My 5 Favorite Strategies to Use with an Upset Child

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @krislozano0703
    @krislozano0703 Год назад +20

    Lol. When you said, “It is time for dinner. Sit at the table.” I got very still and realized it had worked on me!! 😂😂😂

  • @flowersflowers9642
    @flowersflowers9642 4 года назад +93

    OH MY GOD !!! I AM SO THANKFUL TO FOUND YOU! i am a teacher in day care only for 8 months and i need to learn a lot ! thank youuuuuuu

    • @benzilembethe2150
      @benzilembethe2150 4 года назад +5

      Thank you so much. I was so pleased to hear some of the things that I am doing right too. Very insightful and inspiring.

    • @nyeinlay9646
      @nyeinlay9646 Год назад

      Im a prekg and kg school founder
      from Burma, Southbeast Asia.
      Luckily i found your video today. I have 1 adhd kid and i am finding the way how to treat and teach that kid in the school. So im thanksful as i get the idea with 5ways of yours. May be in some oths months i will report the result by using yours. Thanks again.

  • @meaghenstandlee6644
    @meaghenstandlee6644 9 месяцев назад +4

    I was thrown into a class with 2 on the spectrum and NO TRAINING just watching the other teachers was my ONLY thing to go off of and they are all BURNT OUT at this preschool so they arent much help plus im 34 no kids of my own, and barely can be firm with mu chihuahuas so i had NO IDEA what chaos i was getting myself into! now the kids love me BUT dont respect me they see me as the fun sweet playmate its SO HARD!!! The kids on the spectrum seem to need more guidance and attetion but with a class of 11 i cant do that it's heartbreaking to be honest. thank you for your videos even though im doing my cda im just a center aide and feel so ALONE in this whole thing

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  9 месяцев назад +1

      I know that can be a challenge. I might suggest keeping your schedule very predictable and routined. If there is going to be a change, be sure to give the children plenty of warning that a change is coming. You could also make a picture of a star and hold it up whenever you are informing the children of a change. Children on the spectrum do very well with visual supports. I hope you find this helpful. Please reach out if you have any other questions. Thanks for your comment.

    • @meaghenstandlee6644
      @meaghenstandlee6644 9 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe once I get my CDA and am assigned my own classroom it’ll be different but I’m just in multiple classrooms different age groups so it’s hard to set a routine I’m at the mercy of passive aggressive teachers who count down the days for the weekend while I’m researching how to do my job better I’ll try the visual aides thanks for the reply ❤

  • @ericarivera8514
    @ericarivera8514 3 года назад +15

    I am a assistant teacher for mostly pre school kids and I just started this week. I am very new and am still trying to learn all the kids names, routine, etc. I lately have been struggling with a handful of kids and I just can’t get to them. Watching your videos are helping me see where I am going wrong. I am hoping as I try these strategies today and next week it will help me a bit.

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад +6

      Good luck! Sometimes teaching is trying a lot of things until you find something that works.

  • @Sweet_Teaa_
    @Sweet_Teaa_ 2 года назад +9

    5. I mean business voice
    4. Redirection
    3.Active Ignoring
    2.First/Then
    1. Giving Choices

  • @destinylentini
    @destinylentini 2 года назад +8

    Please come to my preschool and spend a day with me and tell me what I could do differently! Ur like the super nanny only for teachers! I've been only working there since March of 2022, from my first day its been COMPLETE chaos because no one was able to properly teach me, I was pretty much thrown in, having no prior experience in preschool and only manly have experience by being a parent of 2 myself. Im now addicted to your videos, your amazing!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 года назад +3

      Destiny, thank you for the comment! Part of my job has been to model and coach other teachers; I love helping struggling teachers because WE HAVE ALL BEEN THERE! It is not an easy job; however, keep your sense of humor and remember preschool should be fun :)

  • @hsaweber357
    @hsaweber357 2 года назад +28

    You made it sound so easy! I worked with 3-5 yrs and this is my first job. I find it so challenging especially with behaviour and get them to listen.

  • @ducieux
    @ducieux 4 года назад +46

    I'm so glad to have found your channel. I just started teaching preschool students and your tips and strategies are working like a charm. Thank you so much for all that you do and I'm looking forward to more videos from you!

  • @three6416
    @three6416 3 года назад +15

    i'm so grateful i found your channel. i am 15 years old and i am going to be working at my gymnastics center with 3-4 year olds in 1 week, and it has been so helpful to watch your videos to prepare myself for what is to come!

  • @jessicavelazquez1858
    @jessicavelazquez1858 4 года назад +48

    I love the active ignoring strategy but unfortunately, it draws other teachers attention and admins making them walk in and think something is happening to the student because of their screams. I always stood by ignoring negative behavior but it is hard for me.
    Thank you for the rest of the tips. They are great :)

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  4 года назад +15

      Yes! It is much trickier in a daycare setting. Active ignoring is not a strategy that everyone is comfortable with and you should only do what is comfortable and feels natural to you! Thanks for the comment.

    • @wy844
      @wy844 3 года назад +5

      Same experience! I am a new teacher and I did active ignoring to a kid demanding my attention, but the other teacher told me that I should respond instead. :(

    • @alonicapablo6464
      @alonicapablo6464 2 года назад +7

      I agree with you. I'm a new daycare teacher and some of my students just have big feelings and sometimes I can't do anything to soothe them. So sometimes just crying it out is what they need. But of course when you're alone or you're busy with diapers, it does attract other teachers to come in and see what's going on.

    • @joshgentry571
      @joshgentry571 6 месяцев назад

      I’ve used this so much working in a Twos room. I started in the three in daycare and i played into them calling my name so many times, but after being in the twos and witnessing so many tantrums I can now keep going on with helping other students and keeping them safe without giving in. This helps me with any age and where they are emotionally

  • @cocochannel1948
    @cocochannel1948 Год назад +2

    I'm an educator, and all your 5 strategies are really working well in our school. 👏 ❤😊

  • @shannonhall8144
    @shannonhall8144 4 года назад +3

    You've got those I mean Business eyes too!

  • @debrishmawi7512
    @debrishmawi7512 Год назад

    Even though I’ve already been using most of these, just hearing you, explain them is a great justification in reminder for me I appreciate it!

  • @jennylynsanchez7762
    @jennylynsanchez7762 3 года назад +4

    I am so happy I discovered your channel today.I usually don't leave comments but I just want to let you know what you are sharing are really helpful. Thank you so much.

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад

      I so appreciate your comment! Thank you for taking the time to comment and your kind words!

  • @dextineet2415
    @dextineet2415 3 года назад +7

    So glad I found your channel! Kmjust became Lead Pre-K teacher at a daycare and I’m trying to find my voice with my kids! This really helps! Thank you 😊

  • @j.p.morgan8367
    @j.p.morgan8367 2 года назад +1

    My daughter and 2 preschool age children will be coming to stay with me for 6 months next year. I am preparing by watching these positivepreschool tips to manage myself constructively for the time they will be with me. Thank you for these valuable and well-structure RUclipss.

  • @Elsa-fugy
    @Elsa-fugy Год назад +2

    Your face makes me want to listen to you all the time you’re very beautiful and nice I can feel how warm you’re and thank you for the advices 🤭

  • @msamyhowe
    @msamyhowe 3 года назад +2

    I just want to say how pleasant it is to watch your video. It is so positive and practical!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад

      Thank you so much! I love working with children and sharing what I have picked up along the way. Thanks for posting your comment.

  • @emnicole_
    @emnicole_ Год назад

    Starting my first early childcare job tomorrow! Thank you for these videos!

  • @alingw0809
    @alingw0809 5 месяцев назад

    Brand new preschool teacher here, this was so helpful. Thank you

  • @cigjohnson157
    @cigjohnson157 3 месяца назад

    Awesome suggestions. Thank you❤

  • @elizabethsimon3618
    @elizabethsimon3618 Год назад

    Thank you just came across your video

  • @Edvenchers
    @Edvenchers Месяц назад

    Nice list and great explanation

  • @blessedpearls9373
    @blessedpearls9373 4 года назад +8

    Wow these tips are awesome for elementary kids as well 💗

  • @emily-crawford-soprano9181
    @emily-crawford-soprano9181 Год назад

    @10:42 it sounds like Active Ignoring is a form of Redirection, just a longer-term version of it. Very cool, thanks so much for this!

  • @hayanishamoamar-md6so
    @hayanishamoamar-md6so Год назад

    very useful thanks for this video❤

  • @rebekabryan7574
    @rebekabryan7574 3 года назад +3

    I’m starting work in early education this is amazing information thank you 😀🌷

    • @Yalah17
      @Yalah17 2 года назад

      how is it going? I'm starting private tutoring and I'm super super nervous 😭😭any advice?

  • @skeeterburke
    @skeeterburke 4 года назад +16

    I've always had success with offering a snack and a trip to the bathroom in sunday school. There's always a new kid who's never been there and a little separation anxiety as the parents leave them with you. Snack time is usually a hit. Then they are happy to draw and even follow the lesson. So, regardless of the environment, I try to focus first on the basics. If they have boogers, offer them a Kleenex, et cetera

  • @delwynbaker2029
    @delwynbaker2029 3 года назад

    I will be trying out these strategies thanks. As Im listening children have come to my mind who I will be trying these out on.

  • @elanagoldstein3366
    @elanagoldstein3366 4 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing these important tips. I love sharing my knowledge about early childhood education (20 years in the field plus a MA in education) , and also am hoping to communicate as clearly as you on my RUclips channel.

    • @josephgold88
      @josephgold88 4 года назад

      I just watched your video on helping your kids learn better, and I found it very useful. Keep up the good work!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  4 года назад

      Good luck with your channel! I will definitely subscribe! All us Early Educators have to stick together and support each other. 😀👍

    • @elanagoldstein3366
      @elanagoldstein3366 4 года назад +1

      Thanks for the support. It means a lot

  • @juliaa1617
    @juliaa1617 4 года назад +4

    What a great set of useful advice, nicely explained too! With good respectful attitude in correcting behaviour of the little ones who forget how to make good choices! Thank you so much for sharing

  • @briwilliams7773
    @briwilliams7773 Год назад

    I’m so glad I found this channel I am about to start A position as a lead teacher in a twos classroom and a Headstart and I need these tips

  • @Budams-heydays
    @Budams-heydays 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for the video. How do you deal with a child who tells me what I should do? I work as an education assistant and some kids tell me how I should do my job. Thank you for your advice.

  • @JulitaPearson-bc5lj
    @JulitaPearson-bc5lj 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you! These strategies are great!

  • @zainabocheme8172
    @zainabocheme8172 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @renatanetaf4842
    @renatanetaf4842 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @angelaliu7883
    @angelaliu7883 3 года назад +3

    Now I'm thinking of one of my students who cries and screams just to get attention. 😊 Thanks I now know what to do with her. Learned much from this vid. Thanks a lot. ❤

  • @reaniebeanie94
    @reaniebeanie94 2 года назад

    Fabulous, so simple and effective.

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 года назад

      YES! My favorite strategies are simple yet effective! Thanks for posting, Catherine.

  • @olgas2469
    @olgas2469 2 года назад

    Thanks for your suggestions and tips.

  • @styledn3
    @styledn3 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much! You are so wise ❤

  • @dancygil8498
    @dancygil8498 Год назад

    Great video 😊

  • @isabellac.8155
    @isabellac.8155 4 года назад +1

    You have no idea much you have helped me. Thank you!!!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  4 года назад

      I'm so glad I could be of help! Please stop by again and don't hesitate to reach out if you have specific questions. Thanks for watching!

  • @Anonymouss_99
    @Anonymouss_99 4 года назад +3

    I have to babysit my 6 nieces and nephews for few years.
    I talk very soft to them and rarely scolds them unlike my sister. They like my sister better. They sometimes purposely hurting my feelings. I cry so many times.
    I just pray and pray. Don't know what to do to make them like me.

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  4 года назад +3

      Oh, I get it! Please know that you just have to take control and be the leader. My suggestion to you would be to keep them busy with fun activities. You could build a "tent" out of blankets and furniture and then climb in with a flashlight and read stories. Don't be afraid to have them be your "little helpers" and give them easy jobs (folding laundry, clearing the table after a meal, etc) then PRAISE them and tell them what a big help they are to you. You need to develop your own relationship with them (different than their mom) and try not to be so hard on yourself. Hang in there!

    • @Anonymouss_99
      @Anonymouss_99 4 года назад +1

      @@positivepreschooltips maybe I should step up and be a leader.. They don't respect me at all. Thank you for your encouragement. Means a lot to me..

  • @djthereplay
    @djthereplay 4 года назад +7

    +positivepreschooltips
    Good calls , Cyndi .
    Even today as an autistic grown up when I am into something or when there is something going on that I enjoy that I get into I go on leave me alone mode until it's done or I am able to get out of it but this was even worse back when I was an autistic child because My Adjustment Problems start to show up and depending on how far I am into other things when I am rushed I could wind up taking the interjection and redirection as an attack on me because in my house and even when I was a SPED student in school it was do what the adult wanted or else .
    People just need to learn to pack their patience when they do their redirecting and interjecting .
    With that said , keep doing what you are doing .
    - Dwight

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  4 года назад +2

      djthereplay Your words are so sweet, Dwight! I love hearing from you and your experience 😊. Thanks for commenting.

  • @DoctorCarrieHall
    @DoctorCarrieHall 11 месяцев назад

    Up early studying learning new strategies on how to help a child work through their anger.

  • @lazordy3452
    @lazordy3452 3 месяца назад

    Thank you a lot

  • @ShannonMichelle7937
    @ShannonMichelle7937 3 года назад +1

    This channel is amazing thanks for your advice. I don’t even know how I got here, but o have 5 children lmao god was looking out today.

  • @vanasrikantha7565
    @vanasrikantha7565 2 года назад

    I love all those 5 ideas!👍

  • @Bridget-t3n
    @Bridget-t3n 7 месяцев назад

    Wow! So creative

  • @priscillaramos3033
    @priscillaramos3033 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for sharing!!

  • @05carsm
    @05carsm 3 года назад

    I'm subscribing, I have an almost 5 years old nephew, you got me at the business voice

  • @Lavidadeyari
    @Lavidadeyari Год назад

    Great video
    Thanks for the help

  • @danfry654
    @danfry654 4 года назад +1

    Very practical advise.

  • @cindyyang1670
    @cindyyang1670 2 года назад

    I'm very glad found your channel. It's an amazing strategies. I look forward to watching more your videos. Thanks a lot! God bless

  • @dwalters448
    @dwalters448 4 года назад +2

    This is really good information 👍

  • @jonibells9386
    @jonibells9386 2 года назад

    I am so glad I found you!! You are so helpful!!

  • @divinedamian-china7837
    @divinedamian-china7837 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for those great tips... so helpful 🙏

  • @marychrisbailey6722
    @marychrisbailey6722 4 года назад +1

    great advice

  • @steveschreiner3147
    @steveschreiner3147 2 года назад

    Great video. Very Helpful. Thank you!

  • @sandrabaca178
    @sandrabaca178 4 года назад +1

    Very helpful tips, thank you so!!!!

  • @leahsmith9271
    @leahsmith9271 2 года назад

    Yes love this!

  • @laurice8056
    @laurice8056 Год назад

    I’ve often successfully used these suggestions at home over the years with my own children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews. I’m a retired healthcare professional and I’ve had to turn to some of these techniques in the hospital at times. How can these ideas for handling children be used in a virtual classroom online? If you have any suggestions, could you please make a video about this? Thanks for sharing. I’m a new subscriber.🤗💕

  • @danfry3501
    @danfry3501 4 года назад +1

    Good information to have during a quarantine.

  • @kathrynevans6293
    @kathrynevans6293 4 года назад +1

    Great timing on this video 👍

  • @jesejanez
    @jesejanez Год назад

    Thank you!!

  • @juleingordon5268
    @juleingordon5268 2 года назад

    Just bounced on you,thoroughly presented and thoroughly enjoyed...so eye opening....thankyou!

  • @juliaherrera1489
    @juliaherrera1489 Год назад +1

    Great! quit question. What have you done in the past, when children go underneath the tables and don't want to get out, and then more kids follow them?

  • @karemanmohamed1539
    @karemanmohamed1539 2 года назад

    Thank you!! ❤❤❤

  • @Cezzagirl4
    @Cezzagirl4 3 года назад +3

    So interesting! But What would you do about the whole active ignoring thing if when they cry too much they end up getting sick?

  • @michaelawolfman9121
    @michaelawolfman9121 2 года назад

    This is so helpful!! Thank you!!

  • @jeraldinemclintock2836
    @jeraldinemclintock2836 3 года назад +4

    Hi can you please make a video how to stop separation anxiety in a loving way? 😁

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад +3

      Thank you for your suggestion! That’s a great topic; I’ll work on that and hope to post soon.

  • @achernev
    @achernev 4 года назад +3

    Giving choices is very Montessori style 😘

  • @syarifahsabira3522
    @syarifahsabira3522 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing teacher...as a teacher i learnt a lot

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад

      Thank you posting a comment! We teachers need to look out for each other 😀

  • @yanisleidyjones8029
    @yanisleidyjones8029 3 года назад

    Great tips! Thank you!

  • @Veronicawardwell
    @Veronicawardwell 2 года назад +1

    So helpful and positive! Thank You, Love your approaches… Wish you were my teacher when I was a little one : )

  • @writtenbyAna
    @writtenbyAna 2 года назад

    This is so helpful! Thank youuuu

  • @titimama241
    @titimama241 4 года назад

    Awesome! Thank you!!!

  • @mohdshahnawaz.australia
    @mohdshahnawaz.australia 3 года назад

    Absolutely loved this video. Thank you so much for this valuable information. Lots of love from an Australian 🇦🇺❤

  • @sabrinagoodman582
    @sabrinagoodman582 2 года назад

    Very helpful

  • @stephcurry4199
    @stephcurry4199 2 года назад

    Very helpful. Thank you

  • @Moonshinestarr
    @Moonshinestarr 2 года назад +1

    Good content. Good energy. I can tell that you run a great classroom. Hoping to start my teaching career very soon! Peace and Blessings!

  • @Mazalapad
    @Mazalapad 3 года назад

    Really good teacher 👍🏼

  • @autumnjohnson9
    @autumnjohnson9 2 года назад +4

    I’m a new teacher for 5 year olds, and I have a question for you! If you have a student running around the classroom and when you try to get their attention and they run away from you like it’s a game, what should I do?

    • @KARLACHAD
      @KARLACHAD 2 года назад +2

      I have the same problem and is 2 kids they run and run and won’t listen

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 года назад

      Autumn, sorry this has taken me so long to reply. I'm not sure how I missed your comment previously. This is what I would suggest: yes, the running is a game so try approaching them by making sitting the game. If possible, do not chase them, start rewarding the children following the directions with stickers, stamps, etc. The object is to have the child understand they get your attention and get to participate in the fun things offered only if they are sitting and not running. Here's a link to a song that has been very helpful to me: ruclips.net/video/9ywziMHYWRQ/видео.html
      Good luck

  • @DoctorCarrieHall
    @DoctorCarrieHall 11 месяцев назад

    Excellent strategies to learn. I'm a director.

  • @novocaine09
    @novocaine09 2 года назад +2

    Do you have any advice for a student who does not get the right kind of attention at home? I am a substitute in my son's Pre-K, and we are having a lot of trouble with a student. He is bright, but he is disruptive to the point it makes it hard for the other children to learn. He is not in any abusive situation that we can tell, just overly unstructured. We even send letters home to all parents about proven parenting strategies (get down and talk eye to eye, lots of physical touch and connection, etc). We also have a monthly parent meeting on zoom about conscious discipline to help parents succeed. We only have 2 or 3 attend, though. We try to do everything we can, but sometimes I feel like it is all most impossible without some reinforcement at home.

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 года назад +2

      It sounds like you have excellent ideas and have done several things that i would recommend (sending positive parenting tips home, etc.). If you can provide some more specific information about the behaviors, I would be happy to offer some additional strategies.

  • @enaworldtv
    @enaworldtv 2 года назад

    Thank 🙇 you

  • @tieramakaiwi7776
    @tieramakaiwi7776 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video! Very simple and effective:)

  • @olahiannyeong6021
    @olahiannyeong6021 3 года назад

    i love your videos! Thank you so much 💗

  • @tashadawn2010
    @tashadawn2010 4 года назад

    Thank you for your videos! Your video with tips on teaching preschoolers to color was especially helpful to me. I’m not a teacher I just work with my 3 year old son. Please make a video on tips for teaching preschoolers to color! We need help! Thank you!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад +3

      Thank you for your suggestion on a video about coloring. I do have several ideas. I’ll work on putting that video out!

  • @ngocnguyen3206
    @ngocnguyen3206 4 месяца назад

    Thank you very much for your sharing. In my class having one child, he get angry so easily, he kick and through things to friends. I couldn’t use ignoring method as he annoyed his friends a lot. Can you please give advises on my case. Thank you

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  4 месяца назад

      @@ngocnguyen3206 Ignoring should not be used when there is the possibility that the child will hurt themselves or others so I agree with you that ignoring is not the strategy to use in this situation. You may need to be a bit of a detective and try and figure out why he gets upset or what sets him off. Some possibilities may be: is he frustrated, is he unhappy about following directions, is he trying to avoid an activity. Figuring out his ‘triggers’ is the first step to know what strategy will be most effective. Let me know what you find out. I’ll be happy to suggest strategies.

  • @donnamontanarella2403
    @donnamontanarella2403 2 года назад +1

    I thought you gave very useful and effective tips. I did struggle to hear you on my device.

  • @stellayu507
    @stellayu507 4 года назад

    Thank you for sharing! Would like to try all of them !

  • @enjoylittlethings7921
    @enjoylittlethings7921 2 года назад

    It’s really helpful as I have just started working as ta in foundation stage but I work through agency so it’s kind of different as I’m going different schools and working with different teachers and children. Can you do some more videos which might help new ta too

  • @bayamonrican
    @bayamonrican 2 года назад +2

    What do u do when u work in a daycare and the child's response is to run and scream while flipping toys across the room?

  • @tatacol83
    @tatacol83 Год назад

    Great! I wanted to ask you if you have any advice for those teachers who do not speak the local language of the students and English is the language acquisition? How should teachers of preschool do in that case?

  • @abbyxu5272
    @abbyxu5272 2 года назад

    Hi, I love your strategy, but how do we deal with a “bad combination?”

  • @alydea9201
    @alydea9201 2 года назад

    I enjoyed and watched some of your videos. I work in a daycare center. We have a few challenging children. I will definitely use these strategies in our classroom. Thank you!

  • @canistrav8769
    @canistrav8769 2 года назад

    HI I love your tips also could you give me some tips or line up

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 года назад

      Hi Canistra, I have a video on line up ditties. Here's the link: ruclips.net/video/J1X13Gc1b4g/видео.html

  • @dublewr2194
    @dublewr2194 2 года назад

    Thank youu

  • @Sharonne87
    @Sharonne87 3 года назад

    Hello, very helpful tips. What to do in case my child is throwing a temper tantrum in the restaurant?

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 года назад +1

      Temper tantrums can be a challenge in public places. As a parent, I would scoop them up and take them out. If possible, I would let them calm down then bring them back once they have settled. I would suggest, staying calm and not overly engage with the child but just matter-of-factly tell them, “once you are calm, we can go back and finish our meal”. You may need to let your waitstaff know that you will be stepping out.