@@holdmyweight3597 orgasms last like 20 seconds for most men and a lot get to that point very quickly. Some can keep going though immediately after and orgasm multiple times. Women can have multiple orgasms that last quite long and run into each other, so at times it seems like a never-ending, intense orgasm. With some women being able to have minutes long orgasms multiple times. So men= fast food and Women=5 star dining. the only way men can experience the same thing is through the prostate but most hetro men especially aren't willing to do that.
Except it isn't. Orgasms range from meh to mind-blowing for men too. If all you're ever experiencing are the meh ones, you might want to explore your methods a little.
That's probably a component of it, yeah. Everybody's different, but generally speaking the less time you spend jacking off (especially with "visual stimuli") you'll have better orgasms when you do it solo or do it partnered. As long as you've read up/been taught how to do it for max feeling.
I get what you're saying but, that analogy doesn't really work when applied to sex. "The finger and the ear" expression applies to one singular entity using one appendage specifically to apply relief and satisfaction to another part of the body on the same entity with the intention of only satisfying the one part of the body, the ear. One doesn't scratch their ear expecting their finger to feel good as well as their ear. In fact, the satisfaction we receive takes priority in the brain over most sensation we get in our finger. The act of sex involves two different entities using parts of their bodies for the same purpose of giving and receiving pleasure. The sensation one person feels isn't experienced by the other so the brain can't possibly cancel out one sensation over the other. 100% agree though that men drew the short straw on orgasms. What men experience by comparison to women is like static shock on a door knob vs the electric chair.
@@Scribby87 bro i hate people going "uhm actually this is not a great analogy/comparison for this reason". An analogy doesnt have to cover all the bases. analogy: a comparison between one thing and another, typically for the purpose of explanation or clarification, a correspondence or *partial* similarity (big emphasis on the partial). The analogy here is that finger and ear canal resemblances to the male&female genitelia and its the ear feeling better not the finger. You are not dumb you fully understood the analogy, and the message behind it.
They did studies using MRI where they found that during an O biological women's brain functions stop for a tiny moment, indicating some huge experience. The effect was too tiny for biological men to register with MRI. (Read that somewhere several years ago.)
Maybe men do it more and it's less of a big deal for the brain, dunno. Would be interesting to see results after a 4 week abstinence (if that's the right word, I'm not native and too lazy to check)
It being easier also fits with the fast food analogy. It truely is the fast food of experience since you just want to finish and put minimal effort into it just to get a small amount of satisfaction
I feel like we men are really depressing creatures that we get a lot of responsibilities and weight to achieve the survivability of a man. Maybe this is why we get so horny so often. Is our body trying to counter the stress we accumulate, but not insisting on it because we still need to rest and get back to work. At women having multiple and prolong and sensitivity must be a form of composition over there bodies constantly preparing for child birthing. And pretty much trying to build the bonding to a guy to prolong the survivability and reproduction.
@@Trip-x1ias much as I get that it sort of makes sex sound miserable for us. You get one time to blow and it's mid by comparison. Make sexual biology is shit compared to womens. Like why tf do they be convulsing and ready to go again and then theres us. Thinking we had a good time but really and truly we aint felt shit because of our biological limits how shit.😂😂😂
@@Trip-x1i Was the opposite in my previous relationship. I'd edge and avoid releasing cuz i knew i'd be turned off and not wanna touch or be around another human for 2 hours. Meanwhile, gf was getting multiple in. I prefer it that way because it just changes your perception too much as a guy.
Im pretty sure there are scinentific reports about that topic, i agree we are more alike than different but when we talk about sex there is a pretty big difference.
The guy is planting a seed, the girl is a whole ass garden. It's like the difference between winning a race in a racing game vs beating a major quest in an RPG. I bust out mario kart for 15 minutes to relieve some stress, I play an RPG all day on Sunday and it changes my life.
can you explain to me why? i really dont feel that way and my life sucks if this might have something todo with depression.. so i dont really get it why so many guys feel that way after they shot their ropes lmao
Not all fast food makes you feel bad after. If you go through life with only that experience, you need to expand how you experiment with getting food in a "fast" manner.
Yeah. I came (;) to the same conclusion when I made a fricking scort go full exorcist. It made me question things. Women really enjoy sex way more than men. Not a single doubt about that.
I dunno, I get what he is saying and I've seen the same thing when Ive put in minimal work. It's nothing to do with my/his performance, its the physiology of women or at least some women that is in play.
@@akapilkatechnically Emily's point about edging wasn't wrong. Although she missed a point. For dudes I think you need your partner to basically do foreplay with you etc and take their time with you if you really want it to feel good. That being said its so easy for us to just release that we don't even get close to that feeling. There's sort of articles and people out there who talk about it.
Ah, yes - the clitoris. The true penis. Why true, you may ask? Well because it has no holes/orifices (as far as I know). And as we all know, the possibility of being penetrated is kinda gay.
after busting dudes feeling like they betrayed themself and the world. what ever its called feelling like pumped up kicks or batman aint great... "post nut clarity"is the word and maybe BMTH - Can You Feel My Heart is a better song example than the school shooter song lol.
That's only if yall do it like a daily/however often chore, as if to quell your hunger. A lotta men don't feel comfortable with their own bodies or feel like they can't experiment for whatever reasons, therefore they do the most vanilla thing, get it over with and feel like they've wasted 5-20 mins of their day, like there are many ways men can actually feel "pleasure" the same way some women they see, experience. There might also be reasons like some conditioning done to yall when you were younger so you don't feel its right to do it, or the thing where your heartbeat is prob going real fast when you're jorkin it and when it ends and your heart fully relaxes, therefore the feelings you feel come later.
Why was this weird video recommended to me.... though THAT was funny. Whoever was lifting the weights though, was spot on... with his "fast food analogy" Where did the food go? Why'd it cost SO much? Why am I hungry again & also lethargic? what is going on?
The closes I can express how guys feels when coming is, imagine if you had to pee really really badly and had to hold it for so long and the relief feeling when that pee finally comes out, is the closes feeling to a guy coming.
That’s not it. I’d say it’s more like you’re going down a water slide but starts off slow as fuck. For like 5 minutes, you’re only going 2mph. as you gradually go down it gets faster and faster. By the time you get to the bottom you’re flying 20 mph but it was only for the last 10 seconds of the ride. So you’re disappointed that you did all that just for 10 seconds of fun. Yet here you are with season tickets to the water park
I feel like most women that are not satisfied during sex are terrible at communicating what they want and need in order to climax, you can't expect a guy to just know out of the blue how your body works. Feeling comfortable to communicate with someone comes with time invested with that person, you're most likely not gonna get what you wish for from a one-night stand if you know you have a hard time reaching climax.
@@minementalx Yeah, that's what I'm saying, right. 9/10 times the guy Is willing to do whatever it takes to make whoever he has sex with come, It's rarely a case of not giving a fuck or doesn't want to put the effort in... It's bad communication.
Women are generally just bad communicators about anything. They never say what they really want or mean and expect people to magically read their mind.
@@WokenAsc 9/10 times feels very generous to the average guy lol. I could believe that 5.5/10 guys are incredibly affectionate and are targeting 3 Os for their lady per session, but the other 4.5 guys fall on a linear distribution from "meh" to "terrible" when it comes to asking her what she wants and following through without excuses. There's a surprising amount of hot guys out there who will hook up with someone and then get ghosted because they don't understand that sex is a dialogue and think that basically using her as a sex doll will be enough to make her come (and if she doesn't, it just means his dick isn't big enough which is also not true).
Rings true for me. I couldn't make my gf orgasm the first few times and i was actually concerned enough about to to ask my brother if he's faced similar problems. He said don't worrt about it, she probably isn't comfortable enough yet, and it won't be a problem with time. I ended up ignoring his answer because i felt it wasn't an issue about being nervous, and i was right. I asked her directly, and she said she's only ever experienced orgasm from oral sex. The next time we had sex, i went down on her and it only took like 2 or 3 minutes. Just ask your girlfriends what makes them feel the best. I wasn't feeling good about our sex until i knew she was actually getting something from it too.
All true, but it sounds like they’re just talking about masturbating. Personally, I think there’s definitely a difference between coming from masturbating and having sex, especially after longer sex. You can even tell physically - you produce way more sperm during sex, alteast five times more than when you masturbate
I feel like you are getting your info from porn possibly. It's definitely not what happens... Unless you are going back to back to back to back to back with a woman.
the fast food analogy is so on point lmao
yeah ive never heard a better comparison, extremely accurate
honestly perfect
I still don't get it 🤔
@@holdmyweight3597 orgasms last like 20 seconds for most men and a lot get to that point very quickly. Some can keep going though immediately after and orgasm multiple times.
Women can have multiple orgasms that last quite long and run into each other, so at times it seems like a never-ending, intense orgasm. With some women being able to have minutes long orgasms multiple times.
So men= fast food and Women=5 star dining.
the only way men can experience the same thing is through the prostate but most hetro men especially aren't willing to do that.
Except it isn't. Orgasms range from meh to mind-blowing for men too. If all you're ever experiencing are the meh ones, you might want to explore your methods a little.
Female: That was great lets do it again
Male: What I have done ANCESTOR DON"T LOOK AT ME!!!
Men: falls asleep
Im male and I have literally never thought that once in my life
@@debrickashaw9387 no shame 😔
@@debrickashaw9387 weird flex but ok
@@debrickashaw9387 the mythical one
Guy: nuts
2 seconds later
Same guy: has the 2000th life crisis
2000? Catch up 😂
Wakes been chewing on that same stick of gum since he came out of the womb
LMAO
I was thinking he smokes off stream and chews gum to distract him
meanwhile lil jon telling them to skeet in the background.
Absolutely poetic😂😂
How do you think she came up with that random thought? The song was playing, and then she said it.
Instant Underground flashbacks
Everything that comes out of wake's mouth is so real
???????????????? intercourse is more pleasurable for women?
But what is he ALWAYS chewing on 🤷♂😂
@@markus5888 Gum addict. I relate...
bro
@@markus5888 cud
God damn Wake... every bit of that fast food analogy made perfect sense LMAO
The moment i finish I am already thinking about the game I'll play later.
Then you're doing it wrong. Unless that's all you want to get out of it.
@@MichaelDothosohuh? I bet many are like "well that's done, what to do next"
dopamine goblin
The older you get it lasts longer and feels better🤣☝️I'm 29. Your late teens and early 20s finishes are nothing lol just wait
@@TreyGoose im way older than you lol. Just low sex drive. Once im done i dont care anymore and on to the next thing
Wake's face at 0:39 lmaaaaoooo
In the Abyss LOLL
Needs no translation, accurate in all languages.
If you think about it, the way Emily imagines it is how it feels for all us guys the first time it happens.
That's probably a component of it, yeah. Everybody's different, but generally speaking the less time you spend jacking off (especially with "visual stimuli") you'll have better orgasms when you do it solo or do it partnered. As long as you've read up/been taught how to do it for max feeling.
As someone once said, "when you scratch your ear, what feels better, your finger or your ear?"
Dam xd
Your ear. I dont get it.
@@JH-rc3xg think about the comparison between that and the actual physical act of sex. I won't be more explicit than that.
I get what you're saying but, that analogy doesn't really work when applied to sex.
"The finger and the ear" expression applies to one singular entity using one appendage specifically to apply relief and satisfaction to another part of the body on the same entity with the intention of only satisfying the one part of the body, the ear. One doesn't scratch their ear expecting their finger to feel good as well as their ear. In fact, the satisfaction we receive takes priority in the brain over most sensation we get in our finger.
The act of sex involves two different entities using parts of their bodies for the same purpose of giving and receiving pleasure. The sensation one person feels isn't experienced by the other so the brain can't possibly cancel out one sensation over the other.
100% agree though that men drew the short straw on orgasms. What men experience by comparison to women is like static shock on a door knob vs the electric chair.
@@Scribby87 bro i hate people going "uhm actually this is not a great analogy/comparison for this reason". An analogy doesnt have to cover all the bases.
analogy: a comparison between one thing and another, typically for the purpose of explanation or clarification, a correspondence or *partial* similarity (big emphasis on the partial).
The analogy here is that finger and ear canal resemblances to the male&female genitelia and its the ear feeling better not the finger. You are not dumb you fully understood the analogy, and the message behind it.
T-mily confirmed
ExtraTimmy lol
Extra T-mily
They did studies using MRI where they found that during an O biological women's brain functions stop for a tiny moment, indicating some huge experience. The effect was too tiny for biological men to register with MRI. (Read that somewhere several years ago.)
Maybe men do it more and it's less of a big deal for the brain, dunno. Would be interesting to see results after a 4 week abstinence (if that's the right word, I'm not native and too lazy to check)
Not true, your brain lights up in one place, with women its a couple of places, but theirs is not as intense as ours......not even close
Biological is the most un-necessary word in modren era used in this context.
Someone is either male, or female when talking about anything medical 😂
It being easier also fits with the fast food analogy. It truely is the fast food of experience since you just want to finish and put minimal effort into it just to get a small amount of satisfaction
Its not true tho, you get out of it, what you put into it
That Wake zoom in was golden
I get 9000 years of depression every time i bust
The small and brief moment of euphoria keeps making us do it as it’s the only one we get. *sigh*
Ultradepression.
Post-nut clarity in a nutshell
Same but for me at least working out makes me forget until night comes.....
I feel like we men are really depressing creatures that we get a lot of responsibilities and weight to achieve the survivability of a man. Maybe this is why we get so horny so often. Is our body trying to counter the stress we accumulate, but not insisting on it because we still need to rest and get back to work.
At women having multiple and prolong and sensitivity must be a form of composition over there bodies constantly preparing for child birthing. And pretty much trying to build the bonding to a guy to prolong the survivability and reproduction.
0:28 Women can edge too..
they have no reason to lmao. guys edge because they only get one shot, one opportunity. girls get to chain that shit as long as they have the energy.
@@justcus That kinda depend on the woman. Not all women can have multiple orgasms.
I love how she just doubles down😂
I agree. It doesn’t compare. Whatever women are experiencing is a thousand times more intense.
But it's harder to get there for women.
In the wise words of Britney Spears:
"You gotta work, bitch."
When it actually happens lol. Take care of your lady, people! You're not finished until she finishes
@@Trip-x1ias much as I get that it sort of makes sex sound miserable for us. You get one time to blow and it's mid by comparison. Make sexual biology is shit compared to womens. Like why tf do they be convulsing and ready to go again and then theres us. Thinking we had a good time but really and truly we aint felt shit because of our biological limits how shit.😂😂😂
@@Trip-x1i Was the opposite in my previous relationship. I'd edge and avoid releasing cuz i knew i'd be turned off and not wanna touch or be around another human for 2 hours. Meanwhile, gf was getting multiple in. I prefer it that way because it just changes your perception too much as a guy.
@@shift7808 That's fuckin metal dude! 🔥 Sad to hear things didn't work out between you two.
You only feel shame when you aren't proud of what you accomplished
Enough skeet to put the Pyramids in Egypt to shame. And that's just 2 sessions.
@@mastermill79😂😂
you feel pride after rubbing one off? I just feel like it's time to clean that sock
You ever accomplished a point to be proud of?
“YEEEeErSS. I HAVE cOMPLETED TzhE COOOMING”
background song is too fitting for this "ahh skeet skeet skeet skeet skeet skeet"
This is just the grass is greener. We are way more alike than different. But the novelty of being different is still fascinating.
Im pretty sure there are scinentific reports about that topic, i agree we are more alike than different but when we talk about sex there is a pretty big difference.
The guy is planting a seed, the girl is a whole ass garden. It's like the difference between winning a race in a racing game vs beating a major quest in an RPG. I bust out mario kart for 15 minutes to relieve some stress, I play an RPG all day on Sunday and it changes my life.
"And you're covered in grease!!" OH man I lost it
thats bcuz the delusion is gone instantaneously
Dude is on point with the description, that's probably as close to a comparison you'll ever get
can you explain to me why? i really dont feel that way and my life sucks if this might have something todo with depression.. so i dont really get it why so many guys feel that way after they shot their ropes lmao
Not all fast food makes you feel bad after. If you go through life with only that experience, you need to expand how you experiment with getting food in a "fast" manner.
what he saying is he gives explosive Os. like he's blown some minds in ways he himself has never experienced and I get that.
Yeah. I came (;) to the same conclusion when I made a fricking scort go full exorcist.
It made me question things. Women really enjoy sex way more than men. Not a single doubt about that.
@@akapilka yeah not sure about your credit or reality of their emoting on that one bud
I dunno, I get what he is saying and I've seen the same thing when Ive put in minimal work. It's nothing to do with my/his performance, its the physiology of women or at least some women that is in play.
@@ashkiin8493 I'm a regular with her. I know when it's fake, it's not every time either.
@@akapilkatechnically Emily's point about edging wasn't wrong.
Although she missed a point. For dudes I think you need your partner to basically do foreplay with you etc and take their time with you if you really want it to feel good. That being said its so easy for us to just release that we don't even get close to that feeling. There's sort of articles and people out there who talk about it.
This genuinely made me laugh out loud.
I feel like that fast food analogy was... Honestly, pretty on point xD
And sometimes it may feel like extra good fast meal. But it gets stale pretty fast
"and you're covered in grease" LOL
I thank the considerate person who put on NFS U2 music in the gym.
Woah what? I've never seen this side of ExtraEmily before.
She talks about this shit a lot dude lol
It's her only side
sorry that you have to find out this way, she is very proud of her spreadsheet of men that she shares around.
@@ripandtear omg it's trueeeeee 😵 Emily wtf. Why is there documentation?
@@chanm01 search it up
They already have, just a tiny one
Ah, yes - the clitoris.
The true penis.
Why true, you may ask?
Well because it has no holes/orifices (as far as I know).
And as we all know, the possibility of being penetrated is kinda gay.
ya but the cl*t doesn't j*zz tho
I love Wake
that means if your 1 for 10 when with significant other, your even, No?
5head true
even after consulting her spreadsheet, I don't know what you're talking about
What?
The way the camera goes back and forth feels like an exchange from the Office🤣
I think they just unlocked the secret. If you only edge you won't get PN clarity so it's only the good parts.
This is such a real conversation lmao
She wants to hit the bullseye rather than being the bullseye.
ExtraDysphoric
after busting dudes feeling like they betrayed themself and the world. what ever its called feelling like pumped up kicks or batman aint great... "post nut clarity"is the word and maybe BMTH - Can You Feel My Heart is a better song example than the school shooter song lol.
eh i never felt that way
This is not normal.
Hot take: People who feel that way need to stop feeling that way
@@vapingfury4460 either that or they are doing wrong stuff and should stop doing the wrong stuff that makes them feel that way
That's only if yall do it like a daily/however often chore, as if to quell your hunger. A lotta men don't feel comfortable with their own bodies or feel like they can't experiment for whatever reasons, therefore they do the most vanilla thing, get it over with and feel like they've wasted 5-20 mins of their day, like there are many ways men can actually feel "pleasure" the same way some women they see, experience.
There might also be reasons like some conditioning done to yall when you were younger so you don't feel its right to do it,
or the thing where your heartbeat is prob going real fast when you're jorkin it and when it ends and your heart fully relaxes, therefore the feelings you feel come later.
Lol and you're covered in grease hahaha
Spiderman, Spiderman, SPIDERMAN!
Foreskin gang cant relate.
Those damn tiny hat wearers robbed us of our pleasure.
The fast food 💀
True
as a guy i don't understand the concept of post nut clarity i have never experienced it and i have no idea why someone would experience it
I'm pretty sure isn't only Emily who wished for that...
Nick looks at the camera like Jim from the Office....... 🤣
He's not wrong.
She is kind of right
Bro spoke with absolute facts
True, I wouldn't want to be a bloody mess every month
What the hell are Wake and Nick getting off to if they're *always* ashamed afterwards?
that's called post nut clarity my guy
Porn. Really any thing empty meaningless and devoid of connection
Other streamers I guess
@@nickmilo932more Veronica leal and some of your mom
@@ripandtear💀
Carhartt and a manbun seems complete opposite of each other.
it's actually so inconvenient
Quantity doesnt mean quality... easier but...
I know it would be fun if she had one as well😊
you and me both emily. you and me both.
bros spittin
here to say that you can get one emily
Bun-man is right it is like fast food.
what the duck Emily?!
Why was this weird video recommended to me.... though THAT was funny.
Whoever was lifting the weights though, was spot on... with his "fast food analogy"
Where did the food go? Why'd it cost SO much? Why am I hungry again & also lethargic? what is going on?
I wish she had one too.
Wake was actually right damn
He's right!
if you had one you would realise how much the world sucks
Ritchie Crossroad
Post nut clarity is they’re talking about
ExtraEric incoming?
ummmm is it okay to shoot little ropes?
Me after realizing the science behind the difference in orgasms: 😔
Wake is just being nice. lol
Shit... Wake spittin facts
That's 100% correct lmao
Such woman brain
The closes I can express how guys feels when coming is, imagine if you had to pee really really badly and had to hold it for so long and the relief feeling when that pee finally comes out, is the closes feeling to a guy coming.
YES.
It's more pleasurable than that wtf it's not just pee relief
Yes and the ‘pee’ all comes out at once in a few blobs instead of a long stream.
That’s not it. I’d say it’s more like you’re going down a water slide but starts off slow as fuck. For like 5 minutes, you’re only going 2mph. as you gradually go down it gets faster and faster. By the time you get to the bottom you’re flying 20 mph but it was only for the last 10 seconds of the ride. So you’re disappointed that you did all that just for 10 seconds of fun. Yet here you are with season tickets to the water park
@@Robertedwinhouse38 nah the pee 1.
Can't relate to any of that lmao.
Instant regret and shame
she knows
women can do it multiple times in a short time 😢
what kind of nasty shit has that poor girl been exposed to?
A girl like Emily is my dream girl
a man would be banned lol
Sadly, facts.
so fuckin true
Man, he is doing it wrong.....all wrong.
not to be mean but emily always looked a little like the cockroaches in the terra formars movie
I feel like most women that are not satisfied during sex are terrible at communicating what they want and need in order to climax, you can't expect a guy to just know out of the blue how your body works. Feeling comfortable to communicate with someone comes with time invested with that person, you're most likely not gonna get what you wish for from a one-night stand if you know you have a hard time reaching climax.
I think many women don't want to tell but want you to know.
@@minementalx Yeah, that's what I'm saying, right. 9/10 times the guy Is willing to do whatever it takes to make whoever he has sex with come, It's rarely a case of not giving a fuck or doesn't want to put the effort in... It's bad communication.
Women are generally just bad communicators about anything. They never say what they really want or mean and expect people to magically read their mind.
@@WokenAsc 9/10 times feels very generous to the average guy lol.
I could believe that 5.5/10 guys are incredibly affectionate and are targeting 3 Os for their lady per session, but the other 4.5 guys fall on a linear distribution from "meh" to "terrible" when it comes to asking her what she wants and following through without excuses. There's a surprising amount of hot guys out there who will hook up with someone and then get ghosted because they don't understand that sex is a dialogue and think that basically using her as a sex doll will be enough to make her come (and if she doesn't, it just means his dick isn't big enough which is also not true).
Rings true for me.
I couldn't make my gf orgasm the first few times and i was actually concerned enough about to to ask my brother if he's faced similar problems.
He said don't worrt about it, she probably isn't comfortable enough yet, and it won't be a problem with time.
I ended up ignoring his answer because i felt it wasn't an issue about being nervous, and i was right. I asked her directly, and she said she's only ever experienced orgasm from oral sex.
The next time we had sex, i went down on her and it only took like 2 or 3 minutes.
Just ask your girlfriends what makes them feel the best. I wasn't feeling good about our sex until i knew she was actually getting something from it too.
I don't know who any of these people are but SHE's right lol
All true, but it sounds like they’re just talking about masturbating. Personally, I think there’s definitely a difference between coming from masturbating and having sex, especially after longer sex. You can even tell physically - you produce way more sperm during sex, alteast five times more than when you masturbate
I feel like you are getting your info from porn possibly.
It's definitely not what happens... Unless you are going back to back to back to back to back with a woman.
🧢
true
Yea same
Huh. Guess Freud was right.
why did i get a condom ad?
Emily's face probs been at the end of those ropes so thats why she curious😂
I dont feel the shame at all afterwards yall might just be low test
wake is spitting, ive been saying that my whole life