My Big Chop Story & How I Style My TWA || Alyssa Marie

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • I hope you enjoyed watching this video as much as I enjoyed making this it! Are you on a natural hair journey as well? Comment below and let me know...
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Комментарии • 115

  • @STP255
    @STP255 6 лет назад +18

    I have to update my picture on here lol. I’m one week post big chop! You couldn’t have described this journey any better. I’m was afraid of how it could look on me. This is utter FREEDOM. It’s so easy to style. My makeup skills have even improved lol!!!!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Shal Perk congrats girl!!! Just the beginning of a fun & amazing journey ❤️❤️

  • @astoldbyaja3010
    @astoldbyaja3010 4 года назад +7

    omg my stylist is about to come over and do my big chop and i am so excited. your hair in this video is GORGEOUS!!

  • @taken10154ever
    @taken10154ever 6 лет назад +5

    You look absolutely beautiful and short hair really does agree with you. I’m newly natural as well, I big chopped on January 29, 2018. I absolutely love my natural hair and have zero regrets. I too felt totally free and bolder. I’m so happy to take this journey along with you.

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      taken10154ever thank you so much! I’m so happy to hear that ❤️ girl yessss best decision EVER

  • @tenishabodden1433
    @tenishabodden1433 6 лет назад +3

    Literally did my big chop 5 days ago and I've been freaking out until I watched this video so thank you! I was transitioning as well and decided on my big chop for the same reasons you did, cut it exactly like yours and after watching a few of your videos I've realized that we basically have the exact same hair type/curl pattern so I'm really grateful to have stumbled upon your Instagram and your RUclips channel! You've given me some really great tips and in looking forward to embracing my natural hair and seeing what it looks like as it grows out!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      congrats on your big chop!! we on this journey together beauty! :)

  • @candybrooks9131
    @candybrooks9131 3 года назад +1

    I big chopped 2 months ago... unfortunately I didn’t leave much hair for styling so it’s been a uphill confidence battle... This video was very helpful and inspiring I’m going to try your routine along with the ACV rinse from your other video! Most importantly I’m going to start embracing this journey!!!

  • @melissacofield1
    @melissacofield1 5 лет назад +2

    I absolutely love this video! I am about two weeks out from my big chop appointment and I’m nervous and excited. I’ve been transitioning for 6 months and I am just ready to take the leap. This video confirms that I am making the right decision. Thank you!

  • @lloydaaliciagarrett6856
    @lloydaaliciagarrett6856 6 лет назад +8

    Your story is almost identical to mine. I was so curious about what my natural hair would look like and skipped two relaxers while braiding then from there proceeded to transition. Then one day I was trying to fix my hair bc I had a performance that night and the two textures were a nightmare omg. So my friend was like let me just cut it. Bam big chop with no time to panic. Hit the stage with my TWA and never looked back

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Lloyda Nicholas wow I love that!!! SOO BOLD! Congrats girl - just the beginning of the most amazing journey ❤️

  • @tinabillingsley1016
    @tinabillingsley1016 5 лет назад +2

    When I big chopped in February, I felt SO free and SO happy!

  • @nicolebutler4591
    @nicolebutler4591 4 года назад +1

    Just big chopped a month ago and you’re my favorite RUclips inspiration. I’m so excited to have found your channel! Thank you honey 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Sanvhill
    @Sanvhill 5 лет назад +1

    I wish I saw this video when I big chop back in Sept 2018. I was an emotional wreck although I watched many videos. What helped me embrace my hair was watching Napply Ever After. So inspirational. I will keep going my year is almost here and I still feel uncomfortable wearing my hair out. Well after this video it's time.

  • @playhaley
    @playhaley 4 года назад +1

    I just did a big chop😮 day 2. I'm in Colorado; its scary to think of the dry 😳 on dry challenge I'll have! sooo THX girly for sharing. I'm learning so much how to take care of my hair from your journey🥰

  • @brandyjasmin3695
    @brandyjasmin3695 3 года назад +1

    Thinking about big chop but im a little scared ..
    But now watching your vidéos makes me more confident and excited to do it
    I love your natural hair 💙

  • @Kim-ui7cv
    @Kim-ui7cv 6 лет назад +3

    Wow. Your story is so similar to mine. I’ve had long hair all my life and even though I’ve always been relaxed my hair has always been healthy but 8 months ago I decided to go natural. I plan on big chopping soon and even though I’m scared and never had short hair before I’m ready for a change. At first I thought I might look terrible with short hair but now I’m kinda like whatever I’m gonna work with what I get and love it lol Thanks for sharing ❤️

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      yes girl - I know you'll rock it!!! ❤️

  • @yehovagodisagapelove394
    @yehovagodisagapelove394 2 года назад

    Thank for sharing you personal circumstances surrounding your choice in taking care of yourself.
    I am glad that thankfukly your surgery went well ans you have recovered welll!

  • @JW-bk9qq
    @JW-bk9qq 6 лет назад +11

    Beautiful cut and what a face! Glad you are enjoying your natural journey. I am two months post big chop and loving it. This is my 4th big chop and the first big chop of my 30s. I have mostly received positive feedback from those around me but there has been some shade (mostly from men who knew me when I had a big shoulder length afro). I notice I am getting positive feedback and attention from male strangers. What has the feedback been from men who knew you with your long, relaxed hair? Love your channel! 💓💞💕

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +3

      Wow how exciting!! Girl, 9/10 men love it!! You know there'll always be that one.... but what matters most is that I love it :) Congrats on your 4th big chop - keep it going & let those curls flourish!!!

  • @stepheniechin7925
    @stepheniechin7925 6 лет назад +19

    Lol if someone told me that you were gonna big chop I would have laughed and lost a bet. It looks good on you baby cousin!!!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Stephenie Chin LOL I know right! Thank youuuu love youuu ❤️

    • @jaironfuentes761
      @jaironfuentes761 6 лет назад

      Stephenie Chin yes

    • @rashondadani
      @rashondadani 3 года назад

      You sound just like my family! Lol!!

  • @anachristina9543
    @anachristina9543 4 года назад

    I did the big chop this week and I am glad. My relaxer hair was not growing and my hair just looked horrible. I am soooo excited with this new journey, and it's all gone!!!! my hair is just real dry, my hair was super shiny I hope it comes back:)

  • @merylkaranja450
    @merylkaranja450 6 лет назад +8

    My mom won’t let me BC but I want to be free from the damaged ends. Transitioning is so hard and I want a change !! Love your hair btw😘

  • @ailishamacharia943
    @ailishamacharia943 6 лет назад +6

    Congratulations! Good luck on your hair journey :)

  • @sharonareid3316
    @sharonareid3316 6 лет назад +1

    Your tips are golden, I am about to get the big chop and because of your videos I am so looking forward to the journey to come. Thank you!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      yayyy good luck on your journey girl, enjoy every minute!!

    • @sharonareid3316
      @sharonareid3316 6 лет назад

      Alyssa Marie thank you. I did the big chop last Sunday and so far so good, enjoying every second of it so far. I am going through now getting to know which products will work for me, but the joy of just standing under the shower and wetting from head to toe is so golden.

  • @OnTheGoWithGlo
    @OnTheGoWithGlo 6 лет назад +3

    This is such an amazing video - and really encouraging!! I'm transitioning and considering cutting my hair - like tomorrow LOL!!!! Thanks so much for sharing I could really relate!! Also you hair is GORGEOUS and so are you!!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      yayyyyy how exciting!! thanks beautiful

  • @joshhutton9871
    @joshhutton9871 4 года назад +1

    I just big chopped today, lovely video

  • @marisaturner955
    @marisaturner955 5 лет назад

    From your pictures you were already beautiful but there is definitely another level of beauty revealed with your shorter hair!!! I'm almost a year into my natural journey, December will be a year. I was inspired by Amandla Stanberg's beautiful curls in the movie "Everything, Everything". Like you I was curious to see what my natural hair would look like after years of relaxed hair. I cut it off in 2003 but went back to a relaxed short haircut. I'm totally embracing it! I follow you now on Instagram and you are hairrrrrrrrr goals!!!!! Thanks for the tips, I think I'll try the side twists to add some style to my TWA.

  • @LightsCameraAshley
    @LightsCameraAshley 6 лет назад +3

    Yesss you are slaying your big chop! I hope mines look this good lol fingers crossed

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      thank you - i'm trying!! LOL girl you just gotta ROCK IT!!

  • @quintanar6878
    @quintanar6878 6 лет назад +2

    Big chopped in January. Loving the journey!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Quintana R. congratulations! such an awesome journey that we’re on together! 🤗❤️

  • @kaykaykunicornwright1909
    @kaykaykunicornwright1909 5 лет назад

    You look so beautiful, with long and short hair. You still you, and embraced yourself. Hair growth back, they come and go. We need to free ourselves from the society mind set. Love and beauty is within. People can dictate other about what beauty is, nobody's know what really beauty is. We are beautiful with or with out hair. While we worry about hair, and looks others are fighting for their life, due to cancer. Be free and be happy with yourself. Don't live for other. You are gorgeous.

  • @Prophetessgwb
    @Prophetessgwb 4 года назад

    Beautiful as you are I am back at this point of starting over. So I am natural now cut my hair.

  • @puterjess
    @puterjess 4 года назад

    I want to go to my stylist to get my big chop, hopefully she does as good of a job as yours does. Short hair looks so good on you

  • @freedom4moms437
    @freedom4moms437 4 года назад

    So excited your hair looks exactly like mine 😍 subscribed and I just big chopped for the 3rd time so I will be watching all the videos and I'm excited to watch your hair grow

  • @babygirl33499
    @babygirl33499 6 лет назад

    Thanks for documenting your big chop journey. Your videos have helped me deal with my own twa.

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      I love to hear this!!! Happy to have been able to help you out :)

  • @machellerichards540
    @machellerichards540 6 лет назад +1

    Currently relaxed but wanna go natural.... loving ur channel

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      Machelle Richards thank you! take the leap girl 😘

  • @3038leon
    @3038leon 3 года назад

    Love it video, I just did my big chop a week ago

  • @irieprendygal
    @irieprendygal 3 года назад

    Yup. You are gorgeous!

  • @AllThingsAMarie
    @AllThingsAMarie 4 года назад

    Your energy is so vibrant your jewelry is everything again your gorgeous. Ran across your page on IG I was thinking to myself she’s Gorgeous and her Hair is everything ❤️❤️ so glad your a RUclipsr. Appreciate all your tips and go toos Glad I subscribed ❤️❤️❤️ ps I’m terrified of the big chop I don’t know me and short short hair I’m just terrified lol

  • @tanicrossify
    @tanicrossify 4 года назад

    I will big chop this year again (I did it like 8+ years ago to have locs). I want to do something different with my hair. I planning to big chop in the third quarter of 2020, but maybe I do it before. Thanks for the ideas!

  • @emilykelly2146
    @emilykelly2146 6 лет назад +2

    Beautiful as ever!!

  • @TahitiaRose
    @TahitiaRose 6 лет назад +1

    New subscriber checking in! I love your channel and shirt hair looks bomb on you 😍. But can we talk about how much I’m loving the look of your bathroom 😩😂

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      hey girl heyyyy! thanks boo! hahahha thanks girl :D

  • @kimberlynichols706
    @kimberlynichols706 Год назад

    Just big chop and having trouble styling everyday. It's so flat when I wake up. Ugh. The first day it was so pretty

  • @britkneeheartsbeauty
    @britkneeheartsbeauty 5 лет назад

    I have cut my hair and worn a short pixie cute 2x and loved it. But I was relaxed during that time...Since 2013 I have been relaxer free and have had long-ish hair but I have damaged it from heat styling. I’m considering a big chop to start over and really get into my healthy hair journey but for some reason I just can’t pull the trigger and make an appointment or just take some clippers to my own dang head lol...weird how I have had short hair before and loved it but now I’m hesitant

  • @kreativeheart8598
    @kreativeheart8598 3 года назад

    Yours looks gorgeous. I did bc for the first time ever and I still don't know how to feel about it. I wish my forehead was small lol. I've been wearing wigs weaves extensions crochet twists. Ugh idk how to feel I just love long hair and honestly can't wait for it to grow back

  • @lloydaaliciagarrett6856
    @lloydaaliciagarrett6856 6 лет назад +1

    You look absolutely gorgeous

  • @andiswa8870
    @andiswa8870 6 лет назад +2

    I love your hair. I'm almost three months post big chop. It's my first big chop and I just wanted to know how you style your hair everyday

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      I have a video up on that now! ruclips.net/video/rjSfvByzdHM/видео.html hope it's helpful :)

  • @luxunleashed3404
    @luxunleashed3404 5 лет назад +3

    Just big chop, day 3 😩☺️

  • @indraevans340
    @indraevans340 4 года назад

    Im about to! so nervous... have all quarantine without relaxing my hair... so basically, last one was end Feb. im 4C not clear of porosity or what products to use... so nervous.. but will def do it.. best from Panama

  • @DIAMONDGIRL57
    @DIAMONDGIRL57 2 года назад

    You’re so inspiring!! Love ❤️ your channel!
    10/2021 - Two weeks in! Just completed a big chop of 24 inches to allow my natural grey to grow out after coloring so many years. Yes. I cut it myself! I just could not wait until my appointment scheduled for 12/1/2021.

  • @emya.9885
    @emya.9885 4 года назад

    It is very freeing, I have chopped my hair twice and I loved it. I am again thinking of doing a third chop. lol

  • @tiondramarkwell4926
    @tiondramarkwell4926 5 лет назад

    I love this so much thank you so much for this video!!!

  • @ImCourtneyLove
    @ImCourtneyLove 6 лет назад +1

    I been thinking about big chopping for a while now but I’m sooooo scared! It’s crazy because I’ve cut my hair before in the style Rihanna had in her take a bow video, but This here just scares the crap out of me lol (btw new subbie)

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      girlll i was SOOO scared too! but now that i've done it I actually wish I'd done it sooner!!

  • @mckaylapadgett9189
    @mckaylapadgett9189 5 лет назад

    My big chop is next month on the 24th I’m ready but nervous is crap 😭😭 but you look beautiful 😍😍🤩🤩

  • @hannahpowers1688
    @hannahpowers1688 5 лет назад +1

    I want to big chop so bad.. but i'm SO SCARED. What if i look stupid, or what if i get made fun of, or what if when its growing out it looks stupid as so i have to cut it again to make it not look as stupid? :,(

  • @yajairapineda6163
    @yajairapineda6163 6 лет назад +1

    I’m thinking about it

  • @sorasgirl0
    @sorasgirl0 6 лет назад +1

    I got my last perm in sometime in August of 2017. I've been transitioning since then! And I use absolutely NO HEAT on my hair, other than to deep condition. I exclusively air dry. Transitioning is HARD, and I hate it! I have a ton of hair and my natural hair is trying to break out, but my relaxed hair keeps holding it back. I have tons of knots and tangles every time I wash, and it makes me not want to wash my hair because I lose so much with every wash. I was planning on doing the BC in mid may, around my birthday, but half of me wants to do it at the end of this month (march) or the beginning of April. What has stopped me from cutting it already is what stops everyone else haha...I'm scared. I've had long hair all my life, and I'm just scared of the BC. And I'm scared I won't know how to style my hair and it'll be all hard and ratchet looking haha. I don't wear wigs or any sort of fake hair, so I will really have to own my hair once I cut it. I dunno. Going through some back and forth at this point, but it surely will happen one day. The idea of going back to a perm makes me sick! Anyway, that's my story haha! I can't wait to be as free as you!

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Ichimatsu Matsuno thanks for sharing your story! I loveeee the hear these! Girlll step out of that comfort zone! I’ll also continue to share my hair journey on RUclips so maybe that can help you to be a little more informed and comfortable with the BC. You’ll feel it when the time is right ❤️

  • @RachelFengthekawaiiotaku
    @RachelFengthekawaiiotaku 6 лет назад

    Your accent is so cute. I love it!

  • @ten4791
    @ten4791 4 года назад

    I’ve bee thinking about big chopping for a while now. I have some heat damage and I feel like my hair is just uneven all around and I’m over it! I already chopped off the back because my wash and go’s were curly at the top and straight at the bottom so I chopped off the back on Friday. Tomorrow I am going to get the rest chopped off but I am nervous! I just hope I can rock it

  • @brittnynelson2663
    @brittnynelson2663 6 лет назад +1

    So cute!

  • @shelleytart1050
    @shelleytart1050 6 лет назад

    Your hair cut is beautiful

  • @kimberlygoodall3747
    @kimberlygoodall3747 4 года назад

    Hi Alyssa. Planning to do a big chop! Will let you know how it goes

  • @keshiachenault1667
    @keshiachenault1667 5 лет назад

    So glad I found your channel. Do you mind sharing who your hairstylist is? I love your cut!

  • @jadebrown6499
    @jadebrown6499 6 лет назад

    Your hair looks gorgeous❤️ I been thinking about cutting my hair for the summer. But where did you get your necklace from?

  • @EverybodyLovesJess
    @EverybodyLovesJess 6 лет назад +1

    Hi Alyssa i enjoyed the video im 5 months transitioning and im thinking on the big chop kinda nervous tho

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      thank you - I was nervous too, but looking back it's the best decision I've ever made!

    • @EverybodyLovesJess
      @EverybodyLovesJess 6 лет назад +1

      Alyssa Marie hey I actually did it finally on july 1 its on my channel I recorded it and omg I feel so free love my short hair I think ima really enjoy each stage I go through with my natural hair

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Angel GRAVES ahhhh congrats girly!!! 😍

    • @EverybodyLovesJess
      @EverybodyLovesJess 6 лет назад

      Alyssa Marie Thank you❤❤

  • @enoabasiharris9586
    @enoabasiharris9586 3 года назад

    You're always beautiful

  • @alonator09
    @alonator09 6 лет назад

    just big chopped a few days ago after being 3 years natural. No point in holding on to damaged hair (:

  • @pamelalynch2580
    @pamelalynch2580 6 лет назад

    Hi I am currently transitioning (3 months in) and I really want to give up. Your video was encouraging but I am not sure if it was enough. September 5 when I take some time off I will decide to chop or relax because the two textures are too much. I live in Japan so I really hope I can find a salon that will chop my hair if i chose that.

  • @pollabeauty
    @pollabeauty 5 лет назад

    u look so beautiful n i love yo subtle makeup.. whats the lipstick shade here?

  • @itssimplyveee
    @itssimplyveee 6 лет назад

    I’m ready for the chop

  • @Yulii02
    @Yulii02 5 лет назад

    Wow you just told my story 😍😍

  • @russiamartin
    @russiamartin 4 года назад

    I really need your advice I have tried everything I tried all the oils coconut oil Jamaican oil peppermint oil tea tree oil oil sheen sprayed water and used eco gel and nothing isn't working

  • @lisarowe2826
    @lisarowe2826 6 лет назад +1

    Beautiful..what products do u use?....

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      thank you! i've mentioned them in the video & listed them above

  • @shelleytart1050
    @shelleytart1050 6 лет назад

    I'm almost 4 months post big chop and my hair is just still so dry looking.

  • @hdhshshjisjsjshshsh9516
    @hdhshshjisjsjshshsh9516 6 лет назад +3

    What’s her hair type

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад

      good question - I can't figure it out!! lol someone once said 3C?? idk

  • @tobilobafanikayode1788
    @tobilobafanikayode1788 6 лет назад +1

    do you use a hair dryer after the wash? or do you just air dry?

    • @AlyssaMarieXo
      @AlyssaMarieXo  6 лет назад +1

      Tobiloba Fanikayode mostly air dry! sometimes I’ll use a diffuser so it stops dripping

  • @Supermalt-w9q
    @Supermalt-w9q 3 года назад

    I big chop after I washed my hair, and saw my curly new growth with straight ends. It looked so ugly. It had to be done

  • @estephanyandujar
    @estephanyandujar 5 лет назад

    Que linda eres y te queda bello tu corte 👌

  • @modqueen9905
    @modqueen9905 6 лет назад

    I big chopped about a week ago so I can totally relate to all you have said. It was scary but also felt so free. I didn't realize how naturally curly my hair was ( I just thought it was nappy - hence perming it since I was 14..LOL) but it's actually a great grade of hair. I am offended though as some people who see me think I have a texturizer in my hair? Why would I say I want to go natual, chopped off all of hair and put a chemical back on my TWA? I guess some people think black folks can't have good grade of hair without chemicals? smh

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 4 года назад

    😍

  • @poppytree1909
    @poppytree1909 5 лет назад

    What Salon did you Big Chop at?

  • @sharongreaves2061
    @sharongreaves2061 5 лет назад

    What is your hair type?

  • @lindayarrington5754
    @lindayarrington5754 6 лет назад

    What kinda cam u use ??

  • @britaniquejailee
    @britaniquejailee 4 года назад

    Are you Jamaican?