Can You Wife a Girl With A HOE Past

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Комментарии • 762

  • @steviemak10
    @steviemak10 2 года назад +53

    Kevin Samuels says it best: women want a traditional man, but can’t act traditional themselves.
    Word to Nas: Black Girl Lost.

  • @crow2swann5
    @crow2swann5 2 года назад +229

    He's trying to have a rational conversation with a bag of emotions.

    • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
      @truthseekingfreethinker5214 2 года назад +26

      They only get emotional when it hits home, they only want to take shots to hide their pain, they become loud when they realize that the entire conversation is about their life. OBSERVE

    • @meldonsleep5298
      @meldonsleep5298 2 года назад +4

      Facts

    • @caveman357
      @caveman357 2 года назад +3

      You can tell it was getting to them. "What i did before you doesn't matter". GTFOH with that. They have their definition of ho#, and we have ours. Only in 2022 do we have women openly demanding the normalization of hoedom.

    • @madant22
      @madant22 2 года назад

      He’s not manosphare ready. He’s manosphare groomed. He comes from that reality tv love and hip hop world so he’s not ready for this RUclips space. give him time to grow and he’ll get there.

    • @truftelar2580
      @truftelar2580 2 года назад +1

      Good point!!!

  • @VybeX-
    @VybeX- 2 года назад +245

    Why is it even a discussion. Body count matters to men period. There's no way around it.

    • @plymakkayestudio1827
      @plymakkayestudio1827 2 года назад +16

      Thank you

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 года назад +12

      And that's fine. But when women say they want a provider PERIOD then men need to accept that and stop whining about it. If men arent compromising on their preferences, why should women?

    • @plymakkayestudio1827
      @plymakkayestudio1827 2 года назад +36

      @@joannamonique707 Who whines about it??? Boys would whine about, no real mature man would have an issue being a provider..this is literally what we were born for. You need to date up love and stop dating boys in their 20's or change the type of men you dealing with. MOST men won't have an issue

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +26

      @@joannamonique707 don’t say Men….only a bum is not a provider, because a man is goin to provide with or without a woman. Having a Woman around shouldn’t motivate a real man to have anything he has he should already have it or want it for himself first. If a man has nothing not even for himself then that says a lot about him and his future #FreeGame

    • @ginorusselwilliams9461
      @ginorusselwilliams9461 2 года назад +1

      True.
      Always.

  • @SincerelyBobbyGrand
    @SincerelyBobbyGrand 2 года назад +218

    …then shorty in the orange said your past doesn’t matter!? Your past is literally an accumulation of all your experiences and decisions leading up to today. That doesn’t matter?? HUH?? …she’s lost. & this is the dating scene bro, smh

    • @JayChiCity312
      @JayChiCity312 2 года назад +20

      This is the mentality we have to deal with lol. Gotta move in a room full of Vultures

    • @eve3363
      @eve3363 2 года назад +3

      Have you heard of the term "whore makers"? Y'all are in this together. The only people who deserve a committed, loving, long lasting relationship are women who have had sex with less than 5 men and men who have had sex with less than 10 women.

    • @carlmiller369
      @carlmiller369 2 года назад +28

      @@eve3363 there is no such thing as a whore maker, women control access to sex and their body, therefore we will not tolerate deflection.

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 года назад +4

      That is a crazy thing to say, but your present matters too. Some people just been hurt too many times to believe that some people do change when they meet a particular man or woman. Your last AND your present matters.

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +8

      @@eve3363 ur right but there are A LOT of men who have slept with less the 10 woman out there trust me 💀 the woman jus do want them coincidentally which has been proven for decades woman chase the badman, the playas, and the playboys who deal with multiple woman at once. The reality is most woman don’t want the nice/good guy who has less than 10 bodies because those guys always turn out to be beta, too square, not smooth, boring, not sexually attractive etc….. vice versa same thing the girls nowadays who have slept with less than 5 people then u would think there gotta be something wrong with her. Those statistics rarely line up together. There are more woman than men on Earth like 8 to 1 and there is still 40% of men who don’t get to have kids so that should say alot. What u said sounds good but the truth is A men with not enough experience is no good and a woman with too many experiences is not good they both make that person less attractive in the long run. No girls wants a guy who nobody else wants and no guy wants a girl that every dude has had or potentially can have

  • @jsixxplays
    @jsixxplays 2 года назад +180

    Women can do whatever they want, but a man doesn't have to accept it if he doesn't want to. You're better off being upfront about it before he finds out from someone else.

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov 2 года назад +1

      She doesn’t even have to say it for a knowledgeable man to figure it out. It’s written all over her mental health.

  • @neikowilliams3695
    @neikowilliams3695 2 года назад +129

    Invite some feminine classy educated women to have this conversation with

    • @17thN.O
      @17thN.O 2 года назад +27

      Wouldn't get the clicks, so they won't.

    • @RottenMal
      @RottenMal 2 года назад +4

      Where they at?

    • @real8645
      @real8645 2 года назад

      @@17thN.O yeah u right

    • @17thN.O
      @17thN.O 2 года назад +1

      They decide to invite some broads that sound like and have the same mannerisms as Cam'ron. But, but, but....they have on tight dresses tho. Sexxxy...*sarcasm*

    • @truftelar2580
      @truftelar2580 2 года назад +1

      You have to fine those first

  • @terranceali9787
    @terranceali9787 2 года назад +170

    Nobody is ever gonna take Danny serious 😂😂😂😂
    She bout to be single forever lol

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +17

      She is in denial bad🤣🤣

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 2 года назад +14

      She has her own definition that nobody else follows. Its like a dude with a drug habit who purchases a big ol bag of whatever, then sells a portion of it to folks he knows so he can feed his habit for free. Same dude looks at u and says " im not selling drugs. This is different ". It won't be different to the police. So when she meets a dude she's serious about , and tells him about her behavior, it won't be any different to him either.

    • @Dremooa
      @Dremooa 2 года назад +7

      Yeah she super gross, like I wish she would see how disgusting of a human one can be. No self awareness

    • @DPotent
      @DPotent 2 года назад +1

      The girl in the Orange's argument is so stupid.
      If I was an abuser in my past, beating up women on the regular, and I meet someone new and never lay a hand on them, then that doesn't make me an abuser; because I'm not whooping your ass now?🤷🏿‍♂️🙄🤦🏿‍♂️
      L🤣L

  • @tinka2616
    @tinka2616 2 года назад +324

    Your past always matters that’s where you came from ….

    • @AmberAshli
      @AmberAshli 2 года назад +9

      PERIOD!

    • @ForeignHuslter365
      @ForeignHuslter365 2 года назад +10

      💯

    • @Riosmoove122
      @Riosmoove122 2 года назад +6

      💯 otherwise there would be no conversation

    • @illyaleeper4629
      @illyaleeper4629 2 года назад +4

      💯Facts🤔

    • @Christina-rz7zw
      @Christina-rz7zw 2 года назад +5

      Nah it don’t cause people change everyday, if your husband kills a man at 20 you want people to judge him at 30? Life is about experience you can not judge a person on there past

  • @JL-et2nh
    @JL-et2nh 2 года назад +175

    If you got 100 bodies you in atleast 30 group chats around the city your not discreet at all 😂😂😂

    • @yxngt2854
      @yxngt2854 2 года назад +17

      30 group chats is crazy 😂

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +19

      Really tho she might jus end up on Reddit

    • @passerau
      @passerau 2 года назад +4

      For a good and vertus wm 3 is the limit

    • @Bloodyspazz
      @Bloodyspazz 2 года назад +1

      @@HOODTROPHY2x 😂😂😂😂👎🏿

  • @BlackOwnedDollars
    @BlackOwnedDollars 2 года назад +61

    What women fail to grasp is they don't smash, they get smashed.
    They don't hit you, they are getting hit

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 года назад +5

      Just to inform...women dont see it that way. Contrary to what men believe women can have sex without getting emotionally attatched and when the woman is not attatched she doesn't see the encounter as she "gave up" something. She sees it transactional, like she just had fun. Especially if she was safe and used a condom she's not gonna feel like she got smashed. Because when it's all said and done, the nigga aint got her in her feelings, he's not controlling her money or resources...like nothing happened but a lil nut. MEN are physical creatures, not women. Women are EMOTIONAL creatures, which means if there was no EMOTIONAL transaction then nothing happened. Now I'm guessing your the type who expects women to be submissive and live according to your standards....dont think that works too well judging by the nine million men on youtube complaing about the subject. Men expecting women to be cute innocent virgins flower girls needs to stop and women expecting men to be buff rich hung warlords needs to stop as well because they are both highly unrealistic for most people alive lol

    • @suli5109
      @suli5109 2 года назад +13

      @@nalyzamariano9634 that's either a lie or you're just wrong lmao. Most women were virgins back in the day because that's what the culture was. Any woman that was having sex outside kf marriage was deemed a concubine. The rich men had wives and concubines but the poorer men only had wives(which were virgins). Back in the day virginity actually meant a woman who is not married, check the etymology. A woman who was not married wasn't having sex.

    • @Christina-rz7zw
      @Christina-rz7zw 2 года назад

      @@suli5109 it’s 2021 who cares about what happened back in the day

    • @mmget5415
      @mmget5415 2 года назад +8

      @@joannamonique707 yea and the more partners she has the more likely she damaged y’all produce a bonding hormone during sex the more indiscriminate sex the less it works also the more partners you have the more prone to divorce you are

    • @mmget5415
      @mmget5415 2 года назад

      @@suli5109 false virgin meant virgin they consummated marriages on white sheets to prove virginity by the blood.. Maybe virginity was linked to marriage because you were supposed to be a virgin till married

  • @shadowlee02
    @shadowlee02 2 года назад +60

    If you smash 100 men yes you are. No If and or buts

    • @beecool2603
      @beecool2603 2 года назад +8

      They no that!!! She just dont want execpt the facts

    • @nalyzamariano9634
      @nalyzamariano9634 2 года назад +13

      Yeah 100 is excessive. Even for a man to have slept with 100 women that’s a lot. 100 sex partners is a lot period.

    • @beecool2603
      @beecool2603 2 года назад +4

      @@nalyzamariano9634 yes i agree a 100% .even for a man. Bonds and strong ties is the real value

    • @no1_raisondetre542
      @no1_raisondetre542 2 года назад +1

      If you smash 2 different men in your lifetime you'se a eoh... Biblically speaking...

  • @Gotinks
    @Gotinks 2 года назад +76

    These chicks are the wrong ones to have this conversation with!! lmao

  • @toji6952
    @toji6952 2 года назад +16

    I’ve never met a person that lives a promiscuous lifestyle that is genuinely happy.

    • @juniorleslie4804
      @juniorleslie4804 2 года назад +1

      Neither have I, we must be the only unusual fellows left.

  • @sesepengel1312
    @sesepengel1312 2 года назад +88

    Rico!! You 100!!!! Real talk !!

    • @TheCALIBLAZE
      @TheCALIBLAZE 2 года назад +18

      The very fact they are defending 125 bodies at all

    • @sesepengel1312
      @sesepengel1312 2 года назад +13

      @@TheCALIBLAZE exactly just own it and deal with the consequences of your choices it is what it is

    • @eddiedelarge12
      @eddiedelarge12 2 года назад +5

      Oh Girl Praising Kim K Like They Equal an Prospering on The Same Level Field....Who Has a WHOLE White Market That's SUPPORT Her Endeavors That DOESN'T Support You Sis????🤔 .... An Think You Will Eventually Land On That Bottom Line That Kim is On! 🤑 💰 .... Keep Dreaming.... Ask Chyna.... Look at Her Rep?🤔

    • @NyakzOTSD
      @NyakzOTSD 2 года назад +10

      Rico speaking facts!!! Sad reality is 99% of women aren’t marriagble

    • @williambrown9781
      @williambrown9781 2 года назад

      It's hard to say "a hoe has a high body count" when you yourself have a high body count.

  • @robertnathan7412
    @robertnathan7412 2 года назад +36

    The women are trying to change the goal post but they don't realize they are only changing it in their mind which is why they are single.

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +5

      Exactly they don’t realize that the way they present they’re mindset says everything you need to know😂 these girls aren’t foolin anybody

  • @1ffilctar
    @1ffilctar 2 года назад +47

    Some women think they know everything, even when they don't. Dude is dropping mad game about how dudes feel about body count and the ladies are arguing him down that he, A MAN, doesn't know more about how men think than they do. It was a great time for the ladies to take notes and get put up on game. This video is a small glimpse into how many women in society think themselves into a long life of being unwifeable.

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 2 года назад +8

      100 percent correct. She got her own definition of a "promiscuous " woman. Lol. She thinks if she has her own definition, then it's not her. Lol. She really thinks that will stop men from thinking shes promiscuous. So she goes from state to state so dudes can't compare notes. If u have to travel to express your sexuality physically, then everybody knows what it is

  • @malikaustin9087
    @malikaustin9087 2 года назад +17

    Call it childish or whatever they try 2 shame men for caring about body count but end of the day It ain't gon change. This is just the infinite disconnect between modern men and women

    • @Christina-rz7zw
      @Christina-rz7zw 2 года назад +2

      It will change when women stop allowing men to run through them like stop signs all it takes is all women to develop the mind set that one man belongs to one women… men can’t have sex with multiple women unless allowed buy that said women

  • @gwallaboislim
    @gwallaboislim 2 года назад +53

    Do They EVER LET RICO FINISH HIS SENTENCE POINT????

    • @ThatsVeee
      @ThatsVeee 2 года назад +1

      No, seriously!

    • @17thN.O
      @17thN.O 2 года назад +1

      If a broad has a f**k you hat on her head, you know what it is.

  • @tex7.7
    @tex7.7 2 года назад +15

    As a men you need to know women will see and know the truth and ignore it..

  • @eyeamgod2734
    @eyeamgod2734 2 года назад +28

    A lot of women if they told the truth on how many dudes they slept with wouldn't be married! No matter how good they look or in shape the body is! If bodu counts didn't matter then they would truthfully tell the real number and deal with it the man still wants to be with her!

  • @d.t.williams5034
    @d.t.williams5034 2 года назад +34

    She said a dude gotta work extra hard to get to know her and in between her legs lol 😂🤦🏿‍♂️😆. The question men are asking is why should we work hard for a chick that's clearly not giving us a chance from the beginning, based on HER PAST? 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @DeadricSummoner
    @DeadricSummoner 2 года назад +42

    This is gonna be one of those things where we are just gonna have to act accordingly. If I as a man am expected to provide for a woman's lifestyle for the duration of our relationship then yes, your sexual history matters to me. The only men who are telling women that it doesn't matter to them do not have any long-term goals with them. Even today we are lenient about "how many is too many" and it's women who are legit sex workers claiming that it shouldn't matter.
    This is one of those things where a lot of people just have to be single for the rest of their lives to get the point across. I know women who fucked an entire school football team and only got wifed up because they found a man that no one from her past knew. I'm expected to be a disciplined person, but asking for a woman who is at least sexually disciplined (not repressed) shouldn't be too much to ask for.

    • @spazz-ok9nr
      @spazz-ok9nr 2 года назад +4

      💯

    • @Dimadome12
      @Dimadome12 2 года назад +3

      Agreed. Especially the sexually disciplined but not repressed part

  • @NaomisDream
    @NaomisDream 2 года назад +14

    K Goddess is letting this hit too close to home because if she admits it then she’ll realize she isn’t as high-value as she presumed. Great topic 🗣

  • @james-og7df
    @james-og7df 2 года назад +8

    Your past doesn’t matter? Tell that to the credit bureaus, tell that to your potential new employer, tell that to the justice system, tell that to mortgage company. We can go on and on and on. There is nothing in life where your past doesn’t come into play. People who say the past doesn’t count are only ppl who don’t want to be accountable for it.

  • @LovedbyYah
    @LovedbyYah 2 года назад +43

    These ladies don't have any common sense nor can they hold a deep intellectual conversation 🤔 .

    • @elizabethh4329
      @elizabethh4329 2 года назад +6

      they choose these kinds of girls on purpose though. it's like they're giving us a NY version of the Fresh & Fit podcast

    • @Put2CentsIn
      @Put2CentsIn 2 года назад +3

      @@elizabethh4329 😂😂

    • @gregs356
      @gregs356 2 года назад +2

      @@elizabethh4329 they chose some Brooklyn chicks

  • @bmos212
    @bmos212 2 года назад +11

    Lets get the saying right people. " You cant turn a bad girl good, but once a good girls goes bad, shes gone forever " JAY-Z. Its 100% true. Once shes been turned to the trickery and SIMPIN, she'll expect it and the average guy doesn't exist to her anymore.

  • @raoulfr
    @raoulfr 2 года назад +17

    This is where these conversations gets weird cause all the hosts are doing, did, or have done ho activities 🤷🏽‍♂️ These two women look guilty af 🤣

  • @shannonshark301
    @shannonshark301 2 года назад +40

    No is the answer. If the body count is crazy.. I won't... but I won't talk bad about them or say anything disrespectful.. just not for me. Just be honest with each other and make our decisions on if we want to move forward

  • @curtisbrown1738
    @curtisbrown1738 2 года назад +25

    These women got so much masculine energy it's ridiculous women cannot move like men women cannot determine who is a hoe and who is it we are different you are a woman we are Men that is what women continuously fail to understand you cannot move like us and for the women who think men ain't shit you are who you pick if you ain't shit you going to pick shit be accountable for your own incapabilities of choosing. That is why men who are not simps don't deal with holes or women with large body counts. Everything Rico said it was 100 with this one.

  • @LowercaseKev
    @LowercaseKev 2 года назад +24

    Relational stability matters more to men, financial stability matters more to women. Simplly put. woman won't date you seriously without a prerequisite of having a job, being able to take care of your own self and then some. The man doesn't want to date a woman with an extensive past and lots of bodies. Men and women value different things. Now men are not saying oh be a virgin your whole life, but keep your body count in check. Most men will rather become seriously involved with a woman who has been in relatively long relationships(6 months or more). Think of it as like a resume. Women have boxes for financial stability, men have relational stability.

  • @jayjones318
    @jayjones318 2 года назад +2

    Just having 304 thoughts can make you 304. So please ladies, "See NO 304 ish, Hear NO 304 ish, Speak NO 304 ish." 💯🙏🏾

  • @dvance201240
    @dvance201240 2 года назад +15

    It's pathetic how these women want men to think like them.

    • @ha4b635
      @ha4b635 2 года назад +3

      Facts!! They want men to think like women and it's completely pathetic.

    • @truftelar2580
      @truftelar2580 2 года назад

      Can't argue against you on that! It's sad at this point!

  • @TiaJoy1372
    @TiaJoy1372 2 года назад +21

    We need real women on here that would give the right kind of advice ☺️💛

  • @ELLIOT8209
    @ELLIOT8209 2 года назад +18

    Rico is right but can't put a lid on this debate. He's dancing with them.

  • @Hollaback_Youngn
    @Hollaback_Youngn 2 года назад +14

    Rico is 100% right the women just don’t like his answers

  • @colinscrypto3307
    @colinscrypto3307 2 года назад +10

    Say it again for the people in the back. THE #1 RULE is... "You can't turn a 304 into a housewife!" I was like 8 years old when my uncle taught me that.

  • @JL-et2nh
    @JL-et2nh 2 года назад +30

    Why do women always say I know the shit men do and I have my guard up and it’s OK but when I say I’m emotionally unavailable because I can’t trust women something is wrong with me do women not understand the things they put us through like I don’t think they get it 🤣

    • @JayJay-nt6iv
      @JayJay-nt6iv 2 года назад +6

      They gonna say you hurt, you broke, You got problems. Shit funny

    • @joannamonique707
      @joannamonique707 2 года назад

      Why can men have a high body count but not women? Why can black people say black pride but white people cant? Why does everyone hate on Tkashi 69 for snitching but not holding snoop to the same standard? It's called double le standards and EVERYONE has to deal with them, not just you sir.

    • @thadonjuan2339
      @thadonjuan2339 2 года назад +4

      @@joannamonique707 Because men and women aren't the same.

    • @410cloutkings
      @410cloutkings 2 года назад

      @@joannamonique707 the same reason why a woman can be 26 living with her mom no job and no career and still not be considered a broke bum but if a man does that he’s a bum, it’s a double standard

  • @thenewdrugno3660
    @thenewdrugno3660 2 года назад +3

    Some women that used to be 304s have stopped hoeing and got that out of their system and don’t return. Most of them have it so engrained in their system that even when they try to act like this reformed woman most men see through the act and or 7 year itch.

  • @kevinwilliams4025
    @kevinwilliams4025 2 года назад +11

    Lmao defending it like they got 150 bodies 💀

    • @justanotheracc6148
      @justanotheracc6148 2 года назад

      What do you mean “like” 😂 I think it’s at least around 150 for both of them.

  • @Jsmash_424
    @Jsmash_424 2 года назад +9

    These women think men and women are the same lol. Ans also trying to change the meaning of words like it won’t disqualify them 🤣 woman want a man with a future and men don’t want a woman with a past. Period

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 2 года назад +8

    Sleeping around is dangerous, you don't know what anyone is carrying and most people are not honest about their body count.

  • @carolynmcintyre2199
    @carolynmcintyre2199 2 года назад +13

    Thank God for Rico’s Intellect because those women don’t get it! 😒

  • @Sharifabc
    @Sharifabc 2 года назад +13

    Im finna become a Monk it’s crazy in these streets

  • @njmadson4951
    @njmadson4951 2 года назад +1

    These women need to let Rico talk and stop interrupting him. Rico be speaking and these women were so quick to jump in without him even finishing his points

  • @Theboss-xr4ch
    @Theboss-xr4ch 2 года назад +9

    When Danny gets emotional it hits her hard

  • @TiaJoy1372
    @TiaJoy1372 2 года назад +14

    So grateful that I love myself and know my self worth. I'm soon to be 35 looking 21 ayyyeeéee lol ... I was with my kids father for over 18 years, never cheated on him. Never stepped out in no kind of way and I am proud of myself. I know about soul- ties. My dad had a conversation when I was 11 years old with me. I am so grateful for it. I pray everyday rebuke and temptation and fornication. We as people ask God for all types of things but have you ever really thought are you deserving of it. Yes everyone has a pass but are you staying stagnant in the same results are coming out. It's about making better choices and walking that righteous walk. I believe that all good things will come back to people who do good, just be patient it's all in God's timing ☺️💛

  • @esirijames24
    @esirijames24 2 года назад +5

    Men are inherently attracted to women’s innocence
    This is why virginity was important in the old day
    A female catching multiple bodies is not attractive to men that respect themselves. We might some fun with her but we would never claim her publicly
    And no matter how discreet a promiscuous woman is, a man that pays attention will eventually find out

    • @realbigboss1009
      @realbigboss1009 2 года назад

      That's part of the problem we shouldn't be doing nothing with them do that n watch all hoes disappear

  • @StayTunedReviews
    @StayTunedReviews 2 года назад +18

    "The past don't matter"... Sure when it comes to your body count. When it comes to him possibly smashing your family member, having a criminal history or merely being accused of something then the past it brought up.

    • @HoneyBrasco
      @HoneyBrasco 2 года назад

      The past doesnt matter?😂😂 good luck with that mentality

  • @leonlance271
    @leonlance271 2 года назад +6

    To answer the ladies question they have to understand that men and women are not the same. A woman's initial value is in her purity (virginity, low body count, etc.). While a man's initial value is what he can provide (protection, security, etc.).
    1, A woman who has a high body count isn't seen in a positive light based on her initial perceived value she should've had (virginity, low body count). An because she no longer has those options. This will pose a major challenge in a man looking past this and choosing to see what else she has to offer outside of physical attraction.
    2, Most men will not consider her as a life partner due to her past and the impact it'll have on his reputation which is very important to him.
    3, A promiscuous women is seen as a bad bet when it comes building a family. As there may be some physiological, physical, and paternity issues that may not have been addressed and will be carried over into the family with varying effects.
    In short you are free to enjoy your life but understand that every action has a reaction. Alot of persons both men and women fail to realize and accept this fact.

  • @pmymode
    @pmymode 2 года назад +24

    Tell Danny she’s too emotional.

  • @jeromejones8379
    @jeromejones8379 2 года назад +5

    Past matters… but Rico is rational 95% of the time and I ain’t seen him be bias yet! Bro ain’t telling no tales

  • @marvinsmith1652
    @marvinsmith1652 2 года назад +21

    You need Esso on this conversation

  • @Mina80ful
    @Mina80ful 2 года назад +24

    When he said “shows a lack of discipline” 🎯

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +7

      I would say that’s the wrong terminology, because what would discipline have to do with it. I think it correlates directly to values, ethics, mindset and mortalities. Discipline is just the action, for example if a woman in her mind would like to sleep with a lot of men and sees nothing wrong with it then she should because that’s is her mindset, how she really feels and what she must truly want so who is to stop her from trying to gain happiness. But to have the same mindset but not act on your urges only because you have discipline is foolish because u still have the same mindset so it will only be a matter of time before you break. Basically the same as a ho3 who gets into a relationship lol how long will she be committed??? how long until she starts ho3in bacc around?? U will Neva kno when but u do know it will happen someday if she is still the same person with the same mindset

    • @randomqjw3541
      @randomqjw3541 2 года назад +1

      Kuntraversy 🦍🌹ruclips.net/video/B5vLjcdiAZo/видео.html

  • @ScaryToRemarry
    @ScaryToRemarry 2 года назад +4

    Your past shapes the way you see life, good or bad

  • @eyeamgod2734
    @eyeamgod2734 2 года назад +8

    Also when I hear Black Women say Black Men have to work hard to get to know then is a red flag for a man! Black People have trauma and need therapy! We can't keep taking our baggages into the next relationship. That's a recipe for disaster! We shouldn't have to go above and beyond just because of the failed relationships of your past! I'm not saying ignore intuition but keep a clear mind before and during your next relationship

  • @cclassy5890
    @cclassy5890 2 года назад +12

    What the heck is Danny talking about lawd

    • @randomqjw3541
      @randomqjw3541 2 года назад +1

      Kuntraversy 🦍🌹ruclips.net/video/iLh5qcLJQPY/видео.html

    • @blacketernal7139
      @blacketernal7139 2 года назад

      God bless her little confused heart.

  • @keithdee44
    @keithdee44 2 года назад +20

    *HE KILLED HER WHOLE ARGUMENT WITH KIM ONLY SLEPT WITH 5 PEOPLE*
    *I FELT LIKE ALONZO,MYYYYYY NICCA*

  • @mistahjay8598
    @mistahjay8598 2 года назад +26

    Ole girl in the orange said she not at the point where she wont except love from another man..translation.. Doesn't mean that she wont except" MONEY" from another man. See you have to read between the lines with these type of chicks.

  • @WATTS9300block
    @WATTS9300block 2 года назад +10

    Nobody:
    Danny: I feel like 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @ezimdanielchukwunwike531
    @ezimdanielchukwunwike531 2 года назад +6

    Rico tell s the truth.

  • @pow...rightinthekisser
    @pow...rightinthekisser 2 года назад +2

    Notice this 🚩 to save time and energy. When any women mentions love, if the statement on love is consistently about receiving love. It means she's not interested in the love thats worked for. Subconsciously, love is only valuable to her if it facilitates the dream of someone she desires loving her.

  • @Justcallmeboat
    @Justcallmeboat 2 года назад +18

    So man has to work extra hard to get to know the real you because your mad that you made bad choices when it comes to choosing men, sorry sweetie no real man with his head on right not about to do all that seriously!

    • @jaebennett2826
      @jaebennett2826 2 года назад +1

      A woman shouldn’t repeat the same mistakes over n over so you dam right ima make you work extra hard I’m not repeating my mistakes

    • @shorts26
      @shorts26 2 года назад +5

      @@jaebennett2826 and she needs to work extra hard to what I bring by that logic

    • @no1_raisondetre542
      @no1_raisondetre542 2 года назад +1

      @@shorts26 how much do u want to bet that ol girl turned her face up at the thought and your response of them having to put in that real work themselves, as well , to have a relationship

    • @Indicudi
      @Indicudi 2 года назад +3

      @@jaebennett2826 the one that made all the mistakes should be working extra hard to be appealing. No man with options and self respect choosing a girl that gave it up easy to bums and deadbeats it makes no sense.

    • @jaebennett2826
      @jaebennett2826 2 года назад +2

      @@Indicudi the fact that y’all hold a bad desciscion when she was in her early 20s or younger over her head for the rest of her life is ridiculous your not the same person at 29 you were at 21 I had my daughter when I was 14 and thought I was in love and I didn’t wanna listen to my parents now I’m 29 and I haven’t had anymore pregnancies

  • @justlurkin
    @justlurkin 2 года назад +39

    A past aint the past for men. Most women don't care about a man's past but they will damn sure hold him accountable for his present and his future. If I as a man don't have this or that and have no plans of getting it, I'm not an option for the majority of women. On the other hand a man can be out here taking care of a woman's whole present and future, she don't have to have shit going on. He just asks her to have a good past. That's the deal and its fair in my eyes. All this the past don't matter is women tryna break that balance and switch the advantage in their favor. Foh

    • @TheRemedy23
      @TheRemedy23 2 года назад +8

      Facts. Red flags for any women that dont get this!

    • @HOODTROPHY2x
      @HOODTROPHY2x 2 года назад +6

      Yes that’s their new game now they’re always trying to switch everything in their favor but the rules don’t change. Also it’s not even no petty shit either or Childish act as they say it is we not sayin we want angels but a woman past is very important it will show you all you need, a woman’s past will tell you everything about her because she damn sure ain’t

    • @manyrubies
      @manyrubies 2 года назад

      We do care about a man’s past. We’re just gaslighted for having too high of a standard lol.

    • @BlankestKnight
      @BlankestKnight 2 года назад +1

      @@manyrubies If that was the case Pookie's like Future wouldn't have 8 baby mama's and 13 kids. Clearly women don't care so long as the guy has the bag and clout. We don't make the rules, we just play by them. You should learn to do the same.

    • @manyrubies
      @manyrubies 2 года назад

      @@BlankestKnight I don’t know a woman who would touch Future or anyone like him with a ten foot pole.

  • @Schock82
    @Schock82 2 года назад +6

    To men, we value women based on if she gives it up or not. Most women value men by there status and financial stabilities. We are different. We don’t value the same. If a woman has a lot of partners on her past, us guys view her as less valuable. That’s just what we like. A woman who preserves her vagina is viewed as more valuable.

    • @juniorleslie4804
      @juniorleslie4804 2 года назад

      Are you saying that women value is inversely proportional to the amount guys she sleep with?

    • @Schock82
      @Schock82 2 года назад +1

      @@juniorleslie4804 Yes, but this is from a mans perspective. The more men she sleeps with, the less valuable men view her.

  • @kimanir1802
    @kimanir1802 2 года назад +4

    She might move on or forget but her body doesn't forget her body count..ever.

  • @AmberAshli
    @AmberAshli 2 года назад +18

    The rationale in this is cringy…I think there needs to be more women of the real world (not social media influencers) in these convos that come from real life relationships because in the end, that is what some of these women want if not all…SN: high body count in the light or the dark for a woman is not cute…our body is a temple and every time you let someone in…that temple becomes too big…let that sink in

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 2 года назад +5

      She wants to change the definition so it doesn't fit her. Its "her" truth . Lol. Reality is if you go all over the country and perform for men, your just hiding who u are. If u r not ashamed of your behavior, you wouldn't wait to get away from folks that know you to behave that way. Thats like a dude saying he's heterosexual and traveling all over the country to be a homosexual. Then he comes back to his neighborhood and says "im not gay. Show me one man that says I am" gtfoh.

    • @AmberAshli
      @AmberAshli 2 года назад

      @@anthonymerritt1114 I totally agree and approve this statement!!

  • @damiendouglas6700
    @damiendouglas6700 2 года назад +3

    Funny how the shawty off camera finds a way to blame men for her f*cked up decisions with men. So us men ain't shit because you decided to squander a quarter of your youth on your back with the bad boys while you ignored the dude that you considered corny. I find it hard to believe these women even know what love is

  • @stillyoung6524
    @stillyoung6524 2 года назад +10

    Men aka society gives that label. Just like women give men with little money the label broke a$$.........You can't change the label. A hit dog will holla. We are lost. Their plan is working. Smh.

  • @TUNNEL_ViSiO_ON
    @TUNNEL_ViSiO_ON 2 года назад +32

    Yes it can occur (if the man truly wants to be with that woman) however MOST men will not allow themselves to catch feelings for a woman that they know has been with a lot of men.
    In order for a man to wife a woman with high mileage:
    she must be real, upfront & honest with him about her past by taking accountability for the way she has carried herself & the decisions she made (not to say it was wrong but it is what it is). Following that she must exhibit actions that shows she has truly changed the way she’s “moving”, in desire to not only to be wifed but to be wifed by that particular man.

    • @Jamfar777
      @Jamfar777 2 года назад +4

      Salute brother. I can tell you are a follower of wisdom.

    • @SincerelyBobbyGrand
      @SincerelyBobbyGrand 2 года назад +9

      …and it most cases, that STILL won’t be enough. I’m truly concerned at the gender war happening between black men and women. Women don’t understand that their currency is youth, beauty, fertility & sexual exclusivity & mens is what he’s built for himself. Everybody is lost. Smh

    • @GurlPlz4321
      @GurlPlz4321 2 года назад

      Thank you, there are women with a high body count who later have entered a relationship because they realize the wo life is not it. They’ve changed and their every day actions show it. Life hits differently for everyone

    • @tokyodiva
      @tokyodiva 2 года назад

      @@Jamfar777 what about women who were not guided on sex or the value of virginity and slept with a man cause she thought that’s what it would take to be with him?? Is she still considered a 304

    • @DubaiiMakavelii
      @DubaiiMakavelii Год назад

      That’s easy

  • @JayChiCity312
    @JayChiCity312 2 года назад +12

    Dope show. Some people need to humble themselves though. Fact sheet

  • @ScaryToRemarry
    @ScaryToRemarry 2 года назад +2

    This is a topic that people don’t discuss enough

  • @ronnellharvey5546
    @ronnellharvey5546 2 года назад +6

    I just want to point out the part where he posed the hypothetical question of him sleeping with 150 women. Do you see how excited the women got? They didn't take offense but instead were intrigued. Why is that? Because men value women who haven't given themselves to many or damn near any men and women value the experience a man who's had that many women can bring to the bedroom. As a man that experience can help us with pleasing our wives later in life. It doesn't work that way for women. If we are to value you then we don't want you to have a promiscuous past. The experience you gain from that don't matter to us because if we are to marry we will teach you how to please us. One of the most important things in a marriage I believe for men is to mold their wives to them specifically. If you as a woman are not disciplined before vowels exchange how can we expect you to be so in marriage? Just a thought

    • @juhuancook1185
      @juhuancook1185 2 года назад +1

      True

    • @rapidretrovenue563
      @rapidretrovenue563 2 года назад

      broooo the molding part is SOOO true!
      Like I don't CARE about a woman "needing experience" from other men, I want to just teach you from scratch how to cater to ME. You don't need to have prior experience, just let me guide you through.

    • @ronnellharvey5546
      @ronnellharvey5546 2 года назад

      @@rapidretrovenue563 Exactly bro. This is something that seems to go over women's head. I don't why they think having an enormous amount of sexual experience is valuable for them. As men we will sleep with the for the enjoyment, but once that post nut clarity kicks in we will despise them and consider them nothing more than a sexual play thing. Then they'll go around complaining about it when the truth is their actions subject them to that kind of treatment. Being promiscuous doesn't help them attain the life they truly desire, but for some reason they still intend to defy nature. It's really Sad

    • @rapidretrovenue563
      @rapidretrovenue563 2 года назад

      @@ronnellharvey5546 I think of women as like, clay.
      They come to this world moldable, flexible, stretchy, able to fold into whatever fits the relationship they're in.
      As she has sex with men, the clay hardens and becomes more solid. She becomes more "self-made" and set on her ways. She starts thinking like a man.
      Men don't want that. They don't want to marry another man. They don't want to be bumping heads with a woman who has already made up her mind on how she handles relationships because then the man can't customize and guide her according to the relationship. He's not going to teach her because she's going to reject his ideologies.
      This is why I've seen SOMANY relationships where the man takes the woman by like 8-10 yrs its not some "weirdo" shit or anything, its literally because the less experienced a lady is, the more open she is to letting the man be the leader and flourish her into an amicable partner.
      The sad thing is of course, many men do abuse this power for the wrong reasons, but that is a whole other story. Point is, men place HIGH value and PRIORITY in women who "haven't been soiled".

  • @antoniomccoy9451
    @antoniomccoy9451 2 года назад

    THIS VIDEO IS A GREAT EXAMPLE AS TO WHY MEN LIE TO WOMEN!! These brothers are trying to give these women insight as to what men really think as far as what makes a woman unjustifiable for serious commitment and also what's the criteria for a woman to be considered for a wife but they are refusing to LISTEN!! You lie to yourselves because excepting the truth means you have to be accountable for your actions but we're wrong for seeing you for who and what you truly are using you and discarding you??? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE! At the end of the day we men decide what makes a woman valuable and worthy of marriage so when we are talking you should be LISTENING!!

  • @iceflys50
    @iceflys50 2 года назад +10

    I've only heard it in fairy tales tbh

  • @Theboxingdungeon
    @Theboxingdungeon 2 года назад +17

    😂😂😂😂 they just out of the prime

    • @omaridixon9460
      @omaridixon9460 2 года назад

      They not getting attention when they was younger so now they rushing 2 get married and men not with it lol

  • @lebooart
    @lebooart 2 года назад +5

    Woman will never understand this as man won't understand some of their things. To woman many body count is a go to but for a man many body is a mash pass not wife up. Had auntie's with that mind set and they still single to this day probably they learned it the hard way. But due to states we have many women than man on Earth so not every woman will have a straight guy.
    Danko is thank you 🙏🏾
    Leboo 🇿🇦

  • @smileyloco7139
    @smileyloco7139 2 года назад +5

    They don't want to hear the truth
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    A hit dog will holla

  • @babyboy9177
    @babyboy9177 2 года назад +2

    That’s like them knowing i used to beat girls head to a pulp and say oh my past doesn’t matter I’m with you now 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @Rbhawk3rd
    @Rbhawk3rd 2 года назад +3

    I find it funny how women are telling men how they should look at things. Yet they don't want to hear anything you have to say.

  • @thejookking
    @thejookking 2 года назад

    I hope these women read these comments...
    Body count matters men no matter what.

  • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
    @truthseekingfreethinker5214 2 года назад +2

    Women listen closely, a man who accepts a woman with a high body count, that man has a low self esteem. Don't believe me, get in a relationship with him and see for yourself.

  • @kreezaysaint6769
    @kreezaysaint6769 2 года назад +6

    Lol lil ladies be changing up the meaning of the 1 word to fit their situation. Sure past is past.

  • @manyrubies
    @manyrubies 2 года назад +6

    Silly question to ask the group who values, respects, and understands marriage the least…

  • @realhitman395
    @realhitman395 2 года назад +4

    A woman pass will eventually come back and bite at the end

  • @tdopero9187
    @tdopero9187 2 года назад +1

    She said I'm not a hoe I'm in disguised 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣😂🤣😂 I'm done

  • @kevonwelton8040
    @kevonwelton8040 2 года назад

    They double teaming Rico 😂😂😂😂

  • @mrworkowt5419
    @mrworkowt5419 2 года назад +1

    Finally a man is speaking facts!

  • @shawnkimani3306
    @shawnkimani3306 2 года назад +1

    The fact that women think men gotta work hard to get to the box is funny to me... I'm not getting paid for that shit so why should I work extra hard for it?? 😤😤😤

  • @Horac3
    @Horac3 2 года назад +1

    I swear the different women that’s been on this show are delusional. No accountability or logic whatsoever smh. Especially the Dani girl🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @P4rn_2200
    @P4rn_2200 2 года назад +6

    …Yeeaaa Danny gone be single for a while…

  • @branthebuilderr
    @branthebuilderr 2 года назад

    Rico is right on the men's perspective, men care about actions more then intention. The other 2 hosts are speaking on intention. Good convo.

  • @derrickbenanthony8755
    @derrickbenanthony8755 2 года назад +1

    Yo fam the volumes were off in this one and I think that the 🎥 man walk away.
    Still supporting though.

  • @rcook2486
    @rcook2486 2 года назад +10

    This is when you know they both have a lot of bodies…

  • @gregstore_x5186
    @gregstore_x5186 2 года назад +4

    Dani Just doesnt get it - No man will run to wife you up if he knows that your body count is over 50. Unfortunately that just the reality we live in and one of the few double standards that benefit men. Female promiscuity is very much reprimanded all over the world and a key component to attract a top tier guy aka high value man is to keep you purity by keeping your body count as low as possible.

    • @officiallydreama4412
      @officiallydreama4412 2 года назад +4

      I’ve heard 1-5 is the magic range for the wifey position

    • @sportstalkonly1442
      @sportstalkonly1442 Год назад

      ​@Officially Dreama you heard correctly. Anything past that isn't really wife material and even when it gets to the point of 4 or 5 it starts to become redundant

  • @Iamkingsleyjunior
    @Iamkingsleyjunior 2 года назад

    She said she's fucking with discipline 😂😂😂never heard that before. interesting concept

  • @impervious99
    @impervious99 2 года назад +9

    Nah I'm good

  • @JdotPee
    @JdotPee 2 года назад +1

    If I rob a store and then never get caught am I still a criminal?

  • @joelpierre334
    @joelpierre334 2 года назад

    A woman cares about a mans future and a man cares about a womans past. Period

  • @patharris5603
    @patharris5603 2 года назад +2

    The same goes for a man everyone has a past learn to love yourself and have self esteem and self discipline and stop adding to the problem

  • @believebecomedc3825
    @believebecomedc3825 2 года назад

    Speaking to these women would be like speaking to that tree outside in my yard. They have absolutely zero reasoning capacity and zero willingness to listen.