@LaBellaDonna, I forgot about Tamar’s life before her solo career really took off. Of course with her husband’s help but she definitely was living a charmed, kept life before that. Both her and Jennifer.
honestly if you think you are the most valuable person there then you shouldnt be in a relationship, marriage is about putting your spouce first, their needs and their value. selfishness and ego have no place
Jennifer is paying for the wedding and the restitution (on a case that does not involve her). Good Lord, why is she setting herself up for a major downfall?
I remember a guy that was romantically interested in me asking me 40$ for some game items. I said no and walked away. I only want a man that already has money. 😂
I had a feeling there would be an uptick of this happening as soon as Kevin Samuels became famous. When he started that whole “danger zone” concept, I knew there would be even more women who were going to start settling and signing up for struggle love, just so they won’t be alone. That is the red pill’s goal, to get women to settle for less. 💔💔💔
Kevin Samuels didn't approve for women to be desperate for men ..he wanted women to pick good men while being realistic about what you were actually bringing to the table...he never accepted or promoted women being dusty and desperate...
@@meme_s_4072exactly and he was an advocate for marriage UNLIKE your multiple baby mamas with one man. Now stop it. I'm so sick of them blaming ks, he's been dead for two years. And most that hate have NEVER EVER listened to a show in it's entirety. NEVER
@@JustBree716 yes I agree....Kevin Samuels would never promote this foolishness...he was honest about women and men...he if was alive today...he would tell Jennifer she being dumb as hell...lol
Tamar is so exhausting. I hope she seeks help. Any man in the receiving position is such a turn off. It's an automatic loss of respect. I would feel like he's the woman.
Down with the patriarchy, down with traditional gender norms, you guys wanted this, remember? Also, if you're a bottomless pit, just say that. Reciprocity means nothing to you, I guess. All you want to do is take take take, and when a man asks, then it's feminine and a turn off. Just stay single please
I never understood why an older woman would wanna be with an extremely younger man because most of the time it doesn’t work. Most younger men tend to need help financially or still haven’t matured. Jennifer is still a beautiful woman. She could’ve got an older man who probably would have her a better lifestyle than the younger one.
Why do guys continue to believe that a lifestyle is the only thing that drives female mating choices? She cannot get the man she wants so she's doing what works for her. What's the problem?
I think it’s similarly for the same reasons men do it. Control due to their (the younger person’s) lack of life experience, emotional and intellectual immaturity, insecurity and fear of being alone.
@sade2576 girl she don't want to be no hospice wife or be looking at wrinkles or dealing with men that can't get it up most older men don't take care of themselves
Oooof. When I was younger, and my parent and culture beat the self esteem out of me pretty bad…. I really believed that if I was the hero for some guy, he would be forever grateful to me and never leave me. It took me well over a decade to learn the hard way that they were opportunists and didn’t love me. They couldn’t love me because they didn’t love themselves. A broke dude needs to be on job apps, not dating apps, lying about their age, kids, and what they do for a living. Only a dude who takes pride in what he makes can take pride in what he does for you. Never again.
Excuse me. AIN'T NO WAY🫤 I met a guy last month that's on parole. He went to jail for murder in 2010/2012. I could ONLY think of me being the NEXT victim. I couldn't see anything else, but toxic visuals. AIN'T NO WAY. I'd be torturing myself for life. 😵💫 I'll wait patiently for my mature, stable husband. Dating is scary 😨
I actually disagree with this...age has very little to do with responsibility and how we present ourselves and show up in relationships. I've seen younger folks behave more maturely than ppl my age. These women would pick subpar males regardless of age (see Ashanti, Cardi, Simone Biles) it's an impoverished, desperate, mindset. Spiritual warfare in romantic relationships 😢
5-7 years if you over 30 u should be dating no 18-25 year old. After 30 I think it’s what ever but even for men 30 is still very young especially if u soend 7-10 years in prison u haven’t had a chance to do nothing or even live
Jennifer may need a storyline as well to remain on the show. No drama = No paycheck or main cast member status She is not a mean mean girl like Evelyn or off the wall like Jackie
Because the world at large has trained society that black women don't deserve anything while also being entitled to the best we have. None loves harder, supports harder and is more courageous and authentic than a black woman. They want to siphon from us and give nothing so they bamboozle us. They shame us for being successful. Sadly, our own community keeps this gaslighting alive and we have internalised it. People even hate seeing black women happy and even more livid when we actually like and love ourselves.
I believe it's more nuanced than this.... BW have NEVER, as a collective, been able to be taken of, so it's something unfamiliar to many bw. We're so used to putting on work boots and digging a ditch right alongside the men, oftentimes absent of the man. This behavior has to be unlearned and until it is, stop birthing more generations of desperation. @@charmaineespeut4627
Mental health is the greatest asset and all the money in the world will not do any good if you are in the “crazy house”(e.g. Wendy Williams). My mother told me that there are many people in the “crazy house” because they did not know when to let go …..and walk away(e.g. toxic relationship).
I’ve definitely been the 🤡 in a prior relationship. He came divorced with three children, a struggling ex-wife (🚩I didn’t catch), unpaid child support, no job (aspiring rapper) and a penchant for DV. I stayed trying to prove people wrong and my worthiness of love; just crazy when I think back on those dark years. I’m thankful for the awakening, awareness and growth I’ve experienced through therapy. Unlike Tamar, I took those L’s out of mainstream public’s eyes (praise God). That said, I hate this very public and embarrassing Calvin Candie situation for Tamar (🥴). Hopefully, she will wake up; wish her well. ❤
They need to start moving like Lorey Harvey....in silence😭 Cut that man off than randomly pop up months later with a new one. They love when you make a spectacle over them😅
Hi I’m 54 years young What is a “whole BOOTY” sandwich 😩 And why does one continue to air their “laundry” clean or derrrty! What happened to a private life-- it’s the best life Chlöe thank you for this feminine platform. I have learned a lot 💛
Sad to see the state of affairs with what women are going through today,heartbreaking. I resent and hate the idea of a man even thinking he can ask me for money. Naturally I am turned off and despise a dependant person
I wholeheartedly want women to love ourselves deeply and unapologetically!! Especially relatively successful, accomplished Black women. A piece of a man is just that, a piece. Ladies please stop settling for these lackluster males. Lackluster males won't EVA settle for a woman who they deem less than their desires. It's better to be happily single than in a unhealthy, unbalanced, toxic relationship. #BurnTheCape
One would think women would learn from Mary J Blige, Sherry Shepard, Wendy Williams, like WAKE UP Sisters! She think she's embarassing him but she really advertising her clown behavior. Its sad really. Pressures from family, society and the lack of self love. Been there. Hope they heal sooner than later❤
She's rambling and all over the place, almost like a nervous breakdown. I'm so sorry for her. I've always told my daughters that if they get with one of those Whyte men, they are to hold them to a higher standard "because to he whom much is given, much is required "
I wouldn't be a "sugar momma" even at 80+, for someone I consider incredibly attractive. No idea why the heck would any woman be ok with, let alone WANT this.
Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes, but Tamar and Jennifer marrying these men under these circumstances sounds like something a “naive, never lived life, don’t know no better” 20 year old, would make. I don’t mean to sound judgmental but, aren’t these women well into their 40’s? I understand age does not equate wisdom, but come on now.
JR married Tamar to see if he could get some Braxton's reality checks. Tamar married him thinking he was her last chance. He ran away when he realized she was p00rer than expected.
I have a cousin that been a sugar mama for decades on decades, her husband sometimes puts his hands on her and she doesn't want to leave him, it's a mess, and he's Italian.
This seems to be quite common among a few people I know, a girl at church is financing her wedding because her man (he has 3 kids youngest is 3 years old and their from a previous relationship) He hasn’t got the money right now to pay for the wedding, lots of debt and he’s moving into her flat to help him live a cheaper lifestyle and clear a few of his bills 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. She doesn’t want to wait for him to sort him self out so she’s helping him and he said why wait for the wedding it’s to expensive and to hard to save up so they should just have a smaller wedding now this year and then he can move in. They been dating 2 years. He’s not looking for a wife he looking for help but sis thinks she’s won while other women would run 🏃🏽♀️ she’s late 30s and desperate to get married he’s early 40s and this will be 2nd marriage. And we all know how this marriage will go she expect him to step up and be the provider and he be looking to relax because he’s got everything he needs so why work harder plus he knows he can rely on her for more help and money
Oh, my gosh!! I'm so scared for your friend!!! I hope that by some miracle, this man is an exception and not the rule. As i was reading your comment, I heard a loud alarm ringing in my head and I saw red lights flashing. She's stepping into a very dangerous situation!!!!😢
I tried to buy love from day one. Boys were never attracted to me all of my school years and I wasn't groomed well enough to attract anything better. I am now 69 and I still have not come up but now that I'm aware, I feel like it's too late to try to do better so I do without. I do not have enough self-esteem to be in a relationship with someone who I could respect and trust to submit to. I trust no one now and have resigned myself to do without. However, I'm not going back to that trash.
3:23 So basically, she’s paying for the wedding. 💒 Of all the qualified quiet rich men across the world she can date and marry, she lands a felon?!?! 3:23
If Tamar don't get in that studio and make the best haRd&B album of her life.. That's all I'm saying. Leave it on the track. I will be da**** if I ever let a man have me online out here embarrassing myself..Nope.Nope. I do truly feel for all these women.
Tamar should have gotten with Tyler Perry, wrote Acts, parts, did an entire stage play-with her as lead actress/performer, because she is a drama queen, and took that hot mess on the road. Ain't no way I got Hollywood and Broadway connections and I'm giving up drama for free-AIN'T NO WAY! 😵💫💀
I’ve been here before. The pride on their faces trying to explain justifying the delusion is WILD. This is what happens when God is not 1st in your life. Desperation kicks in full gear
This!!!!!! I turned 30 this year and since having a closer relationship with God my mindset has completely shifted! Everything and anyone who wants access to my life, it has to make SENSE.
Inner work is SO important. I'm glad I got drug through the mud in my early 20s 😅 to draw attention to some inner wounds I hadn't healed. Now I'm genuinely becoming my best self
I had a boyfriend in Jamaica he was there years older than me he was 47 I would help him time to time and eventually I got turned off and when he wanted to come to Canada and that I would have to sponsor him I couldn’t do it
I feel really bad for Tamar. Tamar is a victim and a survivor of sexual assault from her childhood. I learned this from the time she and all of her family were on the tv show “Iyanla, Fix My. Life” She hasn’t healed from that traumatic experience. It shows up in all of her current and previous relationship experiences. I wish her so much love and healing. I wish for her to find the inner strength and courage to face her hurt and come to healing through a licensed therapist and spiritual practice.
So he basically told her about his restitution to ask her to pay for it indirectly I was wondering why Jennifer was so salty when I called out her boyfriend on her youtube channel now I see why
Was I raised strangely? I am a divorced woman who has no fear of being alone. Marriage or companionship is not the primary focus of my life and it never has been. I think that is why, although filing for divorce was a painful experience, after 5 years of toiling over it, I was able to choose myself. I just don't understand why so many women idolize relationships and make them the center of their lives. It is so draining to me. I'm not saying it's wrong to aspire to be in a loving relationship, but I just do not understand why any and every man is better than no man to some.
You have provided an excellent summary of your perspective on Jennifer Williams-Gold/Walden's "marriage" [no marriage certificate currently has been located]/relationship that matches my viewpoint. Ultimately, it's Jennifer's life based on what makes her happy (not wanting to be a cat lady/alone), even if she is paying to play and lies to herself (cognitive dissonance) that she has "discernment and does not do broke." Her actions show the exact opposite of the words from her own mouth.
Look at him looking at her with that deceitful expression. I’m 41, broke and silly myself, Eastern Europe, so maybe culturally different but how in the world would you fall for this clown? Hard earned money should be invested in business and passed to children, in my opinion.
Jennifer’s prison bae’s “wait time” before she volunteered to help him is alarming. It reminds me of that lady from the Steve Harvey morning show, Shirley. I'm really afraid for her.
Tamar Braxton is very insecure and has low self-esteem. It seems like she can't be by herself. Women that are afraid to be alone go from one bad relationship to another. If you're going to get a younger man, find one that is mature and has his own resources. Jennifer strikes me as desperate to be paying for a man.
Another excellent video. I've dated a few people because I was vulnerable; one used me and ended up in a relationship with a relative, and another lied. I'm unsure why this happened to me, but now I am learning self-love. I will pray for her, and thank you, Chloe, for affirming that men who use others or take money from women and single parents are not true men at all!
I had a dude tell me I should cancel my Infrared sauna studio subscription. His idea was that I should just go into an attic like he does and I’ll sweat all I need too. I never responded again. He got no opportunity to continue lol
Why I am single to this day the only man I took care of was my son he’s grown now and has his own family and I’m good. I’m not taking care of no man unless it’s my husband and we take care of one another.
Tamar is embarrassing and is too old to be acting like this! She needs to grow up! Jennifer is paying for that young man, and that will back fire on her!
One thing I’ve learned from Ms Chloe’s feminine space is: NEVER PAY FOR A MAN! Neveeeeeer!
I’m not even paying for dates!
@amilllion1 I mean you shouldn't have to
Neverrrrrrrrrrr🗣️🗣️
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Rest in your femininity ladies🥂🥂
A man cant play you if you dont allow yourself to be played. Desperation= disaster.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Facts
Low 💰 Self 💰 Esteem 💰 Costs 💰
AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"A 500 year difference" just took me out. Lol. 😂😂😂
Same😂😂
🤭🤭🤭 Hilarious
RIGHT!!!!😭😂😂🤣🤣🤣
LOL 😂…I spit my drink out of my mouth. I love Chloe_’s classy blows♥️
I cannot stand how sophisticated she is with her unseriousness! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Going from being a kept woman in your marriage to a sugar momma is wild!!😂😂😂😂
Brad can do no wrong! 😂😂😂😂
That part
@quelquun2018 I thought she was referring to Jennifer.
@@tiffanytiffany7949 I was referring to Tamar Braxton however now that I think it, Jenn’s husband also used to spoil her !
@LaBellaDonna, I forgot about Tamar’s life before her solo career really took off. Of course with her husband’s help but she definitely was living a charmed, kept life before that. Both her and Jennifer.
Morale of the story; feminine pride means that you are the prize!✊🏾
honestly if you think you are the most valuable person there then you shouldnt be in a relationship, marriage is about putting your spouce first, their needs and their value. selfishness and ego have no place
Well if YOU say so, it must be true!
Jennifer is paying for the wedding and the restitution (on a case that does not involve her). Good Lord, why is she setting herself up for a major downfall?
She's paying for her own wedding 🙇🏽♀️💔
Which one might speculate, she's probably paying back, current and future child support payments. 😵💫😑😞
What?? I didn’t know she was paying for the wedding too. I thought he had money 😮
I remember a guy that was romantically interested in me asking me 40$ for some game items. I said no and walked away. I only want a man that already has money. 😂
Yes🙇🏽♀️No more broke bois!!!
😂 I helped my husband at the start. Now, I stay home and he pays for EVERYTHING. I am just chilling now.
@@allMinabe A man is supposed to make my life easier. 🙇🏽♀️
He checked all these boxes for me. There never has been a box, Jennifer.
Hard to believe legal issues, kids and a criminal background were on the checklist 😂
You have to wonder what the hell is up with the boxes you have that need to be checked by a 30 year-old ex-felon.
A man’s [money/wallet] provision is tied directly to his heart. 💅🏽
Yes! Men's true ❤ is 💰
@@jcymngo If a man truly loves you, he'll naturally want to share that love with you. 💅🏽
The thought of paying for a man is such a turn off! I just can't...
I had a feeling there would be an uptick of this happening as soon as Kevin Samuels became famous. When he started that whole “danger zone” concept, I knew there would be even more women who were going to start settling and signing up for struggle love, just so they won’t be alone. That is the red pill’s goal, to get women to settle for less. 💔💔💔
I agree a million percent
That's why women shouldn't listen to men.
Kevin Samuels didn't approve for women to be desperate for men ..he wanted women to pick good men while being realistic about what you were actually bringing to the table...he never accepted or promoted women being dusty and desperate...
@@meme_s_4072exactly and he was an advocate for marriage UNLIKE your multiple baby mamas with one man. Now stop it. I'm so sick of them blaming ks, he's been dead for two years. And most that hate have NEVER EVER listened to a show in it's entirety. NEVER
@@JustBree716 yes I agree....Kevin Samuels would never promote this foolishness...he was honest about women and men...he if was alive today...he would tell Jennifer she being dumb as hell...lol
Listening to this while fighting for my life on the treadmill was wild 😂💀
Right, that is me this morning. The exposing of your business online is something I just don’t get.
@@geneinnewade1278well you watched it so 😂there's the demand 😂
Tamar is so exhausting. I hope she seeks help. Any man in the receiving position is such a turn off. It's an automatic loss of respect. I would feel like he's the woman.
Down with the patriarchy, down with traditional gender norms, you guys wanted this, remember?
Also, if you're a bottomless pit, just say that. Reciprocity means nothing to you, I guess. All you want to do is take take take, and when a man asks, then it's feminine and a turn off. Just stay single please
Or your son
I never understood why an older woman would wanna be with an extremely younger man because most of the time it doesn’t work. Most younger men tend to need help financially or still haven’t matured. Jennifer is still a beautiful woman. She could’ve got an older man who probably would have her a better lifestyle than the younger one.
Why do guys continue to believe that a lifestyle is the only thing that drives female mating choices? She cannot get the man she wants so she's doing what works for her. What's the problem?
I think it’s similarly for the same reasons men do it. Control due to their (the younger person’s) lack of life experience, emotional and intellectual immaturity, insecurity and fear of being alone.
@sade2576 girl she don't want to be no hospice wife or be looking at wrinkles or dealing with men that can't get it up most older men don't take care of themselves
@@Girlschitchatso paying for a man is the better option? Lol oh my.
Men have been doing the same in reverse for Centuries. Now women who are finally get a chance to flip the script are doing so. Youth pays both ways.😎
Jennifer's dude is giving DL opportunist and user.
YESSSS, he comes across as gay not even dl!
@kailjones6868 You're absolutely right. I say DL because obviously Jennifer doesn't know or either she does but doesn't care. 🤢
The hand gesture
@@missfavoured His whole aura and speech style.
That's her fault! She's a dingbat!
Oooof. When I was younger, and my parent and culture beat the self esteem out of me pretty bad…. I really believed that if I was the hero for some guy, he would be forever grateful to me and never leave me. It took me well over a decade to learn the hard way that they were opportunists and didn’t love me. They couldn’t love me because they didn’t love themselves. A broke dude needs to be on job apps, not dating apps, lying about their age, kids, and what they do for a living. Only a dude who takes pride in what he makes can take pride in what he does for you. Never again.
What boxes did he check😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 jennifer nooooooo😅😅😅😅
He made it clear to her that he is there to get that court money 😂 OMG!!! @ almost 50yrs she doesn't see him for what he is?!
Ladies if any man has any type of record or has been in prison jail run for the hills!! It shows lack of self control
THIS‼‼ I truly don't understad the attraction to these types of men. I never went through a "thug phase". So ratchet.😑😑
It also guarantees the woman will be the breadwinner. There's no good jobs for ex-cons, so they'll never be able to provide a future.
Lol women are not gonna listen to you so don't waste your time.
@@vegasgirl3538some women see that as an insurance policy he'll stay; even though we don't know where he is till the end lol
So much second hand embarrassment for Jennifer and Tamar 😩
Excuse me. AIN'T NO WAY🫤 I met a guy last month that's on parole. He went to jail for murder in 2010/2012. I could ONLY think of me being the NEXT victim. I couldn't see anything else, but toxic visuals. AIN'T NO WAY. I'd be torturing myself for life. 😵💫 I'll wait patiently for my mature, stable husband. Dating is scary 😨
It's good he told you the truth
Dating is really scary
I am not against younger but I think 5 years should be the max.
Yes and even then, still hold them to the same standard. Don’t let them off easier because they’ll think you’re trying to “mommy” them and resent you
@@rosesarered2285 exactly 💯
These parameters are irrelevant
I actually disagree with this...age has very little to do with responsibility and how we present ourselves and show up in relationships. I've seen younger folks behave more maturely than ppl my age. These women would pick subpar males regardless of age (see Ashanti, Cardi, Simone Biles) it's an impoverished, desperate, mindset. Spiritual warfare in romantic relationships 😢
5-7 years if you over 30 u should be dating no 18-25 year old. After 30 I think it’s what ever but even for men 30 is still very young especially if u soend 7-10 years in prison u haven’t had a chance to do nothing or even live
These ladies are so desperate that it’s sad
Bingo! 🎯
I don’t even say anything anymore to my friends all they do is make excuses I just don’t brag about mine 😂😂
Jennifer is getting used.
Jennifer is allowing herself to be used.
Jennifer may need a storyline as well to remain on the show. No drama = No paycheck or main cast member status
She is not a mean mean girl like Evelyn or off the wall like Jackie
@@honeylamour1if it's only a storyline, then I hope that marriage license never gets signed...
I don't get her attraction to him, at all. She's 49 in love with a delinquent, slightly feminine child. I'm sorry.
It’s hard to watch 😢
Exactly, after a certain age we are an example to younger women. We have to do better!
Why is this so common with black women?
Low self esteem
Because the world at large has trained society that black women don't deserve anything while also being entitled to the best we have. None loves harder, supports harder and is more courageous and authentic than a black woman. They want to siphon from us and give nothing so they bamboozle us. They shame us for being successful. Sadly, our own community keeps this gaslighting alive and we have internalised it. People even hate seeing black women happy and even more livid when we actually like and love ourselves.
I believe it's more nuanced than this....
BW have NEVER, as a collective, been able to be taken of, so it's something unfamiliar to many bw. We're so used to putting on work boots and digging a ditch right alongside the men, oftentimes absent of the man. This behavior has to be unlearned and until it is, stop birthing more generations of desperation. @@charmaineespeut4627
Worshipping and idolizing sex and having any man over being confident enough to remain single until you find someone worthy
No proper examples plus we don’t listen 😢.
Tamar, why do strangers need to know this?
😢 Shame died a couple years ago.
Oversharing is just desperation and need for validation
Mental health is the greatest asset and all the money in the world will not do any good if you are in the “crazy house”(e.g. Wendy Williams). My mother told me that there are many people in the “crazy house” because they did not know when to let go …..and walk away(e.g. toxic relationship).
I’ve definitely been the 🤡 in a prior relationship. He came divorced with three children, a struggling ex-wife (🚩I didn’t catch), unpaid child support, no job (aspiring rapper) and a penchant for DV. I stayed trying to prove people wrong and my worthiness of love; just crazy when I think back on those dark years. I’m thankful for the awakening, awareness and growth I’ve experienced through therapy. Unlike Tamar, I took those L’s out of mainstream public’s eyes (praise God). That said, I hate this very public and embarrassing Calvin Candie situation for Tamar (🥴). Hopefully, she will wake up; wish her well. ❤
Gurl this was soo embarrassing. Why would Tamar go public with this?
Right!!! 😮
Mental Illness.
Not even the CIA can get that type of information out of me .
Shame died a couple of years ago. God help! 🙏
Booty sandwich 🤢🤮 just why?
They need to start moving like Lorey Harvey....in silence😭 Cut that man off than randomly pop up months later with a new one.
They love when you make a spectacle over them😅
People hate on Lori because she isn't out here embarassing herself
Yes, people should be scandalous in silence. I agree.
I'm happy for Lori. Living her life.
: How about "popping up" later, alone. Mentally/spiritually, and emotionally healthier!❤
It’s felon bae that is sending me 😂🤣😄🤣
Hi
I’m 54 years young
What is a “whole BOOTY” sandwich 😩
And why does one continue to air their “laundry” clean or derrrty!
What happened to a private life-- it’s the best life
Chlöe thank you for this feminine platform. I have learned a lot
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Whew… we really gotta get our self esteem up because this is happening too much nowadays.
"500 year difference" LoL😂
Tamar, please get off social media and get a therapist. #therapistlife
Sad to see the state of affairs with what women are going through today,heartbreaking. I resent and hate the idea of a man even thinking he can ask me for money. Naturally I am turned off and despise a dependant person
Men never ask for money. Boys do. Big difference.
When you like the video before it fully starts because you know the message/ commentary is going to be great 😊
Calvin Candie 😂😂😂😂💀 I almost choked on my lunch
😂😂😂😂
I wholeheartedly want women to love ourselves deeply and unapologetically!! Especially relatively successful, accomplished Black women. A piece of a man is just that, a piece.
Ladies please stop settling for these lackluster males. Lackluster males won't EVA settle for a woman who they deem less than their desires. It's better to be happily single than in a unhealthy, unbalanced, toxic relationship. #BurnTheCape
Now how do I explain listening to “Not getting played by a booty eating dusty” 10:21 on a loudspeaker?! 😭
😂😂😂😂😅😅
This is BEYOND EMBARRASSING for Tamar.. I’m truly, truly embarrassed for her..
One would think women would learn from Mary J Blige, Sherry Shepard, Wendy Williams, like WAKE UP Sisters!
She think she's embarassing him but she really advertising her clown behavior. Its sad really. Pressures from family, society and the lack of self love. Been there. Hope they heal sooner than later❤
She's rambling and all over the place, almost like a nervous breakdown. I'm so sorry for her.
I've always told my daughters that if they get with one of those Whyte men, they are to hold them to a higher standard "because to he whom much is given, much is required "
♥️🙏
LOL @ Calvin Candie 😂😂😂 goodbye Ms.Chloe 🤣
quote of the week: ‘ate someone’s whole booty sandwich’.
And she said it like it was a flex for her to STILL have married him after that.🥴
🤢🤢
@@GB_008 😂
🤮 Some people are ill because of sexu@l perverse practices.
As black women what’s really going on with us bc rich/wealthy bw are getting got too !
Restitution is all he need to say before I run
I wouldn't be a "sugar momma" even at 80+, for someone I consider incredibly attractive. No idea why the heck would any woman be ok with, let alone WANT this.
Chile I had my popcorn ready for this one. Your assessment is always on point.
Meagan has to be trolling. I refuse to believe she’s that dense.
She let Khloe Kardashian who was dressed like a pimp put me in a dog collar so this doesn't surprise me .
I don't believe the rumour
Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes, but Tamar and Jennifer marrying these men under these circumstances sounds like something a “naive, never lived life, don’t know no better” 20 year old, would make. I don’t mean to sound judgmental but, aren’t these women well into their 40’s? I understand age does not equate wisdom, but come on now.
They know better but desperation knows no age.
JR married Tamar to see if he could get some Braxton's reality checks. Tamar married him thinking he was her last chance. He ran away when he realized she was p00rer than expected.
Age means nothing if your inner child is still hurt. Gotta do that shadow work or you’ll keep going through the lesson.
I have a cousin that been a sugar mama for decades on decades, her husband sometimes puts his hands on her and she doesn't want to leave him, it's a mess, and he's Italian.
This seems to be quite common among a few people I know, a girl at church is financing her wedding because her man (he has 3 kids youngest is 3 years old and their from a previous relationship) He hasn’t got the money right now to pay for the wedding, lots of debt and he’s moving into her flat to help him live a cheaper lifestyle and clear a few of his bills 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. She doesn’t want to wait for him to sort him self out so she’s helping him and he said why wait for the wedding it’s to expensive and to hard to save up so they should just have a smaller wedding now this year and then he can move in. They been dating 2 years.
He’s not looking for a wife he looking for help but sis thinks she’s won while other women would run 🏃🏽♀️ she’s late 30s and desperate to get married he’s early 40s and this will be 2nd marriage. And we all know how this marriage will go she expect him to step up and be the provider and he be looking to relax because he’s got everything he needs so why work harder plus he knows he can rely on her for more help and money
Oh, my gosh!! I'm so scared for your friend!!! I hope that by some miracle, this man is an exception and not the rule. As i was reading your comment, I heard a loud alarm ringing in my head and I saw red lights flashing. She's stepping into a very dangerous situation!!!!😢
It’s extremely common no one really talks about it.
I tried to buy love from day one. Boys were never attracted to me all of my school years and I wasn't groomed well enough to attract anything better. I am now 69 and I still have not come up but now that I'm aware, I feel like it's too late to try to do better so I do without. I do not have enough self-esteem to be in a relationship with someone who I could respect and trust to submit to. I trust no one now and have resigned myself to do without. However, I'm not going back to that trash.
You have no idea how many women are out here trying to buy love. They intentionally chase/date the very hobo and DL cheaters they complain about.
: You deserve love!😢
Your videos are like fine wine - they keep getting better with time!!! So many gems in this one!
Oh Ms. Chloe, you are always on time. Thank you! I hate this for all women involved.
3:23 So basically, she’s paying for the wedding. 💒 Of all the qualified quiet rich men across the world she can date and marry, she lands a felon?!?! 3:23
If Tamar don't get in that studio and make the best haRd&B album of her life.. That's all I'm saying. Leave it on the track. I will be da**** if I ever let a man have me online out here embarrassing myself..Nope.Nope. I do truly feel for all these women.
My lovely Feminine sisters, to thank and support Chloe. PLEASE DON’T SKIP the advertisements. Becoz this channel is GOLD💎💖💎
Tamar should have gotten with Tyler Perry, wrote Acts, parts, did an entire stage play-with her as lead actress/performer, because she is a drama queen, and took that hot mess on the road. Ain't no way I got Hollywood and Broadway connections and I'm giving up drama for free-AIN'T NO WAY! 😵💫💀
I’ve been here before. The pride on their faces trying to explain justifying the delusion is WILD. This is what happens when God is not 1st in your life. Desperation kicks in full gear
This!!!!!! I turned 30 this year and since having a closer relationship with God my mindset has completely shifted! Everything and anyone who wants access to my life, it has to make SENSE.
New subscriber! I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING you said! NOT ONE LIE TOLD!!!
the outro. 🔥
Inner work is SO important. I'm glad I got drug through the mud in my early 20s 😅 to draw attention to some inner wounds I hadn't healed. Now I'm genuinely becoming my best self
Ouch!! That so so hard to hear her rant!!! I hope Tamar heals❤️🩹🙏🏾✨
Felon Bae Fiancé😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“A 500 year difference” sent me clean through the roof!!!! That’s exactly what it is!
I had a boyfriend in Jamaica he was there years older than me he was 47 I would help him time to time and eventually I got turned off and when he wanted to come to Canada and that I would have to sponsor him I couldn’t do it
I had something similar happen to me. He got upset I wouldn't help him, but it not worth the risk
I feel really bad for Tamar. Tamar is a victim and a survivor of sexual assault from her childhood. I learned this from the time she and all of her family were on the tv show “Iyanla, Fix My. Life” She hasn’t healed from that traumatic experience. It shows up in all of her current and previous relationship experiences. I wish her so much love and healing. I wish for her to find the inner strength and courage to face her hurt and come to healing through a licensed therapist and spiritual practice.
Tamar is no victim. She is an incredibly exhausting woman
This is the ultimate PSA and going to be very helpful to me. Thank you for this. ❤
This situation with Jennifer is ABHORRENT‼‼ It's absolutely ridiculous.🙄🙄😑😑
So he basically told her about his restitution to ask her to pay for it indirectly I was wondering why Jennifer was so salty when I called out her boyfriend on her youtube channel now I see why
Nobody can indirectly ask you to pay for something if you have enough brain cells not to offer up your money.
@bluevillsplash well he just did in that clip
@lillysglamhouse I heard the same thing you did. I have enough brain cells to only offer words of support and not money.
@bluevillsplash I agree lol but I don't think she did that and your a man women do things based off emotion and not logic
@@Girlschitchat you know what I am based on some Pic. Got it
Was I raised strangely? I am a divorced woman who has no fear of being alone. Marriage or companionship is not the primary focus of my life and it never has been. I think that is why, although filing for divorce was a painful experience, after 5 years of toiling over it, I was able to choose myself. I just don't understand why so many women idolize relationships and make them the center of their lives. It is so draining to me. I'm not saying it's wrong to aspire to be in a loving relationship, but I just do not understand why any and every man is better than no man to some.
The amount of restitution Jen's man has to pay would send me running for the hills. Also the DV charges omg. 🏃♀️
Baby the title got me screaminggggg I had to subscribe and see what you tombout
What boxes did he check for her? Jennifer always seemed classy to me I’m surprised that she settled for him
You have provided an excellent summary of your perspective on Jennifer Williams-Gold/Walden's "marriage" [no marriage certificate currently has been located]/relationship that matches my viewpoint. Ultimately, it's Jennifer's life based on what makes her happy (not wanting to be a cat lady/alone), even if she is paying to play and lies to herself (cognitive dissonance) that she has "discernment and does not do broke." Her actions show the exact opposite of the words from her own mouth.
I could listen to Chloe speak any day!!! ❤
Not SIR CALVIN CANDIE!
I hollered 😂😂😂
Tamar did this to herself. She had the signs. And for Tiffany, she’s getting the signs not to marry this man right now
been there, done that. lesson learned, it should always be hypergamy. an equal of your status who is generous or above your status.
SMH…. Women taking L’s…. It never ends😒
Jennifer is a younger Shirley Strawberry. Both have a younger felon husband/ fiance.
Even worse, she has a wealthy family
Alexa, play “if you don’t want to love me” by Tamar please!
He sound like he play for the other team
Look at him looking at her with that deceitful expression. I’m 41, broke and silly myself, Eastern Europe, so maybe culturally different but how in the world would you fall for this clown? Hard earned money should be invested in business and passed to children, in my opinion.
Jennifer’s prison bae’s “wait time” before she volunteered to help him is alarming. It reminds me of that lady from the Steve Harvey morning show, Shirley. I'm really afraid for her.
Tamar Braxton is very insecure and has low self-esteem. It seems like she can't be by herself. Women that are afraid to be alone go from one bad relationship to another. If you're going to get a younger man, find one that is mature and has his own resources. Jennifer strikes me as desperate to be paying for a man.
Another excellent video. I've dated a few people because I was vulnerable; one used me and ended up in a relationship with a relative, and another lied. I'm unsure why this happened to me, but now I am learning self-love. I will pray for her, and thank you, Chloe, for affirming that men who use others or take money from women and single parents are not true men at all!
I had a dude tell me I should cancel my Infrared sauna studio subscription. His idea was that I should just go into an attic like he does and I’ll sweat all I need too. I never responded again. He got no opportunity to continue lol
Why I am single to this day the only man I took care of was my son he’s grown now and has his own family and I’m good. I’m not taking care of no man unless it’s my husband and we take care of one another.
Tamar is embarrassing and is too old to be acting like this! She needs to grow up! Jennifer is paying for that young man, and that will back fire on her!
Megan is soooo fine, I'm mad she's choosing this path.
Yesss me too. She can do soo much better.
FELON BAE FIANCE. I'm done!!! lol No ma'am...Namaste single. I'm good.
He’s a sugary scammer….Come on Jen!
They think the relationship will be easier if they control the money. NOPE!!!
Tamar!!!!!! 🫣🫣🫣
Sis went from sugar baby to sugar mama real quick 😢