleaner and, basically, abandoned Bella and, when confronted with her nonsense, Lexi tried every manipulative tactic in the world to get people on her side of the argument, despite being flat-out wrong.
Threatening to call the police/CPS is ALWAYS the right call in these situations, lest you be inundated with babysitting demands as, clearly, people like Lexi have no problems taking advantage to the weak-willed.
She doesn't deserve to have children, if she treats them as an inconvenience that she can palm off to whoever.
Bravo for her. You save up two years of PTO to stick it to the Boss
Story 5: I can relate. Had a [former] friend who tried to get me to date someone I didn’t want anything to do with. It was an ambush blind date such as the one in the story. By the end of the meal, I figured out what was going on and simply said to the person “I’m not interested.” My former friend accused me of being rude and embarrassing her, but I told her I wasn’t interested in dating at that time, and even so I wasn’t interested in the guy with whom she tried to set me up.
The relationship thing: I have to disagree with Am I The Jerk. They are HAPPY. A SO won’t make them more happy if they don’t want one. They’ve said so to their family multiple times. The siblings are MAJOR jerks for thinking what’s good for them.
story 6 lady get a babysitter she is absolutely the jerk for leaving her child with. someone who declined already.
Last Story: The father could be charged with child neglect for refusing to attend to the child's medical needs.
Honestly, i am concerned if there isn't something fishy going on. Like.. who in their right mind would have so many people so concerned, the kid constantly being tired but then actively refuse to go to the doctor? Even if you are sure it's fine.. just be safe? Because it is abnormal.
As if the father is trying to hide something. Don't want to accuse anything but i would be thinking that at that point.
@@calycalyps0 I agree with you
That is SO damn suspicious and concerning and that kid needs to immediately get health care to see if he's okay for what happened
That father is certainly not revealing something if they are DESPERATE to keep the boy away from medical attention
“Women don’t live hard lives”
Me: *Pulls up any “Am I the Jerk” story I’ve heard*
I mean on a comparative scale between men and women, women do have it easier in many areas.
Another thing that should be understood is women, on average, are more likely to be active on forums then men.
But i do agree that saying that their life is easy is meh. No one’s life is truly easy…just might be easier then someone else’s
men have to deal both with normal women and entitled women (aka karens), which for some reason are more common than kevins?
@@miciogattomatto darens
@@IKnowEverythingandKnowNothing what?
Haha that soy sauce/fruit fly one happened to me too. I was eating in the dark dining room (my kitchen sheds a little light into my dining room). I was also eating ramen (instant) and poured some soy sauce (similar to the one mentioned) and the bottle was almost empty. This is one of those moments when I didn't have a phone in my hand so I was reading the soy sauce bottle, I shifted the bottle and saw something left at the bottom. I went and found my phone (still didn't want to turn the lights on) used the flash to light up the bottom and see lots of fruit flies dead at the bottom.... Finally turned the lights on in the dinning room and saw dead fruit flies swimming in my noodles. I dumped both into the trash, glassware be darned
I had the soy sauce with full cap on so..dont be lazy about the bottle to enjoy good food 🤣
For anyone wondering, I have a condition that makes pressure build up behind my eyes and it feels bad with to much light so I sit in dimly lit rooms as often as possible
I had a neighbor that asked me to watch their kids for ah hour...2 at the most. I had 3 kids at the time, she drops her 2 off....an hour later, knock at the door...thought lady was coming back to get her kids...nope...it was her sister..."oh....she's not here? I'll go find her...watch my kids...3 more. I'm thinking only an hour like she said. So the 2 hours come and go....3 days later neither of them showed up. So I called the police. The police managed to get the sister to come and get her kids. The neighbor knocked on my door a full week later with some flimsy excuse and wanted to know where her kids were...I said, "you have to call child authority....here's the number." She was angry I called the police and her kids ended up in foster care but that's not by problem. Lexie is lucky it was only a threat....I followed thru.
3 days? They left their kids with you for 3 days...and didn't bother to show up until after a week! That's foul. Those mothers should be in jail.
@@Azulakayes I don't know if she went to jail or not....that was years ago. I know the kids were place in foster care until she showed back up.... rumors said she got evicted. I had to make that call...not just cuz they were irresponsible but because it was going on the 1st of the month and I was in the process of moving to a townhouse.... couldn't take those extra kids with me... couldn't leave them there. But I learned right then and there....no babysit. The only exception....my grandson....I literally have to wait my turn to see him....he's got a whole village of loved ones seeking his attention. But nope...no neighbors, strangers, cousins, etc. Never again.
Story 7: They are both married, she helps take care of the stepson, and it was a wellness check up. Don’t expect someone to provide for a child and then shoot them down for being concerned.
Also this is another reason why men get severely sick with heart attacks and other issues. They don’t like going to the doctor but then they’re almost dead by the time they go.
Story 7: OP’s not the jerk. You should know that family doesn’t require blood. It requires love. And OP showed it to her stepson.
Story 5 : The OP sounds aromantic or asexual in their way of talking, it's not your place (or anyone else for that matter) to say that someone is missing on something if they never had a serious relationship. Some people are not meant for romantic (or even platonic) partnership. It was really a jerk move on their family to set them up on a blind date WITHOUT telling them, they must've feel extremely trapped in that situation. I know you meant well by saying that and maybe you just didn't thought about the possibility of their orientation.
Exactly. I have been on one date and hated everything about it. I am happy with my life. Thankfully, my family and my best friend accept this and don't try to force me to do anything out of my comfort zone.
Story 6(edited to fix wrong number) I’m gonna say OP NTA. If you leave your child with someone who explicitly told you no, and did it in such a way that they couldn’t refuse, you are an irresponsible parent at best, and a dangerous one at worst. Let’s imagine worst case scenario of that cleaner being an unregistered child predator. They see their chance and just run off with the kid.
An extreme example, yes, but not outside the realm of possibility.
That would be story 6 but yeah you made a good point
That is such a high risk that you should always take into consideration
Story 5: The OP reads to me like they're on the asexual spectrum so telling them that they don't know what they're missing because they've never been in a relationship is condescending and insulting. People do not need to be in relationships or have partners to be whole or happy
Exactly, that take kinda pissed me off. It came off pretty condescending to me and basically implying you can only be happy if you're with someone else.
I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed that. 😮
Kinda sounds like aromatic but I fully agree with this
As someone who has been friends with aromantics/asexuals, it p*ssed me off. I'm not ace myself but it's just so rude and disrespectful. My elementary school bestfriend is aroace and she's gotten hit on a lot by guys because she's fairly attractive but it always made her uncomfortable and she was never interested. Aroace people aren't "missing out" they just aren't interested. Me personally, it takes a lot for me to be interested in someone and I'm very picky. To say someone who isn't interested is "missing out" is so unbelievable sh*tty to say.
Or they just haven't had time for romance being busy with other things, or meet the right person. Not everyone is asexual just because they are at that point of time not romantically inclined. It's funny how easy people try and put labels on things when often there is non to put: Either way only time will tell.
The op from the last story, not a jerk. Sure the step son isn’t her child but if she, her family, and in-laws claim that something is wrong, then clearly something is wrong.
The husband needs to show more concern and care for his son
My mom did the same thing with her PTO. Like almost 5 years worth. She said it was amazing.
2:01 yeah, I think "Bendy and the Ink Machine" was the best gamethrough choice for this video.
The first story sounded like something from a sitcom.
Story 6:
Just because you have free time doesn’t make you an on demand babysitter! Can’t believe you actually said “you have nothing going on so you have no reason to not watch this kid that was dumb on you.” I don’t care who you are if you drop your kid off on me without my approval it’s going straight to police station to be filed as an abandoned child
Same like okay what if they have a lot of free time. She was having a day for herself it seem like. That gives no right for the mother to dump their child with them
um the sister in law should have dropped her kid to a daycare or at the parents house since they do like to spend or see their granddaughter and would love to take care of her instead of letting op babysit her niece
@@viviennemorgan7217 doesn’t matter who she goes to she needs to ask permission before dropping her kid off
@@sirprize275 right
People dont need relationships to be happy. We arent missing out on anything because we're more than happy without it
Sad for Bella who sounded devastated, but no is a complete sentence and what op chose to do after saying no is her beeswax ...... Lexis doesn't get to judge....
5th story: OP sounds like she's ace. To say she's missing out is so unbelievably disrespectful and sh*tty. That just p*sses me off. I'm not ace myself but I've known people who are and that is literally the most disrespectful thing you can do to an ace person is trying to pair them with someone and then guilt them into it because "they need a special someone" or "they're missing out." Even if OP isn't ace, that's horribly rude. It's one of the biggest insults imo to do that when they've made it clear they aren't interested. Sooooo many people think something is wrong with aromantic people because they aren't interested and that's "sad" so these people feel the need to "fix" it. I just want to choke people who do this kind of crap knowing full well that the person is not interested.
True. There's even a possibility that op is LGBTQ+ in the closet or genuinely don't want to be in a relationship. For me, I want to focus on myself first. I have so many things to do while being an university student and adding the fact that I want to focus on my depression recovery... Relationship isn't my top priority. Sure, I do dream to have someone but not right now. Maybe one day op wanted to settle down with someone but not right now.
OMG that's such a creepy date!! You poor thing I hope you blocked him on tinder
Hopefully the woman in the first story did block him. He was a strange guy.
Honestly the narrator had pretty shitty takes on story 5 & 6. For story 5 the narrator came off condescending and while may not be malicious, seemed to imply a bit that someone can only be happy if theyre with someone else, which is just blatantly bullshit. For story 6, it does not matter what the OP was doing, whether they were busy as all hell or were just lazing around the house, you do not get to just drop your kid off despite already being told no. If you're that desperate to go the social event hire an ACTUAL babysitter. I would've threatened to call the police too for child abandonment because OP already told her no and she wasnt picking up the phone when OP called. It's absolute bullshit to expect someone to babysit your child when theyve already made it clear they would not be doing so.
Seems like op in story #5 is aromantic.
what does that mean?
@@viviennemorgan7217Meaning they have no romantic nor one to experience romantic feelings towards anyone
Thank you for explaining that to them
@@Essence2004 um it's she and her.
@@demarcusholmes2866 ok thanks.
*Story 1:* WTH?!
Oh no... Ghostbusters is needed for this date! Haha
A priest, bishop and arch diocese would be needed for that date.😂
Sleepy Riley- Hmm. And when the blood tests come back saying Riley had anemia or something worse, is the husband going to apologise to OP for caring? If you want to get revenge, do a work to order, for every decision you make about Riley, ask your husband is it alright to do... Carrots in his lunch box, 'hubby dearest should I put carrots in Rileys lunch box'. Clothes, should Riley wear boxers or briefs, ten minutes later, what ccolour should Riley wear, shorts or trousers, what colour, shirt or t'shirt, short sleeve or long. Every bloody minute decision should now be the husbands problem.
Last story, if this dad truly cared about his son, he would have paid attention to the point the doctor was CONCERNED. Ergo the reason for the blood tests. What kind of father is he?
First, I like how you’re playing Bendy that’s my favorite game and Bendy is my favorite character in the game
no im first
I was the first one watching and comment
Welcome back. I'm glad your channel isn't gone.
So I just finished story five and I legit had to stop the video from how flabbergasted I got from that take. Like did the reader just told a full grown adult that they don't know what they actually want cuz relationship=good? Like imagine if he told a lesbian actually you should go on a date with a man cuz you've never had a relationship with one and you might like it. And as someone in both the Assexual and Aromantic spectrums and with plenty of friends on both I can guarantee you that: A: You can absolutely not ever want a relationship; B: Not everyone is happier in a repationship and C: It's just as messed up to tell someone that they don't know what they actually like about wanting a repationship as it would be to tell someone that they dont know what they actually like about which gender they are atracted to.
Wtf is he Norman Bates
Love your content and your channel
That guy in the first story: 🤯🤯.
Weird.
the bella/lexy situation here - i gotta disagree again. BOUNDARIES ARE IMPORTANT. The mom is entitled. She knew in advance that the kid was going to be out of school. She could have gotten a sitter. she could have had a friend she actually knows watch the kid. INSTEAD she lies and manipulates her way into dropping the kid off and only responds to multiple attempts to contact her after being threatened with the police. That is straight up entitled behavior. Being a single mom doesn't mean a dang thing. AND she's not actually single. she has a BF - OP's brother. Why isn't he watching the kid? or paying for a sitter? instead, she tried to manipulate and emotionally blackmail op. not cool.
it doesn't matter if she has cleaners and in-home spa treatments. that's OP's choice. it doesn't mean she's required to care for someone else's kid without a pre-arranged agreement. We have no idea what else she had planned for the afternoon. Maybe she was getting the treatment so she could go on a date night with her husband and wasn't going to be home. Would she be obligated to pay for the babysitting of two kids? No. No she would not.
Did you catch that the kid now thinks OP "doesn't like her". That's 100% the mom. not "mommy dropped you off without their agreement, so we have to figure something out". No. it's "OP wouldn't let mommy stomp all over her boundaries and manipulate her with my toxic bs, so OP doesn't like you". She's poisoning her kid against this OP and making OP out to be the bad guy to her kid when it's all the mom doing this. what a toxic horrible woman.
OP is 100% in the right to say no. Could she have given in and "argued about it after". Sure....but given the lies and manipulation of the mom, this would have happened again. and again. How many non-consensual babysitting gigs does it require to threaten the cops? two? five? twenty? Better to draw a line now. And she didn't say she would never watch the kid. Just that she hadn't agreed to this session. Truthful and reasonable.
Exactly
Story 1- well Sigmund Freud's ghost just got stronger.
Wow. The last story has me stomped. She is with this guy who has a kid she have accepted both u and your kid. She was concerned for this child that she have taken I to her care. And this guy gets up set about it?? What is this guys intentions??
This reader really wants to stay neutral to the point that be started to spoute nonsense
That's why I like the other one. This one has zero emotional intelligence or is a doormat.
In-home skin treatments are bloody expensive and usually need weeks if not months to arrange. Having a child underfoot when you are trying to have your own time, is exactly what Lexi wanted, but doesnt understand the OP's viewpoint. We dont know what the OP's situation was. The cleaner may have been needed because OP and her husband worked ridiculous hours.
OP in story 5 is most likely aromantic by the sounds of it
story 6 nta she can do what she wants
Wasn’t expecting to see BATIM
Same
Last story: ON DON'T ASK ME TO DO 💩, ITS YOUR KID
For the business trip story, why didn't he just take a later flight? What is that guy's problem? I smell divorce coming.
Thankfully I'm allergic to Soy Sauce so I never have to worry about that kind of problem.
the one where that person dropped the daughter off, the mother is 100% the jerk. No means no
What’s a blind date story the family was completely out of line there are tons of people who live happy lives who never find a significant other let alone want one yeah for some people they can make you happier but they also need to understand that she doesn’t place importance and love she place is it elsewhere and that’s completely fine and if she Does finding something then it should be on her terms and she should at least know she’s going on a date and not just expect her family members to bombard her with single guys
Stepmother stepped up. The boy needs a mom. Not a jerk.
Another video with Bendy and the Ink Machine in the background!
*appears* IS THAT BENDY AND THE INK MACHINE I SEE
Story 5 is a classic case of op is aromantic, let them be alone in the romance department please
I’m with the OP on the gf dumping her daughter off on her. She told her NO. No is No! Doesn’t matter if she had something planned or not. As for the woman Lexi lack of planning on her part does not constitute and emergency on the OP’s part.
I had an instructor in college that had a neighbor ask her to watch her kids for a few hours. They called from the airport and said they would be back in Two Weeks!! They lived in Ohio but had flown to California. They abandoned their 4 kids on an unsuspecting neighbor!!! I told the instructor that I would have called the police. She said she wished she had thought of it.
I would have in this case as well.
Story 5: Sounds Like she is a part of LGTBQIA+ Community who isn't interested in this Kind of relationship. Her Family should respect her wishes.
I thought that too. She sounds asexual. Has no interest in romantic relationship. I think her parents are desperate for grand kids.
Particularly ace. Nothing wrong with that. Too many people think something is wrong with ace people.
Exactly!
The first story. That red flag is so massive Russia is wondering if its a knew communist country.
gees 5.4k people in 5 hours
Yay bendy and the ink machine
Nah that’s crazy
Ed Gein and Leatherface is that you?
for the man-child with the business trip. She could have packed the bag..mostly...but left out a few important things. like underwear. and deodorant. nothing he can't replace on the other side, but enough to make a point.
9:47 resealable bottle in the fridge, there problem solved
Story 4: Fruit flies in the soy sauce. 🤢🤢
Some people are asexual and some people are aromantic and if they don't want to date, it should be respected. If you spring a date on someone without thier consent, don't expect that person to treat it like a date. I don't date. The fastest way make me leave is to display sexual or romantic interest. I would not be happy with anyone who blatantly disrespected my wishes.
When it comes to minding another person's child under those circumstances, the child has been abandoned. The person who might become a sister in law should be expected to respect boundaries. Dropping a child off with the person who has been hired to clean the house is irresponsible parenting. It is not ops responsibility to
Bendy and the ink machine is goated
Oh wow
Last story, definitely not the jerk. I’m not a doctor, but it sounds to me that this child has narcolepsy
Story #5 - OP just sounds like they are Aromantic
Better use soy ssuce packets from now on 😅
1:56 💀
Story 5: narrator There is something called Asexual. They don't want to be in a relationship. Romantic relationships don't make all people happy people want to be alone, so the family is the jerk and for defending them.
This narrator saying that someone who's presenting as aromantic/asexual should be forced into trying dating is awful. So, by that logic, should straight people be forced to try gay sex to see what they're missing out on?
huh, ngl these are still interesting
Hi I'm your biggest fan
Day 83 of saying the same thing until I get pinned
Karen's getting destroyed is one of the best parts of my life
I'm too focused on bendy than the stories
First story. Cremains aren't black... they are more like cat litter...
Story #6 wtf dude no what's wrong with you? Lexi was super entitled to just drop the kid off. You cant just force people to watch your kids just because they aren't very busy.
7:26 man needs to grow the he'll up I have 3 small kids I'm a single father just turned 30 work an average of 60 to 70 hours a week I still have time to handle the house and kids with minimal help from my mother or little brother that I do pay to give them rides to and from school and very rarely watch them for an hour or 2 till I can get off work
Oh god
Story 5
I really don’t agree with your take
The op could just be waiting to date but an other thing could that the op is aromatic so all the stuff with “not knowing how much happier you could be” really rubs me the wrong way
Especially with op saying she never been interested in a romantic relationship op could be aromatic
Story 6. Narrator has it all wrong. Lexi was wrong for dropping off her baby AFTER she was told no. I don’t care if I have nothing going on, if I say no I mean no. Lexi is lucky that op didn’t call cps.
I cannot agree with the narrator about the blind date. Regardless of the parents and siblings belief about relationships bringing happiness, they should have respected OP's choices of not being interested in dating. Pretty sure OP is Ace and the family has no right to try and force them to do something they don't want. OP not the jerk, family however is very much the jerks.
Ok😅 0:36
778 Likes in 23 hours wow
Human ashes are grey lime ashes. Not black. I have the vials and they aren't glass with a cork. They are netal with screw tops. You order them online. There are ones for my mother, my father, my sister, and a nephew.
We cremate in my family and make these for family me.bers.
Im sorry if you say no to watching a kid regardless how free you are or how well off you are it is not your problem. The sister chose to have a child the sister chose to become a parent that is not the OPs problem or concern. Other peoples kids are not my problem unless i allow them to be.
You narrated the story. How can you not remember the fact that OP was not home when brother’s girlfriend dropped off her five-year-old. OP is definitely not the jerk. I’m beginning to think you are. Lol.
Is the chanel doing great after the false reports.
I hope so
There were false reports?
16306 views in 23 hours wow
Weird takes for some of these stories
Ayy bendy😊
The blind date sounds like an asexual person and setting up blind dates for them is not ok…
Bag dude. Cut off the bedroom fun "you want a mother not a wife. It would be a problem if we were intimate would it not?"
Shame the mf