Comment below if you know which animal I saw fighting. 06:40 to skip the fun and hear some quotes. Tried my very best to keep it concise guys but I get pretty passionate about this stuff I could have stood there all day talking about this 😂 Shout out to everyone watching, especially those who made it all the way through. 🤝
It is a pleasure to listen to your thoughts) Harry, have you ever concidered trying some natural hair regrowth treatments? It would be fun to see you doing some sort of experiment. Btw, the hair looks great on you, let it grow further)
Андрей Фекич I did a video on onion juice but that is as far as it has gone really. I’m a big skeptic because if they worked surly there wouldn’t be a need for the surgery/ pharmaceuticals right?
Thank you soooo much for your videos!!! It's really helping me right now!! I care to much about other's jugements that I'm not ready for that step... But in the end, I should not be worried about that. I'm just overthinking
for me it was: keep hair= stay indoors, dont stress incase it make it worse, dont go out, dont swim, dont go out in rain, avoid showers too much and hot sun or cold, avoid pulling hair accidently on hats or anything, dont exercise or sweat too much as fear of damage, avoid or fear mirrors or friend family photos, hide from the world, feel down all the time , feel scared and lock yourself away and lock others out due to fear of judgement, Vs shave it off and set your self free from the mental prison of your mind being controlled by society expectations!!!!! :)
Honestly man you’re right, I should probably just shave this. I hate that I have too, but idk man if you told me when I was 21 that I would lose all my hair in the next three years I would’ve laughed, but now damn I worry about all those things. Idk it gives me tons of anxiety and I’m sure it did for you guys, but it really made life that much better? Idk I probably sound dumb
Damn this sums up all my worries 😅 I don't think I'm ready to take it all off yet as I just turned 20 but I catch myself thinking about exactly these things everyday until I get angry enough to go do them anyways.
I'm someone who decided to take medication to deal with my hairloss, so I dont agree 100% with you, but damn, youre such a good and genuine person I cant help but watch all of your videos. I dont think I know any other RUclipsr who can bring people who are at the very bottom to a place where they are happy and content with their life like you do. Blading took away all my teen years, I know how painful it is, so to see you helping people accept and move on to a place of happiness is a really great thing. Keep it up brother.
@@englishexperts1974 I've been on them for 4 years ever since I was 17, no sides so far except my body hair thinned out quite a lot and my beard doesn't grow as strong. I'd swap body hair and a beard for hair tho 😁
Really appreciate where you are coming from with this comment. It takes a good person to write so positively on something they don’t fully agree with. Your positive attitude is very in keeping with the “vibe” here so you are most welcome and I really appreciate your support on the content. 🤝 wish you the best.
I started losing at 19 and it just hit me like a ton of bricks. I remember thinking, I didn’t even make it until my 20’s. In a way, I feel like I lost my 20’s. When I hit 30, I started looking around and found that I was in the same boat as a lot of other guys and that eased my mind and one day I just decided to let it go. It hasn’t been easy, but haven’t let it hold me back like I did before. It may sound stupid, but young men need access to therapy to deal with this.
No for real man, I am 24 and now it’s falling out rapidly. I used to have women actually go out of their way to talk to me. Or just I would have more lively interactions in general with people, but now idk people are starting to talk to me different or not even acknowledge me anymore. Idk maybe I should just shave my head now, but it makes me stupid nervous to just change. Idk i hate the stigma that comes with a shaved head or completely bald head.
hey bro, for me there is nothing hard about being bald, trust me I' started losing hair when I was 17, now I'm 21 and I have no problem with that, I shave every 2 or 3 days, let my beard grow, change my clothes style, built muscles. I'm good, I wished that knew your channel at the beginning so I can share with you all the process. For everyone who started losing his hair, Shave it man Shave it, and don't feel ashamed or shy of how people will look at you, you have only one life, so deal with it and enjoy it as much as possible
Hey man, I usually don't comment on vids but I got to say that you bringing attention and awareness of male pattern baldness is one of the biggest ways of reducng the anxiety surrounding it certainly for guys. Rather than feeling anxious about the situation and feeling inferior, I can just simply say, im losing my hair because of genetics. Also helps with seeing everyone else at these young age braving the shave. Builds a good resilient community for support, keep up the good content mate!
Ps my confidence went up- I was more relieved that I had shaved my hair off- the constant worry I used to have, constantly checking the bathroom sink or the pillars for falling hair was too much for me. I’m glad it’s gone- I don’t care what people think either. Worrying about someone’s opinion on being bald doesn’t compare to the satisfaction I now have every morning not thinking about hair Love it !
Big respect to him for the effort he puts in his videos, to drive to a calm place at 6 am and editing for the story in the car and taking different shots of the parking. It's good work man, we have to appreciate the work he's done. Idk where I would be without his videos and I am not even exaggerating, they made so much more comfortable with my hair loss and it provoked me to fix up other things in my life as well. Good one :)
I value your support for the channel and those who engage with it more than I could ever express. This comment made my day thank you. Wish you nothing but the best you legend 🤝
The hardest thing for me is I feel that going/being bald you're dependent so much on other people's opinions. I feel that I won't be treated the same way as when I had hair. I have always known that if I work hard enough, I will get to where I need to get to in life. In school, I worked hard and got myself into Medical school. Then worked my ass off to qualify as a Doctor. More work, and almost 10 years later I am a Consultant. But, I find my friends have all have partners/wives/families and I am alone, bald, and nothing I have achieved and can do will matter because for the opposite sex, I am not deemed an attractive prospect. I would love be in your position, not caring about what other's think.
It could be that the caring what others think is holding you back. Don’t get me wrong. You want to be a like able person but we overthink it so much. In reality no one cares about what we are doing because they too are overly concerned about what you or others are thinking about them. Being bald in no way makes you automatically unlikeable I promise you that. Not by any person worth spending your time on anyway.
Every time I get the notification that you've uploaded a new vid, I know I'm going to feel great, feel part of this group you've created. You're some man, Harry. Also, beard game is strong in this one!
For the guys out there hesitating: I used the corona quarantine period to shave and get used to it myself. Best fucking decision of my life. All the anxiety you’re feeling will disappear, I’m not exaggerating. The very first two or three days you’ll walk out of your house you might feel a bit anxious. That’s normal. From day 4 and further you’ll feel like a newborn baby every time you get out with that fresh clean look - and yes a beard and some muscles would help. But if there was any time to start it’s now - corona time.
So I should just do it? My hair is thinning a lot now and idk I haven’t been quarantined I’ve been working the whole time, but still I’m really nervous about it. I already have a lot of social anxiety and this is making it way worse.
I’m losing my hair at a very quick rate and I’m only 18 your videos really do help seriously u say it how it is and your honesty has helped me as young guy with insecurities imma enjoy what’s left of my hair for the time being but Ik deep down after a certain time it will go and I must carry on. Thanks tho seriously these vids have truly boosted my mental health.
For an 18 year old guy I can tell from this comment you have a wise head on those shoulders man. Enjoy it, when enough is enough take action and move on a stronger and more resilient person. It will take you far 🙏 You got this.
I don’t miss my hair but I hate when people moan about their hair. As a female it’s hard but I would not change it. It’s important to accept it and understand that others are in a worse position etc. I currently walk (hop) on crutches with a bald head. I have walked around with wigs, buffs, hats etc but wearing nothing is so freeing. I just need to find a Barbers to sort it out.
I guess the reason behind this anxiety of men losing their hair is that women won't like them anymore since having hair or stylish hair is one of the things that measures men's attractiveness at least on social media and ads. I had a girl that I wanted to date once told me that she likes men with hair and I was and still am losing my hair at that time so that created some insecurity in me about losing my hair. I used to shave my head when I was younger just for the sake of change but shaving my head now is necessity since that's the only hair style that's available for you. For all the men that have this insecurity eating all their thinking time or just overthinking that your chances are gone with your hair I just want to say that if someone is evaluating you based on the hair on your head, you just don't need to be with this person anyone believe me. Just shave your head and embrace the new look and live with it...since I started losing my hair I became more upkeep taking better care of my appearance and that opened new opportunities for me in life whether it was dating or jobs....mic drop!
*picks up mic - I remember telling my gf “this is me now, this is my look. If you want a man with perfect hair that ain’t me. Take it or leave it” we’re married now. But that’s the real ness you gotta bring to the table I say. Know who are you and don’t make any apology for it.
Im a good-looking guy, I have hair, not the thickest but the thin type (not thinning just thin) and girls always turn me down and leave me on read for someone taller, and muscular, trust me, hair is not the issue, it's just the type of girl you are dealing with so don't think that because you are bald doesn't mean you won't fuck hot girls anymore
when i used to get panic attacks in the fear stages before i braved the shave i used to rewatch harrys videos here over and over as like a comfort and positive affirmation over and over for "eveythign will be ok i will be ok" curious if anyone else did this too ? :) i watched the how to shave ur head video like 20 times before i felt i could do it but so glad i did :)
Damn dude, I came here expecting something completely different, ended up being the thing I needed to hear most today. I relate to this in many different ways, not just my hair balding in front, other life changes. It's gonna feel good when I do finally learn to let go. Thanks man!
This channel is so important ! hope it keeps going for a long time and you continue to grow and reach more men facing male pattern baldness, Brilliant job Harry keep up the good work.
I consider my self very lucky because I was at the right path at a very young age..lifting weights studying and wining small battles daily gave me tremendous amount of confidence,when the time finally came to shave my head I didn't felt anything..do the work people if the only thing you have in life is hair and afraid to loose it,it means you have too much free time.
I started losing my hair since 23-24 due to severe stress and it hasnt started growing ever since. hundreds maybe thousands of dollars spent in trying to regain the luscious hair that i had. then i stumbled across your channel and watched this ever since. i felt somewhat free from my insecurities although i'm a "not give a damn" type as my mate calls it. A week ago I gained strength and finally buzzed all my hair off and after couple of years of shame. I'm finally free. Thank you for your generous efforts in trying to uplift struggling men. Thank you. I hope you see this. You changed my life for the better.
I feel you man. I can relate to the stress. I think I would have gone bald anyway but I really think the stress I was putting myself under sped things up. Really pleased to hear you figured it out and have moved onto new and more positive things. Absolute respect and I wish you all the best ✊ 🤝
Baldcafe that is very true. Trying to not overthink it made me overthink and dwell on what could’ve instead of what is. Cheers mate, likewise. Keep on inspiring G.
You can actually grow back hair if it is caused by stress by getting rid of the root cause of that stress. Unless the cause is genetics/ male pattern baldness than it is impossible to grow it back, at least without medication or topicals.
You are such an inspiration brother. Not only i feel like you help us dealing with baldness but becoming greater people overall. Keep up the good work and thanks so much.
Thank you so much 🙏 I’m contemplating talking more on the channel about areas I am trying/ reading about such as better sleep, exercise and mindset/spirit but I’m not sure how to bring it into the channel yet. I would be speaking as a student of such things rather than an expert
Loving the style of these videos... doing the vids outside etc... your point about attachment and loss 👌. Also I think you showed honest vulnerability... its that kind of vulnerability that we as men need to see more of. Cheers harry 👊
Thank you. Great video. I am struggling with adjusting with hair loss having just made the decision to shave it all off - in addition, I am coming to terms with turning 40, which has hit me really hard - harder than I really thought possible. Plus, with living alone and being self isolated I have had to content with my own thoughts - trying to adjust to this change. You have a great channel and I relate to the points that you raise. Thanks again
Quality video for us who are struggling with male pattern baldness in teenage really appreciate your hard work Keep motivating us 🙏❤️ Lots of love from Nepal🇳🇵
Balding becomes a blessing in disguise as soon as you use it to challenge and silence your ego so you can get out of your own way. Until then it sucks! Great video as always, the vlog style is great too.
Lost my hair about 12 years ago, I got the comment "I can't imagine you with hair" a few times recently lol, probably because I rock it proudly- you adapt to your new reality..
yup. vid completely resonates. I went through that stage of using regaine, supplements like saw palmetto, nettle root, pumpkin seeds. you're an easy target for the marketing boys but embracing baldness is 100% the way to go for your mental health. being bald is cooler than having hair anyway IMO. I was never a good looking guy with hair and clean shaven. amidst some banter (cueball, head upside down, etc) most people told me it suits me and I think it can suit anyone. I look back now and wish I'd embraced it sooner, but it was the fear of the unknown and starting a new chapter.
I remember that after I finally buzzed my head down to a 0, that "damn, I look surprisingly good". In fact, it made my other positive features more noticeable, and I realized that I didn't even need the damn hair. It also made me finally start losing weight, and I've went from 194 lbs almost obese in December to 158 lbs right now, and arguably, I look and feel the best I have since sophomore year of high school. I also feel so much less self-conscious in general, and more willing to just be myself, unapologetically. I've actually started to like who I am again, and that's huge. I really relate to what you say about accepting balding initiating a personal growth process.
I want to thank this channel for giving me inspiration and opening my eyes to a world of confidence i did not recognise before. Around two years ago I started experiencing hair loss, such as a receding hairline and thinning hair in general. Classmates made me aware of my hairline and how thin my hair was. It did not really affect my confidence much, but I consciously started checking my hair more and more. When I look in the mirror since then, the first thing my eyes strike is my hair. I never really had anyone to talk about since last August when I met my beautiful girlfriend who has been supportive since day one. Not just about my insecurity of losing hair, but also motivation struggles, dealing with remorse, etc. I knew this channel existed, since i saw it on my feed one or two times. However, I never thought i would relate to guys that came on the channel this soon. After all, I only turned 20 last March. I convinced myself to try and shave my hair off upcoming monday, because I am tired of being known for my bad hair (At least that is what it feels like to me). I'm excited to finally be free. Thank you
I’m excited for you too man. 🙏 once it’s done, it’s done and you can move on to much more positive things. No looking back. A new look, a new you with a more positive outlook and having dealt constructively with some adversity. ✊ you got this.
I like your videos. Thanks to you I have overcome balding and shaved it off. But I still like to watch your videos, the things which you say are totally transferrable to other aspects of life. Greetings from Poland ;)
Music to my ears man congratulations! Appreciate you sticking around and helping to strengthen the channel so more guys can benefit and make the same positive change 🙏
1:59 I really appreciate you editing that in. Pretty small thing but I thought it was pretty funny. You said you'd get a large and you showed us the proof
@@Baldcafe definitely, love stuff like this. i can tell it was a lot of effort. if you ever run out of bald ideas you should consider making content on other stuff too, thats always an option ;)
Change is always hard. 1st time coming out about this. But for me, first shaved my head last month, with the help of your videos. Think of a goal, achieve the look. Thank you :) You are a legend. Wish i could have a pint with you one day
The hardest thing about going bald is accepting it. My uncle George, who was a very wise man, said that when you go bald you accept it. That helped me a lot, as when I thought of shaving my head I thought I'd look old and ugly. When I had my head shaved I realised how wrong I was. It's the best look I've ever had, and I accept it and love it. And women like it.
It's very relevant right now, I shaved it down short today and I'm trying to get used to it, but my life is never going to get better again if I'm stuck worrying about it every single day.
Very true. Don’t dwell on the past. Learn from it and look forward to the future man. There is so much to do out there that is far far more important than a previous image. Be excited for good things to come 👍
Living an Examined Life......just put it on hold at the library :) I remember when my hair really started falling out around 23....... I remember feeling sad, and I had a big sense of getting OLD. After I shaved it and got used to it, life just got better and better. As for getting older, I'm 43 now and I'll tell you....getting older isn't bad. I feel more confident, fit.........secure in myself and Wiser than I ever would've thought when I was 23 :) Ps----Harry, you saw cows fighting! Lol
@@Baldcafe yep you seem like a great dude, but i am not always agreeing with you. Embracing the baldness is good if you have a masculine face, but i am 25 and a babyface looking mofo, with bad beard growth :D so a bald head would be a desaster for me haha. I know you probably heard that a lot, i just needed to say that. Still, great and enjoyable content, and i love how the confident levels for all of those guys are increasing so much when shaving.
I still have good coverage, but I brush my hair back to reveal the fading hairline. Years ago I shaved completely when I had a full head of hair, and I looked good, so I'm not too concerned about it. But 2 things stop me from shaving completely- I'm a taoist priest so long hair is akin to longevity for my culture, and my mother wants me to regrow my hair because she wanted me to stay . I'm naturally very muscular, just under 6ft, and very intellectual, so she wants me to be more appealing for potential wives. I'm at that stage where if I'm going to regrow my hair, now is the time to double down on treatments, but otherwise a good haircut will hide my hair loss for a couple more years (I'm 31). These kinds of videos are helping other brothers suffering, which is the very essence of male camaraderie. Our spirit of community will hopefully save others from expensive products or grief!
Let’s be real here, getting bald is scary, but if you shave your head no matter how you look you will feel free. And also if you want to look great being bald, build muscles and if you’re fortunate enough grow a beard.
Brother, I just wanted to say THANK YOU! As a special operations veteran of two services, and now a law enforcement officer, I've had a good share of crazy experiences, and scary shit... shaving off what remained of my thinning hair was the hardest and scariest of all (I haven't had a buzz-cut since bootcamp a little over 2 decades ago). I don't really know why that was, but I did know that I was holding on to it for dear life; that experience had me confused, depressed, and eventually very bitter. I started watching your channel, and within a few videos worth of your advise and encouragements I was motivated to take that next step; nauseated and teary eyed at what felt like a defeat, but resolved nonetheless... by God, if it was all going to go eventually, then it was going to go my damn way & when I said so (your talks reminded me of that, lol). Anyhow, it's been two weeks now, and I feel like a Mack truck has been lifted from my chest; no more stress & agita, and now I've only been wearing ballcaps when I want to or when a task requires it). It's "tacti-cool" lol, the Mrs. loves it, and I'm diggin' it overall; it didn't even shock friends or family. Thank you, and thank also to all of hose brave souls the shared their experience publicly on your channel. I was hesitant and weak for a long time when it came to this, and you helped (as I'm sure is the case for many others). Your channel is providing a great service, and it is an extremely helpful resource; keep up the outstanding work your doing. 😎👍
Man I'm really thankful for your channel gave me so much inspiration and self confidence. My gf kept insisting that holding on looks good on me, but I just couldn't bare it and decided to rock the bald look...now she is my ex😂
These videos are fantastic, personally I’ve chosen to do something about my hair loss but I love how I have the choice, if I chose to buzz my head, the amount of support that’s there
I have a 0.5 grade shaved head and had a stubble beard. Since I've grown the s.beard, I've had nothing but positive comments on social media. Go for it guys!
hey harry, i love this channel man. ive been in fear of my thinning hair and i havent gotten a haircut in forever but i know its time to shave it all off and rid this weight off my shoulders
Before I noticed that my crown hair is thinning: I don't care about others' balding/ thinning head. After I learnd that I will definitely be a bald guy: I became a good thinning hair detector of any guy's head. Conclusion: Other people do not give a shit about your thinning/ balding head. The shame, insecure, inferiority, etc, are only in your head. Just shape your muscle better, read a lot of books, wear a proper clothes, make a lot of money, and build your confidence :)
I feel quite proud of myself, I knew thinning hair was coming so I shaved my head when I had hair at 20 years old. It was really difficult to do. Funnily enough, now I'm 34 I still have hair, with receded temples. I haven't been able to have nice haircuts since 16 years old. That's what I think I've missed out on mainly having a nice hair cut.
I’m 18 and balding, already saving up for a hair transplant, saw that the good ones can cost up to 10K. I might be completely bald when I’m 24-25, so then money won’t be a problem if i’m saving from now. The hardest things about balding: Windy days, swimming, going to a theme park, people thinking you’re way older than your actual age, going to a barber with all people waiting in line and feel all the eyes on your balding head.
My problem is, soon I will have lost enough hair to not look good with hair, so I'll have to shave my head. But I have big ears and without the hair balancing the shape of my face I look bad. Adding a beard helps but my beard is quite shitty, maybe cause I'm 20 and it will improve in the future, that's what I hope at least lol So yeah, I can't see a way out of this. I haven't watched the video yet, Ill see if I find it helpful, thanks again anyway for this channel cause it certainly has helped me a lot, making me decide to finally shave my head during quarantine to see how I'd look, having the right mindset/perspective on hair loss, etc.
Nice video man. I reckon it's a fear of being unattractive to women. Even subsinciously. One thing been in my mind is, I've quit smoking now for 4months and the money I've saved I'm going to use to get my teeth whitened because of the tobacco abuse. So I'd get my teeth done but wouldn't get a hair transplant. So am I a hypocrite?😂😂
I play guitar and always had long hair and the whole rock n roll image. Now going bald feels like sinking in a hole, I dont like the way I look and it messes up my mind. Damn, it feels bad
Hairloss is preventable with commonly available and safe medication. Balding is also temporary - emergent technologies (and current hair transplant tech) will make baldness a choice one day soon. Either way, respect to those who just choose to go for it anyway. Some people look odd with hair and so much more attractive without. Sadly I don't fall into that category!
The worst thin about going bald is actually not shaving your hair. I was losing mine for years, trying to hide it by brushing it over and wearing hats etc.... trust me shave it, you will feel so much better, and after a couple of weeks you will just feel like it’s the new norm.
I’m balding at 19, I tried finasteride and minoxidil but I stopped using them after 20 days, those drugs made me depressed for real, it affected my libido and I’m not even kidding. I don’t know what to do now because I’m not even 20.
Yeah those medications have serious side effects and they don't worth risk. Just buzz cut or shave your head and live happily ever after. Life is so much more than a hairstyle.
Before you completely shave your head smooth again you should go to a barber and try some different looks...maybe have the barber clean it up on top (shave off the fuzzies) and taper up the sides and back....the traditional male pattern baldness buzzcut that you would have if you didn’t completely shave...just to see how different you would look...it’s actually kind of fun to see our different looks 😃
I dunno....I guess I am weird, but it really didn't bother me much. Was getting too thinned out on top in my early 30's and just shaved it one day and didn't go back. I am not saying that I wouldn't like the option to have hair again, but it didn't devastate me honestly.
You sort of look like Ubbe from Vikings if he was bald. I think one of the best solutions to going bald is growing a beard and going for a rugged/viking look if you can do it. Or workout and get chiseled
It’s hard to be baldING. Not bald. I was on finasteride, minoxidil, went to consultations for prp, saved for hair transplant, found this channel, SHAVED IT at 20
You absolute legend. If you’d ever like to get in touch for a chat I’m all ears. Either DM or Baldcafe@outlook.com. Great to hear you took that step and are looking forward man 🙏
Baldcafe haha nice! I had a feeling something was brewing with you not have a fresh shave frequently. Just some thoughts, try and make it look as good as possible!
@@Baldcafe thanks dude currently mis way through u video im think its really great how deap ur taking about ur issues and very brave and importaint, think it really great thing u do and will definatley empower and inspire people like myself and others :) i love the style of video too btw its obvious u put alot of work into it great editing and stuff and going out and about awesome stuff as always matee :) :) :) A++
HI BALDCAFE HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF THE FACT THAT 60yrs from now you are just a name written on your tombstone a person that once existed and lived happy but now just a name and born - died??
Comment below if you know which animal I saw fighting. 06:40 to skip the fun and hear some quotes. Tried my very best to keep it concise guys but I get pretty passionate about this stuff I could have stood there all day talking about this 😂 Shout out to everyone watching, especially those who made it all the way through. 🤝
The way you have ur hair here really suits you mate. Great vid applies to many issues
You're such a guy thank you
It is a pleasure to listen to your thoughts) Harry, have you ever concidered trying some natural hair regrowth treatments? It would be fun to see you doing some sort of experiment. Btw, the hair looks great on you, let it grow further)
Андрей Фекич I did a video on onion juice but that is as far as it has gone really. I’m a big skeptic because if they worked surly there wouldn’t be a need for the surgery/ pharmaceuticals right?
Thank you soooo much for your videos!!! It's really helping me right now!! I care to much about other's jugements that I'm not ready for that step... But in the end, I should not be worried about that. I'm just overthinking
for me it was:
keep hair= stay indoors, dont stress incase it make it worse, dont go out, dont swim, dont go out in rain, avoid showers too much and hot sun or cold, avoid pulling hair accidently on hats or anything, dont exercise or sweat too much as fear of damage, avoid or fear mirrors or friend family photos, hide from the world, feel down all the time , feel scared and lock yourself away and lock others out due to fear of judgement,
Vs
shave it off and set your self free from the mental prison of your mind being controlled by society expectations!!!!! :)
That says it all!!!!
Yep. That did it for me too. Just way too many downsides of trying to keep it
Honestly man you’re right, I should probably just shave this. I hate that I have too, but idk man if you told me when I was 21 that I would lose all my hair in the next three years I would’ve laughed, but now damn I worry about all those things. Idk it gives me tons of anxiety and I’m sure it did for you guys, but it really made life that much better? Idk I probably sound dumb
Damn this sums up all my worries 😅
I don't think I'm ready to take it all off yet as I just turned 20 but I catch myself thinking about exactly these things everyday until I get angry enough to go do them anyways.
@@illmatic9454 tbh if you got all that same problems shave it off lad
I'm someone who decided to take medication to deal with my hairloss, so I dont agree 100% with you, but damn, youre such a good and genuine person I cant help but watch all of your videos. I dont think I know any other RUclipsr who can bring people who are at the very bottom to a place where they are happy and content with their life like you do. Blading took away all my teen years, I know how painful it is, so to see you helping people accept and move on to a place of happiness is a really great thing. Keep it up brother.
Hope you won't have any sides. Greetings .
@@englishexperts1974 I've been on them for 4 years ever since I was 17, no sides so far except my body hair thinned out quite a lot and my beard doesn't grow as strong. I'd swap body hair and a beard for hair tho 😁
@@SupernovaDragon77 you are using minoxidil and finasteride?
Really appreciate where you are coming from with this comment. It takes a good person to write so positively on something they don’t fully agree with. Your positive attitude is very in keeping with the “vibe” here so you are most welcome and I really appreciate your support on the content. 🤝 wish you the best.
@@Mklb22 nope just Dutasteride
the hardest thing about going bald is just everything
I started losing at 19 and it just hit me like a ton of bricks. I remember thinking, I didn’t even make it until my 20’s. In a way, I feel like I lost my 20’s. When I hit 30, I started looking around and found that I was in the same boat as a lot of other guys and that eased my mind and one day I just decided to let it go. It hasn’t been easy, but haven’t let it hold me back like I did before. It may sound stupid, but young men need access to therapy to deal with this.
No for real man, I am 24 and now it’s falling out rapidly. I used to have women actually go out of their way to talk to me. Or just I would have more lively interactions in general with people, but now idk people are starting to talk to me different or not even acknowledge me anymore. Idk maybe I should just shave my head now, but it makes me stupid nervous to just change. Idk i hate the stigma that comes with a shaved head or completely bald head.
hey bro, for me there is nothing hard about being bald, trust me I' started losing hair when I was 17, now I'm 21 and I have no problem with that, I shave every 2 or 3 days, let my beard grow, change my clothes style, built muscles. I'm good, I wished that knew your channel at the beginning so I can share with you all the process.
For everyone who started losing his hair, Shave it man Shave it, and don't feel ashamed or shy of how people will look at you, you have only one life, so deal with it and enjoy it as much as possible
Proud of you man. Good for you and keep rocking it. ✊
@@Baldcafe thanks a lot. you too Man 🦾
I cant tell if I'm losing my hair at 16 or its just maturing hairline
But what if you don't like the shaven head, muscly, beard style? I think it looks aggressive, hate it! What do you do then?
@@2760ade I really don't know, I think I like looking aggressive that's all
You gave me the strength to buzz my hair, i'll do it tomorrow finally and im so happy to take the step. Thank u so much!
You got this man! Keep looking forward and let us know so we can congratulate you 🤝
how did you go?
Hey man, I usually don't comment on vids but I got to say that you bringing attention and awareness of male pattern baldness is one of the biggest ways of reducng the anxiety surrounding it certainly for guys. Rather than feeling anxious about the situation and feeling inferior, I can just simply say, im losing my hair because of genetics. Also helps with seeing everyone else at these young age braving the shave. Builds a good resilient community for support, keep up the good content mate!
Ps my confidence went up- I was more relieved that I had shaved my hair off- the constant worry I used to have, constantly checking the bathroom sink or the pillars for falling hair was too much for me. I’m glad it’s gone- I don’t care what people think either. Worrying about someone’s opinion on being bald doesn’t compare to the satisfaction I now have every morning not thinking about hair Love it !
Big respect to him for the effort he puts in his videos, to drive to a calm place at 6 am and editing for the story in the car and taking different shots of the parking. It's good work man, we have to appreciate the work he's done. Idk where I would be without his videos and I am not even exaggerating, they made so much more comfortable with my hair loss and it provoked me to fix up other things in my life as well. Good one :)
I value your support for the channel and those who engage with it more than I could ever express. This comment made my day thank you. Wish you nothing but the best you legend 🤝
Went bald... head is lop sided...looked bad... got on finasteride and treatment....hair grew back in a year... look good...back on track
Youl be spending alot of money on it and all these treatments never cure balding only slows down the inevitable.
@@brandondolan4009
You only need your hair in your youth, nobody cares after 40 anyway.
The hardest thing for me is I feel that going/being bald you're dependent so much on other people's opinions. I feel that I won't be treated the same way as when I had hair. I have always known that if I work hard enough, I will get to where I need to get to in life. In school, I worked hard and got myself into Medical school. Then worked my ass off to qualify as a Doctor. More work, and almost 10 years later I am a Consultant. But, I find my friends have all have partners/wives/families and I am alone, bald, and nothing I have achieved and can do will matter because for the opposite sex, I am not deemed an attractive prospect. I would love be in your position, not caring about what other's think.
It could be that the caring what others think is holding you back. Don’t get me wrong. You want to be a like able person but we overthink it so much. In reality no one cares about what we are doing because they too are overly concerned about what you or others are thinking about them. Being bald in no way makes you automatically unlikeable I promise you that. Not by any person worth spending your time on anyway.
Why care what other people think! It's just hair, lifes to short to worry about being bald!
Every time I get the notification that you've uploaded a new vid, I know I'm going to feel great, feel part of this group you've created.
You're some man, Harry.
Also, beard game is strong in this one!
That’s awesome Ryan 👏 thanks for being a part of Baldcafe and helping it maintain the positive vibes 🤝
For the guys out there hesitating: I used the corona quarantine period to shave and get used to it myself. Best fucking decision of my life. All the anxiety you’re feeling will disappear, I’m not exaggerating. The very first two or three days you’ll walk out of your house you might feel a bit anxious. That’s normal. From day 4 and further you’ll feel like a newborn baby every time you get out with that fresh clean look - and yes a beard and some muscles would help. But if there was any time to start it’s now - corona time.
Agree 100%. I did the exact same thing at the start of lockdown. It’s honestly amazing how much better you feel and look!
So I should just do it? My hair is thinning a lot now and idk I haven’t been quarantined I’ve been working the whole time, but still I’m really nervous about it. I already have a lot of social anxiety and this is making it way worse.
@@hidden1319 just shave it
I would feel normal if I didn’t have a birthmark on the back of my head and tons of moles.
I’m losing my hair at a very quick rate and I’m only 18 your videos really do help seriously u say it how it is and your honesty has helped me as young guy with insecurities imma enjoy what’s left of my hair for the time being but Ik deep down after a certain time it will go and I must carry on. Thanks tho seriously these vids have truly boosted my mental health.
For an 18 year old guy I can tell from this comment you have a wise head on those shoulders man. Enjoy it, when enough is enough take action and move on a stronger and more resilient person. It will take you far 🙏 You got this.
I don’t miss my hair but I hate when people moan about their hair. As a female it’s hard but I would not change it. It’s important to accept it and understand that others are in a worse position etc. I currently walk (hop) on crutches with a bald head. I have walked around with wigs, buffs, hats etc but wearing nothing is so freeing. I just need to find a Barbers to sort it out.
I guess the reason behind this anxiety of men losing their hair is that women won't like them anymore since having hair or stylish hair is one of the things that measures men's attractiveness at least on social media and ads. I had a girl that I wanted to date once told me that she likes men with hair and I was and still am losing my hair at that time so that created some insecurity in me about losing my hair. I used to shave my head when I was younger just for the sake of change but shaving my head now is necessity since that's the only hair style that's available for you. For all the men that have this insecurity eating all their thinking time or just overthinking that your chances are gone with your hair I just want to say that if someone is evaluating you based on the hair on your head, you just don't need to be with this person anyone believe me. Just shave your head and embrace the new look and live with it...since I started losing my hair I became more upkeep taking better care of my appearance and that opened new opportunities for me in life whether it was dating or jobs....mic drop!
*picks up mic - I remember telling my gf “this is me now, this is my look. If you want a man with perfect hair that ain’t me. Take it or leave it” we’re married now. But that’s the real ness you gotta bring to the table I say. Know who are you and don’t make any apology for it.
Im a good-looking guy, I have hair, not the thickest but the thin type (not thinning just thin) and girls always turn me down and leave me on read for someone taller, and muscular, trust me, hair is not the issue, it's just the type of girl you are dealing with so don't think that because you are bald doesn't mean you won't fuck hot girls anymore
when i used to get panic attacks in the fear stages before i braved the shave i used to rewatch harrys videos here over and over as like a comfort and positive affirmation over and over for "eveythign will be ok i will be ok" curious if anyone else did this too ? :) i watched the how to shave ur head video like 20 times before i felt i could do it but so glad i did :)
The editing is hilarious in this, man. That car parking
I was hoping someone would appreciate that part. I stalled it but I had to keep it real 😂
What minute is that
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Damn dude, I came here expecting something completely different, ended up being the thing I needed to hear most today. I relate to this in many different ways, not just my hair balding in front, other life changes. It's gonna feel good when I do finally learn to let go. Thanks man!
Anytime man. I’m glad the topic in this video could help 👍 wish you the best.
This channel is so important ! hope it keeps going for a long time and you continue to grow and reach more men facing male pattern baldness, Brilliant job Harry keep up the good work.
Hair = youth,vitality,sexual prowess. ( LION ) loosing it makes you look old. That's why it's devastating for a younger person.
I consider my self very lucky because I was at the right path at a very young age..lifting weights studying and wining small battles daily gave me tremendous amount of confidence,when the time finally came to shave my head I didn't felt anything..do the work people if the only thing you have in life is hair and afraid to loose it,it means you have too much free time.
Exactly, once you´re really into something, 100% focused the irrelevant things go away. There is no time to worry about it.
Tru shit
I started losing my hair since 23-24 due to severe stress and it hasnt started growing ever since. hundreds maybe thousands of dollars spent in trying to regain the luscious hair that i had.
then i stumbled across your channel and watched this ever since. i felt somewhat free from my insecurities although i'm a "not give a damn" type as my mate calls it.
A week ago I gained strength and finally buzzed all my hair off and after couple of years of shame. I'm finally free.
Thank you for your generous efforts in trying to uplift struggling men.
Thank you. I hope you see this. You changed my life for the better.
I feel you man. I can relate to the stress. I think I would have gone bald anyway but I really think the stress I was putting myself under sped things up. Really pleased to hear you figured it out and have moved onto new and more positive things. Absolute respect and I wish you all the best ✊ 🤝
Baldcafe that is very true. Trying to not overthink it made me overthink and dwell on what could’ve instead of what is. Cheers mate, likewise. Keep on inspiring G.
You can actually grow back hair if it is caused by stress by getting rid of the root cause of that stress. Unless the cause is genetics/ male pattern baldness than it is impossible to grow it back, at least without medication or topicals.
You are such an inspiration brother. Not only i feel like you help us dealing with baldness but becoming greater people overall. Keep up the good work and thanks so much.
Thank you so much 🙏 I’m contemplating talking more on the channel about areas I am trying/ reading about such as better sleep, exercise and mindset/spirit but I’m not sure how to bring it into the channel yet. I would be speaking as a student of such things rather than an expert
Baldcafe Go for it. You have built a pretty solid community and we’ll be here to grow together.
Loving the style of these videos... doing the vids outside etc... your point about attachment and loss 👌. Also I think you showed honest vulnerability... its that kind of vulnerability that we as men need to see more of. Cheers harry 👊
Thank you. Great video. I am struggling with adjusting with hair loss having just made the decision to shave it all off - in addition, I am coming to terms with turning 40, which has hit me really hard - harder than I really thought possible. Plus, with living alone and being self isolated I have had to content with my own thoughts - trying to adjust to this change. You have a great channel and I relate to the points that you raise. Thanks again
Quality video for us who are struggling with male pattern baldness in teenage really appreciate your hard work
Keep motivating us 🙏❤️
Lots of love from Nepal🇳🇵
This is your best video man honestly !
Mixing vlog with a good talk it’s perfect. Please continue that type of videos
Thanks for the positive feedback. I enjoyed filming this style. I will do my best to include more of these style videos 🙏
Love what your doing mate keep up the good work your doing wonders in the bald community 💪👌👍
Thank you Chris. Thanks for being a part of it 🙏
Balding becomes a blessing in disguise as soon as you use it to challenge and silence your ego so you can get out of your own way. Until then it sucks! Great video as always, the vlog style is great too.
Lost my hair about 12 years ago, I got the comment "I can't imagine you with hair" a few times recently lol, probably because I rock it proudly- you adapt to your new reality..
A new identity 👍
yup. vid completely resonates. I went through that stage of using regaine, supplements like saw palmetto, nettle root, pumpkin seeds. you're an easy target for the marketing boys but embracing baldness is 100% the way to go for your mental health. being bald is cooler than having hair anyway IMO. I was never a good looking guy with hair and clean shaven. amidst some banter (cueball, head upside down, etc) most people told me it suits me and I think it can suit anyone. I look back now and wish I'd embraced it sooner, but it was the fear of the unknown and starting a new chapter.
This is a very underrated comment. Thanks for sharing your honest experience. It’s great to know you are out the other side 👍 good on you man.
You sir are making a wonderful community job with this channel. A lot of men, including me, really apreciatte your work.
Really appreciate your support man thank you 🙏
I remember that after I finally buzzed my head down to a 0, that "damn, I look surprisingly good". In fact, it made my other positive features more noticeable, and I realized that I didn't even need the damn hair. It also made me finally start losing weight, and I've went from 194 lbs almost obese in December to 158 lbs right now, and arguably, I look and feel the best I have since sophomore year of high school. I also feel so much less self-conscious in general, and more willing to just be myself, unapologetically. I've actually started to like who I am again, and that's huge. I really relate to what you say about accepting balding initiating a personal growth process.
I want to thank this channel for giving me inspiration and opening my eyes to a world of confidence i did not recognise before.
Around two years ago I started experiencing hair loss, such as a receding hairline and thinning hair in general. Classmates made me aware of my hairline and how thin my hair was. It did not really affect my confidence much, but I consciously started checking my hair more and more. When I look in the mirror since then, the first thing my eyes strike is my hair.
I never really had anyone to talk about since last August when I met my beautiful girlfriend who has been supportive since day one. Not just about my insecurity of losing hair, but also motivation struggles, dealing with remorse, etc. I knew this channel existed, since i saw it on my feed one or two times. However, I never thought i would relate to guys that came on the channel this soon. After all, I only turned 20 last March.
I convinced myself to try and shave my hair off upcoming monday, because I am tired of being known for my bad hair (At least that is what it feels like to me).
I'm excited to finally be free.
Thank you
I’m excited for you too man. 🙏 once it’s done, it’s done and you can move on to much more positive things. No looking back. A new look, a new you with a more positive outlook and having dealt constructively with some adversity. ✊ you got this.
Ps shout out to your GF! 👍
I like your videos. Thanks to you I have overcome balding and shaved it off. But I still like to watch your videos, the things which you say are totally transferrable to other aspects of life. Greetings from Poland ;)
Music to my ears man congratulations! Appreciate you sticking around and helping to strengthen the channel so more guys can benefit and make the same positive change 🙏
1:59 I really appreciate you editing that in. Pretty small thing but I thought it was pretty funny. You said you'd get a large and you showed us the proof
I had to 😆 thanks for watching and I hope you enjoyed this slightly different style video.
@@Baldcafe definitely, love stuff like this. i can tell it was a lot of effort. if you ever run out of bald ideas you should consider making content on other stuff too, thats always an option ;)
Change is always hard. 1st time coming out about this. But for me, first shaved my head last month, with the help of your videos. Think of a goal, achieve the look. Thank you :) You are a legend. Wish i could have a pint with you one day
The hardest thing about going bald is accepting it.
My uncle George, who was a very wise man, said that when you go bald you accept it.
That helped me a lot, as when I thought of shaving my head I thought I'd look old and ugly.
When I had my head shaved I realised how wrong I was.
It's the best look I've ever had, and I accept it and love it.
And women like it.
Good on you Euan and uncle George 👍
This video goes way beyond hair loss. Thank you.
It's very relevant right now, I shaved it down short today and I'm trying to get used to it, but my life is never going to get better again if I'm stuck worrying about it every single day.
Very true. Don’t dwell on the past. Learn from it and look forward to the future man. There is so much to do out there that is far far more important than a previous image. Be excited for good things to come 👍
@@Baldcafe Thank you very much man, your channel is amazing, we need more like this on RUclips
Living an Examined Life......just put it on hold at the library :)
I remember when my hair really started falling out around 23....... I remember feeling sad, and I had a big sense of getting OLD.
After I shaved it and got used to it, life just got better and better.
As for getting older, I'm 43 now and I'll tell you....getting older isn't bad. I feel more confident, fit.........secure in myself and Wiser than I ever would've thought when I was 23 :)
Ps----Harry, you saw cows fighting! Lol
Chapter 3 👌 Hits home
@@Baldcafe Very nice :)
You had a massive energy boost after that pint of coffee 🙂 good content
the editing is sensational, so funny! We love the deep chats harry lad!
😂 Cheers Ben, enjoyed making/filming this one 🙏 had to keep it real with stalling my car
I am binging your videos and i am not even balding, but your videos are so enjoyable.
Really glad you like them 👍 thanks for watching and supporting.
@@Baldcafe yep you seem like a great dude, but i am not always agreeing with you. Embracing the baldness is good if you have a masculine face, but i am 25 and a babyface looking mofo, with bad beard growth :D so a bald head would be a desaster for me haha. I know you probably heard that a lot, i just needed to say that. Still, great and enjoyable content, and i love how the confident levels for all of those guys are increasing so much when shaving.
There is freedom in buzzing my hair not fully ready to go bald but i do feel a lot better. My head shape is the only thing that kind of bothers me lol
Harry, you are an absolute legend mate 👏love to see us as men be comfortable with who we are and who each other are.
I still have good coverage, but I brush my hair back to reveal the fading hairline. Years ago I shaved completely when I had a full head of hair, and I looked good, so I'm not too concerned about it. But 2 things stop me from shaving completely- I'm a taoist priest so long hair is akin to longevity for my culture, and my mother wants me to regrow my hair because she wanted me to stay . I'm naturally very muscular, just under 6ft, and very intellectual, so she wants me to be more appealing for potential wives. I'm at that stage where if I'm going to regrow my hair, now is the time to double down on treatments, but otherwise a good haircut will hide my hair loss for a couple more years (I'm 31).
These kinds of videos are helping other brothers suffering, which is the very essence of male camaraderie. Our spirit of community will hopefully save others from expensive products or grief!
Nice old mk2 worth some money now days. I had the mk3 vr6 and the g60 corrado- special cars those classic VWS
She's a beauty! I feel like its a meme but it was genuinely low mileage 1 lady owner when I got it. 😆
Let’s be real here, getting bald is scary, but if you shave your head no matter how you look you will feel free. And also if you want to look great being bald, build muscles and if you’re fortunate enough grow a beard.
Brother, I just wanted to say THANK YOU! As a special operations veteran of two services, and now a law enforcement officer, I've had a good share of crazy experiences, and scary shit... shaving off what remained of my thinning hair was the hardest and scariest of all (I haven't had a buzz-cut since bootcamp a little over 2 decades ago). I don't really know why that was, but I did know that I was holding on to it for dear life; that experience had me confused, depressed, and eventually very bitter. I started watching your channel, and within a few videos worth of your advise and encouragements I was motivated to take that next step; nauseated and teary eyed at what felt like a defeat, but resolved nonetheless... by God, if it was all going to go eventually, then it was going to go my damn way & when I said so (your talks reminded me of that, lol). Anyhow, it's been two weeks now, and I feel like a Mack truck has been lifted from my chest; no more stress & agita, and now I've only been wearing ballcaps when I want to or when a task requires it). It's "tacti-cool" lol, the Mrs. loves it, and I'm diggin' it overall; it didn't even shock friends or family. Thank you, and thank also to all of hose brave souls the shared their experience publicly on your channel. I was hesitant and weak for a long time when it came to this, and you helped (as I'm sure is the case for many others). Your channel is providing a great service, and it is an extremely helpful resource; keep up the outstanding work your doing. 😎👍
Man I'm really thankful for your channel gave me so much inspiration and self confidence. My gf kept insisting that holding on looks good on me, but I just couldn't bare it and decided to rock the bald look...now she is my ex😂
Bro, love the story telling through the shots in this video. Great editing and clean look
Thank you man. Really appreciate that. 🙏
I know i’m off on a tangent, but what a beautiful and so well looked after car you were driving mate ❤️
Thank you! A 1989 mk2 golf. Wouldn’t change it!
These videos are fantastic, personally I’ve chosen to do something about my hair loss but I love how I have the choice, if I chose to buzz my head, the amount of support that’s there
Very good video Harry, incredible relevance to what so many guys go through
I have a 0.5 grade shaved head and had a stubble beard. Since I've grown the s.beard, I've had nothing but positive comments on social media. Go for it guys!
Thanks for the video, your channel helped me a lot, RESPECT from saudi arabia ❤️
Thank you so much man. Thanks for watching 🤝
Love this casual vlog kinda style video mate good work.
Thanks Scott 🙏 I had fun putting this one together I think I should do it more often.
Love your videos! Your points go beyond the hair line lol...lots of this applys to other challenges in life
Another awesome video. Thank you brother. People are running sort of self acceptance everywhere.
Nice mk2 golf there. I had an 83 mk1 Jetta last summer. Very fun!
You can beat the old VW’s in my opinion.
you hair still looks very thick on top, i think you can grow it back without problem
Really?
Baldcafe he’s right, you could short the sides too
hey harry, i love this channel man. ive been in fear of my thinning hair and i havent gotten a haircut in forever but i know its time to shave it all off and rid this weight off my shoulders
You can do it man. Leave that worry in the past and move on from balding.
Im bodybuilder and Got long beard so the hardest part is being intimidating as fuark! I Look like a god of war my family was in shock lmao
Before I noticed that my crown hair is thinning: I don't care about others' balding/ thinning head.
After I learnd that I will definitely be a bald guy: I became a good thinning hair detector of any guy's head.
Conclusion: Other people do not give a shit about your thinning/ balding head. The shame, insecure, inferiority, etc, are only in your head. Just shape your muscle better, read a lot of books, wear a proper clothes, make a lot of money, and build your confidence :)
Once you notice it you start looking out for it right!
I feel quite proud of myself, I knew thinning hair was coming so I shaved my head when I had hair at 20 years old. It was really difficult to do. Funnily enough, now I'm 34 I still have hair, with receded temples. I haven't been able to have nice haircuts since 16 years old. That's what I think I've missed out on mainly having a nice hair cut.
Hey Harry. Reminds me of 'Plato's Cave.' Do a Google on it if you like. Such another true vlog and one that hits home big time. Thanks for sharing!
Dude, honestly you look good with the hair here with the beard. Badass look 🤟🏼😛🤟🏼
I’m 18 and balding, already saving up for a hair transplant, saw that the good ones can cost up to 10K. I might be completely bald when I’m 24-25, so then money won’t be a problem if i’m saving from now.
The hardest things about balding: Windy days, swimming, going to a theme park, people thinking you’re way older than your actual age, going to a barber with all people waiting in line and feel all the eyes on your balding head.
Start taking finasteride if you wanna save your hair, a hair transplant won't save you from balding but finasteride might
Your videos help so much !
Glad to hear they help and can bring some clarity to the situation 👍
Amazing video thanks you very much feeling motivated again
Anytime timzstr thanks for watching! 🙏
Another great video mate, keep up the good work!
Thank you! Appreciate your support.
I just want to say thank you. I shaved my head. Feels great.
Love this one man, super insightful and funny too. Overall rating 9/10, had to dock a point cos that Costa machine coffee is appalling hahaha
haha 100% agree and will take the 9/10. Next time I film a video like this I'll have to change coffee spots.
My problem is, soon I will have lost enough hair to not look good with hair, so I'll have to shave my head.
But I have big ears and without the hair balancing the shape of my face I look bad. Adding a beard helps but my beard is quite shitty, maybe cause I'm 20 and it will improve in the future, that's what I hope at least lol
So yeah, I can't see a way out of this. I haven't watched the video yet, Ill see if I find it helpful, thanks again anyway for this channel cause it certainly has helped me a lot, making me decide to finally shave my head during quarantine to see how I'd look, having the right mindset/perspective on hair loss, etc.
Try a treatment like finasteride and if you get sode effects reduce the doses and send people who claim it doesnt work to hell
Nice video man.
I reckon it's a fear of being unattractive to women. Even subsinciously.
One thing been in my mind is, I've quit smoking now for 4months and the money I've saved I'm going to use to get my teeth whitened because of the tobacco abuse.
So I'd get my teeth done but wouldn't get a hair transplant. So am I a hypocrite?😂😂
Nope because nice clean white teeth is universally attractive to everyone.
I play guitar and always had long hair and the whole rock n roll image. Now going bald feels like sinking in a hole, I dont like the way I look and it messes up my mind. Damn, it feels bad
Another great video man. Im happy that your channel is growing and its almost at 50k now..congrats. The animals were cows btw 😂
Hairloss is preventable with commonly available and safe medication. Balding is also temporary - emergent technologies (and current hair transplant tech) will make baldness a choice one day soon. Either way, respect to those who just choose to go for it anyway. Some people look odd with hair and so much more attractive without. Sadly I don't fall into that category!
After a year now of shaving bald I can't believe I cared so much about it before
It’s crazy right. A real 180
The worst thin about going bald is actually not shaving your hair. I was losing mine for years, trying to hide it by brushing it over and wearing hats etc.... trust me shave it, you will feel so much better, and after a couple of weeks you will just feel like it’s the new norm.
I’m balding at 19, I tried finasteride and minoxidil but I stopped using them after 20 days, those drugs made me depressed for real, it affected my libido and I’m not even kidding.
I don’t know what to do now because I’m not even 20.
Yeah those medications have serious side effects and they don't worth risk. Just buzz cut or shave your head and live happily ever after. Life is so much more than a hairstyle.
nah i am still hrd after using that shit
It’s a hard thing to do, going bald. I did it 6 years ago after a long time of having short or real messy hair. Would never ever go back.
Brilliant video, thank you so much!!!
You're very welcome! Glad you enjoyed it 👍
When I start going bald, Ill have this to cushion me.
This video and all of them. But don’t wait in anticipation. Go enjoy life man. 👍
Before you completely shave your head smooth again you should go to a barber and try some different looks...maybe have the barber clean it up on top (shave off the fuzzies) and taper up the sides and back....the traditional male pattern baldness buzzcut that you would have if you didn’t completely shave...just to see how different you would look...it’s actually kind of fun to see our different looks 😃
Got something special coming for you 👍
love this video Harry
Best video so far man
I dunno....I guess I am weird, but it really didn't bother me much. Was getting too thinned out on top in my early 30's and just shaved it one day and didn't go back. I am not saying that I wouldn't like the option to have hair again, but it didn't devastate me honestly.
I used to shave everyday. Got nothing but hate in every conceivable direction for it. The destination ain't that much better than the journey.
Bro u have good hair on the sides man u can get a hair transplant life just feels better man without this constant worry/insecurity
I'm not worried or insecure. But I was when it was first falling out.
How many days of growth is your hair in this video? I don't think I've seen it this long.
Must be more than 1 month now! Longest ever since I shaved it
You sort of look like Ubbe from Vikings if he was bald. I think one of the best solutions to going bald is growing a beard and going for a rugged/viking look if you can do it. Or workout and get chiseled
It’s hard to be baldING. Not bald. I was on finasteride, minoxidil, went to consultations for prp, saved for hair transplant, found this channel, SHAVED IT at 20
Hi man congrats for the big step. A genuine question, why do u quit finasteride and the other stuff?
Had some side effects I didn’t like, if you know what a mean. I even had a wig at one point and it just didn’t look right
You absolute legend. If you’d ever like to get in touch for a chat I’m all ears. Either DM or Baldcafe@outlook.com. Great to hear you took that step and are looking forward man 🙏
It would be my honor! I had loads of issues and this channel really pulled me out of a dark place
Ide like to see what you would look like if you kept what you have on top and shaved the sides all the way up
Well you are going to enjoy an upload I have coming 😉
Baldcafe haha nice! I had a feeling something was brewing with you not have a fresh shave frequently. Just some thoughts, try and make it look as good as possible!
hey harry, hope ur doing well and keeping ok :)
You too! ❤️
@@Baldcafe thanks dude currently mis way through u video im think its really great how deap ur taking about ur issues and very brave and importaint, think it really great thing u do and will definatley empower and inspire people like myself and others :) i love the style of video too btw its obvious u put alot of work into it great editing and stuff and going out and about awesome stuff as always matee :) :) :) A++
HI BALDCAFE HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF THE FACT THAT 60yrs from now you are just a name written on your tombstone a person that once existed and lived happy but now just a name and born - died??
I’m hoping I’ll build something of a legacy before then 👍
@@Baldcafe Always stay happy bro life is short
u r an inspiration my man