These are some really good insights- I fold laundry every Sunday night while I watch a favourite TV show and sip a delicious mocktail. I call it my laundry party and I look forward to it all week. Find a way to combine the task with something you love ❤️
Good job!! My Mom was a packrat! I only do it with crafting supplies!! So hard, but we accumulate so much stuff! It is important to clear things out. ❤. LOL!! You are so funny!! 11 year old Preger pants!! Wow!! Yes! Time to donate some clothes to goodwill!! I do that once every couple years. It is a donation on you taxes and yes, it never fails, I give something away, then one month later I am looking for it! Hahahaha. But it always feel so great to have the extra space!!! You’ll love it!! I 100% agree, no rush. Do it as you have time. You’ve got this!! I’ll always be cheering you on and in your corner. ❤
Very inspiring! Yes Aubrey I agree Self-care gives us the freedom to express ourselves, recharge, and be ready for anything that comes our way. Take the time today to love yourself. You deserve it Aubrey 🤗
Great stuff! Aubrey, I really relate to people pleasing. I try so hard and because I have so many physical limitations it feels even more frustrating when I fail at it! I do take it so personally!
@@melissaferguson3464 oh Melissa I feel for you because I know how hard it is to be like this. I think we need to start thinking about ourselves as well because when we are letting ourselves get down it’s so hard to do for others. This is something I am going to really work on this year, a balance between myself and others. 🥰
Wow 😮... This is absolutely amazing videos sharing dear friend ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Really enjoyed watching Super big big like thumbs up 👍👍👍👍👍 See you again, keep intouch❤❤
You may be an empath, Aubrey. I know the overwhelming sense when duties and chores pile up. Between work and home, I've been trying to catch up myself. Oh my, I have clothes from college (I'm a pack rat) that I don't like parting with. Thank you, Aubrey, for sharing your journey with us.
@@alfred-l5g hey Alfred, thanks for watching. I think it’s the things that remind us of our younger years are the hardest things to let go, especially for me. I am hoping this year I can let go of some of this stuff that is just taking up space. Hope you have a great weekend.
Hi Aubrey! I really enjoyed this video 😊 where we different is I throw or donate everything to the point that I do it too quickly sometimes. It’s probably because my mom is the opposite 😅
@@noexcuses_beliefinmyself thank you very much I was hesitant at first to share, but I realized that I think a lot of people are going thru the same things so it might be a good idea to share. Maybe some people will pick up a few tidbits along the way that will help them as well. 😊
@@StacysSagas the darn boxes got me for a long time, I had sooooo many for just in case. We got rid of all of them and it was really satisfying. Thanks for your support Stacy. 💜
@ Same the first time I tossed a box I needed one of the same size literally a week later. It was hard because I had to go buy a box. 📦 But I’ve realized over time that the space that the collapsed boxes took up was also a cost and that changed my mindset completely.
@ of course that is how it happens right after you throw it out. I needed a box the other day and my neighbor is a frequent Amazon purchaser so I went over and asked if I could have one and she said sure you need more than one and I said NOPE one is plenty. 😆
I need to go through my closets and dressers and get rid of things I am not using. I have been hanging on to clothing I haven't worn in at least 2 or 3 years and it's time to clear it out👍I still have packed boxes from when I moved here 2.5 years ago so I need to follow your advice👍With laundry we do it when the hamper is full and usually every other day laundry is done here, I love doing laundry so that is easy for me, the bedding gets done once a week also, I hate cleaning and thats where I have a hard time because I am a clean freak and everything has to be perfectly clean here and it is very frustrating to keep a house that way especially if you hate cleaning lol So once I de-clutter everything that should help👌You sound like you have got a great start and a great plan👍You will get there and I wish you luck and thanks for inspiring me to do that same love 🥰🥰❤️❤️
@@geminigirl9998 yes do it, you should do it and see how much more room you have in your closet afterwards. Oh man I wish I could love doing laundry. I used to love to clean until I had a family. I felt like right after I cleaned a space they would come home and all my efforts were for nothing and I was feeling exhausted all the time. At some point I do need to come up with a cleaning schedule to make my life easier. I can tell you one think I know for a fact it is much harder to cling when there is stuff all over the place. I have areas in my home that have not been dusted in years because of all the crap in that area. Cheers to 2025 and making our lives easier and better. 🥂
Wow, what a great title,. I've been around here feeling that same kind of way and really trying to just go through stuff, get it together, cause there's a lot of things that I keep holding on to ..thank you for the inspiration. ..Bless you✅
@@Rrukofall Rruk happy I could help. Things have a hold on us, but they also have a way of giving us anxiety. I think I finally got to the point where I knew I had to do something so 2035 is the year to clear and not allow my stuff to give me anxiety any longer. I hope you can get thru your stuff as well and feel good about it. 🤩 I am here cheering you on. 🥳
@@budgetwithfatima6530 hi Fatima, I think we all keep a lot inside and it helps to get it out and to free your emotions. 🥰 I know it’s hard, but baby steps really do help.
You go Queen 🤴 One day at a time ❤You’re going to feel so much better better..Declutter is freedom ❤ I enjoyed this video very informative.Queen people pleasers can never satisfy the person that they try to please. you’ll get there Queen one day at a time as a matter fact I’m still clearing out. It’s overwhelming because when you look at the things that you accumulate over the years, you don’t realize it until you start clearing things out and when you clear things out, your mind becomes more focused and clearer ❤❤Tfs
@@angeler6 oh my gosh it is so true. It’s funny how things slowly accumulate in our homes and we don’t realize it until we have to sort thru it all. I am excited to see what I can accomplish this year. Thank you for your support. I am cheering you on as you get through hey your stuff as well. 🎉
@@thefragrancefairyThank you, it can really be overwhelming with the accumulation, we comfortable until we get uncomfortable and when you’re uncomfortable, it’s time to have a mindset change to get rid of some stuff. like I said one day at a time because a different mindset is a great thing..Good night ❤Have a Peaceful night 👈🏽
Oh, Aubrey - I relate to this so much ❤ You’re doing a great job keeping at it. Reflection and action are difficult enough on their own, but doing both consistently, amidst everything else happening in life, especially when you feel depleted, takes a lot of grit and determination. Love how intentional you’re being. I fell off my decluttering and organization journey awhile back because we did an out of state move and I am still trying to get settled. I want to get back into a rhythm and routine that works for me but it’s been difficult to find that balance. Have you heard of these folks? I used to watch them all the time here on RUclips to help motivate me and give me resources on that journey. Hope you might find them helpful, even if just background information as you work. - the minimal mom - Clutterbug - dana k. White (her container concept is so simple and makes so much sense)
@@AmandaTheWaxNerd Amanda thank you so much for your support on this journey. I have started and failed so many times and it has been very frustrating. I keep asking why I can’t keep going or why can’t I maintain? I am hoping I can take this all the way to the end of the year. Sometimes I feel this can be a real struggle especially with kiddo, they add a whole new element to this process. I am sure you can relate with that as well. Thank you for the channel recommendations I am going to check out all of them. You can never have too many tools at your disposal. 💕
@ absolutely, totally get all that! The small things do add up and that’s what I try to remind myself when I’m frustrated for not getting more done. Rome wasn’t built in a day and all that. But the box thing really resonates as well. I am also a keeper of boxes, especially since we moved and will likely move again in 1-2 years. But I’ve decided if it’s worth keeping, I want it in a nice storage bin. No more cardboard, or at least minimal amounts of stuff that makes sense for it. That said, nowadays we get so many boxes with deliveries and it’s hard to get rid of useful things that could have a second life. But I’ve found that I save the just in case stuff too often and never use or can’t find it so I just buy new stuff. So what’s the point, unless you’re uber organized or have a ton of space to store it. That’s what I’m working on going forward: getting rid of the excess boxes that I don’t have immediate plans for, and if or when I need boxes, I’ll buy new ones.
@ checked out the first two and subscribed, clutter bug is hilarious. Looking forward to seeing this container concept. Thanks again for these great recommendations. 💕
@ you nailed it, I save it for a second use and then when I need it I can’t find it. Story of my life. Throwing a box away was good because we call our house Jenga, you grab something and 10 things fall over and it so frustrating. We actually have a standing joke in our house. When you hear a crash we ask are you okay and if you are you just say Jenga. Funny not funny so I am looking forward to getting under my clutter threshold, because I am way over it in some areas right now. 🙅♀️
@@jeanniefarley Jeannie you really should I love that it’s a no rush system and it really makes you look at me he entire circle, the stuff the mental issue and the emotional issue I really believe they are all linked. I got my copy on Amazon., let me know if you pick it up. 😊
I need to inventory my clothes as well. LOL @ the 11 yr old pregnancy pants. I have some shirts from middle school that are still in my closet that I didn't wear because they would get "too stretched out"
@@MeetMsMarie LOL right we all have clothes in our closet that we have had for years. It’s had to just let go sometimes, but darn it girl I am going to try really hard to Marie Kondo my closet this year. 😆
@@lgeorges1 hey George yes this series seems to be quite the hit I have had several people message me as well about it. I just hope people feel as strongly as I do as the year progresses. Lots of people get excited at the beginning of the year and then fizzle out, I know because I have also been in that situation. Cheers to 2025 and clearing out all my 💩
@@thefragrancefairy hehehe you really have the right attitude for the task, and after all nobody is better than our selves to do those kind of things right! lol
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These are some really good insights- I fold laundry every Sunday night while I watch a favourite TV show and sip a delicious mocktail. I call it my laundry party and I look forward to it all week. Find a way to combine the task with something you love ❤️
Good job!! My Mom was a packrat! I only do it with crafting supplies!! So hard, but we accumulate so much stuff! It is important to clear things out. ❤. LOL!! You are so funny!! 11 year old Preger pants!! Wow!! Yes! Time to donate some clothes to goodwill!! I do that once every couple years. It is a donation on you taxes and yes, it never fails, I give something away, then one month later I am looking for it! Hahahaha. But it always feel so great to have the extra space!!! You’ll love it!! I 100% agree, no rush. Do it as you have time. You’ve got this!! I’ll always be cheering you on and in your corner. ❤
🙂 Great Job 👍Big like 🙂Thanks for sharing great video👍Keep it up👍Stay blessed ever🙂With Best Wishes 🙂🙂
@@homemadefood99 thank you very much and appreciate your support. 😇
Very inspiring!
Yes Aubrey I agree
Self-care gives us the freedom to express ourselves, recharge, and be ready for anything that comes our way.
Take the time today to love yourself. You deserve it Aubrey 🤗
@@rialolong Ria, thank you I really appreciate your support and to looking forward to self care. 💜
A great video very true hope it works for you thanks for sharing 😊
@@Cali_Collector75 thank you so much, baby steps will get all these projects done. ✅
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More blessing to come
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@@افكارواصلاحاتمتعددةوهادفة-ظ5ل thank you very much. 😁
Great stuff! Aubrey, I really relate to people pleasing. I try so hard and because I have so many physical limitations it feels even more frustrating when I fail at it! I do take it so personally!
@@melissaferguson3464 oh Melissa I feel for you because I know how hard it is to be like this. I think we need to start thinking about ourselves as well because when we are letting ourselves get down it’s so hard to do for others. This is something I am going to really work on this year, a balance between myself and others. 🥰
Hi my dear friend thanks so much for another great inspirational video
Awesome … a year to clear is great..
Good for you my friend… great sharing.
@@nanay71 thank you very much. 😀
My pleasure 😊
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This is absolutely amazing videos sharing dear friend ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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See you again, keep intouch❤❤
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You may be an empath, Aubrey. I know the overwhelming sense when duties and chores pile up. Between work and home, I've been trying to catch up myself. Oh my, I have clothes from college (I'm a pack rat) that I don't like parting with.
Thank you, Aubrey, for sharing your journey with us.
@@alfred-l5g hey Alfred, thanks for watching. I think it’s the things that remind us of our younger years are the hardest things to let go, especially for me. I am hoping this year I can let go of some of this stuff that is just taking up space. Hope you have a great weekend.
Wow congrats 👏👏👏👏 my friend ❤️ I'm happy to you hope more blessed come come to you God bless you always ❤️ and more power have a great day 💗
@@montajesmarissa thank you very much, thank you for the blessing 🙏
It's wonderful job to you my friend, cheers 🥂🥂🥂
@@privatlukis thank you cheers to you as well. 🥂
You will feel so great with your new system 🎉🎉🎉
@@oldladyluck that is what I am hoping. It’s going to be a long year with lots of work. 😎
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@@Katherine11155 awwww thank you I enjoy yours as well. 🌺🌺🌺🌺
Hi Aubrey! I really enjoyed this video 😊 where we different is I throw or donate everything to the point that I do it too quickly sometimes. It’s probably because my mom is the opposite 😅
There is a lot of good stuff in this video! Thanks for sharing what you are learning and what you are going through!
@@noexcuses_beliefinmyself thank you very much I was hesitant at first to share, but I realized that I think a lot of people are going thru the same things so it might be a good idea to share. Maybe some people will pick up a few tidbits along the way that will help them as well. 😊
Oooh!! So excited to follow along with this!! It is a big deal!! Way to go throwing the box out. 🎉
@@StacysSagas the darn boxes got me for a long time, I had sooooo many for just in case. We got rid of all of them and it was really satisfying. Thanks for your support Stacy. 💜
@ Same the first time I tossed a box I needed one of the same size literally a week later. It was hard because I had to go buy a box. 📦 But I’ve realized over time that the space that the collapsed boxes took up was also a cost and that changed my mindset completely.
@ of course that is how it happens right after you throw it out. I needed a box the other day and my neighbor is a frequent Amazon purchaser so I went over and asked if I could have one and she said sure you need more than one and I said NOPE one is plenty. 😆
I need to go through my closets and dressers and get rid of things I am not using. I have been hanging on to clothing I haven't worn in at least 2 or 3 years and it's time to clear it out👍I still have packed boxes from when I moved here 2.5 years ago so I need to follow your advice👍With laundry we do it when the hamper is full and usually every other day laundry is done here, I love doing laundry so that is easy for me, the bedding gets done once a week also, I hate cleaning and thats where I have a hard time because I am a clean freak and everything has to be perfectly clean here and it is very frustrating to keep a house that way especially if you hate cleaning lol So once I de-clutter everything that should help👌You sound like you have got a great start and a great plan👍You will get there and I wish you luck and thanks for inspiring me to do that same love 🥰🥰❤️❤️
@@geminigirl9998 yes do it, you should do it and see how much more room you have in your closet afterwards.
Oh man I wish I could love doing laundry. I used to love to clean until I had a family. I felt like right after I cleaned a space they would come home and all my efforts were for nothing and I was feeling exhausted all the time. At some point I do need to come up with a cleaning schedule to make my life easier. I can tell you one think I know for a fact it is much harder to cling when there is stuff all over the place. I have areas in my home that have not been dusted in years because of all the crap in that area. Cheers to 2025 and making our lives easier and better. 🥂
@thefragrancefairy Absolutely❣️We got this Love 🥂🍾
Wow, what a great title,. I've been around here feeling that same kind of way and really trying to just go through stuff, get it together, cause there's a lot of things that I keep holding on to ..thank you for the inspiration. ..Bless you✅
@@Rrukofall Rruk happy I could help. Things have a hold on us, but they also have a way of giving us anxiety. I think I finally got to the point where I knew I had to do something so 2035 is the year to clear and not allow my stuff to give me anxiety any longer. I hope you can get thru your stuff as well and feel good about it. 🤩 I am here cheering you on. 🥳
Hello 👋 friend , here watching my husband keeps everything to I tell him he is a horror 😂😂😂😂but I keep a lot of things to . Great video ❤❤❤
@@budgetwithfatima6530 hi Fatima, I think we all keep a lot inside and it helps to get it out and to free your emotions. 🥰 I know it’s hard, but baby steps really do help.
This is wonderful 😊😊 here subscribed from pre retirement days channel ❤
@@ScarlettEmeraldASMR thank you Scarlet, just joined your community. Betty has some wonderful ideas I have made several things from her channel.
You go Queen 🤴 One day at a time ❤You’re going to feel so much better better..Declutter is freedom ❤ I enjoyed this video very informative.Queen people pleasers can never satisfy the person that they try to please. you’ll get there Queen one day at a time as a matter fact I’m still clearing out. It’s overwhelming because when you look at the things that you accumulate over the years, you don’t realize it until you start clearing things out and when you clear things out, your mind becomes more focused and clearer ❤❤Tfs
@@angeler6 oh my gosh it is so true. It’s funny how things slowly accumulate in our homes and we don’t realize it until we have to sort thru it all. I am excited to see what I can accomplish this year. Thank you for your support. I am cheering you on as you get through hey your stuff as well. 🎉
@@thefragrancefairyThank you, it can really be overwhelming with the accumulation, we comfortable until we get uncomfortable and when you’re uncomfortable, it’s time to have a mindset change to get rid of some stuff. like I said one day at a time because a different mindset is a great thing..Good night ❤Have a Peaceful night 👈🏽
@ good night my seeet friend hope you have a blessed day tomorrow. 🥰
Oh, Aubrey - I relate to this so much ❤ You’re doing a great job keeping at it. Reflection and action are difficult enough on their own, but doing both consistently, amidst everything else happening in life, especially when you feel depleted, takes a lot of grit and determination. Love how intentional you’re being.
I fell off my decluttering and organization journey awhile back because we did an out of state move and I am still trying to get settled. I want to get back into a rhythm and routine that works for me but it’s been difficult to find that balance.
Have you heard of these folks? I used to watch them all the time here on RUclips to help motivate me and give me resources on that journey. Hope you might find them helpful, even if just background information as you work.
- the minimal mom
- Clutterbug
- dana k. White (her container concept is so simple and makes so much sense)
@@AmandaTheWaxNerd Amanda thank you so much for your support on this journey.
I have started and failed so many times and it has been very frustrating.
I keep asking why I can’t keep going or why can’t I maintain?
I am hoping I can take this all the way to the end of the year.
Sometimes I feel this can be a real struggle especially with kiddo, they add a whole new element to this process. I am sure you can relate with that as well.
Thank you for the channel recommendations I am going to check out all of them. You can never have too many tools at your disposal. 💕
@ absolutely, totally get all that! The small things do add up and that’s what I try to remind myself when I’m frustrated for not getting more done. Rome wasn’t built in a day and all that. But the box thing really resonates as well. I am also a keeper of boxes, especially since we moved and will likely move again in 1-2 years. But I’ve decided if it’s worth keeping, I want it in a nice storage bin. No more cardboard, or at least minimal amounts of stuff that makes sense for it. That said, nowadays we get so many boxes with deliveries and it’s hard to get rid of useful things that could have a second life. But I’ve found that I save the just in case stuff too often and never use or can’t find it so I just buy new stuff. So what’s the point, unless you’re uber organized or have a ton of space to store it. That’s what I’m working on going forward: getting rid of the excess boxes that I don’t have immediate plans for, and if or when I need boxes, I’ll buy new ones.
@ Dana’s container concept video is a great place to start. I’m working on implementing that concept myself, with wax and everything else 🥴
@ checked out the first two and subscribed, clutter bug is hilarious. Looking forward to seeing this container concept. Thanks again for these great recommendations. 💕
@ you nailed it, I save it for a second use and then when I need it I can’t find it. Story of my life.
Throwing a box away was good because we call our house Jenga, you grab something and 10 things fall over and it so frustrating. We actually have a standing joke in our house. When you hear a crash we ask are you okay and if you are you just say Jenga. Funny not funny so I am looking forward to getting under my clutter threshold, because I am way over it in some areas right now. 🙅♀️
GREAT😁😁
@@forgottenheart4947 thank you very much. 🥰
I'm so glad you are making progress on your own terms. Man, I think I need to get that book.
@@jeanniefarley Jeannie you really should I love that it’s a no rush system and it really makes you look at me he entire circle, the stuff the mental issue and the emotional issue I really believe they are all linked. I got my copy on Amazon., let me know if you pick it up. 😊
Wow, this video quality is awesome.
@@ourlittlegarden7661 thank you so much. 😀
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@@IqbalHussainParis thank you very much. 🥰
I need to inventory my clothes as well.
LOL @ the 11 yr old pregnancy pants. I have some shirts from middle school that are still in my closet that I didn't wear because they would get "too stretched out"
@@MeetMsMarie LOL right we all have clothes in our closet that we have had for years. It’s had to just let go sometimes, but darn it girl I am going to try really hard to Marie Kondo my closet this year. 😆
Good job dr 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@PoonamsPakshala thank you very much. 🥰
I really need to have a good clear out
@@TheStephensonGrechFamily it’s a lot of work but once it’s done it’s feels pretty good. I am working on my closet and making some progress.
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@@GagirlEverywoman thank you so much. I appreciate all your support. 💕 well that is strange I need to see if I am getting yours. 🧐
I read few comments, people like what you do Aubrey, this is awesome! 🥰🫶❤️👍 22:07
@@lgeorges1 hey George yes this series seems to be quite the hit I have had several people message me as well about it. I just hope people feel as strongly as I do as the year progresses. Lots of people get excited at the beginning of the year and then fizzle out, I know because I have also been in that situation. Cheers to 2025 and clearing out all my 💩
@@thefragrancefairy hehehe you really have the right attitude for the task, and after all nobody is better than our selves to do those kind of things right! lol
@@lgeorges1 I’m trying to stay positive. Some days I need a glass of wine to remind I need to stay positive. 😆