“I left him cause this was not the marriage for me and I want to be equals with my husband” - Simi

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  • Опубликовано: 11 янв 2025

Комментарии • 154

  • @ZendelAtkinson
    @ZendelAtkinson Месяц назад +174

    Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q Месяц назад +2

      I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.

    • @ZendelAtkinson
      @ZendelAtkinson Месяц назад +2

      Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q Месяц назад +3

      I'm grateful for your guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.

    • @ZendelAtkinson
      @ZendelAtkinson Месяц назад

      I promise you will not regret it.

  • @motivational.university01
    @motivational.university01 Месяц назад +164

    Don't pretend like you don't see this, may your mom live more than 80 years ❤️

  • @olami_tomi
    @olami_tomi Месяц назад +13

    “Thank you for not giving me money when I was insecure”- a deep prayer right there

  • @queendion
    @queendion Месяц назад +130

    She was my roommate back in secondary school and I remember how she used to be, I was too young to understand that she was going through her own issues. We used to be bunkmates. Happy she is doing great now.

    • @KSuave-um9yq
      @KSuave-um9yq Месяц назад

      Which school?

    • @chideraugwu7115
      @chideraugwu7115 Месяц назад

      Someone dat schooled abroad?

    • @BreathOfHopePodcast
      @BreathOfHopePodcast Месяц назад

      ​@@chideraugwu7115but she said in the beginning of this video that she stayed in Nigeria for a few years from age 11

    • @baqiahlimmy1141
      @baqiahlimmy1141 Месяц назад

      Lol

    • @ej2507
      @ej2507 Месяц назад

      @@chideraugwu7115watch the video well.

  • @Divineprovidence2024
    @Divineprovidence2024 Месяц назад +18

    Really confident, courageous despite what she went through as a child

  • @Naija_media
    @Naija_media Месяц назад +97

    She one of the most beautiful women. Infact I thought she was mixed. I thought one of her parents is India. When people see how beautiful you are. they look for ways to make feel ugly.

  • @lateephaahmad7282
    @lateephaahmad7282 Месяц назад +7

    This is beautiful and inspiring for me. I am happy to see you come out strong and even more beautiful despite everything.

  • @ifeoluwaveronicaaridegbe4680
    @ifeoluwaveronicaaridegbe4680 Месяц назад +6

    She's so beautiful gosh. GOD creates beautiful people and everyone is beautiful in their own way

  • @queenadonri5913
    @queenadonri5913 Месяц назад +28

    It is absolute ignorance for any human being to believe, for whatever reason, that they are better than another human being! God created us to complement each other and not oppress, control, dominate, or manipulate. No man or woman knows everything. God himself will keep your marriage safe and secure! You will enjoy and not endure each other in your marriage! Your marriage will be full of peace, joy, and blessings in Jesus name! Amen!

  • @franchescaasamoah3046
    @franchescaasamoah3046 Месяц назад +28

    They see yr Glory b4 u yrself n use dat to break u down but thank God shes living❤

  • @ali21155
    @ali21155 Месяц назад +7

    Amazing daughter, amazing, amazing human being, now a wonderful mother.

    • @ali21155
      @ali21155 Месяц назад

      Such a good mentor to teens

  • @nyamedosunshine6819
    @nyamedosunshine6819 Месяц назад

    i love her ! such eloquence and wisdom

  • @georgeokotete8159
    @georgeokotete8159 Месяц назад +2

    I think by equality she means complimentary. Her definition of what she means as equality is complementary. She wants some one who they can compliment each other.

  • @francesjane3544
    @francesjane3544 Месяц назад

    I enjoyed this session. So much 😊

  • @piusdaniel1936
    @piusdaniel1936 Месяц назад +36

    I am still trying to understand the reason why she was called ugly. Or shey nah another person dem dey talk about? Because this lady here doesn't even look like she has been ugly before.

    • @SarahOsafo
      @SarahOsafo Месяц назад +1

      As in

    • @azpersonal
      @azpersonal Месяц назад +4

      I swear, people can hate 😂

    • @SarahOsafo
      @SarahOsafo Месяц назад +6

      @piusdaniel1936 a black child born abroad can be different ball game. It's not easy for some of those kids

    • @francesjane3544
      @francesjane3544 Месяц назад +3

      It's something you may not be able to understand. I also felt ugly, until in university too. That was the first time I believed I was beautiful. Mind you , I had heard it severally while growing up, but because I wasn't photogenic and every image of myself I saw looked ugly, I believed I wasn't beautiful 😊

    • @ej2507
      @ej2507 Месяц назад +3

      @@SarahOsafoshe was also called ugly in Nigeria when she stayed here from when she was 11years, so it's not about abroad. I think she may have been skinny when she was younger hence why the insults.

  • @chineyennamani6253
    @chineyennamani6253 Месяц назад +3

    Same, I was really bullied in secondary school, even to uni

  • @alerorichards7073
    @alerorichards7073 Месяц назад +12

    The power of words❤

  • @limitlessstudiotv6389
    @limitlessstudiotv6389 Месяц назад +6

    Nice interview 🤝

  • @yomzydee6825
    @yomzydee6825 Месяц назад +18

    I thought it was Simi the singer until you mentioned Simi J or Drey, they look alike

  • @ToletRealtor
    @ToletRealtor Месяц назад +14

    Hey beautiful, your diction is superb

  • @MelloBelloPhotoStudio
    @MelloBelloPhotoStudio Месяц назад +1

    Tuned from South Africa

  • @UnveilingEsther
    @UnveilingEsther Месяц назад

    She is so beautiful! Nice Podcast..

  • @KarinaApundo
    @KarinaApundo Месяц назад +6

    1 peter 3:7 - In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

  • @Pelumi-Olamide
    @Pelumi-Olamide Месяц назад

    She's so bright❤️❤️

  • @ChunoPee
    @ChunoPee 23 дня назад

    Beauty is never physical.. physical looks are merely like an invitation card.. when you show up.. the character would reveal what’s inside. That the invitation card is beautiful does not mean the event would be

  • @BarbieDaisy
    @BarbieDaisy Месяц назад +1

    She's lovely.

  • @maryIkeh
    @maryIkeh Месяц назад +3

    I like this woman😊

  • @Realnairah
    @Realnairah Месяц назад +1

    I just love her❤

  • @agoiobunso
    @agoiobunso Месяц назад +2

    Wow she is gorgeous 😍🥰

  • @ChillWithUche
    @ChillWithUche Месяц назад

    Love it 😊

  • @concilliaanyakie266
    @concilliaanyakie266 Месяц назад +1

    She's actually one pretty lady

  • @bethelcakesetal4042
    @bethelcakesetal4042 Месяц назад +28

    Simi was my classmate in Christ Ambassadors. To think I really liked her cos she was so cool and calm.Some things we went through as kids tho🥺

    • @giftemmanuel6823
      @giftemmanuel6823 Месяц назад +5

      Christ ambassadors kaduna???

    • @_ebunolu
      @_ebunolu Месяц назад +1

      Ibadan?

    • @toksakinyemi7350
      @toksakinyemi7350 Месяц назад +4

      @@_ebunolumust be Ibadan. Cos she said she lived in Ibadan for sometime

    • @certifiedg7927
      @certifiedg7927 Месяц назад

      ​@@giftemmanuel6823 I went to Christ ambassadors Kaduna

  • @winifredegwame5832
    @winifredegwame5832 17 часов назад

    I personally think everyone has been bullied at one stage of ljfe

  • @iprospawithglowreeyah
    @iprospawithglowreeyah Месяц назад

    I can relate,

  • @bukolayussuf862
    @bukolayussuf862 Месяц назад +5

    You are beautiful.

  • @danubiostudios2883
    @danubiostudios2883 Месяц назад +3

    What's up with the baby ..??

  • @adadike3860
    @adadike3860 Месяц назад +3

    6th - Happy I watched it

  • @DrEngrCEng
    @DrEngrCEng Месяц назад +1

    How nice loool ..
    ..
    we first weaponise victimhood, make the ex look bad online when he can’t defend himself … then tell a story of strength from turmoil …
    ..
    I want my equal .. how nice .. lol .. I’m sure her story is unique, but let’s stop these games ..

  • @tetelesia6662
    @tetelesia6662 Месяц назад +52

    As an aje kpako,i didnt know about bully until i started watching oyinbo film,it was weird to hear someone say "i was bullied in school",ha, aje....in retrospect,i think we settled what was supposed to be a bully episode by just waiting for the idiot in that bush part after school....you go collect wotowoto...tit for tat

    • @yalaking01
      @yalaking01 Месяц назад +2

      Thank you very much. Me sef no dey relate, but I dey try not to be the awkward one whenever they start talking about bullying.

    • @yalaking01
      @yalaking01 Месяц назад +3

      😂😂😂 you are crazy funny.

    • @victoronuabuchi6968
      @victoronuabuchi6968 Месяц назад

      Omo na tit for tat oh…..😂😂😂. I used my knee to hit the pen*s of one huge guy in the class that was bullying me and my friends. I almost damaged his balls. He wept after that encounter and had no strength to fight back. I apologized to him later on and he made me his friend. That was the end of his bullying.

    • @EbereKay
      @EbereKay Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @yalaking01
      @yalaking01 Месяц назад +6

      @Momentswithjojo 🤣🤣🤣 the werey go loose self esteem once you finish am with a liru bit of insult.

  • @Macinachick
    @Macinachick Месяц назад +2

    I didn't like the line of questioning in parts of this interview...

  • @koremichael596
    @koremichael596 28 дней назад

    You want to be equals with your husband? may she not be single for long

  • @samchs222
    @samchs222 Месяц назад

    I don't need to listen but she will be single for some time

    • @allthingstw2566
      @allthingstw2566 21 день назад +1

      Not quite, she’s been married and they look happy with her husband.

  • @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
    @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses Месяц назад +1

    Mhmmm
    Interesting

  • @Georgewalsh100
    @Georgewalsh100 Месяц назад +1

    Equals!? Cool

  • @wenduamadi998
    @wenduamadi998 Месяц назад +1

    hmnnn

  • @amarachionyinyechinwosu5462
    @amarachionyinyechinwosu5462 Месяц назад +3

    Second to comment and watch

  • @IneDublin-Green
    @IneDublin-Green Месяц назад +2

    3rd

  • @oluwasenioguntonade113
    @oluwasenioguntonade113 Месяц назад

    🦆🦆🦆🦆

  • @cjceejay5261
    @cjceejay5261 Месяц назад +3

    Stay away from the Bible bit. You seem ignorant of the Bible. Marriage is not for everybody especially in our beloved African culture. You need the right mindset to enjoy our African marriage. Oyibo husbands will always be away out for some people.

    • @KarinaApundo
      @KarinaApundo Месяц назад +14

      1 peter 3:7 - In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

    • @SalmaAmpah
      @SalmaAmpah Месяц назад +8

      @cjceejay5261 marriage is not an African thing, it's a biblical covenant. It's not about 'oyinbo' or 'African', but about spiritual understanding. She didn't say anything wrong about marriage with regards to the Bible.

    • @Monitised
      @Monitised Месяц назад +4

      😅 I don't think she's the ignorant one here cjay

    • @Monitised
      @Monitised Месяц назад +4

      @cjceejay5261 An oyinbo man that is following his Bible is not a 'way out' but God's way... Which one be 'African marriage' here, you see am for bible???

    • @baqiahlimmy1141
      @baqiahlimmy1141 Месяц назад

      You are a bully

  • @amaraudeagwu5671
    @amaraudeagwu5671 Месяц назад +2

    First to comment!

  • @medcrpartnerdavies548
    @medcrpartnerdavies548 Месяц назад +3

    For someone who grew up in the UK, her dictation is all over the place. She needs to relax though.

    • @chiomaokeke1928
      @chiomaokeke1928 Месяц назад +72

      This is such an unnecessary thing to say. Someone is talking about bullying and you came with another subtle dose of it. Haba!

    • @uangbaojesamuel1179
      @uangbaojesamuel1179 Месяц назад +42

      Podcast talking about abuse and you still had the effrontery to dish out emotional abuse??? You guys are so unbelievable

    • @EbereKay
      @EbereKay Месяц назад +14

      @@uangbaojesamuel1179it’s something most of them can’t control,because why be hot and bothered over the way someone speaks.

    • @nkhen_c357
      @nkhen_c357 Месяц назад

      You have no shame. Your Audacity to even write that lwabish

    • @nneka_maureen
      @nneka_maureen Месяц назад +48

      In this context, it is diction not dictation. Judging someone’s choice of words while yours is wrong.