This is for the men...When you see a woman, if you dont like her lifestyle, LEAVE her alone.. Dont try to change her... He met her on social media , then tried to use it against her...
@oluakinwale4859 l respect that . Was speaking from the social scientist perspective that if a whole scholarship on gender studies exists in academia , it means we can't ignore the impact of gender wars on messages ,such that at times they need to be contextual to allow that specific gender to look into itself in that context and map its own solutions. That is not in anyway about minimising that the same scenario is possible in other gender, and the solution maybe different, which is why l said the message may be sucked into the gender war narrative. However l respect your difference of opinion. Best wishes
I know Sandra back then in Festac, she's a very Good girl, is so painful that marriage have been unfair to her. She's a very generous girl. Thank God her family are strongly behind her.
He might have a big engine and that's what most women goes for these days. Looks have nothing to do with It. A man with money 💵 and big engine is the answer.
My own take is celebrity, especially, should be extra careful when choosing their life partners. Because human being are selfish in nature. It takes a Godly spirit to not think about your interest or benefits first in every relationship. Marriage is a good thing but rushing into marriage is a disaster. Some people will bring their tender relationship into public. Showing people how deeply in love they are. Saying sweet things about themselves. And the wedding ceremony, every social media platform will surely run it. Heaven and earth will know that a couple got married. They prepared very well for their wedding but failed to prepare for marriage. And before you say Jack Robinson, they're done. They begin to say some ugly things about themselves on social media. And people begin to wonder what exactly happened within this short period of time? What happened most times is they didn't really open up to themselves, they did not talk some things through before going into marriage. They didn't learn to understand and tolerate each other. They didn't know that marriage is not only about enjoyment, romance, and flaunting your love but also about sacrifice, endurance, patient, commitment, and charity.
For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life. John 3:16 If you are yet be saved please make this confession. Lord Jesus, I believe you are the Son of God, that you died on the cross to rescue me from sin and death and to restore me to the Father. I confess and repent of my sins. I accept you as my Lord and Saviour. I give myself to you in Jesus name. Amen Welcome into the family of God.
Enough of this religious divide. The show is for everyone. Why bring religion into it? That's our problem in this part of the world. We bring religion into everything. No wonder countries that are less religious than us are doing better economically.
If we go into who had sex with who we will not have peace, forgiveness should play a big role in our life’s and people should learn to move on when they have been wronged beyond forgiveness
They were sleeping together not she was sleeping with your husband. He was with many people like you say. He wanted the baddie and the humble woman at the same time.
My only question with this is why do women find it easy to believe what a man told you aboit another lady even when you know the man talks a lot and lies but you will be willing to believe what he told you about another woman without hearing her own side, for what i know there are more lies in whatever she and the hisband is saying than meets the eye
It is the reason why one shouldn't take a side until you hear from another side of the story. She will say positively to her story; the other too will speak positively to his story. It is now for you to use a technicality to draw your conclusion.
Just imagine! That she had a sexual relationship with someone before your marriage to that person doesn't mean she slept with your husband....except the one that happened after marriage....all of you are same....
You left your marriage because your husband was cheating on you. But you saw this before marriage na. Not supporting your ex behavior but let’s stop ignoring red flags 🚩
He met you on social media that doesn't mean you should stay there after marriage, also is cheating not part of the worst things that can happen in marriage. So pastors take note remove that line "For better for worst". My conclusion is it takes the two compromising for marriage to work else it will eventually crumble its just a matter of time.
At 3:33, She said when that "Nancy Isime" situation happened... I don't get. The caption says "Nancy Iheme", this lady in question said "Nancy Isime". Stop confusing us pls..
Marriage in 2024 😂😂 Something serious men and women would sit around the table, call the two parties and talk about the issues in a marriage, it's something that is now discussed on someone's RUclips channel.
This lady seems good but in any case women out there try not to leave your marriage because your husband cheat on you and don't cheat back as a revenge because He cheated on you.
@@Lindaphotographs The fair one is Iseme, the one she is talking about is a dark actress who is not so popular, she is Iheme. You can even search their names on RUclips you will see that they are different people
Sandra I blame u for this. Knowing this is not ur first marriage my sister there are somethings u see and look the other way. A man confided in u about her ex u started fighting? Why wont she attend the wedding, his man is wedding and she was invited. She would have been the bride but he chose u over her yet u still dey ask what she's doing in ur wedding. Next time try minding ur business life no too serious.
This is the weirdest advice I have ever heard in such cases! A man who invites his ex to his wedding is being disrespectful! Women should have enough self-esteem to walk away when their husbands are able to cheat shamelessly. A cheater is a potential danger. He can contaminate you with different sorts of disease or can get involved with someone dangerous at the point of hurting you out of jealousy! I do understand that someone can decide to forgive a cheating spouse who regrets his actions, sincerely apologizes and avoids repeating it but I can not understand why would someone decide to remain with a spouse who openly cheates. It obvious that in the second case, there is no love or whatsoever!
Common, this guy must be loaded to be able to carry all these women. And women like money not until they enter, then you start hearing stories like I shouldn't have, but when we told you b4 u refused
Sandra has her own money ubi was the digger here and Sandra wanted a husband so bad cos she already had a daughter initially. And broke men are the worst even tho I know men aren't it.😅😅
This is for the men...When you see a woman, if you dont like her lifestyle, LEAVE her alone.. Dont try to change her... He met her on social media , then tried to use it against her...
Your advise should be for both women and men.
@oluakinwale4859 usually when we do that the message gets lost though
@@AmayaRue2360 l respectfully disagree.
@oluakinwale4859 l respect that . Was speaking from the social scientist perspective that if a whole scholarship on gender studies exists in academia , it means we can't ignore the impact of gender wars on messages ,such that at times they need to be contextual to allow that specific gender to look into itself in that context and map its own solutions. That is not in anyway about minimising that the same scenario is possible in other gender, and the solution maybe different, which is why l said the message may be sucked into the gender war narrative. However l respect your difference of opinion. Best wishes
@@AmayaRue2360gbam!!!!!!!!
I know Sandra back then in Festac, she's a very Good girl, is so painful that marriage have been unfair to her. She's a very generous girl. Thank God her family are strongly behind her.
'I knew Sandra''
@@adetolaayodele3425 "I knew Sandra"
I had to point out that you used single and double quotation marks, English teacher.
@@YawAnsongSnr pardonable. My keyboard malfunctioned. It wasn't a solecism.
@@YawAnsongSnr, you were desperate, weren't you to look for the tiniest error.
@@adetolaayodele3425 Maybe...but surely not as desperate as you were.
My own problem is that I want to interview chude, I've my reasons though.
🤣
Looool
The need for the interviewer to be interviewed.
I felt for her when she said I shouldn’t have gotten married
@Lucky Dalton 💯
The guy doesn’t even look good enough for her at all
He might have a big engine and that's what most women goes for these days. Looks have nothing to do with It. A man with money 💵 and big engine is the answer.
Since when did women start marrying for looks? They marry for the money and status!
@@diligenceeke3023 Bingo. The man could look like mighty Joe Young, it doesn't matter as long as he has the cash. No argument from me on this.
Watt he doesn't wat 😂u no get eyes
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@taiwoidowu2854
My own take is celebrity, especially, should be extra careful when choosing their life partners. Because human being are selfish in nature. It takes a Godly spirit to not think about your interest or benefits first in every relationship. Marriage is a good thing but rushing into marriage is a disaster. Some people will bring their tender relationship into public. Showing people how deeply in love they are. Saying sweet things about themselves. And the wedding ceremony, every social media platform will surely run it. Heaven and earth will know that a couple got married. They prepared very well for their wedding but failed to prepare for marriage. And before you say Jack Robinson, they're done. They begin to say some ugly things about themselves on social media. And people begin to wonder what exactly happened within this short period of time? What happened most times is they didn't really open up to themselves, they did not talk some things through before going into marriage. They didn't learn to understand and tolerate each other. They didn't know that marriage is not only about enjoyment, romance, and flaunting your love but also about sacrifice, endurance, patient, commitment, and charity.
Very true
Marriage is not all about FLAMBOYANT wedding my dear. Where is the LOVE heading to is the question. Is it genuine or not??
For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life. John 3:16 If you are yet be saved please make this confession. Lord Jesus, I believe you are the Son of God, that you died on the cross to rescue me from sin and death and to restore me to the Father. I confess and repent of my sins. I accept you as my Lord and Saviour. I give myself to you in Jesus name. Amen Welcome into the family of God.
This is not a religious show. Go to church if u wanna preach.
@@Lasunkanmi_Kolawoleus christians are told to preach the gospel to anyone, not just within the church. don’t be ignorant. 🙏🏾
Enough of this religious divide. The show is for everyone. Why bring religion into it?
That's our problem in this part of the world. We bring religion into everything.
No wonder countries that are less religious than us are doing better economically.
@@Lasunkanmi_Kolawole na wa oh
Hmm
I want to hear from the man's side
If we go into who had sex with who we will not have peace, forgiveness should play a big role in our life’s and people should learn to move on when they have been wronged beyond forgiveness
Facts!
This experience will make her stronger and work on her weaknesses and boundaries….Marriage needs to be studied I beg…Life lessons 😢
I just wonder, after exposing the secrets what next? Would Chude proffer any solutions? Guys have sense 🎉
They were sleeping together not she was sleeping with your husband. He was with many people like you say. He wanted the baddie and the humble woman at the same time.
Please not Isime oh, Nancy iheme..
Haaaa. Mt heart beat gbagba. The love I have for that Nancy. Is 99%. I pray it's not her sha
@@kayomideemmanuel8128 it is
Seriously I like the lady
That is past tense not her percent I still like her
@@nonhlanhlasithole6366 Ha! Nancy Isime and Nancy Iheme are two different people, isn't it? This video clearly said Nancy Iheme.
Wait o, is it the same Nancy with low cut?
E shock you 😅
No, not her. That one is Nancy Usime. Not Iheme.
Yes
You alright? Yes what?@@chigozieobuo4188
My only question with this is why do women find it easy to believe what a man told you aboit another lady even when you know the man talks a lot and lies but you will be willing to believe what he told you about another woman without hearing her own side, for what i know there are more lies in whatever she and the hisband is saying than meets the eye
If a woman is already in love with a man any nonsense the man says is the truth to her even if she knows he's lying
Cos women are mean to each other.
@@toksakinyemi7350 men are also fake to each other
🤦🏽♀️
I have learnt there are two sides to every story. She is the saint only because it's her talking now
It is the reason why one shouldn't take a side until you hear from another side of the story. She will say positively to her story; the other too will speak positively to his story. It is now for you to use a technicality to draw your conclusion.
Three sides: her side , his and the Truth.
@@jahsoulfa I agree bro
Seems someone already went to media and talked before her
@@jahsoulfa Wow! Absolutely.
I actually googled the Nancy Iheme. She actually does look like the lady in the interview.
We're doomed
Nancy Iheme should be ashamed. Very much ashamed
Just imagine! That she had a sexual relationship with someone before your marriage to that person doesn't mean she slept with your husband....except the one that happened after marriage....all of you are same....
Is it same Nancy Isime we know or a different one 😢😢😢
Nancy Iheme not Isime 😊
Nancy Isime is what she said@@Wil_Sim
Why do some women think family matters should be solved via social media or there is another motivation for this?
Na foolishness!
You didn't hear the part where she said her husband was the one who took it to social media?
Did you even watch the video?
They all got married for social media she and the husband
This is not nice
Pls leave Nancy alone,
Birds of same feather
You left your marriage because your husband was cheating on you. But you saw this before marriage na. Not supporting your ex behavior but let’s stop ignoring red flags 🚩
0:17 spending 45million for wedding alone? just to impress people you don't know 4 only one day?...chaiii🙆♂️
So she thinks a man who is rich enough to spend 45 million on a wedding will be faithful to her,she must think she a goddess.
@@alphabogeyman7462 lolxz
When u have the money,,,it’s a totally different thing
But some allegations are true
He met you on social media that doesn't mean you should stay there after marriage, also is cheating not part of the worst things that can happen in marriage. So pastors take note remove that line "For better for worst". My conclusion is it takes the two compromising for marriage to work else it will eventually crumble its just a matter of time.
That conversation of whether she remains on social media or not should have been heard before marriage.
Faithful so if she cheats you would say it's not the worst thing that can ever happen ..check yourself your hypocrisy and bias is showing.
He should have told her na....
@@estheradebayo433 it should have been discussed, not that "he" should have told her.
Lol... You're not even making any sense
SMH!!!
See the Steve,not even a fine man. If not money what will she do with him?
Nancy iheme or isime which one
Iheme
She slept with your then boyfriend not your husband...
At 3:33, She said when that "Nancy Isime" situation happened... I don't get.
The caption says "Nancy Iheme", this lady in question said "Nancy Isime". Stop confusing us pls..
You obviously didn't listen to this video. Wetin concern me sha.
When their fame finishes, then they look for another meat to prey on. This is so shameless and shameful. Smh
Women would also go on social media tonembass aan
Sandra ihewa 😂😂😂😂so this is where you ended up😅😅😅😅
Iheme or isimé????
They are 2 different people
He's a narcissist😫😫😫
I read Nancy Isime on the caption 😅😂😂😂.. Thank God it’s not my Nancy o 😂
Same I was freaking out 😅
@@jagahi 😂
The woman even said Nancy Iseme!😮
@@bioye 😆
Nkita..😮
Chude is a busybody. Kai...Learn to mind your business. All these people that will be opening their secrets in public...receive sense.
How are we going to hear celebrity gossip if not for people like Chude😂 and secret openers😂
@@Godsgirlgirl hmmmmmnnnn🤔, true though. I kind of find these interviews somehow.
Lol they have the right to refuse his invitation o
He didn't force them! Plus we are enjoying it even you. You are enjoying it with us!
But you are here on his channel…watching and commenting. Joke’s on you.
😳😳😳😳😳wonderful!
Why are you complaining after getting married to two man at your age
Na isime abegi
no, Iheme, not Isime.
Iheme.. Google na, he be like you dey trip for isime😅
Marriage in 2024 😂😂
Something serious men and women would sit around the table, call the two parties and talk about the issues in a marriage, it's something that is now discussed on someone's RUclips channel.
Yes because that setting only benefited men. The man and his family and all will oppress the woman to agree with terms that favour him.
Isimè or ihimè???
Is iheme not isime
can't you read?
This lady seems good but in any case women out there try not to leave your marriage because your husband cheat on you and don't cheat back as a revenge because He cheated on you.
So easy for you to say...
Youll know its a male reply😂😂😂
Nancy isime?
Iheme
Ppl don't like reading. Read the caption
@@mariammandeiya47they like reading; the name sounds the same. It could have been a typo that’s why people are double checking. No need to be rude.
@@mushthemoist4ever729 they just want to gossip about Nancy isime.
Please is it Nancy isime or iheuwa
Its Iheme not Isime
@@josephineandorful7860It’s not the one who acted blood sisters ooo
The identity is Boldly written in the Caption
Not isime is another Nancy
It’s not the fair Nancy oooo……lol
Do we have another Nancy isime
@@Lindaphotographs The fair one is Iseme, the one she is talking about is a dark actress who is not so popular, she is Iheme. You can even search their names on RUclips you will see that they are different people
How come she mentioned Nancy Isime
@@Smithcols maybe slip of tongue, am sure he would have corrected the title now if it was a mistake
Believe women at your own peril! What is this interview supposed to achieve? It obviously isn't going to affect the man cause he is not a celebrity.
Sandra I blame u for this. Knowing this is not ur first marriage my sister there are somethings u see and look the other way. A man confided in u about her ex u started fighting? Why wont she attend the wedding, his man is wedding and she was invited. She would have been the bride but he chose u over her yet u still dey ask what she's doing in ur wedding. Next time try minding ur business life no too serious.
It’s not that easy sha … especially with everything she’s heard
@@wofaieloma3358 now she will start all over again. Most of the men u see cheat. Just know it
They should have that conversation before the invitation
This is the weirdest advice I have ever heard in such cases! A man who invites his ex to his wedding is being disrespectful! Women should have enough self-esteem to walk away when their husbands are able to cheat shamelessly. A cheater is a potential danger. He can contaminate you with different sorts of disease or can get involved with someone dangerous at the point of hurting you out of jealousy! I do understand that someone can decide to forgive a cheating spouse who regrets his actions, sincerely apologizes and avoids repeating it but I can not understand why would someone decide to remain with a spouse who openly cheates. It obvious that in the second case, there is no love or whatsoever!
Common, this guy must be loaded to be able to carry all these women. And women like money not until they enter, then you start hearing stories like I shouldn't have, but when we told you b4 u refused
They ignore all the good guys and go for the worst guys with money. You know how it usually ends.
@@diligenceeke3023 and poor guys cannot be bad?
Sandra has her own money ubi was the digger here and Sandra wanted a husband so bad cos she already had a daughter initially. And broke men are the worst even tho I know men aren't it.😅😅
Wasted generation,
🙄😂
Entanglement 2.0 was caught in 4K OLED camera 🤣🤣🤣