*sigh...yes! The thing is, being an understanding person is either a blessing or a curse since we can understand them but people mistakenly misunderstood us. It can be our actions, the way we speak, the words that comes out of our mouth etc...that can cause disliking or hating us by the people. (Coming from what I've went through)
One thing about the INFP mystery is that while we come off as enigmatic to others, we are also very enigmatic to ourselves, especially when we're teenagers. As an INFP, I have been spending the last several years trying to find the answers to how I work, how I function. Why do I enjoy the things I enjoy? Why do I fear the things I fear? This journey of self-discovery started when a friend of mine once said to me in high school, "what I like about you is that you're a very 'still waters run deep' kind of person," which is the first descriptor that I had heard that I felt accurately described me. This is one of the things that excites me the most: when I figure out how to accurately express myself through words. Thank the Lord for the MBTI and the existence of the INFP. The journey continues...
The journey to self discovery is one of the greatest things an INFP can do for themselves. Growing up, being told I was weird for not talking, interacting, or behaving like other people did a number on my head. But when I took the MBTI test and really delved into what makes me "me", it felt liberating. I now know my goods and bads, and I can tell what I actually need to work on, and don't think I'm just a weird or bad person like I did before because that's what I've been told. We live in an extrovert's world, but we can build or small house in it when we truly understand ourselves and finally stop letting others push us around or try putting things in our head. The best of luck on your journey! I know it'll be a wonderful one!
INFPs(aka me) are like, the top mysterious person for many reasons, mainly this 5: 1. We're genuinely nice(this ones confusing because many people think it's forced), and people don't get that 2. We are ALWAYS daydreaming 3. We can be and feel extremely naiive. Little do you know... 4. We keep our lives SECRET 5. If you don't know us, we a shut-in. If you know us, we're extremely interesting
That make me hating them because i also want to be known but i end up being the councilor or psychologist if you want, then someday if they find someone else they ditch me… it pisses me off so much
This is so true. The rare friend that actually ATTEMPTS to learn more about me and ask questions, gets rewarded intensely. The thing they don't get is that I won't just randomly start ranting about myself unless asked. If they don't care, I won't waste my time. But if they show care, the game changes. It can be extremely rewarding to find true friends who are really invested in knowing more about me and are safe to open up to. But it is extremely disheartening when people I see every day are not interested to know me and only want me to listen to them go on about themselves for all eternity.
I believe that there is nothing that makes us INFPs happier about ourselves than being Thoroughly educated on the subjects of Morality, and the Patterns of Human Behavior. That way, we can feel comfortable and confident in our level of authentic accuracy and discision-making when it comes to discerning whats truely valuable. It takes lots of practice, and to never settle for complacency.
I feel that My sibling really wants me to open up when I break down but I really don't feel better when doing that. Somehow I just prefer them being around me while I breakdown rather than talking it out.
My mom wants me to explode with emotions like she does but I can’t do it. I find it easier to have a inner dialogue with the different aspects of my personality.
Yup, I'll become heated about something I read or watched, type out a comment, then delete it without having posted it at all. Might come back later to delete this one eventually as well lol
Its unfortunate that the opposite sex doesn't see our kind warm hearts . So that's why were mostly sll single .no body gives themselves enough time to see it before running away and we miss out on love and companionship
Just shows how fallen our world is that we have to guard some of these positive qualities to protect ourselves they are really things that are needed, some INFPs have cultivated so much wisdom through trial and error, that grows with age, that is very needed today. I am very private but I also engage in certain conversations to provide an alternative reality to some of the pathologies that are so readily conditioned as its the way thing are, when we actually have other abundant choices that can be tested to potentially create an alternative reality, of course it should be tested first something may sound good in theory but workout very poorly in practice, or through practice you refine your theory because its flaws become more readily visible which requires adaptions. You are an example of an INFP putting to practice your creative vision which is of value to others, had you just kept all to you, we would not be receiving it, I hope more INFPs find the ability to be who they are and share more with the world the things they have gained via experience and to also be open to having their thought process challenged because that actually improves your resolve. Thank You!
Well, I can agree with the fact that I don't like being judged and thus being around people who get me wrong. I don't want to talk to the ones who refuse to listen. However, even my ISTP husband described me as "mysterious" after more than 10 years of relationships, which puzzled me.
Love you Matthias...❤❤❤ I feel so blessed when I get to hear about me from another person. It feels like I'm not wrong but someone different. Thank you so much Matthias.
This was a perfect depiction of my personality. Especially the part about why explain myself only to be denied. It's the main reason I don't always share my thoughts. I know that not everyone will agree with the way I see things, and I'm okay with it. Thank you for the posts. I feel seen for who I am, and it's nice to know that I'm not alone as I think.❤😊
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I often watch these kinds of videos just to feel "understood"
*sigh...yes! The thing is, being an understanding person is either a blessing or a curse since we can understand them but people mistakenly misunderstood us. It can be our actions, the way we speak, the words that comes out of our mouth etc...that can cause disliking or hating us by the people. (Coming from what I've went through)
Real
Literally why I am here, I appreciate you
YES😢😢😢
One thing about the INFP mystery is that while we come off as enigmatic to others, we are also very enigmatic to ourselves, especially when we're teenagers. As an INFP, I have been spending the last several years trying to find the answers to how I work, how I function. Why do I enjoy the things I enjoy? Why do I fear the things I fear?
This journey of self-discovery started when a friend of mine once said to me in high school, "what I like about you is that you're a very 'still waters run deep' kind of person," which is the first descriptor that I had heard that I felt accurately described me. This is one of the things that excites me the most: when I figure out how to accurately express myself through words. Thank the Lord for the MBTI and the existence of the INFP.
The journey continues...
The journey to self discovery is one of the greatest things an INFP can do for themselves.
Growing up, being told I was weird for not talking, interacting, or behaving like other people did a number on my head. But when I took the MBTI test and really delved into what makes me "me", it felt liberating. I now know my goods and bads, and I can tell what I actually need to work on, and don't think I'm just a weird or bad person like I did before because that's what I've been told.
We live in an extrovert's world, but we can build or small house in it when we truly understand ourselves and finally stop letting others push us around or try putting things in our head.
The best of luck on your journey! I know it'll be a wonderful one!
@@HM-nt7vr Thanks. Best of luck on yours too.
Same I can’t understand myself maybe that’s why I seem weird
As an infp,I appreciate your comment and understand where you’re coming from!!
INFPs tend to feel the boundary in playful jokes and humiliation honestly. we just have that gut feeling-
INFPs(aka me) are like, the top mysterious person for many reasons, mainly this 5:
1. We're genuinely nice(this ones confusing because many people think it's forced), and people don't get that
2. We are ALWAYS daydreaming
3. We can be and feel extremely naiive. Little do you know...
4. We keep our lives SECRET
5. If you don't know us, we a shut-in. If you know us, we're extremely interesting
People don’t actually try to get to know me… instead, they want to talk about themselves all the time.
I really have the same problem and it disturbs me a way too much
That make me hating them because i also want to be known but i end up being the councilor or psychologist if you want, then someday if they find someone else they ditch me… it pisses me off so much
This is so true. The rare friend that actually ATTEMPTS to learn more about me and ask questions, gets rewarded intensely. The thing they don't get is that I won't just randomly start ranting about myself unless asked. If they don't care, I won't waste my time. But if they show care, the game changes. It can be extremely rewarding to find true friends who are really invested in knowing more about me and are safe to open up to. But it is extremely disheartening when people I see every day are not interested to know me and only want me to listen to them go on about themselves for all eternity.
I believe that there is nothing that makes us INFPs happier about ourselves than being Thoroughly educated on the subjects of Morality, and the Patterns of Human Behavior.
That way, we can feel comfortable and confident in our level of authentic accuracy and discision-making when it comes to discerning whats truely valuable.
It takes lots of practice, and to never settle for complacency.
I feel that My sibling really wants me to open up when I break down but I really don't feel better when doing that. Somehow I just prefer them being around me while I breakdown rather than talking it out.
Agree. Often, getting the bursting emotions off the chest is enough.
Agreed
With time you will learn to open up to those who care about you. Hang in there, the good days are coming 💪.
Agreed
My mom wants me to explode with emotions like she does but I can’t do it. I find it easier to have a inner dialogue with the different aspects of my personality.
i can relate
it's just so painful when someone criticises one of my hobbies in front my self.
I cherish these gifts and wouldn’t trade them for anything. Truly blessed.
Yup, I'll become heated about something I read or watched, type out a comment, then delete it without having posted it at all. Might come back later to delete this one eventually as well lol
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This is so accurate it hurts 😭 but at the same time I’m so glad I finally found someone who put this into words!
thank you! so right on! and as an INFP the way you describe our traits and quirks is life affirming
Its unfortunate that the opposite sex doesn't see our kind warm hearts . So that's why were mostly sll single .no body gives themselves enough time to see it before running away and we miss out on love and companionship
This explains why my persona is literally a cloud person with little to no distinctive features and that can change to any shape at will
this was so spot on omg
So good , so accurate ❤
Just shows how fallen our world is that we have to guard some of these positive qualities to protect ourselves they are really things that are needed, some INFPs have cultivated so much wisdom through trial and error, that grows with age, that is very needed today. I am very private but I also engage in certain conversations to provide an alternative reality to some of the pathologies that are so readily conditioned as its the way thing are, when we actually have other abundant choices that can be tested to potentially create an alternative reality, of course it should be tested first something may sound good in theory but workout very poorly in practice, or through practice you refine your theory because its flaws become more readily visible which requires adaptions.
You are an example of an INFP putting to practice your creative vision which is of value to others, had you just kept all to you, we would not be receiving it, I hope more INFPs find the ability to be who they are and share more with the world the things they have gained via experience and to also be open to having their thought process challenged because that actually improves your resolve. Thank You!
Eloquently put
Well, I can agree with the fact that I don't like being judged and thus being around people who get me wrong. I don't want to talk to the ones who refuse to listen.
However, even my ISTP husband described me as "mysterious" after more than 10 years of relationships, which puzzled me.
Love you Matthias...❤❤❤
I feel so blessed when I get to hear about me from another person. It feels like I'm not wrong but someone different. Thank you so much Matthias.
SPOT ON 🙏
~ From a secretive and mysterious INFP
Opening up is always frustrating for me
Yeah i hate everytime i did
Очень многое совпадает! Спасибо!
This was a perfect depiction of my personality. Especially the part about why explain myself only to be denied. It's the main reason I don't always share my thoughts. I know that not everyone will agree with the way I see things, and I'm okay with it. Thank you for the posts. I feel seen for who I am, and it's nice to know that I'm not alone as I think.❤😊
True I’ve dreamt of living in somewhere whiteout humans just sketch stuff and books ✨ 0:31
Love your content
some of us are just miserable but yeah idc i just love to be wrongly perceived (my mask personality is enxp btw, lol)
This video is a description of myself 😁
We r?
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Lol my husband'e online name is 'no one'