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  • Опубликовано: 11 июл 2009
  • These are the lyrics to Shinedown's song "45". It is one of my favorite songs.
    I am in no way affiliated with them, this is just a fan video :)
    LYRICS
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    Send away for a priceless gift
    One not subtle, one not on the list
    Send away for a perfect world
    One not simply, so absurd
    In these times of doing what you're told
    You keep these feelings, no one knows
    What ever happened to the young man's heart
    Swallowed by pain, as he slowly fell apart
    And I'm staring down the barrel of a 45,
    Swimming through the ashes of another life
    No real reason to accept the way things have changed
    Staring down the barrel of a 45
    Send a message to the unborn child
    Keep your eyes open for a while
    In a box high up on the shelf, meant for you, no one else
    There's a piece of a puzzle known as life
    Wrapped in guilt, sealed up tight
    What ever happened to the young man's heart
    Swallowed by pain, as he slowly fell apart
    And I'm staring down the barrel of a 45,
    Swimming through the ashes of another life
    No real reason to accept the way things have changed
    Staring down the barrel of a 45
    Everyone's pointing their fingers
    Always condemning me
    And nobody knows what I believe
    I believe
    And I'm staring down the barrel of a 45,
    Swimming through the ashes of another life
    No real reason to accept the way things have changed
    Staring down the barrel of a 45
    And I'm staring down the barrel of a 45,
    And I'm Swimming through the ashes of another life
    And theres' no real reason to accept the way things have changed
    Staring down the barrel of a 45
    45
    45
    Staring down the barrel of a 45
    So please comment and rate!
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  • @legoivan44321
    @legoivan44321 3 года назад +691

    I lost my sister and father to a car accident on Christmas and haven't stopped crying everyday because of how much I loved them both. I turn to this song for comfort and to try to move forward in life. I've done it before and you can too. I believe in you and you need to aswell. Stay safe.

    • @GroggyFive59180
      @GroggyFive59180 3 года назад +18

      I am so sorry. I wish you the best.

    • @80hazarkeshoeshain
      @80hazarkeshoeshain 3 года назад +14

      You've got it. Better days are ahead. They will never be replaced but you will carry on their name. Don't give up. Ever! ❤️ Hope things get better for you.

    • @dread_2707
      @dread_2707 3 года назад +7

      I'm sorry you got this

    • @fosteroutdoors6918
      @fosteroutdoors6918 3 года назад +6

      I'm sorry

    • @huntermcfaul1
      @huntermcfaul1 3 года назад +9

      I know you can get through it. I know what it feels like to lose people so close to you. The longing to see them again will never truly go away, so its best to cherish the time you did have with them. Its great that music has been able to help you, thats why its the most powerful form of entertainment imo. My condolences, and best of luck to you.

  • @Kat-et4kq
    @Kat-et4kq 3 года назад +135

    After I lost my dad to a .45 I couldn’t listen to this song for good long while. A lot of their other songs brought me comfort but this one. One day it came on and I just sang through the pain and it helped with so much 💜

    • @thischannelisnolongerinuse6339
      @thischannelisnolongerinuse6339 2 года назад +9

      Rest In Peace, I’m sorry that happened. 💛

    • @Amberhx1
      @Amberhx1 2 года назад +5

      Im so sorry for your loss. Hope you're doing well.

    • @davidtnukka4205
      @davidtnukka4205 2 года назад +5

      rip pop. stay strong Kat❤

    • @pigeonmanepic
      @pigeonmanepic 2 года назад +1

      Pleb

    • @WORKHUSTLEKILLx
      @WORKHUSTLEKILLx Год назад +3

      This life can inflict so much pain on a person….it’s crazy any of us are here still. But fight through it. You’ll be united with your dad again in some form

  • @Jlk2000x
    @Jlk2000x 8 лет назад +360

    Did you know this song is not actually about suicide? It is said in an interview of the singer that the song is about waking up one day, and finally realizing that you want to feel comfortable in your own skin, and that the 45 is not a real gun, but actually the world and what it hands you. The more you know am I right?

  • @brennalee8709
    @brennalee8709 4 года назад +191

    "It's about moving forward, not depression." Unfortunately, the gift yet curse of music is that a person relates to it in their own way,it doesn't matter what the artist intended. It invokes an incredible emotion, but it's not up to anyone to tell someone the "correct way" to interpret their feelings.

    • @quappo
      @quappo 4 года назад +5

      Brenna Lee i mean if the artist had an intended meaning in the song and u interpret something completely different, then i mean yeah you’re still gonna hear whatever u want but that doesnt mean it isnt an incorrect interpretation of what the artist was trying to portray.

    • @powerlevelhigh2981
      @powerlevelhigh2981 4 года назад +3

      Great wording. I completely agree. I could go on a rant about how much this song means to me. I woke up one day, heard this on the radio, and said ¨well, screw what I´m doing right now, I´m going to live my own way. Not as a depressed idiot who knows nothing of the world, but as a happy man that has a meaningful life.¨ This song was the inspiration for me to turn my life around.

    • @ghostcraft9343
      @ghostcraft9343 3 года назад

      If being a student in art and English class has taught me anything is that meaning is entirely subjective to the audience

    • @emmasevas
      @emmasevas 3 года назад +1

      Is not aboput moving foward. the song is about how painfull is lossing someone, how society point at you for not knowing how to deal with it, and that life has no reason to be absurd and painfull. this has the effect of telling the listener " i know that is painfull, and you look for an explanation, there isnt one" wich helps moving on, listening to this song again and again and again, over and over and over, has the efect of someone saying to you, "i know it hurts", singing it along helps too, in many ways, but that doesnt mean the song is about moving on. A song about moving on would be Someday of Nickelback.

    • @bigguy8586
      @bigguy8586 Год назад

      He literally says staring down the barrel of a 45. I watched a special about this song and he talked about a friend who was the life of the party losing his girlfriend or wife and losing it. Thd friend was trying to commit suicide and that when they learned of hid depression. He said he wrote this song to bring awareness to the depression that can happen to anyone and NOT to keep it to yourself like his friend did. I can't remember if his friend lived or not. This song speaks to me though. I lost wife and kid and it feels as if I'm just going through the motions living in the ashes of another life with no reason to accept the way things have changed. That's how I feel. This song is very literal in creation and meaning, not abstract. That's a good thing for the reasons you mentioned.

  • @jamesmerrow675
    @jamesmerrow675 10 лет назад +2887

    When you're happy you like music, but when you're sad you understand music.

  • @WatershipsNightwish
    @WatershipsNightwish 11 лет назад +54

    Brent Smith stated in an interview that this song is "basically about the day you wake up and look at yourself in the mirror and decide to become comfortable in your own skin, and realize that you’re gonna have to make yourself happy before you’re going to make anyone else happy." He also said that the 45 "isn't an actual term for a gun, I used it as a metaphor for the world." At the end of the discussion of the song, he said it was mostly about moving on during a tough time.

    • @valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953
      @valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953 3 года назад +5

      How is 45 a metaphor for the world?

    • @valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953
      @valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953 3 года назад +5

      Only way i can think of is 45 was thw year ww2 ended and with this having to do with ones personal messes and issues which everyone globally holds and coming to terms and the end of it all. Defeating that negativity in your life youve dealt for years as we defeated and ended the war that was causing global turmoil and personal ones as well.

    • @peregrinus524
      @peregrinus524 2 года назад +1

      The world is like the gun, threatening you and looming, ready to end you and be done with you.

    • @Ardorstorm
      @Ardorstorm Год назад

      @@valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953idk, life is a shotgun pointed at your face that can fuck your shit up any second

    • @elizabethlandis6050
      @elizabethlandis6050 Год назад

      @@valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953 I see it as someone standing at the top of a hill that is a 45 degree angle and not being able to see all the way to the bottom of the hill. You don't know what you don't know and despite coming a long way, struggling to get up this hill, there's still another hill ahead, and you don't know how you'll get up that next, steep hill.

  • @johndims5098
    @johndims5098 8 лет назад +1325

    I use to be a depressed teenager who looked to this song for comfort. Actually haven't heard this in a good two or three years lol. To all the people down on life out there, take it from me, it does get better but things will always be hard. Don't hope that someday things will be easier just hope that soon you will be able to manage and handle the stress of life more effectively. I still face trials and challenges everyday but life is worth it, everyday and every experience is worth it

    • @mattoutt65whydoihavetoputa78
      @mattoutt65whydoihavetoputa78 8 лет назад +33

      i know how you feel when I was younger I was the same I got out of the Marines about 4 years ago when I got home I found out that my soon to be fiance was leaving me for another man and was taking my daughter Nozomi with her and because I had just been discharged I didn't have much money barely enough to rent an apartment and feed myself sadly because of my lack of useful skills in any work environment I couldn't hold down a job for very long the only thing keeping me from ending it then and there was my daughter i was only allowed to see here 4 days a month but it was the only joy I had left and I was grateful for the time I was given but one day I was evicted from my apartment and left on the streets because of that I could no longer see my daughter whatsoever after a month of living on the streets I was finished I climbed to the top of the biggest bridge I could find and I jumped the whole way down my life flashed before my eyes and I hit the water as I was gasping for my last breath I bashed my head on something and was knocked out but somehow I woke up a week later laying in a hospital bed I thought to myself the day i jumped i have to die what else can I do I have nothing everything i loved was taken away form me i can't live another day, but the day I awoke I knew that I had to live no mater what the reason I can't die today or anytime soon after another month of hell on the streets after i was saved I got a good job and even got a house because of this the judge finally gave me privileged to my daughter again but instead of 4 days I get half the month and as if last month i have full custody of my girl so trust this from an older wiser generation everything can get easier but for that to happen your gonna go straight to the doors of hell and choose to take the easy way and go right through that door or if you turn around and you swim back up that river it may be hard, but one day it will pay off, but don't get me wrong it won't be the land of milk and honey but trust me your load will be lightened John I'll tell you now your not at the top just yet so swim with all your might and one day you'll get there so take care of yourself and remember life can always get better you just gotta keep faith that anything can happen.

    • @johndims5098
      @johndims5098 8 лет назад +8

      +MattOutt64 That's... Really something. Your plight has not gone unrecognized my friend. I have no family... They were terrible people who want nothing to do with me and it's mutual. Without getting into details I was a homeless teenager, still in highschool and all. I've had to sleep outside, in the cold, I've had to starve and go without bathing for weeks, I didn't learn to drive till I was in my twenties. The list goes on, but I was completely hopeless and was sure death would've been a sweet release for a long time. But one day I just woke up with the will to continue, one day things started to make sense. I moved around different houses and other families, eventually solidifying a place with a close friend I have, still live with him lol. I ended up graduating and getting a good job with health insurance and an IRA. My parents and family see me out and about sometimes but it's just like we're strangers... Sometimes life just has different plans for you.

    • @johndims5098
      @johndims5098 8 лет назад +4

      +MattOutt64 Thanks for reaching out Matt :) you seem like a nice and genuine person who knows how terrible and cruel people/life can be. Hang in there, and I'll do the same

    • @mattoutt65whydoihavetoputa78
      @mattoutt65whydoihavetoputa78 8 лет назад +13

      John Dims I won't sugar coat it for most people life is gonna be hell till the bitter end the only way you can lighten your load is to do two things find someone to share your load with and you gotta get off your ass and work for it no true man has ever made something of himself by doing nothing his whole life and trust me the food you eat after a long day of work is much sweeter then not

    • @chriswesthoff8176
      @chriswesthoff8176 7 лет назад +5

      +MattOutt64 awesome outlook! speak that truth brother

  • @stopitsdonuttime.3147
    @stopitsdonuttime.3147 4 года назад +31

    When I was really little, my dad used to constantly play this song over and over again, so much. I'm just now realizing what this song means, and I started tearing up because I remember when I asked my dad what it means he said its about a man who feels like he's drowning in a very dark and stormy, empty sea. Of course I took this literally, and was confused when he said he was just like the man in the song that was drowning. Now that Im looking back on this song I can understand a lot of things that I didn't even think about. Parents go through so much stuff that just passes their children's minds.😥

  • @rancid_carnage1616
    @rancid_carnage1616 3 года назад +164

    I’m a trucker. I’m alone with these thoughts everyday stuck between these white lines, I listen to this song every night before I shut it down, wondering when I’ll be able to go through with this.

    • @tonytheg6612
      @tonytheg6612 3 года назад +11

      Better days are ahead. Keep going ❤️🤘

    • @sallybell4055
      @sallybell4055 3 года назад +7

      I love you..

    • @kugel96
      @kugel96 3 года назад +10

      Im 24, from germany and a Server. I graduated from high school with perfect grades but im still fighting my deamons. Just to let you know, you are definitely not alone. Keep the head up, we never know what will happen in the future bro

    • @danboone7420
      @danboone7420 3 года назад +5

      It's not a 45 it's a 357 for me

    • @lexilundin4032
      @lexilundin4032 3 года назад +6

      Just remember that one day very soon things will get better. You're not stuck in the situation you're in forever. Your life will change for the better, just hang in there bud :)

  • @bryantvargas5623
    @bryantvargas5623 11 лет назад +36

    This song always reminds me of soldiers with PTSD and my heart goes out to them

  • @quanrucker99
    @quanrucker99 6 лет назад +15

    My son would've been 5 months this month. "Sent away for a priceless gift"💔 This song precisely explains my feelings. This song gives me strength to push through my day

    • @leslidodge5042
      @leslidodge5042 5 месяцев назад

      My heart reaches out to you, I wish I could tell you that your pain will go away some day. I know that it does not. There will be good days and there will be great days ahead...........and then there will be days when you can 't believe you are still alive when he is not. Talk to people about him.

  • @scribblekitty__
    @scribblekitty__ 5 лет назад +48

    I'm still listening to this, it's such a meaningful song.

  • @MrBryanGatwood
    @MrBryanGatwood 2 года назад +6

    It is so easy to misunderstand and blame a person at the end of their rope...

  • @Tomern121
    @Tomern121 7 лет назад +42

    i never really thought of this song as an suicide song, i always thought of it as a young man losing himself from abuse and pain (emotional) which made him fell apart and he killed someone hence the "swimming through the ashes of another life" which meant he was trying to find another life but he had to get thru the troubles of his past. Idk, music can be interpreted many ways but thats my two cents.

  • @theemokid1824
    @theemokid1824 8 лет назад +12

    See, I was right... Rock will never die. People who sing their innermost thoughts are more believable than those who only sing for mony and fame. Love you Shinedown:-)

  • @kaymonet4249
    @kaymonet4249 8 лет назад +40

    The inspiration from the song really came from - I think a lot of people kinda take a literal sense because of the lyrics - but the song is basically about the day that you wake up and you look at yourself in the mirror and you finally decide that you want to try to become comfortable in your own skin, and realize that you’re gonna have to make yourself happy before you’re going to make anyone else happy. And basically, the 45 isn’t an actual literal term for a gun, I used it as a metaphor for the world, the .45 is actually the world and what it hands you every day of your life. When you get up, it’s a gift to be alive to begin with. A lot of different people, when I’ve talked about it, they said, “Do you really honestly mean that?” And I’m like, “Well, yeah.” Because I’ve been in that situation where I didn’t know if I wanted to continue going on and I didn’t know how to necessarily make myself comfortable with who I was, trying to find a way of learning more about myself. And you come from a dark place sometimes, and that’s really the reality of the song. It’s about overcoming and about moving forward. And it’s basically about understanding that it’s not always going to be good, but you really have no one to blame for yourself if you don’t move forward. That’s where the whole, “Nobody knows what I believe,” [comes from] because we’re all individuals. So that’s really where it comes from, it’s about moving on, really.[1]
    basically, the song is not about suicide.

    • @amyblanchard3415
      @amyblanchard3415 6 лет назад

      Kay Monét I think this and second chance are 'related', in a way.

    • @user-jl8sx7zw8f
      @user-jl8sx7zw8f Месяц назад

      Makes sense even though a young man came to mind I also saw myself and felt my own pain especially when you know that your the life changer in your reality but other refuse to let it come out in a life changing world where hatred is replacing love!😢

  • @GroggyFive59180
    @GroggyFive59180 3 года назад +252

    I hope everybody here is doing okay, if you are feeling troubled maybe professional help is the answer, or talking to somebody about what you are going through. Know that people care about you, even if it may not feel like it at times. Please stay safe.

    • @-xxxcry_babyxxx-5084
      @-xxxcry_babyxxx-5084 3 года назад +5

      U tooooo be safeee

    • @PROPAINZERO
      @PROPAINZERO 3 года назад +4

      Thank you buddy you too

    • @user-el9bm4vr1f
      @user-el9bm4vr1f 3 года назад +4

      Don't know how

    • @GroggyFive59180
      @GroggyFive59180 3 года назад +3

      @@user-el9bm4vr1f I am sorry. I don't know what you have been through, but if you don't feel safe I think you should tell somebody about this. I hope the best for you man.

    • @ObiWanGinobiliTopFan
      @ObiWanGinobiliTopFan 3 года назад +2

      Thank you friend. Be well, stay safe. ❤

  • @Twiztidguy
    @Twiztidguy 10 лет назад +520

    Finally this song makes sense. Brent Smith, leader and songwriter. The inspiration from the song really came from - "I think a lot of people kinda take a literal sense because of the lyrics - but the song is basically about the day that you wake up and you look at yourself in the mirror and you finally decide that you want to try to become comfortable in your own skin, and realize that you’re gonna have to make yourself happy before you’re going to make anyone else happy. And basically, the 45 isn’t an actual literal term for a gun, I used it as a metaphor for the world, the .45 is actually the world and what it hands you every day of your life. When you get up, it’s a gift to be alive to begin with. A lot of different people, when I’ve talked about it, they said, “Do you really honestly mean that?” And I’m like, “Well, yeah.” Because I’ve been in that situation where I didn’t know if I wanted to continue going on and I didn’t know how to necessarily make myself comfortable with who I was, trying to find a way of learning more about myself. And you come from a dark place sometimes, and that’s really the reality of the song. It’s about overcoming and about moving forward. And it’s basically about understanding that it’s not always going to be good, but you really have no one to blame for yourself if you don’t move forward. That’s where the whole, “Nobody knows what I believe,” [comes from] because we’re all individuals. So that’s really where it comes from, it’s about moving on, really."

    • @HD-sn4oi
      @HD-sn4oi 10 лет назад +15

      No thats not what the song is about at all-.- he wrote this song because his friend was gonna commit suicide and no one saw it coming.

    • @erika9287
      @erika9287 10 лет назад +8

      Harpreet Dhaliwal Well it's a good thing that music is about interpretation

    • @HD-sn4oi
      @HD-sn4oi 10 лет назад +5

      Erik A that Twiztidguy^^ was completely bullshitting. Like that aint even what the song is about-___- everyone thinks this song is about Brent Smith's "suicide life" but he actually wrote it based off his friends suicicde story' and he was there. I would go into detail but theres too much too type:p

    • @alexcook2242
      @alexcook2242 10 лет назад +6

      You sir have just blown my mind. I really never saw the song that way.

    • @HD-sn4oi
      @HD-sn4oi 10 лет назад +1

      Jessica Mathis You dont even know what the fucking songs about...

  • @ozzon3636
    @ozzon3636 4 года назад +7

    This song is so deep but true. Only those that have been through hell as a child or went through something terrible knows what goes through their mind 24/7.

  • @In_Gods_Hands
    @In_Gods_Hands 4 года назад +7

    This song hits you in the most insane way when you've gone thru things that have caused you more pain than you ever thought you'd experience in this life 💯💯💯

  • @animelover-so9yt
    @animelover-so9yt 5 лет назад +14

    "And nobody knows what I believe."
    Damn that hit deep.

  • @The_D_Langlois
    @The_D_Langlois 3 года назад +3

    My older brother showed me this song when I was younger.. before he went to prison for a few years.. he got out.. started a family, and has since passed away last October. Me and my other brother are here to make a good influence on his little son he leaves behind.. I can’t help but tear up every time I hear this song and think of him. I can’t wait to see him in the afterlife.

  • @haleychapman9320
    @haleychapman9320 8 лет назад +66

    this song has so much meaning in it.....that is what makes it so amazing

  • @Bilbo16aa
    @Bilbo16aa 8 лет назад +9

    One such song like this one needs to be noticed alot, because people dont realize that music like this, may help inspire you to fill the missing piece within the void, life can be monotonous, but you must rise above it, and make something of yourself, never give up, and maybe, just maybe, you can live forever.

  • @michaelscott1862
    @michaelscott1862 4 года назад +25

    Goosebumps. When it gives ya goosebumps, you know it's good. I teach my 13 year old that every time she's listens to music with me. #RaiseThemRight

    • @veryrarechaddoomer32
      @veryrarechaddoomer32 4 года назад

      I hope your 13 years old never listen this song man

    • @michaelscott1862
      @michaelscott1862 4 года назад +2

      @@veryrarechaddoomer32 why....it's music. It's art. You can't take lyrics for literal meaning.....

    • @Seashell3632
      @Seashell3632 Год назад

      ​@@veryrarechaddoomer32it's about moving on in life and standing up for yourself. Not suicide. Would you rather her parents let her listen to something about sex and drugs and suicide?

  • @E_X_I_S_T_E_N_T_I_A
    @E_X_I_S_T_E_N_T_I_A 9 лет назад +9

    This song, no matter how many bloody times I listen to it, makes so much sense.
    Friggin a master piece.

  • @haileyflynn103
    @haileyflynn103 9 лет назад +272

    I've seen multiple comments about how this is real music and that this generation's music is terrible and makes no sense. Yes, it's wonderful music and most of music from that time was great. In the rock genre, that is. Most of the people commenting that this generation's music is horrendous is mainly looking at the pop genre and what is being played on the radio. Keep in mind there are many other artists who release music that are so great. You just have to dig a little to find them and they exist on RUclips, iTunes, everywhere. They can be on your street corner for all you know. Don't judge a whole generation's music by what is playing on the radio.

    • @trashman835
      @trashman835 6 лет назад +5

      u have a point

    • @deathlycost1
      @deathlycost1 6 лет назад +9

      Hunter Northey that’s exactly what he is talking about, there is modern things you can like

    • @Kakashi0909090909090
      @Kakashi0909090909090 6 лет назад +8

      The reason people judge the whole generation's music by what is playing on the radio, is because what is playing on the radio is considered the most popular among this generation.

    • @gerofulmer9324
      @gerofulmer9324 6 лет назад +1

      Hailey Flynn nice doggo

    • @mintz9782
      @mintz9782 6 лет назад

      Well because that's whats popular and it's shit.

  • @kileyhicks9868
    @kileyhicks9868 6 лет назад +12

    I feel his passion in every line. Wonderfully done!!

  • @josephschultz3301
    @josephschultz3301 5 лет назад +4

    I've never really been suicidal myself, but I have been depressed.
    Sad songs like this give me a sort of cathartic release, you know? It probably doesn't sound like it makes much sense, but when I'm in a bad funk, songs like this help me get over it.

  • @evo8boy749
    @evo8boy749 7 лет назад +550

    I feel bad for shinedown, they made a powerful and heart filled song and people refuse to understand the true meaning and make it sound worse than it truly is

    • @tupd
      @tupd 7 лет назад +59

      music is subjective, why does it matter?

    • @matts2340
      @matts2340 7 лет назад +1

      EvoGaming - The Exotic Destroyer Unit- I couldn't have said it better

    • @matts2340
      @matts2340 7 лет назад +12

      LD51- why do you matter have you ever thought of that?

    • @itakidarkblade159
      @itakidarkblade159 7 лет назад +40

      You're absolutely right. and to a certain reply I ask: Are you so stupid as to think it doesn't matter? This song helped me get through my depression after I realized that my own father wasn't worth keeping in my life. not because I'm snobbish or anything. It was a toxic relationship, and I was slowly becoming a horrible person. you want to know why this song matters? It matters because it helps teens who feel hopeless express how they're feeling when they can't find the words themselves. So please. Don't be so quick to dismiss songs like this as pointless or anything like that. These songs are relevant this day and age.

    • @germycrossfire4847
      @germycrossfire4847 6 лет назад +39

      Coming from a writer, you are offensive. No one can truly understand MY writing. I write for them to feel how it makes them feel. They can't feel how I feel, they can't see why I wrote it. They see it how they see it, feel what they feel, and that's the beauty of writing. My writing, bands writing, etc, can make people feel so many different ways. What's wrong with that?

  • @blazeupdaclown
    @blazeupdaclown 7 лет назад +1

    Song cuts deep... From me battling suicide when I was neglected, abused and bullied to my friend who suffered PTSD after coming back from the war... Everytime I feel my faith slipping I play this song and let the tears out.

  • @jacobmanalang8162
    @jacobmanalang8162 4 года назад +1

    just here cleaning my .45 barrel with a boresnake and im like YUP...YOU GUYS NAILED IT

  • @mattdrazkowski7972
    @mattdrazkowski7972 6 лет назад +15

    At least its good to know your not the only one feeling that pain this song comforts me in a way

  • @Brihager97
    @Brihager97 10 лет назад +19

    I love this song for the simple fact that it explains and says everything I want to say and am feeling,

  • @derrickdublo1467
    @derrickdublo1467 2 года назад +2

    My oldest and favorite nephew killed himself so I have always loved this song when I'm sad but now it has even more meaning than I could ever express but now I truly understand

  • @ScumSookar
    @ScumSookar 4 года назад +3

    "whatever happened to the young man's heart?
    swallowed by pain as he slowly fell apart."
    That line resonates too much...

  • @snakexskingdom9403
    @snakexskingdom9403 8 лет назад +70

    As a little kid I thought it was about a dragon that ate a barrel with a 45 year old man in it I was really wierd back then

    • @tubbypuppy4900
      @tubbypuppy4900 8 лет назад +3

      ... =_=

    • @Seanskits7
      @Seanskits7 8 лет назад

      +Christopher Spinella XD

    • @alyssa_blackheart
      @alyssa_blackheart 8 лет назад +1

      +Christopher Spinella haha this made me feel a little bit better

    • @alyssa_blackheart
      @alyssa_blackheart 8 лет назад

      +cesar venezuela uh thanks XD

    • @AsPectT
      @AsPectT 8 лет назад +1

      +Christopher Spinella BAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH IM CRYING THIS IS SO FUNNY

  • @markshenefelt5557
    @markshenefelt5557 Год назад +3

    Incredible lyrics! Shinedown is a extremely talented rock band. One of the best.

  • @darshonjohnson1355
    @darshonjohnson1355 4 года назад +3

    This Song makes me feel again its a hard song for me to get through... shinedown has made a song that prooves that those of us who truely understand are not alone in feeling this way and god damn its humbling

  • @fangyamanaka8273
    @fangyamanaka8273 9 лет назад +35

    this song has helped me through so much, my mom introduced me to it when i was little, the one good thing she did was get me on good music, not that preppy crap

    • @ashlem5913
      @ashlem5913 6 лет назад +2

      you're one of the most irritating kinds of people

  • @europeangoddess8677
    @europeangoddess8677 7 лет назад +6

    can I just say that everything about this song is a masterpiece. 💖💖💖

  • @LordCowCow
    @LordCowCow 8 лет назад +189

    Comments section talking about suicide but the songwriter literally said in an interview "It’s about overcoming and about moving forward"

    • @johndims5098
      @johndims5098 8 лет назад +11

      Yeah, but you can see how a suicidal teenager might interpret these words in such a manner

    • @arilovely27
      @arilovely27 7 лет назад +1

      +John Dims I'm suicidal and not even a teenager is that bad?

    • @arilovely27
      @arilovely27 7 лет назад

      +John Dims I'm only 12...

    • @kaimamoonfury1335
      @kaimamoonfury1335 7 лет назад +4

      It looks like you're trying to get attention......but if you aren't, there are places you can go for help, which you clearly want since you have said this online.

    • @cloud-pf1st
      @cloud-pf1st 7 лет назад +1

      yup

  • @stephenanderson1944
    @stephenanderson1944 8 лет назад +1711

    Its funny because everyone else here is talking suicidal and I'm here like "I just like the song"

    • @notnedmac8897
      @notnedmac8897 8 лет назад +17

      Same

    • @gekko8499
      @gekko8499 8 лет назад +7

      you and me both

    • @isarose1237
      @isarose1237 7 лет назад +5

      Stephen Anderson me third

    • @alxo123
      @alxo123 7 лет назад +6

      Stephen Anderson same

    • @stellakovac7291
      @stellakovac7291 7 лет назад +8

      Stephen Anderson im like its good song for anyone its just catchy

  • @thorodinsson9505
    @thorodinsson9505 6 лет назад +24

    This song reminds me of growing up. When you're a kid, you seem so happy and full of life, but when you get older... Most of us go through so much that we are completely different people by the time we're adults in just about every way. I think that's why there is "no real reason to accept the way things have changed" and why the singer is "swimming through the ashes of another life. Alot of people commit suicide in the 18-30 age Gap so that's another reason the .45 handgun makes sense. Just my interpration

    • @ego-smack-sequel2661
      @ego-smack-sequel2661 4 года назад +1

      Word
      Lost many to it from 18 to 30 and I still struggle at 39 cuz of addiction

    • @thorodinsson9505
      @thorodinsson9505 4 года назад +1

      @@ego-smack-sequel2661 god bless you man i hope that pain of yours heals

  • @gabrielvonheeder5246
    @gabrielvonheeder5246 10 лет назад +298

    I Just slaughtered...the replay button...

    • @MandyNicole
      @MandyNicole 5 лет назад +4

      Gabriel Vonheeder I guess you could really say that you stared down the barrel of a 45 to murder that damn replay button.😂

    • @brycemeeks9942
      @brycemeeks9942 4 года назад +3

      Gabriel Vonheeder love that reply

    • @brycemeeks9942
      @brycemeeks9942 4 года назад +1

      Sry guessing I shld say I’m Bryce’s mom and 39 yrs old lol

    • @nef36
      @nef36 4 года назад +1

      With a .45?

    • @300rmx
      @300rmx 3 года назад

      Fax

  • @louismartin4106
    @louismartin4106 8 лет назад +344

    Its not about suicide its about leaving the past behind

    • @crazylilman1177
      @crazylilman1177 7 лет назад +14

      no its not fam

    • @LongHairedYetiCave
      @LongHairedYetiCave 7 лет назад +38

      Absolutley right Louis - Many people think this is about suicide, but the song is actually about hope, to fight against the odds. Shinedown lead singer Brent Smith told Foundry Music: "I think a lot of people kind of take a literal sense because of the lyrics - but the song is basically about the day that you wake up and you look at yourself in the mirror and you finally decide that you want to try to become comfortable in your own skin, and realize that you're gonna have to make yourself happy before you're going to make anyone else happy. And basically, the 45 isn't an actual literal term for a gun, I used it as a metaphor for the world, the 45 is actually the world and what it hands you every day of your life. When you get up, it's a gift to be alive to begin with. A lot of different people, when I've talked about it, they said, 'Do you really honestly mean that?' And I'm like, 'Well, yeah.' Because I've been in that situation where I didn't know if I wanted to continue going on and I didn't know how to necessarily make myself comfortable with who I was, trying to find a way of learning more about myself. And you come from a dark place sometimes, and that's really the reality of the song. It's about overcoming and about moving forward. And it's basically about understanding that it's not always going to be good, but you really have no one to blame for yourself if you don't move forward. That's where the whole, 'Nobody knows what I believe,' comes from because we're all individuals. So that's really where it comes from, it's about moving on, really.

    • @NecroticHopperofficial
      @NecroticHopperofficial 7 лет назад +1

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    • @LightRaven96
      @LightRaven96 7 лет назад +4

      Necrotic Hopper well done you ruined that guys perfect reflection of life with some emoji thanks for that

    • @GeneralLiuofBoston1911
      @GeneralLiuofBoston1911 7 лет назад +4

      On top to what you said, it makes sense that nobody knows what you've been through. We're all individuals. We all experience and understand and interpret everything differently.
      Also, good job Necrotic Hopper for ruining the moment.

  • @danaambrose6977
    @danaambrose6977 6 лет назад +1

    Everyone is entitled to there own opinion but to me the song reminds me of my brother who passed away not long ago...he struggled so hard in life and always looked for everyone's approval....although he made mistakes it seemed he tried so hard to please everyone else and never could....he's at peace now he will not have to go through the pain of feeling that he will never be good enough again....tried so hard to make everyone happy that he was ate up by misery.....but now he's found peace!! I miss u brother...one day I'll see u again.

  • @yolsil775
    @yolsil775 6 лет назад +3

    Never felt so close to this damn song. Listened to it when I was young and was like "Oh wow so sad and cool" and noe I just, relate so fucking much.
    "Whatever happened to the young man's heart? Swallowed by pain, as he slowly fell apart"

  • @SepticeyeSammi
    @SepticeyeSammi 8 лет назад +48

    I wrote your name on the bullet, so people know, you were the last thing that went through my mind..

    • @Zekran
      @Zekran 8 лет назад +4

      +SammiBagans how u wrote that after ?

    • @Arcarus_
      @Arcarus_ 8 лет назад

      +Airakaz Magic

    • @SepticeyeSammi
      @SepticeyeSammi 8 лет назад +1

      its written on the bullet... before you get shot...

    • @Zekran
      @Zekran 8 лет назад

      just Kidding :)

    • @SlappedRat
      @SlappedRat 8 лет назад +2

      That's deep...

  • @clownshoesmma6249
    @clownshoesmma6249 4 года назад +7

    My son in law took his life last year. It’s been tough but what I’ve learned from talking to people that have attempted suicide and failed is they’re extremely thankful they failed. Yeah life may be overwhelming today and maybe it has been for long as you can remember but it doesn’t mean it will be tomorrow.

    • @theresarutherford4487
      @theresarutherford4487 4 года назад

      I'm one and I'm thankful that I'm still here! I'm now a mother to 3 amazing kids a step mom to 2 amazing young adults and just became a grandma last month.

    • @clownshoesmma6249
      @clownshoesmma6249 4 года назад

      Theresa Rutherford congratulations on the grandchild and happy Thanksgiving

    • @theresarutherford4487
      @theresarutherford4487 4 года назад

      Thank you, you too

  • @outsider9114
    @outsider9114 4 года назад +45

    The Minute Hour brought me here, the video is called "self defense class"

    • @OhYahDude
      @OhYahDude 4 года назад +3

      You have good taste in content

    • @outsider9114
      @outsider9114 4 года назад +4

      @@OhYahDude thanks

    • @antonvanderbatez6015
      @antonvanderbatez6015 3 года назад +1

      'Robert you pitiful bastard' haha i was looking for a minute hour comment👌

  • @laurengeier1468
    @laurengeier1468 Год назад +3

    When I feel helpless and the world is closing in on me, I get in my car windows down, this song blasting. It’s my therapy!!

  • @toddscudder9295
    @toddscudder9295 10 лет назад +12

    I was in Iraq. This song pretty much is how I felt when I came home. Some times it makes u wonder does anyone really care about the men and woman that served. I felt so alone.. but I am doing better I have an awesome support group at the wounded worriers project.

    • @cutte12gir1
      @cutte12gir1 10 лет назад +1

      God bless you, and thank you for your service!

    • @toddscudder9295
      @toddscudder9295 10 лет назад +2

      THANK YOU FOR THE SUPPORT. I AM GLAD I SERVER OUR GREAT NATION THATS FALLING APART.. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE THE AMERICAN PEOPLE THAT STAND UP FOR OUR RIGHTS AND OUR FREEDOM THAT OUR FOUNDING FATHERS GAVE US..

    • @celestetiers3266
      @celestetiers3266 10 лет назад

      You have my most sincere thanks and respect. I hope you're adjusting well and realize that there are indeed people who care about you and those you served with, and I'm glad you have such a great support group

    • @blazeofvse
      @blazeofvse 9 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much for your service, Todd. It's great to see positive comments like yours. Respect!

  • @Fishmangod
    @Fishmangod 10 лет назад +13

    A great song could listen to it for hours

  • @VerchielxKanda
    @VerchielxKanda 9 лет назад

    This song made me tear up when I first heard it so many years ago.
    I never knew the true meaning behind the song until now...
    Thank you for posting this!

  • @carltonyoung3700
    @carltonyoung3700 6 лет назад +13

    It's 2018 and I'm still smashing that replay botton

  • @randduhhh6108
    @randduhhh6108 8 лет назад +4

    Shinedown has been my favorite band for ab 9 or 10 years. I have seen them twice in concert and yet every time I hear one of their songs, it still gives me chills. This is real music from the soul.

    • @asdqwerty411
      @asdqwerty411 2 года назад

      you got that right they dont make music like they used to now its all this house music that came from four different songs feating 15 16 different people its just sad how do people like it >.

    • @randifoster6797
      @randifoster6797 2 года назад

      I can't listen any more

  • @ChicoMasterMindBeast
    @ChicoMasterMindBeast 2 года назад +2

    If you haven’t gotten to where you want to be in life then your journey isn’t over. Keep your eyes focused and plant your feet strong, it isn’t over yet.

  • @AlphaPackBoi
    @AlphaPackBoi 9 лет назад +1

    i have never listened to a song that has ever explained my life and its recent events as the song portrays them to be,i relate to this song 200% ..and i literally just dropped everything and cried

  • @patrickwright2448
    @patrickwright2448 7 лет назад +1

    never gets old. SHINEDOWN BADASS!

  • @crbuck3394
    @crbuck3394 10 лет назад +46

    Hell yeah, any Soliders that served and are feeling like this, DONT DO IT! We (most real Americans) do care about what you did for us, and greatly appreciate your service and sacrifices. Thank you keeping America save and on top, god bless you and may he lead you from that Cliff
    Of
    darkness, and deliver you to the light, were we are all waiting with
    Chicken and tea and Huggies :3

    • @sknnr4869
      @sknnr4869 5 лет назад +1

      CR Buck so any soldiers thinking of overcoming and moving on shouldn’t do that??

    • @luciferStar420
      @luciferStar420 5 лет назад +1

      Hello from the future bitch

    • @miavelie2627
      @miavelie2627 4 года назад +1

      @@luciferStar420 Im more advance than y'all THIS is the future!!
      2
      0
      2
      0
      !
      !

    • @bismarckpearson4685
      @bismarckpearson4685 2 года назад

      @@miavelie2627 well guess what its 2021, WHOS FROM THE FUTURE NOW?

  • @pagangamer87
    @pagangamer87 10 лет назад +93

    Such a Dean Winchester song... describes him perfectly.

    • @MalachioftheForest
      @MalachioftheForest 10 лет назад +5

      Except for the part where Dean wouldn't contemplate suicide just because his life is difficult...

    • @pagangamer87
      @pagangamer87 10 лет назад +13

      No.. but he'd commit if he couldn't get Sam back.

    • @taymana3202
      @taymana3202 10 лет назад +11

      Steven Hardy The song isnt about suicide though. Think about it: a 45 is a pistol. You can't exactly stare down the barrel of a pistol if its you holding it. The 45 is a metaphor for the world: its someone else holding it. They demand he change, pointing a gun at him. So here he is staring down the barrel, refusing to yield to their demands and change himself.

    • @pagangamer87
      @pagangamer87 10 лет назад +7

      Tayman A Totally agree with you.. but in this case!? staring down the barrel of a 45, is Dean looking at the crossroads in his life. No matter which way he goes, he feels like death is inches away, but no matter what.. he keeps going. Keeps fighting.

    • @EBAH_FEAR
      @EBAH_FEAR 10 лет назад +4

      Tayman A Have you ever held a gun? You can stare down a barrel of a pistol very easily, I personally tested this (With an airsoft gun, Not THAT stupid,) I even extended the barrel an extra 6 inches, It is very possible to stare down a barrel and pull the trigger hitting yourself, Don't mean to sound rude, this has just become a big debate between me and people I know, And what you said kinda annoyed me xD

  • @ObiWanGinobiliTopFan
    @ObiWanGinobiliTopFan 3 года назад

    I remember when Shinedown's debut song hit the radio waves. It wasn't this one...I forgot the name of that first song, but it was really good. And then..THIS song was unleashed.... and it blew us all out of our ******** socks! And it's timeless.. it still ROCKS. This is the song that renewed my faith in rock music in a time when I thought rock might be on its last legs. Shinedown delivered. First time I heard this song, I had chills all over my entire body and I think it legitimately changed my life. ❤❤❤

  • @kennethfuller8347
    @kennethfuller8347 14 дней назад

    Powerful lyrics! Many of Shinedown tunes are about the struggles of life (being the .45) that we all deal with at some point or another .. be strong, and know that you ARE loved .. as hard as it gets for some of us, you have to keep your chin up, stay positive, and move on. It's All Just A Symptom of Being Human.

  • @gabepanciera2480
    @gabepanciera2480 10 лет назад +2

    Such a good song, I can relate to this song quite a bit, and my apologies go out to those who have lost someone dear to them, i lost my aunt patty to cancer and i miss her still, but shes in a better place...may they forever be remembered and rest in peace

  • @quinnearly5649
    @quinnearly5649 7 лет назад +22

    This song is badass as fuck

  • @obsidian_knight8555
    @obsidian_knight8555 2 года назад +2

    This song is probably one of the earliest memories of my dad and ever sence i stopped seeing him i stopped listening to it but now that i have heard it again i think i can fix all that i have broken.

  • @mariahminke2659
    @mariahminke2659 2 месяца назад +1

    Huge fan of Shinedown ❤

  • @trooper9886
    @trooper9886 10 лет назад +2

    I believe this song depicts the emotions one goes through before/near the moment of facing ones own demise, or in this case ceasing to exist in the sense of the individual. What people don't generally realize, is that only our perspective is reliant upon the self.

    • @PreachPeace
      @PreachPeace Год назад

      In other words you want to kill yourself lol I don’t want to kill myself. I want to kill the part of this world that makes me feel that way. That’s what this song is about to me

  • @breanacummins2705
    @breanacummins2705 7 лет назад +8

    My dad always sings this song, along with Simple Man. I love it

  • @sunshi4929
    @sunshi4929 5 лет назад +1

    My dad used to play this song all the time when I was around 7-10. I hated and loved his songs, but I never really listened to the meaning of any of them. Now that he’s gone, I’ve tried to find some of the ones we used to listen to and that he used to play, like Second Chance, Monster, Hurt by Nine Inch Nails, etc. and just being able to fathom the meaning now puts these all in perspective. That’s what growing up means to me.
    I think i know where I got my taste for sad songs from.

  • @bungee_gum261
    @bungee_gum261 10 лет назад

    This is the song that first introduced me to Shinedown. Now they're one of my favorite bands.

  • @haleymeyer8632
    @haleymeyer8632 7 лет назад +56

    this song hurts me so much more then it should. I'm torn between killing myself to get rid of this pain, but not killing myself so I don't hurt anyone.

    • @jamieriggs7587
      @jamieriggs7587 6 лет назад +8

      Haley Meyer life has a purpose my dear. There's only 2 days in ur life that's important. The day ur born and the day u find your reason why

    • @andredaniel96
      @andredaniel96 5 лет назад

      U still in pain?

    • @carloia1
      @carloia1 4 года назад +2

      Haley I hope you're still out there my biggest fear is that the pain will go on even after death

    • @icooper1989
      @icooper1989 4 года назад +2

      Suicide doesn't take the pain away. It just shifts it to those around you that love and care about you.

    • @powerlevelhigh2981
      @powerlevelhigh2981 4 года назад

      Please, just keep going. It gets better, trust me.

  • @lauriciciolek6142
    @lauriciciolek6142 5 лет назад +5

    I remember when I heard this song at 14 in the car with my dad driving...he said: " No matter what do not ever let it get to the point where you take your life". It was a touching moment for me. Cliche I know .. but yea I'm 30 now. Still think of him when I hear this song.

  • @ObiWanGinobiliTopFan
    @ObiWanGinobiliTopFan 5 лет назад +1

    the awesomeness of this song is so potent it always brings me close to tears. not because of the sad lyrics, but just because of the awesomeness

  • @lorriemilne
    @lorriemilne 6 лет назад +1

    This was the first song I listened to from shinedown , liked them ever since. Fantastic band

  • @christopherrivera3111
    @christopherrivera3111 6 лет назад +16

    This song is amazing so fuckin powerful

  • @osogodly2x723
    @osogodly2x723 3 года назад +3

    If you’re reading this and your going through depression you’ll be okay life moves on you you pain is only temporary keep your head up if nobody tells you ill be the one to tell you i love you

    • @clustersnake
      @clustersnake 3 года назад +1

      thanks... I mean it

    • @boone8751
      @boone8751 2 года назад

      Hahaha i pulled the trigger once 1 in 10000000000000000 of a chance an I got that
      1 % now that's a rush ❓😳

  • @johnriordan4531
    @johnriordan4531 3 года назад +1

    How can anybody not like this masterpiece of a song!!!!

  • @HallowedIntent
    @HallowedIntent Месяц назад

    Hands down best Shinedown song. One of my favorite songs of all time period.

  • @e.c.a.9714
    @e.c.a.9714 8 лет назад +4

    loves these guys.

  • @cloonkey59
    @cloonkey59 10 лет назад +15

    I Love this song

  • @josephrogers2716
    @josephrogers2716 6 лет назад

    I came back here wondering if it would still give me the same feeling as it used to. Did not disappoint.

  • @rseriestuners7851
    @rseriestuners7851 6 лет назад

    Omg ive been looking for this song for forever !,!

  • @jesslynmarks82
    @jesslynmarks82 2 года назад +4

    Just lost my little brother to suicide by gun this past October ! One of the hardest things to ever grieve through in my life !! This song has so much more meaning then I could even ever imagine 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Human1136
      @Human1136 Год назад +1

      I'm sorry.

    • @darrenvestal1174
      @darrenvestal1174 Год назад +1

      I am so sorry to hear that my sister kill her dirking so i can fill your paine.I understand more than you know. much love to you take care.

    • @jesslynmarks82
      @jesslynmarks82 Год назад

      @darren vestal Thank you so much ! I’m sorry to hear about your sister ! We gotta stick together! Much love to you as well !❤️💪

    • @Gods-child11
      @Gods-child11 Год назад

      I'm so sorry he's in heaven.😞

  • @jonnyc2532
    @jonnyc2532 4 года назад +3

    I love this song so much. My go-to when I'm feeling down

  • @amandalynn9378
    @amandalynn9378 Год назад

    always been one of my dreams to see shinedown, hopefully one day

  • @bryanjones9935
    @bryanjones9935 5 лет назад

    This was the first song I ever learned to play on the guitar. Instant rock classic and great song!

  • @zl2848
    @zl2848 3 года назад +2

    Great song, killer voice too !!

  • @Izzy-dp8qd
    @Izzy-dp8qd 8 лет назад +60

    A beautiful and personal theme, like that in Metallica's Unforgiven.

    • @jiralishu
      @jiralishu 6 лет назад +6

      Actually, taken at face value, it's more similar to Fade to Black.

    • @brandidaniels9226
      @brandidaniels9226 5 лет назад +2

      Yes you are correct Jirali Shu

    • @Gulag00
      @Gulag00 3 года назад

      @@jiralishu ahktually

  • @andreahales8525
    @andreahales8525 2 года назад

    Was looking at old Facebook photos and was looking at my goth/emo days. Just had to listen to this song… it brings back memories

  • @Washing_Fish
    @Washing_Fish 8 лет назад +1

    this why I love shinedown. their songs have meanings I can relate too. I love you shinedown.

  • @megangruber6512
    @megangruber6512 10 лет назад +3

    i love this song im so glade i got to see shinedown in consert, with papa roach,in this moment,skillet, and we as human

  • @jellybeanjames4106
    @jellybeanjames4106 6 лет назад +5

    i feel like this song could play as an intro to anything

  • @ANIMAL168
    @ANIMAL168 3 месяца назад

    Morning jams put this 66 year old in a wonderful place. Never stop jammin. Cool tunes, Animal

  • @ashleystanley4306
    @ashleystanley4306 8 лет назад +93

    still listening in 2016!

  • @primez5782
    @primez5782 5 лет назад +15

    Who else is just here because they like the song. And doesn’t get depressed when listening to it?!

  • @maxcombs4020
    @maxcombs4020 7 лет назад

    "What ever happened to the young man's heart... Swallowed by pain, as he slowly fell apart." Damn, those lyrics hit me hard.

  • @tricky1506
    @tricky1506 5 лет назад +1

    Jesus above, still get chills when he screams 45 at the end🤯so much power

  • @Cecedub234
    @Cecedub234 10 лет назад +7

    I love this song but it brings me back to so many memories....

    • @lexy-austin
      @lexy-austin 10 лет назад +3

      I don't know why but all of their songs do that to me