7 Strategies 1) Tell, don’t ask 2) Give clear expectations 3) Focus on the do’s not the don’ts State in positive terms 4) Be brief and simple with instructions- one thing at a time 5) Get close and gain child’s attention ( look at my eyes ) 6) “I mean business” teacher voice, not loud, frantic. A low firm slow voice. Example- Use in times of fire alarm 7) First / Then ( first do what I want you to do, then we can do xyz.) Good for transitioning to different activities.
I am probably taking a job as a preschool para and your videos make me feel a lot more confident and prepared. A lot of these things are things that I might not have even thought of. It is great to hear the advice of someone with so much experience like you!
I'm watching this just as a parent. I implemented someone these and saw an immediate change in my son's behavior. Thank you for sharing with all of us!
I always forget to give straight directions and keep asking questions. Thank you for reminding me of these small things that actually are huge game changers!
first of all, your professionalism shine through your words and presence, then it's your sweetness which makes me just want to keep listening to you. And finally, I'm going to apply your advice to my Nursery classroom from day one. Thanks ever so much.
Wow, thank you! I checked out your channel and I'm a subscriber! We preschool teachers need to stick together and support each other. Good luck on your channel.
I'm using these tips to deal with my 3 year old and 2 year old. My children tend to ignore all my instructions and it's as if they dont take me seriously because they see me as a pushover. I don't want to be mean I just want to be confident and direct like your teaching.
I'm a Montessori teacher from India. I'm glad that I found you. All your strategies, tones and everything is very effective. I applied it with my kids as well. Thank you so much. You are an amazing mentor. Love ❤️ you ma'am 😍 😍😍💕 🤩🤩🤩🤩
Your videos are a godsend. I'm taking a ton of notes. This is my 3rd year teaching 4-5 and with Covid restrictions and more challenging curriculum than ever, I have needed every hack I can find. I really appreciate your videos! Thank you! Have a wonderful 2021! :)
I am an ESL online teacher who has a lot of back-to-back level 1's. ESL online teachers will understand this. These tips are very valuable and can really help regardless of the classroom type. Thanks so much for these insights!!!
Great tips! Very helpful! 👏 I've been teaching for several years now, but I switched this year from teaching 3 year old preschool to 4 & 5 year old Pre-K! I use many of these strategies, but it's always good to review. 👍🙂 Clean up time is challenging this year... Everyone is having so much fun that they just don't want to stop playing. We use a timer with lights and a sound, call and response, and a clean up song. I think I need to walk up to a few of my kiddos and get down to their level more often. Thanks for the reminders!! 💗😎 Glad I found your channel!
I know that can be very challenging. I recently added a video on positive ways to reward children. My suggestion would be to reward good behavior as frequently as possible and be sure to let the little know exactly what behaviors he/she is doing to get the positive reinforcement (so they will repeat it). Good luck and let me know how it goes.
I will start teaching a 3 yr old class in the fall. I am so nervous! Will these strategies work with 3 yr olds? Also, I’m watching ALL of your videos but is there any advice you have for a newbie like me? Thank you so much!
Good Luck! I know teaching can be very daunting when first starting out. Remember that if you try something and it flops (it happens to all of us), just use it as a learning lesson. Sometimes, teaching is just trial and error. The more you try, the more you will settle into your own style and what works for you. Here's a link to my video specifically for new teachers. ruclips.net/video/0em90KQ_0uQ/видео.html
When I try to get a child attention..I'll say if you hear me...clap your hands..if you hear me stump your feet..if you hear me wave your arms..a series of instructions to get them to listen to what I really want to say.
I love your videos! I just started as a lead teacher in a 2 year old classroom. Any advise on what to do/say for my sweet little friend who is always throwing toys...I mean always.
For a two year old, I would set up a place in the classroom that is specifically for throwing. It could be a laundry basket on its side or a box with a hole in it,, etc and I would provide soft blocks or stuffed toys for throwing. Then there is an appropriate place for this little one to throw. If he/she throws other toys, I would say, “ Oh, you want to playing in the throwing center”, and then I would walk the little to the throwing center. This will give him/her an acceptable way to play by throwing it will also disrupt the throwing behavior at other centers. Let me know if you try and if it works. Good luck.
@@positivepreschooltipsI’m taking my 2 yr old g-child to Bible study one hour per week. I am not teacher. How can I get him to sit still for a portion of time or is that too high of expectation at that age? Any videos you can suggest? I watched a dozen or so videos by others and your video is first that has good tips I can utilize. Subscribing. ❤
What do I do when a child wants to be held and starts to scream if I try to set him down because I have other stuff to work on? Also how can I find my confidence when they’re all running around not listening? I feel like I inherited so much work that maybe I am not capable of doing. I just got placed as a lead teacher in a classroom that hasn’t had a steady teacher for 4 months. I want to create a positive loving environment but they seriously don’t listen.
I'm a new teacher in preschool. Really facing too much difficulty to handling kids. When I tries to make them learn from book, on board, etc... I see that many of them don't pay attention, they start gossiping, they start running from their seats to other's, etc.what to do?
I’ve really been struggling with two of my little ones because they are so focused on playing with each other that they won’t participate, any suggestions? I’m a new dance teacher and have tried a lot of things, its just so frustrating to have them continually not listen and misbehave.
@jennajones5434 I might suggest encouraging them with fun rewards when they do participate or do as you ask them. Sweet scented lip balm can be rubbed on the back of their hands so they can smell it and feel recognized for good behavior. The trick is to let them know exactly what they are doing that you are rewarding. For example say, “You stood in line just like I asked!” Then rub the lip balm in the back of their hand. You may need to start by only rewarding the children that are following your directions. This will give the ones not listening motivation to listen so they can get the smelly lip balm on the back of their hand too. I also use a simple song that uses the children’s names that has been a life-saver for me in getting their attention. I’ll copy the link. Good luck and let me know how it goes.
I hope I find a solution for my 1year daughter she is always crying doesn't want to be blaying alone even for very short time she always wants me beside her
Ma'am kindly tell me , what to do when a child behave good in class but not at home and their parents are saying teacher to do something so that their child act good .. so kindly tell me
It’s hard to give a complete response in the comments (possibly a video with that subject is needed), however there are a few simple rules of thumb when working with children with autism. 1. Try and keep your routine consistent and predictable. 2. When possibly, pair words or requests with pictures (i.e. when requesting a child sit, pair it with a picture of a child sitting). This offers the child the verbal and visual cue. Visual schedules are also very helpful. You can take pictures of the activities of the day (i.e. the circle area, playground, lunch room, etc) and place them in sequential order. The child can refer to the visual schedule to help them transition throughout the day. 3. Teach the child the first/then strategy. FIRST you do what is requested (complete the activity) THEN you get to do what you want (play with the toy train). The child then learns that if they cooperate, they get rewarded with something they find enjoyable. 4. If there is a change to the routine, provide plenty of warning before the change takes place. Thank you for the question; I hope these few suggestions offer you a starting place for working with children with autism.
Every strategy doesn't work for every teacher or for every child. This little one may need something more visual (than verbal). I have a couple videos with suggestions for visual strategies. Teaching children is a very difficult job; hang in there!
Thanks a lot💐 I really get inspired by all your informative videos,. You are generous 🌺. I would like to watch more and get benefits from your experience in the field.. I wish you post more videos...
7 Strategies
1) Tell, don’t ask
2) Give clear expectations
3) Focus on the do’s not the don’ts
State in positive terms
4) Be brief and simple with instructions- one thing at a time
5) Get close and gain child’s attention ( look at my eyes )
6) “I mean business” teacher voice, not loud, frantic. A low firm slow voice. Example- Use in times of fire alarm
7) First / Then
( first do what I want you to do, then we can do xyz.) Good for transitioning to different activities.
I am probably taking a job as a preschool para and your videos make me feel a lot more confident and prepared. A lot of these things are things that I might not have even thought of. It is great to hear the advice of someone with so much experience like you!
I'm watching this just as a parent. I implemented someone these and saw an immediate change in my son's behavior. Thank you for sharing with all of us!
Oh, that’s so exciting! Thank you for sharing. That does my heart good ❤️
I always forget to give straight directions and keep asking questions. Thank you for reminding me of these small things that actually are huge game changers!
first of all, your professionalism shine through your words and presence, then it's your sweetness which makes me just want to keep listening to you. And finally, I'm going to apply your advice to my Nursery classroom from day one. Thanks ever so much.
Wow, thank you! I checked out your channel and I'm a subscriber! We preschool teachers need to stick together and support each other. Good luck on your channel.
I'm using these tips to deal with my 3 year old and 2 year old. My children tend to ignore all my instructions and it's as if they dont take me seriously because they see me as a pushover. I don't want to be mean I just want to be confident and direct like your teaching.
These videos are so helpful, thank you!! I'm new to teaching and can't wait to try some of these techniques .
I'm a Montessori teacher from India. I'm glad that I found you. All your strategies, tones and everything is very effective. I applied it with my kids as well. Thank you so much. You are an amazing mentor. Love ❤️ you ma'am 😍 😍😍💕 🤩🤩🤩🤩
Thank you so much for such a kind comment. I'm glad you found the strategies helpful.
Your videos are a godsend. I'm taking a ton of notes. This is my 3rd year teaching 4-5 and with Covid restrictions and more challenging curriculum than ever, I have needed every hack I can find. I really appreciate your videos! Thank you! Have a wonderful 2021! :)
Thank you so much! I wish you a wonderful 2021 too!
I am an ESL online teacher who has a lot of back-to-back level 1's. ESL online teachers will understand this. These tips are very valuable and can really help regardless of the classroom type. Thanks so much for these insights!!!
Reading the comments makes me feel I am not alone. Everyone is going thru the same experience. Thank you for all the suggestions❤
First year prek teacher here. Thank you for these awesome tips!
I used a strategy that you suggested in a different video with my kindergartens and I was blown away at how well it worked!! Thank you so much!
Great! Which one?
Love how you worded these! Some I already use and didn't even realize.
Very helpful. I returned to early childhood education after years of focusing on grownups. I’m rusty, and you are oiling those joints!
Such a nice refresher! I forgot the simplest things, i have been with preschool age for 5 years and you need a little help sometimes!!! Thankyou 👏🏽⭐️
Your videos continue to be a great resource for all working with children! Thank You!
Thank you so much! I appreciate your support :)
Thank you for making videos like this. This is great content for parents and educators! As a teacher, this is a helpful refresher.
Thank you so much; I'm going to try tomorrow and check back in!! Appreciate this SO much!
thanks for the tips, and explaining them so clearly for us too!
Thank you so much for this informative video! I'm new to the industry. It's gonna help me a lot. Thank you once again.
These are wonderful strategies . It makes our day goes easy .
thanks a lot
🙏 Thank You so much for sharing all these helpful tips.
Your tips are so wonderful and helpful.
Your videos are very helpful, I hope you upload some videos again.. I am a new teacher and I learned a lot from you.
Great tips! Very helpful! 👏 I've been teaching for several years now, but I switched this year from teaching 3 year old preschool to 4 & 5 year old Pre-K! I use many of these strategies, but it's always good to review. 👍🙂 Clean up time is challenging this year... Everyone is having so much fun that they just don't want to stop playing. We use a timer with lights and a sound, call and response, and a clean up song.
I think I need to walk up to a few of my kiddos and get down to their level more often. Thanks for the reminders!! 💗😎 Glad I found your channel!
I'm a teacher in training, your videos are soo helpful ❤
Your are amazing, you are helping me how to deal with the little ones. Thanks
do a video on helpful tips and tools for daycare floaters currently struggling with that
Thank you so much for giving examples ! 😊
Thank you so much!!! Your tips helps me so much. This is my first experience with kids 3/4 years old… your videos have been light in my day.
Up watching learning new strategies. Thank you so much 👍.
I love these videos. So much information! I want to be preschool teacher. Thank you so much for posting these videos!!
Thank you! It's a great rewarding career!
❤Thank you! I so needed this!😊
Love your channel. Thank you!!
Me: come wash your hands
Child: (runs to play with toys by window)
Lol! Right? This job is soooo challenging, for sure :)
Brilliant 💓
Your strategies are amazing and practical❤
Thank you so much for the comment and the compliant ❤️
Thank you very much! 💐
Thank you for the strategies. Cant wait to use them all.
Thanks!! These tips are very useful and helpful
Thanks Avril. I'm glad you found them helpful.
What a great video! Thank you very much and greetings from Algeria :-)
Hi there, ibriden from Algeria!
Thanks a lot, I wish you train me more
I really like your strategy I will follow it , thank you ❤
Thank you.
I love your videos!!! Thank you for the tips.
Thank you so much!
You’re the best ! Really enjoy your videos!
Muchas gracias. Thank you very much!
I know that can be very challenging. I recently added a video on positive ways to reward children. My suggestion would be to reward good behavior as frequently as possible and be sure to let the little know exactly what behaviors he/she is doing to get the positive reinforcement (so they will repeat it). Good luck and let me know how it goes.
Thank you!
You're welcome! Thanks for posting a comment :)
Thank you for your advice. As a new nursery teacher ur content is priceless. Keep sharing ❤
Some great advice thank you
You are amazing 🤩!
This is heaven..thanks for sharing..I will use this in my class
Nice video thanks 👍
I will start teaching a 3 yr old class
in the fall. I am so nervous! Will these strategies work with 3 yr olds? Also, I’m watching ALL of your videos but is there any advice you have for a newbie like me? Thank you so much!
Good Luck! I know teaching can be very daunting when first starting out. Remember that if you try something and it flops (it happens to all of us), just use it as a learning lesson. Sometimes, teaching is just trial and error. The more you try, the more you will settle into your own style and what works for you. Here's a link to my video specifically for new teachers.
ruclips.net/video/0em90KQ_0uQ/видео.html
Thank you so much
Thanks for sharing ma'am
My pleasure 😊 Thank you for commenting.
Thank you ❤️
Really helpful video
I just start falling you and I must say you are amazing ☺️☺️
Yay! Thank you!
thanks a lot
When I try to get a child attention..I'll say if you hear me...clap your hands..if you hear me stump your feet..if you hear me wave your arms..a series of instructions to get them to listen to what I really want to say.
@biblewomen77 Great additions! Thank you for sharing.
Thq mam this video inspiring for new teachers how handle the preschool class
May allah the most merciful the most gracious protect all children ❤
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Loooooove your videos Sandy thanks a lot for sharing 💕
Thank you for commenting!
Love these videos
I love your videos! I just started as a lead teacher in a 2 year old classroom. Any advise on what to do/say for my sweet little friend who is always throwing toys...I mean always.
For a two year old, I would set up a place in the classroom that is specifically for throwing. It could be a laundry basket on its side or a box with a hole in it,, etc and I would provide soft blocks or stuffed toys for throwing. Then there is an appropriate place for this little one to throw. If he/she throws other toys, I would say, “ Oh, you want to playing in the throwing center”, and then I would walk the little to the throwing center. This will give him/her an acceptable way to play by throwing it will also disrupt the throwing behavior at other centers. Let me know if you try and if it works. Good luck.
@@positivepreschooltipsI’m taking my 2 yr old g-child to Bible study one hour per week. I am not teacher. How can I get him to sit still for a portion of time or is that too high of expectation at that age? Any videos you can suggest? I watched a dozen or so videos by others and your video is first that has good tips I can utilize. Subscribing. ❤
What do I do when a child wants to be held and starts to scream if I try to set him down because I have other stuff to work on? Also how can I find my confidence when they’re all running around not listening? I feel like I inherited so much work that maybe I am not capable of doing. I just got placed as a lead teacher in a classroom that hasn’t had a steady teacher for 4 months. I want to create a positive loving environment but they seriously don’t listen.
I'm a new teacher in preschool. Really facing too much difficulty to handling kids. When I tries to make them learn from book, on board, etc... I see that many of them don't pay attention, they start gossiping, they start running from their seats to other's, etc.what to do?
Same here I feel like I’m going crazy
I understand your frustration! This is a great topic for a video. I’ll start working on that today and hope to post it soon.
Same here. It's like I am failing everyday 😭
@@ritushukla9284you just took the words out of my mouth
Thank you
+positivepreschooltips
Merry Christmas Cyndi !!
I wish that i could collect your autograph some how .
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I’ve really been struggling with two of my little ones because they are so focused on playing with each other that they won’t participate, any suggestions? I’m a new dance teacher and have tried a lot of things, its just so frustrating to have them continually not listen and misbehave.
@jennajones5434 I might suggest encouraging them with fun rewards when they do participate or do as you ask them. Sweet scented lip balm can be rubbed on the back of their hands so they can smell it and feel recognized for good behavior. The trick is to let them know exactly what they are doing that you are rewarding. For example say, “You stood in line just like I asked!” Then rub the lip balm in the back of their hand. You may need to start by only rewarding the children that are following your directions. This will give the ones not listening motivation to listen so they can get the smelly lip balm on the back of their hand too. I also use a simple song that uses the children’s names that has been a life-saver for me in getting their attention. I’ll copy the link. Good luck and let me know how it goes.
Here’s the link: ruclips.net/video/9ywziMHYWRQ/видео.htmlsi=daCZCo3McqpMHCRr
I hope I find a solution for my 1year daughter she is always crying doesn't want to be blaying alone even for very short time she always wants me beside her
Ma'am kindly tell me , what to do when a child behave good in class but not at home and their parents are saying teacher to do something so that their child act good .. so kindly tell me
I love you madam you are awesome 😍😍😍
Thank you, you are so kind. I appreciate you posting a comment ❤️
Do you have advices how to work with children with autism?
It’s hard to give a complete response in the comments (possibly a video with that subject is needed), however there are a few simple rules of thumb when working with children with autism. 1. Try and keep your routine consistent and predictable. 2. When possibly, pair words or requests with pictures (i.e. when requesting a child sit, pair it with a picture of a child sitting). This offers the child the verbal and visual cue. Visual schedules are also very helpful. You can take pictures of the activities of the day (i.e. the circle area, playground, lunch room, etc) and place them in sequential order. The child can refer to the visual schedule to help them transition throughout the day. 3. Teach the child the first/then strategy. FIRST you do what is requested (complete the activity) THEN you get to do what you want (play with the toy train). The child then learns that if they cooperate, they get rewarded with something they find enjoyable. 4. If there is a change to the routine, provide plenty of warning before the change takes place. Thank you for the question; I hope these few suggestions offer you a starting place for working with children with autism.
Ive tried looking the child in the eye with a firm voice and it didnt work.
Every strategy doesn't work for every teacher or for every child. This little one may need something more visual (than verbal). I have a couple videos with suggestions for visual strategies. Teaching children is a very difficult job; hang in there!
Tomorrow is my first day of nursery assistant.. please wish me 🥰
How is it going? I’d love to hear.
💙
I mean business voice never works for me! I teach toddlers aged 19 months to 24+ months
I’m looking for tips for a to year old
I thinking through a video for toddlers. Some of the strategies will work for younger children as well.
👍💐
Thank you so much for all your likes and comments! Welcome to my channel!
Thanks a lot💐
I really get inspired by all your informative videos,. You are generous 🌺.
I would like to watch more and get benefits from your experience in the field.. I wish you post more videos...
do a video on helpful tips and tools for daycare floaters currently struggling with that