"If You Make 50k, YOURE TOO BROKE TO DATE"
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Please, women don't owe men shit! Y'all show time and time again that you are unloyal and always put yourself and your wants first even if it hurts a woman. We're smartening up now. No more Barbara The Builders for you!!!😝
Who hurt you? Was it necessary to call women with different standards bottom of the barrel because she had bad experiences with men? I notice you are quick to defend a woman who demeaned other women as bottom of the barrel.
Just said a whole lot of nothing
Real talk, who hurt this person?
I feel like a lot of these people just make comments like this for the pin lol. Same with people wanting more likes and stuff
Who hurt you?
These women are insane. I met my husband at the bottom of the barrel, we were both there lol. Fine dining for us was Applebee's. Most dates were walks, free events, pizza and Subway. He had my back and I had his. I'd go to his place, bring groceries and cook so he had lunch for the next 2 days. Some days he sent me $30 bucks when I was 5 hrs away doing my masters broke af. This man took a bus for 6 hrs to attend my graduation. Picked me up with all my crap in his dad's car to move me back home. Today we have a combined income of 200k+ and a beautiful son. This could be you too but you crazy.
You are living my dream life, kudos to you and your husband!! ❤ me and my boyfriend are 21 and at the "bottom of the barrel" right now 😂 I just started off in hairdressing and barely make $9/hour before tips, and my boyfriend is working food service and retail to make ends meet while being a caregiver to his elderly nana. We are saving so we can move out together, then he can go to school. We have been dating for 4 years, and we definitely both have made stupid decisions with money lol. 😅 our plan is to eventually save up enough for a homestead, we want to live as sustainably as possible on a couple acres. Wish us luck 🙏
Congrats Miss you are a real gem of a lady.
To quote Aba & Preach - “Bars. Straight bars”
She's insane for not wanting to have a long term relationship with someone that can be financially unstable where kids can be involved? She's more sane than most people in this section and most people in life arent gonna go from making 20k to 200k. It's not 1950 anymore you can't live off of apple bees discounts every Tuesday and 20k a month while raising a family 😂.
@@brianring-nu9dwbut they aren’t looking to start a family or a healthy relationship..their spoiled whores💀
If someone called in and said to her "if you're a woman over 200lbs then you're not ready to date" there would be an uproar
Being obsese isn't the leading cause of divorce tho
@@brianring-nu9dw but financials only lead to divorce when it’s a 1 person bread winner situation. Or it’s when one sees it as a get rich quick scheme.
Damn right
@@brianring-nu9dw Lack of self control + mental health issues
@@brianring-nu9dw an just death and health issues that cause people to go broke due to health bills.
Built like a barrel and talking about the bottom of one is crazy 😂😂😂😂
It got her a very rich white man doe .
Yoooo 😂😂
This Comment Right here, Officer, this the one that killed me
@@nickruffin4622 ☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shawty a fullback talking like that. This world is crazy.
Not once did any of those women mention spending any of their own money on dating. They're looking for sponsors, not husbands.
Usually she would be spending money looking her best for the guy. But if a guy isn’t taking me on dates, then he’s not spending money and likewise there is nothing for me to look nice for so I wouldn’t spend money either
@@UdoADHD Do men not pay money to look good for women? This is such a disingenuous argument because guaranteed if a guy spent more money than you did on his clothes you would still feel the same way.
@@TSSPDarkStar it’s disingenuous to say men pay anything close to what women pay to look good 🙄 Accept that men and women are not the same. Men put value on a woman looking as good as possible. Women just want men to do the bare minimum to wash up.
@@UdoADHD So even if that's true in general I'm asking you in the hypothetical case where a guy paid way more for his stuff than the woman did should she have to pay?
@@TSSPDarkStar That just doesn’t happen. When it comes to dating, we are talking about what actually happens because we are discussing a generalization and not a case by case event. Men do not spend even close to as much as women. A hypothetical that almost never happens is useless because in that case, we need to know ALL the factors involved since we are deviating from the norm.
Bob Marley said it best… “Some people are so poor, all they have is money.”
Facts
Facts
Deep!!!!!
Amen
I feel that.
Some of these women out here talking like they know what a 100k salary looks like. I make 100k+, but if you looked at my clothes, my car and my home, you'd think I'm barely getting by. The reality is I'm not an idiot with my money, and I'm certainly not going to waste it on some woman who shows zero appreciation.
What do you do? How long did it take you to get where you are?
I'm the same way. But I think that's partially because I don't have expensive tastes, and tend to enjoy simpler things in life. My hobbies also don't require constant spending.
Exactly, I make 80k a year, have a rental property where I stay in one of the units which brings my yearly taxable income to 120k, and I shop st H&M and have a $400 phone and a 2017 truck at 29 years old lol I'm still covering some other things in order to get ahead further in life so I don't have much "free income" but I'm home continue shopping at H&M and continue driving a car that's at least 5 years old whenever I decide to trade in my vehicle
Same. I dress like a 90s skater lol. My truck is nice but outside of that, youd never know I made over 100k.
Yeah okay buddy. If you look like youre barely getting by it might just be you got shit taste. Go to a thrift shop and develop taste
You can look damn fine for fuck all... brandless
The lady who said if you don’t make 50k you shouldn’t date looks like a person I wouldn’t spend 10 dollars on.
she needs 50k for the ozempic treatment
Women who get men who make 6 figures plus aren't on podcasts talking down on men who don't make 6 figures or more.
Sidenote: 50k a year is a fantastic income especially if you are a single man with no kids and have a good job or career and know how to manage your money
Most of us start dating our partners when they are making significantly less. You grow together.
it depends where you are but honestly 50k a year isnt great anymore with how bad inflation has become. Very rarely do i agree with what these people say but this one I agree with.
If your bareley able to support yourself on that salary forget dating focus on yourself and then go into the dateing market
Not that it matters, but without knowing anything about those women, I would say they for sure make at least 50k a year, so what they are saying certainly applies to them, just not dating as a whole.. I make over 100k and I would not date, let alone start a family with a woman wanting a free ride again. All these dudes saying they don't care how much their woman makes or how she looks probably are failing at life and feel like they have no desirable options....
*"If you ain't got an IQ over 100, you're not ready to podcast."* - this literally slayed me. lol
This was like a discount The View made into a podcast.
Bruh
facts just cuz people can speak their mind doesn't mean they need a mic lol. it's wild so many idiots wanting to make podcasts lol. if i made more than 200k i wouldn't date the walrus like what hahahahahaha
Hasan Piker came to mind😅
Podcasters being the greatest thinkers of our time 😂
$50k for a single man, especially if he owns his own home and car, is pretty good. What these women are saying is absurd.
Its more than pretty good lol. She doesnt deserve a guy like that
@@jamespaul6315she can't get a man like that, not the prettiest not the nicest bet you 10 bucks she has this opinion because she usually date dead beats that live out of her
Maybe she’s factoring in housing and child support etc Idk 🤷🏾♀️ ppl have unrealistic expectations on both sides and quite frankly it’s exhausting
I’ve checked out
50k TAKE HOME is like 80k a year. Thats VERY good for a Batchelor
50k before taxes is only like 30k take home and thats a struggle to pay for rent, car, etc..
@@jamespaul6315Exactly. Could have sworn the average income for a single man between ages 20-35 iirc in the us is about 25k-35k…. And that’s being generous. lol I recently started making around 38k-40k (after a few years of making a flat 28k)a year and I genuinely feel alright in terms of finances and being to afford my car, rent and buy little things I want here and there.
It’s sad that some women even think the average everyday guy is making 50k minimum… just wow. They have no concept of reality and just what it takes to actually be put into a position to make even 30k+ a year for the average everyday man.
Saying "if you make 50k don't date" is like saying "If you are a middle class or poor MAN, you don't deserve a relationship, you don't deserve love, so stay and die alone", which is basically saying she hates middle class and poor MAN.
And let's be honest, she probably thinks the same way about any MAN making up to 100k, which is even worst.
Fr like does she not know how much of the population makes under 100k??? Like girl bffr
The delusion is reeeal😭
1:11 ... "If you're making 50k don't date." .... Says a woman who looks like a stuffed pomegranate.
I'm 56 and make in the mid-60s. Debt free. Condo paid off. 10K savings account. 812 credit score. Fitness fanatic. No kids. No credit card debt. Save 60% of my take home income each month (not a typo). Could afford a luxury auto if I wanted.
And by the way, I'm a school teacher who will have a full 30-year pension in 12 years, social security and a six figure personal savings.
To think that if I were a guy you wouldn't consider me good enough for you. 😂😂
Its funny because men would approach you even if you made 20k and lived with your parents.
$50K earner here. Married 12 years with two kids, a 9yr old girl and 11yr old boy. They both go to Catholic school, straight A students. I have saved over $30K for their college funds so far. My wife works too, she makes less than me, but together we have a good life. We’re not rich, but we’re not poor either. We rent a 3BR house on two acres of land.
We are blessed, we love living in the country, and grow a lot of our own food.
This is news to me that I’m not ready to date! 😆😂🤣. Young people: money doesn’t buy happiness! Family is everything!
Appreciate your input! Gives the guys in their 20’s hope.
@@Itsdeejayjaylike me -23 I spoke to a trade school so hopefully all can change/ get better
You sir are rich with life. House, family and land make you more wealthy than any amount of cash can. Love this for you and wish your family all the happiness!
Sounds like you're in good shape. If I could make one recommendation though it is try to find you a piece of land to buy and then put a mobile home on it. People make fun of it but I live on a little over 3 acres of land and a old single wide and I own all of it. A lot of my friends tell me how lucky I am even though they live in houses. They're all penny pinched when it comes down to money yet I'm able to save or spend money and do what I want. Renting is fine and it sounds like you got a good setup but I would definitely start thinking about something long-term and permanent. I know some people just like to rent so I guess if that's your thing then keep doing it but long-term it would be nice to own something. Especially in this day and age it's so hard to have anything.
Facts
"If you ain't got a I.Q. over 100?, you ain't ready to podcast"
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh shiznit!
👨🏾🍳 Aba cooking
Pretty sure an IQ under 100 is a requirement for podcasting.
I'd raise the bar to 140.
I literally hollered!!! 😂😂
bro il take 109 over this @@thrrax
Yo that swiss roll in spandex talking bout bottom of the barrel is out of pocket 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her white husband who makes 7 figures a year loves it . That’s why she can speak facts . Black men will say you have to be fit and friendly. But she knows what true value is that’s why he married her. I think he’s in finance if I’m not mistaken.
She isnt speaking facts 🤡 she got lucky and found a man desperate or ugly enough to chose her she is by no means good looking and that's all luck her marrying someone making that much but her marrying a man with money does not make what she says facts your a clown for even typing this comment 🤡
The sole PURPOSE of a date is to converse and get to know a person better. In Modern Times, It has been turned into something else.
Dating?? My husband and I make 80k combined. And frankly, it's the best year we have had married (8 years now). We own our own home (no missed payments w/ 20 acres of land), raise our own food, just paid off our vehicle 3 years early, own horses, and raising 3 kids under 6 years old. Is it hard? Hell yes it is, but we sacrifice what we want for what we need and we are incredibly happy. I married my husband not for what he can give me in items but the kind of man he is and the kind of father I knew he was going to be. Ladies are off their rocker and will never truly find happiness like this and for that I feel sorry for them.
You’re definitely not doing that in any major city in America.
@@FightNChickN facts she lying I live in Florida and 50k a year is homeless
Blessings 🙌
Women☕
Preach girl!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 you are living the dream!!!
She wants a guy who makes more than "just 100K" so that he can invest 10K into a business for her. And for what? So that she can be the 20th person on the block who does hair, nails, and makeup? And then when the business fails, she suffers none of the loss, because it wasn't her money to begin with. She's not a partner, she's an anchor
💯 Exactly!!! Start a business for me, give me money to buy Gucci etc etc...
What did you do to earn that? Oh, sex? In that case we can all just patronise sex workers instead. The absolute transactionality behind everything she said is irritating for someone who brings things thag can be easily replaced by a callgirl
Exactly, she’s not an investment because there’s no return. She’s a charity case begging for donations
She's married.
oh shioioo
“that’s not a partner, that’s an anchor”
🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾
You guys crack me up!
That, or you’re really on point and getting us all worked up. 😊
Your point about the "luxury"brands is ON POINT!!!
I have a clothing company and I really see this in us. We value the things that hate us and we ignore who seeks our love
My husband *STRUGGLED* when we were dating. He had to drain his bank account and spend his savings to help his mom afford life-saving surgery and to get her out of Cambodia because her business failed. It was a shitty turn of events that left my husband broke because his life savings were gone in a matter of hours.
Not once did I ever think “oh he’s broke I can’t date him.” I stayed with him and was there to support him every step of the way until he ended up in a better financial situation. His love and self-sacrifice was what showed me that he was worth staying for.
Exactly!!! It's all about context. Your man was completely selfless and sacrificed for his mom ❤ it's much different than someone who just doesn't know how to quit frivolous spending
The fact he sacrificed his life savings to help his mother is such an amazing quality. That's what a partnership is about when you're down he got you and when he's down you got him. That's what I want not this superficial thing they call a relationship. She is 35 and not focusing on real life stability and long term love/commitment. I can't take the woman in the video seriously at all.
Also what is it with single people giving advice to people in my age group. It's not ideal and I hope no one in their 20's is actually listening to her.
And unlike his women you can say my husband.
My wife just looked at me watching this video and said “remember when you were a security guard making 35k a year? Boy times have changed” 😂 I make A LOT more now
🙏
If you only make 50k you can't afford to feed this woman.
You're being too kind. I was thinking 100k.
Preach!
You're going to need an investment account that grows as exponentially as her waistline to keep up
She’s been fed enough she doesn’t need anymore food.
And pay for her medical bills
I wholeheartedly agree with Aba’s point: there needs to be an IQ cutoff for purchasing podcast equipment. It is becoming ridiculous
When my husband and I got together and we were in school and broke. Now 10 years later we’re better off than most people I know. We have no debt, except our mortgage (which is also almost paid off). We are taking a weekend island trip this month, and a two week Europe trip in June… I say this to say, I don’t own a single name brand luxury item. The people I know with luxury items are drowning in debt and can’t afford to not work and take a trip. I handed him a water bottle while he was running 💁🏽♀️ Now I get to stay home with my two babies. Women don’t want to earn anything nowadays. They want instant gratification and their priorities are messed up.
Beautiful 😊
Thank you for sharing your story.
Buy her funky logic, if men do wait until they're making a 100K a year to start dating, there is no way in heck that they are looking for someone like her.
It’s some that still wil ,always, that’s why they feel confident to talk like this
@@theoneandonlynophoney1864
Nah, they’re just delusional. Those same men you speak of are the “good men” they’re looking for.
Translation if black men don't make 1000k are broke Translation she hates poor people unless they're name is Brad
😂😂😂😂😂😂facts!!!
You are right, the young women are the ones getting picked
Don't date for potential. Don't date for money. Date for stability and character. Not everyone meets the potential YOU see in them, and money doesn't guarantee stability or character.
This is facts. The women that date for money made it known and the men are okay providing.
LOVED THIS COMMENT
Agree and disagree
A man settles down where he finds peace.
Agree on the not meeting the potential you see in someone. I couldn't even meet the potential I once had. Top of my class in high school, got an award first year of uni for being a top performer, only to drop out two semesters before finishing uni. No one should bare the burden of someone else's expectations, especially when they won't be there to help them succeed
A friend of mine was dating a woman that said to him “if you don’t have money to date, you shouldn’t be dating”. They were about to be engaged, and he couldn’t afford to go out all the time so she complained. Meanwhile she never paid for anything, and complained if he spent money on himself. That was such a red flag, and now they are divorced.
Its a shame you didn't save your stupid friend from a divorce.
@@TheAcad3mic yea, but how do I break up someone’s relationship without them hating or blaming me forever?
Here's the thing... living in atl I been make 50k from 2014-2019 I can sat the last year 50k was good compensation was in 2015. Inflation is real and if you're dating to find someone to marry and have a family with finances need to be evaluated. I changed my whole career to break out of the pay restraint I was experiencing. I want a family and in atl 50k is cool if your single but if you want a family 90k is the minimum and I mean the minimum
A person willing to date you at your lowest point is not bottom of the barrel. That’s a soulmate.
Doesn't work out for women at all. Most are done terribly and hurt. Don't do it.
Facts! They are so hard to find though!
@@titanl23423 ever thought you’re looking for a date at the wrong place? If we look to our grandparents then they have stories of first meeting with an activity, city event, or friend introductions. Notice how these places known for not hooking up for 1 night stands? If you go to a club, then expect a short term situation-ship. If you want a traditional date, then go to a traditional place. You’ll meet like minded people at like minded places.
thats why u dont listen to women looll
@@titanl23423 now show this study.
Talking 'bout dating hustlers, overweight, materialistic, still single at 35. Anyone surprised? You can't make this sh!t up.
She's married. Go watch that full episode.
The leading cause of divorce is financial issues not obesity and tbf she's saying something a lot of dudes say all the time. You should be financially stable before dating.
@@craftreesie Fiona found her Shrek
@@craftreesie She was married to herself, he just an extra accessory
@@brianring-nu9dw must be a big black woman undercover lol
How do you ask a rich man loyalty when you didn’t give him loyalty when he was broke, it’s all sand castles in the end 😂
As a man who makes less than 100k a year . I wouldn’t touch either one of those offensive linemen.
The problem is too many enter dating looking for a come up rather than a partnership. If you both make 50k your household income is 6 figures and yall doin alright.
She'd have to consider what she makes, if anything, apart of the household income. The way she talking, however, don't imply that she wants to contribute in that way...
@@londala
Exactly. She wants to be taken care of not contribute.
Where is it implied that she even makes 50k a year?
the point is she wants to live off the mans money and not work herself. a 100k/y guy is supposed to spend 50k+ to keep her ass home.
modern women want conservative men.
Her food budget is 1200 just for her so.... why should she have to go on a diet?
She said “giving his girl $10,000” …..bro, who gives their girl $10,000?
Simps?
Pesos maybe
50 year old men who date 20 year old women
Obviously simps. I watched a video about an OF model who get 10k from her 'No.1 fan', he get a pic with her, then she went vacation with her bf 😂
Bhad Bhabie earned 50 mil USD from her OF. It's cray cray out there.
Tricks and Johns?
My 2nd wife met me when I was working for my cousin as a laborer. A year after we got together I am back in University going for a 2nd degree, in training to become a teacher and she has her Masters degree and has lit a fire in me to make something of myself for us. She knows that I will not give up or stop. Women like this speaker remind me of my ex in Houston. She makes more than enough to take care of herself but dumped me because I didn’t make enough to pay her bills and mortgage
Your ex was right. She didn't want a lazy man as the father of her children. This is how women become single mothers. The women in the podcast are very knowledgeable.
@@l19719 wow so I was working 40+ hours a week and I was lazy? Seems like you have a limited view of the situation
“I don’t know many rich drug dealers” let that sentence sink in 😂 🤦♂️
"They tryna show up after the finish line to hand you your flowers. Not recognizing I needed somebody to hand me a water bottle while I was running the marathon."
- Aba, 2024
This mf philosophical with it
Jesse Williams
Put it on a T shirt
That this hit hard.
❤❤❤❤
Single women helping other women stay single.
THIS
As they should if all they are going to do is marry poor.
No way u males do a much better job at that ☠️
💯
@@TomikaKellywell nothing changes cuz they poor themselves
2 ppl making $50k is a $100k couple.
My friend always told me if a women is in her mid 30s and single, somethings wrong with her.
Everyday this makes more sense.
"He needed someone to hand him a water bottle during the race, not someone to hand him flowers after he's won" bars!!
Straight wisdom right there.
That shit was fire 🔥
Yes
🔥
Yea that was a BAR 🍸
4:16
“She 💁🏼♀️wanna make it with you when you already made it 🥇,
They tryna show up at the finish line to hand you your flowers 💐 not recognizing that I needed somebody to hand me the water bottle 💧 while I was running 🏃♂️ the marathon.”
THIS SHIT HIT DEEP 💯
I been SO FORTUNATE to find my fiancé she accepts me for my autism and even tho she makes 3x more than me ITS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY, she loves me and I her. That aside her writing ✍️ skills is smoothing out my story telling skills so I say check back with me in 2 years!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 THE LIVING BREATHING WORD!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The added emojis made me lol
Yeah that's a deep quote. Ion get it da first time 😂
Men don’t stay with the woman they struggle with, once they make it, they leave them for a gold digger anyway 🤷♀️
My wife and I have been together for over 10 yrs. When we met I was making $9.10 an hour, living at home, and I couldn’t even pay for our first date (She asked me out; I couldn’t ask her because I was broke). Today I’m clearing $100k+ easy and we have 2 beautiful little girls.
Remember fellas it’s not always how you start; it’s how you finish. I had a plan for myself, but my race was more of a marathon than a sprint. ✌🏾
If normal people weren't busy being in normal relationships, maybe the weirdos who view relationships as transactional, status symbols, come ups, etc. wouldn't dominate this conversation online.
"If you weigh over 140lbs, you're too big to date!"
Feminists: "REEEEEE!"
If you can’t pick ‘em up, don’t take ‘em home.
When your dating a girl over 170 your a whale hunting homie.
Damn bro what if you lift weights and can carry some weight we gotta get stuck with the big girls just cuz we can pick them up 😂. There by some slim thick girls that are busty as hell an weigh more than 140 cuz of it but they far from fat they phat 🤤
😂😂😂😂
@@hoosiernative9668hey, if they want to set unrealistic standards, why can't we? 😂
As a woman. We don't claim her over here. Normal women aren't making that much and neither are men. We make it together. Now of course some men can afford to take care of their family. Not all of them will be able to give you that type of "lifestyle". She needs to humble herself.
Edit: $50k isn't bad. Not everyone will be millionaires in their lifetime.
Too many women talk like this nowadays, and it's all over and getting worse. You see it everywhere.
It's economics101. If every single man was a high earn price for goods and services would also increase.
@@HuhHaaHYAAATdoesn't mean it's many women that's just your algorithm 😂
As a guy. I don't care about money. I just want someone who is happy to be with me, who misses me when we havent seen each other in a while.. If shes easy on the eyes to boot, thats a +.
Maybe I'm alone in this, but I do hope theres a woman out there with the same values.
Hate to say it but women like you are quickly becoming the minority.
She thought she was princess fiona but that’s princess fi-oh hell nah 😂😂
Shorty built like Mrs. Puff talking crazy
WOW! Met my husband when he was making entry level $$ and I kept him because he IS a high value man because of who he IS, how he treats others, his patience, his humor, his loyalty, etc.... Now that he is making more money, still not 6 figures, his value has not elevated because of his increased income. His value to ME is elevated because he continues to be the MAN I met and later married and kept his values.
I would MUCH rather be married to my hubby with his regular income than a rich man who doesn't value and respect others, himself or me. That's JMO.
Go watch the full clip, this lady is married to a high value man too.
100 percent!!!!!
@@brianring-nu9dwListen to her comments high value man is not just about income. More so about character, morals, values that man has.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@@brianring-nu9dw None of what you said changes the points she made that are correct. So, she's married, and what?
“You’re not bottom of the barrel, you’re under it” That’s tough 😂
But they ugly af!
You need to atleast be hot aswell as delusional to have those expectations...they just delusional.
She’s the size of a barrel too
Yoooowww 😂😂😂
😢
Wild
I resonate so much with the line of thinking of Aba
Fair weather friends will always lend an umbrella on a sunny day.....
It's wild because they literally simp for brand name companies but won't simp for a man who provides...
modern feminism and corporate female empowerment working at it's best!... it was never about women it was always about control
She didn’t even praise brands. She said men who make quick money are. And so are their girls. But they’re not putting that money where they should and investing.
I don't know why takes like this piss me off so much. Like I hate hearing dudes get disqualified because they don't make this or because they're short. No bullshit, if I ran into a profile on a dating app that said you had to be a certain height I auto swiped left. Even though I always met those requirements.
@@WarmSun_MGM Yes, that is what she said. She said too many women who get money see other women in these brands and blow their bank accounts trying keep up.
But she also said she needs a rich man to put down money on her dreams.
But the problem is there is never any reciprocation.
And if he asks for some. She is considering the door. She got what she needed and she is willing to leave. A lot of women say they will take care of their man. But when push comes to shove… 80%…. Divorce.
That’s not relationship behavior. That’s is a locust.
You use the word simp, no one is taking you seriously man. 50k is barley enough to provide off of especially if you see yourself having kids. Imagine needing to work to maintain a household while pregnant 😂😂, jokes.
Damn. Guess I'm gonna stay single then. I only make $65K, but my house is paid, my car is paid, and when it breaks I'll go buy a new one and pay for that one too. I have more then enough in the bank to upgrade to a bigger, fancier house, but I don't need that. Just like I don't need to take on a parasite who just wants to live free. I'd be happy to date a woman with her own means and assets and build for a really nice retirement somewhere warm and beautiful. But I am not looking to support an adult child of a human being buying a bunch of useless designer goods that hold no value.
I always thought of this as common sense, but sadly I guess it isn't, when I see such weird videos/podcasts.
And have another like btw.
@@xiii0722Same. Like who tf raised these people??? I never expected to marry some woman and just have her leach off me. I won’t date a girl that’s a deadbeat. At least be in school for a degree, or have some kind of job. I’m only 20, and finishing my 3rd year of uni, but I already meet people who are content doing nothing but smoking weed and playing video games all day. It’s crazy to me.
@@xiii0722 Absolutely agree.
People who put that much value on flashy stuff, fine dining, expensive gifts and dates, are huge red flags. Especially if they can't afford that themselves and expect other to provide that life for them. To me that just sounds like financial irresponsibility. Absolutely not.
Protect this man at all cost😂
I understand the guys and I wanna be there for a guy no matter his money situation - but. Maybe it's a trust issue now, but I've been burned by the guys that you build with. Those guys don't want a woman that has seen them at their lowest. As soon as they started doing better for themselves, they found someone else yk. Started cheating once they felt like hot shit, whatever. Nevermind the dates I covered, the support I gave them, etc. Guys don't like dating when their money isn't right, outliers are just that - outliers. So yeah, if you can't afford to date, don't. Have your shit together. I don't disagree with these ladies despite their delivery lol
Why can’t black women have their preferences and y’all date women that want to date men that make 50k or less ?. This convo is so tiring smh. A lots of these women find rich men easily believe it or not.
Because you want a lot, but offer nothing except for fake beauty and overweight and in some cases, mutiple children, with mutiple men.
I’m the Bay Area. I make a “low income” of 68k. I save half my paycheck, and still can afford random gizmos and gadgets. My car is paid in cash, have no debt.
I’ve also seen multi six figure earners here who live paycheck to paycheck. income is only half of the equation
yup. if you cant save money , you are simply a broke working man. earning income is a skill. and so is saving it. both are required.
Well said and well done! I have been to San Francisco three times in my life. Stay safe out there!
I bailed on the bay - too expensive, too dirty, too much traffic, too much insane politics.
But yea, when you qualify for housing assistance, with a family of four, at $130k...you know there's a problem.
@@blackjackjesterI couldn't even get housing assistance when I was working a $28k per year job 💀 that job sucked and glad i left lmao
Hold up.. where TF are you living in the Bay area and able to save half your salary at 68k?? Are you still living with your parents? The average rent in that area would put you spending more than 50% on rent alone
Average rent is 3k a month... I'm calling BS on this post tbh
$50k a year isn’t enough to pay her food bill.
lol
I mean, it's possible to spend $500 on restaurants everyday while eating a moderate portion for breakfast lunch and dinner
@@michaelangst6078yeah if you’re an idiot
Her white husband chose to differ.
It isn't enough to pay anyone's food bill in this economy....
Idk. I took it as if you make 50k don’t date because it’s an unnecessary expense. And I agree. Making 50k in today’s world is not much so do you really want to spend your hard earned coins on someone who may or may not stick around? In my state after taxes 50k is only 39k a year. That’s rough when you have to make three times the rent (don’t even think about buying with that salary) I think she was trying to help but we are all so easily offended by truths these days, a lot of us missed that.
She’s broke, and she’s calling other dudes broke who can’t give her handouts to support her lifestyle.
I actually saw that video on Valentine's Day, of all days, & posted my response on X:
"Not long after my man & I began dating, he lost his job. We spent most dates back then going for walks, watching the planes fly in & out of our local airports while we talked, laughed, & listened to music, or we'd just hang out at my place watching TV.
A couple of our dates were even just the two of us set up at a picnic table at some park on a nice day, stuffing & hand addressing dozens of envelopes to send out his resume.
This year, we'll be celebrating our 30th anniversary (34+ yrs together). He's an amazing husband, a _solid_ provider, incredible friend, & and the best father to our child.
The nice trips, restaurants, cars, etc. eventually came. What I had all along, tho, *from jump,* was a _good man._ I would've been the dumbest b*tch _alive_ had I put a wage minimum on our relationship."
Huh….. i really don’t have words to express how I feel reading this, just …. Wow.
When he struggled, you struggled with him. You did it together. Companionship over comfort anytime.
Nothing establishes a bond more than shared sacrifice. If someone will not help share any of life's burdens, there is no real bond to begin with.
lemme not get too cheesy but this made me tear up i hope you had a happy valentines day and god bless
Wait did he pay for all the nice trips, cars, etc? If he did.. how come we don’t hear of women doing this? Genuine question
Im a female instrumentation apprentice, for the past 4 years ive been on 25k per year. If i get taken on this year ill be making just over 50k a year. My boyfriend makes just over 20k per year. We have been in a happy relationship for 2 years ❤.
I feel like we are in a good place, money isn't everything. For me 50k a year is amazing in the area in which I live, and is more than I've ever earned in my life up to this point.
These women are delusional and so out of touch with the financial reality of most couples.
How are yall even living? Making 45k a year together is combining for 22 bucks an hour I'm not hating on your relationship I'm happy yall are happy but man yall gotta be on the struggle bus
If you had kids with a man making 20k a year, you will be working while in pain with your pregnancy 😂. People can come at this lady all they want and throw out unrealistic life scenarios but you can not survive off of that with kids. She's saying the same thing dudes say all the time "money before women."
You're more delusional than she is 😂😂
I like hearing this because this is literally everywhere around us. Unfortunately these videos tend to turn into a lot of women/feminism bad comments. The truth is most people don’t make that kind of money, sometimes I think certain videos may be rage bait. I hope the best for you and yours !
You're more delusional than her.
She talking down on people who are genuinely in love with each other and doing their best to live life.
"You are the protagonist of a pixar movie", is crazy 😂😂😂
My wife and I have been together for over 8 years now. We met when she was an Admin making $12.50/hr while looking to pursue her Masters. I was a security guard making $11.50/hr…Now I’m a Data Analytics Dev making over 6 figures while my wife is making a lil under 6 figures. I’m also setting up other income streams for us so that she retires before 40 and never have to worry about working to survive.
The key is to do what works for you and your partner and stop worrying about what others think.
Going from those wages to that income in a short time is suspect. Never heard of an admin making that little either.
@@normalguycap it also does not say much about the issue in itself, because the problem is not making regular job money, but how some morons look at that and think you are broke for working a normal job and not earning top dollar. but I guess the programming is strong in americans that you are defined by your job and ONLY your job...
Respect to you my guy!
Damn that’s love still
Social media is such a double edge sword... we live in an age where the ignorants, the pretenders and the fools can have a voice as loud as the wise. It's easy to listen to any idiots share their garbage opinion on any podcast. Anyone with an ability to communicate can now spread their misinformation to a large audience... I hate that people actually listen to this shit and agrees to it. Those wannabe Relationship experts, dating life connaisseur and whatever how they call themselves... it's sickening to me how much bullshit they are ready to say just to generate clicks.
Exactly punks in realistically aka in life 🥱👀👍🏿🔥🔥🔥🥂
I miss the days when being able to use the internet required somewhat significant intelligence, like owning an actual computer and being able to install and configure the connections manually.
@@BinkyTheToasterI miss the days when you had to read the instruction manual to assemble your home stereo system because the wires weren’t color-coded and the internet didn’t exist.
I’ve learned almost everything isn’t black and white, everything has nuances and complexity. U just have to remember ur life is only urs to live, why listen to anyone outside urself?
Social media has made dumbasses lots of money.
If you're dating women like this, 50k a year will not be sufficient
Broke women don’t see themselves as broke. They think they’re dating the wrong guy.
Those women are so wack. I’m glad they’ve exposed their lack of character. when I met my husband he worked at a gas station, a parking lot, and drove Uber while studying for his masters. We literally went to the park for most of our dates and I’d make a picnic so he didn’t have to worry about buying food since he was so broke. Walks are some of my favorite memories of our courtship🥹. If I’d blown him off because he wasn’t 6ft and made pennies then I wouldn’t have the most INCREDIBLE husband in the world. The type of person who takes a bus after three jobs and going to class to see me for an hour before going to the next job. Now he makes the salary these women think they’re entitled to, but they sure as hell don’t deserve it.
AMEN! Say it louder for the haters in the back! Blessings to you & yours frfr.
Your last sentence. Chef's kiss. Amazing, bravo, say it louder!!
This should be pinned
This sounds like this was written by a dude 😂 although nowadays women will brag about having kids with brokies because it makes them feel better than the rest that take raising a good family seriously.
I always imagined going for a walk as a first date. Never understood the meal thing. You don't know eachother that well and now you're just gonna eat? 😅
“Bottom of the barrel” while being as deep as an oil reserve is absolutely ledusional😂
Ok fellas real talk if you consider your self a Provider & make 40-50k you should work on your self & your earning potential before dating. If you’re ok with 50/50 more modern dating than 50k is ok to date.
But you can’t call yourself a provider & think 50k, with out motivation to earn more is acceptable its not fair to your girl/wife
I know women that make 100k/year... They were more broke than I was. It's not about how much you make, it's about how you spend it.
I’m sorry but TEACHERS don’t make a lot of money. Definitely not a hundred thousand, But that’s where you’re dropping your kids off every day. What is she talking about.
It’s these RUclips podcasters thats talking like this….
Most of not all these female podcasters think like this, pour minds, whorible decisions, just to name a few. All sex workers too, check em out yourself
Separate from what these women are saying, Teachers deserve six-figure incomes for all they do and put up with.
Teachers make above 100k in nyc
What in the video suggested they said don't leave your children with broke people?
She’s a 35 year old single lady carrying two salami rolls on her belly talking like she gonna get a real high earner lmao
Dang bro she carrying two salami rolls. Man
😂😂😂
And not even ONCE she is thinking that maybe she is the bottom of the barrel.
Damn she only 35… the wall doesn’t miss
Saying that with a bit back is crazy
That floor is crying
she 35 and still dating.... her reality speaks louder than any words
35, visibly overweight, very average looking face...and she has demands. Sometimes the jokes write themselves.
Why is dating at 35 a problem?
@@Alexxluv It's not. But at the same time, it doesn't make you an expert whose opinion should be heard, it's quite the opposite.
@@AlexxluvFor a woman, let's say, it will be....difficult
I'm sure you can work out why
@@Alexxluvif you're a woman at 35 and looking for a man that wants to settle down and have kids, you're running out of time and fast. Not just for finding a partner that will give you that life, but also because the older you get the more complications will arise when it comes to having kids. May be harder to conceive at all the older you get.
The floor creaking while bro walking when they hear some bs cracks me up 😭 it’s like the floor hear that bs and said “let me creak bro, this is preposterous”
As they always said
Floor the secret third member, when it starts talkin, it’s real shit
@@aerickmon3350😂
Facts lolol@@aerickmon3350
Ok I was wondering if it’s just me. Floor is creaky af
They need to fix that floor, they make enough from RUclips lol
3:25 protagonists of a Pixar movie is hilarious 😂
something about a low value woman calling ANYONE bottom of the barrel is wild.
“You are the protagonist of a Pixar movie” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was dying laughing 😂
Shrek is DreamWorks not Pixar. Wrong company. Just saying.
@@summerrose8110 boooooo 😒
Nawl fr 😂😂😂
@@Skywalker721 Sure boo me for correcting someone who said the right company who owns the franchise. So terrible, I should end my life right now. But I won't because I don't want to go to hell.
I'm so glad you said that. "You wanna come when he's at the finish line but he needed you handing him a bottle of water on the way". My husband and I came up TOGETHER. We were making $20k a year just 10 years ago. He worked full time and went to school full time while I took care of the house and kids. Was it fun? No. It was hard. Really hard. But we're now making over $100k per year TOGETHER.
These women also wonder 'why can't I find a good man!?". Honey, it's bc they don't trust you. Because of this behavior right here. Her attitude tells me that she will leave and take half at the first sign of rough waters.
These women will be alone forever. They'll be 85 wondering why nobody ever loved them.
Edited to add- we have money now and I never buy designer anything. That is a fake status symbol. We have REAL money in investments that are growing by the day.
Typically, the people who buy Chanel are the ones who can't actually afford it. Real money folks dont spend it on that mess 😂
Love this. All of this. My husband and I also started from the very bottom together. Feels real nice to be now at the top together
It’s no benefits to struggling with a man . Once he’s on he won’t want you anymore he has options 🤷🏽♀️
@@Theworldismine5Not true. Me and my wife have the same story, and so do countless others.
@@Theworldismine5and that is why having values is so important, like Aba said most of y'all just judge based on financial circumstances and allow all your life's choices to be guided only by that. So at the first sign of greener pastures at any point in your life you dip, basically table hopping
My mom dated, married, and supported broke men all her life and has nothing to show for it but despair. You had a 1 out of 100,000 man, not saying 50k is broke because it's not but women dating broke men are dealing with fights about the bills and things that aren't fun.
1:02 I cannot stand their platform like you can’t stand F&F. Cannot STAND!
“Only making a 100k”……when she said that I was like “what what? That’s really good income!” lol 😂
Her contempt for the women who are willing to struggle with their partners is probably the most disgusting thing in this video to me. Everyone can have their delusions about salary their guy should make but to call women who don't prioritize disposable income "bottom of the barrel" is such a despicable take all I can think is that she knows she's not a woman that will ever experience a love like that a love that makes her want to stick through the tough times, she'll only ever love a wallet. There is a hollowness that can't be denied in that and people often chase further into the "addiction" to stave off the feeling of hollowness, it's why I think 100K has become the new "making it" bench mark by these people's standards cause it has to keep being more to make up for the hollowness that continues to be more prevalent.
That's the best part for me. Don't have kids with a struggling brokie your gonna be working the day before you give birth 😂
What happened to her Neck?
Exactly!
" When I was 20 I dated broke guys. But I'm 35 now, he must come here correct and with a wallet"
Gee, I wonder why men usually are looking for the younger, firmer ,more fun, less demnading slimmer 20s version of her, rather than her??
It's a Scooby mystery
1. Courtship is a hell of a lot different than dating now days.
2. If YOU think a man has to make over 50K to be worthy of dating, the problem isn't him honey. The problem is YOU!
I think he should at least plan on making more because if u live in the city, 50k will barely be enough to survive.
@@sync_mxlly5610 of course. You wouldn't want to be with someone with no ambition. But you shouldn't expect them to make a certain amount before even considering a date. If he has dreams and the ambition and dedication to make them happen, there's absolutely nothing wrong with what he's making when you first start dating. Especially when you're young. The older you are the smaller the dating pool gets and most of the men that make that type of money at the age of 30+ is already married or engaged. MOST (not all) of the men left for women around her age are going to be broke. More than likely she had her monitary standards set to high at a young age and didn't want to put the work into building up a man, motivating and standing next to him to support him in coming up in life.
@@sync_mxlly5610 Who says you have to live in the city? And if you can't live comfortably combining incomes with someone who makes 50 grand then something is wrong.
If you make 50k stay away from that type of women.
If you make 100k stay away from that type of women, you are going to be milk
I am personally offended that she calls girls who accept a man who earns 50k a year as a “bottom of the barrel girl”.. Excuse me? Honey what are YOU delivering to the table?! 😒
3:20 Bro, you can't disrespect Shrek like that
"Well that's not very nice....he's just a donkey." 😂
50k is broke? I make 50k a year. 33, no debt, no wife, no kids. Plenty of money in the back.
It doesn’t matter how much money you make “to an extent “ it matters how much you save and invest.
I’ve dated a lot but I’m not giving my money away just because someone feels entitled to it.
They are crazyyyyyy 50k is good! Not broke at all. Delusional 🤦🏾♀️
50k isn’t broke, but it’s about average and really not much in this economy. Lots of comments are people saying “I have 50k it’s plenty!” And then going on to describe how they live with family, have no dependents, second hand goods, infrequent vacations, etc. Nothing wrong with that, but let’s not lie like that is a substantial income.
@@SunnyBear11thank you. I’m comfortable…. But nowhere near content and my mental and physical health isn’t good at all. Can’t afford better nutrition, can’t afford a day off to even take a walk and clear my head, don’t live alone and don’t have privacy. I’m increasing my income and building but that doesn’t feed the soul. $50k is chump change and poor in a lot of places
Talk yo shit!!
@@SunnyBear11oh yeah definitely agree
Giving 10,000 to his woman to invest in her business. Hell
Now we got to be investors too?!
Not you. People who can afford it
"If you're obese, don't date. If you can't manage the basic aspects of your health, you're not ready to manage a relationship." - me on that panel.
See, had I been on that panel, I would have said that, and it would have been a major issue for them and a lot of other people. So, we can shame people and make absurd rules for them simply for making average money but not for being gross/large?
I wouldn't be surprised if people throw a hissy fit for this comment despite the fact that I'm clearly making a point to say, STOP shaming people for being average. It's 'average' to work 40 hours a week and make $50K. It's not average to be obese.🤷🏿♂️
For real
Lol fuck em if there feelings get hurt
🤷🏾♂️
Ironically, in America, it's average to be overweight though
That means half of Americans would stop dating 😂
I just bought my 5th property at age 28. I still buy clothes from goodwill to these discounted clothing stores because why should I pay $40 for 1 shirt when I can get 30 shirts for the same price. I remember my sister bought a Gucci bag for like $500 but kept asking me for money for gas and food. My other sister on the other hand showed places like these discounted stores to save money. I bought a pair of white shoes that looked really nice at Marshalls for $20. Only certain brands i will pay extra for like North Face. I bought a backpack for $150 and 8 years later that bag is still going strong with no holes and their jackets last long as well. I drive a 2007 Honda Accord because my neighbor only wanted $2000 for it. Takes me from point A to B and has AC.
You got motion brother that’s all that matters
Bro is a whole vibe and I'm all for it
So what do you want a cookie? Are you frugal?are you ready to date? If your girl did want a $300 pair of shoes are you going to buy it for her because you are able to? If she wanted you to dress in more current clothes, it seems like on your fifth property you can do that, will you do that? Are you single now? sounds like a yes. There’s more to YOUR situation I THINK.
I don’t really know what the point of your post was. And I would like to🙂
Yeah we don't need your life story on a youtube comment section. A "this bitch is stupid" would have sufficed
Stay focus young King 👑 ! You’re on the road to success.
I mean people can also say if you're over 250 lbs you're too phat to be loved but I just think it's up to the person
To all men,
Not every woman thinks like this!! You just need to find the right one
These are the same women who call a guy corny, lame because they're studying for school, or working a average job trying to come up. Then the minute that guy comes up and dates someone else they'll talk shit saying "oh now you're successful and think you too good for me/us!" but forget how they weren't good enough for them while he was grinding. They're hypocrites who contradict themselves at every turn
No they don't.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing that's all you got? These women are trash. They want to wait at finish line for the winners but don't wanna run the race with the guy as he comes up. Then they have the nerve to be talking about the man investing in her business, building off the back of the guy. Basically free loading. Then they got the nerve to call a woman who is willing to grind with a guy a "bottom of the barrel bitch"? These women are garbage. I only made 35k a year when I met my wife while she was making 95k a year. She stuck with me and now I haven't made less than 130k last 15 years. My take home this year after taxes more than doubled my wife's pay before taxes. She was there for me on my grind so now I make sure to take care of her now. These women in video don't deserve a good man. They can chase the bag on their own and leave the hard working dudes alone. They don't deserve that guy who grinded to success. They're looking for come ups, not companions. Trash morals, trash values, equals trash individuals!
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing yeah they are trash. They don't want to help a guy come up, but expect a man to give them 10 bands to invest in their business? We call those types of people free loaders. Don't want to help you grind to achieve success but want to show up once you're successful. Then to call a woman a "bottom of the barrel bitch" because she's willing to grind with the guy? Garbage mindset. My wife significantly out earned me when we first met. $95k a year to my $35k a year. She saw I was trying and stuck with me and now I haven't made less than 130k a year for last 15 years. I doubled her income the last two years and for her sticking with me I make sure to take care of her.
These women don't deserve a man who works his ass up from nothing to something because they don't wanna run the race with him. They just want to wait at the finish line for the winners. They've got trash morals, trash logic, trash values, and so that equates to being trash people.
@@LisaSoulLevelHealing explain how they don't then? I can't wait to hear this.
yeah they are trash. They don't want to help a guy come up, but expect a man to give them 10 bands to invest in their business? We call those types of people free loaders. Don't want to help you grind to achieve success but want to show up once you're successful. Then to call a woman a "bottom of the barrel bitch" because she's willing to grind with the guy? Garbage mindset. My wife significantly out earned me when we first met. $95k a year to my $35k a year. She saw I was trying and stuck with me and now I haven't made less than 130k a year for last 15 years. I doubled her income the last two years and for her sticking with me I make sure to take care of her.
These women don't deserve a man who works his ass up from nothing to something because they don't wanna run the race with him. They just want to wait at the finish line for the winners. They've got trash morals, trash logic, trash values, and so that equates to being trash people.
I love it when Aba does that alternate accent. Always makes me laugh. I make $65K and my wife makes $56K. We live very comfortably. We both worked hard together as a team to get to this point. We both had low points, but we lifted each other up to give us the strength and confidence to get us where we are today. Couldn't ask for a better partner.
Out of curiosity, do you have kids?
The conversation needs to be practical if its going to have any continuity. On what planet and in what society does a man with money and resources doubling where this person pretends to be in life say to themselves I want a 6'0 260lb arrogant non feminine/domesticated live in partner? You ladies are a lot smarter than you look. Make an NFL linebacker in lingerie make sense to the man with the most resources. If she is married I want a picture of her husband to prove my fundamental point immediately.
@@eneiban65032 women can’t have kids
What state you live in ?
this applies to the international dating market the do it for the growth of their platform, they arent wrong about the equity increase moving to six figures if you dont want to live a basic 5 kids 1 house you finally pay off when you die & inherit to your kids type of dating life, for everyone else who aspires to that just ignore what she says, go shack up with someone of trust and ride off into the sunset its not that deep if the two can handle teamwork & effort during the hard times, as for everyone else when you here these stats pipe up its game time put up or shut up.
I feel like in todays society everything is expensive. Us as men should probably put more time and energy into finding ways to make more money than to worry about dating. If we meet someone during the process than thats cool to.