A prenup is like a seat belt. No one wants to crash their car but it still happens. When it does happen, you'll be glad you had the prenup because that prevented you from getting seriously hurt. If you never use the seatbelt then it was just there and it had no effect on your experience. No harm no foul. It's better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it.
It would be fine with me. I have a few million and a lady friend has almost double what I have. I would want prenups to protect both of our assets. In 10 years she may have 4 times what I have and that’s cool, but I could have more than her.
A professional fighter never gets into the ring without a signed contract explaining how things will be paid. Never give a ring without talking and having both her lawyer and your lawyer break down the rules of prior assets. That said, when you marry you marry the Government. A judge can throw out a prenup. Talk to multiple lawyers.
When she's presented with a prenup, she MUST have an attorney review it with her, in detail. If this step doesn't happen, the prenup can easily be voided by the judge in a later divorce proceedingf.
@@altratronic it's also a good idea to tape the sign-off with both attorneys present to prevent parties from saying that they sign the prenup under duress.
Great post. It's a real tragedy that most guys think a prenup is the answer, when, like you stated, a judge can throw out even the best written prenup(s). Unfortunately, IMO, American divorce law system does not help people, it exists to financially subsidize itself.
The way I see it, a prenup is like insurance. You have it to protect everything you bring to the table incase it may get lost in a fire (divorce).If you decide you no longer need the insurance then get rid of it later down the line.
He's only worth 1 million. Despite what you think about millionaires generally, guys with just 1 million aren't that different from the rest of us with less than 1 million.
Haha when he said that I had a flashback of a rant he had where he was shouting at the camera saying “I’M RICH!!!!” Because he was talking about how his plan works or something about people not trusting his process haha
"She doesn't seem like that kind of woman" Until she realized he has a $1M net worth. No need to get married -- if she's going to be with him, she will.
J Williams- yep!! Why rush getting married! If she is truly frugal and down to earth she will be with you regardless, and will be willing to sign a prenup if she knows you have that type of net worth. I’m in a similar situation with my BF. My net worth isn’t 1M but it’s sizable for my age. His is over 1M and we have already agreed if we are to ever marry, than there will definitely be a prenup involved. It’s just out of respect to everything he’s worked for all those years.
TenksILike2Ple so they have always been able to do that. So nothings changed. There are 7 legal reasons that prenups get tossed. But if you avoid those 7 *might be 5 cant remember* you are golden. (Rules post money action also matter).
Because it would make Dave a hypocrite all of his assets are locked in trusts and llcs, he has said this on air before. That is what this guy needs to do not get prenup. A judge can throw out prenup. Dude needs to sit down with asset protection lawyer and set up some trust and llcs and throw his stuff in them before marriage.
That's my sweet nephew! He has always had a good head on his shoulders, so I trust his judgement. Hes been through a lot; learned a lot of life's hard lessons, and I know that he is surrounded by a loving family and extended loving family members, who will be honest with him, and will support him in his final decision on this matter.
You only see how nice a woman truly is in divorce court. It's also not whether you trust her but whether you trust the lawyer who gets her in a room or the judge who decides everything. Also if she's not in it for the money what's the harm in signing the prenup?
A guy who is worth 50 million and loses half his wealth in divorce will be alright. But the average man who makes 50,000 a year loses half his wealth he will never recover.
ilumix led so never get married? Cause I’m 17 and in my head 200k portfolio is from 20-30 minimal (for dividends) (financial goal) I’m not ready to lose half aka 5 years when after 200k the snow ball affect takes place...
It's hard to get married when one doesn't have enough money but even harder when there's too much! Anyway as for me, prenuptial is fine. It's his hard earned wealth even before the other became part of his life.
Am I crazy or did he just say a million? They're talking like he said 10. Dude get the prenup. You don't have enough to give away half. I can't believe this is even a question.
**He is about to play the roulette wheel**. *If he does marry her , THAT PRENUP ALWAYS NEEDS TO STAY WRITTEN IN STONE* . One thing that makes this case interesting is that she is frugal . However , **he is about to play a game where the odds are stacked extremely against him** !! .
@@GallivantA I encourage you to read a book called "The Millionaire Next Door." Yes! The divorce rate is high, however, it's extremely lower than %50 amongst millionaires. The truth is that people who when with money stay happily married more than people who don't.
Even if both are Christians, just because of how toxic the legal environment is for divorce, a prenup should be considered even if ruled out. Also, proposing after 6 months is just plain stupid nowadays. We must be as "shrewd as serpents" in this kind of environment we're in as godly men.
Don’t get a sunset clause which erases the prenup after a certain period. If you get a prenup that ends at year 10, when year 9 comes around, all of a sudden it will force you to reevaluate your marriage in an unhealthy way. Divorce lawyers actually advise against it for that reason.
You don't truly know somebody, until you divorce them. You can't control what other people do and it's hardly rare for somebody to get tired of you over the course of half of a century. How could you NOT get a prenup in 2020? Even if you're broke now....do you plan to be broke forever?
True story!! 6 months really isn’t long enough to know someone well enough to get married, honestly. I mean, some people take that chance...in that case I’d DEFINITELY recommend a prenup with that much $!
3:19 It's not about not loving them enough, it's about them being able to take money from you, as well as your future earnings at any time for any reason or no reason, thus crippling your ability to build wealth just cos you banged someone so hard they can't work anymore.
Marriage is about joining lives, body and soul. If the respect you or any man has for his *wife* extends to banging “someone so hard they can’t work anymore,” perhaps such men should stick to prostitutes.
But they always have the option to take money from you, as well as your future earnings at any time for any reason or no reason, thus crippling your ability to build wealth just cos "you have to pay alimony to someone you aren't romantically involved with". Happy now?? You used the fact that I said banged so hard she can't work anymore as an excuse to not address my point at all.
Xmoonxbabyx I would agree with you, but I’m more of a practical kinda guy. I’m trying to be objective about this whole thing. She possesses a lot of characteristics that anyone would want in a spouse.
Get the prenuptial, however much she is down to earth. People change, goals don’t always align, Dave is right, there are always crazy bob’s in everyone’s family. Should divorce ever come up, do you think she’ll think about you or listen to her family?
Men need to get it out of their head that they met "The one" or that "The one" can be met so early in a relationship. He feels that way because they are in the honeymoon phase. It would be foolish to marry so quickly. He needs to wait and get to know her some more and go through some tough times to she how she handles struggle together as a unit.
Why wouldn't you have a prenup signed? What's the purpose of not having it? It's all pros and no cons. I do agree with Dave on the ending part, there's no way this will be kept a secret. Within a few years her family will know about it. The girl immediately went up to defend his girlfriend, she does this because if she finds herself in this situation she wants dibs on that money and she wants to know about it. The girl can be normal now but family, friends, and the attorney will have a very strong influence on her. If the people close to her life tell her something, she will listen. It's almost impossible for a woman not too.
I live in Oregon(non-communitive property) I have $17,000 saved in my bank right now. If my boyfriend and I got married tomorrow, that amount of money will always stay mine correct? But after tomorrow....whatever we earn is ours. But if we got divorced, whatever we made gets Split 50/50? Correct? But he's also $50,000 in student loan debt....I would get half that debt to huh or no?
@Sir We Are About to Dieokay that all makes sense👌 But no I'm not in ANY debt...I hate debt. But my boyfriend is $47,000 student loan debt(he already consolidated-which means it's down to just 2 big loans together), so if we got divorced, would I the ex-wife get Half that debt responsibility?🤔😕
If divorce court was actually equitable, all of this tactical planning would not be necessary. I advise this man to stay single. If he wants children and decides to marry, the prenuptial agreement goes without saying. People can and do change. Particularly women.
Agreed. He's also crazy to be thinking about marriage after only 6 months of dating. Women can sometimes take years before they show you their craziness.
I agree get a prenup, I'm a woman and right what is mine is my hubby's. Now, I will tell my daughter you , will need a prenup or no inheritance. Why, because I see the person's family she is going with , only wants to have fun in life.
Mannnn! This conversation is what "Coming To America" (with Eddie Murphy) was MADE for! Sit her down and watch the movie one night. And then either make comments during the movie or talk about it afterward in an off-handed way. The truth of her perspective and beliefs will come out before the night's through!
It's gonna come up when when her family/friends get worried about him buying an expensive toy/vacation and her telling them not to worry because he can afford it. Hope her family/friends are in a good position as well, he didn't say if she has a good career as well or if she flips burgers at McDonald's
Better get that pre-nupt.... Listen to Uncle Dave... NOT the young lady protecting her “sister”. If your girl doesn’t agree with your pre-nupt....she’s not the girl you think she is..And yeah.. it’s “our money” while you are still married... NOT when u get divorced..
I am a very independent and really good with money. But, trust me, I will spend $$$ when I know my husband has the means and we can afford it. Listen to Papa Dave!
Would anyone risk 1000,000 in a 50/50 chance. As an example my wife makes way way more than I. She been working her whole life and has her future set. I was broke when we meet. Not now but I was when we were dating. So I offer her to make a prenup if she wanted to feel safe. She said that she would ask a lawyer to make one but she never did or even mention it again.
Wait, I thought pre-marriage wealth is safe as long as you keep that money sepearate from your marital wealth? It is only susceptible to be a part of divorce settlement if you mix those finances with anything you earn after marriage or you deliberately move that money into joint account or add your spouse's name to that account. Is this not true?
Despite what people say thats perfectly fine too brother. You should be the source of your own happiness and you should be your top priority. If someday you meet someone who you’d like to marry thats great but if not thats great too. I wish society wouldn’t pressure men so hard who decide against marriage.
If you get married young with no assets there is nothing to fight about because you violate it together. I think marrying young is beneficial for being able to grow together and build a life. I think that once you get assets you have to consider a prenup unless she/he can bring the same amount of assets. Or enough assets that would be benificial🤷🏻♀️ Goes both ways though if she/he has assets and children from previous marriage those assets need to go to her/his children because that’s their inheritance.
Prenup in this day and age is mandatory the thing is time..people change how she is now doesnt mean she will be the same in 5yrs or 10yrs etc its a fact of life everyone changes
Agreed. I didn’t have one during my first marriage (I was only 23, fresh out of school), but you better believe if I ever marry again, there will most definitely be one!
Good grief!!! If you have to ask, you're in trouble already. The question should be: do you need marriage? For men in the 21st Century, getting married is near certain financial ruin. No wife, no kids, no alimony, no child support, no debt. Happily single, and debt free!!!! That is true freedom! "BLOW ME UP TOM!" Thank you Dad! hahaaaaaaaaa!
Dave, i have 2 properties in toronto. Each about 1 mill each. And i make an income of $6,300 per month from rent. My income is 50k per year but will go up. (I also have a hefty savings). I hate having to think about prenups but it's so hard to trust peoples intentions..(not neccesarily the significant other but their family). Do i make them sign a prenup?
I am sorry but I don't have extreme wealth about 65k at 40 if I married another at the same age with a negative net worth or different spending habits. I want a prenup...But really even if they have 1mil because that is not an infinite amount of money and if he spends like crazy he doesn't know what its like to live on a low income if his luck changes
@glorymanheretosleep Wealthy people want children to pass their legacy down to. All that money not worth it, when you die and the state benefits off of it. Dave has 3 kids and grandchildren. So all these wealthy men need wives to bare their children. At least you can control the money and household with a wife, opposed to paying child support to a baby mama where a judge will controls the amount.
WISHBONEL7 maybe, but he lives modestly and drives and old Jeep, so maybe not. My wife doesn’t know our net worth, and I’ve told her several times. All she cares about is the emergency fund.
This is a no-brainer. Pre-nup or no ring. You earned that on your own and should keep it if you insist on the state getting involved in your life. The woman you divorce is never the woman you marry. You need to give your friend a hug because he obviously cares about you.
Why is being bound to a person worth all of this stress? Why not keep things separate and live in together and if you don’t get along move on no strings attached...as a man who is financially well off you can have a harem (if you wanted or NOT) of 20 somethings almost indefinitely. 35 is too young to settle in your situation imho. Good luck.
Best thing is to wait at least a year get to know each other more then tell her about your finances see how she reacts then date alittle more if you listen to her you should be able to tell starts with the wedding you said she was good with her finances but does she want to go all out now BEWARE
Agree with the coach and love the sunset clause. A prenup is buying a blue chip stock and choosing not to invest in a penny stock. The penny stock could be valuable. You never know and want stability. If I had any reserve, I wouldn't get married. Divorces are expensive, time-consuming and distract from jobs and interests. Prenups benefit from massive wealth differences~ It creates power balance because it clears things up. A spouse who doesn't want drama would respect that. I would never tell my family about my partner's net worth because of again crazy people that my family is with. They may not see the motives of a toxic person first. It's interesting because my cousin would see the prenup as ending the marriage. After all, there is no trust. She would never do it.
Prenup is for everyone rich or poor dont get confused everyone should have one Marriage together contract agreement Divorce separation contract agreement The 1st thing you need in a prenup is A clause that says you pay your lawyer and I will pay mine We're marrying for love right...??? So if it ends we both pay our own way out or learn the hard way in the end the most income person will be required to pay for both lawyers weather your rich or poor... Which is usually the guy because most women marry up not down... as they should... Then both put x amount in an account before marriage and you both know the amount and agree i cant touch this account and neither can you and that money is deemed mine no matter what after the divorce as long as i dont touch it outside of emergencies Same with any certain assests or property Add a clause in divorce all property and assets will be sold and split no one gets everything... Or the lower income person will take everything in the end... Then start fresh in your marriage from their and split anything after that if the marriage falls apart before 5 or 10 years And if your partner does not agree to a prenup.... RUNNNNNNNNNNNN DONT LISTEN TO FEELINGS OR ANY FAMILY OR FRIENDS OR MOVIE'S OR SOCIAL MEDIA Telling you fake fantasy Or you dont really love someone Or thats not a real marriage Or etc They're lying to you RUNNNN When dating and marriage comes up own it early Are you guys getting married Do you ever want to get married Yes we're gonna get our basic prenup and get married I can't wait i love her with a smil and be happy talk about the what ifs sign it and get married Laugh it off and keep it moving The earlier you talk about it and make it what it is The better Puts the pressure on the other person Hey i told you from the start i want to get married with a prenup Yes im broker or richer than you but i require it like i said when we started dating Nothing new... Now you dont love me...?? And dont want to sign a prenup...?? Marriage is a business to every woman when it ends !!! Dont let Disney full you !!! That's why you sign a marriage certificate / contract So sign your break-up contract To make both contracts official and talk to divorced men for advice only before getting married if you are the male or female bread winner Good luck out there Lastly check the lead attorney RUclips channel tons of info
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The girlfriend calls dave tomorrow, and has the same conversation
LOL
she has more than a million
If that is the case , then he definitely has the right woman.
What are the odds lol. That would be hilarious
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"Shes really down to earth". It's her attorney that has a vicious nature.
Good one ☝️ @DennisNelson
The attorney will try to take everything from the man just to get that juicy commission.
SysPowerTools agreed! If you marry an America woman 👩 get a prenuptial agreement
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Yep.
A prenup is like a seat belt. No one wants to crash their car but it still happens. When it does happen, you'll be glad you had the prenup because that prevented you from getting seriously hurt. If you never use the seatbelt then it was just there and it had no effect on your experience. No harm no foul. It's better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it.
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Michael Jordan had one and he still paid out a lot.
He said she’s low maintenance and that’s half of the appeal 😂😂🤣
same with my girl thats half her appeal. other women seem cringey now
You’d be surprised how hard it is to find someone low maintenance in this era of Instagram and Facebook.
Yeah I caught that I was like wow
That’s wise. Getting married is dumb.
Hard to find these days.
"like she has an iphone 6" IM STILL LAUGHING😂😂😂
Typing this on my iPhone se
Rambo She’s not real smart. The 6s is the oldest model still getting security updates.
Why is that funny? This is an I phone 4.
What's funny. I'm worth $36k at 19 and still have an iphone 6. Its screen is busted as heck! aha
Jon Young I’m guessing he’s not laughing at the fact it’s ah iPhone 6 but that’s the metric he’s using to measure her frugality.
That’d be funny if he ask her and turns out she’s worth 10 million.
It would be fine with me. I have a few million and a lady friend has almost double what I have. I would want prenups to protect both of our assets. In 10 years she may have 4 times what I have and that’s cool, but I could have more than her.
@@retiredmanager510 sounds like u wanna marry this lady friend LOL
I was thinking the same thing. A million at 35 is a lot and also not a lot depending on where the money is and where you are...
In USA, mans money is their money, wifes money is her money. Yes, thats how it works here, so even if she has 10 billion, he wont see a cent of it
Edge HODL hmmmm.
A professional fighter never gets into the ring without a signed contract explaining how things will be paid. Never give a ring without talking and having both her lawyer and your lawyer break down the rules of prior assets. That said, when you marry you marry the Government. A judge can throw out a prenup. Talk to multiple lawyers.
When she's presented with a prenup, she MUST have an attorney review it with her, in detail. If this step doesn't happen, the prenup can easily be voided by the judge in a later divorce proceedingf.
@@altratronic it's also a good idea to tape the sign-off with both attorneys present to prevent parties from saying that they sign the prenup under duress.
Yes yes and yes. You want to do it right!
Great advice in here
Great post. It's a real tragedy that most guys think a prenup is the answer, when, like you stated, a judge can throw out even the best written prenup(s). Unfortunately, IMO, American divorce law system does not help people, it exists to financially subsidize itself.
The way I see it, a prenup is like insurance. You have it to protect everything you bring to the table incase it may get lost in a fire (divorce).If you decide you no longer need the insurance then get rid of it later down the line.
Least this millionaire sounds legit and not on here to boast. Well done
He's only worth 1 million. Despite what you think about millionaires generally, guys with just 1 million aren't that different from the rest of us with less than 1 million.
@@sirjezzumz Here's the kicker: at age 35!!!
@@sirjezzumz Yeah basically the difference is that the person with that $1M net worth is really cheap.
THE KICKER!!!!
What Premarital classes have they done? Dating is WAY different than planning a marriage/life together!
Dave: "I don't discuss my wealth with family."
Dave: Next caller. "I have 100's of millions of dollars in paid for cash real estate."
Chuck Scharnhorst 😂🤣😂
I love Dave anytime he says that, it is truly always energizing but this comment is hilarious😀😀😀
Haha when he said that I had a flashback of a rant he had where he was shouting at the camera saying “I’M RICH!!!!” Because he was talking about how his plan works or something about people not trusting his process haha
That's not misquoting at all is it
6 months 😂 get that prenuptial brother the new 20/20Norm
AGREED!!! You’ll be relieved that you did!
"She doesn't seem like that kind of woman" Until she realized he has a $1M net worth. No need to get married -- if she's going to be with him, she will.
J Williams- yep!! Why rush getting married! If she is truly frugal and down to earth she will be with you regardless, and will be willing to sign a prenup if she knows you have that type of net worth. I’m in a similar situation with my BF. My net worth isn’t 1M but it’s sizable for my age. His is over 1M and we have already agreed if we are to ever marry, than there will definitely be a prenup involved. It’s just out of respect to everything he’s worked for all those years.
TenksILike2Ple so they have always been able to do that. So nothings changed. There are 7 legal reasons that prenups get tossed. But if you avoid those 7 *might be 5 cant remember* you are golden. (Rules post money action also matter).
Make sure it’s an airtight prenup because a lot aren’t upheld in court
Doesn't matter how much of a sweetheart she is now when things are good. People can become monsters in divorce court lol
Any scorned woman is dangerous. Never under estimate.
First time I've heard Dave say yes to a prenup and not call the guy a little boy
Because it would make Dave a hypocrite all of his assets are locked in trusts and llcs, he has said this on air before. That is what this guy needs to do not get prenup. A judge can throw out prenup. Dude needs to sit down with asset protection lawyer and set up some trust and llcs and throw his stuff in them before marriage.
He’s recently caught wind of our comments. Man bashing
He is right about the family comimg out the woodworks when you got something even a little bit.
@@Jay-om8gr haha that's true
Sounds like he had a taste of a red pill...but his wife took it away before he could swallow it all.
Relationships are not guaranteed, it's only good for the immediate moment, therefore they can fall apart anytime. Get a prenup, etc
That's my sweet nephew! He has always had a good head on his shoulders, so I trust his judgement. Hes been through a lot; learned a lot of life's hard lessons, and I know that he is surrounded by a loving family and extended loving family members, who will be honest with him, and will support him in his final decision on this matter.
u know the caller?
Remember what you said when he is in divorce court. Because none of his Loving family and friends will be around. Idiot.
Did he propose?
You only see how nice a woman truly is in divorce court. It's also not whether you trust her but whether you trust the lawyer who gets her in a room or the judge who decides everything. Also if she's not in it for the money what's the harm in signing the prenup?
I wouldn't worry about hiding wealth, but more about protecting it.
0:52 Cristy cracks up when he says being low-maintenance is half of his girl's appeal. I cracked up too 🤣🤣
A guy who is worth 50 million and loses half his wealth in divorce will be alright. But the average man who makes 50,000 a year loses half his wealth he will never recover.
Mikaya Cox facts! Thanks for being honest.
That’s not the point.
ilumix led so never get married?
Cause I’m 17 and in my head 200k portfolio is from 20-30 minimal (for dividends) (financial goal)
I’m not ready to lose half aka 5 years when after 200k the snow ball affect takes place...
@@Mistyfgdf Yes! Never get married. I learned the hard way.
no hulk hogan is worth a least 50 m & divorce about wiped him out-the more money you have the more brutal the divorce unless she has alot of money too
It's hard to get married when one doesn't have enough money but even harder when there's too much!
Anyway as for me, prenuptial is fine. It's his hard earned wealth even before the other became part of his life.
Am I crazy or did he just say a million? They're talking like he said 10. Dude get the prenup. You don't have enough to give away half. I can't believe this is even a question.
Get the prenup done bro! She can change her mind at any moment and take 50% of what is YOURS!
I would say the same if it was her calling.
"You don't wanna put the money before the relationship"
What relationship? They've known each other for 6 months...
**He is about to play the roulette wheel**. *If he does marry her , THAT PRENUP ALWAYS NEEDS TO STAY WRITTEN IN STONE* .
One thing that makes this case interesting is that she is frugal . However , **he is about to play a game where the odds are stacked extremely against him** !! .
@Star Gazer
"If it were only love the government would not be involved."
Dang! Never thought about it that way before...!
By the way that was 15 years ago when 2 million was actually worth something. Now it barely buys cat food..
@@cerbico12 Brother that isn't true at all lol.
@@GallivantA I encourage you to read a book called "The Millionaire Next Door." Yes! The divorce rate is high, however, it's extremely lower than %50 amongst millionaires. The truth is that people who when with money stay happily married more than people who don't.
Even if both are Christians, just because of how toxic the legal environment is for divorce, a prenup should be considered even if ruled out. Also, proposing after 6 months is just plain stupid nowadays. We must be as "shrewd as serpents" in this kind of environment we're in as godly men.
We tend to forget that sometimes people change good, bad, or indifferent. It's normally others that influence perception.
If you ain’t no punk holla *”WE WANT PRENUP”*
We want Prenup! Yeah! ✊
It’s something that you need to have, cause when she leaves your a$& she’s gonna leave with half.
Shaundra Fairfield 18 years, 18 years and on the 18th birthday found out it wasn’t his?
YehhH!!!
Don’t get a sunset clause which erases the prenup after a certain period. If you get a prenup that ends at year 10, when year 9 comes around, all of a sudden it will force you to reevaluate your marriage in an unhealthy way. Divorce lawyers actually advise against it for that reason.
"Well im very private about that"
I guess she doesn't realize people can always tell
Nothing you made prior to the marriage is subject to split, unless you get stupid and commingle the assets.
You sure about that bud.
At least this caller sounds legit. Not a 14 year old millionaire worried about leasing a car.
You don't truly know somebody, until you divorce them. You can't control what other people do and it's hardly rare for somebody to get tired of you over the course of half of a century. How could you NOT get a prenup in 2020? Even if you're broke now....do you plan to be broke forever?
Yes get one! You haven’t dated too long, trust me. I would if I were you. People change and you may grow apart.
True story!! 6 months really isn’t long enough to know someone well enough to get married, honestly. I mean, some people take that chance...in that case I’d DEFINITELY recommend a prenup with that much $!
It would have been nice to know what she does for a living because some people are living frugally because they have no other option.
3:19 It's not about not loving them enough, it's about them being able to take money from you, as well as your future earnings at any time for any reason or no reason, thus crippling your ability to build wealth just cos you banged someone so hard they can't work anymore.
Marriage is about joining lives, body and soul. If the respect you or any man has for his *wife* extends to banging “someone so hard they can’t work anymore,” perhaps such men should stick to prostitutes.
But they always have the option to take money from you, as well as your future earnings at any time for any reason or no reason, thus crippling your ability to build wealth just cos "you have to pay alimony to someone you aren't romantically involved with". Happy now?? You used the fact that I said banged so hard she can't work anymore as an excuse to not address my point at all.
Only six months. Prenup needed. Your still in the lovey dovey feelings.
100% correct....
Xmoonxbabyx I would agree with you, but I’m more of a practical kinda guy. I’m trying to be objective about this whole thing. She possesses a lot of characteristics that anyone would want in a spouse.
A prenup is very important!
He should place the majority of his assets in an irrevocable trust NOW.
100%
Get the prenuptial, however much she is down to earth. People change, goals don’t always align, Dave is right, there are always crazy bob’s in everyone’s family. Should divorce ever come up, do you think she’ll think about you or listen to her family?
I think he should tell her about the money if she agrees to marry him and after pre marriage counseling, not before. A pre nup is a must. ✅
Men need to get it out of their head that they met "The one" or that "The one" can be met so early in a relationship. He feels that way because they are in the honeymoon phase. It would be foolish to marry so quickly. He needs to wait and get to know her some more and go through some tough times to she how she handles struggle together as a unit.
She has a iPhone 6 🤣🤣😂🤣😂
me to 6s plus with 60k in the bank
It's hilarious that that's how we measure that nowadays lol
Why wouldn't you have a prenup signed? What's the purpose of not having it? It's all pros and no cons. I do agree with Dave on the ending part, there's no way this will be kept a secret. Within a few years her family will know about it. The girl immediately went up to defend his girlfriend, she does this because if she finds herself in this situation she wants dibs on that money and she wants to know about it.
The girl can be normal now but family, friends, and the attorney will have a very strong influence on her. If the people close to her life tell her something, she will listen. It's almost impossible for a woman not too.
Anything that you earn while married is mutual. Anything before should be protected by the prenup.
I live in Oregon(non-communitive property) I have $17,000 saved in my bank right now.
If my boyfriend and I got married tomorrow, that amount of money will always stay mine correct? But after tomorrow....whatever we earn is ours. But if we got divorced, whatever we made gets Split 50/50? Correct? But he's also $50,000 in student loan debt....I would get half that debt to huh or no?
@Sir We Are About to Dieokay that all makes sense👌
But no I'm not in ANY debt...I hate debt. But my boyfriend is $47,000 student loan debt(he already consolidated-which means it's down to just 2 big loans together), so if we got divorced, would I the ex-wife get Half that debt responsibility?🤔😕
If divorce court was actually equitable, all of this tactical planning would not be necessary. I advise this man to stay single. If he wants children and decides to marry, the prenuptial agreement goes without saying. People can and do change. Particularly women.
Agreed. He's also crazy to be thinking about marriage after only 6 months of dating. Women can sometimes take years before they show you their craziness.
I would tell her and give her another 6 months and feel it out
100% chance that girl's family will eventually do the math about his rental properties and realize he has money.
Prenup allllll the way.
I agree get a prenup, I'm a woman and right what is mine is my hubby's. Now, I will tell my daughter you , will need a prenup or no inheritance. Why, because I see the person's family she is going with , only wants to have fun in life.
Mannnn! This conversation is what "Coming To America" (with Eddie Murphy) was MADE for!
Sit her down and watch the movie one night. And then either make comments during the movie or talk about it afterward in an off-handed way.
The truth of her perspective and beliefs will come out before the night's through!
This is a great idea! And if she truly loves and respects this man, she will sign one without hesitation.
Every thing you made before the relation ship is yours,everything during the relationship is half.
Have you seen how divorces really work?
Honestly that would be fair but from what I have seen it’s the exact opposite
It's gonna come up when when her family/friends get worried about him buying an expensive toy/vacation and her telling them not to worry because he can afford it.
Hope her family/friends are in a good position as well, he didn't say if she has a good career as well or if she flips burgers at McDonald's
if u have to ask, then yes u do lol
Answer: yes.
Just don’t take no chances fellas if u think u need it get it 🤷🏼♂️
If they don’t disclose it the family doesn’t find out.
No one knows how much you make or what you have if it doesn’t come from you.
Yeah..right😂
Better get that pre-nupt.... Listen to Uncle Dave... NOT the young lady protecting her “sister”. If your girl doesn’t agree with your pre-nupt....she’s not the girl you think she is..And yeah.. it’s “our money” while you are still married... NOT when u get divorced..
I am a very independent and really good with money.
But, trust me, I will spend $$$ when I know my husband has the means and we can afford it. Listen to Papa Dave!
There's no reason for the prenup to erode. By the same logic of he should love her more than his money she should love him more than *his* money.
Would anyone risk 1000,000 in a 50/50 chance. As an example my wife makes way way more than I. She been working her whole life and has her future set. I was broke when we meet. Not now but I was when we were dating. So I offer her to make a prenup if she wanted to feel safe. She said that she would ask a lawyer to make one but she never did or even mention it again.
"It's y'alls money".......there's the issue right there....no it's not.
Wait, I thought pre-marriage wealth is safe as long as you keep that money sepearate from your marital wealth? It is only susceptible to be a part of divorce settlement if you mix those finances with anything you earn after marriage or you deliberately move that money into joint account or add your spouse's name to that account. Is this not true?
Her frugality can change when she hears a million dollars.
There is no “The One”. You’re her One for the Moment…
i'll never get married, even thinking of vasectomy. i wanna live for myself tbh
To thine own self be true.👍
Me too ! I got 500k networth at 37, I'm good where I'm at lol
Despite what people say thats perfectly fine too brother. You should be the source of your own happiness and you should be your top priority. If someday you meet someone who you’d like to marry thats great but if not thats great too. I wish society wouldn’t pressure men so hard who decide against marriage.
When you get old you might regret it bilding that wealth and not passing it along eg charity can't trust them
I got myself snipped for 30th b-day, best choice I ever made
If you get married young with no assets there is nothing to fight about because you violate it together.
I think marrying young is beneficial for being able to grow together and build a life.
I think that once you get assets you have to consider a prenup unless she/he can bring the same amount of assets. Or enough assets that would be benificial🤷🏻♀️
Goes both ways though if she/he has assets and children from previous marriage those assets need to go to her/his children because that’s their inheritance.
Prenup in this day and age is mandatory the thing is time..people change how she is now doesnt mean she will be the same in 5yrs or 10yrs etc its a fact of life everyone changes
The answer is YES
That’s true. It was the family that tried to cause an issue.
Excited to hear this haha
If either party has any assets, yes. No assets, no need for a prenup. Talk about it early and often. Don’t let it slide.
Agreed. I didn’t have one during my first marriage (I was only 23, fresh out of school), but you better believe if I ever marry again, there will most definitely be one!
Good grief!!! If you have to ask, you're in trouble already. The question should be: do you need marriage? For men in the 21st Century, getting married is near certain financial ruin. No wife, no kids, no alimony, no child support, no debt. Happily single, and debt free!!!! That is true freedom! "BLOW ME UP TOM!" Thank you Dad! hahaaaaaaaaa!
Prenup is a must!
Dave, i have 2 properties in toronto. Each about 1 mill each. And i make an income of $6,300 per month from rent. My income is 50k per year but will go up. (I also have a hefty savings). I hate having to think about prenups but it's so hard to trust peoples intentions..(not neccesarily the significant other but their family). Do i make them sign a prenup?
I am sorry but I don't have extreme wealth about 65k at 40 if I married another at the same age with a negative net worth or different spending habits. I want a prenup...But really even if they have 1mil because that is not an infinite amount of money and if he spends like crazy he doesn't know what its like to live on a low income if his luck changes
Don't get married.
Especially, if you are wealthy. You're not missing out in a marriage.
She sounds like she has savings too. For all we know she is richer than him.
@@deuteriumjones Might she already sense his net worth ?.
@glorymanheretosleep Wealthy people want children to pass their legacy down to. All that money not worth it, when you die and the state benefits off of it. Dave has 3 kids and grandchildren. So all these wealthy men need wives to bare their children. At least you can control the money and household with a wife, opposed to paying child support to a baby mama where a judge will controls the amount.
WISHBONEL7 maybe, but he lives modestly and drives and old Jeep, so maybe not. My wife doesn’t know our net worth, and I’ve told her several times. All she cares about is the emergency fund.
"Do I Need a Prenup?" Yes.
"Yes".
Yes, protect yourself brother!
This is a no-brainer. Pre-nup or no ring. You earned that on your own and should keep it if you insist on the state getting involved in your life.
The woman you divorce is never the woman you marry. You need to give your friend a hug because he obviously cares about you.
You think women can't keep secrets? Fasted ways of communication: telephone, television, tell a woman
Get the prenuptial agreement dude.
Instead of getting married, find a woman who hates you & give her everything you own.
This is classic am I marrying a gold digger - maybe yes - ask what is the dowry or what do you what to have a baby together
People can tell by how you live, vacations and car you drive that you have some money. Don’t give out info though.
Dont do it dude! Them fireworks for her fade in time......then BAM! 1/2 of your stuff!! Run!!!!!
Prenup! Don’t get married without out!
Dave u are the real deal your training has uplift my lifestyle totally
Why is being bound to a person worth all of this stress?
Why not keep things separate and live in together and if you don’t get along move on no strings attached...as a man who is financially well off you can have a harem (if you wanted or NOT) of 20 somethings almost indefinitely. 35 is too young to settle in your situation imho. Good luck.
You don't propose after 6 months.. jesus...
Ikr, no wonder why ppl get divorced
Best thing is to wait at least a year get to know each other more then tell her about your finances see how she reacts then date alittle more if you listen to her you should be able to tell starts with the wedding you said she was good with her finances but does she want to go all out now BEWARE
Hipocrisy... what's good for the good is good for the gander. Everyone should sign a prenup.
Run 🏃🏻♀️ if she says no to prenup, don’t marry her
“Yes”
If you need to ask these questions you not ready for marriage POINT BLANK PERIOD.
Great seeing Christi on with you Dave!
Second! Yes, prenup
How do you plan to buy your EV?
@DinuSuman I plan to buy my EV once I can afford to pay cash for it based on my income!
Agree with the coach and love the sunset clause. A prenup is buying a blue chip stock and choosing not to invest in a penny stock. The penny stock could be valuable. You never know and want stability. If I had any reserve, I wouldn't get married. Divorces are expensive, time-consuming and distract from jobs and interests.
Prenups benefit from massive wealth differences~ It creates power balance because it clears things up. A spouse who doesn't want drama would respect that. I would never tell my family about my partner's net worth because of again crazy people that my family is with. They may not see the motives of a toxic person first. It's interesting because my cousin would see the prenup as ending the marriage. After all, there is no trust. She would never do it.
Prenup is for everyone rich or poor dont get confused
everyone should have one
Marriage together contract agreement
Divorce separation contract agreement
The 1st thing you need in a prenup is
A clause that says you pay your lawyer and I will pay mine
We're marrying for love right...???
So if it ends we both pay our own way out
or learn the hard way in the end the most income person will be required to pay for both lawyers weather your rich or poor...
Which is usually the guy because most women marry up not down...
as they should...
Then both put x amount in an account before marriage and you both know the amount and agree i cant touch this account and neither can you and that money is deemed mine no matter what after the divorce as long as i dont touch it outside of emergencies
Same with any certain assests or property
Add a clause in divorce all property and assets will be sold and split no one gets everything...
Or the lower income person will take everything in the end...
Then start fresh in your marriage from their and split anything after that if the marriage falls apart before 5 or 10 years
And if your partner does not agree to a prenup....
RUNNNNNNNNNNNN
DONT LISTEN TO FEELINGS
OR ANY FAMILY
OR FRIENDS
OR MOVIE'S
OR SOCIAL MEDIA
Telling you fake fantasy
Or you dont really love someone
Or thats not a real marriage
Or etc
They're lying to you
RUNNNN
When dating and marriage comes up own it early
Are you guys getting married
Do you ever want to get married
Yes we're gonna get our basic prenup and get married
I can't wait i love her with a smil and be happy
talk about the what ifs sign it and get married
Laugh it off and keep it moving
The earlier you talk about it and make it what it is
The better
Puts the pressure on the other person
Hey i told you from the start i want to get married with a prenup
Yes im broker or richer than you but i require it
like i said when we started dating
Nothing new...
Now you dont love me...??
And dont want to sign a prenup...??
Marriage is a business
to every woman when it ends !!!
Dont let Disney full you !!!
That's why you sign a marriage certificate / contract
So sign your break-up contract
To make both contracts official
and talk to divorced men for advice only
before getting married
if you are the male or female bread winner
Good luck out there
Lastly check the lead attorney RUclips channel tons of info
Dave is agreeing to a Prenup🤤