Both men and women. I am not sure ware the whole only men suffer in silence thing came from. I wish the divide would stop and realize we both hurt we both suffer . Suffering is not gendered. I have no one to talk to without judgment and when I thought I did it was used against me. I hide my feelings my emotions and go out everyday looking like I am ok though I am far from ok. there r a holes in both genders and there is suffering in silence in both as well I got raised to hold in my emotions and how weak It is to show them . I also.got taught how people you trust hurt you. Edit auto correct
@@-_oOtianaOo_- listen miss. We do not say only men suffer in silence. Sure women also do however the percentage gap among the genders are of mountainous size. Men suffer more and it ends with them taking their own life regardless of age. However I am aware that women also suffer but I think you get my point
@MilitaristTurkcu I understand what you are saying. Though I have to respectfully disagree on the sense I have seen alot of people denie that women do. Maybe not you but I have seen many many comments say how only men understand the suffering. From me who has tried to end myself multiple times starting as a child, it strike a cord. I am not one sided if I would have saw the opposite I would say the same exact thing if some woman was saying only women suffer in silence. I am not all one way or another. I am not a generalizer. P.s. thank you for the miss so many call me mam and I feel old lol I'm 38 I know I am 😆 🤣
@@-_oOtianaOo_- Hol up YOU ARE 38? YOU LOOK 25! Plus no need to thank me for addressing you as miss. I was raised right and taught to be respectful towards women and men alike. Mostly women because I am a man. I respect your opinion since we are not in a parliament and you, a grown conscious woman, can have your own opinion. Ps:I truly feel bad that I now know that you harmed yourself when you shouldn't have even be in a situation so dire the only escape you see is death itself. I hope you are free from those thoughts and live your life to the fullest.
The last one was relatable id always tell myself "their better of without me", "im useless", "im the problem", "im the burden", but id always remember that no matter what somebody loves you, nedds you, and cares for you.
Just remember God created us all in his image....And let me tell you he didn't create any one of us to be Useless. You're amazing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise ❤
@@Sumayyah-mm3ou I replied that to this person and then saw this. 👀 Fact that I saw your reply before but didn't remember, and typed the same thing now.
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This may be some RUclips short, with text. But this made me feel a lot better about myself. My life has been hard lately, with keeping up, gaining friends, self harm, ect. Thank you.
I'm 30 year old Korean man, suffering from anxiety disorder and taking pills every day. I have been dealing with traumas from parents' violent fights and physical abuse, bullying from school(as I had to move between Korea and US, being unable to relate to both cultures), and physical and mental abuse(beating, death threat even after service) from the Korean Army. Recently, I got dumped, my parents got sick, faced layoff. I'm trying to get better, make myself better, meet people, try to enjoy and be thankful about my life. I tried to cry my anger and sadness out of the system. But I just can't cry. It's like I'm programmed to the core to not show sadness. I'm holding on to my dear life to keep it sane and not to go to my darkest thoughts. To women, our traumas and dark thoughts are just trash that they don’t want to touch. But at least among men, I hope we can talk it out and open up.
Hello sir, I'm 17 year old African American girl but I just want to tell you that it will get better. I know I don't know you but YOUR LIFE HAS SO MUCH WORTH. YOU ARE A STRONG MAN and YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT TRASH. I can't stand people who think like that. Your parents will get better, you'll find good friends and find a better partner and get married (if that's want you want). Mental illnesses and suicide really hurts my heart, eventually you will be able to cry it all out and you will feel better. I'm sorry you went through all of that. I know I don't know you but I LOVE YOU AND GOD LOVES YOU TOO. Try reaching out to Him read a Bible,and pray, trust me it helps. YOU HAVE SO MUCH WORTH, YOU'LL GET THROUGH THIS I PROMISE!!!😊
thank you for opening up. hope is the answer a lot of times, hope for a better day. know that not all women think this as well, your emotions are valid and real, because they are your experience. if someone doesn't recognize or validate that, they're not worth your time, but the right people will. hope you are doing better. sending love from brazil ❤
I know I am just a 14 year old kid but I get it, this will be almost the max thing you will ever face in your life and everything else that will happen later on will be like a meh and won't effect you as much and I have been through some stuff but I know that will be almost the max I will face in my life, I know a kid who almost died from a plain crash and it was bad but I can't get into detail because of privacy reasons but everything will turn out fine
keep talking to people, even if it's just on here. It has helped me to process things. A lot of people have a similar story. Maybe try to find some group therapy to start that's free
“It would have been my bullet” hits hard… (Edit) After 7 months ive decided to do an edit on this comment, i will just say if ur struggling it will be ok, and if u have a hard time trying to fit in with everyone else, life will figure it out. Bsaiclly im saying that u dont need to worry and please find supportive help from anyone.
I can't see my previous comment.. but something legit swiped my screen to the side after writing it.. not completely but it moved to the side like it tried..
The clip with Tom hanks and the prisoner saying “I’m sorry for what I am” is incredibly sad. It’s based on a true story and I can’t remember too many of the details but in essence, the man is convicted and sentenced to death for murdering a girl even though there’s not a substantial amount of evidence. The thing is he is mentally handicapped and is innocent. The guards, while doing their jobs, get to learn about who he is and how he’s a kind, gentle soul who was wrongfully accused. The scene you witness here is his execution, where despite the guards knowing he’s innocent, are unable to do anything to help him except keep the hood off his head (he’s afraid of the dark). He was later proved innocent but I’m not too sure what happened after. It’s been too many years and I can’t remember much about this case any more. This movie is absolutely brilliant but is incredibly heartbreaking.
It was a 14 year old sentenced to death. Although he was innocent, he was executed. Years later the state recognized it was their fault and he was innocent.
As a person who once had suicidal thoughts thinking I was just a pain to everyone and wasn't loved by anyone this felt like I saw people like my old self but now I've dragged myself out of it and now I'm doing what I love most.
I’ve been dealing with depression and suicidal thoughts for the past decade of my life, alcoholism for the past 2 years and substance abuse for the past year and after rehab I can say that I have successfully overcome substance abuse. Wish me luck on the rest of the journey.
If I’m being honest, Jordan Peterson saved my life and he’s done more to my life than anyone ever has. He’s a really good guy and I wish I could tell him
The man is a raging narcissist, pseudo intellectual and racist who shrouds his bigotry in long words most people don’t understand. He’s also a fraud, giving all this self help advice and then getting himself hooked on benzos and being surprised at the effects as a qualified psychologist 🤣🤣 I’m glad he helped you, and I hope you’re doing good now. But that freak is a wretched rat who has made many lives much worse and has sold himself to the highest bidder… which just so happens to be far right “conservatives”.
I’m going through a massive rough patch right now. I’ve gotten dumped twice in the past few months and it’d gotten to the point where I feel like I’m the problem. I’ve always had issues with self esteem, and that ruined a year long relationship that I valued. They left and they’re with someone else. They seem so much happier. The second and most recent time, I was just lied to. The person never cared about me romantically. I feel horrible and I feel like such a shitty person. I try and I try but no matter what I do I’m a failure. I’ve failed my friends and family. I’ve been trying to get better because what happened a few months ago opened my eyes, but honestly I have no purpose. I have no reason to stay alive. I’m still going, but barely. Before, my purpose was to love my partner, but then they left me and I just feel lost. The person I valued the most left me. I’m still getting over it even though it was almost 5 months ago, but they were my peace. They helped me feel better and I feel so shitty that my issues pushed them away. I can’t stand to look at them without seeing the person that I loved and knowing that I fucked it up. I feel so stupid for believing something that was a lie. I want to feel loved and wanted so badly, but I feel like it’s never going to happen now. Sorry for the rant, I just don’t know what else to do because I’m afraid of pushing my friends away because I’m not mentally stable enough to deal with my own thoughts.
the only person on the planet keeping me alive rn is my gf and no one else. i can’t even imagine the pain i’d put her through if i kms. i am forever grateful because of her
Just keep on hanging on, my friend. You have at least one reason to keep in the fight- a dang good reason. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for her until you can do it for you. You're richly blessed to have a supporter by your side like that... Please, never fail to appreciate her.
God will show up. I know i've experienced it. Alone, in my bathroom, with a gun in my mouth. An image of my new born son popped in my head, and the question was asked, "Do you want him to grow up having to say, my father killed himself.". I humbled my heart and cried out to God to help. It has been a journey, but I can say this, If you truly humble your heart, and seek Him earnestly, then you will find Him. Today I have peace beyond understanding, even when my world is falling down around me, and my now 25 yr old son can say, I grew up with an amazing dad!
I got goosebumps reading this, it's just a comment, people will say, but this is a message that made me think Always remember that you mad the most correct choice you could've ever made
Thank you all for the love!! It is the messy part of my testimony. I share it to bring Glory to God and to let people know hope is found in Him! May He bless you all and keep you!! ❤️
People act like men are not allowed to talk about their feelings. YOU ARE! I am a part of an amazing support group of guys in my Bible study group. We meet every Friday and tall about God, our struggles, and pray for eachother. These guys are also some of the best men I have ever met in my life. You got to stop with this self sorrow crap. Take control of your life!
“Sometimes life is like this dark tunnel, you can’t always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you just keep moving, you will come to a better place.” - Uncle Iroh, Avatar
“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out” (Proverbs 20:5). All people are made in the image of God. Each of us are born with a purpose and calling that we can discover or completely miss. The influence of the Holy Spirit in the lives of believers gives us insight to His purposes for us. We find peace and courage when we sense the confirmation of the Spirit that we are in the right place at the right time of our designated calling.
Every single time I’ve opened up to a girl she permanently changes.. it’s like a genetic response or something from them. It’s like disgust on their face and rolling their eyes as if to say “oh yeah poor baby.. I’m sure you hurt so bad as a man”. That 100% has to stop. Absolutely almost everytime I’ve opened up to a guy he’s like “yeah bro I feel more than you know.” But we don’t sob and weep but I feel sooo much better after. You don’t HAVE to sob and weep as a guy no matter if anyone tells you that’s the only way to open up. No. You say words any way you like and that’s it. And no I’m not saying guys act perfectly in response to women’s emotions either but damn if I haven’t been the most hurt by women who I’ve opened up to. It’s ridiculous I even have to caveat that.
You know I always say keep your head up,high,and off the ground because if its always down,low,and on the ground your never going to see the high moments in your life and your only going to see the low moments in your life and thats not what we want to see we want to see the high moments in our life but out heads are always down,low,and on the ground. Keep your head up high and believe in yourself and believe in everything you do. Youve got this. And your doing so amazing. You are the most beautiful, handsome person out there and dont let anyone else tell you different. YOU got this. YOU make your life what it is and what you want it to be. I love you whoever is reading this and remember keep you head up high and keep it off the ground.
That is really woman’s thought? In general most of males are just must be loyal to woman and thread them as a queen and die? 😢😢😢 I don’t blame you but society that teaches young girls that men’s are gross and sexual harasser it is kinda expected I guess. 🥀🥀🥀💔💔💔
Your life matters. You are infinitely loved and cared for by this Universe. The Creator sees your pain. We stand together with you as humans for the greater good of the planet. Your light can only shine through you. You are unique and you add a flavor and spice to life that no one else can! The best advice i got from Source was to laugh more. I have cried much, been through alot of depression and sadness but its so helpful to just laugh a gut busting laugh, even when you dont feel like it. Just starting to laugh or making a smile can make you feel better. You got this! Dont give up. Love and life and light are all abundantly within, just know inside you have all you need to succeed. Blessings
I know how it is, im homeless myself but i have a job, its hard to work things out but as long as you have faith in jesus you should have no worries and do you and be strong and kind
10 quotes that should hopefully help some of you " When you feel like giving up, just remember why you held on for so long." - Haley Williams Suicide is not an answer, it's destruction." - Al Green When you don't have the strength to take another step, ask those you love to pull you." - Unknown If you're going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill This life. This night. Your story. Your hope. It matters. All of it matters." Jamie Tworkowski "It isn't weak to ask for help. It's like using a flashlight when you are lost in the dark." - Unknown Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start and make a brand new ending.” - Carl Bard Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don’t deny it, don’t be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever.” - Harold Kushner When it is darkest, we can see the stars.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson There are far, far better things ahead than anything we leave behind.” - CS Lewis Copy and paste to possibly make days better
Don't dwell on those who hold you down. Instead, cherish those who helped you up. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever give up on yourself. As long as you keep on fighting, then you can beat your depression.
@@theDmiller22005 No one should feel guilt when committing suicide. They fought for as long as they could and felt this was the best way to end it whether it is or not.
@@UrRandomKiwi yeah I get what your saying but didn’t the quote meant suicide takes away the pain from the commiter of the suicide while the Victims love ones have to cope with it and that’s a pain
Depression is, in simple words, the big deciever of our time, it decieves you into thinking youre worthless, and not loevd, when in relaity things maybe, and often are, completely diferent You may or may not believe, but i can promise you, god is real, and the amount of love he has for all of us, is unmatched Trust in god, God loves you
To anyone who need to hear this YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!!! YOU ARE SOMEONES HERO!!!!! YOU ARE A FUCKING BEAUTIFUL PERSON AND NO ONE CAN CHANGE THAT YOU ARE AMAZING AND YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU!!! You are my hero and you are worth living....even if you think otherwise..
If you are under 20 years old, you have only experienced less than 25% of your life. That means there is still about 75% of your life left to live. There are so, so, *so* , many opportunities that you will find in the future. Giving up now means giving up on chasing dreams and finding new friends and creating a family. There is so much that will happen that neither of us could ever even guess would happen. Part of a good life is bad days. I promise you, it does get better ♡ keep pushing so you can see the good in life :)
Music is the only thing I turn to when I’m down and my 5 cats ! I never look for comfort in other people because they truly have no idea how your feeling and it’s hard for anyone to understand how to help someone when their down.
Remember, you are not alone, and your journey can inspire others to seek help, find support, and discover their own path to healing and fulfillment. Your story is a powerful reminder that it is possible to overcome challenges and find joy and purpose in life.
I remember sitting in my truck with my gun in my hand,crying uncontrollably ready to be done. The only reason i didn't, is because i didn't want my kids to find me like that. I felt i had no one. .
I myself have been suffering in school since 2022, everyday I would be bullied by everyone, everyone would take my snacks and my lunch everyday for almost 2 years, after recess or lunch time I'm always unhappy, unenergetic and hungry as hell, and everyone else is happy with each other and leaving me in the dust and starving and suffering. I wish I had someone to talk to that would just help me out, I'm a 12 year old who just graduated last month and is now going to High School, and has been dealing with problem after problem in school for the past 2 years, and I'm somehow still not mad and have been keeping a smile on my face, I have been keeping in my anger, I REALLY wanna be happy, but I can't if this is gonna keep up. This world is not the same anymore, and I hope there is a way to fix our mental problems, whoever read this, thank you, and I hope you have an amazing day and a beautiful future ahead of you, I will now continue on suffering and making others happy while I'm not
54 of our brothers, fathers, uncles, cousins and best friends WILL take their own life today. And again tomorrow and other 364 days. BUT somebody has to stay behind, we cant ALL go. Our mommas and sisters and aunts NEED atleast one of us to stay behind to be a gd man for them. To wipe the tears and fix the vehicles and mow the lawns and teach the sons and nephews by example. I'm not fooling myself, the reality is I probably will lose the same war thise other guys lost. But when I lose my family will lose the last man. Somebody some day might read this and gd do I hope it changes your mind! One of us needs to stay behind brother. I hope it's you that chooses one more day.maybe title get better or maybe it wont. But somebody needs to stay behind and I hope its you!. I really hope its you
I'm here, watching this video because I feel I'm useless, I laugh every day, for everything, I put a smile on my face for everything, but when I get home, things aren't really that way, my mom says I don't know how to do this and how to do that, that I ask too much and that she should've had hit me more when I was a kid. I have friends, I have family and I am grateful of that, but they sometimes treat me like I am a failure, or sometimes don't even listen to me, right now, I just don't feel enough.
it’s always amazing for me and truly very touching to see people opening up on the RUclips comment section and that others a incredibly kind to them. all of you are amazing, don’t forget your worth
never be sorry for being a human bieng. we all fallen short of god´s standard and golry, and nowadays lives hunting on each other (methaphorically) i want you to trust that god will deliver you, and he will help you, it just takes faith. trust him, brother God bless you
Guys don't do it... Yesterday i got in my dads car without any driving experience with the intention of killing myself. After a 20 minute drive I pulled into the woods and stopped realising I just risked lifes. What fucked me up wasn't that it could have kidlled me obviously but that I could have destroyed a happy family driveing home form vication. I took the knife out of my left pocket and googled where the heart is sitting exactly just to be sure. Thats when it set in... I can't do this to my family. I sat on the passenger seat and called my mom crying out loud. Half an hour later we were all standing together crying. I hate myself for being so ignorant risking other lifes and making my own family who alwas supported me cry. Actions have consequences... Think abt this before doing anything that could harm anyone in the slightest way ok?
I had suicidal thoughts once and I can connect to all of this. It’s heartbreaking to see all the stress men go through these days. It feels like no matter how good you feel about yourself, one day, your emotions will just pour out.
one thing i know for sure, is that we all struggle and suffer, bu we dont have to do it alone, i ask that you trust God, and i know that he will help you, and lift you up Christ loves you brother
DAILY REMINDER: 1.Your skin is not paper, so don’t cut it. 2. Your neck is not a coat, so don’t hang it. 3.Your body is not a book, so don’t judge it. 4.Your heart is not a door, so don’t close it. 5. Your life is not a movie, so don’t end it. Remember to always love yourself because you’re a shining star
I don’t know about the other clips but I believe Jordan Peterson (a psychologist) was talking about how some people feel about themselves, rather than from his point of view. He’s emotional because he has a lot of empathy for them. (Although he has suffered from depression also)
Right. One of his most appealing sides is that he puts a lot of emphasis on the incredible dread people go through, and how popular narratives like to ignore the impact that has. For instance when people talk of Incels, and they accuse them of being misogynists or hateful (which he acknowledges they might be), he mentions that they are entirely disenfranchised, nihilistic, lost young men with no meaningful social Contacts, that have soaked in their hatred and pain for a significant part of their life, and are usually severely suicidal. I don't usually agree with JP, but this aspect of his views, the acknowledgment of how difficult life is, and how painful and dark it can get, is the most touching thing I've seen anyone with that platform yet talk about. It's so often ignored that most people will face a intense crysis eventually. You rarely see people show how tormented they are. People rarely show weakness, but anyone might be very very close to the edge, usually afraid, lost and out of controll. It's easy to fail to recognize how meaningful it is, that when your loved ones die, you feel like a burden, or have lost all hope, that that is completely normal. Life gets very dark sometimes, and it's very easy to loose yourself in that. Nobody seems to talk about it. Nobody seems to prepare you for those times. Nobody tells you what you need to get through them. It's like we all pretend that this doesn't happen, yet it will absolutely and inevitably happen. When it eventually happens, our culture kind of forces you to hide it. Then all that is left to be seen and talked about is your seemingly irrational behavior, your hatred or anger. Nobody recognizes that you are staring into the abyss, as if it isn't right there.
Hey there What are you doing here so late? Can't sleep? Ah. Coming to cry in the middle of the night. I get that. It feels nice to do that, so I understand. Take all the time you need. You know, I just happened to find you stumble upon the video where I'm taking a break. Wanna sit down for a while? Tell me about what's bothering you? Oh, don't worry about me. I don't find you annoying. I wanna be here for you. I'll try to help as best as I can. I won't judge you. Everyone has their own story. Ah, that sucks. I can't begin to imagine how you must feel. You're so tough for getting through all of that. I'm so proud of you for not giving up. Of course I understand. One broken soul to another. I just want to remind you. No matter how hard it gets, please stay strong. Take care of yourself. You can't go into a battle already wounded. You can't wave the white flag without trying your hardest. This will all be over soon. And hey. If you ever need to take another break, I'm always here. Helping people is my specialty. They always find their way, one way or another. You can come sit down with me any time. I'll try to lend some advice, or just an ear to listen. And if this is your last time visiting me, I'm proud of you. My job is done. Go take on life with all your energy, and remember that you have one soul always cheering you on. You'll always have my support. I can't wait to see the great things you'll achieve. Before you go... llove you.
I respect your religion and opinion, and understand that Jesus might have helped you. But if I don’t believe in Jesus he isn’t going to do shit for me, and no matter how miserable I am I’m not just going to start believing
If anyone here has suicidal thoughts, I just wanna say something. You fucking matter. No matter where you are in life, what struggles you’re facing, or how insignificant you might feel at times, your presence is powerful. You bring something unique to this world that no one else can. Every step you take, every decision you make, creates ripples that impact the lives of others. Don’t ever forget that your existence holds weight, your voice deserves to be heard, and your story has value. You’re here for a reason, and the world is better because you’re in it.
For me I make sure everyone is happy before me and support how they always do these fun things and vacations, but one day I take *one* day off of school to help my mom and when I come back kids say it was better without me and that I’m super selfish for taking vacation for one day while they had to work when it was to help my mom.
Unfortunately for me…that last one seems like it’s very true as of late. The more I realize how bad I was to my friends the more I realized that it would have been better if I never met them so they wouldn’t have to hurt because of me.
100 reasons to live 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favorite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favorite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get a tattoo 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you as you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open-mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek) 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Cloud watching. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping on clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. Witty puns. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains. 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64. Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. a feeling of being loved 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fireflies. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realising that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you love. 75. Spending the whole day in bed. 76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream. 77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky. 78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.) 79. Bonfires and smokes. 80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them. 81. Coming home to someone you love. 82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer. 83. Sing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends. 84. Cuddling. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. Someone’s skin against yours. 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. Spontaneous adventures. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Thunderstorms. 95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland. 96. The taste of your favorite food. 97. The child-like feeling you get on New-Year Morning. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look at this moment in 10 years' time and realize you did it. PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live i love you ❤
Whenever I think about things like this I always think about the fact that I don't want to die, I just don't want to exist, I wouldn't want to make other's feel sad or guilty about my death
Death ceases the suffering!!!!! But without suffering, you can't have joy/love/happiness, embrace the suffering and pain, it tells you that you are alive and are living this crazy life
200 reasons why you should live 1. your family 2. your friends 3. the feeling you get when you’ve finished something 4. the feeling you get when you get a compliment 5. the feeling you get when you buy new clothes 6. the feeling you get when you try on new clothes 7. the feeling you get when your room is tidy 8. the feeling you get when you're laughing hesterically. 9. the feeling you get when you make a new friend 10. the feeling you get when you make someone smile 11. you’d have to watch your family and friends grieve. 12. you’ve never been to that place you always wanted to visit. 13. you’ve never been to disney world. 14. you’ve never been skinny dipping. 15. you’ve never swam in a lake. 16. you’ve never met your idol. 17. you haven’t gotten married. 18. you’ve never decorated your own house. 19. you’ve never saved someone’s life. 20. you haven’t learnt to drive. 21. there is music you haven’t listen too. 22. you have so many more people to meet. 23. everyone who thought you’d do well in life, would have been wrong. 24. the people who said you’d end up no where, would have been right. 25. all the fake people would pretend to like u and post u on their stories. 26. you would have been the best mom or dad. 27. you haven’t lived the ‘my funeral will be packed’ type of life. 28. your friends would suffer. 29. your mum would never be able to walk into your room. 30. you haven’t apologised to people you have hurt. 31. someone loves you. 32. you are not alone. 33. i’m here for you. 34. the clothes you’re buried in might be gross. 35. you haven’t truly loved yourself yet. 36. suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems. 37. you haven’t watched your kids open their christmas presents. 38. you haven’t watched your kids grow older. 39. the pain you feel right now, isn’t forever. 40. there are so many foods you haven’t tried. 41. you’ll never get the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day. 42. finding your person. 43. really soft pillows. 44. eating pizza with your kids and partner. 45. you’ve never danced in the rain. 46. you’ve never kissed someone in the rain. 47. there are so many hobbies you haven’t tried. 48. you’ll never have a sleepover with your best friend again. 49. your friends would blame themselves. 50. your mom's smile. 51. your best friend's laugh. 52. your sister would lose her best friend. 53. your cousins that look up to you. 54. hot chocolate on cold days. 55. ice water on hot days. 56. getting a tan. 57. hearing ‘i love you’. 58. not being able to sleep the night before and exciting day. 59. your birthday. 60. you’ve never been to a nightclub. 61. long hot showers. 62. long steamy baths. 63. freshly shaved legs. 64. perfectly smooth hair. 65. watching people trip over small objects. 66. you could have a huge impact on someone’s life. 67. you would regret dying. 68. you can’t change your mind once you're gone. 69. you wake up everyday for a reason. 70. stars. 71. you will always be enough. 72. movies that make you feel warm when they’re over. 73. reading powerful quotes. 74. genuine smiles. 75. the crunch of autumn leaves. 76. christmas. 77. christmas eve. 78. decorating the tree. 79. long meaningful hugs. 80. sunsets. 81. ice cream. 82. you never got that puppy. 83. you are so brave, it would be a waste to let the fire go. 84. rainbows. 85. travelling to new places. 86. funny stories. 87. funny jokes. 88. inside jokes. 89. coffee. 90. your talents would go to waste. 91. the feeling you get when you’re truly happy. 92. all nighters with friends. 93. cuddling. 94. reconnecting with old friends and family. 95. smiling. 96. capturing perfect moments on camera. 97. swimming on a hot day. 98. feeling cozy in blankets. 99. helping other people with the same thing you got help with. 100! becoming successful. 101. cute babies. 102. cute old people. 103. love stories that make you jealous. 104. telling crazy stories. 105. watching lightning. 106. watching rain. 107. star gazing. 108. recovery. 109. melted chocolate. 110. freshly baked cookies. 111. late night adventures. 112. overcoming fears. 113. sunday mornings. 114. friday mornings. 115. you’ll be dead, forever. 116. you will make a difference to people. 117. picnics with friends. 118. waking up late. 119. waking up late and ending up being on time. 120. to prove them wrong. 121. to prove them you can. 122. to prove you're strong. 123. to love and be loved. 124. the ocean. 125. pets. 126. very loud music. 127. days out. 128. finishing a book. 129. conversations that just flow. 130. learning new things. 131. you are important. 132. you are wanted. 133. mistakes. 134. snow. 135. sun. 136. flowers. 137. flowers that look gorgeous but smell gross. 138. new bed sheets. 139. new home decor. 140. roller coasters. 141. theme parks. 142. smiling at strangers. 143. random acts of kindness. 144. the sound of water. 145. visiting a place from your childhood. 146. to look back on all the things you got yourself through on your own. 147. to feel proud. 148. reassurance. 149. cute nicknames. 150. long stares that make you feel loved. 151. meaningful gifts. 152. blowing out candles. 153. meeting online friends in real life. 154. success. 155. to work the job you always wanted. 156. the live the life you dreamt of. 157. babies smiling. 158. sleep. 159. slingshots. 160. breaking rules. 161. dreams. 162. the last day of school/work. 163. taking pictures. 164. brownies. 165. bubbles. 166. water slides. 167. holidays. 168. to fall asleep on someone. 169. to feel protected. 170. to grow taller. 171. to grow stronger. 172. to grow old. 173. to make memories you’ll cherish. 174. to laugh at old pictures. 175. to be loved by a pet. 176. the first signs of summer. 177. the first signs of autumn. 178. the first signs of winter. 179. the first signs of spring. 180. to binge watch a series. 181. to live independently. 182. to get somewhere in life all by yourself. 183. to not have broken any promises. 184. to fulfill your promises. 185. to breathe. 186. so you can tell your children stories of when you was there age. 187. so say you’re alive. 188. to know you’re stronger than you think. 189. falling in love. 190. you’ve never snuck out. 191. you’ve never not smashed your phone. 192. you’ve never stayed out all night. 193. you are a kind soul. 194. you have a warm heart. 195. you care for others. 196. the smell of pancakes. 197. when you walk over frosty grass. 198. you haven't truly apologized to all the people you've hurt 199. the rest of your life 200! to say you made it
One fundmental truth we as a species need, no we have to understand is that we all must learn to love one another, or we must all die. There is no other option, weve exhausted them all, even the excuses. We, we cant do this anymore as humans, we are the only species on this planet that kills each other..
Some people don't realize that when these guys are suffering from an endless trail of depression and it is pulling them down like a downward chain going into the ground. This is something you have to take action. These people don't deserve to die in a horrific way to hurt others around them. Take action and always remember, Life is like a gem to this planet. Don't destroy that gem, once created, it can't be destroyed.
Men need someone to talk to with no judgement
Yeah we need a MAN to talk to. Mano y mano. We are brothers and should tend to each others wounds
Both men and women. I am not sure ware the whole only men suffer in silence thing came from. I wish the divide would stop and realize we both hurt we both suffer . Suffering is not gendered. I have no one to talk to without judgment and when I thought I did it was used against me. I hide my feelings my emotions and go out everyday looking like I am ok though I am far from ok. there r a holes in both genders and there is suffering in silence in both as well
I got raised to hold in my emotions and how weak It is to show them . I also.got taught how people you trust hurt you.
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@@-_oOtianaOo_- listen miss. We do not say only men suffer in silence. Sure women also do however the percentage gap among the genders are of mountainous size. Men suffer more and it ends with them taking their own life regardless of age. However I am aware that women also suffer but I think you get my point
@MilitaristTurkcu I understand what you are saying. Though I have to respectfully disagree on the sense I have seen alot of people denie that women do. Maybe not you but I have seen many many comments say how only men understand the suffering. From me who has tried to end myself multiple times starting as a child, it strike a cord. I am not one sided if I would have saw the opposite I would say the same exact thing if some woman was saying only women suffer in silence. I am not all one way or another. I am not a generalizer.
P.s. thank you for the miss so many call me mam and I feel old lol I'm 38 I know I am 😆 🤣
@@-_oOtianaOo_- Hol up YOU ARE 38? YOU LOOK 25! Plus no need to thank me for addressing you as miss. I was raised right and taught to be respectful towards women and men alike. Mostly women because I am a man. I respect your opinion since we are not in a parliament and you, a grown conscious woman, can have your own opinion.
Ps:I truly feel bad that I now know that you harmed yourself when you shouldn't have even be in a situation so dire the only escape you see is death itself. I hope you are free from those thoughts and live your life to the fullest.
I have a workmate that always says, "It's no big deal, relax."
He's 65 and we work together at Walmart.
How long does it take to get a shipment of hotwheels?
@@matthewantos4776that was random asf
@@shawnsdiecast7852irrelevant yes, but an important question nonetheless
indeed
Indeed, but how long does it take to get the shipment of hot wheels tho?
“The bravest thing you can do is continuing your life when you want to die.”
-me
U ain't lying im tired of struggling bruh idk how long ima be able to take it anymore
@@KingJackson-qj2uh keep going dude
@@Sunsets726 ok
The real brave ones are those who have the guts to take their own life.
@@RealistRatRaceThose are the weaks, they choose an easy and quick way out of this struggle.
It's even more depressing when you see your favourite people get broken.
The last one was relatable id always tell myself "their better of without me", "im useless", "im the problem", "im the burden", but id always remember that no matter what somebody loves you, nedds you, and cares for you.
You have to learn to love yourself, if you don't, you will become somebody who isn't you, or/nor who you want to be.
Just remember God created us all in his image....And let me tell you he didn't create any one of us to be Useless. You're amazing and don't let anyone tell you otherwise ❤
That person is Jesus. He died on the cross for our sins. 😔🙏❤✝️
@@Sumayyah-mm3ou I replied that to this person and then saw this. 👀 Fact that I saw your reply before but didn't remember, and typed the same thing now.
you're 14 and feeling rebellious. either get therapy or stop trauma baiting for likes.
Here’s 101 compliments!
1. You have a fantastic sense of style.
2. Your smile is contagious.
3. You're an incredibly talented artist.
4. You're a great listener.
5. You have a beautiful soul.
6. Your passion for life is inspiring.
7. You're a true friend.
8. You have a wonderful sense of humor.
9. You're a natural leader.
10. You're always there for others.
11. Your creativity knows no bounds.
12. You're incredibly thoughtful.
13. Your kindness is a breath of fresh air.
14. You have a heart of gold.
15. You're a ray of sunshine on a cloudy day.
16. You have a captivating presence.
17. You're so genuine.
18. You're a beacon of positivity.
19. You're a great role model.
20. Your intelligence is impressive.
21. You're incredibly resilient.
22. You have a way with words.
23. You're a source of strength for many.
24. You're a true gem.
25. Your determination is admirable.
26. You're incredibly talented at everything you do.
27. You're so graceful.
28. You're always so considerate of others.
29. Your humility is refreshing.
30. You're a true artist in every sense of the word.
31. You have a wonderful sense of adventure.
32. You're always willing to lend a helping hand.
33. Your positivity is infectious.
34. You're a natural beauty inside and out.
35. You're incredibly wise beyond your years.
36. Your energy is magnetic.
37. You have a heart as big as the ocean.
38. You're a true gift to those around you.
39. You're always so full of life.
40. Your laughter is music to my ears.
41. You're an inspiration to us all.
42. You have a rare and special gift.
43. You're a true original.
44. Your presence lights up the room.
45. You're so easy to talk to.
46. You're a true blessing in my life.
47. You have an amazing way of making everyone feel included.
48. You're always so positive and upbeat.
49. You have a beautiful mind.
50. Your kindness knows no bounds.
51. You're a true joy to be around.
52. You have such a warm and welcoming personality.
53. Your passion is contagious.
54. You're incredibly talented at everything you do.
55. You're a true friend in every sense of the word.
56. You have a heart of gold.
57. You're a true original.
58. You're always so full of life.
59. Your laughter is contagious.
60. You have a beautiful soul.
61. You're a true inspiration to us all.
62. Your kindness and compassion are truly remarkable.
63. You have such a positive and uplifting presence.
64. Your generosity knows no bounds.
65. You're a true light in this world.
66. You're always there to lend a helping hand.
67. Your wisdom and insight are truly impressive.
68. You have a way of making everyone around you feel special.
69. Your strength and resilience are truly inspiring.
70. You're a true blessing in my life.
71. Your creativity and imagination are boundless.
72. You're a true artist in every sense of the word.
73. Your energy and enthusiasm are contagious.
74. You have such a unique and special way of looking at the world.
75. You're always so positive and upbeat.
76. Your friendship means the world to me.
77. You have a heart as big as the ocean.
78. You're a true joy to be around.
79. Your passion for life is truly inspiring.
80. You have such a beautiful and caring soul.
81. You're a true gem.
82. Your kindness and compassion are truly remarkable.
83. You have a way of making everyone around you feel loved and appreciated.
84. Your strength and courage are truly admirable.
85. You're a true inspiration to us all.
86. Your positivity and optimism are infectious.
87. You have a heart of gold.
88. You're a true blessing in my life.
89. Your friendship means the world to me.
90. You have such a beautiful and caring soul.
91. You're always so full of life.
92. Your laughter is contagious.
93. You have a way of making everyone around you feel special.
94. Your kindness and compassion are truly remarkable.
95. You're a true gem.
96. You have such a warm and welcoming personality.
97. Your energy and enthusiasm are contagious.
98. You're a true joy to be around.
99. Your passion for life is truly inspiring.
100. You have such a positive and uplifting presence.
101. You're a true light in this world.
Your work is needed
trust in god, and may he bless you
thank you
@@haoyu361 Big Hug brother, God bless you, trust him
Thanks bro ❤️
This may be some RUclips short, with text.
But this made me feel a lot better about myself. My life has been hard lately, with keeping up, gaining friends, self harm, ect. Thank you.
I'm 30 year old Korean man, suffering from anxiety disorder and taking pills every day. I have been dealing with traumas from parents' violent fights and physical abuse, bullying from school(as I had to move between Korea and US, being unable to relate to both cultures), and physical and mental abuse(beating, death threat even after service) from the Korean Army. Recently, I got dumped, my parents got sick, faced layoff. I'm trying to get better, make myself better, meet people, try to enjoy and be thankful about my life. I tried to cry my anger and sadness out of the system. But I just can't cry. It's like I'm programmed to the core to not show sadness. I'm holding on to my dear life to keep it sane and not to go to my darkest thoughts. To women, our traumas and dark thoughts are just trash that they don’t want to touch. But at least among men, I hope we can talk it out and open up.
Hello sir, I'm 17 year old African American girl but I just want to tell you that it will get better. I know I don't know you but YOUR LIFE HAS SO MUCH WORTH. YOU ARE A STRONG MAN and YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT TRASH. I can't stand people who think like that. Your parents will get better, you'll find good friends and find a better partner and get married (if that's want you want). Mental illnesses and suicide really hurts my heart, eventually you will be able to cry it all out and you will feel better. I'm sorry you went through all of that. I know I don't know you but I LOVE YOU AND GOD LOVES YOU TOO. Try reaching out to Him read a Bible,and pray, trust me it helps. YOU HAVE SO MUCH WORTH, YOU'LL GET THROUGH THIS I PROMISE!!!😊
Hey do you need help? Do you have discord I can help you
thank you for opening up. hope is the answer a lot of times, hope for a better day. know that not all women think this as well, your emotions are valid and real, because they are your experience. if someone doesn't recognize or validate that, they're not worth your time, but the right people will.
hope you are doing better. sending love from brazil ❤
I know I am just a 14 year old kid but I get it, this will be almost the max thing you will ever face in your life and everything else that will happen later on will be like a meh and won't effect you as much and I have been through some stuff but I know that will be almost the max I will face in my life, I know a kid who almost died from a plain crash and it was bad but I can't get into detail because of privacy reasons but everything will turn out fine
keep talking to people, even if it's just on here. It has helped me to process things. A lot of people have a similar story. Maybe try to find some group therapy to start that's free
“It would have been my bullet” hits hard…
(Edit) After 7 months ive decided to do an edit on this comment, i will just say if ur struggling it will be ok, and if u have a hard time trying to fit in with everyone else, life will figure it out. Bsaiclly im saying that u dont need to worry and please find supportive help from anyone.
That's called fate.. he wasn't meant to die that day.. he has more to do in this life before he gets to leave.
I can't see my previous comment.. but something legit swiped my screen to the side after writing it.. not completely but it moved to the side like it tried..
weird@@ianmoone9036
@@ianmoone9036may you explain to me I don’t know what Russian roulette is
@@JMCONTOP search it on google
The clip with Tom hanks and the prisoner saying “I’m sorry for what I am” is incredibly sad. It’s based on a true story and I can’t remember too many of the details but in essence, the man is convicted and sentenced to death for murdering a girl even though there’s not a substantial amount of evidence. The thing is he is mentally handicapped and is innocent. The guards, while doing their jobs, get to learn about who he is and how he’s a kind, gentle soul who was wrongfully accused. The scene you witness here is his execution, where despite the guards knowing he’s innocent, are unable to do anything to help him except keep the hood off his head (he’s afraid of the dark).
He was later proved innocent but I’m not too sure what happened after. It’s been too many years and I can’t remember much about this case any more. This movie is absolutely brilliant but is incredibly heartbreaking.
Green Mile is the name. That last part made me ball out crying.
It was a 14 year old sentenced to death. Although he was innocent, he was executed. Years later the state recognized it was their fault and he was innocent.
Wrong movie my guy
Men. It is now that we must band together. It is now, in our darkest hour that we need each other the most. Stay strong.
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@@zoro-i8u 🤝
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“I’m sorry for who I am.” Really hit home. Enough to make a grown man cry.
I cried from this edit it hits different sometimes 😞
Bro I say ni or I say I'm homophobic I get banned from commenting on RUclips or it gets removed RUclips it's a joke
And that’s alright…😢
Seeing kai cry broke my heart 😭
Was he fr?
@@Lil-k47yes
Womp womp
@@Sir-Erich-Hartmannyou goin to hell man that shit is not funny
@@Sir-Erich-HartmannIt’s people like you that don’t understand what the state our world is in you should really think before you talk
love some corecore
Lol "corecore
Life saving stuff
Love feeling sorry for yourself*
You need help man there is always people there for you
Bro it's so sad when he said "I'm sorry for what I am"
As a person who once had suicidal thoughts thinking I was just a pain to everyone and wasn't loved by anyone this felt like I saw people like my old self but now I've dragged myself out of it and now I'm doing what I love most.
Thats good to hear keep it up ❤️
congratulation my dear 🫶🏻
How.. how do you pull yourself out of that
Hell yea man that’s Wasup. Glad ur going good
how did you do it?asking for a friend
I’ve been dealing with depression and suicidal thoughts for the past decade of my life, alcoholism for the past 2 years and substance abuse for the past year and after rehab I can say that I have successfully overcome substance abuse. Wish me luck on the rest of the journey.
If I’m being honest, Jordan Peterson saved my life and he’s done more to my life than anyone ever has. He’s a really good guy and I wish I could tell him
The man is a raging narcissist, pseudo intellectual and racist who shrouds his bigotry in long words most people don’t understand. He’s also a fraud, giving all this self help advice and then getting himself hooked on benzos and being surprised at the effects as a qualified psychologist 🤣🤣
I’m glad he helped you, and I hope you’re doing good now. But that freak is a wretched rat who has made many lives much worse and has sold himself to the highest bidder… which just so happens to be far right “conservatives”.
Same
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Stay alive and thrive. Its all he ever wants for us
I’m not even sure he can save me at this point, not sure how long I got and even I have caught myself with selfish thoughts.
I’m watching all of your vids. Thank you for what you do.
I’m going through a massive rough patch right now. I’ve gotten dumped twice in the past few months and it’d gotten to the point where I feel like I’m the problem. I’ve always had issues with self esteem, and that ruined a year long relationship that I valued. They left and they’re with someone else. They seem so much happier. The second and most recent time, I was just lied to. The person never cared about me romantically. I feel horrible and I feel like such a shitty person. I try and I try but no matter what I do I’m a failure. I’ve failed my friends and family. I’ve been trying to get better because what happened a few months ago opened my eyes, but honestly I have no purpose. I have no reason to stay alive. I’m still going, but barely. Before, my purpose was to love my partner, but then they left me and I just feel lost. The person I valued the most left me. I’m still getting over it even though it was almost 5 months ago, but they were my peace. They helped me feel better and I feel so shitty that my issues pushed them away. I can’t stand to look at them without seeing the person that I loved and knowing that I fucked it up. I feel so stupid for believing something that was a lie. I want to feel loved and wanted so badly, but I feel like it’s never going to happen now. Sorry for the rant, I just don’t know what else to do because I’m afraid of pushing my friends away because I’m not mentally stable enough to deal with my own thoughts.
the only person on the planet keeping me alive rn is my gf and no one else. i can’t even imagine the pain i’d put her through if i kms. i am forever grateful because of her
Just keep on hanging on, my friend. You have at least one reason to keep in the fight- a dang good reason. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for her until you can do it for you. You're richly blessed to have a supporter by your side like that... Please, never fail to appreciate her.
U never know what will happen tmrw. Still try and find inner peace/happiness within urself. Use that exploration as a means to want to live. God Bless
"I'm sorry for what I am" hits in the deepest pits of my heart💔
God will show up. I know i've experienced it. Alone, in my bathroom, with a gun in my mouth. An image of my new born son popped in my head, and the question was asked, "Do you want him to grow up having to say, my father killed himself.". I humbled my heart and cried out to God to help. It has been a journey, but I can say this, If you truly humble your heart, and seek Him earnestly, then you will find Him. Today I have peace beyond understanding, even when my world is falling down around me, and my now 25 yr old son can say, I grew up with an amazing dad!
I love you, thank you for being strong
Your awesome. Dont ever forget that.
I got goosebumps reading this, it's just a comment, people will say, but this is a message that made me think
Always remember that you mad the most correct choice you could've ever made
You’re awesome man. I’m glad we have such an amazing person today.
Thank you all for the love!! It is the messy part of my testimony. I share it to bring Glory to God and to let people know hope is found in Him! May He bless you all and keep you!! ❤️
”suicide doesn’t take the pain away, it give it to someone else” - a wise person
@@Mr-Vyn yo wanna talk about it? I'm here
@@Mr-Vyn Is this someone you have broken up with?
@@Mr-Vynnah, you’re crying over a girl?.
@@FootballEdits6751 man I got over it
People act like men are not allowed to talk about their feelings. YOU ARE! I am a part of an amazing support group of guys in my Bible study group. We meet every Friday and tall about God, our struggles, and pray for eachother. These guys are also some of the best men I have ever met in my life. You got to stop with this self sorrow crap. Take control of your life!
🤡
@@usbbwbsjjnsbodn stay sad
I miss that
See, you're tryna help guys, but also are mean at the same time. Thats what people are afraid of. Getting shit for their problems.
@@Pilfered_the hell are you talking about? Sounds to me like you talked to the wrong people
That last one is relatable as fuck.
This made me cry messages these day hit different sometimes😢 dude even Kai
“Sometimes life is like this dark tunnel, you can’t always see the light at the end of the tunnel, but if you just keep moving, you will come to a better place.”
- Uncle Iroh, Avatar
“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out” (Proverbs 20:5).
All people are made in the image of God. Each of us are born with a purpose and calling that we can discover or completely miss. The influence of the Holy Spirit in the lives of believers gives us insight to His purposes for us. We find peace and courage when we sense the confirmation of the Spirit that we are in the right place at the right time of our designated calling.
Every single time I’ve opened up to a girl she permanently changes.. it’s like a genetic response or something from them. It’s like disgust on their face and rolling their eyes as if to say “oh yeah poor baby.. I’m sure you hurt so bad as a man”. That 100% has to stop. Absolutely almost everytime I’ve opened up to a guy he’s like “yeah bro I feel more than you know.” But we don’t sob and weep but I feel sooo much better after. You don’t HAVE to sob and weep as a guy no matter if anyone tells you that’s the only way to open up. No. You say words any way you like and that’s it.
And no I’m not saying guys act perfectly in response to women’s emotions either but damn if I haven’t been the most hurt by women who I’ve opened up to. It’s ridiculous I even have to caveat that.
Bro I say ni or I say I'm homophobic I get banned from commenting on RUclips or it gets removed RUclips it's a joke
You know I always say keep your head up,high,and off the ground because if its always down,low,and on the ground your never going to see the high moments in your life and your only going to see the low moments in your life and thats not what we want to see we want to see the high moments in our life but out heads are always down,low,and on the ground. Keep your head up high and believe in yourself and believe in everything you do. Youve got this. And your doing so amazing. You are the most beautiful, handsome person out there and dont let anyone else tell you different. YOU got this. YOU make your life what it is and what you want it to be. I love you whoever is reading this and remember keep you head up high and keep it off the ground.
Wowww, I actually didn't think men would go through all this pain.................... Respect to all the men out there.
bruh you just thought men dont feel hurt/ pained emotions before this? (not to be rude like fr)
That is really woman’s thought? In general most of males are just must be loyal to woman and thread them as a queen and die? 😢😢😢 I don’t blame you but society that teaches young girls that men’s are gross and sexual harasser it is kinda expected I guess. 🥀🥀🥀💔💔💔
@@bored-_-astronaut-zf2psYou aren't being rude bro I agree with you
@Sophie-ou1nb3where the only
Bro I say ni or I say I'm homophobic I get banned from commenting on RUclips or it gets removed RUclips it's a joke
Your life matters. You are infinitely loved and cared for by this Universe. The Creator sees your pain. We stand together with you as humans for the greater good of the planet. Your light can only shine through you. You are unique and you add a flavor and spice to life that no one else can! The best advice i got from Source was to laugh more. I have cried much, been through alot of depression and sadness but its so helpful to just laugh a gut busting laugh, even when you dont feel like it. Just starting to laugh or making a smile can make you feel better. You got this! Dont give up. Love and life and light are all abundantly within, just know inside you have all you need to succeed. Blessings
I know how it is, im homeless myself but i have a job, its hard to work things out but as long as you have faith in jesus you should have no worries and do you and be strong and kind
the green mile execution was horrifying
10 quotes that should hopefully help some of you
" When you feel like giving up, just remember why you held on for so long." - Haley Williams
Suicide is not an answer, it's destruction." - Al Green
When you don't have the strength to take another step, ask those you love to pull you." - Unknown
If you're going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill
This life. This night. Your story. Your hope. It matters. All of it matters." Jamie Tworkowski
"It isn't weak to ask for help. It's like using a flashlight when you are lost in the dark." - Unknown
Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start and make a brand new ending.” - Carl Bard
Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don’t deny it, don’t be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever.” - Harold Kushner
When it is darkest, we can see the stars.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson
There are far, far better things ahead than anything we leave behind.” - CS Lewis
Copy and paste to possibly make days better
How do you rationalize that there are better things ahead when the past does not reflect that? Trends don’t lie. 🙄
"im sorry for what i am" man that scene hit hard
Don't dwell on those who hold you down. Instead, cherish those who helped you up. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever give up on yourself. As long as you keep on fighting, then you can beat your depression.
The last one was like me but is getting better and better little by little 😊
"Suicide doesn't end the pain, it just passes it to someone else..." Kakashi Hatake
damn...
i'm ngl i hate this quote-
@@UrRandomKiwiwhy
@@theDmiller22005 No one should feel guilt when committing suicide. They fought for as long as they could and felt this was the best way to end it whether it is or not.
@@UrRandomKiwi yeah I get what your saying but didn’t the quote meant suicide takes away the pain from the commiter of the suicide while the
Victims love ones have to cope with it and that’s a pain
Thanks for reminding me of the hate within me, the hate against everything, maybe hate is the answer in a world without hope.
Hey don’t say that you matter you do everyone loves you
For real I wish I could too I wish I was not in this world
Jesus loves you. ❤
The green mile made me cry more than I do every night because of my depression
Depression is, in simple words, the big deciever of our time, it decieves you into thinking youre worthless, and not loevd, when in relaity things maybe, and often are, completely diferent
You may or may not believe, but i can promise you, god is real, and the amount of love he has for all of us, is unmatched
Trust in god, God loves you
May god bless us all✝️❤️
Been there!
Just eat it and keep walking
The more advice I sought, the less I wanted.
It’s behind me now
Just keep pushing and never give up
To anyone who need to hear this
YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!!!
YOU ARE SOMEONES HERO!!!!!
YOU ARE A FUCKING BEAUTIFUL PERSON AND NO ONE CAN CHANGE THAT
YOU ARE AMAZING AND YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO CARE ABOUT YOU!!!
You are my hero and you are worth living....even if you think otherwise..
If you are under 20 years old, you have only experienced less than 25% of your life. That means there is still about 75% of your life left to live. There are so, so, *so* , many opportunities that you will find in the future. Giving up now means giving up on chasing dreams and finding new friends and creating a family. There is so much that will happen that neither of us could ever even guess would happen. Part of a good life is bad days. I promise you, it does get better ♡ keep pushing so you can see the good in life :)
Music is the only thing I turn to when I’m down and my 5 cats ! I never look for comfort in other people because they truly have no idea how your feeling and it’s hard for anyone to understand how to help someone when their down.
Bro the last one actually got me bro I feel the same way all the time
Remember, you are not alone, and your journey can inspire others to seek help, find support, and discover their own path to healing and fulfillment. Your story is a powerful reminder that it is possible to overcome challenges and find joy and purpose in life.
I remember sitting in my truck with my gun in my hand,crying uncontrollably ready to be done. The only reason i didn't, is because i didn't want my kids to find me like that. I felt i had no one. .
Honestly if it were me, I wouldn’t care. Or I’d be more resourceful and be somewhere difficult to find, let the maggots have me.
I myself have been suffering in school since 2022, everyday I would be bullied by everyone, everyone would take my snacks and my lunch everyday for almost 2 years, after recess or lunch time I'm always unhappy, unenergetic and hungry as hell, and everyone else is happy with each other and leaving me in the dust and starving and suffering. I wish I had someone to talk to that would just help me out, I'm a 12 year old who just graduated last month and is now going to High School, and has been dealing with problem after problem in school for the past 2 years, and I'm somehow still not mad and have been keeping a smile on my face, I have been keeping in my anger, I REALLY wanna be happy, but I can't if this is gonna keep up. This world is not the same anymore, and I hope there is a way to fix our mental problems, whoever read this, thank you, and I hope you have an amazing day and a beautiful future ahead of you, I will now continue on suffering and making others happy while I'm not
Dang man. You have anything we can talk on? I might be able to help you.
Stay strong chief, the UNSC needs you❤
The last guy is how i feel
Same.
“a man doesn’t cry because he’s weak, he cries because he’s been strong for too long” 😔
I’ve never seen Kai cry before
“I’m sorry what I am” hits cold.
54 of our brothers, fathers, uncles, cousins and best friends WILL take their own life today. And again tomorrow and other 364 days. BUT somebody has to stay behind, we cant ALL go. Our mommas and sisters and aunts NEED atleast one of us to stay behind to be a gd man for them. To wipe the tears and fix the vehicles and mow the lawns and teach the sons and nephews by example. I'm not fooling myself, the reality is I probably will lose the same war thise other guys lost. But when I lose my family will lose the last man. Somebody some day might read this and gd do I hope it changes your mind! One of us needs to stay behind brother. I hope it's you that chooses one more day.maybe title get better or maybe it wont. But somebody needs to stay behind and I hope its you!. I really hope its you
I'm here, watching this video because I feel I'm useless, I laugh every day, for everything, I put a smile on my face for everything, but when I get home, things aren't really that way, my mom says I don't know how to do this and how to do that, that I ask too much and that she should've had hit me more when I was a kid. I have friends, I have family and I am grateful of that, but they sometimes treat me like I am a failure, or sometimes don't even listen to me, right now, I just don't feel enough.
Society has it wrong both ways:
Men, Open up and share, with other men
That's so gay bro
@@khalilsan205 im saying that men should open up but not to women. Women will never respect an open man.
@@TiPitSgtBuddy yeah I got you, I was just joking
@@TiPitSgtBuddyYeah he was thinking of something else, I agree with you tho
Bingo! 🎉
it’s always amazing for me and truly very touching to see people opening up on the RUclips comment section and that others a incredibly kind to them. all of you are amazing, don’t forget your worth
That Kai one was just sad man
What was it about?
Seemed fake the one about the kid almost killing himself to russian r is way more sad
I mean, I like Kai & all, but that was definitely some attention grabbing thing he did.
nah that one looked fake lmao
Poor Kai we all hurting 😔
"I am sorry for what i am" same
never be sorry for being a human bieng.
we all fallen short of god´s standard and golry, and nowadays lives hunting on each other (methaphorically)
i want you to trust that god will deliver you, and he will help you, it just takes faith.
trust him, brother
God bless you
Guys don't do it... Yesterday i got in my dads car without any driving experience with the intention of killing myself. After a 20 minute drive I pulled into the woods and stopped realising I just risked lifes. What fucked me up wasn't that it could have kidlled me obviously but that I could have destroyed a happy family driveing home form vication. I took the knife out of my left pocket and googled where the heart is sitting exactly just to be sure. Thats when it set in... I can't do this to my family. I sat on the passenger seat and called my mom crying out loud. Half an hour later we were all standing together crying. I hate myself for being so ignorant risking other lifes and making my own family who alwas supported me cry. Actions have consequences... Think abt this before doing anything that could harm anyone in the slightest way ok?
Glad your ok brother stay strong sending love and hugs to you homie
Your strong brother, Jesus Christ will take care of you lean on him ❤
They always supported you, but you still wanted to end your own life?
This is why I think ya'll are just lying.
I had suicidal thoughts once and I can connect to all of this. It’s heartbreaking to see all the stress men go through these days. It feels like no matter how good you feel about yourself, one day, your emotions will just pour out.
one thing i know for sure, is that we all struggle and suffer, bu we dont have to do it alone, i ask that you trust God, and i know that he will help you, and lift you up
Christ loves you brother
@@MaximilianoSanabria-b9vthanks for your heartwarming message ❤
@@Coaster_Crash God loves you brother, seek him, he will save you bro
Big hug
song?
U found?
Present - Lloyd vaan
@@Secret_To_Successpresent - Lloyd vaan
That last one almost broke me. You have no many times I’ve felt that way
Song name?
hey man, its Present by Lloyd Vaan i hope ur doing good now thouggh
DAILY REMINDER:
1.Your skin is not paper, so don’t cut it.
2. Your neck is not a coat, so don’t hang it.
3.Your body is not a book, so don’t judge it.
4.Your heart is not a door, so don’t close it.
5. Your life is not a movie, so don’t end it.
Remember to always love yourself because you’re a shining star
I don’t know about the other clips but I believe Jordan Peterson (a psychologist) was talking about how some people feel about themselves, rather than from his point of view. He’s emotional because he has a lot of empathy for them. (Although he has suffered from depression also)
Right.
One of his most appealing sides is that he puts a lot of emphasis on the incredible dread people go through, and how popular narratives like to ignore the impact that has.
For instance when people talk of Incels, and they accuse them of being misogynists or hateful (which he acknowledges they might be), he mentions that they are entirely disenfranchised, nihilistic, lost young men with no meaningful social Contacts, that have soaked in their hatred and pain for a significant part of their life, and are usually severely suicidal.
I don't usually agree with JP, but this aspect of his views, the acknowledgment of how difficult life is, and how painful and dark it can get, is the most touching thing I've seen anyone with that platform yet talk about.
It's so often ignored that most people will face a intense crysis eventually. You rarely see people show how tormented they are. People rarely show weakness, but anyone might be very very close to the edge, usually afraid, lost and out of controll.
It's easy to fail to recognize how meaningful it is, that when your loved ones die, you feel like a burden, or have lost all hope, that that is completely normal.
Life gets very dark sometimes, and it's very easy to loose yourself in that. Nobody seems to talk about it. Nobody seems to prepare you for those times. Nobody tells you what you need to get through them. It's like we all pretend that this doesn't happen, yet it will absolutely and inevitably happen.
When it eventually happens, our culture kind of forces you to hide it. Then all that is left to be seen and talked about is your seemingly irrational behavior, your hatred or anger. Nobody recognizes that you are staring into the abyss, as if it isn't right there.
I’m literally crying😭😭😭since I’m black when the guy said I’m sorry for what I am really touched to me
I have no friends.
Hi buddy
Wadup cuh
when will my dad realize moving from our current house destroys all of my friendships? now all my friends are robbers that made me one.
Bro I say ni or I say I'm homophobic I get banned from commenting on RUclips or it gets removed RUclips it's a joke
THE LAST ONE HIT HARD 💔💔💔
I have 0 pity for kai
Y
why
“Im sorry for what i am” i feel the same way bro😞
Hey there
What are you doing here so late?
Can't sleep?
Ah. Coming to cry in the middle of the night.
I get that.
It feels nice to do that, so I understand.
Take all the time you need.
You know, I just happened to find you stumble upon the video where I'm taking a break.
Wanna sit down for a while?
Tell me about what's bothering you?
Oh, don't worry about me. I don't find you annoying.
I wanna be here for you.
I'll try to help as best as I can.
I won't judge you. Everyone has their own story.
Ah, that sucks.
I can't begin to imagine how you must feel.
You're so tough for getting through all of that.
I'm so proud of you for not giving up.
Of course I understand.
One broken soul to another.
I just want to remind you.
No matter how hard it gets, please stay strong.
Take care of yourself.
You can't go into a battle already wounded.
You can't wave the white flag without trying your hardest.
This will all be over soon.
And hey.
If you ever need to take another break, I'm always here.
Helping people is my specialty.
They always find their way, one way or another.
You can come sit down with me any time.
I'll try to lend some advice, or just an ear to listen.
And if this is your last time visiting me, I'm proud of you.
My job is done.
Go take on life with all your energy, and remember that you have one soul always cheering you on.
You'll always have my support.
I can't wait to see the great things you'll achieve.
Before you go...
llove you.
same to you stranger keep it up! love ya😊
It's 3:51pm
Some of these phrases are simple but hold something that I can relate to
Turn to Jesus guys. Stay strong.💕💕
no ion belive in jesus
I respect your religion and opinion, and understand that Jesus might have helped you.
But if I don’t believe in Jesus he isn’t going to do shit for me, and no matter how miserable I am I’m not just going to start believing
@@lucascarr-og3ku To every man himself, remember, we already warned you.
What would God do
@@mrjobloxwhat u yappling bro
If anyone here has suicidal thoughts, I just wanna say something. You fucking matter. No matter where you are in life, what struggles you’re facing, or how insignificant you might feel at times, your presence is powerful. You bring something unique to this world that no one else can. Every step you take, every decision you make, creates ripples that impact the lives of others. Don’t ever forget that your existence holds weight, your voice deserves to be heard, and your story has value. You’re here for a reason, and the world is better because you’re in it.
Jesus saves.
Tell that to children with stage 4 cancer
@@orion9977 Astrology ain't gon save your ass from cancer
For me I make sure everyone is happy before me and support how they always do these fun things and vacations, but one day I take *one* day off of school to help my mom and when I come back kids say it was better without me and that I’m super selfish for taking vacation for one day while they had to work when it was to help my mom.
The last one is relatable to me
"Im sorry for what i am" I felt that so hard i had a tear in my eye
Unfortunately for me…that last one seems like it’s very true as of late. The more I realize how bad I was to my friends the more I realized that it would have been better if I never met them so they wouldn’t have to hurt because of me.
I once tried to take my life and i don’t wanna live anymore goodbye i am going mama i love u😔
The last one hit me because that's what i said to my friends
As a depressed person, this is relatable, especially the last clip...
The 1st guy read it perfectly
The last one is so true for me..
This is a beautiful short and I love that you did this
100 reasons to live
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favorite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favorite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get a tattoo
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you as you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open-mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek)
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Cloud watching.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping on clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. Witty puns.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains.
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64. Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theatre.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. a feeling of being loved
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fireflies.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realising that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you love.
75. Spending the whole day in bed.
76. Eating a whole pint of your favorite ice cream.
77. Floating in water on your back and just staring up at the sky.
78. First dates (even the bad ones make for funny stories.)
79. Bonfires and smokes.
80. Relationships where you love someone but aren’t in love with them.
81. Coming home to someone you love.
82. The color of autumn leaves when they change. Summer.
83. Sing songs at the top of your lungs with your friends.
84. Cuddling.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. Someone’s skin against yours.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. Spontaneous adventures.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Thunderstorms.
95. Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
96. The taste of your favorite food.
97. The child-like feeling you get on New-Year Morning.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look at this moment in 10 years' time and realize you did it.
PS: there are so many beautiful things to live. so live, and live, and live
i love you ❤
😢
This is exactly what I feel like
Whenever I think about things like this I always think about the fact that I don't want to die, I just don't want to exist, I wouldn't want to make other's feel sad or guilty about my death
Death ceases the suffering!!!!! But without suffering, you can't have joy/love/happiness, embrace the suffering and pain, it tells you that you are alive and are living this crazy life
The green mile always hit hard.
Real.
I don’t really see Kai cry but now I have😢
We all need to advocate for the fact that men have emotions too.
"I want to feel good about myself,the way you do,and idk how...idk if I can"
This hurts my heart..
In context it shouldn't because Bojack is a piece of shit and doesn't deserve to feel good about himself. But I'm sure you do.
The last clip hits deep within me… it’s something I’ve thought for years
200 reasons why you should live
1. your family
2. your friends
3. the feeling you get when you’ve finished something
4. the feeling you get when you get a compliment
5. the feeling you get when you buy new clothes
6. the feeling you get when you try on new clothes
7. the feeling you get when your room is tidy
8. the feeling you get when you're laughing hesterically.
9. the feeling you get when you make a new friend
10. the feeling you get when you make someone smile
11. you’d have to watch your family and friends grieve.
12. you’ve never been to that place you always wanted to visit.
13. you’ve never been to disney world.
14. you’ve never been skinny dipping.
15. you’ve never swam in a lake.
16. you’ve never met your idol.
17. you haven’t gotten married.
18. you’ve never decorated your own house.
19. you’ve never saved someone’s life.
20. you haven’t learnt to drive.
21. there is music you haven’t listen too.
22. you have so many more people to meet.
23. everyone who thought you’d do well in life, would have been wrong.
24. the people who said you’d end up no where, would have been right.
25. all the fake people would pretend to like u and post u on their stories.
26. you would have been the best mom or dad.
27. you haven’t lived the ‘my funeral will be packed’ type of life.
28. your friends would suffer.
29. your mum would never be able to walk into your room.
30. you haven’t apologised to people you have hurt.
31. someone loves you.
32. you are not alone.
33. i’m here for you.
34. the clothes you’re buried in might be gross.
35. you haven’t truly loved yourself yet.
36. suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems.
37. you haven’t watched your kids open their christmas presents.
38. you haven’t watched your kids grow older.
39. the pain you feel right now, isn’t forever.
40. there are so many foods you haven’t tried.
41. you’ll never get the feeling of walking into a warm building on a cold day.
42. finding your person.
43. really soft pillows.
44. eating pizza with your kids and partner.
45. you’ve never danced in the rain.
46. you’ve never kissed someone in the rain.
47. there are so many hobbies you haven’t tried.
48. you’ll never have a sleepover with your best friend again.
49. your friends would blame themselves.
50. your mom's smile.
51. your best friend's laugh.
52. your sister would lose her best friend.
53. your cousins that look up to you.
54. hot chocolate on cold days.
55. ice water on hot days.
56. getting a tan.
57. hearing ‘i love you’.
58. not being able to sleep the night before and exciting day.
59. your birthday.
60. you’ve never been to a nightclub.
61. long hot showers.
62. long steamy baths.
63. freshly shaved legs.
64. perfectly smooth hair.
65. watching people trip over small objects.
66. you could have a huge impact on someone’s life.
67. you would regret dying.
68. you can’t change your mind once you're gone.
69. you wake up everyday for a reason.
70. stars.
71. you will always be enough.
72. movies that make you feel warm when they’re over.
73. reading powerful quotes.
74. genuine smiles.
75. the crunch of autumn leaves.
76. christmas.
77. christmas eve.
78. decorating the tree.
79. long meaningful hugs.
80. sunsets.
81. ice cream.
82. you never got that puppy.
83. you are so brave, it would be a waste to let the fire go.
84. rainbows.
85. travelling to new places.
86. funny stories.
87. funny jokes.
88. inside jokes.
89. coffee.
90. your talents would go to waste.
91. the feeling you get when you’re truly happy.
92. all nighters with friends.
93. cuddling.
94. reconnecting with old friends and family.
95. smiling.
96. capturing perfect moments on camera.
97. swimming on a hot day.
98. feeling cozy in blankets.
99. helping other people with the same thing you got help with.
100! becoming successful.
101. cute babies.
102. cute old people.
103. love stories that make you jealous.
104. telling crazy stories.
105. watching lightning.
106. watching rain.
107. star gazing.
108. recovery.
109. melted chocolate.
110. freshly baked cookies.
111. late night adventures.
112. overcoming fears.
113. sunday mornings.
114. friday mornings.
115. you’ll be dead, forever.
116. you will make a difference to people.
117. picnics with friends.
118. waking up late.
119. waking up late and ending up being on time.
120. to prove them wrong.
121. to prove them you can.
122. to prove you're strong.
123. to love and be loved.
124. the ocean.
125. pets.
126. very loud music.
127. days out.
128. finishing a book.
129. conversations that just flow.
130. learning new things.
131. you are important.
132. you are wanted.
133. mistakes.
134. snow.
135. sun.
136. flowers.
137. flowers that look gorgeous but smell gross.
138. new bed sheets.
139. new home decor.
140. roller coasters.
141. theme parks.
142. smiling at strangers.
143. random acts of kindness.
144. the sound of water.
145. visiting a place from your childhood.
146. to look back on all the things you got yourself through on your own.
147. to feel proud.
148. reassurance.
149. cute nicknames.
150. long stares that make you feel loved.
151. meaningful gifts.
152. blowing out candles.
153. meeting online friends in real life.
154. success.
155. to work the job you always wanted.
156. the live the life you dreamt of.
157. babies smiling.
158. sleep.
159. slingshots.
160. breaking rules.
161. dreams.
162. the last day of school/work.
163. taking pictures.
164. brownies.
165. bubbles.
166. water slides.
167. holidays.
168. to fall asleep on someone.
169. to feel protected.
170. to grow taller.
171. to grow stronger.
172. to grow old.
173. to make memories you’ll cherish.
174. to laugh at old pictures.
175. to be loved by a pet.
176. the first signs of summer.
177. the first signs of autumn.
178. the first signs of winter.
179. the first signs of spring.
180. to binge watch a series.
181. to live independently.
182. to get somewhere in life all by yourself.
183. to not have broken any promises.
184. to fulfill your promises.
185. to breathe.
186. so you can tell your children stories of when you was there age.
187. so say you’re alive.
188. to know you’re stronger than you think.
189. falling in love.
190. you’ve never snuck out.
191. you’ve never not smashed your phone.
192. you’ve never stayed out all night.
193. you are a kind soul.
194. you have a warm heart.
195. you care for others.
196. the smell of pancakes.
197. when you walk over frosty grass.
198. you haven't truly apologized to all the people you've hurt
199. the rest of your life
200! to say you made it
One fundmental truth we as a species need, no we have to understand is that we all must learn to love one another, or we must all die. There is no other option, weve exhausted them all, even the excuses. We, we cant do this anymore as humans, we are the only species on this planet that kills each other..
when im happy, deep down i know as much as it sucks i will be sad again. When I am sad I try to tell myself I’ll be happy again but it’s not as easy
Some people don't realize that when these guys are suffering from an endless trail of depression and it is pulling them down like a downward chain going into the ground. This is something you have to take action. These people don't deserve to die in a horrific way to hurt others around them. Take action and always remember, Life is like a gem to this planet. Don't destroy that gem, once created, it can't be destroyed.