10 REASONS WHY YOUR NATURAL HAIR ISN’T GROWING PAST SHOULDER LENGTH + HOW TO FIX IT / GROW IT

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
  • In this video I will be addressing 10 reasons why your hair isn’t growing past shoulder length and how to grow it back. I hope these tips will help you grow you hair as you begin your natural hair Journey.
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  • @eugeniakelcy8676
    @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад +6614

    “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his court with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations” -Psalm 100:4-5
    Update : You can go www.kCurlsys.com to shop my Haircare Line.

    • @trinniceorlando1477
      @trinniceorlando1477 4 года назад +139

      Amen, to God be the glory great things He has done. Thank you for this video

    • @mimischannel308
      @mimischannel308 4 года назад +40

      Amen

    • @l.patrick3155
      @l.patrick3155 4 года назад +19

      🙏🏾🙏🏾!!

    • @thanamesny7807
      @thanamesny7807 4 года назад +18

      Amen!!!!

    • @LBay-ko9jf
      @LBay-ko9jf 4 года назад +32

      Thanks sis you are amazing God bless you all and Jesus loves you all stay safe with this coronavirus going around

  • @shreksspawn2359
    @shreksspawn2359 4 года назад +12605

    Natural hair is sometimes harder than algebra...

    • @umujamal
      @umujamal 4 года назад +182

      life hurts don't cry lol sooo true

    • @shreksspawn2359
      @shreksspawn2359 4 года назад +107

      @Fol A ik but for the lazy girls. Ahhhhh

    • @l.patrick3155
      @l.patrick3155 4 года назад +14

      😂😂

    • @l.patrick3155
      @l.patrick3155 4 года назад +6

      @@shreksspawn2359 😂😂

    • @daniellemcconnell1329
      @daniellemcconnell1329 4 года назад +12

      Fol A it be changing up tho and my hair is bra strap length😂

  • @kasheikaedwards427
    @kasheikaedwards427 4 года назад +8610

    So nobody gonna talk about how gorgeous she is ?? omg your a beautiful black queen your hair looks amazing

  • @shade4851
    @shade4851 3 года назад +2482

    when her shrinkage is your hair stretched :(

  • @guapceline2584
    @guapceline2584 4 года назад +2871

    I notice guys hair grow and they don’t worry about split ends.

    • @cocobronze7587
      @cocobronze7587 3 года назад +177

      Men hormones are stronger than women thats why they hair grows faster 😀

    • @dronesg5417
      @dronesg5417 3 года назад +648

      @@cocobronze7587 lol, men hormones are NOT stronger. Testosterone weaken the hair follicle and cause baldness.

    • @makeouthill8194
      @makeouthill8194 3 года назад +29

      That’s that testosterone

    • @ranitagadling4312
      @ranitagadling4312 3 года назад +369

      @sylvia ashby their hair grows faster simply because they don't use chemicals or hot tools for styling.

    • @aleeshaatwater9427
      @aleeshaatwater9427 3 года назад +55

      mens hair grows faster due to the fact that they work out more and when your work out more your hair grows faster due to sweat

  • @gennybetwana9620
    @gennybetwana9620 4 года назад +2245

    Your face
    Your hair
    Your eyes
    Your shape
    Your skin
    God has blessed you in every way possible

    • @taylorsara1237
      @taylorsara1237 4 года назад +119

      And that lovely brown skin... She looks like a doll...

    • @sanai9333
      @sanai9333 4 года назад +32

      Irene Nakibongo i agree she’s so beautiful

    • @naja.7798
      @naja.7798 4 года назад +24

      I agree she us perfect

    • @Ntjitube
      @Ntjitube 4 года назад +24

      Dope personality too

    • @eugeniakelcy8676
      @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад +19

      Update : You can go www.kCurlsys.com to shop my Haircare Line.

  • @Laonciamj
    @Laonciamj 4 года назад +3989

    Tired of getting on here everyday and seeing a video about why my hair isn’t growing. I feel attacked and I’m reporting y’all 💀😭🤣🤣

  • @destinyluv8828
    @destinyluv8828 3 года назад +700

    I love seeing another 4C sister who’s got long hair and is a Christian. Love it! God bless ❤️

    • @vhix64
      @vhix64 3 года назад +34

      Genuinely curious as to why her religion stood out to u, especially considering it’s Christianity

    • @HI-jm2ij
      @HI-jm2ij 3 года назад +12

      She said something about god not Christianity

    • @itzanxlia7685
      @itzanxlia7685 3 года назад

      .......4.....d

    • @childofgod1237
      @childofgod1237 3 года назад +3

      @@vhix64 maybe because we can’t cut our hair

    • @tstar5944
      @tstar5944 3 года назад +2

      Her hair isn't 4c

  • @jontevalera5899
    @jontevalera5899 3 года назад +373

    I’ve been growing up with ppl even in my family telling me I can’t grow my hair longer cuz I’m black and I refuse to accept that because it doesn’t make sense

    • @Amatullah.574
      @Amatullah.574 2 года назад +40

      When I was young ALL of us black children had long hair.

    • @daniellem2992
      @daniellem2992 2 года назад +21

      @@Amatullah.574 yes! with beads hanging down and swinging on our backs lol

    • @lossiefreeman4395
      @lossiefreeman4395 9 месяцев назад +3

      Yep, cause it was only washed about 4 times a year, scalp greased, put away in plaits or corn rows, and left alone the rest of the time! 😅

    • @bertaalvin9917
      @bertaalvin9917 3 месяца назад

      Love this Brilliant Educated Beautiful Young Queen

  • @iisunflower_girlii9482
    @iisunflower_girlii9482 4 года назад +10751

    1.Stop cutting your hair 4:28 2.Not moisturizing 6:11 3.Poor hair care routine 8:19 4.Picking your hair 10:39 5.Your diet 11:23 6.Over processing your hair 12:25
    7.Build up of product 15:14
    8.Excessive shedding 16:35
    9.Use of chemicals 19:07
    10.Don’t know your hair porosity 21:20 I hoped this help you if you don’t have time to watch the whole video.

  • @NappQueen
    @NappQueen 4 года назад +2090

    “God is so wonderful he doesn’t want us to go around bald.” I love how spiritual you are! Love your God girl!

    • @birungisaidat3325
      @birungisaidat3325 4 года назад +41

      RIP 💔😭😭😭 you died so young😢, RIP SIS. Jesus is Lord 🙌❤️

    • @jael8842
      @jael8842 4 года назад +16

      @@birungisaidat3325 did she die?.... 😲omg

    • @skydaddy9104
      @skydaddy9104 4 года назад +23

      Jael 88 yes she’s dead her boyfriend murdered her unfortunately

    • @skydaddy9104
      @skydaddy9104 4 года назад +5

      isaac fiedler yes she’s dead her boyfriend murdered her unfortunately

    • @iloveanime506
      @iloveanime506 4 года назад +4

      Who died

  • @jessiewebb1583
    @jessiewebb1583 4 года назад +1370

    "Put the scissors down!" I feel like that should be on a t-shirt😂

  • @nanamana451
    @nanamana451 3 года назад +186

    Also, let’s make it a habit to speak love into our hair and bodies in general. Don’t say it’s too hard, or make it seem like a chore to take care of it. Instead say, “I love every little beautiful strand of hair on my head. I’m grateful to be able to nurture and nourish my hair.” It works ❤️

  • @akuzbby3104
    @akuzbby3104 4 года назад +3062

    Who else looking for hair tips this quarantine? This hair must grow

    • @monicasnyder5369
      @monicasnyder5369 4 года назад +29

      Me , for real

    • @Ola-rs4qx
      @Ola-rs4qx 4 года назад +90

      As soon as you said “this hair must grow” you sounded so Igbo and I checked your name just to make sure and I was like “yup”

    • @akuzbby3104
      @akuzbby3104 4 года назад +20

      @@Ola-rs4qx 🤣🤣🤣

    • @vivianmk1970
      @vivianmk1970 4 года назад +49

      Ong I'm tryna be a new person after this is over.. new face, new body, new hair. EVERYTHING 🤣

    • @Maaseiahyah
      @Maaseiahyah 4 года назад +13

      Akubueze Kosi Caribbean person here...
      This hair go Grow!!!! 😄

  • @JAYNEmeetsWORLD
    @JAYNEmeetsWORLD 4 года назад +797

    Caucasian hair dresser here. Bless you for this video. In school (depending on where you go) they absolutely do NOT teach us about hair beyond a 2C. And that scale is pretty limited as is. Shameful. I'm so grateful for this information. Thank you.

    • @candancereed5891
      @candancereed5891 2 года назад +61

      I love this I’m so glad you are going out of your comfort zone 😍 I get turned away all the time and I’m a good tipper 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @sjonail
      @sjonail 2 года назад +18

      There is a GROWING DEMAND. trust and believe mix kids will NEED YOUR HELP💯

    • @supremedjon8423
      @supremedjon8423 2 года назад +16

      @@candancereed5891 I've been turned around once and will never put myself in that predicament again. Moved away for college and had noooo idea hair salons would tell you they don't do your type of hair. I would never forget that feeling, like the whole salon stopped breathing when I walked in. Black stylist would not turn white clients around

    • @msp9810
      @msp9810 2 года назад +25

      @@supremedjon8423 be grateful they turned you around verses mess up your whole head! I wish I was turned around! Smh

    • @GODZKRE8TION
      @GODZKRE8TION 2 года назад +2

      @@msp9810 Excellent work seeing the positive. Bless you for this. It helps.

  • @mollymone1817
    @mollymone1817 4 года назад +574

    “Stop cutting your hair”....I needed to see this yesterday. I hear you sis!!

    • @moriahidaura5631
      @moriahidaura5631 3 года назад +3

      I needed this years ago

    • @daijahfanning376
      @daijahfanning376 3 года назад +2

      I needed this cause it’s like my hair is staying at shoulder length cause I feel like the just cut my whole new growth off but I’m getting into protective styles now

    • @audacitywill4745
      @audacitywill4745 2 года назад

      Need this last night

  • @joykavira6013
    @joykavira6013 4 года назад +235

    I can’t seem to find my comment but I was here 3months ago and yess I’m seeing progress in my hair this video really helped!!😁

    • @torig.5864
      @torig.5864 3 года назад +4

      YAS queen!! Growth

  • @annoyingvegan98
    @annoyingvegan98 4 года назад +1311

    I never understood the obsession with cutting these invisible split ends every month in the natural hair community. probably why so many naturals hair is stuck at the same length

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 4 года назад +115

      They cut more than they grow

    • @xoxarily
      @xoxarily 4 года назад +95

      I just snip off single strand knots.

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 4 года назад +6

      chinnie New Subscriber

    • @MayaKC958
      @MayaKC958 4 года назад +10

      Xarii Fernandes I have this and dnt know how to get rid of them

    • @xoxarily
      @xoxarily 4 года назад +57

      @cutei pie
      I’m sorry but there is no actual way to completely get rid of them. Same with spilt ends, they are just always gonna come back or happen.
      You can prevent them tho. Make sure to put oil or grease on your ends, it lubricates them so they’re easier to untangle. Try to keep hair in protective styles like twists, braids, cornrows and buns. I don’t recommend puffs, wash and gos or twist/braid outs often cuz it allows you’re hair to knot up and tangle with each other of its self.
      Keep hair stretched as well, whether you braid it, band it or even low heat blow drying, it keeps your strands elongated so their not shrunken and can easily tangle with each other.
      Even though she said what she said above, I still think you should trim your hair. If I see or encounter a single strand knot, I always cut it out and don’t rip it out bcuz that can cause the end of that strand to split.
      Edit: grammatical corrections

  • @mikimomikimoto5426
    @mikimomikimoto5426 4 года назад +889

    When my hair was relaxed and I went to the hair stylist every month to get it redone or treatment I used to HATE them for trimming my hair. My hair was growing and yes i had split ends but trimming every month whatever I growth I had was gone. I honestly think some hair stylists low key don’t want your hair to be longer than theirs 🤣

    • @aleciahall1471
      @aleciahall1471 4 года назад +76

      The couldn't tell me nothing. I barely wash my hair, I don't treat it nor cut it and it grows.... I'm going back natural now, I'm not doing the big chop and my hair is growing fast.

    • @jackieanderson6618
      @jackieanderson6618 4 года назад +15

      Alecia Hall you should wash your hair every 2-4 weeks to ensure your hair is clean

    • @britnee2586
      @britnee2586 4 года назад +50

      Some hair stylist are like that for real. I went to one stylist for a protective style and she hurt my hair bad. I had to chop it all off and start over again.

    • @lynak4942
      @lynak4942 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣really?

    • @destinyluv8828
      @destinyluv8828 3 года назад +1

      Yup!

  • @ltconyers78
    @ltconyers78 4 года назад +127

    I HAVE BEEN TELLING PEOPLE FOREVER TO STOP CUTTING YOUR HAIR! THANK YOU!!! THIS WHOLE VIDEO IS LIFE! Good job, baby girl.👑

    • @oneprayingmama1680
      @oneprayingmama1680 3 года назад +17

      My daughter actually said, "Your hair will grow if you stop cutting it." The simplest, realist advice for serious growth.

    • @nikicarrie4071
      @nikicarrie4071 Год назад

      It literally never made sense to ne I never did that

  • @ange7679
    @ange7679 4 года назад +55

    “But I saw this youtuber with a relaxer and her hair was long...but clearly YOU DONT” 😂 I’m definitely subscribing not only cause of that but I needed to be scolded for the way I treat my hair 😭 thank you

  • @sazshaemills3102
    @sazshaemills3102 4 года назад +472

    I be trying to tell them that our hair is a plant we need WATER!!! Forget all them other moisturizing product. Water water water water 💦

    • @Michelina71
      @Michelina71 4 года назад +6

      Yes sis PERIODT

    • @ashleyzvavanjanja3664
      @ashleyzvavanjanja3664 4 года назад +5

      Sazshae Mills like washing or just spraying?

    • @zolotaya_rozh
      @zolotaya_rozh 4 года назад +22

      @@ashleyzvavanjanja3664 You can just spray water on your hair often, like every day or whatever suits your hair

    • @sillycheese301
      @sillycheese301 4 года назад +33

      My hair will dry out if I just put water lmao

    • @McFlurrArtt
      @McFlurrArtt 4 года назад +29

      My hair will get really nappy if I just add water like it will basically die and dry if I put water in it and let it sit without doing anything 😂🤣🤣😭🤣😭😭🤣🤣

  • @fitnessbyblessing
    @fitnessbyblessing 3 года назад +62

    This video is revolutionary. Sis said do you know what split ends looks like on black people hair. Lordt I do not. Majority of these hair schools are built my Caucasian specialists. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @charlenewalls6671
      @charlenewalls6671 2 года назад

      So true they don't even know how to press and curl

  • @BeansNpotatoes
    @BeansNpotatoes Год назад +18

    The fact she spoke biological process of the hair just makes everything she says that much more important and spit on! Thank you ♥️♥️♥️

  • @eugeniakelcy8676
    @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад +348

    Update : You can go www.kCurlsys.com to shop my Haircare Line.

    • @blazinbadzulanetwork2066
      @blazinbadzulanetwork2066 4 года назад +6

      So i got heat damage last july due to a remy installment for graduation , so being the lovely girl that i am , i decided to do my research since i oh so loved my hair from the time i was a child till now when im a teenager , so i heard from a friend to cut a little bit of the heat damage at a time
      And so i did
      Some of the front section on the left side of my head is where the heat damage is
      So now i walking around with short patched hair on the left side of my head and long hair to the back
      Biggest mistake ever
      After my country is corona free , i need to go to the hair salon
      I dont even know if it will grow back fast enough 😢😢😢

    • @matthewo5275
      @matthewo5275 4 года назад

      Also where could we get Fenugreek from?

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 4 года назад

      @@matthewo5275
      You can get it from the supermarket in the seasoning/spices section or go to your local asian market or wholefoods

    • @l.patrick3155
      @l.patrick3155 4 года назад

      Preach, sister!

    • @Zizzyyzz
      @Zizzyyzz 4 года назад +1

      @@matthewo5275 Amazon.

  • @moniquemorris5833
    @moniquemorris5833 4 года назад +560

    "Relaxed hair is not healthy hair, PERIOD!" Yessssss!!!!!! I see videos talking avoyr how to get healthy relaxed hair, I'm like.....how sway???? How???? Those two words cancel out each other

    • @NBnNC
      @NBnNC 4 года назад +42

      Monique Morris
      How can something “not healthy” grow 6-8 inches a year and retain length? My sister has permed hair and it’s been flourishing 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @moniquemorris5833
      @moniquemorris5833 4 года назад +112

      @@NBnNC if your scalp isn't damaged, there is no reason it shouldn't grow. Breakage is the reason why it seems to not grow. As for the healthy thing.....its like saying you can have healthy heat damage. Your curl pattern is literally broken, so all that length is still damaged. If she doesn't care, that's fine. She gotta do what she wants. It's her hair

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 4 года назад +6

      Monique Morris New Sub

    • @RedFlyingFox007
      @RedFlyingFox007 4 года назад +36

      The same way you can have healthy coloured hair.
      It's about controlled damage. You have to balance enough chemical processing to remove the curl pattern/colour while keeping hair strength, volume and shine.

    • @moniquemorris5833
      @moniquemorris5833 4 года назад +48

      @@RedFlyingFox007 Damaged hair is hair that has been broken/altered from it's original curl pattern. You can have color without color damage. Ive seen people keep their curl pattern with color. You can't have permed hair without damaged hair. The hair is literally broken that's how it becomes permed. You have to destroy it. It can still be long though if you have hair thick/strong enough to withstand the damage.

  • @LowkysWorld
    @LowkysWorld 3 года назад +92

    But on a real note. Out of all the RUclips videos I watched on this subject, y’all are finally getting through to me that I have to moisturize my hair. Cause I can’t even lie, I protective style & don’t touch my sis until 2 months later 💀 then wonder why she broken af.

    • @saraiday1646
      @saraiday1646 3 года назад +2

      Lol. I've been doing this lately and know better. 🤦‍♀️

    • @triplea2443
      @triplea2443 2 года назад

      Girl me too

    • @Mostly3ise
      @Mostly3ise 2 года назад

      This the one!!

    • @rnelan1e
      @rnelan1e Год назад

      FRRR 😭😭

  • @fastfarkyfitness7452
    @fastfarkyfitness7452 3 года назад +52

    Agree that relaxers are damaging. Relaxed my hair for years and all I did was fight thin and balding hair. Finally cut it all off and went natural and my hair started growing like wild. I’m about four months in and what a difference!! No more thin hair. No balding. I discovered I have 4c hair but I’m not complaining. It’s finally thick healthy and growing. I’m just focused on growing longer hair so this video is great. Only wish I had the sense to do it a long time ago! Thanks for sharing. The water tip is very helpful.

    • @tequilashots875
      @tequilashots875 3 года назад +1

      Why would you complain because you have 4c hair??

  • @mauve3734
    @mauve3734 4 года назад +907

    Lemme take my iron pills so I can stop shivering

    • @thediariesofdes
      @thediariesofdes 4 года назад +83

      lolitaspeach wait😭... I don’t know whether i should laugh or not!

    • @michelle7455
      @michelle7455 4 года назад +5

      😂😂

    • @mzgoldieloxxx
      @mzgoldieloxxx 4 года назад +43

      lolitaspeach girl yes! My hair grew long as hell before I cut off four inches last year and realized it was the damn iron I was taking that boosted my growth

    • @mauve3734
      @mauve3734 4 года назад +9

      Samantha Sosa got prescribed some by my doctor lol required to take them everyday fingers crossed

    • @mzgoldieloxxx
      @mzgoldieloxxx 4 года назад +34

      lolitaspeach you’ll see the growth after a few months. I have iron-deficiency anemia but I get constipated from iron pills (TMI sorry) so I take the liquid supplement

  • @lenny6256
    @lenny6256 4 года назад +74

    That's a whole melanin queen right there 🌹

  • @aleeyahthompson1743
    @aleeyahthompson1743 2 года назад +28

    "IM A GIRL WHO IS OBSESSED WITH HAIR" Who feels the same way?♡I know I do ♡♡

  • @eventplanner461
    @eventplanner461 3 года назад +152

    After reading the comments, I feel like it is important to note that while you shouldn't be scissor happy you still shouldn't avoid trims like it is the plague. At a certain point we have to worry about the health of our hair as opposed to length. Your hair may be long, but if the ends of your hair are see-through, thin, jagged, and are making all sorts of W~y-shapes, what's the point? And it isn't that hard to spot single strand knots or split ends either. Just give the hair a blowout and feel the ends of your hair. If they are rough and see through snip,snip. Also, if you have 4c hair, you shouldn't be trimming your hair in it's natural shruken state anyway. If you do that you'll never get an even cut(just speaking from experience). The longer you wait to trim your hair, the more hair you will inevitably need to cut off in the long run.

    • @schoolwork232
      @schoolwork232 3 года назад +17

      I'm personally snipping nothing! I am very happy with my hair as it is! :)

    • @Dree03
      @Dree03 3 года назад +11

      What u end up having to cut really ends up being equivalent. It’s no point in blowing it out all the time to check for that. It’s counterproductive since you’re damaging your hair by blowing it out and could just trim when you’re comfortable with the length.

    • @karabothechristlovingafrican
      @karabothechristlovingafrican 3 года назад +14

      I agree with you, I have healthy well growing natural hair and it did not grow as beautifully, until I started trimming my ends...If it's making you look like a kitty cat on the surface and you can see the sun through it despite it being really thick - it's not hair sis - it's ends!

    • @honeybliss45
      @honeybliss45 2 года назад +7

      you didn't listen to what she said.

    • @eventplanner461
      @eventplanner461 2 года назад +5

      @@Dree03 What u end up cutting off is not the equivalent. How split ends work is that they travel up the hair shaft. One strand of hair can have 1-6 splits up to the root. I have seen naturals with really long hair, but ends that were so see-through they have to cut off half their length. They had to do a whole big chop.

  • @yasminsilene9724
    @yasminsilene9724 4 года назад +793

    i lost it at "TELL THEM TO DROP THEIR ADDRESS CAUSE I WANNA FIGHT THEM"

  • @y.spence
    @y.spence 4 года назад +951

    What’s a relaxer!? 😆 Are ppl still doing this ?

    • @moonhoneymami
      @moonhoneymami 4 года назад +109

      Yasky yeah I was like wait isn’t everyone natural by now? Lol

    • @NBnNC
      @NBnNC 4 года назад +43

      Idk, I guess it depends on locality but I know more and more women transitioning from natural to texlax hair 🤷🏾‍♀️. At least they gave it a shot - I know I did for seven long tedious years🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @moonhoneymami
      @moonhoneymami 4 года назад +15

      NB in DC I can definitely understand anyone’s frustration will be natural for 6 years on 4/14/20 and my hair is only (maybe was because I been in a protective style for 4 weeks) apl stretched. Me and my hair are just beginning to talk to each other.

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 4 года назад

      Yasky New Sub

    • @saymynamejk4409
      @saymynamejk4409 4 года назад +6

      I am 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @playlistpersondotcom9719
    @playlistpersondotcom9719 3 года назад +59

    They should teach this stuff to people who want to be a barber. I would feel a lot safer that my hair won’t be damaged if they did.

  • @tany2191
    @tany2191 3 года назад +523

    "I barely drink water or eat healthy" -has perfect skin and literal abs. IM PISSED

    • @morgenteart7119
      @morgenteart7119 3 года назад +40

      For real oh to be blessed with a fast metabolism 😭💀

    • @Amatullah.574
      @Amatullah.574 2 года назад +5

      It's youth honey. Can't do that for ever.

    • @NeoMokgabo21
      @NeoMokgabo21 2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ieshjust16
      @ieshjust16 2 года назад +1

      @@Amatullah.574 not true.. I started struggling with my weight in my youth.

  • @VanessaK7
    @VanessaK7 4 года назад +326

    Your not lying. I think my hairs not growing because I suffer from anemia (low in iron) and I stopped taking my supplements for more than 3 years, my hairs really struggling to grow long.

    • @inspirestrength505
      @inspirestrength505 4 года назад +38

      My iron use to be low but by consciously eating the right foods in a greater quantity my hair is thriving very well. Spinach, kale , beans, lentils are great for your hair. Check the packaging of the foods that you eat make sure that the iron level is 5% and above. xoxo

    • @nosayabaomo7004
      @nosayabaomo7004 4 года назад +2

      Same here sis! I need to start taking them again

    • @mahoganired8608
      @mahoganired8608 4 года назад +4

      Your diet plays a huge part...I was a anemic.... supplements was a must for me and my diet

    • @Iamblessed12345
      @Iamblessed12345 4 года назад +13

      Ladies if you gonna take iron supplements make sure you take vitamins c with it otherwise it will be hard for u to go 💩.

    • @whatzittooyah
      @whatzittooyah 4 года назад +7

      I think that’s my problem. Low on iron and vitamins. I just recently started eating dinner every night. Also stress y’all can’t forget stress

  • @Kittencloudy4u
    @Kittencloudy4u 4 года назад +128

    Omg I always pick my hair and my dad complains about all the hair on the floor I didnt realise how much damage I was doing thank you so much, my poor hair, and a barely moisturize OMG I'm a criminal

    • @nomthandazondlovu5378
      @nomthandazondlovu5378 3 года назад +6

      Same omw 😞😞😞 its a bad habit

    • @celestialextraterrestrial305
      @celestialextraterrestrial305 3 года назад +3

      Same and I’ve lost sooo much hair because of this

    • @Milo-dw7pn
      @Milo-dw7pn 3 года назад +3

      Omgg same it's such a bad habit

    • @moenayt_
      @moenayt_ 3 года назад +2

      Me too👁👄👁

    • @AbianahAlmeida
      @AbianahAlmeida 3 года назад +6

      I used to do that I really thought I was killing it with my dry damaged fro😂😂

  • @jaymitch123
    @jaymitch123 3 года назад +150

    When she said "get to know your hair" I felt that lol when everybody went crazy over coconut oil, my hair was like "🤣🤣🤣🤣" shae butter helps me. My hair does not likey the oil of the coconut

    • @thelovelylife7451
      @thelovelylife7451 3 года назад

      Samesies 🥲

    • @KrissyFizzle
      @KrissyFizzle 3 года назад +14

      I literally just commented this on another video 🤣😭😭 I literally went out and bought coconut oil years ago bc everyone said it was good for our hair and it just made my hair dry. I love shea butter so much more

    • @davinyaa
      @davinyaa 3 года назад +3

      Same my hair really hates coconut oil and every video I watched was like but coconut oil 🙄

    • @LatiWins
      @LatiWins 2 года назад +3

      Coconut oil is high in protein. Some people’s hair doesn’t respond well to too much protein. Try jojoba oil. It’s much closer to the sebum our scalps naturally produce. A bit expensive tho (if you get the pure form).

    • @kobysmultiverse.4643
      @kobysmultiverse.4643 2 года назад

      Me too

  • @davinyaa
    @davinyaa 3 года назад +23

    “STOP CUTTING YOUR HAIR”
    I felt that to the core 😅😂😂

  • @louiemcginn3175
    @louiemcginn3175 4 года назад +294

    Your really starting to get confident of camera and showing the true you 🙏🥰

    • @eugeniakelcy8676
      @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад +53

      thank you !!! it's so nerve racking and on top of that you will have people hate and troll on you. But i'm getting the hang of it

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 4 года назад +2

      Louie Mcginn New Sub

  • @callmejoyco
    @callmejoyco 4 года назад +382

    I like Eugenia, she's always trynna fight people giving us bad hair advice.

    • @cherylmoore4549
      @cherylmoore4549 4 года назад +10

      I like Eugenia,she's so beautiful and SMART and she's helping me to put lots of love and effort into growing and taking care of my hair,her Mom should be proud of her! Cause I am, THANK YOU for the info, and May God bless you and your entire family!!!

    • @cherylmoore4549
      @cherylmoore4549 4 года назад +4

      I also ordered the ingredients she uses, really I'm waiting for her products to be in the market, I love that beautiful young woman!🤗🙃💜🙃

  • @arionabishop5556
    @arionabishop5556 3 года назад +20

    Ever since I took your advice about moisturizing my hair every 3 days I see a huge difference!! My hair sheds a whole lot less!!! I moisturize every 3 days

  • @Little_Jay
    @Little_Jay 3 года назад +5

    You know I just love the fact sis giving us these great points and she got her reason to back it up like...yasssss girl

  • @curlynella1011
    @curlynella1011 4 года назад +390

    Split ends are not white. The white bulb means it came directly from the scalp. A split end is the ends split literally. Curlier hair hides it better but you can tell by the way the ends feel and misbehave. You can also tell by looking at the ends of your hair😉

    • @helenemonica3658
      @helenemonica3658 4 года назад +30

      You are right sis , they hid so well yesterday I found them oh gosh I had to trim those ends like the hair was splitting like literally splitting I had a fright oh my life I've never experienced it that way . As a newly natural woman I almost fainted !

    • @shawnsmith1272
      @shawnsmith1272 4 года назад +13

      My hair looks and feels like cotton on the ends when I need a trim. Just bushy af!

    • @SunnySideUp712
      @SunnySideUp712 4 года назад +40

      Girl I can literally see my split ends. Idk whaaaaat she's talking about lol

    • @curlynella1011
      @curlynella1011 4 года назад +8

      @@shawnsmith1272 yup great inclination you need a trim when the ends don't stay defined 💯

    • @curlynella1011
      @curlynella1011 4 года назад +24

      @@SunnySideUp712 Right I was completely lost when she said that because I was like let me find out I got a super power that I'm the only one that can see split ends 😂 Even when she said the other hair styles you can see the white bulb, that's when I knew she was really confused because that's a shed hair and we all have white bulbs. That's how you can tell it came from the root and didn't just break off randomly on a strand💯

  • @angel96005
    @angel96005 4 года назад +267

    me : but I do not watch only white hairstylers
    her : do you know how the split ends looks on a 4c hair
    me : and i oop

    • @NonameWriter
      @NonameWriter 3 года назад +6

      😂😂😂

    • @itskayy4958
      @itskayy4958 3 года назад +4

      😂😂

    • @avionlanier5574
      @avionlanier5574 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @moenayt_
      @moenayt_ 3 года назад

      Right, I felt personally attacked😂😂😂

    • @Zenab-hs1ky
      @Zenab-hs1ky 3 года назад

      Well I cut off two inches of my hair I’m so suicidal

  • @luyandadlamini8576
    @luyandadlamini8576 2 года назад +8

    Thank you so much for the point about relaxers. My parents used to relax my hair as a child and my scalp would always have damage from relaxers, my hair would start breaking off after a few months. I used to think there was something wrong with me. Two years ago I went natural and let me tell you my natural hair is so thick and curly. Thank you sis

  • @discovercheri1304
    @discovercheri1304 4 года назад +10

    She’s so smart. I just subscribed, I love people who use facts to back up their statements🤍

  • @MegaMikayla24
    @MegaMikayla24 4 года назад +33

    Honestly though! As soon as I stopped listening to people my hair started GROWINGGGGGGH

  • @LaBellezaMorena
    @LaBellezaMorena 4 года назад +55

    I am relaxed currently and it’s my second time around being relaxed and transitioning to natural. In my experience my hair has grown to mid back length while relaxed, HOWEVER after 5 years of relaxing, my hair is starting to thin and grow slowly. Even though I relax 2x yearly and I under process, I find that my hair grows best without heat, colouring or relaxing. Can’t wait to be natural again, I want to feel free!

    • @Only_phillysophical
      @Only_phillysophical 4 года назад +7

      I shaved my head last night, 3 months after I relaxed my hair. My hair changed dramatically after the chemicals got to it. I had to start over. I'm so happy to see my curls again. #LilFroGang

    • @LaBellezaMorena
      @LaBellezaMorena 4 года назад +1

      Phillysophical i think that’s what is happening to mine too! Congrats on going natural!!

    • @naturalfablady4944
      @naturalfablady4944 4 года назад +1

      Katia Bella New Subscriber

    • @LaBellezaMorena
      @LaBellezaMorena 4 года назад

      Natural Fab Lady thank you!!

  • @meraldamakotanyane2134
    @meraldamakotanyane2134 3 года назад +4

    I will never understand how people press the dislike button by mistake 🙏🏾😩 She's just magical ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ukazusisters5161
    @ukazusisters5161 3 года назад +150

    "you need to eat healthy"
    me: eating a bag of Doritos while watching this*

  • @eugeniakelcy8676
    @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад +141

    SUBTITLES:
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  • @queenjae4516
    @queenjae4516 4 года назад +34

    I went natural almost three years ago and I’ve been at around shoulder length for the LONGEST and it’s frustrating me 😭 thanks for the tips. I’m only a teenager and I’m very lazy but I care so much about my hair that I’m going to try to step up my hair care routine

    • @aisha-3857
      @aisha-3857 2 года назад

      Love to see a fellow X fan

  • @jaydamay6815
    @jaydamay6815 3 года назад +5

    omg you're so cute 😭 & not just the way you look I mean obviously you're gorgeous but it's also your lil accent , the way you speak , the things you laugh at , your overall personality 🥺🥺🥺

  • @QueenKristoff
    @QueenKristoff 3 года назад +4

    Dude, imma follow this. I cut my hair every 3 to 4 months, and it has been growing. Knowing that my hair has better growing potential makes me excited

  • @shannontalley2118
    @shannontalley2118 4 года назад +7

    Finally a woman with actual 4C hair giving hair advice. I see videos all the time aimed at helping girls with 4C type 4 hair and their hair doesn’t look type 4 at all 🤔🤔. I appreciated your video so much! It was so informative. Will be using you as a guide for my natural hair journey from now on 🤗

    • @eugeniakelcy8676
      @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад

      Glad it was helpful! and thank you. I'm here to represent !!

  • @nsamson1
    @nsamson1 4 года назад +9

    Girrrl where have you been my whole 4C struggle life. I’m so happy you popped up on my timeline. You’re just amazing.

  • @InsideItself
    @InsideItself 3 года назад +2

    YOU ARE the epitome of beauty amongst the cosmos Goddess!!! And THANK YOU for your knowledge!

  • @theiysiscamille
    @theiysiscamille 2 года назад +1

    Ok sis I was mesmerized for a couple seconds. You are beautiful!!

  • @Alex-dx8oe
    @Alex-dx8oe 4 года назад +61

    Me: *trying to figure out how to fix my hair*
    RUclips: Here's a reese's ad

  • @sleepsnoopy934
    @sleepsnoopy934 4 года назад +81

    I’m a dude tryna grow dreads Only girl I’ll listen to from now

    • @jazzy_rr3771
      @jazzy_rr3771 4 года назад +10

      Same! She's the only one who has proved that she is in it to help, and has all the facts.
      Great reputation!!!

  • @KrissyFizzle
    @KrissyFizzle 3 года назад +2

    I love how you explained the hair growth cycle too. People don't usually do that. Also you're so pretty ❤

  • @shayanejean4658
    @shayanejean4658 3 года назад +3

    This is the first time I look at you, I love you already🔥🔥 Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @eugeniakelcy8676
    @eugeniakelcy8676  4 года назад +9

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  • @a.c5009
    @a.c5009 4 года назад +309

    Nobody even talks about them damn “fairy knots” we be gettin too lol

    • @mnazathefairyprincess
      @mnazathefairyprincess 4 года назад +9

      Honestly! 😩😩

    • @kaydeep7880
      @kaydeep7880 4 года назад +8

      Hydrate and moisturise for GOSSAKE

    • @jjohnson1791
      @jjohnson1791 4 года назад +17

      those are the worst! i trim them out immediately once i see them . idk if that’s a good or bad thing but yh lol

    • @YesIamMichelleC
      @YesIamMichelleC 4 года назад +13

      This happened to my hair so badly two weeks ago because I was adding product that keeps it curly but not twisting it, moisturizing it or sitting it under a bonnet. So I bought a bonnet this week, castor oil, and twisted it up wet with Cantu Natural Hair Conditioning creamy hair lotion, Sky Organic Organic Castor oil and shea moisture leave in detangler this week past. Not a knot in sight. Hair is still moisturized. I touch it up with the castor oil around the scalp, ends and edges every couple of days. I need a spray bottle for water though.

    • @kaydeep7880
      @kaydeep7880 4 года назад

      iShoTTi X stop twisting and braiding your hair then?

  • @Blaizian
    @Blaizian 2 года назад +1

    You made me smile so freaking hard . I haven’t heard the things you’ve been saying from anyone else but it all makes sense. I know it’s weird but I luv u gurlll😅😂💙

  • @stephaniezulu9145
    @stephaniezulu9145 3 года назад +1

    This video was so helpful and informative , will definitely be using the tips mentioned ❤

  • @queenmarie2679
    @queenmarie2679 4 года назад +22

    This is the most informative hair video I’ve seen. Glad it was recommended. New subscriber !!

  • @Sylvie98
    @Sylvie98 4 года назад +37

    Girl I hope you the best I’ve subbed recently and I have not regretted it! Best 4c representative our age especially with your length!!! Give me five years and I’ll have long hair too girl 😭❤️💙💚💜🧡

  • @elleredmon864
    @elleredmon864 2 года назад

    ive been looking for a good hair video for sooo longwith tips that actually work and I FINALLY FOUND IT. THANK SO MUCHHHHH!!!

  • @eternetihoward9373
    @eternetihoward9373 4 года назад +1

    this is my first video of yours and you've definitely convinced me to subscribe 😭 . thank you, this helped a lot💕 !!

  • @geerowr.6666
    @geerowr.6666 4 года назад +159

    I DO. Green Beauty channel is also the ish. she covers split ends extensive.

    • @paulacunningham7956
      @paulacunningham7956 4 года назад +4

      Gee Row R. Live for green beauty

    • @esther9210
      @esther9210 4 года назад +5

      I read this right after she said “u don’t”

    • @geerowr.6666
      @geerowr.6666 4 года назад +3

      @@paulacunningham7956 Me too. Her real protein treatment and her leave recipe turned my hair around for the better.

    • @paulacunningham7956
      @paulacunningham7956 4 года назад +1

      Gee Row R. I just love the tip she shared on the onion juice and parsley, let me stop I can go on and on

    • @geerowr.6666
      @geerowr.6666 4 года назад +2

      Paula Cunningham Same. I did the onion juice last wash day. It’s amazing. She’s so scientific.

  • @arianamugore5029
    @arianamugore5029 4 года назад +3

    The only RUclipsr I trust when it comes to natural hair! Love you so much

  • @lindaoliver8715
    @lindaoliver8715 2 года назад +1

    I took a strand of hair from my head and the end was spit pretty bad, I pulled another one and the same thing. I'm a professional license hairstylist. I become really ill so I couldn't do my hair for one whole year. I had to go to a salon to someone I trusted and had her to trim my hair ends, then research and saw your Moringa and Fenugreek deep conditioner and I haven't had any split ends since. But I had my ends trimmed first. I used your products only like 3 months now. 8oz is pretty small this is my third purchase. I use it once a week. I love this. My hair has grew .

  • @spruillgirl1458
    @spruillgirl1458 Год назад +1

    Loving your videos!

  • @veronicamathews3830
    @veronicamathews3830 4 года назад +4

    Omg girl. I love you! Keep it real. I never understood the whole cutting thing either and I dont let anyone cut my hair except 1 person I've known for years and she knows how much I cherish my length and shes managed to keep it healthy and long even when I did get relaxers. You make great points and your hair is long and beautiful! Subscribed!

  • @adrianamisick668
    @adrianamisick668 4 года назад +278

    I’m so guilty of using oil before putting anything on my hair

    • @jackieanderson6618
      @jackieanderson6618 4 года назад +37

      It depends on the oil
      Castor oil is a sealant
      Olive oil is a moisturiser
      There are videos on the different types

    • @kay-vs3te
      @kay-vs3te 4 года назад +25

      Use the LOC method L- liquid(water) C- cream O- oil. In this order so the oil can seal in the moisture

    • @ellaquestane9172
      @ellaquestane9172 3 года назад

      @@kay-vs3te Whats the O?

    • @blessingashanti7039
      @blessingashanti7039 3 года назад +4

      @@ellaquestane9172 Oil

    • @dronesg5417
      @dronesg5417 3 года назад +1

      @@jackieanderson6618 Is organic Argan oil a moisturizer??

  • @leannegabina2056
    @leannegabina2056 4 года назад +1

    Definitely convinced me!! You're amazing xo

  • @animalmini1
    @animalmini1 2 года назад

    My sister has your beautiful texture .. I told her listen to people with your hair texture .. that's how you quickly find what works for you .. thank you for making this

  • @ware3300
    @ware3300 4 года назад +24

    When my hair is in braids I add water, ors hair lotion and blue magic to the part where my hair is. It keeps my hair moisturised under my braids. I recommend it

  • @Salma.Salma.Salma.
    @Salma.Salma.Salma. 4 года назад +10

    I just discovered your channel and I can’t stop watching your videos because your voice is so soothing and relaxing 🥰

  • @tanyamarshall3361
    @tanyamarshall3361 3 года назад +1

    I love you, your face doesn’t bother me at all! I was guided her to get an answer to my unspoken question! Thank you!

  • @Brwnbeaut
    @Brwnbeaut 3 года назад +3

    This video is literally so helpful. I’ve been doing this all wrong.

  • @dakweenlyrics409
    @dakweenlyrics409 4 года назад +25

    I’ve never heard any1 so smart, thank you.

  • @haggleme1
    @haggleme1 4 года назад +38

    She is so cute. She reminds me of my daughter🥰

  • @sylviamanns5580
    @sylviamanns5580 2 года назад

    Just stumbled on this channel. She is very informed about the stages of hair growth. What a beautiful and funny queen!

  • @adorablebelle
    @adorablebelle 3 года назад +1

    This is such an informative channel -- thank you so much!

  • @Shellician
    @Shellician 4 года назад +37

    I can’t take my eyes off her crown 👸🏽 she’s a queen ❤️❤️🙌🏽

  • @Anywayyihao
    @Anywayyihao 4 года назад +3

    I was thinking I could see you with your own hair care line and right when I was thinking that you mentioned your website & I was like “yaaassss I’m gonna support!” 💕

  • @macaulaytolulope3017
    @macaulaytolulope3017 3 года назад +5

    I enjoyed watching this thank you 😊😊😊😊 I also had to cut my relaxed hair and start all over again and I’m loving the growth and process 😊😊😊

  • @elleking6771
    @elleking6771 4 года назад +2

    Omg you're so cute. Subscribed. I love how unique you are and just adorable. And I really appreciate you truly breaking this down. It's a video actually worth watching. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @zahriahkaharah2034
    @zahriahkaharah2034 4 года назад +5

    Soooo many of these tips make so much since but I’ve just never thought about. Especially the water one. I used to wet my hair every other day my senior year of high school and it THRIVED.

  • @yhazzziii169
    @yhazzziii169 4 года назад +10

    Your eyes are so beautiful. And your voice is so soothing, I usually don’t watch videos all the way, but I couldn’t leave lol

  • @jeyyne
    @jeyyne 3 года назад +3

    28 seconds in and she already convinced me to sub❤

  • @brittanyb8338
    @brittanyb8338 3 года назад +2

    This makes so much sense. I just washed my hair and detangled it and so much broke off I cried. 😭

  • @leah9812
    @leah9812 4 года назад +9

    Currently on my transition to get back to natural! So I am taking notes down.... literally got like maybe 1.5 inches of relaxed hair left but now I am comfortable in growing and caring for my hair! Thanks for this info 🙏🏾

  • @lunamoth4350
    @lunamoth4350 4 года назад +5

    Exactly. I have various hair type on my head and I can tell that the hair which suffer the most when I was not cutting the splits ends and knots was the 4c. I was struggling with my 4c because of that and I wasn't understanding why. Then, when I start applicated the dust method I start to see length retention and my hair was healthy. The key is to cut when you see the spilt end/knot and only the hair which need a cut. I do that on each wash day ( monthly ).

  • @YesLauraIam
    @YesLauraIam 3 года назад +11

    Hey Love,
    Thank you for your well thoughout content. Would it be too much to ask for you to do a miniseries on helpful protective styles where you measure the length before and after? Also, share your insight on why you think the style produced so much length retention.
    That would be so helpful☺️ I haven’t seen anyone document the amount of growth from a particular style.

  • @RnBReworked
    @RnBReworked 3 года назад +7

    My teenage nephew has been trying to grow his hair for a year. It's ridiculously THICK, but refuses to grow much in length at all, and he never cuts it. When I was his age about 20 years ago, I did the same thing. My hair was down to my shoulders in the same amount of time, and I used to cut, relax, dye it non-stop.