I saw this happen. It doesn't end well if the brother is completely against it. You will lose your friend and many others if it's just a fling and it ends. If it turns into something serious, it might turn out for the best. Play at your own risk.
How hard is it to tell your friend that their sister is awesome and you want to ask her out with their blessing? If they say no, then you know it’s a dangerous path.
Comes out to 3 scaling factors. Is caller a douchebag? Y/N Is sister a douchebag? Y/N Is friend a psycho? Y/N How close is caller to friend? Serious/casual? If caller is a douchebag, then no, don't date your friend's sister. If she's a douchebag, then friend wouldn't want caller to date her. This goes to bother casual/serious relationship. If friend is a psycho, then no casual, only serious (also depends on how much of a psycho). If you're not that close a friend, why do you even care? If you're a real close friend, childhood friendship level kind of deal, and your friend is a normal person, and you're not a douchebag, and it's a serious thing, then there's no problem. See, it's so simple.
I love Stavvy. @3:39 that was the point I was gonna make in the comments. It would be bad if they aren’t both healthy/normal/secure people. Like me and my family lol. Because in that situation I’d be like no there is definitely way too much potential for this to blow up in all our faces and then our friendship is ruined or I have all this BS between my siblings… I would not want a friend dating my sibling, but I have two older sisters and don’t really have male friends
I think the brother needs to know either from the guy or the sister. If they are keeping it secret they know they are somewhat in the wrong. And “wrong” is a bad word but it will have a negative outcome if only temporary.
Dude he needs to talk to the sister about this. I would speak to my friend before hand and talk to him about seeing his sister. I’d be fuckin furious if my friend hid from me he was seeing my sister
@@benk2755womp womp, it's not about ownership, it's about being direct and honest with a close friend. If you respect someone and you think something may affect them negatively, it's not a difficult task to ask them directly how they'd feel if it happened.
@@benk2755let’s try again. “People are protective of their families” 😳😳 see how when you don’t use your tiktok brain and phrase it like a normal person it makes sense?
I think they totally missed one of the other potential options: What caller thinks is flirting isn't actually flirting and the sister is not into him at all and actually just wants to hang out with him as a friend when she is in town, since she just knows another person in the area. Not everything a girl says or does to a guy has a sexual underpinning. There's nothing wrong with her wanting to platonically hang out with him, and yes, I'm sure some of the interactions previously might have seemed a little mixed, but they could just as easily have been misreads. I'm sure it annoys girls that men always assume there is when there might not be. Something to keep in mind.
Sounds like you're just projecting and got embarrassed/rejected in the same scenario lmfao. Nobody said there was anything wrong with a platonic relationship and that everything a woman says has to have a "sexual underpinning"? I promise you the girl you like won't see this and change her mind about you 😭😂
She's only hitting him up if she's already in town to visit her other friend. Which to me sounds like she sees him as just another friend to add to the hangout group for the night.
If he's serious about this, just go for it. And then bring it up After the first meet up. If it's weird for the friend, just send him this video to show that this is complicated AF and he wasn't Trying to fuck his friend over.
Everyone in the comments debating if the brother should care. Is the friend so desperate for any interaction with a girl he’s willing to risk his friendship with his friend should he not be ok with it? Buddy my god go talk to any other girl in the world and your stress factor is down 99%. Jesus you’re not in love with the girl yet.
Unless your friend is a total douchebag then why would you care? Plus if he cared about that kinda thing, then he’s already picked up on the vibe and he’s waiting for it to be brought up or see if you’ll ask him first
I think any dude whos remotely close to his sister isnt gonna want his friends to bang her. He probably wouldnt be as dark about a friend seriously dating her but it can turn dark very easily if you take a wrong turn.
Thank God one sane person, how disrespectful it would be to bring your friend that your trust to meet your family and he takes advantage of your trust to fuck your sister, and they all think he's crazy for even asking? Like wtf kind of friends are yall
It’s 90% of the comment section lol. Stav is a degen and clearly no one in the comments has been talked to by more than 1 woman at a time in their entire lives 😂😂 just taking an scrap they can get
You guys are psychotic.... I wouldn't give a shit if my close friend wanted to date my sister, I'd probably be psyched that my sister was with such a cool dude. If it's not ok to date a friends sister, then it's not ok to become friends with the guy your sister is dating either. Stop caring who adults date
If he ghosts her he's not getting invited back to the beach house, he will probably lose his friend so it has to be genuine.
I saw this happen. It doesn't end well if the brother is completely against it. You will lose your friend and many others if it's just a fling and it ends. If it turns into something serious, it might turn out for the best. Play at your own risk.
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kind of weird to willingly stop being friends with someone because they like/love your sister? siblings do not dictate eachothers lives
@mackenzie8229 If the brother knows that the friend is a low life, why wouldn't he mad. But if the friend is a good guy, then it is weird
@@mackenzie8229Your friends must be angels, or you didn’t make the second gc lol
How hard is it to tell your friend that their sister is awesome and you want to ask her out with their blessing? If they say no, then you know it’s a dangerous path.
Apparently its really hard
His blessing? Should he wear a suit and promise there will be a chaperon as well?
@@williamtoutant7781 I would. But that’s more of a stylistic decision.
It is better to ask for forgiveness than it is to ask for permission
@@Userhasbeenbanned0 dirtbag mentality
Stavi nailing the legal burdens of proof! Now that's a man that's caught some charges
*Stavvy
It’s the plot of friends. It’s fine
That would be pretty cool being in-laws with your close friend you already view as family.
Comes out to 3 scaling factors.
Is caller a douchebag? Y/N
Is sister a douchebag? Y/N
Is friend a psycho? Y/N
How close is caller to friend?
Serious/casual?
If caller is a douchebag, then no, don't date your friend's sister. If she's a douchebag, then friend wouldn't want caller to date her. This goes to bother casual/serious relationship.
If friend is a psycho, then no casual, only serious (also depends on how much of a psycho).
If you're not that close a friend, why do you even care?
If you're a real close friend, childhood friendship level kind of deal, and your friend is a normal person, and you're not a douchebag, and it's a serious thing, then there's no problem.
See, it's so simple.
Socrates to the people of Athens
Now let’s sculpt your statue
“Is it okay if I put it in, or at you gonna be weird about this?
I'm disappointed that the fact she's an older sister wasn't discussed much.
Yes, that is definitely a variable that needs to be taken into account. Different than younger sister.
Maybe even if she just wants it casual, shes an adult, shes allowed to do that. You gotta treat your siblings like adults when they are.
No age makes breaking the code cool
@@recoup_ fuck your code
Let the sister bring it up to the brother. That would make it easier.
Without listening to the context, yes. The answer is always yes.
I love Stavvy. @3:39 that was the point I was gonna make in the comments. It would be bad if they aren’t both healthy/normal/secure people. Like me and my family lol. Because in that situation I’d be like no there is definitely way too much potential for this to blow up in all our faces and then our friendship is ruined or I have all this BS between my siblings… I would not want a friend dating my sibling, but I have two older sisters and don’t really have male friends
I think the brother needs to know either from the guy or the sister. If they are keeping it secret they know they are somewhat in the wrong. And “wrong” is a bad word but it will have a negative outcome if only temporary.
Dude he needs to talk to the sister about this. I would speak to my friend before hand and talk to him about seeing his sister. I’d be fuckin furious if my friend hid from me he was seeing my sister
So you think you own your sister then. Okay.
Why?
@@benk2755womp womp, it's not about ownership, it's about being direct and honest with a close friend. If you respect someone and you think something may affect them negatively, it's not a difficult task to ask them directly how they'd feel if it happened.
Youre so unintelligent@@benk2755
@@benk2755let’s try again. “People are protective of their families” 😳😳 see how when you don’t use your tiktok brain and phrase it like a normal person it makes sense?
What shoes is the guest wearing??
I think they totally missed one of the other potential options:
What caller thinks is flirting isn't actually flirting and the sister is not into him at all and actually just wants to hang out with him as a friend when she is in town, since she just knows another person in the area. Not everything a girl says or does to a guy has a sexual underpinning. There's nothing wrong with her wanting to platonically hang out with him, and yes, I'm sure some of the interactions previously might have seemed a little mixed, but they could just as easily have been misreads. I'm sure it annoys girls that men always assume there is when there might not be. Something to keep in mind.
Sounds like you're just projecting and got embarrassed/rejected in the same scenario lmfao. Nobody said there was anything wrong with a platonic relationship and that everything a woman says has to have a "sexual underpinning"? I promise you the girl you like won't see this and change her mind about you 😭😂
Why hit him up if they live literally three hours away? She must have some strong feelings for him, platonic or otherwise.
Real unlikely because it's a fairly contrived reason to platonically hang out with someone.
She's only hitting him up if she's already in town to visit her other friend. Which to me sounds like she sees him as just another friend to add to the hangout group for the night.
@@DoctorDucky250 You're making the assumption that they're hanging out as a group and not just those two
If he's serious about this, just go for it. And then bring it up After the first meet up. If it's weird for the friend, just send him this video to show that this is complicated AF and he wasn't Trying to fuck his friend over.
Everyone in the comments debating if the brother should care. Is the friend so desperate for any interaction with a girl he’s willing to risk his friendship with his friend should he not be ok with it?
Buddy my god go talk to any other girl in the world and your stress factor is down 99%. Jesus you’re not in love with the girl yet.
Found the brother?
Unless your friend is a total douchebag then why would you care? Plus if he cared about that kinda thing, then he’s already picked up on the vibe and he’s waiting for it to be brought up or see if you’ll ask him first
I think any dude whos remotely close to his sister isnt gonna want his friends to bang her. He probably wouldnt be as dark about a friend seriously dating her but it can turn dark very easily if you take a wrong turn.
Stavi spitting facts on this one
Here’s my tip just don’t be a couple in front of her brother
No loving or fighting/bickering
Hmm pretty long clip for a easy answer let's take a gander
YES STAVI! YOU CANT SMASH MY FAMILY 😂
yes, Soder 😍
It’s all good until y’all split. Then your heartbroken ass can’t unsee your exes face in your homie, and hanging out gets rough, maybe even gay.
😂
I’m dating one of my best friends younger sister! She’s 23 I’m 30 it was a bit odd at first but it’s great now.
Bro
@@Mattseaelaborate
@@macD20202 I’m just jealous 😆
@@Mattsea don’t be! How old are you?
23 and 30 isn't really weird but it's kinda on the edge. verges into very weird territory if you've known her since she was under 18
Has no one ever watched Scarface? Manolo, had it coming, IJS #ShesNotForYou #PowPowMfr 🔫🔫🔫🔫
Does she look like his friend? 😅
Man what type of integrity these dudes stand on? SMH. If you respect your friendship this question would not even need to be asked.
Thank God one sane person, how disrespectful it would be to bring your friend that your trust to meet your family and he takes advantage of your trust to fuck your sister, and they all think he's crazy for even asking? Like wtf kind of friends are yall
Ask for forgiveness not for permission lol
It’s 90% of the comment section lol. Stav is a degen and clearly no one in the comments has been talked to by more than 1 woman at a time in their entire lives 😂😂 just taking an scrap they can get
@@bibsp3556 that’s how ppl end up in the bay
You guys are psychotic.... I wouldn't give a shit if my close friend wanted to date my sister, I'd probably be psyched that my sister was with such a cool dude. If it's not ok to date a friends sister, then it's not ok to become friends with the guy your sister is dating either. Stop caring who adults date
I just did this last night. The spit in her mouth part that is. But she asked for it, literally. With a couple of open hands. Woke up rejuvenated.