the of girlies have already said that when they go on those podcasts their followings get boosted drastically bc of the "alpha male" followers, but of girlies don't not want to be sexualized as that's their entire business model. they dont want to be DEHUMANIZED and disrespected. which is valid. bc even us non-of girlies want that. idk i feel like theres a way to sexualize without dehumanizing. and i feel like oftentimes when ppl say sexualize in a negative way, they actually mean dehumanize.
That’s such a good point. I notice men doing this. Treating them in such a bad way saying they’re just 304s (not sure if I can say the word lol) and I’m like they’re human beings! It’s very sad to me
I think we need to disconnect from the internet, it will help us open our eyes and pay attention. Women are beautiful and men are handsome, people are in possession of amazing personalities however there are those with terrible ones. It's time we look a little deeper because we are all the same, appearances can only help you up until it starts to fade.
What society considers "flaws" aren't even flaws. They're just differences. Big nose? Not a flaw. Monolids? Not a flaw. No abs? Not a flaw. Small chested? Not a flaw. Big feet? Not a flaw. Reddened skin? Not a flaw (unless it's a medical issue and then should be checked out. ;)) Chicken skin? Not a flaw.
Leilani, you are very smart girl, and I respect all you are saying here, a lot. But I want to add something from the perspective of 51 year old woman. I have more than half of century of life, I have an adult daughter, and my mother and grandmother and know their lives and histories. Those men who talk about women like that do not deserve to get even close to any woman! They are not evolved to the point that they should have a girlfriend, let alone a wife. My life was super complicated, I had a lot of trauma, I had a lot of education, many hobbies, I developed and developed and I am still growing. I am not a thing, I am vvery complicated human being, like most people are (these men obviously are not, sorry, just my opinion). I've been watching my daughter grow up, every step of the way, every challenge, every growth, I listened to my mom and grandmother, and those were fullfilled, complicated lives with tragedies, experiences and growth. To call all these to me closest women "just things" and that their only purpose is to "cook" for some man who will "defend them" (from fucking what? bears?) is huge, incredibly offensive insult. I've seen women from up close and from my own skin and it's A REAL life it's A REAL human, it's not a doll, it's not empty headed sendwich maker, far from that! Only defense we do need is from "red pill" men like those! I don't know what the hell is wrong with them, but I refuse to believe such men are more than some minority of stupid people who have a lot of frustrations and issues while growing up. And I do agree with you, although today is not easy to say that in public, those women who sell sex, their bodies, their beauty even just on social media or twitch or whereve, are very damaging to all women. They are presenting us exactly as "red pill" men want us to present. As nothing but a sex dolls. As a pretty picture. And that is not in any way empoweting to any woman.
Both men and women both fall prey to social media and things they see in their lives. And this is why I look down on many humans. Instead of questioning, challenging, and even making a new standards, or status quo both men and women fall into a trap where other people are TELLING YOU, what to do. We live in a society were we can be and think as individuals, yet humans are so quick to put eveyone or everything in a box. Fight the system! Dont let it run you over. I think the worst part is, and this is mostly in my women, that they say " thats how society is, and i have to play by its rules" no you don't. I am 5'7 male and not once did i feel the need to get bigger or do something like leg lengthing surgery to be loved. If you fall prey to these ideologies then you have actually nothinf to stand on. "Dont let the outside in"
Lol shes not a pick me. She isn't saying a single word for any other reason than thays what she thinks about it. And those thoughts were formed from her own morals values and character (other inspiration parents/friend/etcetc) Explain why u think that? Don't just reiterate what she said tell me what makes you think she is saying everything she is to separate herself from other females and gain Male attention?? Ill wait
it's also young girls fault, we show too much skin at a young age to be ojectified or validated. Young girls are signing up for OF, or posting too many explecit content on social medias. Until we all change and be demure, this cycle will never stop. It all starts with us and edn with us
I can’t fully say it’s their fault unless the hypothetical is they suddenly did this in a vacuum outside any influence. And the fact they are so wired to think like that as far back as childhood and they can’t really consent or understand the detriment. Kids are a mirror to the state of society. Adults are just as anxious, shallow, obsessed with sex, and make their anxiety known about getting older so kids think they need to hit every milestone as quickly as they can. our media just use sexy women as a prop and have them holding up products or pose and be sultry in our film and tv. Women are still objectified, dehumanized, and our value is marked up or down like a damn car. Misogyny. Meanwhile the sex industry is very cunning and manipulative. They have news station air stories of young women making OF and making a million in a weekend (meanwhile the majority will make bare minimum or hardly anything to justify the work) and try to entice and groom children on social media that it’s liberating and that their sexuality is all they are worth and their currency. It’s so predatory.
The problem will never be the modesty of women or the lack thereof, because no matter what you wear, you'll still be harassed and raped. Kids in onesies are sa'd. Muslim women covered from head to toe are raped every day.
You've grown so much, I just remember your first 5 videos like it was a ay ago, keep up the goo work! can't wait till you blow up, you talk on some goo topics! @leilanilei
the of girlies have already said that when they go on those podcasts their followings get boosted drastically bc of the "alpha male" followers, but of girlies don't not want to be sexualized as that's their entire business model.
they dont want to be DEHUMANIZED and disrespected. which is valid. bc even us non-of girlies want that.
idk i feel like theres a way to sexualize without dehumanizing.
and i feel like oftentimes when ppl say sexualize in a negative way, they actually mean dehumanize.
That’s such a good point. I notice men doing this. Treating them in such a bad way saying they’re just 304s (not sure if I can say the word lol) and I’m like they’re human beings! It’s very sad to me
I think we need to disconnect from the internet, it will help us open our eyes and pay attention. Women are beautiful and men are handsome, people are in possession of amazing personalities however there are those with terrible ones. It's time we look a little deeper because we are all the same, appearances can only help you up until it starts to fade.
Men aren't handsome
What society considers "flaws" aren't even flaws. They're just differences. Big nose? Not a flaw. Monolids? Not a flaw. No abs? Not a flaw. Small chested? Not a flaw. Big feet? Not a flaw. Reddened skin? Not a flaw (unless it's a medical issue and then should be checked out. ;)) Chicken skin? Not a flaw.
Wait as the dudes come here complaining 😅
thats the only thing they are good for is complaining about xx chromosomes
Leilani, you are very smart girl, and I respect all you are saying here, a lot. But I want to add something from the perspective of 51 year old woman. I have more than half of century of life, I have an adult daughter, and my mother and grandmother and know their lives and histories. Those men who talk about women like that do not deserve to get even close to any woman! They are not evolved to the point that they should have a girlfriend, let alone a wife. My life was super complicated, I had a lot of trauma, I had a lot of education, many hobbies, I developed and developed and I am still growing. I am not a thing, I am vvery complicated human being, like most people are (these men obviously are not, sorry, just my opinion). I've been watching my daughter grow up, every step of the way, every challenge, every growth, I listened to my mom and grandmother, and those were fullfilled, complicated lives with tragedies, experiences and growth. To call all these to me closest women "just things" and that their only purpose is to "cook" for some man who will "defend them" (from fucking what? bears?) is huge, incredibly offensive insult. I've seen women from up close and from my own skin and it's A REAL life it's A REAL human, it's not a doll, it's not empty headed sendwich maker, far from that! Only defense we do need is from "red pill" men like those! I don't know what the hell is wrong with them, but I refuse to believe such men are more than some minority of stupid people who have a lot of frustrations and issues while growing up.
And I do agree with you, although today is not easy to say that in public, those women who sell sex, their bodies, their beauty even just on social media or twitch or whereve, are very damaging to all women. They are presenting us exactly as "red pill" men want us to present. As nothing but a sex dolls. As a pretty picture. And that is not in any way empoweting to any woman.
2:18 are the intruders in the room with us?😂
Thank You for your content ❤ it’s so important ❤️❤️❤️
Spread the gospel!
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I agree completely
2:34 is myron fighting of intruders everyday 😮. Figures hes ableist razist etc ...he could be in many ppl books.
I hate those podcasts. The Whatever podcast just makes me mad.
I love your videos, whenever I feel too conscious of my appearance I watch one of your videos to make me reflect on why I have those thoughts.
I’m a woman ❤
Both men and women both fall prey to social media and things they see in their lives. And this is why I look down on many humans. Instead of questioning, challenging, and even making a new standards, or status quo both men and women fall into a trap where other people are TELLING YOU, what to do. We live in a society were we can be and think as individuals, yet humans are so quick to put eveyone or everything in a box. Fight the system! Dont let it run you over. I think the worst part is, and this is mostly in my women, that they say " thats how society is, and i have to play by its rules" no you don't. I am 5'7 male and not once did i feel the need to get bigger or do something like leg lengthing surgery to be loved. If you fall prey to these ideologies then you have actually nothinf to stand on.
"Dont let the outside in"
8:18 - 8:25 & 8:44 - 8:48
Speak your truth queen 👏👏👏
Thank you
I'm pretty and a woman
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8:39 knew you were a pick-me. Blaming women for their sexualization because they're SWs is so hypocritical
Shes not an pick me jesus
@@xzzqbby Jesus has nothing to do with this🤪
Lol shes not a pick me. She isn't saying a single word for any other reason than thays what she thinks about it. And those thoughts were formed from her own morals values and character (other inspiration parents/friend/etcetc)
Explain why u think that? Don't just reiterate what she said tell me what makes you think she is saying everything she is to separate herself from other females and gain Male attention?? Ill wait
*sighhhhh*, here comes the pick me patrol…🙄
Since when are big noses on guys better I prefer men with small noses
5th (I think)
it's also young girls fault, we show too much skin at a young age to be ojectified or validated. Young girls are signing up for OF, or posting too many explecit content on social medias. Until we all change and be demure, this cycle will never stop. It all starts with us and edn with us
I can’t fully say it’s their fault unless the hypothetical is they suddenly did this in a vacuum outside any influence. And the fact they are so wired to think like that as far back as childhood and they can’t really consent or understand the detriment. Kids are a mirror to the state of society. Adults are just as anxious, shallow, obsessed with sex, and make their anxiety known about getting older so kids think they need to hit every milestone as quickly as they can. our media just use sexy women as a prop and have them holding up products or pose and be sultry in our film and tv. Women are still objectified, dehumanized, and our value is marked up or down like a damn car. Misogyny.
Meanwhile the sex industry is very cunning and manipulative. They have news station air stories of young women making OF and making a million in a weekend (meanwhile the majority will make bare minimum or hardly anything to justify the work) and try to entice and groom children on social media that it’s liberating and that their sexuality is all they are worth and their currency. It’s so predatory.
Or, you know, MEN could COULD STOP being predators! They are the ones that do the harassing, not us!!!
too much skin? girl men r turned on by even the smallest amount of cleavage. ive been catcalled in a damn sweater and jeans.
Pfff
The problem will never be the modesty of women or the lack thereof, because no matter what you wear, you'll still be harassed and raped. Kids in onesies are sa'd. Muslim women covered from head to toe are raped every day.
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You've grown so much, I just remember your first 5 videos like it was a ay ago, keep up the goo work! can't wait till you blow up, you talk on some goo topics! @leilanilei