WHAT MAKES A TRUE INFJ EXTREMELY DANGEROUS | RAREST PERSONALITY TYPE MBTI
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INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today we're talking about why a true INFJ is so extremely dangerous. We INFJs carry this trait within us every single day of our lives, and still, most of us don't take advantage of it. We don't wanna tap into it. We actually bury it deep down within us because we are afraid of its power. We are afraid how people are going to react. We are afraid that we're going to get abandoned, that people are going to judge us, when in the end, it's just a necessary component to becoming everything that we can be. As INFJs, we have to learn one thing for sure. It's not going to be enough to learn things and to gather information. We already do this. The thing that we, as INFJs need is to learn how to take action and how to want to take action towards our INFJ Epic life.
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What are some of your characteristics as an INFJ that you are holding back on because they seem too dangerous to lean into?
Telling people what I really think about them/the situation/their response to it, from fear of it hurting them.
The ability to align with the truth. 0:55 . Those living in delusion are beyond change and willing to fight to protect it.
@@batelhunt3913yes they can’t handle it. Always speechless when I’ve done it
love that thumb nail of Dark Wenzes
@@MegaCyberleader Those shadows have much wisdom to grow upon. "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." Carl Jung.
If a bully is coming at you negatively, that means they are looking for a reaction and picking a fight. Just like with a toddler throwing a tantrum, they best way I've found to deal with it is firm detachment. Sometimes saying "I shall not respond when spoken to in that manner" or "when you can speak to me in a calmer way, we can resume this discussion. " It takes away their power. I usually lose in battles of heated confrontation, so I will withdraw access until the other person plays by my rules.
I have a badge holder that says, "I match energy, so you tell me how we gonna act."... It gets the point across well. 😉
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I really like this thanks 🙏 😊
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😂😂😂 That about says it, doesn't it ? Love this.
I had to take a break from "Healer" occupation when I saw I was being used more as an enabler in a broken System-which was the opposite of my intent.🤔🤷
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Some people have fallen in flying monkeys possition without even knowing. That's why we shouldn't engage in gossiping, especially when don't know that person first hand.
If we all could stop gossiping about unknown people smears campaigns wouldn't be as sucessful as they are.
I find it difficult to tell toxic people how I truly feel about them. It seems easier to simply door slam.
It works better because they know what they did; why to explain what they already know?
Telling someone what you won't accept is setting boundaries. Explaining someone who already tresspassed your boundaries is giving them fuel.
@@Lyrielonwind oh shit. Yeah, i quit recently. I have no desire to explain to them why. I don't want to be in the setting when they get defensive. Some People are beyond change. It would be something else if they would ask me why. But then they would be that reflected, that I did not have to Door-Slam on them.
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If they are narcissists, they know why; because you are over their BS so, in that case they would ask why to induce you into a conversation which is pulling you in the wrestling ring. I think is better to door slam them, saves you energy and time. One thing is making a mistake and another is a pattern. In the first case is healthy explaining but in the second case is not; you are giving them fuel.
INFJs don't quit jobs easily or because someone said something nasty; we are resilient.
@@julianre.2268 They normally know exactly what they have done.
It’s not wise to tell toxic people how you feel. No hood would come from that.
I've been called beautiful my entire life, but I usually (not always) dull my shine becasue women get jealous and they react mean to me. Not easy. Sad that women can't support each other more. Maybe is it is just human nature?
Never dull your shine. If another woman comes at me in any way, I’m just even nicer to her lol.
I think it’s part of human nature, also culture, upbringing and how they were raised…childhood issues and trauma. Insecure women are usually male oriented, they’ve been groomed and programmed to seek male validation and approval. Your beauty gets in the way of their being “chosen” by a nearby male, who is most likely insecure as well and using the situation as an opportunity to gain access to you. Your natural beauty, which you have zero control over, is a boost to his ego. It also causes fear in them, so they’ll try to “bring you down a peg or two” lowering your esteem and confidence, all for their insecurity.
Observe your circles and identify triangulation. Then steer clear of the deeply insecure male and female. They will harm you. Ensure you are working on your own mental well being and that you have a community and strong bonds around you.
Most of all, trust your instincts and intuition, it’s rarely wrong.
I’m sorry you have to experience this, it’s an unfortunate reality.
@@jewls808 thank you
Happy for you that you’re called beautiful. Being quite a plain woman myself, of course I’ve felt jealous of pretty women but I do my best to temper it constantly. I very much appreciate the pretty women who RECOGNIZE their advantage over us and remain kind to all anyway. So if you’re a kind one, please keep being that- trust me, those of us who lack so much good in life due to our invisibility, DO see the beauty of good character as well. 🙂
@@DHARK1873 Yes, I always see the inner beauty in people and never judge looks that is why it hurts when people are mean to me.
I find the independent thinking is the most dangerous and threatening to people. It means we can’t be controlled or easily influenced like they thought and that is scary to people because it seems unpredictable to them. The unknown can be a scary thought.
Only manipulators should get scary then
@@Verdeoxid scared or scary ?
YES! 59 going on 60 finally found my true genuine power, and it feels GOOD!
Yeah, you are right. Sometimes I don't flaunt my talents infront of others because i feel bad for people who aint so good in that specific field.
INFJ male here. My dad used to say that I was the calmest person in our violent, mean-spirited home. My mother once said of me, "Never push him too hard. You'll think a snake had bitten you."
INFJ greetings from Austria 🇦🇹 😊
Great channel!
I love how I can truly count on feeling empowered every time I watch your videos. Your work is very special. Thank you so much! ❤
Re outshining others, as an INFJ - yes we INFJs have fantastic qualities, and its in our nature to be modest about them (partly not to make others uncomfortable, partly because it seems ego driven, partly for fear of tall poppy syndrome) - but the thing is, nature didn't only give INFJs the good - it gave each type a specific unique slice of the good. Together we different types make up a whole, we dont serve that by feeling shaded, or reluctant to shine - each of we different types needs to fulfill the best of what we are - and part of that is each individually dealing with our own fears - with how another person feels their problem to deal with positively, not ours if we are already doing that.
I truely love listening to you, you are a revelation, the understanding of this personality trait has helped me immensely, but it’s been such a traumatic existence, I’m so tired of giving, of inspiring , of lifting people up but left alone and drained, I’m tired of wasting energy for unappreciative people, I’m learning. Thank you for you’re time and analysis I’m daz from australia , to my fellow INFJs keep strong, keep going, you are awesome
I'm a big believer that we need to take responsibility to live good, rational lives. And these decisions are easier to make when we know ourselves better. When I listen to your explanations, I appreciate the fact that you emphasize how we can take personal responsibility for how we handle what we were given to work with.
To be honest, sometimes putting this into action isn't always emotionally easy. But I have found that allowing myself to do something emotionally difficult, helps. In the upcoming weeks there are things that I really don't want to do, and in fact, am a bit afraid to. But listening to this video and concentrating on taking action and leaning into my independence - well it will help. 🙂
Good video.
I am too kind to the point that I was taken advantage of. I finally asserted myself, and they didn't like it. They started to drift away from me. I was so relieved that I kept my level of independence. I refused to play by her rules and be accepted.
Hello! Your videos have really changed so much of how I see things- thank you for doing this for fellow infjs. You can tell the information is deep and embodied. Looking forward to many more!
“Giving back what they are giving to you” wise words.
My GOD. YOU HIT THIS RIGHT ON SPOT. Just give them the Look. DO NOT MESS WITH ME. AND WALK AWAY. Wentz you are a living legend. Thank you for speaking up and sharing your insights and knowledge. Much appreciated and thanks 🙏🏼. Love from New Jersey. 😘😊🙌
Thank you! I am grateful to see this video. Now I own my own power and create life on my own terms.
I've been an INFJ every time I took the Myers-Briggs, officially or otherwise. I'm also an engineer. Over the years I've been granted some US patents. I stopped keeping the plaques on my office wall. I noticed that people would see them, and their faces would change. I could see that they felt "small" or inadequate somehow. We INFJs have to constantly hide ourselves in order to preserve the dignity of other people.
Thank you Wenzes!! This is literally where I’m at on my journey of my epic life. I use to tap into that power on by myself. The power I feel at random times is intense, so I suppress it since a kid. Now I’m learning to embrace it, it is apart of me and I love that it makes me ME! Thanks for the confirmation!!
The road less traveled. That is what describes my life very well. Also, I will not be shrinking myself anymore just to fit other peoples small worlds. I am grand and I am not feeling bad about it, or at least I am on the journey towards not hiding my greatness. And you Wenzes are a big part of my journey las year and a half. Thank you :)
This channel reminds me of that movie Idiocracy... we are living it.
WHAT MAKES A TRUE INFJ
EXTREMELY DANGEROUS
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#1
Show people
what you
can and
they cannot
do
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#2
Stop
putting more
effor into
people than
you're getting
back
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#3
Let people
know that
you're
not to be
messed with
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#4
lean into our
independence
12:15
#5
Focus on
yourself and
take action
towards your
INFJ epic life
Great video, as usual.
I too have done these things, especially the first 3 steps: I am actually a master of holding the mirror to people who think they have to mess with me - bad mistake - they never did it again. Thereby I am also showing step 4, leaning into independence.
I slept listening to you. Its so soothing and boring at the same time to listen to you. I love listening to you but sometimes I am tired as well. Its very good to watch you again. I really want you to make a video on how to discipline a very turbulent mind.
Thank you Wenzes 😊
I appreciate how knowledgeable you are on us INFJ,'s and helping us excel in our gifts. I enjoyed being part of your bootcamp and corresponding with this group of individuals.
Thank you, Wenzes.Your inputs were needed to be heard. It feels great to get confirmation on the point of views I thought were important, but now know for sure 😊
because they live in their head and are detached from reality , any actions taken could have detrimental effects
Phenomenal video and perfect timing.
Love those messages of "LEAN in. Not Back" from my INFJ dangerously awesome gifts, talents, & unique abilities! 👌🏾 #NarrowBrilliance #PrimarySkill #MakeINFJthePriority
Wenzes, your videos have truly helped me in the past 2 years. I’ve been really going through it and I am coming out the other end better!
Absolutely a fantastic video Wenzes 🙏👏🎯🇿🇦
I needed to hear this. Thank you.
Wow. Holy shit. Thank you so much Wenzes. This may be my favorite video you´ve ever done! This was so relateable. You´re such an incredible mentor!
Thank you for your words of empowerment
*One of the BEST Videos On This Channel* 🎯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👊👍
Excellent advice! Thank you ☺️!!
Melanieliebeeman Indeed.
I love the way you explain info type❤ u make me clear to my self 😅
I've never understood how, or why, my internal independence sets other people off, until now. And I really am not sure what to do. Obviously hiding is no longer a strategy, and besides, people see that gleam in my eye "I'm not your moldable clay". But at work I need a better strategy. I don't know what.
Thank you 🥹
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"Showing the other cheek" means you turn around and leave. That's how you show your other cheek.
That sentence from the Bible has been distorted.
You can't turn around without showing your other cheek unless you walk backwards instead of forward.
It's interesting that you say that "Turn the other cheek is misunderstood.". What you wrote here makes sense. Also there's another explanation as well, having to do with the culture of the Israel in which Jesus lived. It was forbidden to strike someone with your left hand. The left hand was reserved to do the "dirty work" (they didn't have electricity, indoor plumbing, and (to be blunt) toilet paper. So during the workaday routine the left hand was reserved to do the more icky jobs. So striking someone with your left hand had legal implications, and it was forbidden
Notice that Jesus said that when someone strikes you on your "right" cheek, turn the other cheek. The only kind of slap that Jesus could be referring to was a backhanded slap from the right hand that was reserved only for people who were in a supposedly in a so-called "upper position" and was only administered by a person in a so-called "upper position" to the other. (Servants, slaves, children etc.).
When the person who was slapped would turn the other cheek (the left one) it would seem as though it would leave them in a position to be struck hard with the other person's right hand. But there was a catch. A direct blow from the right hand to the left cheek was only done between equals. (There were legal implications there, too). So Jesus was actually telling them to turn the other cheek for a blow that wasn't going to happen.
You can find this information on Google. I'm currently reading a book by the late Bible scholar Walter Wink who explains this in detail. Even the idea of "going the extra mile" had fascinating cultural implications for its day. It's quite interesting to read about, whether you're a Bible believer or not.
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That's very interesting and I didn't know about the use of the palm and the back of the right hand depending of the status. A backhanded blow to a cheek is much painful. Thanks for the info 😊
WHAT MAKES A TRUE INFJ EXTREMELY DANGEROUS
1. show people what you can and what they cannot do -> 1:39
2. Stop putting more effort into people than you're getting back. -> 5:00
3. Let people know that you're not to be messed with -> 6:46
4. Lean in our independence -> 9:12
5. Focusing o nyour salf and taking action -> 12:22
yes if you taunt me i will show my capabilities and show out press it on and rub it in your face if u ask for it i indeed hold back but i do match the energy adventually, i give u 1 chance if u dont take it ill show u if u can outsmart me never.
What you say applies to relationships and not really dangerous situations in which we can show a very dark side of our character. Redefine this particular video in terms of situations involving organized crime and gangs. Here it seems who is the really dangerous character. .Long term.
YEP 😁 GOD BLESS
You're so extremely Beautiful Wenzes ❤
@wenzes How to work one on one ?
Looked like you went to the dark side there
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I think... This whole youtube channel is the most extroverted Ni-Ti loop I have seen so far.
In a theatrical sense, because other Ni-Ti loop usually collapsed on its own weight, this one is trying to gain more density to do so.
MBTI is a cognitive function based. And it is also additionally preferrential in the developmental aspect.
Definitively INFJ is one of the rarest in population and definitively the margin is ... Huge.
But those two facts arent mystical nor supernatural. The very dry and matter of fact explanations, or rather, known underlying mechanism of the statistics make it very silly to the point of insulting every single time the statistics is parotted again and again.
Yes, the underlying mechanics of it suggested the very vivid fiasco and loneliness INFJs will have to experience. INFJs themselves know this way before it happens thanks to their Ni function.
I dont sit well with the uncanny possibility of this all being a feed on their insecurities and weaknesses. It definitely feels very nice when someone says their inner intuition outloud. Especially so when it is a negative ones, as normally people dont want to talk about this.
Sure, our Ni cousin have Te as auxillary function to keep them in check, while our Fe function is probably overcapacitated by all the absorbing . But our Se function is still there to develop. And we can utilize Fe for ourselves too.
Again. MBTI is supposed to be based on cognitive functions. Behavioural and affective (emotions) are not its domain, albeit the three (cognitive behavioural and emotions) are interlinked. Ive listened to your videos. And I cant really ignore the sensational title and visual representation unless I switched of Se and focused Fe and ignored Ni and Ti momentarily. Feels like a spark of a Fe related cue to fuel a fire sustained by Ni-Ti loop. Sure, being an INFJ usually referred by the first two cognitive functions. But ignoring the other two, even without considering the theoretical framework it is based on, that is similar to ignoring the experiences of many INFJs that utilise and developed Fe and Se in a self improvement way.
Do I need validation? Yes. Do i need to demonize everyone else to be validated? Huh, Wait. Why do I need validation again?
Sincerely. An INFJ who feels like there are too many second hand feelings here so much so the "vibes" are ... Artificial with intent.
Being INFJ is hard enough that I dont think making it artificially harder is to anyone's benefit.
Let me put this in a tldr version..
Which part of this whole youtube channel premise is... An Ni-dom cognitive function preference?
In this video specifically... What exactly is this "dangerous"? Who defined it and why? And why "dangerous" is the nomenclature of choice? And why persistently so?
The advice seems good? Sure. But are the intuitions... Good? Or rather introverted? I mean, INFJ is an Ni dom with Fe aux, in comparison to INTJ as an Ni dom with Te aux.
Are the advices a good introverted intuition? With Fe aux?
There is definitely a lot of Ti sprinkled. Without Se informed.
Are you really encouraging people to become a danger towards themselves and others?! You really have a lot to learn, Wenzes. Don’t get fooled by her, people. If she wished you well, she would show you how to deal with those people without cutting yourself in the process. Consider this video as a demonstration how dangerous she is. And decide for yourself.